Hey everyone I’m going to be on OHNLYFHANZ a lot more again so if you want to have fun over there, click the link in the video description for a discount on your subscription ❣️
@ReginaTrans_3 жыл бұрын
I’m OBSESSED with the guy of the thumbnail, he’s Ryan bones and he has a wife and everything, he’s the Gayest for Payest I’ve ever seen & live for him 😍😍😍😍
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
@Stephen Graham Of course! I don’t always see my messages the first time but I will get around to all of them❣️
@jamesd94493 жыл бұрын
Yass!! Slay it Queen!! 💅💃
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
@@jamesd9449 ✨💜
@jameshill34033 жыл бұрын
NO LUBE WE USE SOAP
@melfreemans3 жыл бұрын
I'm a straight married woman over 60....no idea why this video popped up in my KZbin suggestions but it was very interesting! My absolute favorite cousin is gay, and in his mid 20s. Now I understand why he won't eat much sometimes!!! I don't know if he's a bottom or top. I've never asked. In fact I don't understand why so many straight people are soooo obsessed over whether their gay friends are tops or bottoms! But from now on if my cousin is hanging out with me and he's not eating much I won't try to pressure him to eat.
@luckypunch893 жыл бұрын
So cute
@cityrat32373 жыл бұрын
Omg yes that after bottoming hunger be real. I usually eat little the day ima bottom and after I’m done that night I’m fucking starving, these tops don’t appreciate the shit we do (literally) just to bottom.
@jarabaa3 жыл бұрын
You are so honest. It's amazing. Every detail. To the point. Candid. You don't omit anything, you don't waver, you address everything clearly and fully. By telling the truth in such a plain, direct, comprehensive way, you give power and security to others. So many boys/men are wondering and worrying, curious and apprehensive, nervous and bewildered, shy and vulnerable. And then you ride in, the knight in shining armour with ... The Answers. The Facts. The Info. The Details.
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Aw thankyou this was so nice to hear! I’m glad I can help, that’s what I am here to do ❤️🌈
@lakshyabhatnagar75043 жыл бұрын
I really dont think many people have the balls to talk about stuff stephen talks about so we should really appreciate it, also i want to ask, is that youtube strike over?
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou! The KZbin issue still remains, all of my videos no matter what they are will have the yellow icon 💔
@lakshyabhatnagar75043 жыл бұрын
@@StephenBrenland the yellow icon would be on the new vids as well..or just the old ones..?
@vince77353 жыл бұрын
If I ever see you at a buffet, I will have known what you just did!! I enjoyed your conclusion that you should only be aiming to bottom guys who value you.
@kennyhumble36993 жыл бұрын
Your hot Vince! Single?
@kbinco3 жыл бұрын
The size of the top has a lot to do with this subject. If he is too hung it can be uncomfortable afterwards, but a good fit can feel very good, no issues there
@stevenj.degliangeli69173 жыл бұрын
Hi Stephen, I have a friend who is a Medical doctor and he says after you bottom you should put a suppositories in your peach because it helps the peach recover faster. It helps calm down the discomfort and swelling and they have a vasoconstrictor in them which helps helps the peach to return to its normal position and make it more tight for the feeling that it is sucking your underwear up. Thank you Stephen. I love you very much.
@juandelacruz84143 жыл бұрын
What kind or brand of suppositories please?
@wildcatslife6863 жыл бұрын
Loooool
@kennyhumble36993 жыл бұрын
@Mike Merrill79 you definitely are struggling with your sexuality! Come on out hun! Its ok! 😁
@watchanime3313 жыл бұрын
@@kennyhumble3699 ikr! Like why did he even click the video? 😂
@musicguy203 жыл бұрын
If you are experiencing pain you are not bottoming correctly and rushing it in.
@MM-ng5wc3 жыл бұрын
All about lubing and going in right
@partlycloudyoptimist8093 жыл бұрын
I was having massive panic attacks all day. Stress and time of year. Was really bad and it’s no one I can talk to. I came upon this video randomly in recommends. Your gentle voice and sweet face helped me calm down and feel better. Thank you.
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that you have been struggling with having panic attacks, I hope you get through it and and I am glad that my video helped you in some way 💜 sending my love Xx
@Alisha-wo2mc3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate and respect you for talking about things others dont and thanks a lot for aiding to my gay knowledge 💜
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou!
