10 Needy Things Men Do That Turn Women Off | Needs Vs Needy

[@chriskrueger1865]

The difference is... Being needy you're my wingmommy, whereas having needs you're my wingmam. Yay😂

[@YourWingmam]

High five! Gold star! You get it! :))

[@EchadLevShtim]

Where have all the wing mommy gone? Most relationship are just the one wing flapping.

[@YourWingmam]

p.s. Speaking of Mom's Day A controversial bonus tip: Q: Why are there so many anxiously attached young men? A: Single mothers. No matter how amazing a mother she may be, a boy needs a positive, *involved, male* father figure. Many reasons. Maybe I'll do a video on that for Dad's Day. What say you?

[@smferreiro2610]

So do girls! Nowadays girls are in dear need of a male father figure. I vote for the motion!

[@therealriverryan]

You should l. Absolutely would love to hear your view about this topic

[@dbird1356]

It’s not just boys that need a strong, engaged male in their lives, it is girls as well. I can’t find the study I read but a big percentage of single mothers come from single mother upbringings.

[@MrSimonw58]

I'm neither anxious or attached ... because of women like you.

[@smferreiro2610]

My reply here got deleted!

[@Dreykopff]

I'm so sad every time I notice that building something takes a long time, but destroying it always takes less than a day.

[@YourWingmam]

One of the realities of life, indeed

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 ❤️

[@64maxpower]

Never thought of it like that. I think the ones that are destroyed over a longer amount of time get dismantled more thoroughly and have no trace of existence. Which is even sadder sometimes

[@AAMM101]

That's dark.

[@BearfootBob]

sand painting.

[@eab6066]

I've been guilty of all the needy behavoirs and I'm aware and have practiced the healthy behavoirs as well. I'm quickly losing the negative/needy behavoirs. This video solidifies what I know now and have experienced. Thank you Anna.

[@YourWingmam]

Awareness is the first step to potential change, good for you!

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@Stormy177]

Your point about supporting their growth is a powerful one. If you're in a relationship with someone, you need to remember it's a partnership not a competition.

[@YourWingmam]

Team mates :))

[@JJGoblin]

Hey anna, I've been watching a lot of your videos lately, and I've begun to work out, go out (bars/hiking) and be more confident holding eye contact ALOT more. I've been talking with a girl who old me would've thought was out of my league , and i find myself constantly rewatching your videos and taking them in over and over, and as i apply your lessons on the 20\80, texting as just short form, and having her wanting more. i have to say thank you for the neediness, confidence, and talking/flirting videos, i have recently been feeling 1000% more ME and more confident. i still need work by all means not perfect but i have changed a good amount towards a better me. i love the motto you use "if you do the same thing, you'll get the same thing".

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts!

[@charlesgreen8703]

I admit that because I get attached way too quickly and easily…and that is because I do fear the other person leaving…and it also has to do with me being on the autism spectrum…I’ve had a lot of those instances where I’ve tried too hard because of this and I ended up pushing people away…now I’m hesitant to let myself get close to someone…

[@YourWingmam]

You’re not alone. Many feel the same way even without autism. Most people feel inadequate in some way. P.S. There should be a dating app called Spectrum Dating.

[@charlesgreen8703]

@@YourWingmamThank You Anna for understanding…there are site for that…but sadly there are also way too many fake profiles and catfish on them… I’ve done enough online dating that I can smell a fake profile like a fart in a car lol smh 😂🤣🙄🤦‍♂️🤷🤓

[@markfennell1167]

You are actually the advanced one with autism who understands that love is the ultimate goal of life and relationships. It is only modern women who have decided that they should not love their man and any man who wants love from their woman is too clingy Stay true to yourself and demand that women be loving and nurturing to you

[@charlesgreen8703]

@@markfennell1167 Thank You…I Appreciate That!

[@tommytortuga3073]

@@markfennell1167 right on amigo

[@ProgressiveDiscussions]

You can never have too many, "let's have a quickie".

[@YourWingmam]

Wink wink nudge nudge 😁

[@tod3msn]

#2 "Clingy" is a killer of relationships. It tells a woman you are a lightweight with no experience and in fact she is your only chance for a relationship. It makes you look bad in her eyes because no other woman wants you so you are "clingy" with her holding on for dear life. I've been told I was "clingy" and it is the kiss of death for any budding relationship. You get labeled "clingy" and your chances with her are "game. set. match. over." In other words, you in her eyes are a loser and toast. Be confident and know whatever happens with her you are good.

