Thanks for watching. For links to all the full episodes of past guests featured in this video, click the 'Show Notes' tab at the bottom of the episode page here: bit.ly/richroll644
@Osiwan9603 жыл бұрын
Truly awesome montage Rich, loved every bit of it! i definitely found it helpful, a lot of powerful messages hit right home. Thank you so much for sharing, God bless!
@MsBugstar3 жыл бұрын
Love this
@maurocontreras3 жыл бұрын
Hi Rich, you don't know me of course, but I truly believe that your interview with Dr. Lembke has changed my life; since I watched I've been finally starting to realize that I will be able to overcome a sex addiction that has so badly damaged and hurt the people that loved and trusted me the most. Could you PLEASE explore more about compulsive sexual behaviors / hypersexuality in some of the future videos in your channel?? Muchas gracias.
@melodyyarnell11632 жыл бұрын
Im 44 and a single mom of a 14 year old ,no family at all riding all alone in life ,I'm going to watch this before I loss my mind ,to be continued...
@KoolT2 жыл бұрын
ALCOHOLISM turns people into narcissistic psychopaths according to Sam VAKNIN 190 IQ.
@johngarcia882711 ай бұрын
I remember watching this all night when I couldn't get a day clean and wishing I could recover so bad. Now I have 76 days and I'm on my way. Don't give up
@papertiger984510 ай бұрын
Hope you made it to 90 days today my man 🙏
@johngarcia882710 ай бұрын
@@papertiger9845 I have 95 days today ! Thank you for asking !
@johngarcia882710 ай бұрын
@@papertiger9845 I have 100 days today Thank you !
@johngarcia882710 ай бұрын
@@papertiger9845 Yes 👍
@NurseMo3379 ай бұрын
Congrats!
@inashesumi8783 Жыл бұрын
Last year when I commented here I was only three months sober, today I am 20 months clean and I am very proud to say that, so brothers and sisters keep on trying you can do it!
@killthehero503111 ай бұрын
3 years sober thank god somebody had my back
@wikastuce957611 ай бұрын
I finally asked for help but couldn't get any and im really struggling
@killthehero503111 ай бұрын
@@wikastuce9576 sometimes asking for help starts with hard decisions within yourself. Start with the people your around change it
@trishalilly762811 ай бұрын
@@wikastuce9576.. I'm also a struggling addict. I'm currently waiting on a detox bed. Stay strong ❤️ You're not alone.
@revyusef10 ай бұрын
Love that for you. Keep moving forward. Love hearing how people come out of active addiction
@serenitysalazar70632 жыл бұрын
Man. Addiction is one of the worse things a person can go through. Even though my addiction was not as severe as the ones in the videos, they still hurt man. I’m now 8 months sober, but still gotta remind myself that it’s such a blessing to be sober in such a cruel world. God bless those who are also in the process of recovery.
@helenalovelock1030 Жыл бұрын
I’m 9 months now too. Just re-visiting this video as it so good. It feels like it’s been 9 years though 😬😂. The time goes so slow. I just need to do the same with chocolate and binge eating issues now.
@tonyhansen651 Жыл бұрын
I think if you use the first step in any 12 Step program; 1. Admit that I am powerless over ……. and that my life becomes unhealthy & unmanageable than you may be able to minimise the harm brought about by regular excessive behaviour. Good luck & don’t do it alone be a part of a fellowship 👍🎶☮️❤️
@levidanielswain3 жыл бұрын
2 minutes in and I'm in tears. Scheduled to go in to rehab next week after 14 years of struggling; the last 4 being the worst. Countless podcasts and lectures on addiction and the painful awareness of it hasn't helped me quit. Utterly humiliating, demoralizing, and feeling shameful. But at the same time a great sense of relief because I know I'm finally on the right path and realizing it's always going to be a battle but this is the best start I've ever raised my hand to. Thanks, Rich, and best of luck to everyone out there struggling with the same.
@justinbaker53593 жыл бұрын
All the best, you actually can do it, you know you can, easier said than done I know. Good luck 👍
@ameg27073 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏 wish you the best dear and never give up, online hugs 🌹🌹🌹
@natureisallpowerful3 жыл бұрын
Hope it works out for you, one day,one hour one minute at a time.we can't do this alone. We do recover 💪
@ronnyreneraveen3 жыл бұрын
Go for it. All the best 🙏❤
@jarrod8173 жыл бұрын
You can do this! You've already done the first step, recognizing the problem. Keep up with those baby steps towards your addiction freedom. Sending good vibes your way.
@kendrickmason2577 Жыл бұрын
I remember watching this video a homeless man in New York a year ago. Seeing this brought tears to my eyes as how much better my life is now and this video is still here. Never give up in life. No condition is permanent
@maximiliankegley-oyola928 Жыл бұрын
How’s it going Kendrick?
@Virginie-a Жыл бұрын
Glad u are no longer homeless. I've been 8years now but thank God have no addiction!
@MeryemYedri2 ай бұрын
Alcohol and cigarettes addiction actually destroyed my life. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
@ZaylaDella-xh1gq2 ай бұрын
Amen God bless people. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health.
@ImaneYadria2 ай бұрын
Can you help me with the reliable source. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Netherland. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them
@Hshhzhznznznzn2 ай бұрын
YES very sure of benmycologys . I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today
@SgdgsgGsgsgs2 ай бұрын
100% agree I used to have Psychosis and paranoid thoughts like "people thinking about me talking about me etc. Very odd behavior after getting off Adderall from 7-16. Antidepressants at 18-29. 31 now. I took way to much, but took about 20g of Gold caps (Psilocybin containing mushroom) I analyzed my entire life. The emotions that came out helped me understand behavior etc more. Wont ever need to do it again because I'm happy and contempt forever, but I wish more people did this to alter their perception of reality. Would help with healing much trauma
@FatimaSaraAhmad2 ай бұрын
How do I reach out to him? Is he on lnsta?
@inashesumi87832 жыл бұрын
After 19 years am sober for only 3 months, I have no cravings nor triggers but still I have to keep on watching show like these since we don't have help here in the remote part of North Eastern India and I am afraid of my future. Thank you once again for the show.
@shellyrivers84712 жыл бұрын
Sober for 'ONLY' 3 months? That's HUGE bro. Hang in there 'one day at a time' never give up! Work 'the program' and the program will work for you!!
@nshegde2 жыл бұрын
Pls read/ listen to alcohol explained by William porter
@javin702 жыл бұрын
Congratulations brother from NYC america I was clean for 4 years and relapsed now I'm homeless trying to rebuild all alone. Nobody trusts me or cares about me
@inashesumi87832 жыл бұрын
@@javin70 respect and trust will be yours if you give a try one last time, don't give up my friend
@TBAC162 жыл бұрын
@@javin70 Never give up to your addiction, So you relapsed, you was clean for 4 years, you can do it again bro
@coolhatadventures81112 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Rich, I was an alcoholic up until July of 2006. I remember having my very last drink On July 19th 2006. I finished the ice cold drink on a hot Phoenix day. I decided that that was the last one because there was so much more to my life. I took up ultra running and removed alcohol from my life. Now it is February 7th 2022 and I will be running my 66th ultra marathon. I am happily married to my wife, Cynthia and I love my Elementary School Music Teaching Career.
@potatoe21cr2 жыл бұрын
awesome ❤️
@nicklaskowalski2 жыл бұрын
@@kyrobson6231 boring is great!!
@mickeycab12 жыл бұрын
Nice
@kalebberend2 жыл бұрын
I was in Phoenix July 2006 😃
@joeblow98502 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!! Keep it up!! I grew up in a family full of alcoholics and I started drinking at 15, I’m now 55 and I’m 6 months sober. It’s not easy but with determination you can do it. I wish you the best
@adambohn67512 жыл бұрын
If you are watching this, just know you are loved
@robertbailey38673 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that
@wababiba4181Ай бұрын
Thank you. You are as well !!