@EnhancedCH3 жыл бұрын
Never learned any of this stuff growing up. Had no to ask. Lol. Happy for this
@xiaoscrustyhair71243 жыл бұрын
i hate bottoming even ITS WELL LUBED AND JUST 1 GUYS FINGER IT STILL HURTS
@MLeon-ip7ii3 ай бұрын
Lot of insight - and I can mostly agree as I am bottom too. I think there is a huge difference whether you bottom for your boyfriend or whether you bottom for a hook up. Who can agree or disagree with me?
@franciscovlzqz173 жыл бұрын
I love when gay people are honest in explaining the processes of every day situations.
@bobbymartinez50583 жыл бұрын
Bullshit, you not a real man
@franciscovlzqz173 жыл бұрын
@@bobbymartinez5058 agreed, if you say so it must be true
@Kleheup.2 жыл бұрын
Not even an age restriction, KZbin policy makes no sense.
@mehmetokay70733 жыл бұрын
I always wondered how the guys felt after I left.
@mariom68843 жыл бұрын
Very informative,Stephen.There are somethings I didn't have noticed.Thank you.Love you from Brazil.
@fazza3sheikh6623 жыл бұрын
Hello
@rob11rr3 жыл бұрын
Another really interesting aspect of gay intimacy, great information, superbly presented. Thank you Stephen.
@zzzcocopepe3 жыл бұрын
Yeah im never bottoming again unless I'm in complete control. I have a hemorrhoid from bottoming like 20 years ago
@scottjackson51733 жыл бұрын
After bottoming? You work out the what your lover left behind. Including lots of air, and you need to reboot the peach back to normal operations. The rest, is up to what kind of relationship you're looking for.
@AKDHFR3 жыл бұрын
was hoping that he says pooping was a lot better 🤣
@scottjackson51733 жыл бұрын
@@AKDHFR Bananas are a lot more fun
@valeriesanchez30743 жыл бұрын
Lol.
@PridewithKC3 жыл бұрын
I love the way you say "your peach"
@danielsykes75583 жыл бұрын
I'm vers, but a top virgin, in an ltr with a top. He's on the asexual spectrum, so we've recently slightly opened up our relationship. He doesn't want me to hook up with random guys, which makes sense to me. I tend to prefer being sexual with people I care for, good friends, suitors, etc. That being said, I can't say I know how to explore my top side. Nervous at the thought of being a first timer with a good friend and then messing stuff up. I suppose I shouldn't overthink it. Most folks aren't professionals.
@ybehravan82682 жыл бұрын
That point about getting cold after finishing is something i dislike especially about my future partner...... As you said if he loves you he will come back hot again.... So it's a good hint that he's interested in you
@dawnr7143 жыл бұрын
So informative. Thank you so much for the vids!! Such a cutie and ❤ your channel!
@jeffr9631 Жыл бұрын
OMG. . .Stephen, I love you. You do amazing videos. Perfectly perfect.
@wwk68tig2 жыл бұрын
There is so much common sense in your posts, Stephen…..thanks again.
@ScribblebytesWorldwide3 жыл бұрын
But what's a power bottom?
@lovepeace97803 жыл бұрын
Pls.pray the rosary to free all countries from war, diseases, calamities, hunger, corruption, drugs, prostitution, abortion,homosexuality, divorce, vices and all evils.pls pray for peace and joy in all families and home.. . .....
@GoCamp223 жыл бұрын
Pray to free all the countries from religious zealots as well. Lol
@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eye2 жыл бұрын
@@GoCamp22 😭😂😂😂💀
@frenchghost26533 жыл бұрын
I just started dating my new bf after a girl broke both of our hearts and he took me to his shower and he made love to me so hard and good
@draculacepesh13822 жыл бұрын
So how is it going?
@charlesjeffery39982 жыл бұрын
Is it true that eventually you will damage your sphincter muscle or whatever it's called, so badly, that you can just be walking down the street and shit on yourself, because that scares me so much
@HeronCoyote12343 жыл бұрын
I’m a 66 yr old white cis woman. I have to tell you, this video was very informative, and tastefully done. I love your reference to “peach”.
