10 Style Mistakes I Regret Making -- Fashion Trends 2021

[@maribellelebre6809]

Leaving a bunch of pieces that don't fit is one thing, but what I've done was hang on to exceptional pieces and am glad I have! I fit into them again!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Phew!

[@maribellelebre6809]

@@Thestyleinsider. Right?!?!? A half a closet-full of nothing that special won't motivate, but remembering how you feel wearing something wow and how that glory feels better than sugar - and without all the negative consequences too. Removing all the other ordinary stuff (upcycle or donate) makes the extra-ordinary stand out even more in the closet. Made me think about it a lot =: )

[@MK-hh1vo]

Yes! I have a collection of "decommissioned clothes" which are items that are too small but I will NEVER let go of. Durimg 2020 I finally fit into many of them again after a dacade! Those pieces were inspiring.

[@l.b.3470]

I am guilty of every single one of the style mistakes you mention. How about a video on how to organize jewelry and accessories to make them more accessible? Mine tend to be out of sight, out of mind. Thanks for another great video, Leonie! 😊❤

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Great idea! Thanks

[@LaPinturaBella]

I used to be the same. I started collecting really pretty small trays for earrings, bracelets and rings and bought a few pretty multiple hook wall plaques to hang necklaces on in my bedroom. Now my jewelry is organized AND visible and gets worn.

[@LaPinturaBella]

@@Kelly-pp1et Great minds! 🥳

[@thecourageouschristian]

Excellent point about not having clothes that don’t fit you starting at you everytime you go to get dressed. ⭐️

[@marlyswilliams9949]

To this day, I think of two Harris Tweed blazers that I parted with and a purple pair of Converse sneakers. Wasn’t making good use of the items at the time, but would have later. Accessories are the key for me these days. Organizers with clear drawers keep all at hand and save time. Accommodate rings, bracelets, necklaces. Forget the little boxes.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh yes little boxes will ensure your jewels NEVER see the light of day right?! Sounds like you've got a great thing going on :)

[@MagellanMG]

Good for you for promoting body positivity in this video. Its so important that we accept our perceived flaws; big feet, belly pooch, chubby thighs. We tend to be our own worst critics. You are in a position to help others feel better about how they look, keep it up!! 💝

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thx Michelle 😁

[@mming4351]

I agree with you 💯 I could listen to you talk about fashion all day I truly love your channel 💗 another great video

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thank you so much Maria that's so kind of you to say and such a lovely comment to start my day :)

[@TampaTodayRealEstate]

Accessories if they hiding you can not see them , so you don't wear them. Need to declutter often. It seems after Covid my style has evolved and become more relaxed.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes I think you're not alone in your style changing and becoming more relaxed post Covid!

[@54Mello]

Fear of judgment! That’s definitely me! I’ve worked retail all of my adult life. It was my career and I loved every second. Through the years I’ve bought beautiful pieces but I was never comfortable of wearing them because I was surrounded by people who always dressed down and always felt the need to comment on what I was wearing :(. I am still buying pretty dresses, suits, blouse and wear them on holidays or on a night out with hubby and my grown children…always away from the people who still feel the need to say something 40 years later.

[@deniseweaver107]

I am guilty of all those except the sparkly pieces. You’ve inspired me to evaluate my wardrobe.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Glad the video inspired you Denise :)

[@welcomwelcom9882]

So true re sparkly clothes I bought 2 beautiful sequined blazers and a top for that "special occasion". Amost 2 yrs still haven't worn them.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh nooooooooooo!

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

LOL, there’s a 2 year old sparkly blazer (that I LOVE) and a 3 year old sequined top hanging in my closet, never worn. At least we can blame COVID for about half of that time. Thing is, I love festive clothing, but I’m a pretty extreme introvert and hate actually going to parties! 🤦🏼‍♀️ So I end up with a wardrobe for a life I don’t lead. The old “cost-per-wear” fashion mistake!

[@kikiprimavera9203]

@@altitudeiseverything3163 Many years ago, I bought a pair of sequins black skinny pants. And wore them going out weekend nights, new year’s parties, etc. Nowadays since my personality changed, became an introvert, that adores living in sweat pants, started and sold lots from my closet on Poshmark. P.S: I’m working on becoming a minimalist 👍🏻😊

[@welcomwelcom9882]

They're Italian bought them on 70% discount. Have no regrets and maybe I'll wear them next year lol!