[@YourWingmam]

Exactly!

[@jordanharrison8769]

Which basically boils down to, women don’t want a man who ACTUALLY wants them. Their hypergamous nature sees this as a sign that they don’t have any other options and a man without options is a low value man, and even if she wanted him, she will lose interest if no one else does too. Women aren’t happy with THEIR person, they want THE person.

[@donaldmackerer9032]

​@jordanharrison8769 Sometimes it sure seems that way. Not always but sometimes. It's not always easy to determine if you made the right choice for a partner. There are a lot of overly self centered people out there and they can be very good at hiding it. A woman like you described will probably never find 'the guy ' and eventually become a cat lady.

[@HakiKingEntertainment]

Definitely important for people to know because I've seen many men ruin their relationships over stuff like that

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@64maxpower]

Can't imagine where 319 thousand people would be without your sincere and kind help right now Anna Jorgensen. Thank You

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@YourWingmam]

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[@PremiumUserUltra]

I did, nice work on the location. Also you look great.

[@smiles7631]

Being needy is relying on your partner for your own happiness. I think I got that right. Thank you, there was a lot to take in there so I'm going to save and watch again. Have a good day!

[@YourWingmam]

You got it! And yes, this one is worth a second watch for sure. Enjoy your day!

[@andrewdewar8159]

I like your wisdom. I've been needy and wanting validation from women all my life. I know it needs to come from within, and I am good enough now.

[@superduperdom]

Where were you when I was growing up and needed wise counsel? We’ve all been so let down by parenting and schooling on the things that really matter in life. May be too late for me, still good to hear. Much more socially acceptable even endearing for women to be needy with men, the other way round is a passion killer. Men must retreat to their caves for healing to feel whole again.

[@YourWingmam]

Wise man! Not too late :)

[@derwoodhamburger]

1:40 - If she's in mother mode, she's not in lover mode. You taught me this

[@YourWingmam]

Excellent, grasshopper, you have learned well!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@donaldmackerer9032]

​@@YourWingmam Awesome! You evidently was a fan of the Kung Fu series. This is just too cool.

[@asdassdgfdf7509]

Thanks for the valuable information, much appreciated!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad it was helpful!

[@bradd188]

I did a lot of this after I lost my family of 10 years that I had built up with my bestfriend. Plus I had just made a huge sacrifice moving across the country with her and I ended up left with nothing. Talk about panic ! Oddly enough she did some of these things aswell even tho she broke up with me. Which always made me more needy cuz she’d reel me in then ignore me again. The way that made me feel during a time when I was trying to fix things to keep our family together was terrible. The whole thing was one big mess. There was a lot on the line, not just emotionally but finically as well. And our 5 year old son was caught up in the mix which was the saddest part.

[@peterbanh1364]

Back then life was good and simple. These days, life is so complicated. Better staying single and keep life simple. Do NOT want to deal with all the stresses from relationship. Freedom, peace, stability, safety and financial security are priceless.

[@YourWingmam]

It’s ok to stay single :)

[@jio8520]

Amen to that! I'm happily divorced. One nightmare was enough for me. Long live the man whore! 😂

[@curtis8906]

@@YourWingmam Thank you for supporting that, very refreshing 😉

[@tomlineberger]

Thank you again, Anna!! You are absolutely correct!

[@alcambero]

You must have been reading my mind...🙈 A ton of 'Guilty' pleas coming from my mouth Anna. Thanks for the sisterly perverbal slap in the face and ' real time' reality check...🙏

[@YourWingmam]

You’re welcome! 😊 Awareness is the first step to potential change ✔️

[@stevedavenport1202]

The taggers in your municipality really went to town on that pedestrian bridge 😮

[@ShadowNash108]

Great point!! Always go back to overcoming nice guy syndrome comes first, especially your nice guy Playlist.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! Yes, insecure attachment leads to nice guy syndrome leads to being/acting needy. But it is reversible! :)

[@DaveReynolds-y3v]

Anna, love the Kitty Kat. And nice jacket. Thanks for the vids,

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you like them! 😻

[@64maxpower]

Your videos made me like your work. Your memoir made me like you.