@TheSallyhawkins3 жыл бұрын
Baby where have you been . ..I couldnt find you!!!! I changed phones and half of my info was erased! Thank goodness I've got you now!!! Love and 💋💋💋💋
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Hey there!
@johndeboard28432 жыл бұрын
Very good video educational I know for me with my husband if it’s going to be more play in evening I clean but don’t necessarily shower I wait till the end is this okay
@victordepaul10613 жыл бұрын
You’re just an endless well of gay knowledge Stephen! I’m sure it will be another good one🥰🥰
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Aw thankyou :)
@victordepaul10613 жыл бұрын
@@StephenBrenland 🤗🤗🤗
@ojmcclanahan6893 жыл бұрын
Hey, Victor. Is that you in the photo? If so, you're one gorgeous man!
@victordepaul10613 жыл бұрын
@@ojmcclanahan689 Wow, thank you! That is really me in the profile pic.😊
@ojmcclanahan6893 жыл бұрын
@@victordepaul1061 Nice! 😉
@michaeljonesdougherty.2093 жыл бұрын
😲🤤 lol yes iam starved) butt . This is so educational for the ones that arnt sure.gr8 video thankyou for shareing 👍
@777newworldlove3 жыл бұрын
Hey Stephen, can you do a video about your feelings on why so many gay men feel the need to have so many gay sexual contacts, instead of just being with one man at a time. I always get really turned off if I suspect a man is having lots of sexual contacts while or before he chooses to be with me. I just feel it's a bit discusting sharing all those personal germs and sexual secretions with different men before they get intimate with me.
@victordepaul10613 жыл бұрын
@@thewolfman775 Hi Wolfman😁
@snow849173 жыл бұрын
@Mike Merrill79 Don't like it, don't watch. Easy peasy.
@fin26433 жыл бұрын
even straight women have the SAME problem...eventhough some myt not want to admitt.....
@MM-ep7un3 жыл бұрын
You are so right! I think such kind of intimacy should be exclusive and not to get at every corner of the streets!
@MM-ep7un3 жыл бұрын
@Mike Merrill79 then leave
@jeremyjeffery75273 жыл бұрын
What I can’t understand is how it is so easy for guys or anyone really, to hook up. Real life sex is not porn and most of these videos are presented as such. Look at the thumbnail…. How about a video on the talking to guys or the actual person to person dynamic that takes place when it is just s hookup. You show up or he shows up ….. the door comes open and then? Walk us through that?
@capricorns1st3 жыл бұрын
Do bottoms get attached like women do? Sounds like it to me.
@siyabongahlongwane6373 жыл бұрын
Yea😂😂
@johnmoon62003 жыл бұрын
Hi Stephen I love your video. I totally relate to this video every time I bottom for my friend of 6 years that’s in an open relationship of 10 years. When we do the deed it’s romantic when he tops me after he finishes he cuddles and we make out. If only I met him 4 years earlier 😩😩 I’ve had the biggest crush on for years but it’s to better to have him as a friend/ fwb than nothing at all I suppose. Informative video once again.
@olivermerth51792 жыл бұрын
6:50 Or he is really nice and understanding .. tries to make love and not just sex .. loves foreplay which is amazing I am one of those tops
@myrkflinn43313 жыл бұрын
I'm not a gay guy (ftm btw). But I got IBS and I wonder how someone with Irritable bowels is able to prepare for bottoming without accidents and pain. Cos you cant really predict all the bowel pains. Some. I'd be terrified if my partner wanted to go and I think down there is just gonna be a mess, regardless of douching.
@luditebreaker50653 жыл бұрын
If you are bottoming for someone you dont like then the immediate thing coming out your "peach", on the loo, is your humanity.
@nehemiahmarcus3083 жыл бұрын
When I bottom, it is in a BDSM, fetish and role-play form. How different is, excuse the term, "vanilla" bottoming from BDSM bottoming?
@dave70843 жыл бұрын
I really had a great time with the guy I was hooked up with by Greg Paul Scott
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
💜💜
@stevejock71683 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dave For the recommendation !😊 🏳️🌈
@thomasgary74153 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😚
@dannyb.gaming76033 жыл бұрын
Missed you Stephen! Love your vids!!
