10 Signs A Guy Is USING You For EGO Validation

[@spaceybree3609]

1. Puts all the attention on himself 2. Keeps pulling you back just when your energy starts to pull away 3. You’re chasing him for all the dates 4. He’s charming when he’s with you & strangely distant when he’s not 5. He has another love interest around 6. He’s jealous of you with other guys but doesn’t want to be exclusive with you 7. He’s avoiding introducing you to his friends and family 8. He’s not interested in pleasing you during sex 9. He hides his socials from you 10. He’s hiding his phone

[@faithfulgal3003]

I’m aware 😊

[@Emmm-ii6tx]

Met a guy at the gym who approached me.. pursued me.. gave me all the choosing signals of a “shy man” blah blah so his slow moving and not progressing to asking me out but always flirting with me and following me around gave me red flag vibes that he’s just using me for an ego trip.. ends up he’s MARRIED.. never told me.. didn’t wear a ring.. I just had a gut feeling something was off and pressured him and he admitted it.. they aren’t asking you out because they are SHY ladies they are most likely married or has a gf and is using you as an ego trip …

[@DanteVelasquez]

What a selfish jerk. I have had these experiences too.

[@francoisnel5253]

Guys who spent their time talking to women at the gym should already say something. I go to train and go home, not socialize or sit on my phone as it the norm these days.

[@tinamaannglintek7191]

4 years in LDR any advice?