[@YourWingmam]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@whbrown1862]

A lot of what you said is so true. One girlfriend texted me nearly 5 - 8 times a day, while I was at work. Then she wanted to know when i got home, and then she would text me to the wee hours of the morning. It nearly drove me crazy.

[@whbrown1862]

The last straw was when I came down with Covid, and she got mad at me for not responding. I told her that I was too weak to text!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@lorderectus1849]

Not worth being in a relationshit too many conditions! Freedom is better!

[@CSSaucey]

Relationshit… lmfao 👌🏼

[@youareIndenial981]

Thanks for the advice, i now will operate all 10 habits to the max

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@agxec2932]

"Just the tip" 😂😂😂😂😂 Got the innuendo 😂😂😂😂😂

[@petarianshahidhussain8956]

beautiful way of delivering message. I enjoyed watching you talk more then listening to you.❤

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@WelderStick-vt8ut]

Love ya work man... Keep up ... The good work!!! Thanks again

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@BritishRail60062]

Just feedback here on the situation. I think the needy part comes within a man when he lacks self love, self respect and self gratitude. From observations here, I recommend that all men that feel needy or insecure should practice self love and gratitude and they will become a confident, free standing and self loving person. Women find this irresistible in a man because they see the bold confidence shining through but also the genuine compassion and love for himself and others. Just be your best and remember self love and gratitude, everything else will click into place. Another great video my friend and please keep up the great work Anna, I am sure your content will help many people along the path. Namaste.

[@YourWingmam]

I agree! More on that in next week's video. The how-to is in my wakeup2luv program :))

[@sambo9855]

Its really something how you can look at mistakes you've made that push women away and ask yourself "how the hell could I not know any better"?.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@philaman1972]

I am 52 years old and I don't understand. Why can't people just act like two adults and be themselves? I mean why can't they just become friends based off common interests like music, movies, books, etc? Why is there a need to play these childish and pointless mind games? Both parties should put all their cards on the table and see if there is material that interests each. Maybe this is why I am single, but I've always approached dating from the standpoint of building a durable friendship first and foremost instead of all this kowtowing that you describe in the video. The material you covered is based on narcissism and obsequiousness and I do not know how to or want to play such a game.

[@CSSaucey]

Hahahaha fire comment, so true dude, people in this day and age are so weird and self destructive when it comes to relationships, poor souls.

[@kaiserpuppydog7174]

All the advice on this channel is the same old chit. Blah blah blah priming sad sacks with false hope gobbledygook, ending with a special program you can buy from her to manipulate reality to your wishes.

[@jonjacobjingleheimerschmid3798]

Problem is women have been watching content like this for decades ( Magazines prior) And are constantly holding up a measuring stick to men... It's sooo relaxing since I've given up on relationships. I can just kick back and be exactly what I am without someone constantly pointing out things they think I'm " lacking"....

[@CSSaucey]

Totally agree, you do you brother, and in the course of this, chances are you will meet someone who will be drawn to you for you just simply being you, I did the same thing and now I have someone who thinks the world of me and I them, I wouldn’t change a thing in her, nor her me. It’s quite paradoxical how once you stop focusing on relationships and just focus on yourself that all of a sudden you become the kind of person any sane woman with her shit together would want, but it actually makes sense seeing as you truly become someone worth being with that way and as with many other things in life, once you stop giving a crap about it, you get it.

[@mikeexits]

Emotional damage.

[@Florida_gyrl]

I’m a woman! I totally agree with you! Met plenty of men like this and it’s a total turn off!

[@whatarefriends4]

A woman doesn’t want to hear about your needs because it’s all about her

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@mrsherwood2599]

💯

[@LogicNG]

@@whatarefriends4 sounds like something a narcissist who only thinks what he wants matters would say. I doubt getting along with women is your only problem

[@kevinanderson1096]

I think we all just need to get along!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@kevinanderson1096]

@YourWingmam You are so beautiful. We have spoke before, . You bring insite and that is amazingly. Keep doing what your doing.

[@Hebhansen]

Cool jacket indeed Miss Jørgensen

[@blip1]

This channel is turning into gold. Solid subscription choice I made, here.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you're here and thank you!

