10 Most Seductive Traits To Make a Good First Impression

So… you want to make a good first impression, huh? Perhaps you’re looking for a seductive and cool approach, or maybe you just want your crush to like you. In no time you’ll learn the psychological tricks and seductive traits that will make your first impression not only a good one... but a great one.
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Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Mithrilda
Animator: Yussie Feng
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KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Gunaydin, G., Selcuk, E., & Zayas, V. (2017). Impressions Based on a Portrait Predict, 1-Month Later, Impressions Following a Live Interaction. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 8(1), 36-44. doi.org/10.1177/1948550616662123
Kayser, Daniela Niesta, et al. “Red and Romantic Behavior in Men Viewing Women.” Wiley Online Library, John Wiley & Sons, Ltd, 29 July 2010, onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/ejsp.757.
Patrick, Wendy. “The Most Attractive Trait Displayed During First Impression.” Psychology Today, 2017, www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201711/the-most-attractive-trait-displayed-during-first-impression. Morgan Greenwald June 1, 2018. “25 Surefire Ways to Make a Good First Impression Every Time.” Best Life, 8 Oct. 2019, bestlifeonline.com/good-first-impression/
Tamir, Diana. Mitchell, Jason. (2012). “Disclosing Information About the Self is Intrinsically Rewarding.” PNAS. www.pnas.org/content/109/21/8038

[@CrazyFreak310]

„Start with a confident presence and a good posture“ My posture: 🦐

[@ray.deathray]

me trying to have good posture 🐍

[@Psych2go]

Ouch!

[@frog6054]

My posture be like: 〰🔃↘↔

[@greatwavefan397]

We love shrimp, though.

[@kristykreme2623]

I'm doomed, posture.

[@ComicalRealm]

"The art of seduction is knowing what the other person really wants, and slowly giving it to them in a way that takes their breath away" - Cinderella's step mother

[@craigisstilldead]

Visual novel caracters who i simp for: *EXACTLY.*

[@golu5794]

LISTENERS V

[@nisrinechafik1255]

If only could it happen more often for the good people who are able to give that romance and love , this quote is true and you are right

[@wdpuppet5845]

Video says it has 149 views yet this comment has 334 likes🧐🧐🧐🧐

[@randomguy514]

I see you everywhere. Especially in South Park videos.

[@datboi6954]

1. emotional responsiveness 0:57 2. become more novel and mysterious 1:56 3. wear red 2:35 4. imagine them already liking you 3:35 5. actively listen and make good eye contact 4:07 6. use a floral fragance 4:51 7. use their name often 5:27 8. listen and repeat their phrases 6:10 9. start with a confident presence and good posture 6:34 10. focus on a common passion 7:26 I hope I could help!

[@sashasville]

Wasnt this video just posted 15 seconds ago ?

[@pvymii]

What the- this video is released 20 seconds ago-

[@rollwashere]

Wait wth

[@gracieinterest]

I-

[@HealthyFaisal]

💀💀💀 okay John Titor

[@Elminster-ln4yw]

When someone wears red but you’re colorblind: Jedi mind tricks don’t work on me!

[@greatwavefan397]

Red itself doesn't look too good on my skin. Maybe as an accent color or a secondary color?

[@squidaker]

@@greatwavefan397 Maybe if you try different shades of red it would look good🤔 If bright red doesn't look good you could try a more muted tone like maroon.

[@omnid.slayer7244]

Trying to make a good impression on someone is like trying to get a perfect score in maths.. It's extremely stressful

[@KayeTee3297]

Felt this on a spiritual level

[@nndrww]

Facts

[@BryghtTheLyght]

Don't impress, just be you

[@the42oflife]

Not for me, I'm great at math. The other could use some work

[@ruthzel7]

Exactly! You've got to love me for what I am For simply being me Don't love me for what you intend Or hope that I will be - Love me for what I am by Carpenters

[@persialionheart]

Even though first impressions do count, know that you do not need to change yourself for someone. They should like you for you, not what they want you to be.

[@persialionheart]

@Dominic Timmons That's just cuz your special person has not been fated to be with you yet. As long as you continue to be your beautiful self, your soulmate will find their way to you. In the meantime, live your life to the fullest as a single person! Life has a way of surprising us with blessings when we least expect it.

[@Ellie-rp8bh]

@@persialionheart waiting!

[@persialionheart]

@@Ellie-rp8bh what do you mean?

[@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475]

@@persialionheart My soul mate would have to be someone that is as bitter as I am. I don't know if any women could be like this?

[@persialionheart]

@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 Your soulmate doesn't need to be like you. Rather someone who accepts you for you, rights your wrongs and comforts you more than anyone in the world. They should be someone who makes you the best version of yourself and most importantly, makes you happy just by them being in your presence. Also I don't know about you but I would rather have a partner who doesn't have all of the same interests as I do so we can explore each others world and not get bored of each other. You might not find someone as bitter as you say you are but I hope you find someone who at least understands it and loves you no matter what.