@freepaidudemyАй бұрын
* kisses*
@anthonygreene8418Ай бұрын
You are loved as well and Thank You
@xaraprimex4669 Жыл бұрын
In going to rehab centre tomorrow, in been on heroin for 9 years now, see you all in 4 months, good luck to all in recovery.... From Mizoram India
@iamElon Жыл бұрын
I am from Gujarat, India , how are you now
@ScreenFax Жыл бұрын
Don’t stop trying! It’s possible don’t be too hard on yourself and keep trying!
@Trikee39 Жыл бұрын
Wishing you the best of luck.
@StEpH0257 ай бұрын
Don’t give up & good luck….GOD BLESS
@mistypfitzer1113 ай бұрын
GOD DELIVERED ME FROM MY HEROIN ADDICTION, IK HE WILL DO THE SAME 4 U! DONT LOSE FAITH! ❤😊
@reneesantiago64962 жыл бұрын
My brother just died of a drug OD. He laid dead for 2 days and was too decomposed to have a funeral......so he was cremated. He was a normal middle class, hard working family man. He had a wife and 2 kids who he ADORED! He drank a few beers a night and on weekends sometimes we would have picnics with neighbors and we drank. I knew over the yrs if he was on a Christmas break or a few days off that he would do a pain pill here and there. That wasnt uncommon these days. I NEVER EVER saw him as the type to get addicted! He was the strong smart one who was the familys rock and my BEST FRIEND. I started seeing changes....he wasnt quite the brother i knew. Then one day out of the blue he decides hes leaving his wife. I told him that divorce happens and ill support him.....but i said be sure to be there for your children. They will need extra love and support through this. As such a great dad...i figured he would do everything right and be there for the kids. He then tells me hes in love and has been seeing another woman for a yr. At that point i told him affairs happen......just help the kids if they need it. So he gives me his new girlfriends name and i look her up on FB. I ABOUT WENT THROUGH THE ROOF! By reading comments on her pics i found out that shes a longtime HEROIN addict. She is white with 6 black children that she lost custody of. I confronted my brother about it right away and he assured me that shes clean and not to worry. I knew my brother was super smart......he had an engineer mind that he inherited from his engineer grandfather. So i put my trust in his word.....but now i had my eye on him. He ended up moving away from his kids and had little contact with them and almost NEVER contacted any of his family again. We were so very close and now he shut me out. He never called my dad again. He texted me and my mom maybe 3 times a yr. I then knew they were on drugs. They ended up getting arrested a few times and while on probation they fled. They moved to an extremely rural town in KY. We had gotten word that they were in deep with needles and meth......and dealing. My brother was in KY for a little over a year........now hes ASHES in an urn on his childrens shelf. He died 3 weeks ago of a fentanyl OD. My brother is now just ashes. Im really struggling in the denial/shock stage of the grieving process. Because of how smart he was i figured he would get sick of that life and we would get him help. My mother and i were planning to try and find him this summer but he died first. We thought we could force him into coming with us and stop all this druggie lifestyle. I know thats ridiculous thinking because the addiction is too powerful and it takes alot of work in recovery......but i was praying that the shock of us finding him and his gf would at least make him think and know we are here for him. So here i am watching videos like these to try and get a glimpse of what his life these last 3 yrs was....and how did he feel mental and emotionally? What do they go through? We hadnt seen him in 3 yrs and the few texts we got showed a much different personality than we knew. He would say things that almost made us feel he had mental issues on top of the drugs......but now i know it WAS just the drugs. This epidemic took my best friend...my brother.....a husband and a GREAT father. Plz pray for my family and me. We are in a nightmare of grief and all the "what ifs" 😪😥😪🙏😥😪
@kelliborg40902 жыл бұрын
Renee I am so sorry for your loss. My son is addicted to fentanyl. He was in a rehab but quickly checked out. He is 26 and I really don't know how to help him now. I am so scared that I am gonna lose him to this evil drug. I want him to seek help but IDK where to start anymore.
@stevenrogerfineart58662 жыл бұрын
I feel for you. It was the same with my brother. There was NO WAY I could accept that HE was an addict. Even still, it's hard for me to type. You always think that stuff just happens on TV :(
@reneesantiago64962 жыл бұрын
@@kelliborg4090 I know this sounds crazy and isnt realistic......but if my brother were still alive id kidnapp him with force. They wont get clean on their own.....they cant! The drug is too powerful......getting clean is going to have to be forced. I really dont know how else we are going to save these people! China is the supplier and supplys these pills cheap. Between Covid and fentanyl China is destroying America!
@michellegiacomoni32492 жыл бұрын
Your story touched my heart. I am so so sorry for your loss. Your brother sounded like a. Amazing man and I can’t imagine the void you must feel. I am a Registered Nurse, wife, PTA mom, admired by my peers and became addicted to pain meds. I too became unrecognizable to those around me because I wouldn’t even drink alcohol. I’ve tried so many times to remain clean and succeed for a bit then fall right back into the trap. Addiction is a thief and strips you of everything good in your life. It’s like this self inflicted hell you can’t come out of. Your story has touched me and encouraged me to be strong so that I do not destroy the hearts of the people I love. Nothing will ever be worth losing your brother but please know that because of your transparency in sharing your story I will stay clean one more day. Blessings and prayers for your family🙏🏼
@subhasharma44252 жыл бұрын
:(
@APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU10 ай бұрын
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
@Jennifer-bw7ku10 ай бұрын
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
@elizabethwilliams665110 ай бұрын
Yes, dr.sporesss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@steceymorgan81410 ай бұрын
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@Jennifer-bw7ku10 ай бұрын
Is he on instagram?
@elizabethwilliams665110 ай бұрын
Yes he is. dr.sporesss
@jamesgeoghegan61532 жыл бұрын
I used to think I could quit doing drugs, and drinking alcohol by myself, 25 years later I finally am going to give it my all, and quit for good. With the help of God and cam h i'm going to a in patient treatment program. FINALLY
@MBrown-wk1uc2 жыл бұрын
You CAN go 24 hrs without a drink ( or a toke!). That's all you need to do. Promise yourself you won't drink TODAY, and take 5 mins to feel good about staying the course despite everything that may have triggered the urge during the day just ended. It's as simple as that, but you have to schedule both the 24- hr promise and thanking your higher power before you drift off to sleep at night. Skip these daily rituals and you'll end up wriggling off the hook.
@inashesumi87832 жыл бұрын
Dear friend, the test of sober living is more tastier than any drug or alcohol. May my Lord who helped me take your hands and lead you......
@Jen.Rothstein2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing?
@inashesumi87832 жыл бұрын
@@Jen.Rothstein oh am doing well by HIS grace, thank you
@inashesumi87832 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that surely God will help you
@rogervaldez-vi5hq Жыл бұрын
I stop drinking ,cold turkey ,relaps 3times but finely got sober and stayed that way day by day
@lethitemcleod30018 ай бұрын
Blessings
@shaundewing31452 жыл бұрын
I am 40 days clean. The longest ive ever been clean since I became an addict. I havent stayed sober consecutively in about 6 years. I could use a prayer and any suggestions/info that you think I need. I need to keep going but I'm fighting MAJOR depression from guilt and sorrow due to my addiction... 😭💔💯
@ashleywiens19912 жыл бұрын
Get a big book and start reading, work the steps and work the program, get up and get to meetings, I believe in you.