[@tracyboyall2631]

I love colour and have even had a neutrals-wearing lady tell me how she envied my 'courage' in wearing bright colours! The shiny things and pieces that no longer fit I can relate to, done both. I have wide feet so often buy a size or two bigger just to get the width. I'm the opposite to you with letting things go. I keep clothes for years.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for sharing Tracy and I used to be like that "neutrals'wearing lady: LOL :)

[@susannapotter1859]

Some of your recent videos reintroduced me to color! Tangerine, bright pinks, greens and blues - and the links you provide made these clothing pieces easier to find 🖒😊

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Aww that’s great to hear thx Susanna 😊

[@teresaquenneville5303]

I retired last year and because of Covid did not go out much. I stopped wearing jewelry everyday. I now put on jewelry everyday again because it makes me feel better and I want to show off the beautiful pieces that I have!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes it makes so much sense to wear and enjoy the pieces we own right?

[@Olenka_prozorova]

Finally someone can officially admit that we need colors🙏😍I ve been wearing different colors constantly. I ve had less than 10 pieces of clothing that were black for ALL my life guys. Since high school😀but yet every fashionista keep saying wear all black. Monochromatic black outfits are looking great. No! Black is not an answer for everyone. I don’t even have a black purse and I don’t need one. Please be creative with colors. Black is a color of grief or bad mood. It can be sophisticated but in an evening gown, not for everyday life. Be happy be positive. ❤️🥺love you all

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Colour definitely makes me happy :)

[@chrislaing6530]

Wow. I can relate to every one of those points. I’ve gotten rid of things I should have kept. I don’t wear my accessories enough. And I should be braver on some styles that I love.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for sharing Chris!!

[@mqua4610]

I subscribed to your channel about 3 months ago or so and just getting around to binge watching some vlogs I missed. The tip about accessing your accessories is great! That is so much a fault I have! I’m currently watching and reorganizing my jewelry so I can grab to complete my looks. The great news is that I’m shopping in my closet as I’ve found many pieces and are now trending but we’re lost to the back of the closet for years and years. Thanks!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Awesome! That is so great to hear and thank you for watching my videos - hope you find a few more little gems amongst them :)

[@emmaacadet5376]

Very candid. I appreciate your video and I can relate to many of your "so called mistakes".I think with time we learn a lot and we are wiser. Thanks again.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for watching Emma :)

[@annewiseman9983]

I love sequins and metallics and I wear them all the time in daywear. I dress them down with t shirts and sneakers and I just love them. In fact, one morning when I was in the lift going to work, a lady commented that I didn’t have my shiny jacket on. I had worn a champagne sequin blazer to work the previous day. She then went on to say that it was gorgeous on. That put a smile on my face…

[@kimmysmall8705]

I definitely agree with you on many of the regrets. My lovely jewelry is dying to get out of the house but never does

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes our poor jewellery collections - we need to free them LOL :)

[@ginamihailidis4444]

Soooo many uncomfortable shoes(yet cute)and clothes! Ahhhh how I wish I could go back and just shake my 20yr old self back to sense😂Valid tips Leonne.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Me too Gina!!!

[@deniseoates7147]

Sequin thrifter addict here. I float to the rack when glimmer light is caught by a garment. I see where you coming from but I guess if we don't try to limit it to dressing up, it would open up our options for wearing these pieces. Guilty of neglect of accessories. I need to do better because I have a lot of them and it could uplift a look and my mood. This would be an excellent chance to add bold color or print to an outfit Thanks for sharing and blessing to you and all in the days to come,

[@Thestyleinsider.]

At least you're thrifting your sequins Denise and not over spending on them and yes I need to rework my accessories system to be honest as it's not working as well for me as it could. Thanks for watching :)

[@SoNick25]

Hey Magpie!!! No, don't have that problem. I have had the SIZE and COMFORT problem and recently donated some lovely t-shirts that were still in very good condition because they were too small. Not really too small because they were my size, just the fit was not right to be comfortable. If I had sized up originally I would still have them!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Ah that's such a shame!

[@debbieduran6791]

I like to buy dresses, then I hardly wear them!

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

Same here and just bought 2 more! However, I’m determined not to let my nicest items languish in the back of my closet any more. One of my kids visited last weekend and I wore one of my new dresses, along with cute shoes, just to have lunch on the deck. It was fun! After more than a year of staying home, it may take a while for me to master applying makeup again, though. Baby steps, LOL.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes I know what you mean but you may just need to bite the bullet and wear the dress :) Might just take a little getting used to :)

[@martal662]

If you live in USA there's like nowhere to wear dresses maybe a church, majority of people dress awful here

[@LaPinturaBella]

@@martal662 All the more reason to wear your dresses and other stylish outfits. It makes you the most elegant woman on the planet in comparison and gives you a lot of confidence. Let the slobs be slobs.