[@taabishkhanself-improvemen7331]

3 Quotes to Live By: 1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self." 2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending” 3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart." Love from a small channel💙

[@mofomartianp]

Quotes to live by: 1) Wannabe youtuber gurus preach feel good esoteric drivel and are completely full of shit. 2) If people could effectively change their lives for the better, they would. But most do not, because most cannot. 3) Life has no meaning. Life is not sacred, and so it doesn't matter.

[@Jzombi301]

@@mofomartianp or maybe most people dont know how to change their lives for the better or it is extremely hard. also life is what you make it. if you dont think it has any meaning then it wont. i agree in scientific terms that life has no meaning because we’re all gonna die and the sun will consume the earth and the universe will become completely devoid of everything in time. the only biological purpose we have is to reproduce to pass on our genetics to keep our species alive. but for what? it wont matter in the end. but you cant let those thoughts control you or you will be miserable your entire meaningless life. you have to do what makes you happy with the people you love and who love you. thats the meaning of life: what makes you happy? do it

[@minecraftstation6422]

Well this channel won my heart.... It really needs even more recognition

[@STATFANs]

it has 7 million subscribers

[@markobosnjakovic4952]

@@STATFANs "even more"

[@crystalreed7624]

Ikr .. tbh this deserve more recognition like 20million+ .

[@Psych2go]

Thank you :)

[@gamingpro17]

It sure does

[@CloudingYourSkies]

While it's undeniable first impressions are important, I've found though that they're not quite as important as they're made out to be, like I've had some not so extraordinary first impressions with people I'm very fond of and close to and I don't see them the way I did before simply because I got to know them and understand first impressions are hard and not your true self. Also it may be helpful to actively try to do these things, but I've noticed I do a lot of these things already subconsciously around the person I like and I feel like the presence of real feelings for a person make these traits come out more naturally.

[@Crystals10000]

there is no one size fits all outcome its just a general guideline i guess

[@blurrfulfurfur8395]

I think I might have fallen in love with some one and I can't even remember how I met then I'm pretty sure I just didn't care when I met them or dismissed them... weird right?

[@CloudingYourSkies]

@@blurrfulfurfur8395 I feel that, but nah idt it's weird, that's how it is with me too like with this person when I first met them like they were just another person like everyone else that I just didn't talk to or think about, like the first time we spoke we said probably like 3 words or whatever and that was it and I was probably really awkward lol but now months later we talk like we've known each other for years so it really didn't matter much. Also with the dismissing them thing, I was just thinking how cool it'd be to know where, when, or if we've ever seen people who mean something to us now in public but just didn't notice

[@blurrfulfurfur8395]

@@CloudingYourSkies maybe we just all have something that gets our attention and we need to experience it to feel that attention and it may just be time with that person I don't know

[@soltrice]

theyre important in the beggining, but after getting to know eachother it barely matters

[@hopejoypeace]

Going on a first "date" next week with my crush. Not sure if it's actually a date or not but I'm defiantly going to wear some red 😏 Update: IT WAS A DATE!!! I REPEAT IT WAS A DATE AHHHHHH So pretty much we hung out for about 6 hours and at about the 4th hour I asked if he considered this a date. He didn't flat out answer the question and then turned it on me, and I said that I wouldn't mind if it was, then he said he wouldn't mind either 😳😊 Then we both admitted to liking each other 😏😊 So hopefully things keep going like this! 🤞

[@thesaddestdude3575]

Well, how did it go?

[@hopejoypeace]

@@thesaddestdude3575 it's tomorrow 😳 I'll edit the original comment on how it goes 😊👍

[@arianam9977]

Good luck! :)

[@kimberlenstapp2188]

So happy for you!

[@abicados2386]

this brings a smile to my face! You go girl!!!!!!!

[@Dreamys_Mess]

Me who likes an online friend: *cries*

[@peacheroseee]

me whose online friends are all dating now: 👁️👄👁️

[@themightypizzadevourer6018]

Online relationships never last, for a good relationship you need to see each other, trust me you'll be better off with someone you can actually meet irl

[@proudblink27]

Sad but true😂

[@bigmaggames5135]

@@themightypizzadevourer6018, i had an online best friend for 3 years, but we are not friends anymore So i agree

[@Dreamys_Mess]

@@themightypizzadevourer6018 no teen age relationship last

[@ralsei9081]

Psyc2Go is like a mailman they always deliver.

[@uhhhh201]

How does this still only have 88 views and 2k likes i though that fixes after like 2 minutes

[@petkofuchalski9809]

@@uhhhh201 refresh the page.