@margoriegemmill3104 Жыл бұрын
Stay active w your recovery, need to keep going to meetings even when you think your okay w stopping for a while Get a sponsor, know what your triggers are, and avoid them! Prayers for all who are still in active addiction 🙏
@shuiwahlee5836 Жыл бұрын
Exercise is a must
@kracheconomique Жыл бұрын
It's a tough journey but reading allen carr s book and doing the hypnosis really helped me... he has centers all over the world too and I don t know your poison but he s dealt with all addictions.... Check it out ! And don t struggle alone!
@Pokedawn100 Жыл бұрын
I hope you still are, and if not....I hope you try again. ❤
@judithlight11113 жыл бұрын
Mental illnesses and trauma can destroy much! Much love to everyone..who is fighting ❤️✨
@mandyritchie71153 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said. Agree totally with your sentiments. All the best Judith and to those reading this.
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
"Fighting" is a recipe for failure. The foundation of recovery is "surrender", and then be willing to live differently! "No change, no change". Simple as that!
@debbiefinn64832 жыл бұрын
I agree ppl who suffer with addiction plus, mental health problems, really have to work twice as, hard to get clean / sober.... Thankfully I'm13 months sober from a chronic alcohol addiction... I always, felt so alone untill I found the recovery community online.... Ppl in recovery are, the most loving and caring ppl... X
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin is the solution for every addiction except Porn addiction
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
@@fooddrugadministrator4079 According to whom?
@wonderingsoul8021 Жыл бұрын
My last day using heroin, (which ended up being my DOC,) was June 1, 2017. My life has gotten so much better since working on my recovery/sobriety. I still suffer with anxiety and occasional depression but that's life. I'm beyond grateful for my new way of living. I pray for anyone still sick n suffering, pls go and get help. It's never too late to change your life around!
@Milkyway109 Жыл бұрын
Doc?
@kristinegiovannetti Жыл бұрын
🙏
@mmariner21782 жыл бұрын
Alcohol is POISON for our minds, our internal organs, our family relationships ... I don't say I am an alcoholic because I am NOT a sickness. Rather, I say "I AM SOBER" and FEEL BETTER EVERYDAY WITHOUT THE HANGOVERS!!! All the best everyone, may God Bless and Guide you!!!
@MBrown-wk1uc2 жыл бұрын
You're addicted, addiction is a disease state. You are not the disease but you qualify as a member of the club. I am not alcoholism but as a (former) user I was certainly an alcoholic. Whether I am technically still an alcoholic sounds like a stretch but denying it is, for me, asking for trouble..
@pietb50852 жыл бұрын
@@MBrown-wk1uc a disease kills and needs a cure.. like white bloodcells, antibiotica or else.. for this you just need to stop using.. (I stop drinking now for 5 days after more then 14 years of heavly drinking.. i was using 1,5 bottle of wine and a pint of strong beer 11,5% a day and 1 bottle of spirits a week on the side) i will overcome this shit. But im not sick!!!
@chrisgreenhalgh7352 жыл бұрын
Without a 12 step programme and getting a power greater than ourselves we are doomed. Im fucked with or without alcohol. I suffer with a disease.
@pietb50852 жыл бұрын
@@chrisgreenhalgh735 your not sick.. you made a bad chose. God / a higher power will not take the blame for your action.. you did by seeking help and by stop drinking. 12-step was made up during the prohibision by wifes that pust for the prohibision..
@chrisgreenhalgh7352 жыл бұрын
@@pietb5085 so you think i chose to become a alcoholic 🤣🤣
@relaxo27392 жыл бұрын
I loved watching this… I never struggled with addiction, I was a social drinker who was forcing herself to drink due to peer pressure… I never liked or enjoy drinking and having just a couple of drinks would make me feel like shit for days….I was thankful for my pregnancy and the lockdowns as I didn’t « have » to drink…. But this year I have decided to change and stand up to my friends I am now sober and so happy…. Many aren’t supportive but I’m strong enough to resist! I don’t owe anything to anyone…
@Carmen-us1ew2 жыл бұрын
Good for you!! I've always been able to go to a bar/club and not drink, but still have fun. But, I've found it boring these past few years. I just stay home and watch youtube now, lol!!! Or, I take myself out to the movie theatre, a play, or a concert. Be your own best friend. 🌸
@annettecabezas66972 жыл бұрын
good for you
@annettecabezas66972 жыл бұрын
@@Carmen-us1ew awesome
@Lauren-ic8gw2 жыл бұрын
Me too but a decade ago. But maybe more people feel this way than anyone realises. Drinking is so normalised and ingrained into the fabric of our countries society. From births to death... Christenings, birthdays, weddings, funerals and every normal day and special celebration day Inbetween. Sometimes takes u urself to even realise u can step away and not have to drink like all ur friends usually do growing up. I was the same tho, was a pregnancy that made me stop and realise didn't have to start again afterwards as u are programmed to think, with just thinking about it like I won't be able to drink for the next 8/9 months.
@laurenk93752 жыл бұрын
This was so powerful omg!
@timothyslaughter4762 жыл бұрын
When you get sober from any addiction it is absolutely vital to fill that now empty cup with the wonderful things life now has to offer you. Embrace and enjoy your freedom.
@anthonygreene8418Ай бұрын
Blessings
@triciathetrucker16542 жыл бұрын
I shared this with my daughter who is an addict, and pray she will listen! 🙏 Thank you
@PortraitoftheArtistasanOldDog8 Жыл бұрын
Your daughter may find Gabor Maté + Sam Vaknin's Addiction KZbins Illuminating Good luck both of you 👍🏻😁💖
@angelacadieux1972 Жыл бұрын
I shared it with my son too. Praying for you and your family 🤍💛❤️🖤
@LaurieSmith-m4r Жыл бұрын
I’ve done the same to my daughter. Her addiction is leaving her two beautiful children in my care. I just pray she makes the choice to get help
@Virginie-a Жыл бұрын
I 🤲she made the right decision.
@denisefox4437 Жыл бұрын
After having periods of sobriety I relapsed badly when my partner died during COVID. 3 years on Ive lost my parents and a close friend. I’ve been blaming my relapse of grief and bereavement but my reality is that I’m just an alcoholic. I hope I had my last drink yesterday, the withdrawal is dreadful but I’m going to try 90 in 90 and also reach out to others my AA friends and not self isolate which equates to self destruction. I pray for all in addiction. This was brilliant Rich and guests thank you.
@GUs_le_bUs Жыл бұрын
Hey, I just wanted to tell you, you are not alone. The COVID period has been incredibly intense and difficult for drug addicts. I myself am struggling with alcohol and cocaine abuse. Don't let down, if its not today it might be tomorrow, hope is still alive and you are worthy off happiness ...
@davelafave6678 Жыл бұрын
And.... how is it coming? I'm in recovery too.
@Virginie-a Жыл бұрын
Hope u have the courage to remain clean.
@Preppyslaygirlysayslay6 ай бұрын
I can relate. That was my driving force for years. Well my whole family died so of course I'm a drunk. This is normal. 7 rehabs later, I'll have a year off booze July 16th, 1 year 4 days after my best friend overdosed is my day one.
@If-Cats-Could-Talk6 ай бұрын
Bless you! I hope you're doing well. I too relapsed recently. Sometimes the path upward isn't always a steady increase. Don't let a fall keep you down. Dust yourself and get back up. I say this to you hoping the same for myself. I'm sorry you've lost so much. I bet they're routing for you wherever they may be. Good luck
@Aleksandra.DaGreat Жыл бұрын
This is such an important video. I’m in a cycle of addiction even though I overcame my Vicodin, xanax and alcohol addiction. I’ve been on Kratom, smoking weed here and there and cigarettes. It’s been almost 3 years since I hit rock bottom. This was a really important episode that helped me revisit the past and current issue I’m having. I’m not outta the clear yet. I’m just maintaining, which isn’t recovery. It’s maintaining. SO THANK YOU ALL ❤ I can’t sum up in a few sentences just how grateful I am for coming across this amazing piece!