[@martal662]

@@LaPinturaBella You are absolutely right,I will definitely take your advice,thank you

[@ct7422]

Total magpie here!!! Everything sparkly I LOVE it!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

We need a magpie anon club LOL :)

[@elizabethwaldorf9275]

I relate to the "not wearing my accessories", especially jewelry. Thanks for the reminder!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

I was kind of reminding myself by mentioning this point too LOL :)

[@kylepifer9509]

I hate to fight with my clothes! I’m also drawn to the shiny things and brightly colored. But like you said can’t wear them so much because everyone remembers that you wore them. The way I do shiny ✨ is in my watch bands and jewelry and purses 👛. Everyone always notices m glittery watch band even if it’s only an Apple Watch. I love color in my purses because so many people just use the same one till it wears out. I have a LV bag but no one notices it or mentions it where if I have a bright colored or some print people will notice it ( like one of my drs) .

[@Thestyleinsider.]

That's interesting Kyle and a lovely way to add sparkle and colour :)

[@judithjensen2457]

Each and Every One!! But..... I've been an avid collector for decades retaining key pieces not only from my grandmother's, my parents, and now my daughter's and granddaughter's closets, but my own picks. I don't regret much but I do know there are hidden gems in my storage. A goal for my 7th decade is to really organize and archive. And to share.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh I love this Judith - esp your last point!

[@MK-hh1vo]

Love that number 1 is sparkly things!!! I have the same problem! 😄 I describe my style aesthetic as "tacky". Sorry that you abandoned the number system after 3; the numbers make it easy to reference the issues. There were others I relate to but I forgot them without the numbers. Perhaps you list them in the description? I check.

[@peachesinfall]

I really connect with the fashion pictures you choose!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

That's great to hear thank you :)

[@shawnasomers9127]

Guilty as charged!!! I used to wear low rise jeans…thought they looked good on me but when i think back , not so much 😳 They were so uncomfortable, constantly pulling them up! And i have items that i won’t wear around certain people for fear of judgment but i personally love them. Love your channel, ( and your accent) Side note…i can speak for so many of us in Canada who are so impressed with how New Zealanders have been handling Covid! Love your Prime Minister!!

[@tamiewert808]

I really feel you on the jewellery! I have so many pieces, and I have to make an effort to wear them! I still have things with tags on them! What am I saving them for!!?? I too am overly influenced by what I see online. I am petite and pear shaped, and I need to remind myself that the models wearing the clothes are not my body shape.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes it's so easy to be overly influenced - I find this esp happens to me when I'm not feeling 100% arrgggghhh!

[@vernicelizeify]

I never throw away my clothing because trends come back and the clothes seem refreshing to wear again 😆

[@Thestyleinsider.]

That sounds great!

[@elizabeths4272]

I can totally relate to wearing too much black and purchasing items even though they were not comfortable. I have been embracing more colour and recently consigned a dozen pairs of designer shoes - most were only worn once or twice because they hurt my feet so much! Thank you for such awesome, relatable content!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Glad we can learn from our mistakes right?! Thanks for watching and I'm pleased you enjoyed this one :)

[@joycepenn6123]

I am guilty, like you say, to purchase glitzy sparkle or sequined clothing, boots and handbags!!! I need to work them more into my daily wear since lockdowns are over. Also got to agree that since lockdowns, I've gotten out of the habit to use my accessories....I need to begin doing that again. Thanks for your tips! I wish we could upload videos to show our clothing or organization of footwear or clothing.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Funny you say that Joyce as I've wished that KZbin would allow comments to have the option to include photos too - it would be so awesome. Hopefully one day they will :)

[@nancybosse645]

I can relate to all those style mistakes!!

[@nicki66]

I too was someone who wore black, grays and have now embraced more colour. I wish I felt more comfortable colour combining. I admire people who can pull it off, including my daughter. I also agree to not hang on to things that don’t fit you or don’t make you feel great. I hang on to them for a certain period of time but if they continue to be blah I give them to goodwill. The shoe one I can soooo relate to. No more…the value of less insecurity and loving myself. I also do the laziness with jewelry sometimes. I sometimes fall into a rut. These were great tips…I could relate to every one. 😂

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Sorry you could relate to them Nicole and wasn't the shoe thing the WORST? Our poor feet!

[@nicki66]

@@Thestyleinsider. LOL! The torture we have put ourselves through in the name of fashion. I am so glad that I have realized that beauty and fashion is also about looking comfortable in our skin and clothes. Thanks for the great channel!

[@esmereldahakk1660]

Everyone is always saying purge, purge, purge your wardrobe. I hate that. I always regret having gotten rid of things later.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes I think it's okay to purge within reason and as long as there has been some serious thought in first :)

[@hydeliberaadanhoun2184]

I love Sequins and metallics and i agree with you, although i love having them in my wardrobe i still haven't got my cost per wear satisfaction.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

So disappointing right?

