10 Reasons Why Being UNMARRIED Over 30 in India is TOUGHER Than You Think

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Saurabh Srivastava

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@saurabh.sri.vastava 3 ай бұрын

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@abhisheksing8379 3 ай бұрын

One thing that I never understood about sex as a "need" is that if a vast majority of Indian men could do without sex starting from the age they hit puberty till the age of 28-30 when they get married, why would someone experience an uncontrollable urge to have sex regularly? Many people, like me, can do without any sex at all. There are other ways to relieve sexual tension, like masturbation, etc. Am I abnormal?

@TOP5हिन्दी-p5k 2 ай бұрын

yes you are abnormal

@VerenaEllis Ай бұрын

No, you aren't.

@kandycan 3 ай бұрын

poverty is even tougher than being single. stay single, build yourself and the country a legacy.

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

Getting married to a woman who also makes money, is a wealth hack. Your household income doubles and expenses become almost half....

@kandycan 2 ай бұрын

@@saurabh.sri.vastava i don't want wealth hack. It's not wealth hack. It's just trade. If you are marrying someone for money, then you got it all wrong.

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

Bhai pyar k liye shadi krlo....pyar me to log jhopdi me bhi khushi se reh lete hain 💀

@kandycan 2 ай бұрын

@@saurabh.sri.vastava marriage is just a social construct. It has no meaning. It is a legal thing. That makes u commit to a person legally. U do not have to do it if it's actually love.

@kandycan 2 ай бұрын

@@saurabh.sri.vastava when divorce happens, It will lead to men getting penalized. Their life savings and assets are split. If it's love or relationship, then law has no place in it. Law or govt is the 3rd party. Or middleman.

@Azhar-zf5js 3 ай бұрын

You've explained it so well...I watched so many videos but nobody covered this aspect in such detail. Thanks bro for making this video. I needed it. I always thought about the disadvantages of getting married but never paid attention to disadvantages of not getting married. Kudos to you bro. I am excited to see more such videos from you!

@AryanKulkarni-td9zp 3 ай бұрын

Bro makes videos only for those who don't own a house 😂

@saurabh.sri.vastava 3 ай бұрын

It's not like that😅 I don't know what makes you think so

@crandor3986 3 ай бұрын

@@saurabh.sri.vastavaWell I am a bachelor at 35 and own a home so first two points won't be applicable for me but for others I agree

@sachinp5160 3 ай бұрын

True. Mostly for those who dont own house

@Mohit-ev4pu 2 ай бұрын

bhai ka channel kuch jyada hi under rated hai sach me real me kafi acha content banaya hai

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

Thanks Bhai🙏

@MrBlackjack456 2 ай бұрын

Bhai tujhe laws pata nahi hai lagta hai. Divorce, alimony aur maintenance ka naam suna hai kya? Yeh shaadi ke side effects hote hai. Today women bring almost nothing to the table. Khaya piya kuch nahi glass toda baara aana, woh wala scene hai. The problem that you have mentioned are valid but very miniscule compared to the risks associated with marriage these days.

@avelinev8238 3 ай бұрын

Great video!! ❤ Would also like a video on whether to have kids or not. I have this rule that until and unless I have my own house I won't have kids but by the time I'll get one I'll be in my 30's.Now as a female medical complications increase after 30's when it comes to pregnancy. Another question would be Is it okay to not have kids if we can't afford one (along with satisfying our dreams and luxuries) ? Will we be accepted by the society? Will we miss out on a major joy in life??

@saurabh.sri.vastava 3 ай бұрын

The fact that you are asking this... means you want to have children. You also want to give them the best life that's possible otherwise you wouldn't be thinking so much about having a home first so that your kids have a safe space to grow. Firstly, if you are gonna have kids you must have them before 30s as your biological clock is ticking. With age complications can occur during pregnancy as you already are aware! Secondly, You can afford to delay buying a house bcoz it is possible to earn more money. But you can't afford to delay having kids as you can't buy time and youth! Also, the joy that children bring into our lives cannot be matched by other kinds of Joys that comes with money and luxury... After a point when you will have satisfied your dreams and luxuries, you will feel an emptiness in life. So you better have children and work hard to provide them a good life. Not everyone can buy a home before they have children. If you think like that you will miss out on life. When you are unable to take a decision, it's better to think in terms of what you don't want first...what you can't afford to do (like you can't afford a late pregnancy bcoz of complications due to age). That makes it easier to decide to have kids early bcoz you have no other choice.

@suniltransport6739 2 ай бұрын

Awesome

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

Thanks🙏 Check out my other videos of the playlist "MARRIAGE". More videos to be added. Consider SUBSCRIBING.

@mehulpatil221 2 ай бұрын

I am 23 looking at the exp in current scenario especially kids eduation is really expensive here in mumbai junior kg kids school fees are aprrox 50000 to 100000 rupees yearly and after 8yrs if i have to get married and have kids i would have to sell my whole body for there education 😂😂😂

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

Don't worry..I have a solution to this problem. I will make a video on this😉

@abhiverma-l2t 3 ай бұрын

In 90 percent cases women don't do job after marriage

@anshu5518 2 ай бұрын

My sister was forced to leave job by in laws to give more time to care of in laws and kids Ladki kare to kare kya 😂

@gamert-rex4042 3 ай бұрын

Some points is useless bro😅 Not everyone want everyday sex Aur someone's compony some introverts happy with own self...

@saurabh.sri.vastava 3 ай бұрын

Firstly, It's not useless just bcoz it is not applicable to you. There are always some exceptions. Secondly, sexual desire has nothing to do with introvertness. This point makes even more sense for introverts bcoz they don't socialize much. It's not like introverts don't like to socialize..they just prefer meaningful interactions versus socializing just for the sake of it. A stable life-partner is even more important for introverts because they are terrible at going out and meeting people, dating, etc.

@kshitijbharadwaj33 3 ай бұрын

@@saurabh.sri.vastava Agree, and being an introverted married man myself, I kinda repented getting married, but you have made some great points supported with a lot of rationality.

@RanjanRai-jr9on 3 ай бұрын

It's mostly hard for Women

@SauravKumar-ct9ig 3 ай бұрын

but on the other side it will close down startups like prime and netflix. Which in turn will lead to job loss, so how will you pay for 1 bhk :D

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

You opened my eyes 👀

@AmanSingh-ej5ds 3 ай бұрын

Love you brother. Sometimes it felt like you were speaking for me

@AnsonMadtha 3 ай бұрын

Bakwas hai just check the expenses of married people, woman is not working after kids born, just check the school fees, and other expenses, after marriage in case you lose the job defiantely wife will leave you anyway if you dont have money, if you are not married you will save more money for your old age , for men if he have enough saving he can get woman even if he is 60 also if he required

@Ashishsingh-bl3qq 2 ай бұрын

Bhai Mai financially stable nahi hu. Ab b kya marriage kr lu

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

Bhai Job wali ladki se krlo shadi...dhirubhai ambani ne jb shadi kri thi to wo financially stable the? Shahrukh Khan ne jb shadi kri thi to wo financially stable tha?

@Ashishsingh-bl3qq 2 ай бұрын

@@saurabh.sri.vastava na mai dhiru hu na SRKn... Mai hu Kallu kaliya

@saurabh.sri.vastava 2 ай бұрын

Bhai west indies jake shadi krlo

@Ashishsingh-bl3qq 2 ай бұрын

@@saurabh.sri.vastava Racism ki jagh nahi iis duniya mai