@tashidelekdokpotso3 жыл бұрын
Hey Stephen, You really Educated my educated brain deeper with gayducation and Bottomeducation 🧠. Sorry for my new terms that do not actually exist ☺️☺️😜😂
@fazza3sheikh6623 жыл бұрын
Hi dear
@georgia19863 жыл бұрын
Weird question but as a gay woman I've kinda been confused at why a lot of gay guys seem obsessed with the top/bottom thing, like i don't think anyone is 100% a top or bottom, more of a switch. Like does it really matter lol? Aren't you just stereotyping in a weird heterosexual way?
@MM-ng5wc3 жыл бұрын
Gays lick topping to masculinity most of the time and some guys are more butt people to than penis, so prefer to top
@JNeil19753 жыл бұрын
I make sure everything is out lol I shower thoroughly and flush out with water in the shower, and I use a cream, hydro-cream or prepH to bring it back to normal.
@jeremymcgills4553 жыл бұрын
Hi can I know you more
@barneyendive8433 жыл бұрын
Well...if the job is done correctly we snuggle ant fall asleep.
@sumanuel3 жыл бұрын
Omg thanks for this info!
@bmaiceman Жыл бұрын
Can you please do a video on use of POPPERS!!!! I recently had an experience with a guy using poppers while being with me. He offered it to be while connected and THAT EXPERIENCE WAS BAD!!!!!
@paulyork86043 жыл бұрын
When I bottoming I use lube but I bottom a lot plus idouche and all after I douch I dress up ready for him in my nurses uniform and boots plus stockings and suspenders
@sarahjones-jf4pr2 жыл бұрын
Paul WOW!....Whatever floats your/his boat, enjoy life!
@Cowboy-66669 ай бұрын
Hot
@andrewlopez10183 жыл бұрын
A friend has pulled a train many times you should address prison type rape how do find out if he just out prison
@kzm97413 жыл бұрын
Most informative sex advice ever. Love you😊👍🏻
@diptayandas90943 жыл бұрын
Thnk u fr letting me knw these Big help
@charlesjeffery39982 жыл бұрын
I want to move to Europe so bad, I think about moving to London all the time, I just don't know how we do it, not ever been out of the country, I know that I wouldn't have a problem with staying, like not getting home sick, because they're a lot like America and I speak of the language fluently, but not fluently cuz America in London we do speak different dialects of english, like in America your mate is your partner like your boyfriend girlfriend wife or husband, but in Europe or Australia your mate is your male friend, so a male will call his best friend his mate, and that's what the word means to them,
@ola62272 жыл бұрын
Leviticus 18,22 "Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable."
@jaytakajeremiahtisdale204210 ай бұрын
You chose to watch this lol
@timothydowd41808 ай бұрын
The god or deity in the Bible is a genocidal psychopath .. you sure he isn’t the evil one causing havoc on Earth if he exists?
@rememberthegoodoldays18673 жыл бұрын
Eat the peach?!?! 🤢🤮
@valeriesanchez30743 жыл бұрын
Always carry baby wipes. Appointments get messy lol
@Danilo-O3 жыл бұрын
whom is this video aimed for honestly?
@rlogan61153 жыл бұрын
Idiots that are young....
@Idrick Жыл бұрын
When i did it for the frist time I felt a lot of air in my hole and I still felt like he was still inside me
@Idric-j6v21 күн бұрын
I am interested in u love listening if I knew this when I came up I be better off than now
@Strode783 жыл бұрын
It's like you're just exploiting gay sex to get views. Bottoming is different for everybody and people should experience it their own way, everybody feels differently both physically and mentally afterward...weird, really bizarre and for gay people it's a little bit of a slap in the face in the form of a sex education video.
@lakshamanagadagin50963 жыл бұрын
How to meet austin wolf
@rdsunsb3 жыл бұрын
Do you work?
@michaelfrancis88303 жыл бұрын
Im 11 1/2 they can't walk
@ojmcclanahan6893 жыл бұрын
I could take it. 😉
@ethan90023 жыл бұрын
Intresting
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
Very ;)
@chickenfarm093 жыл бұрын
Too tight here. I sometimes bleed from pooping
@chickenfarm093 жыл бұрын
@A Certain Place Thanks for the educational video link. I don't know how or why you watch a video about bottoming but we all have a right. I can only speak for myself. I personally don't have interest in it. Maybe some people have extreme control over their hole and can gape it open at will. I do not, and I very easily bleed from pooping and wiping. I've had hemorrhoid problems since I was a teen.