@JakeEricksen-s1q3 ай бұрын
For any of you who are scared to take the leap into sobriety, please do! I used from 13 yrs old until I was 45 and I am coming up on 3 yrs clean and sober. I have been addicted to many different substances in my life. The thought of getting clean scared me out of many many years of my life. Do it!!! Please take that leap, you are worth it. We live you
@gouni-maemontgomery84283 жыл бұрын
What an engaging 'deep-dive into recovery' conversation. The miracle is that it's a Saturday morning with no hangover or being strung out, but listening and making notes and filling my heart and my mind with what works.
@bettycarolan6663 Жыл бұрын
Good on you. I hope you can stay strong and love how your life improves ❤
@hollyhinman98183 жыл бұрын
This episode is a gift Rich! Thank you so much! Ending with Mishka saying he takes you with him wherever he goes is exactly how I live my AA life now with a sprinkling of zoom and live meetings. The pandemic is my excuse. At 9.6 years sober I use the tools given to me in AA and I would not have A life without surrendering to the accountability the was hammered into me through the 12 steps. Monday I interview for a full time job that I hope will combine service and a paycheck with the Salvation Army. Time takes time! I am so glad I found your podcast this year! Blessings to you and your tribe!xx
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
The 12 Steps are "Our design for living". I went to "topic" and "discussion" meetings for eleven years, then moved, and found a "step" meeting. Totally changed my sobriety for the better! (5/8/94) All the best to you!
@johnskiphilosophy43732 жыл бұрын
The first line could read this is a rich gift
@mandan89452 жыл бұрын
Anyone going through rehab- ur already a hero for trying!!! U can do it!! Hang on!
@johnspears55785 ай бұрын
I just celebrated 5 years clean and sober! I don't know much but I know a lot about being an addict. A hopeless one even. I have learned so much about myself and my disease in the last 5 years. I have worked at the same rehab I graduated from for 4 years. THERE IS HOPE! If I can go from a needle junkie to a successful family man anyone can!
@andrepellegrini28493 жыл бұрын
I was addicted to pain pills and Adderall at the same time for 4 and a half years, quit cold turkey November 12 2020, only because I ran out of money, It was rough, I couldn't get out of bed for a couple of weeks, it's still a struggle, but my incentive to quit was that these drug dealers were getting rich off me,
@jasongravely72173 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! I was addicted to Adderral for about 4 Years as well and haven’t messed with it since 2016. It’s been a complete life changer to be off it.
@andrepellegrini28493 жыл бұрын
@@jasongravely7217 That's really good to hear, it gives me hope that I can say the same thing some day,
@stephenbrooklyn79452 жыл бұрын
Not all mate most are selling because that pays for theirs lived that life my self
@stephenbrooklyn79452 жыл бұрын
@@andrepellegrini2849 you will get there time is the best healer
@Buhofree2 жыл бұрын
How are You right now?
@XCHADHIGGINSX2 жыл бұрын
This piece deserves a Nobel prize or something.
@hum3212 жыл бұрын
8 yrs Sobriety for me in June 2022. 🙏My daughter was having a baby.❤ Fantastic for you!🙏💯
@DemetriPanici3 жыл бұрын
*"I believe every human has a finite number of heartbeats. I don't intend to waste any of mine." - Neil Armstrong*
@Daanr-ly3ynАй бұрын
I am really impressed with this podcast. I’m restarting it now. My adult children and I are all battling addiction and this information really gives me some hope. I was really surprised to learn of your personal story because I must have missed that when watching some of your other podcasts. I was using at that time too. I’m not 30 days clean yet, and I have been hiding in my home wondering how I can face anything outside of these walls when even hearing my neighbor taking her dog outside makes me startle then freeze, but something in this particular podcast is cranking open the door I stand in front of wider than I ever could have on my own, and where I had only been able to crack it open to take a peek and could not see anything but darkness, all the pouring of meaningfulness and care and choked back tears have come thru my tv, captured my trust and pushed the door I was too weak and too fearful to open any further wide enough for me to see there is a cute pretty window that was just out of sight and there is a warm glow of experienced surviving overcomers saying “this is the way, all the hope and strength you need is here, we know and we understand.” God moves in profound ways. I thank you with all of my heart for this beautiful compilation of interviews and sincere narration you put together. I am filled with a gratitude for the first time ever for being lost because it follows a joy of what being found by love feels like, and saved my life just now, and saved my adult children from getting bad news later. Thank you so much. Something in this podcast has chased away the oppression off my chest, my neck, my shoulders and my back. Inside I feel a stronger heartbeat and refreshed breath in my lungs. Thank you. Thank God for you and your friends willingness to put this life saving content of experience strength and hope out here in KZbin land. I pray it reaches all the desolate ones like me and has the same powerful transformation wherever they are. Much love to you.
@williamkreth2 жыл бұрын
It's always so frustrating when you're trying to quit and your "friends" poke fun at it or say silly comments like "you're not going to stop!" Or "it's just one drink you can have a drink" thinking a true addict can just have one is so far from reality
@charlenestevens26767 ай бұрын
Those aren’t friends
@davidmcguire7479Ай бұрын
Those aren't friends...I know personally what you're describing.
@pedro-tt2tm2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to rehab soon. I have been an addict since I was 13 with weed and now at 28 I been on crack cocaine for 3 years which started sniffing 6 years ago. It has been a battle my whole life. I have now met the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with and we hope I come back as a new person. I tried so many times but always failed but most importantly I never gave up trying. Sometimes we need some support. Stop being ignorant and just accept that is nothing wrong with asking for help. I never judge anyone, we all see the world different and I wish the best for everyone out there in the world whatever your addiction is. I wish success peace and love
@davidwhitehead38772 жыл бұрын
Hope the recovery is going well mate. How you doing
@jessicam.12672 жыл бұрын
I hope you make it. You are making a great change.
@wenmcbrainvansandt3030 Жыл бұрын
We keep drinking yeah from childhood trauma and number of other things but another main reason is that we don't love ourselves enough to stop hurting ourselves. Learn to love yourself more and more each day and you'll start realize how much you truly VALUE yourself. MAY THE GREAT SPIRIT BE WITH YOU ALL ALWAYS Sobriety date 1/26/2012
@bettycarolan6663 Жыл бұрын
Well said! Best of luck on your journey 🙏🏻
@YouTubejg5682 жыл бұрын
I’ve been sober for 56 days and have had no cravings (alcohol). But that’s scary to me. Knowing that cravings will come. But making videos and just being active have helped me tremendously with the hardest thing I faced, which was boredom
@Jerid582 жыл бұрын
Listen to the Amy Dresner segment. She addresses the cravings. They pass. Relapses are awful.
@earthtravelexplorations Жыл бұрын
I recently read a book about addiction that discussed about how to avoid craving so well...hit me up if you need the book link.
@Jerid58 Жыл бұрын
@@peterinfante6187 Everyone says it’s the worst. Ironically had a woman I’d never met in a meeting last night crying off and on while people were sharing, she went last and turns out she had started to slip away from the program and get too comfortable and went back out. She said to everyone don’t do it, it’s NOT worth it.
@earthtravelexplorations Жыл бұрын
@@peterinfante6187 drop your Email let me send it to you directly...am trying to avoid spamming.