[@Amir76fresno]

Thank you for super useful & helpful information, much appreciated Doc. You're simply the best. Wishing you a wonderful evening and upcoming week. Cheers 🙌🏼🤍🤍🤍🍀☘️

[@YourWingmam]

You're welcome and thank you for watching! 💞

[@antoerickson4152]

Happy Sunday Anna and how are you. I were needy with women a lot before. The main mistakes I made was that I text them more without they themselves texting me first. It's all almost 90% of the times I text them first and maybe that's a mistake because that was needy in some way although they responded right away or sometime later. I didn't respected people boundaries sometimes and that's an another mistake. All these happened because when I talk with women something would happen to my brain and it makes me needy and wanted more and I don't know why. Now, I respect boundaries and set boundaries for myself as well, and now I don't text women a lot and something has changed and there is progression but still lot to improve. You always provide new information even when you talk about the same topic which you talked before. I'm much benefited from your videos. The only thing I miss the most now from your videos was that the intro and outro music from your old videos, but everything changed and years have passed. Thanks for the video Anna and God bless 🙏.

[@YourWingmam]

Most men act needy at some point in their young adult lives. Likely because the blueprint for their relationships with women was with their mother. (Should have noted that in the video.) Glad you learned something new! Progress not perfection. You got this!

[@timetraveler2518]

I abhor gold diggers; that turned me off immediately. They need something from me to give her satisfy needs without real love. Today, love is purely superficial. Women are more interested in materialism than the value of love, hearts, support, and trust, which promote a stable and long-term relationship. 😊

[@YourWingmam]

The bad seeds get a lot of attention so it makes it seem like they're all like that. There's certainly more of them, but there are still a few good ones left. :)

[@timetraveler2518]

​@YourWingmam Thank you for your reply. 😂 I had a nightmare about dating online. I encountered several women who wanted money after l had lengthy chats with them. Desperation drives people on dating apps to seek relationships and companionship. The ratio of male to female online daters is 5:1, with men comprising the majority. Online dating is easy for a woman because she can choose whoever she wants. It is a nightmare for men. Online dating is from the 1990s to the future. It brings up messy divorces, promiscuity, a glut of single mothers, fatherless children, and an STD epidemic. Dating outside of the digital realm has a history that predates the 1980s. It has produced good wives, stable families, and well-disciplined children. Both my grandparents and parents met in real life dating and stayed married until their spouses passed away, enduring both good and bad times together. Today, gold diggers are seeking men who have money. Hollywood media, commercialism, feminism, and leftist mainstream media indoctrinated women to lust for money, materialism, and power to control men, whatever women want. Love is purely superficial nowadays. It leads to the destruction of the family values.

[@timetraveler2518]

​@YourWingmam LOL! You recently deleted my reply. We know the truth about your censorship on my facts of my unpleasant experiences with women.

[@visaman]

If I were needy, I would say something cheesy like, "Anna, I love your jacket. Can I play with your buttons?" But, because I have high self-worth, I won't actually say it. 😊

[@paulmitchell3510]

So good!!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@daleb5967]

Active listening prolly should be number 2 ....lol. Good video overall girl.

[@skylercomptonMargo]

I am doing no contact with my girlfiend because..i called her a lesbian, i genuinely apologized and bought her flowers. She said it was sweet.. i told her i love you and we need to recalibrate.. i really like her.. im going to see what happens..relationships are alot of work

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@markfennell1167]

Codependent is actually a good thing It means that both the partners actually want to be with each other and enjoy spending time together I really wish people would stop calling codependent a bad thing Codependent means you love each other and enjoy being with each other, which is the ideal state of relationship We have just met, but I think you’re the one. This is an absolutely true phenomenon. It is because the more advanced you are spiritually you can actually recognize each other souls and within a few minutes within a few hours, your souls can feel each other and know that yes we understand each other on a deep level and there is long-term potential.

[@DJBOOTS378]

Excellent ,I feel the same way.