[@thesaddestdude3575]

And they also break your shit and make you cry.

[@DareToBeDeviant]

So.... me, a guy, who isn't interested in people should wear a red dress and squirt on rose scented perfume before I head out for my weekly grocery shopping. Despite stares and parents shielding their kids from me, I should proudly keep a good posture with great confidence. Isn't that dandy? We learn something new every day. :)

[@thatrandomgirl4574]

I mean you'd look and smell great

[@coqclayosaellap1agafrotc913]

Yes, but probably wear something minty

[@coqclayosaellap1agafrotc913]

And confidence without a hint of arrogance will make you approachable Parents will no longer be weird to you( why would they, though?)

[@BimmerWon]

Dress is just slang for dress shirt. As for the floral fragrance though I tried it and I got completely roasted then ghosted.

[@medeskurdishempire825]

why are you like this 😂😭😭😭

[@nndrww]

Red is my favorite color so I always wear something red. I see this as an absolute win!

[@greatwavefan397]

Red is cool, but I prefer dark red as an accent color or paired with other colors because too much dark red gives my skin such an ugly flush. My skin type looks best in yellow, black, white, hunter green, some greys, and some blues.

[@somelamenamehowaboutmr.juk6231]

I'm gonna wear my Metallica Kill em all shirt then.

[@muslimwarrior9891]

@@somelamenamehowaboutmr.juk6231lol

[@muslimwarrior9891]

I have a perfect fit red jacket with inner off white fur lol

[@taabishkhanself-improvemen7331]

“Attachment leads to jealousy. The shadow of greed that is. Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose.” Love from a small KZbinr💙

[@monimendoza5583]

Good point. In the last 4 years I've been manipulated my feelings never considered over my mom's pet dog who I became attached to bc she was there when I was battling health issues. The pain made me Let Go. I accept that and feel Positive.

[@Cherrycreamsoda1]

You are very wise & deserve more recognition :)

[@originunknown5812]

Snap my friend I'm the same I don't get attached ❤

[@el_jubo6443]

@@Cherrycreamsoda1 lmao thats a quote from star wars, but sure very wise.

[@alexandra040726]

“Color influences men’s behavior on women” Me as a black woman: You don’t have to tell me that

[@suzan7867]

YOU DID NOT-💀💀💀

[@mtw_insignio8098]

Hush your beautiful dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Wear it proud.

[@sarames9256]

It’s the black men that disrespect u huh?

[@troncat.t]

@@sarames9256 no cause wtf-

[@Bloodshotistic]

Follow Wiz Khalifa's advice: Go for Asians like me since Black and Yellow mix. 😊

[@Watchlistedwords1A]

I am more attracted to a person that has good vibes, good personality and actually makes eye contact with you and is aware of their surroundings. Plus cares about others.

[@Cherry_picked00]

Same :) At the same time it's hard to find such people these days 👁️👄👁️

[@highliving-animatedvideos5831]

*10 most seductive traits to make a good first impression* 0:57 - Emotional responsiveness 1:56 - Become more novel & mysterious 2:35 - Wear red 3:34 - Imagine them already liking you 4:06 - Actively listen and make good eye contact 4:50 - Use a floral fragrance 5:27 - Use their name often 6:10 - Listen and repeat their phrases 6:33 - Start with a confident presence and good posture 7:26 - Focus on a common passion .. and, always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else ❤️🚀🌙

[@blackwolfs.288]

Thank you ,kind stranger!✨❤️

[@proudblink27]

Thank you for your time friend!🥰

[@hazrel]

You're the best high living. Thanks !

[@chellenemi]

Ty

[@maxpahlke2823]

Thx

[@amandag6896]

I’m just afraid that I’ll attract the wrong people.

[@snazzycat207]

Become the person you want to attract

[@greatwavefan397]

I'm afraid that I'll attract any female; I'm not ready for that.

[@drinasun6984]

Same.

[@thesaddestdude3575]

With an avatar like that your will attract italians

[@micaelaclifford2729]

I actually attracted someone without noticing in a party. I said his name a lot (he said my name a lot too), I was wearing a red bluse (not for him tho), I think I was kinda mysterious cause he doesn't know where I've been these years. And I gave a confident first impression cause I touch his shoulder before he recognize me and then he hugged me. Oh no (or yes, well see if he is a cool guy)

[@sluttymctits4496]

While this is cute, the only thing anyone needs to know is: just be yourself. If you're confident in what you're doing and saying, it will register to the other person and, if you mesh well together, will lead to a more stable relationship. Don't pretend to be "mysterious" or wear red if you hate it -- it will only come of as disingenuous and will drive people away.