@helenalovelock1030 Жыл бұрын
Me too I get so bored. I’m only 9 months but some evenings and Sundays I just bored to death. Sometimes i just go to bed so I can’t feel the boredom 😬. Getting into bed is mostly my favorite time of the day. How sad it that 😬
@d0g_0f_Christ0s2 жыл бұрын
As a 48yo all rounder functioning addict that's been playing with fire all my life this video has certainly opened my eyes to an inescapable truth, I am an insult to all those struggling, and those who have lost the struggle, against addiction. I walk through each day thinking I'm some sort of gift to humanity because I have some sort of edge on addiction, like I'm allowed to toy with it so I can show people there is a path out of it through Christ Jesus the Lord & Saviour. I am a blemish to the name of Jesus, I am a liar, I am a thief, I am a idolator, full of pride & deceit. I think that somehow I'm above accountability, that I've got some special right to f**k up as often as I please without recompense. Thank you for sharing real stories of real people who have made it through real struggles because of real circumstances, that life is not a joke, and that there are people out there that need real help, and resources are low meaning lazy addicts like myself need to pull their finger out, get & keep sober, for Christ's name's sake and for the sake of those trapped in darkness. I'm sorry for not towing the line. Thank you for sharing and making it to the end of my pity party. God bless & keep you who are on the narrow way doing the hard miles for those you love, and those that love you 🙏🙏🙏
@lisasnyder84052 жыл бұрын
You are still being honest with yourself. None of us really "function" well while using alcohol or drugs. It is just another lie we tell ourselves to justify our using. At least you know there is a problem and it sounds like you want freedom. Sometimes God is working harder in our lives than we are but every minute we have a choice to do something different and Align with his plan for our lives. 🙏🌺
@robsharktest2 жыл бұрын
Every addict is a "functional" one; that is until the disease progresses to the point where that is no longer possible.
@jmgut012 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing you true feelings. I am 68 and have been an addict fo 45 yrs. I am on the road to freedom once more. Through Jesus Christ my Lord and savior I will succeed .
@TBAC162 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing all your fears with addiction! I too have been an addict for 23 years but in the last 3 years I've still dabbled on and off, I seem to get control of my addiction then think I'm in control only to have to go through the same outcome everytime! There is no such thing as a part time addict, the monster is always bigger than us , so I'm hopeful this time I'll finally stay clean for my mental stability and for the rest of my life ! It's so difficult doing life on life's terms, I have no choice now, I have to and it's scary ! Like climbing out of a cave fir the first time with anxiety hitting the roof , but I'll go through anything now , otherwise I'll loose my mind and life to the ugly monster...Jesus is guiding me,
@caseyadams6347 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you are very hard on yourself my friend. I know exactly what that feels like and looks like and is. We definitely have a lot of work to do on ourselves to obtain the tools necessary for us to have success in recovery. A big part of that work is learning to be kind to ourselves, hopefully get to be able to forgive ourselves and maybe if we are really successful and a bit lucky we can get to where we actually love ourselves. I'm not there yet, but I see the value in it and I know that it's powerful shit. You're not alone and you're not as bad as you'd like to believe that you are. I don't know you, but I know that. OK? K.
@nairda51022 жыл бұрын
I'm hurting right now. Realizing that I have a problem, I dranked a lot this weekend. I can't sleep, my body hurts, I have a lot of cramps all over. Spent a lot of money. I am embarrassed, I am hurting. I feel so alone. "You're not a bad person". Damm that hurts. It's day 1.
@nairda51022 жыл бұрын
Day 2, ran 20 mins.
@nairda51022 жыл бұрын
Day 3
@nairda51022 жыл бұрын
Day 4. Ran same distance 18.5 min and started weights 💪.
@nairda51022 жыл бұрын
Day 5. ;)
@nairda51022 жыл бұрын
Day 6.
@CoolInOlympia3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Rich! A good reminder of how much I am grateful for my 33 years clean!
@user-xx3pe7vt9d3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your sobriety!
@Job.Well.Done_012 жыл бұрын
Congrats.
@Hangloose-ee2me2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🥳 I’m 1 year 2 month 22 days sober after years of relapses and trying 🙏🎁One day at a time .
@Liesl_Cigarboxguitar2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 💚
@kerstinmiller2232 жыл бұрын
Amazing!!! What an achievement 👏
@AmaiJanice3 жыл бұрын
Learning the Big Book doesn't cut it I was fortunate at 16 years sober, when I knew in my heart, it was just a matter of time. Before I would drink, Power delivered me Daily Steps in a very simple profound way. I am still here 45 years sober no longer scratching my head wondering what to do
@debbiefinn64832 жыл бұрын
Wow, Janice.... 45 YEARS, SOBER!!!!!!!!.... WOW UR AMAZING!!!!!!!..... VERY WELL DONE!!!!!... #ODAAT... #WEDORECOVER... #WESOBERNOW.. X
@AmaiJanice2 жыл бұрын
Daily Inventory Daily Meditation
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin is the solution for every addiction except Porn addiction! I watch Porn and stop doing drugs and alcohol and I’m clean
@helenalovelock10302 жыл бұрын
Did you do AA ?
@catherinealexander6705 Жыл бұрын
Eventually the book is the tool that comes to us in pieces when we we need it to redirect us in times of trouble to seek the answer in the great spirit....rock on and congrats 45..much respect
@HomemakerDaze3 жыл бұрын
7 months off meth, 7 days no alchohol. 2022 is guna be 100% clean/sober. No more u healthy coping mechanisms. If I just keep going only good things can come of it! I go to NA once a week.
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin is the solution for every addiction except Porn addiction! I watch Porn every day avoid drugs and alcohol and gambling! Suboxone is for withdraw symptoms only
@jjsmith7726 Жыл бұрын
Hope everything is still going well! 7 months is quite and achievement 👏
@kristinegiovannetti Жыл бұрын
🎉
@davidque3776 Жыл бұрын
Omg .. when Cho said “ I want to lose” … thst fckn hit my soul …. Growing up knowing my sister was murdered at the age of 23 and brother was murdered 4 years later at the age of 23 … I grew up with this inside language that “I am going to die at 23” ,,,. I’ve been an addict of every form my whole life … went in and out of sobriety since first trying at 17 until I finally got sober this last time at 25 .. I have 7 years one day at a time since 5-15-2016 … n am alive and free by the grave if a loving God… and still very much battle all the dopamine chasing
@anthonyfox4773 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rich. To all those struggling out there - we always have the choice to do the next right thing.
@mariacastillo806011 ай бұрын
Your correct it is a choice. It took for me to almost kill my mother (whom I loved very much and miss her rest in peace) driving drunk where I was given an ultimatum that I made the choice. Had I known sooner that I can and I will and you are what you think about. I have learned that we do have control but we limit ourselves and expect others to love us when we don't know that we must love ourselves first. Check out other videos the Greatest Secret, As A Man Thinkith, I am what I think about. Dr. Joe Dispenza reprogram your mind. You all struggling out there have faith and you can and you will beat this battle and be happy. My oldest daughter who is now 38 is to an alcoholic and tried to OD this past thanksgiving. She hasn't stopped drinking but she is finally in EPTX with me know and trying. God loves you
@knottymom883 жыл бұрын
I've watched this once a day for the last 11 days....just listening is what keeps me going on my positive trajectory ❤ ❤ ❤ ..eternally grateful for these words 🙏
@HomemakerDaze3 жыл бұрын
Look up NA / AA speaker meetings on KZbin. There's lots. I'm 7 months clean. Good on ya!
@debbiefinn64832 жыл бұрын
That's amazing , welll done on ur sobriety / clean time.... #WEDORECOVER
@PortraitoftheArtistasanOldDog8 Жыл бұрын
Getting repetitive?! I'm learning heaps & laughing with Gabor Maté + Sam Vaknin's Addiction KZbins 👍🏻😁💖
@craigfowler7098 Жыл бұрын
Shout out to those in recovery and those yet to find recovery, either way, love you all. Good luck in your journey, whether in AA, NA or CA etc.