[@YourWingmam]

That’s Inter-dependent not co-dependent

[@rrowFernando777]

Doing grafitty again and "aprendiendo algo de jerga traviesa" AJ? no wounder the cat doesn't wanna roll with you any more😁, just playing keep up the good work👍 and God Bless You🙏

[@YourWingmam]

lol the cat is in cahoots incognito ;) and thank you! 🙏😻

[@denzelheden4256]

I'm curious to know how your voice is like in the morning, like at 5:30 am in the rainy Vancouver

[@YourWingmam]

Like and 85 year old heavy smoker lol

[@darend8896]

One of the biggest red flag is emotional crutch. Some men cannot stand alone, they will feel alone or awkward. As a man you need to walk alone if need be. Learn to be happy alone, then with or without someone is fine, there will be no neediness.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@extra222love]

Water, green, beautiful face and wisdom, what’s more do audience need?! ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much! 💞

[@Billn1971]

the random cat appearance....

[@BlairPittams]

Want to actively listen before I speak, no comment one on one I can listen but on a screen my mind wonders

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 ❤️

[@Trazynn]

Only a woman I can totally simp for is good enough for me.

[@YourWingmam]

Lol, ok but watch the video and let me know if you learned anything new! ;)

[@gazoo7411]

Just: "Hold on Loosely" By 38 Special............. Nice day for the park.

[@mypov4343]

Lots of good info! I make sure I explain upfront what is a priority/important to me and not misrepresent myself. That should explain my needs. It should also make clear that I am not needy for women that are not a fit!

[@YourWingmam]

Beautiful, love it!

[@joem.8277]

Dear Anna: Happy Sunday to you!!! I see it is still somewhat cold up there. What is new in your world? So, this is auch an interesting topic. I believe I i have definitely crosswd rhe line into neediness more than once. In one long term relationship we were both needy and that rurned into the codependant relationship from hell. There were very few boundaries, respect went out the window, and attraction was gone. No matter what we tried nothing could fix it. Finally I made the decision to end it. The thing is, it did not start that way. The problem was that once one of those negative aspects you mentioned was allowed to grow and dominate the relationship, it led to others. That is why negative behaviors need to be nipped in the butt immediately. I have had women tell me in the past, "this is who I am, you have to accept me like this.". That is a giant red flag. Time to run. That is my comment for today. I hope you have an amazing and warm Sunday. I am really liking these multiple lication videos. You looked very beautiful today, Anna. Hug and a peck on each cheek. See you next week.

[@YourWingmam]

Great insight and comment! Situations can turn into patterns that spiral. So true. And yes, the best thing to do is to handle negative habits before they turn into patterns. It's warm today so I'm going outside to play soon. :) Thank you for the compliment! x

[@johngonzalez4298]

Have a wonderful day spicy señorita Anna ❤🔥

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks John you too! 💞

[@smferreiro2610]

"Aprendí algo de jerga traviesa" !!! 🙂

[@YourWingmam]

😳🤓

[@davidcasson5602]

Hi , I remember in my very early 20’s , I’d be in the garage ,early evening Friday night preparing my kit for the Saturday ,my one day off , my girlfriend would arrive unannounced, we met up Thursday nights , and Saturday nights , not Friday . Who was needy ,, they were ,,forever needy . In fact I just did not have the free time with work career , education , exams homework assignments to give the constant attention that the needy need . Later in life ,,remembering how I felt back then ,,, I had accidentally learned how not behave ,,like a needy early 20 year old girl , which worked in my favour.

[@YourWingmam]

Wise of you to learn from her mistake!

[@MyFreeLife111]

I need more 😂❤

[@YourWingmam]

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[@MyFreeLife111]

@@YourWingmamI watched the video 💕Thank you Anna 🥰

[@MyFreeLife111]

@@YourWingmam hi 🌹🙄

[@TarunAmbwani]