@TyHutson3 жыл бұрын
Lot of generalisations going on there. We’re all different. No two people are the same. This is in your experience.
@StephenBrenland3 жыл бұрын
And people know that my advice is based from my experience, we know everyone can experience things differently but it’s good to always have an added perspective which is why I share my own.
@marijafriscic20893 жыл бұрын
Hy Stephen you dont say what is peach !!!!:)
@victordepaul10613 жыл бұрын
It's your behind.😄
@fazza3sheikh6623 жыл бұрын
Hi
@fazza3sheikh6623 жыл бұрын
@@victordepaul1061 hi
@victordepaul10613 жыл бұрын
@@fazza3sheikh662 Hello😊
@fazza3sheikh6623 жыл бұрын
@@victordepaul1061 where are you from
@fin26433 жыл бұрын
whaaaaat....damn man...hell no....this some scary stuff...
@kimsteele77143 жыл бұрын
Big question here to anyone. How do you know if a guy wants to be topped by a girl?
@kiwiskinny40273 жыл бұрын
i’d say just ask about things they’re into and things they might be interested in and if they’d like to try new stuff
@kimsteele77143 жыл бұрын
@@kiwiskinny4027 is there like any thing peculiar that they may do to subtlety indicate that?
@kimsteele77143 жыл бұрын
@@thewolfman775 I would
@Hoo_huu Жыл бұрын
You should only bottom for a guy who values you*. YASSSSSS
@winstonairedale3 жыл бұрын
I should send it to my sister she is so religious I wonder what she do how to get corn hold three easy steps she probably be at my door the next day with a Bible LOL
@RAINBOWNATE3 жыл бұрын
How old Is tho.
@greg36593 жыл бұрын
Bad hair day?
@cdavis78223 жыл бұрын
Give this guy a haircut...top and bottom,
@11buleria3 жыл бұрын
Having a large object pushing in and out of the hole can cause a few unpleasant medical conditions. One is anal fissures which are extremely painful. Doesn’t it get sore? Aren’t you concerned about bruising or mucous membrane scrapes?
@None-dk2dq3 жыл бұрын
Yo you are a cool youtube guy
@victordepaul10613 жыл бұрын
Stephen is very entertaining!😁😁😁
@None-dk2dq3 жыл бұрын
Yes I will dance for him
@JoeT-re5ro2 ай бұрын
If a partner doesn’t cuddle or continue to make out after sex they arnt a keeper either.
@slyra85863 жыл бұрын
Hey, how are you?
@theniceguy50Ай бұрын
Hours?😮
@desorakt_7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ cute
@Kimmi___.3 жыл бұрын
yeah i had a hookup with a keeper and we took a shower together and the other day a normal hookup..just using cleaning wipes and then immediatly leaving😬
@i-thalhawkins98133 жыл бұрын
The peach tares , making love Hurt's them That's sad. If you ice the peach will it help nures it back to health ?
@mgofficial54703 жыл бұрын
I had to know about this because I’m bicurious
@windsoracle32813 жыл бұрын
What a 💎👑♥️☺ You're very helpful and informative. ◇
@nicodemusblackowl3 жыл бұрын
I can tell you what happens after I bottom....my ass needs a break for a few days lol
@robertbarnier453 жыл бұрын
Accurate. Thanks.
@rapscallion34213 жыл бұрын
How do you fit 4 gay guys on a stool?
@ananzi19753 жыл бұрын
don't use spray tan
@simonf89023 жыл бұрын
He needs to help you clean it babe.
@jeremymcgills4553 жыл бұрын
Hi baby
@maxmoen94803 жыл бұрын
This man never need a purgative
@nateparedes443 жыл бұрын
You look like a young Rośe from Drag race lol
@eduardoquiroga68043 жыл бұрын
I want to be your friend
@rayrussell1519 Жыл бұрын
will stephen take me with hes mates and do it capture me please
@justinterrell9493 жыл бұрын
What's up
@teslabailey13983 жыл бұрын
That is true because it happens to me a lot and previous excess that I had was like that it was one hook up and that's it