@toriscott18812 жыл бұрын
Gabor Mate has the very best way of understanding and expressing addiction! His viewpoint has I'm sure saved many! I appreciate him so much for opening my eyes and heart because I had felt that addiction was a relief from the problem rather than being the problem! With this, so many more people can climb out of the cycle
@RCRB4442 жыл бұрын
He has a new book out: The Myth of Normal. (Not affiliated.)
@XCHADHIGGINSX2 жыл бұрын
This is literally one of the best things I've watched in like ten years. I can't believe how fantastic this is... And it's also super meaningful and important. You are amazing. Simply amazing.
@JRC_862 жыл бұрын
After being diagnosed an alcoholic as a college freshman at the age of 18 in 2005, I continued to chronically abuse alcohol for 14 years until I got sober in 2019 at the age of 32. As you might imagine, the road to the bottom was downright hellish but also absolutely necessary. 921 days ago I asked for help. 921 days later, I'm still sober. Thanks, Rich, for your vulnerability and your ability to find like-minded people to share their experience, strength and hope. Addiction is a monster, but it can be conquered with the proper action and support. Big Ups 🤙🏼
@jamierupert10082 жыл бұрын
Congratultions!!!!!
@debbiefinn64832 жыл бұрын
That's, amazing very well done to you J R.... I'm 13 months sober a after years of chronic drinking.... Started when I was, 15....and I was, a problem drinker for approx on and off for 10 years
@JRC_862 жыл бұрын
@@jamierupert1008 Thank you!!!
@JRC_862 жыл бұрын
@@debbiefinn6483 Keep it up, Debbie! 13 months is an eternity to be sober, particularly living through the craziness of COVID. You should be proud of yourself 🤙🏼👏
@jamierupert10082 жыл бұрын
@@JRC_86 it's well deserved.
@Jonathan_Jacko3 жыл бұрын
Currently struggling with addiction, finding it hard to reach out. Losing my job, crashed my car, girlfriend left me 😒
@hollyhinman98183 жыл бұрын
So many marathon meetings today! Drag yourself in, don't wait to be READY, just go! So many people will want to give you a ride to meetings, that is an easy way to do service and get out of our own heads! My first meeting a lady said, do someone here a favor and ask them to be your sponsor as we were putting away chairs after the meeting. I was like FU, in my head but I kept going back and 2 weeks later never picked up again and I asked a woman to be my sponsor. Rich will inspire you too, keep listening! 👍
@sabastianswika-post18193 жыл бұрын
AA has helped me and it will help you too. Go there early, introduce yourself, ask for help. Keep going back. Whatever it takes, you can do it, and you’re worth it.
@melodyyarnell11632 жыл бұрын
Just take it as a mosh pit that you ran into, and you're hurting right now beat yourself up and keep going it'll be okay
@j.e.70282 жыл бұрын
So many have and are in the same boat....when you throw out a line for help,there will be so many people that totally get you and understand who have experienced the remorse,guilt and shame....that's how we've learnt to give you an anchor.....we all started from the beginning...?throw the line...someone's waiting to catch you...I promise.....
@Josh-rn1em2 жыл бұрын
Find an NA. Having people you can talk to when the days drag feeling like crap is necessary
@johnferradino2 жыл бұрын
I loved what Amy Dresner said. "Don't wait till you feel like you're ready"
@papichefitup3 жыл бұрын
I used alcohol and drugs for 12 years i have one year and 3 weeks sober now it truly works if you work it.
@megyoung93032 жыл бұрын
thank you passport!
@minairie3890Ай бұрын
I'm 67 days clean! Never thought I'd live to see this day of sobriety/recovery! First and foremost, All glory to God! I'm nothing w/o God, W/God, I'm everything! Now, I celebrate life, rebuilding relationships, and connecting w/others who are in their journey of sobriety/ recovery for support, understanding, and unconditional compassion. Congratulations to all on your sobriety!!!! ❤
@jahninapamintuan18493 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to a content similar to this. Been suffering a lot with eating disorders throughout my life and rich roll and his team and the guests make healing so much better
@lizdawizz3 жыл бұрын
i know, it’s inspired me to look for support groups? but idek where to begin
@jahninapamintuan18493 жыл бұрын
@@lizdawizz I started talking to my doctor and has been referred to people who can help me and specialise on what I am going through. Hope you find the help you need.
@helenalovelock1030 Жыл бұрын
I have eating problems too 😢
@Tameeekababy2 жыл бұрын
Wow this was really powerful! I liked what Amy Dresner said- if you never just get through that feeling of "you want to use" you never know that you actually can, because that feeling does pass whether you use or not." I needed to hear that today. Thank you!
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin is the solution for every addiction except Porn addiction! Suboxone is for withdraw symptoms only
@Tameeekababy2 жыл бұрын
@@fooddrugadministrator4079 thank you for that info, will definitely look into that
@wadeparker86952 жыл бұрын
My parents were both alcoholics and drug addicts. Both narcissistic and emotionally absent. Even to this day at 49 years old I still struggle with the fact that my parents never cared. I try to make peace with the fact that they did not have the ability to see outside of themselves and it’s not my fault. I tried to get closer to my dad bye taking opiates together and drinking and then only made it very worse! My mother is extremely narcissistic yet for some reason I still feel the pool of codependency and trying to get her to acknowledge me/love me. I think my addictive nature came first with my relationship to these narcissist parents. Thank you for letting me share love you all very much thank you
@maris59302 жыл бұрын
I definitely identify with struggling to get a parent to care although logically I know she's incapable of giving love. It's hard to come to terms with no matter what age. Very best wishes with your recovery.
@agoodgurl2k2 жыл бұрын
I can identify, too. Except my emotionally absent is my husband. 😪
@ginabizzarosghosts78312 жыл бұрын
You're telling my story. You aren't alone. We can rise above this. With God in the center and a true commitment to change, addiction doesn't have to control our lives for one more day. God bless.
@MrFrankstanks2 жыл бұрын
your child background echos mine but it was my dad who is a violent criminal who was on heroin I got on it when I was in my 20s spent a few years on it but got help but i drink every day but gonna try and get sober will be 49 next june and its now or never for me. kind regards from the uk
@peterpetri85712 жыл бұрын
Maybe you can try the “ CODA “ 12 steps program . And if you are serious about your recovery that can help you!
@kirkemry82283 жыл бұрын
Excellent, Rich. Thank you. All of us in recovery are in this together.
@bienerbina45552 жыл бұрын
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@DanielLy12007 ай бұрын
4 months clean, still dealing with legal issues from getting arrested last year but I am doing better every day.
@henrykuyvenhoven2542 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. this is an amazingly powerful video. Thank you- I watched it on Monday 28th 2023 here in Germany. Pentecost. I believe the last speaker is the best. He said the truth about everyone when he said that to stop an addiction I have to realize that I don't want it. I want my life back I want to be me for the rest of my life and the addiction took it away. I think every addiction is precisely what he called it Nihilism "No more "I". The best that a person can ever give to this world is to just be themselves no matter how the rest of the world is trying to hammer them into their mold. Thanks.
@davidcarrillo7344 Жыл бұрын
In treatment now giving it my all. I need the change been to long coming I want soberity more then anything
@questionMark4443 Жыл бұрын
Sober 18 plus years 2 relapses in those 18 years and I paid dearly for the liver was not ready and cholesterol levels skyrocketed and they put stints in the first time and second and last time quadruple bypass. It was cool in my younger years and my family were drunken parties all the time people not blaming them. They didn’t have a clue about the dangers either. Don’t be ashamed just change when you’re ready to quit.