For all folks here. All human beings have emotional challenges, learning and trying to resolve them is the karmic baggage. Points in the video are absolutely right and good no doubt. Though, the core issue is 99% of women in this world have become super self centered, deluded, and disconnected from their core of true feminine energy. "I want a positive connection", "I want a strong man", "I want to feel excited all the time", "entertain me with awesome story telling conversation give me humorous banter", "spoil me", "love me", "be a man of strength".. its all about what women want. Masculine energy is about pursuing and acquiring, and feminine energy is about giving and nuturing. There is zero self reflection and self accoutability and responsibility in modern women forget understanding and generosity and selflessness.. most definitely there for their child in most cases.. but for their partner.. oh no.. he is there to provide.. and he needs to be emotionally super cool while i can be a drama queen.. so i can enjoy and rely on his energy.. and keep whirling in my mind with all fantasy based and hypergamous tendencies.. we dont need men.. we all know what men want and how to please them.. but who the hell has any intention for that.. what? Its that simple and it takes only 30 minutes a day.. but guess what we are not givers ..we need to be in the mood.. lets build a whole womens movement around how victimized we are.. lets just get for ourselves everything we can.. and keep manipulating and conning the men.. they are all dumb after all.. and we are geniuses in getting our way. So to all men in the comments -- be men -- relationship and attachment are women's needs while we know what men want which is peace and pleasure -- be kind be generous and give when its earned and deserved but dont encourage any selfish attitudes including this rosy drama of how to build a positive connection.. you dont owe anyone anything.. focus on healing your own self and being postive and self contained.. she behaves well she gets everything.. if she doesnt she gets nothing and that means nothing including no connection and communication.. she wants to cry crib leave.. no issue ..its god man woman then child.. man provides.. woman serves.. so stop chasing pleasing and simping.. but give love, care when she is sincere. Cheers!!

[@LucGysel-gn5op]

I have a problem with a young woman. I ended things cause I saw no future. She just can not accept it. I explained to her the reason. Incompatibility. She keeps texting, calling..., so I blocked her. Now she's furious. Going in dedective mode. Talking to friends, showing up randomly. I keep ignoring her. It's not funny anymore. It has become a nightmare. I was just talking to a female neighbour--> She showed up again, screaming that she knew what's really going on. According to her, I dumped her to be with that female neighbour. It's definitely not the case. My ex is going nuts/wild... What should I do?

[@YourWingmam]

This is a delicate and potentially dangerous situation, you should talk to a professional asap: a therapist for sure to help you know what to do and how to handle your end, then potentially a lawyer-someone official who can be a witness to your side before things potentially get worse and who can properly advise you based on more specific details. If she’s young and it’s been only a couple days it may blow over but better safe than sorry.

[@ashtonjackfanny]

You're wild with the green screens

[@YourWingmam]

lol not a green screen, in False Creek on route to Granville Island then at the pond by Granville Island, Vancouver BC, Canada :)

[@JERRYR708]

07:22 List

[@dave-rn7zd]

The 10 needy thing's in this video are all the thing's i hate in a woman. My biggest one is my boundaries over step them it's over.

[@YourWingmam]

Men or women can have these qualities and they’re not attractive in either ✔️

[@aaronvigil9910]

The moment I meet a women I immediately know if this women is a good or bad person by asking a few innocent questions.

[@lazykid9167]

Hi. I like your videos, follow a long time. I want to make you aware of the fact that in the recent uploads the audio has changed to have increased amplitude in higher audio frequencies, which makes it uncomfortable to listen to ( a lot of sharp "sss"-sounds for example ). Something in your setup has changed I guess and maybe you didn't really notice this yet. Thank you for all your work.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching! And did the feedback, I’ll see what I can do to improve the audio in future videos. 🙏

[@karihamalainen9622]

Man - remember to BE enough needy! And it is more complicated than you think! And be especially skilful when bedtime is in hand. It is for both!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@simoncurl4504]

Although I think the majority of women want a strong and confident man who takes the lead, there are also a sizable percentage of women who don't actually need this. Speaking from my own experience, when I was very much younger than today I was very quiet and boyish looking well into my twenties. Very much not a macho go getter, although not a wet wimp either, just a smiley happy sort who just got on with stuff. I had many occasions when I had to literally fight off certain women, who were always of a strong and confident type, who seemed to find my quiet personality attractive. One particular young woman, who I had a bit of a run with explained to me that my quiet 'innocence' was what floated her boat so to speak. She was actually repulsed by the big loud commando type, who, on account of her being very attractive herself, she was tired of having to deal with and fend off. She saw right through them. This didn't mean that I was being used, we just had a good time together where I didn't have to keep proving myself. We had a relaxed and fun time while it lasted. Very much a relationship based on equality and genuine like of each others real selves. Although yes being a wimp is very unattractive in anyone, man or woman, it is very tiring for men to have to keep posturing and proving themselves. Individual character is what is attractive, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And everyone has something different to offer. The problem comes when people try to be something that they are not, if you are authentic and relaxed then the right person will come to you. Don't try to live a lie.

[@flashwashington2735]

Thanks.