[@angelapierce619]

Wise and kind words 👻

[@Cherrycreamsoda1]

"Imagine them already liking you" Everyone: This'll be easier than I thought

[@bigmaggames5135]

Me who already did all of this unintentionally, but no one still likes me when i meet them

[@icevirtue]

Honestly. This is the same that happens to me. Barely any girl interested in having normal conversation/making friends these days with the opposite sex.

[@ivythealiencat]

@@icevirtue tomboys exist you know. Unless your only attracted to basic white blonde chicks

[@Amirisphere]

I just turned 18 last month and I want to get more into this aspect of my life. I want to attract the most magnificent woman into my life, so I'll be watching this everyday and practicing, preparing myself.

[@littlediseaserat4388]

Aw that’s cute, I hope you find an amazing lady!

[@justsomeboiwhowatchyoutube7195]

Lol same

[@Psych2go]

Good luck! And don't forget to work on yourself as well to be the type of person you want to attract :)

[@GabrielXDrums]

Good luck with that lmfao

[@greatwavefan397]

Good for you, bro. I personally won't focus on romance much (I'm 20 btw) because I have so much of myself to develop: inside, outside, and environmentally.

[@hellsice2421]

I met someone a few months back in a game. She's an amazing person and since the moment we decided to meet up, i've been watching more and more of your videos to "prepare" for our first irl interaction. Really excited but also extremely scared

[@vectorkaiser]

A small percentage of people who watch these videos are subscribed?? You guys have over 7 million subscribers and counting, also y'all are getting a TON of likes on your videos. The algorithm is blessing y'all like no tomorrow. Just keep making good content and more people will come. Also subscribers don't really matter anymore, views, likes and shares do.

[@tasfiatasnim5086]

Who else just listening to these videos but never wanna apply or neither applied the old tricks but still love to watch and create imagination of applying these 😁

[@petkofuchalski9809]

Same.

[@gabrujatt3940]

Well, you can do all of this or just be yourself. It really don't matter. Some people like you just the way you are and some don't.

[@el-xe5mf]

as someone who starts school in 3 weeks, THANK U I APPRECIATE THIS SO MUCH

[@icevirtue]

Some girls will just play the passive, no-talk-whatsoever game at school. But I really hope all goes well for ya. 👍

[@el-xe5mf]

i am a girl haha but thanks!!

[@icevirtue]

I will never comment on this channel ever again. My faithful apologies.

[@el-xe5mf]

noo ur good!! to be fair my user is a more masculine name with a guy as my pfp

[@crystalreed7624]

@@icevirtue lol 😆 ...

[@antoniom.8259]

Thanks!

[@PortiewithDawn]

11. Don't forget to be yourself 🙂 don't ever change for anyone. There is always someone out there who won't find your flaws as flaws, but willing to accept them. That's when you know you've found the one. If you're dating someone and they ask you to change, that's a red flag. For example, can you put on makeup? Cut your hair short? Dress better?

[@hydramanium]

Me, whos already in a long term succesful relationship: Interesting... this is something I need to know!

[@killjoys4898]

"3: Wear Red" Me: *looks at the closet full of black and white* so this was the reason, huh?

[@Eric_Nguyen.]

I like this, a proactive VO, a different VO, and a longer video. I love to see changes in different videos. In my mind, there's no such thing as *THE BEST* as I see everybody having an equal personality trait and give off a positive vibe in Psych2go. Everybody's amazing depending how they express their personality to others. See ya guys on the flip side, time for me to run.

[@taabishkhanself-improvemen7331]

If you don't sacrifice for what you want, what you want will become the ultimate sacrifice. Love from a small KZbinr💙

[@angel31356]

Ok but these are actually great tips to socialize and make friends better for people who know absolutely nothing about how to mingle (like me) and can be applied to non romantic interests

[@birdcat8382]

I think the reason why men like the color of red in women is because of their past as hunters. Simply put, seeing red in the wild means blood. In other words, food. So they’d be attracted to it more.

[@greatwavefan397]

Fascinating.

[@giovanaviana3815]

I love to listen to these videos, your voice is so peaceful! Congrats for the amazing channel!

[@honeybunny4042]

the bet way to achieve a gd first impression is to be relaxed about it and just enjoy yourself, when ur trying hard pr hardly trying it can come across as too much or just too little. being urself isnt an exact art, but its definitely the best approach bc they will be intrigued by this lovely person being presented and wanna know more about them. do whatever comes to mind and just roll wit the punches 🌠🌌🤞🤟

[@Gosick02]

Be urself, the right person will love u inside out

[@iitzAtlas]

Yesterday I went on a first date with a girl... we kissed and she told me that I am her ideal prototype. I like her so much, she's so... ineffable

[@0ashurii]

aw, good for you

[@iitzAtlas]

@@0ashurii I hope I don't screw it up...

