Totally agree with the spanking of the booty. It drives me crazy when my tops do it. A dominant top reigns supreme for me.
@smotritel10825 ай бұрын
Oh! I hate it as well as grabbing by the neck. Will bite a hand off, really. It is not a bad advice, but nothing fits all. Well, I'm not really a bottom, I'm a verse.
@ForgottenKnight13 жыл бұрын
From a top: 1. I want to do this so bad every time. 2. My furniture is mostly IKEA style Lego. Maybe the desk. 3. I'm super OK with this one :) 4. See 1. 5. Not so much into strangling, but I will bite, sometimes hard. but I'll make sure not to draw blood. 6. I'm not super into dirty talk, but I like physical teasing. 7. Where I live PDA is a very big no-no, especially if you are gay. Most partners will tense up if I try this. 8. I like that. 9. You can do a lateral missionary, so my hands are also free. 10. I'm OK with giving instructions and also receiving. There should be no shame if you have no experience doing something.
@mlee60502 жыл бұрын
For some reason I was reading yours as listen and 7 I am like I want treated like a prince but as they are my owner
@heyheyhey4011 ай бұрын
You’re perfect. Not all of us want to be choked. I’d say, watch or listen to him if he ask for that. Most won’t stop you though because most bottoms really want to please you. #2 isn’t that important and don’t just slap that peach but grab it; get a good hand full. 😉
@charliehiker22473 жыл бұрын
Hey Stephen, I'm a top and been very lucky to have bottoms guys teach me 7 or 8 of these things. Here is another that some guys just love, fits in with spanking / ownership. I like to start things off with showering together, wash away the day type of thing. I have found that taking hold of his banana, whispering come with me, while leading him to the shower, turns some guys on so much that I'm no longer surprised if I get banana cream before we're in the shower. Really enjoying your videos and like a good top - still learning - thanks
@Idric-ut2yp6 ай бұрын
Thank you stephen for letting me see that gay is not wrong and expressing myself more thnk tou dor all ur videos wish i can pay u back for bringing me out i love u for this
@beastscooter3 жыл бұрын
Such a scholarly presentation. Well done. You must have an advanced degree! Hubby's gonna get spanked tonight. Old dog, new trick! Thank you!
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@philmcdonald60882 жыл бұрын
older bots may have trouble pole dancing for various reasons but it's a wonderful idea. i ❤️stephan brenland x
@kayy55003 жыл бұрын
Please SEND THIS TO ALL THE TOPS
@mohamedfawzy99453 жыл бұрын
Please don't throw bottoms around if they have a fracture of some sort 😅
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
😄
@paulparker42405 ай бұрын
@@StephenBrenlandand MAKE SURE your partner is agreeable. He's not a rag doll or a toy. This is a living, loving person that trusts you and wants a relationship with you!
@derekatkins17733 жыл бұрын
My bottom has a bit of a mind of its own when it wants some loving luckily my boyfriend knows what to do when it gets a little naughty.
@kevindaley15603 жыл бұрын
Always enjoy your educational videos.
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou ❤️
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
10 NAUGHTY THINGS THAT A TOP WANTS YOU TO DO: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHjTkH-Hbr59e5Y
@kayy55003 жыл бұрын
You are literally so accurate 🤣😅
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
😁
@premrajpoot58203 жыл бұрын
Would you mind being my friend? 🥂
@Himanshu_Singh793 Жыл бұрын
@@premrajpoot5820indian?
@tonyanderson62353 жыл бұрын
Excellent suggestions Stephen
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou :)
@fawad61723 жыл бұрын
Your hair style is gorgeous.
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks!
@beastscooter3 жыл бұрын
Was thinking the same thing. Gorgeous!
@rockstar-dz4rs3 жыл бұрын
I'm shy ...its like he can read my mind...
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@sircorkysriley49043 жыл бұрын
hi
@mariom68843 жыл бұрын
Damn Stephen,you're good in this!!!!Right on the spot!!!Love you from Brazil.
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Harleylover143 жыл бұрын
I love number 10. Comunication, patience, and a willingness to learn make for the best sex.
@texaspineywoods38799 ай бұрын
You’re a sweetheart. Thank you for the advice.
@Anthony-go3er Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these tips you are such a beautiful person and such a inspiration 💕 sending you love always sweetheart 💕 ❤️ 😘 💗 💖 ♥️ xo 🌈
@cinetic813 жыл бұрын
That hair tho! 🥰
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou!
@isaiahharrell41593 жыл бұрын
I just love the way that the left side literally SWOOPS to the right side.
@xxorangegachaxx87503 жыл бұрын
Since I’m bi and vers this is nice to know 😃
@IndigoPhoenix21 Жыл бұрын
Facts. Also spitting in mouths. Please always do that. The ultra move is being both passionate and rough at the same time. Hold the bottoms close, and give intense deep kisses, but also ruin them. As a verse, I have had successes as a top, but haven't really found a top that can really send me. I think advice like in this video can really help people, lol.