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@AlphaMaleMidwesterner]

Anna Jorgensen, could just be the ideal Woman for Men, Guys in their 40’s, 50’s.

[@YourWingmam]

Lovely compliment (I certainly have my flaws like everyone else of course) 🙏

[@tofool86]

Is there any way to redeem yourself after you've turned her off completely with neediness?

[@YourWingmam]

Sometimes, not always. Look for my playlist on: nice guys; and: how to get her back. Hint: never beg, never use logic. Those videos will help you understand. Big hug

[@tofool86]

​@@YourWingmam That's exactly what I did, unfortunately :(

[@Alec50]

Anna, it appears to me you're outlining the tangled road map and mess of narcissism

[@YourWingmam]

Covert or vulnerable narcissists have several of these traits but not everyone who displays some of these traits are narcissists. If that makes sense lol

[@Duloooo]

The thing is that neediness is tolerated so much more for women, women are typically allowed to be needy way way more than men, aka, they're allowed to be human and show their volnurabilities while we aren't. This sucks. This is the reason why suicide rates in men are much higher. Because we have to always balance our emotions with masculinity while with women it's all about their emotions. Also, what you said about parent mode : Masculine men are always in parent mode, because what's a needy guy for women, that's a regular woman for men. Another thing about needyness : People tend to see others as needy usually when they can't return what's given to them.

[@DanielHouston-uw3ir]

Am just over trying to find someone anymore, women just don't seem to be interested these days it seems like. Quite sure my attitude about it all projects that vibe tho,owner of a lonely heart...

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏

[@karihamalainen9622]

Every relationship has bum,bs very beginning because emotion is so high. And usually couples even canot remember what causes that bumb. It is like grinding two diamonds so both of those can fit properly. You have to live through that grinding ans smoothing process.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@Neoteny374]

"Faster then a rookie angler on opening day" lol. You sure know how to talk to guys, Anna.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you liked that one! 🎣

[@ronaldtapp7299]

I have anger issues. Can you help me ?

[@RawKnee1111]

Thank you ~

[@YourWingmam]

You're welcome, I appreciate you watching! 😊

[@genuyts8126]

Most women and men forget that most men even in peace me time before the age of twenty; If and when then they survive, they have already died ready at east once...

[@DonBurandt]

Love your laugh. I want to have you laugh.

[@musicandairplanes6330]

Don’t say I love you too much. It sounds like a habit. I used to say it every time I would leave or she would leave because I wanted to be the last thing she would hear from me and not an argument or something unhappy in case something happened to one of us and we died. That stems from a friend of mine who his wife was going in the hospital she was being taken out of the ambulance and she said kiss me and he said I’ll kiss you in the emergency room. He turned and walked into the paperwork. She died while he was doing the paperwork.

[@ricklegendary2990]

I was never really clingy, I was passionate, however I met a beautiful Narcissist woman, who set the stage for me feeling like I needed her touch daily, however if we went 3 days without affection I was like ????? even Watching tv together we would not cuddle, I had never had a woman so not into that that it messed up my confidence. she would purposely not touch me. once I told her I love her after sex she responded " you ruined it

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@ironlifter2764]

Vulnerability for Men. Don't show weakness. It will get thrown in your face later. All the rest, I agree with

[@YourWingmam]

Watch my weak vs strong vulnerability video. If a man is never willing to be the latter, he can never tell a woman he loves her. Eventually, she’ll need that from him. In this case *not* saying it when the time is right displays fear (aka weak vulnerability). Make sense?

[@ironlifter2764]

@@YourWingmam On my end of experience. Love needs to be shown more than being told. You can tell someone all you want that you love them but if there are no actions to show for it, what's the point? I will watch your videos. Thanks for the response.

[@Jarratt-420]

Thanks for another great video! To me, needs vs neediness boils down to freely saying “no” without self-reproach. Honesty is paramount, including being honest with oneself. Also being content with oneself- “alone vs loneliness.” There are plenty of bitches in the sea! 😉

[@YourWingmam]

I concur! And thank you for your comment!

[@neilmcdougall4927]

What makes me laugh about relationships happens on both sides. Parental deficits. Also revenge if mummy)daddy issues

[@davidborgerding8429]

Way too complicated. If you girls have trouble giving it up, that's your inadequacy. Mom Nature dealt you a weak hand.