[@iitzAtlas]

@Dominic Timmons maybe because i'm Italian, idk. I've just translated what she said to me, sorry. I'm her ideal boyfriend

[@thewizard5716]

Rulcio™ keep your eyes open as well

[@iitzAtlas]

@@thewizard5716 why?

[@ftsmerdsoy2004]

Your videos have helped me so much, thank you! Also I LOOOVE the animation and style of the videos. Over all, just amazing content!😊😊😊😍😍😍😍

[@Psych2go]

Glad you like them! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)

[@thesaddestdude3575]

@@Psych2go Hey, i want to point out that youe channel is being attacked by bots that are posting malicious links and such, they steal other comments and insert thier links into them and then repost them. They also often try to take advantage of vulnerable people in the comments. Also, are you guys still working on the videos about near suicide stories? Becaus i have two i want to send in.

[@sharonpriyanka8730]

I see finding this channel as an absolute Jackpot! ✨🏅 Great Content and I love the fact that you actually backing up the claims with evidence!!! 🙌

[@womenwhodate7643]

This channel just keeps bringing golden pieces 😍🙏 Thanks again, a good video for this lazy sunday

[@DrJustininJapan]

Interesting how even using a FILTER on a DATING APP photo can leave a lasting impression on how your date will perceive you even after the two of you have met.. I wonder how far a filter can actually take this. There has to be some limitations to this idea 😂😂😂

[@ShootyMacShootFace]

Wowow smol drawn things with cute faces

[@toasttwice8210]

Tbh I started working on getting better at talking to ppl around 2 years ago, I was very shy and could barely talk to ppl and now I’m glad to say I’m very confident and better at flirting/ keeping up conversations

[@Ryouu2]

I swear these videos show up exactly when I need them

[@thecatsbackyard4833]

4:50 "We will pay you not to talk about yourself". Most of humanity: "I refuse".

[@NoInsurance]

Tip 1 tried: Met a girl that was just abandoned by her ex, she was crying, shaking, very sad. Had a good talk, cheered her up. She appreciated so much that this act actually sent me STRAIGHT to the friendzone 🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️ sorry 😅

[@oumnia_]

This channel became my favourite ❤️❤️❤️Good job guys

[@veteran673]

This video shows how person thats interested in you reacts, so ur kinda right cos if we show traits that suggest we are interested in someone it might be easier start but also a complete stop

[@Jotinko]

On a platonic level I make friends very easily. I; listen, say their name every time we meet and talk passionately about many things we happen to like (even the most mundane) however in a romantic way it's HARD if you happen to stutter alot due to nerves and suffer from Aspergers. Women love confident guys and while we do feel confident, the ailments listed above are deal breakers. I only attract the superficial Women who only want my $ thus further contributing to my low self worth and would think suicidal thoughts but would never act on them. Women don't want an awkward man....they want confident and are well put together mentally.....real talk.

[@Jotinko]

@Dominic Timmons Sorry to hear about that bro. Confidence is the number one trait women look for in a man.... or so I thought. Attracting a women is hard as F because if you confess your feelings to her to early that's coming on too strong but if you wait too long she'll get bored that you didn't confess your feelings to her sooner and her feelings that she did have for you are gone.

[@Jotinko]

@michelle moulton Thanks for the love. I am a good person (result of how I was raised) but my disability makes me feel not good enough sometimes. Also, those with Aspergers are horrible at reading non-verbal cues. My parents told me of a couple instances at my work when I was a late teenager/early adult that some female co-workers were into me/checking me out while I was shopping with them on my day off. My Parents found it amusing due to my naivety, hahahaha. I would love it if women would verbalize their feelings more like guys do.

[@Jotinko]

@Dominic Timmons I would have established some physical contact like touching her Arms or Knee after she tells you a funny joke or something that she said that made you laugh. If she backs away or "laughs" nervously, that's a sign she's not into you in that way. Acting in a "cutesy" manner helps as well. I'm quite busy as well. I rarely get together with friends anymore due to working the graveyard shift (way more $ and hours). I would like to partake in her hobbies just to try new things. Sometimes opposites attract.

[@randomguy514]

It’s very hard to attract women.

[@Jotinko]

@@randomguy514 True. South Park forever *Cough* Profile Pic.

[@denisa569]

" 3. Wear red " Me who doesn't have a single red thing in my closet : 👁💧👄👁💧

[@greatwavefan397]

Me, who has red but gets an ugly flush from wearing solid dark red: *visible confusion*

[@duckbacon3117]

I have red clothes, I just really don't like the colour red.