@Dtom322 жыл бұрын
Im 31 and have 14 years of opioid/heroin addiction with 30 days clean and still in withdrawals. Trying to prevent young teens from starting using substances is something I have been thinking about alot. I dont think having teachers/ parents talking to them about it really does anything. In my opinion I feel maybe once a year at school or something they should have people close to there age like mid 20s-30 max that have really went threw it hit them with real honest and brutal stories about how quickly the fun turns to pure hell
@Ledhoven2 жыл бұрын
Two concepts helped me greatly in this video. All addiction is a form of gambling And Stability doesn’t create discipline, Discipline creates stability.
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin increase libido and create stability
@Ledhoven2 жыл бұрын
@@fooddrugadministrator4079 thanks for your feedback on your personal experience.
@Bayoubebe2 жыл бұрын
Yes !
@ErickOberholtzer3 жыл бұрын
Personally I've turned to binge consumption due to feelings of near constant isolation. As a poor person in 21st century America, this has always been my normal. Still looking for my thing and community to get involved with.
@existentialhotdog53805 ай бұрын
Hey there! I often felt like I could never find my people…then I thought there was something wrong with me. Not the case. I’m 36 and two of my best friends are 67 and 56. I found I love older people because they are more honest, love in depth conversation and always have amazing stories. Sue and Karin are always there for me and have taught me so much about being an authentic person, how to not pretend in order to please others (politely) and I realized…I am an intense and curious person. Also silly. But not everybody can handle that and that’s okay. Karin used to be an employee of mine and Sue, my neighbor. It just happened organically. And let me tell ya- I do have friends my age, and I talk to everyone when I’m out and about. Because of my “childhood trauma,” I found little joy in conversations of the superficial. I want to talk to people about philosophy, books, life experiences, learning about how people got to where they are. I’m sure there are ways to connect with younger people my age, and I do…but I find that each friend knows me differently and everyone is beautiful in their own way. If I can’t connect easily, I just listen. And learn something new. I should probably learn to lighten up and be less heady but that is what stimulates me. Ha! Anyway- it took me until my 30s to really REALLY connect with people. I also had to be honest about who I was and not mask or pretend. That was huge for me. I always wanted people to like me…and they did because I fulfilled their friendship needs…but I was always left unfulfilled because I was hiding. With older people, I could just be myself and loved anyway. I’m ranting a bit, but showing myself authentically and not being afraid of that because of abandonment issues was a HUGE milestone. Connections are generally deeper and honest. When you stop hiding, others around you feel safe to come out…that is where connection often begins! You will find your people. I promise. Keep trying, figure out who you are if you don’t know yet. Much love and peace to you. Feel free to message me anytime!
@existentialhotdog53805 ай бұрын
Oh! Also, I’d like to add that when I felt isolated, I got the idea to volunteer at the animal shelter…I love dogs. It has REALLY helped my soul to get out there and connect while helping those that need it. Perhaps you could find something like that?! I know you didn’t ask for advice…so I hope I’m not being annoying. I just want the best for you. 🤍 Be well!
@vickysittig21792 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful, thank You!!! From a addict in active recovery with no cravings by staying busy, committed to taking my meds, and encouraged. My only regret is the lost of wasting valuable and quality time with my family and self. The ugly is still my challenge, thank you for your Priceless Time.
@miggi81443 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rich. Ive been waiting for an addiction episode and this surpasses my desires. You are a legend and someone I aspire to be like one day 🌈
@shawnmilton9796 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much Rich! I just discovered your podcast tonight, and I was completely blown away! Thank you for sharing and my goodness I needed to hear this. You’re a wonderful speaker and you speak the truth! I’m on the road to recovery and will be watching many of your other episodes from here on out. I just subscribed. I’m an alcoholic and I’m finally on the road to recovery. Your podcasts/videos are going to help me continue my journey. Thank you for doing what you do. Much appreciated, sir.
@StepZero003 жыл бұрын
This is an awesome series! There are so many misconceptions about addiction, thank you for putting these video clips together.
@daniellenicole-st5rr4 ай бұрын
I never thought I could quit, but I’m almost 2 years sober now but being around fellow addicts/ alcoholics was the savior for me, remember you’re now alone, and take it one day at a time
@monicaramirez510152 жыл бұрын
Celebrated 7 years 5-10-2022, by the grace of God and 12 Steps one day at a time ♥️
@monicaramirez51015 Жыл бұрын
By the grace of a loving GOD and AA 😊I AM coming up on 8 years sobriety 5-10-2023 ❤ I AM truly a miracle 😊please do not think you can’t get clean and sober ❤GOD LOVES YOU ❤
@elizabethwilliams6651 Жыл бұрын
Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment
@stephanie290 Жыл бұрын
Psychedelics have potential to deal with mental health issues like anxiety and depression. I would like to try them again but it's just so hard to source out here
@homeboyz3558 Жыл бұрын
I am feeling the same way too. I put too much on my plate and it definitely affect my stress and anxiety level. I am also glad to be a member of this community
@KateBeckinsale-ov4gc Жыл бұрын
The trip I have been having had really helped me a lot, I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane To me now seems incredible and full of nuance on top of that I am less driven by ego and I have a lot more empathy as well
@jeffsmith2447 Жыл бұрын
@@stephanie290 yeah dr_williams_tripsz
@jeffsmith2447 Жыл бұрын
I was having this constant unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I can across dr_william_tripsz a very intelligent mycologist, he saves my life
@Dr.RundaBomZim2 жыл бұрын
My husband continues the struggle but continues to makes progress.
@jodyking4378 Жыл бұрын
My 23 year old daughter is an addict. Alcohol, drugs, meds, and weed. It started with her being put on meds for anxiety as a teenager. As parents we had no idea of the link between antidepressants, anxiety meds and their link to causing addiction. More and more young people are being put on theses meds and it oftentimes leads to addiction. The medical community and the pharmaceutical companies are aware of this. We are loosing our loved ones daily, an epidemic of suicides, sudden deaths etc. When are we going to deal with this awful phenomenon? How many do we need to loose? But greed and money conquers all right? Heartbreaking! 😢
@marthakay21008 ай бұрын
17 years sober by the Grace of God!
@adrianlambert3453 Жыл бұрын
I'm about to start watching this 4 days before I am due to depart to detox and rehab.... Wish me luck....
@laza6141 Жыл бұрын
Good luck , stay strong.
@adrianlambert3453 Жыл бұрын
@@laza6141 thank you. :)
@jasondorymeade8419 Жыл бұрын
How have you got on..??
@lovebug88102 жыл бұрын
I’m 4 days sober. I have had a wake up call and I am at the point I don’t want it at all. I literally get sick of the thought of it. What did happen, what could’ve happened and what can happen. I don’t want to be in this situation ever again.
@shasmi932 жыл бұрын
Did you stay sober! :) hope so!
@livedhill16402 жыл бұрын
I'm wondering the same the thing 🤔
@ronnyreneraveen3 жыл бұрын
Amazing podcast. Soon 10 years into my recovery, I am aspiring to develope my self to become the Norwegian version of you. Thanks man 🙏❤
@CommercialArciaR. Жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@lucasjust3 жыл бұрын
It is wonderful to see such quality of content in YT. Thanks Rich and all your guests. I believe many people out there are in real need of these words.
@syzygy4365 Жыл бұрын
Prescription dependency is a thing. After learning about the cycles of tolerance I guess I can say I'm an addict. I know I can't go completely off my medication, but I will certainly be more mindful and respect my body. 😌
@CMoore8539 Жыл бұрын
I’m very happy to hear her say That all of us will get addicted to something! I’ve thought the same thing for a very long time. I just don’t know the answer to the problem. Society has got to come to this understanding. It’s not just drug or alcohol abuse, it’s Everything in America 🇺🇸! Our country needs help and this is spreading worldwide.