[@YourWingmam]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@JosephCornelius-yg8rd]

Cool pond! Does it have any koi?

[@YourWingmam]

I don't know actually but there are raccoons in the area, can racoons swim? If yes, no koi lol

[@bouhbouh9408]

a lot here is bordering on toxicity by advising to be avoidant to not look like you're needy. At some point, why even be in a relationship if your partner must be considered like a stranger ? There are certainly possible problems with being dependant, but that's a very trong word, and your list make it seems like it's very easy to be dependant when it should really be viewed as an extreme, degenerated behaviour, not something you easily slip into by mistake.

[@Phaedrus-th7bi]

Gosh, with all the modern dating "problems" , it's no darn wonder young men are electing to NOT date. Way too much pressure. I always dated (as a young man) just to have fun. No other pressures, and no need for a PhD in psych.

[@YourWingmam]

I should have mentioned how young men today are so sheltered and protected from challenges they have added anxiety dating in the modern world. :)

[@mreverybody1150]

@@YourWingmam If a woman is only interested in spending time with him (anywhere) and getting to know him, where would the anxiety be?

[@damienmulder909]

@@mreverybody1150 Women do not outwardly express they want to spend time with and get to know "him". Opposite, I told a girl I'd like to get to know her better and she basically turned off. Young women are even more sheltered and have no idea how to express the difference between 'being nice' and 'showing interest'. I can't tell and it makes that first step all the more daunting for men.

[@hectorricardodelacruzmonte2566]

06:52 Was it some spanish accent? 11:25 There it is!

[@YourWingmam]

Hola!

[@hectorricardodelacruzmonte2566]

@@YourWingmam ¡Hola! Qué gusto saber que estés aprendiendo español. Incluso las 'palabras traviesas'.

[@mathewmoore2149]

Neediness is often a matter of perception based on the media to keep men looking infantile to keep women like you lookin powerful

[@JJSeattle]

Interesting corridor. Compelled to whip out the cardboard and start breakdancing?

[@YourWingmam]

Where's a hacky sack when you need one, am I right?? lol

[@jonnydallas6507]

Hello beautiful lady! You look amazing! ❤

[@mirandaal4541]

I hope you’re not being needy😊

[@jonnydallas6507]

@@mirandaal4541 😂 me needy

[@cowboy44319]

Incognito Stuffy ? ( the sun isn't that bright there, that day )

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@MrObeesho]

Clapping hands at men is a giant red flag and turn off.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@adamfindlay7091]

Groovy bridge, ☮️sister.

[@murranz]

Perfect place to record a video If you like traffic noise

[@YourWingmam]

Vancouver, it's pretty much everywhere, which is why it's easier to film inside but where I'm staying the acoustics are worse inside :(( Will try to figure something out, I promise! Thanks for suffering through it!!

[@SinnethSoul]

Hi Anna. It's hard to hear you over the noise and the fact that you recorded this in a tunnel doesn't help either. Thanks

[@thelightstillshines2476]

Man I feel sorry for most men because feeling needy is actually normal human behavior we all have human needs I can see why most men don't want to be around in a relationship with a modern-day woman the competitive mind and the mentality is pretty fierce I can see why a man is all stressed out inside that's so bad for some you can't change the neuroplasticity of your brain to deal with all the pressure and stress we have high cortisol in the body that we have to deal with and we must get rid of it cuz the stress will inevitably kill you so a relationship between a man and a woman there must be some kind of consensus between the two for a relationship to work🎉🎉🎉❤😂😂😂😂

[@YourWingmam]

Everyone has valid needs, being needy is different. Some might be happy to learn you can change *some aspects* of your neurobiology. For real. Not easy, not necessarily fun, but possible. Often where it matters most. #wakeup2luv ;)

[@pawel3241]

​@YourWingmam I don't know, at age 40 it seems like it's all fake. Oh dont message to soon or it will show neediness or desperation, make it exciting and not boring and so on. Meeting women on internet is such bs. Feeling like crap because feeling like women have others guys and makes it all competitive with other potentionals, stressing over every word. Seriously singleness is becoming the norm in society. I'm a great guy in person I ain't good at starting texting conversations or making sure the perception does not come off as needy.

[@niu745]

Not a good place to recording the echo from the enclosed shelter😂