@lemonjumpa473 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who doesn’t like to be chocked? It tickles me 😂🥲
@byealex76073 жыл бұрын
... and spanked. It distracts from the tenderness that overwhelms the body at the moment.
@jacopodefalco17892 жыл бұрын
Yes that's pretty normal honestly the only really good advice is talk and listen to each other, do not be afraid of saying what you like and be open to what your partner likes. And just overall communication.
@royhoughton50213 ай бұрын
I'm thinking of having fruit salad with lunch tomorrow, With peaches and bananas! lol
@stevenbellusci90843 жыл бұрын
Who else was fixated on his lower left eye mascara 🤷🏼♂️😱😱 not judging just could keep my eyes off it 🤔♥️♥️♥️
Literally TOPS NEED THISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS FUCKING GET CLASSES
@pepperco1003 жыл бұрын
This sister has asked for prayers.
@danielherther76373 жыл бұрын
how do you fined a top at age 65
@michaelstone6341Ай бұрын
You found one where do you live lol
@Jitelle3 жыл бұрын
Hi from France! When I first went to KZbin and I saw the title of the video I told myself "Oh, interesting. Let's see if what is says is true." and OMG. You are so damn right! Strangling, spanking, asking, doing things elsewhere than in bed, so fking exciting. I loved it! Don't you have a video about how to look more attractive on websites or dating apps? Would love to ❤️
@mradaChris3 жыл бұрын
Spanking no, patting ok. Spanking borders on abuse in my opinion.
@hotrod91993 жыл бұрын
Hello Steve my name is Albert Dodson writing you about how to come out to my friends and family please help me
@hotrod91993 жыл бұрын
@@thewolfman775 I'm 48 years old and live in Ocean city MD 21811
@hotrod91993 жыл бұрын
@@thewolfman775 I'm a bi sexuall
@ebonymaw_24483 жыл бұрын
@@hotrod9199 a few things: Do it when you're ready don't do it too fast or wait too long but when its time you'll know Don't feel pressured either this kinda ties intk the first point but just don't let others pressure you. Now that that's out of the way if you're comfortable sharing are you financially stable and not financially dependent on the people you want to come out to? If you are gauge how they feel about LGBT issues. If you are unsure (again dont feel pressured this is from my own experience) then wait to come out until you are financially stable in case they withdraw that support and you arent stuck in a bad situation. Another tip I use(d) was testing the waters a bit try casually mentioning something about lgbt issues or something like that and see how they feel about it abd do this every so often also dropping hints before you actually come out helps. That's all I have for now so this comment isnt too long. If you want more advice just reply and I'll try my best to respond. Good luck on your journey!
@hotrod91993 жыл бұрын
@@ebonymaw_2448 I have known about my sexuaity since I was 18 years old and now I'm 48 years old in age
@hotrod91993 жыл бұрын
@@thewolfman775 I don't know my phone number yet by heart but I can talk to you my message like did before
@kennethalley8967 Жыл бұрын
Omg so hungry 😋 Yesss 🎉🎉🎉
@rayrussell1519 Жыл бұрын
has he ever watched scum what happened to davis in the greenhouse can you walk ater
@flygirlbobo98553 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why I experience guys that hate eating the peach. It’s not ‘GAY’. It’s fucking arousing.
@paulparker42405 ай бұрын
Not if it's consensual with DEFINITE limits and stop signals.
@adrinaroselinder11162 жыл бұрын
Even if we cute we still gonna have that ugly face when we let ot all go lol 😂
@TheNoirAlien6 ай бұрын
I really like you boy x
@mlee60502 жыл бұрын
4. I be impressed if swing much as get and stay hard Source: experience with a friend who took my v card without me saying if I consent or not, he make me lay on front like planking but flat on surface we on and as he go to town without any lube even though he is girthy more than most (I still can't believe he fit it inside me) and so he was real rough on my peach but he wondered what I was doing and he learnt to let me or help next time as even though at first he was pinning me down to enjoy it without push me around the room, he let me lift up some time during to adjust my bone that it being crushed and hurt during the rest
@killer_venom0762 жыл бұрын
I am a Bottom😏
@alanaban1840 Жыл бұрын
You are a woman
@therealsamtheman3 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of these, except the top playing with my banana. IDK it's something I've never been 100% into, it's more like my peach is my sex organ and the banana is just kind of there. In the right moment it's nice but I don't ever lust for it. I love playing with bananas though. I worry this will put my guy off me, I want to be everything he needs
@Himanshu_Singh793 Жыл бұрын
OMG, 1000% SAMEE
@kennethschmick8728 Жыл бұрын
I would eat the peach 🍑
@ChrisAnderson-lu7mo3 жыл бұрын
It's time for a HAIRCUT dude ,!!!!
@ladyren15753 жыл бұрын
Why? He looks gorgeous
@alanaban1840 Жыл бұрын
@@ladyren1575he is a woman long hair please check 😢 yourself for Aids too many partners