[@user-td1kr2zn8x]

You do be crying from your ears

[@brandyirisable]

This was very informative and interesting!! But ROTFL the greasy pillow!!! And omg!! No wonder i want my significant other or crushes to say my name and get addicted to wanting them to say it

[@pauligrossinoz]

*Many people are allergic or react badly to fragrances,* so it's better to simply be clean (ie: just take a shower) for your first impression, compared to the risk of making them a little bit sick with _your_ choice of fragrance. It's better to always ask them _if_ they like scents, and if so, then which scents they like, to show that you care about them. Now you've created a connection over something that you _know_ that they care about! 💕

[@kiatt4078]

The first one is so true. Someone I know on internet despite not seeing my face comforted me when we've talked deep (which I'm into like, I'd do that till dawn) enough to know some grudge we held from things irl. That turns me on immediately oml im sorry tho ur a woman I just like u.

[@garcellorat]

me who doesn’t have any red clothes but all the rest of the colors

[@vs577]

So true

[@greatwavefan397]

Bold, straight red looks good on my skin, but not dark red, which only looks best as an accent color.

[@Toolroom747]

As a man myself, I highly agree on the dressing in red part.This channel is absolutely amazing❤.

[@lhaexuvae]

You have a beautiful calming voice that I could listen whole day💖

[@sarcasticsigh220]

Ok ok but what if social anxiety literally contradicts everything there, like I can’t really solve social anxiety I don’t have the time

[@mads1259]

I did find this video to be helpful! I was wondering if the Psych2Go team could do a few videos about ASD and neurodiversity

[@ceoofkrankenwagen]

I have the impression they won’t.

[@mads1259]

@@ceoofkrankenwagen why not?

[@just4simplegg428]

thank you, very informative, definitely like!

[@Quionol]

I'll need this for tomorrow. Thanks!

[@rhera]

Ahh art is so cute

[@rhera]

I love the vibes i into this video s aesthetic

[@diyadutta9334]

Loved it!!

[@sunseraph1919]

I was NOT ready for the switch off between the calm, soothing voice and the bubbly cruise activity director voice. 😖

[@mrwardog8088]

Can u guys make a video about changing your friends mind about "just being friends" as I'd love to see a video about that sometime

[@shinstantramen5169]

Maybe it just ain't the cards. You can find someone eventually so don't get too down about it!

[@ViceN53X]

Me wanting someone to test these traits on me: SEDUCE ME!!!

[@vesperrose666]

Hey, what’s your name?

[@duckbacon3117]

Just wear black, that shit goes well with anything.

[@Simon0501]

It's good to hear your voice again, Mithrilda

[@Mithrilda]

Thank you! Glad you enjoyed :)

[@pikachu7353]

I love all of your going on feel videos

[@laylonieleisure6759]

I'm using all of these tomorrow on my crush at school lol

[@realcoolsam]

the vo kinda sounds like yang rwbyyy

[@icecreamjones1713]

All good tips; simple, and realistic to use in any situation. I just get so nervous and in my head sometimes, but hey what's meant to be will be, speaking of which no prospects in sight, but I walk by faith 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@lisatso81]

Great video

[@kakarikokage2514]

Well, guess I'll be single forever.

[@greatwavefan397]

The best girls start out as good friends, but I wouldn't make romance the focus for friendship.

[@MrBean600]

To the person reading this: Even though I don't know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer 💗

[@ChenayaR]

No bc i just love this channel it's fantastic

[@thisguyhd6591]

Literally got 7/10 right now ^^ 1. I am not mysterious as I am very extroverted and can make friends in a matter of days without knowing the first thing about people. 2. I don't wear red other than my red lumberjack shirt sometimes. 3. I don't imagine people liking me at first that comes a couple of hours later if they haven't left ;) . I just never go outside where I live. all my friends live far away from where I am... sadly. I also just need to fix most of my problems right now and get that sorted out before I got time to actually go outside and meet people head on 😊

[@sasorihasthesauce3122]

I need help. So I told some one I didn't feel the same way they felt about me about a year ago. We started talking as friends a few months later again, and I was always pretty sure she still had feelings for me. I'm starting to catch feelings, and I want to tell them. Just feel like I'm playing with their feelings and don't really want to hurt them or mess up what we have cuz of my feelings. I'm welcome to any advice

[@cassidywilliams8498]

How would you feel about asking them if they still feel the same way as they did last year? Then if it's a no, you don't have to vocalize you like them. If it's a yes, then you can say you have feelings too!

[@sasorihasthesauce3122]

@@cassidywilliams8498 thanks for the advice. I'm going to try to get to know her even more and start talking to her to see where we and my feelings stand and I'll probably start popping those questions

[@anagha29]

1 Emotional responsiveness 2 Become more novel and mysterious 3 wear red 4 imagine them already liking you 5 actively listen and make eye contact 6 use floral fragrance 7 use their name often 8 listen and repeat their phrases 9 start with confident presence and good posture 10 focus on common passion

[@leahnoname2831]

@@proudblink27 it’s not really hurting anyone now is it? 💀

[@MagicCookie2747]

guys she asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend!