@jakstorm3180 Жыл бұрын
We're supposed to be addicted to christ we have all went blind. This very device is addiction
@CMoore8539 Жыл бұрын
@@jakstorm3180 It’s exactly addicting. Almost everyone is addicted to it.
@Userrr1089 Жыл бұрын
I’m not an addict but I’m a distructive drunk, it’s kinda ironic bc I don’t have anything “wrong” in my life and my mom doesn’t even know that I drink, and how awful I have gotten. I’m only 17 and I tell myself I’m just having fun and it’s part of life, but I keep making really bad mistakes every-time I drink and feel so much guilt, I’m trying to cut down on my drinking. wish me luck bc I’m going on vacation to Mexico in 6 days(which is where my alcohol abuse started)
@marlenedemke6690 Жыл бұрын
Me too. Any bad thing that has happened to me was linked to alcohol. I am 77 and sober thru AA for 2 years.
@priceton8416 Жыл бұрын
When there's darkness all around and don't see any light then be the light yourself. ''Change of perspective can literally change one's life'' if you're feeling down and out then remember this you are not alone 👍🏼👍🏼
@disease19763 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Rich! I love these compilation episodes, you've done so many amazing podcasts, it makes so much sense to revisit them and reuse these valuable parts.
@bridgetc.marinaccio80243 жыл бұрын
Rich- Your success is due to your ability to be honest and authentic! Courage! I am guessing that your addiction turned out to be one of the greatest things you ever experienced-it gave you all these beautiful gifts of recovery.
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin is the solution for every addiction except Porn addiction! I got off drugs and alcohol by watching Porn on Ritalin
@Dadsinrecovery3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rich. 40+ years in recovery. Learning more here. Love to chat sometime.
@debbiefinn64832 жыл бұрын
Omg that's an amazing amount of time in recovery... I'm 13 months sober after years of chronic alcohol abuse plus my doctor has been amazing with the correct meds and genuinely caring that I succeed... X
@christinemillman10932 жыл бұрын
Congrats to you!!! 34 years for me...Once I understood dopamine and why my drug of choice was what it was, i started to hear birds chirping, the richness of fresh orange juice and the beauty of blue skies AND clouds. Stay well and all the best to you! and to everyone who struggles with addiction...
@njvalueinvestor2 жыл бұрын
Guest #2. My wife and I are parents first, second, & third. Talking to children about health, school, chores, and life flows between the boundaries of respect and smart choices. Conversations start early, continuously change, and continue indefinately.
@adriaanpretorius10732 жыл бұрын
Wow well sed. And listened
@bobbobarino62132 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for giving inspiration concerning addiction and recovery. I am 4 months clean and getting better day by day.
@CommercialArciaR. Жыл бұрын
GOD bless you
@bobbobarino6213 Жыл бұрын
@@CommercialArciaR. Tx I appreciate that. I am 9 months clean now. The healing continues
@CommercialArciaR. Жыл бұрын
Good job 👍
@taylorarnath80136 ай бұрын
Still clean?
@bobbobarino62136 ай бұрын
@@taylorarnath8013 yes sir coming up on 2 years this month
@Harryavida2 жыл бұрын
Such an intelligent, comprehensive examination of what addiction is, why it is and how facing up to it is a noble thing to do. Thanks Rich - really appreciate you.
@conniemarlow97192 жыл бұрын
How wonderful your show is!!!!!! Much LOVE and appreciation from EAST TENNESSEE 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕.
@adriedrake8605 Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend of 5 yrs is in rehab now. I told him I need him sober. I just know how amazing he is that he can do it💪🏻. I can't marry him until he seeks help. This time will give me time to forgive all the lies and hurt feelings. I'm praying he will come out a new man but still love me. ✝️ Congratulations on your sobriety. 👏🏻
@courtneywalker9312 жыл бұрын
I am working on 2 years of sobriety, I lost my dad to sorosis 2 years ago. It was a hard look in the mirror but I dedicate my freedom from alcohol to my dad. I love you and miss you everyday. God works in mysterious ways bc I now work with other addicts and alcoholics.
@AZtoNC6 ай бұрын
I’m five days away from picking up my 1 year chip, after my heart attack earlier this spring it’s been harder and harder to not fall into a cycle of thinking about going back out. I’ve prob attended 300 meetings (AA) since I put “the plug in the jug” addiction is real, everyone who cares about me is worried. One day at a time folks. It’s the only way. Thanks Mr. Roll and God Bless
@mistypfitzer1113 ай бұрын
Dont quit 5 min b4 your miracle! 😊❤️🫶
@Rue1503 жыл бұрын
This came at just the right time for me. Thank you 💕
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin is the solution for every addiction except Porn and xxx addiction
@kevinw25692 жыл бұрын
10 X better than a University Course on addiction and way cheaper. Thanks Rich!
@christinemillman10932 жыл бұрын
Ted Talks have some pretty amazing clips...
@jamess16972 жыл бұрын
I've been an addict with opiads my drug of choice for 15 years it's pure hell .. it's the one thing that even a selfish addicted mind wouldn't wish upon even there worst enemies
@dianeleirer98783 жыл бұрын
This compilation of discussions is so powerful. It can and will help so many people either experiencing addiction or knowing someone experiencing addiction. Knowledge = power. Rich Roll, thank you for this video. 💚
@fooddrugadministrator40792 жыл бұрын
Ritalin is the solution for every addiction except Porn addiction! I got off drugs and alcohol with my heart by watching Porn
@markg.4246 Жыл бұрын
"Knowledge" is knowledge. The REAL power comes from taking ACTION. Recovery is NOT an intellectual proposition. All the best, Mark 5/8/1994
@Chris-mb5lh2 жыл бұрын
I've always said "just wait - look at your watch if you have to - and watch five minutes pass... " even with cigarettes... it did help me... facing it is frightful but luckily I chose to do so... its temporary... addiction is for life.
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
"Why is it that I can't override that impulse"? There are exceptions to everything, but from my own experience and listening to thousands of others describe their experience, we have an allergy to alcohol which triggers a mental obsession. Like those who have peanut allergies, or are allergic to be stings, etc, our bodies process alcohol differently than a "normal drinker. The chronic stage, and the progression to it can be immediate, or take years to reach. Addiction is the inability to choose in the traditional sense. Willpower is an illusion. Intellectual prowess is an illusion. Reasoning is an illusion. The only way to overcome it, is by taking ACTION! We take action we don't believe in, and get results we can't explain! The reality for most people trying to recover from ANY addiction, is that they're NOT willing to put forth an effort, compared with the monumental effort they put into drinking or using!
@susanclarke24392 жыл бұрын
Holy Spirit.......
@whitneylstone18322 жыл бұрын
Thought the same. I didn't love myself not heal. Keep at it I promise will come. Heal yourself. Truly love yourself
@whitneylstone18322 жыл бұрын
Put forth effort???? Nooooooo!!! That's the sooo misconception. We want to stop but we will keep that buried. We are miserable n want to be rescued usually
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
@@whitneylstone1832 Very little is achieved in life without an effort, so please enlighten me about the "misconception".
@happiness4beginners4493 жыл бұрын
Thank you this episode as a gift and a tool I will be sharing it with my partner she has struggled with addiction off and since he was 19 it's now 54 and has just been diagnosed with a form of cancer she has to get himself well in order to fight what's coming next and not just for a period of time but for life I will be sending him this episode
@jamierupert10082 жыл бұрын
Are you talking about a he or she or different people? I'm confused. You say both in your comment.