[@bells9410]

I love the videos on this channel im addicted

[@arielmaule]

Great video.

[@nerfcontent9429]

1. (in the nerf community) say that you like the stryfe

[@thesaddestdude3575]

Uh what

[@nerfcontent9429]

@@thesaddestdude3575 how to flirt if you like nerf is my comment

[@NinjaMaxHaven13]

Would these also work for members of the lgbtq

[@EWBRboy2006]

I don't know, but it might.

[@rohanyadav1089]

*Watching this before a 📅 date 😉

[@ghazikhangk4343]

I always use no.7 and it actually true!! I've been using it before and people do give attention when you calling them

[@Oceanady]

When females wear some jewelleries ,pendent or a ring it helps them enhance their feminine energy and feel good about themselves! Also a female should learn to receive gracefully whether he is opening the doors or sliding chairs or paying for a coffee learn to receive gracefully! Movements is what make women different from men so swing your arms and hips while walking in a decent way this will also help in enhancing your confidence about your body! Smile😊

[@von6413]

I disagree. I personally find too much jewelry unattractive. Now I do find things like hair accessories attractive though.

[@Oceanady]

@@von6413 too much of anything is unattractive,😊

[@von6413]

@@Oceanady when I say “too much” I meant anything more than earrings. but that’s just me

[@Ducky-rd7fg]

What about men? Does wearing red work for us?

[@greatwavefan397]

I don't like girls who obsess over pastels unless they're pastel goths.

[@greatwavefan397]

I don't like girls who obsess over pastels unless they're pastel goths.

[@Ducky-rd7fg]

@@greatwavefan397 pastel goths? Dude, I was asking if wearing red works for us men too. I'm male!

[@miramilk6871]

@@greatwavefan397 Also red isn't a pastel color??

[@miramilk6871]

Depends on the person, I think. Some people just don't look good in red in general, and there's also the fact that not everyone likes the color... I've personally found that darker reds look quite nice on men, so if you want to test out this trick that's what I'd suggest.

[@thoughtstalked2307]

useful tips !

[@BlazeTiggeres]

Great video learned a lot! Was wondering if you guys could do a video(s) about hoarding disorder?

[@brian554xx]

I admit I like to hear my name once or twice in a conversation. More than that, though, and I feel like you are trying to manipulate me. It can be distracting enough that I lose track of whatever you're saying. Saying my name brings me out of whatever thought I'm having. If you want me to think about what you're saying, stop convincing me you know my name. If I am deep in thought and you just quick wanna ask me a question, do it without my name. I can answer "sure pizza sounds good" and be back to my thought much sooner if you don't throw my name at me. This can be infuriating if it was a delicate thought and I can't get it back.

[@CloudingYourSkies]

Yeah it's definitely about context and amount, it's like in an episode of That 70s Show where someone read the names thing somewhere and then proceeded to constantly say someone's name in sentences which ended up being really weird and kinda did the opposite of what they wanted

[@mentallyunstable5359]

What happened to the calm voice 💀

[@kekeletso3958]

😂😂

[@zureennatasha1608]

I love your soothing voice! ❤️

[@MS-de7bb]

Great vid

[@ryu7408]

Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME "Ryu" means that I am HIT ME, Hit Me All The Way, In Any Way, Anyway. HIT ME Always Works., I Do Not Hit. It Hits All By Itself., Everyone And Everything Has This HIT ME Side In It. The Red Bands., HIT ME., The Hits Are A Fact Of Life And The Key To Enlightenment., I Die For It. A Sacrifice For Love., The Way Out Of The Abyss. So we are what hits us and what we suffer from. "The Darkening" symbolizes the opposite of "The Enlightenment". Yet these two opposites are one. Because we are all at the same time darkened and enlightened. But "The Darkening"'s dominant form is the nature of suffering while "The Enlightenment"'s dominant form is the nature of blissfulness. And the all-encompassing being "A" holds the unity of all there is, "The Darkening" and "The Enlightenment". While... "HIT ME, Hit Me All The Way, In Any Way, Anyway. HIT ME Always Works., I Do Not Hit. It Hits All By Itself., Everyone And Everything Has This HIT ME Side In It. The Red Bands., HIT ME., The Hits Are A Fact Of Life And The Key To Enlightenment., I Die For It. A Sacrifice For Love., The Way Out Of The Abyss." can be seen as the relationship with suffering and the hits. The Words I am using as mantra's and affirmations and also the names for the soundtracks I connected these words and their real experiences with: Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME Ryu - The Darkening - Hit Me All The Way, In Any Way, Anyway. Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME Always Works. Ryu - The Darkening - I Do Not Hit. It Hits All By Itself. Ryu - The Darkening - Everyone And Everything Has This HIT ME Side In It. Ryu - The Darkening - The Red Bands (The red bands are bands I am holding on, to transfer the verbal or physical hits from someone or something into my hands. For when I cannot use the words in a direct "HIT ME" experience. Those are bands I am wearing around my forehead and my wrists. They help me deal and heal with the hits.) Ryu - The Darkening - HIT ME Ryu - The Darkening - The Hits Are A Fact Of Life And The Key To Enlightenment. Ryu - The Darkening - I Die For It - A Sacrifice For Love (Things I did wrong and the practice of redeeming myself) Ryu - The Darkening - The Way Out Of The Abyss HIT ME This quote from the joker actor Heath Ledger from "The Dark Knight" made an enormous impact on me and inspired me to create a philosophy. It helped me making peace with all of that. Through practices of any kind. I have learned to love my trauma, my illness, my feelings, my thoughts, my conflicts, my life and ultimately my suffering. The hits are a fact of life and the key to enlightenment. A hit affects you, internally or superficially. Everyone and everything has this "HIT ME" side in it. And if you set your life expectation to "HIT ME", it always works and you will never be disappointed that way. Because something always hits you. Even if you don't want to be hit by something, it still hits you. Hence, it still works as a life expectation. It even works when positive things hit you. Like soft raindrops or a soap bubble. Same as joy or bliss. Hit me all the way, in any way, anyway. If you devote yourself to such an idea, you decipher the path to enlightenment. This is a good reason to follow the path of loving our suffering as it brings great benefit to one. From ourselves, when we don't want to be hit and don't want to take in the hits, to the desire to be hit and take in the hits. It always works, regardless of the form. As Bruce Lee said: "Be unconsciously conscious or consciously unconscious". Once one has developed a certain level of this practice, one masters the suffering and becomes truly enlightened. I am quoting Bruce Lee again: "I do not hit. It hits all by itself." The Way Out Of The Abyss Only when we can accept what we want to let go, can we let go of what we want to accept. A peaceful mind is the cure for restlessness. And love is the cure for a broken spirit. Pain is strength in disguise waiting, to be revealed. And It takes a lot of strength to cry. Because when we cry, we open up to the pain that we experience. When all the waves come crashing down on you, there is faith to get you through. Express your belief into reality and believe in it. This is how you get through the waves. We make mistakes, because we are not perfect. And for that fact I am grateful, that I make mistakes. Remember the solution to any problem is the problem itself. It came into existence and it will not leave you. A sacrifice for love, is a sacrifice worth dying for. We don't have to undo what we do wrong in this life. We die for it and thus, sacrifice ourselves for love. So live for the truth and die for the lie. Die for your negative qualities and live for your positive qualities. That is the sacrifice and the salvation of the human spirit. The guilt we feel is that, which enslaves us. Only when we also remember our innocence, are we free at the same time. There is nothing in this universe, that can harm a mad person. Except making the mad person even more insane, through harm. When you are ready to take in all the hits, in order to gain strength from it and at the same time you are ready to pass on all the love out of compassion to others; one will be as strong as a demon and as compassionate as an angel. A demonic angel. A victory is achieved, by resolving the battles within. If you give up fighting yourself and instead start absorbing yourself, you will be invincible. When you change the powers that hold you back, into the powers that hold your back, you will be unstoppable. You are an example of what a human being is capable of. Take in the hits and use them, as fuel for Ascension. The greatest bliss is found when you make peace with your suffering. Because suffering is the root of blissfulness. If you love your suffering, blissfulness arises. And blissfulness is the key, to heaven on earth. If you can defeat yourself, by loving yourself, your fears, your pain and ultimately your suffering; then it will transform you and you will be reborn. In order to overcome suffering, one has to become suffering oneself. Because when you are one with all, you are bound by nothing and therefore free from everything. And through becoming one with suffering you master it. The journey to enlightenment is a process, that involves a lot of suffering. But in the end every moment of suffering will be worth it. Because choosing to suffer consciously is the springboard, to enlightenment. That's how you remember your origin and you begin to embody it. Because where there is suffering, the love spark resides and the fire is kindled where God, or Consciousness enters and spreads out. Become Ryu, the dragon. Become suffering. Be in a relationship with HIT ME from sadness to madness and become HIT ME and the hits yourself. And Ryu, the dragon spreads its wings and rises. Thus he finds the way out of the abyss.

[@michaelhendrie5862]

I do like these nostalgic trips and old fashioned rules reminds me of better times :D

[@hendragunawantbi2906]

These video actually useful for writers like me

[@insertmeme9230]

Omg thank you so much you help me a lot in life

[@Psych2go]

Happy to help! :) Which points do you resonate with the most?