[@denasharpe2393]

I am so odd...buy things with shine and glitter but bring it home and strip off the " fancy" just feel foolish wearing it as is!!

[@OlderWomenRock]

A bird here yes too much sparkle . Hanging onto jeans I can’t fit into hoping one day .My system definitely needs an over haul . Definitely only wearing few pieces .

[@Thestyleinsider.]

My system needs a little fine-tuning just to keep it sharp :)

[@sandralambchop]

Thank you so much for sharing and being honest about your mistakes 💗

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for watching 😊

[@ufosrus]

Two things on this list I identify with are: getting rid too soon of something I end up missing later and feeling intimidated by a garment I love but I am shy to wear more often. Otherwise I love color but will shy away from very bright, intense colors. And definitely never been a "magpie" (funny term) but I've eyed some sequined pencil skirts that look gorgeous but I have yet to purchase one. Thanks again Leonie for a wonderful video! I'm definitely one of your biggest fans!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks so much Jacqueline. Isn't it crazy we can feel intimated to wear something that we love?!

[@valoriegriego5212]

I identify with several of your style mistakes. I enjoyed this one...lots of great advice for a healthy soul (mind, will, emotions).🙂

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Ahh I’m so glad you can relate Valorie and it’s not just me lol 😆

[@gillianbarker5194]

Have lots of beautiful acces but sadly I tend to wear the same ones all the time. I'm just too lazy. Silly really. Also tend to 'save' my best clothes as opposed to wearing them.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes I'm guilty of saving my best clothes too :(

[@yogithashetty2587]

Brilliant points from buying shiny sequence outfit to giving away one’s jewellery to someone else and buying something that looks great on the internet- have all been my case as well! Still working on it too

[@Thestyleinsider.]

So true!

[@katherineblanco9471]

I love the sequin tops that go with many things, jeans skirt or pants . Also since being in a few lockdowns , I made the effort to always wear my best clothes, why leave this in the cupboard. Look great every time you leave the house. With lockdown all my watches stopped working , now realise we have too much. One watch battery for my favourite watch. You can only wear one at a time. Great tips.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for sharing Katherine!

[@carolmaughan256]

Thank you so much for the reminder that i really need to sort, and rediscover, my jewellery

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Wonderful!

[@lindacaffalette8927]

💟💜💟 Yes, definitely relate to not wearing my (may I state) "excessive" amount of jewelry & keep to only a few pieces. I have recently changed that pattern. I think the last year+ since I've been lounging around so much more have gotten into that monotonous rut however breaking out of it now !!! Hurrah 💟💜💟

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yay! Let's all break out of it together!!!

[@ufosrus]

We're all come out of our bunkers slowly. 😊

[@toott]

Yes Leonie, I have that same problem with my jewelry pieces. They’re not easily accessible, so I don’t wear a lot of it. I just purchased a second hand jewelry box that’s almost as big as I am. So hopefully that’ll help since I plan to put it someplace that’s easy for me to get to🤞🏽

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Wow your jewellery box sounds AMAZING!

[@toott]

@@Thestyleinsider. haha. Now if I could just make time to put the jewelry in it🤣

[@lucybraun8969]

Yes, if I don't plan my outfits, I often forget accessories that I have that would have gone great with the outfits. And yes, I hugely regret having given away a beautiful grey wool coat. Wool is so hard to find these days.

[@Trissa.33]

Such a great video, Leoni, thank you! Oh my gosh though, I have a short sparkly kimono that I absolutely love, had it for years and years and never worn it! I was laughing at myself the other day, sorting through my clothes, and there it was again.. folded it back up and put it away again :-D I relate to so many of your points on here!!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh that is so sad about your sparkly kimono - maybe you just need to unfold it and make yourself wear it. But yes you're not alone I've done that with my sparkly pieces and it's too sad.

[@Trissa.33]

@@Thestyleinsider. you know what I did due to your video, I unfolded it and hung it on my rail so I can see and enjoy it. I may even wear it! Thanks Leoni. You're so lovely the way you respond to everyone who comments. I love your videos, you're like to a friend to us all, looking out for us from a fashion perspective :) x

[@susanholl5994]

#1 finding something that looks okay so I buy the exact same thing in multiple colors cuz I'm lazy. I do this with tees, tanks, jeans, barefoot dreams cardigans, and for some reason moto jackets. #2. Soft fuzzy/furry outdoorsy fleece. I'm a human muppet all winter. #3 failure to accessorize. Same earrings, necklace, bag every day.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

"human muppet" made me lol :) But I bet you're snuggly and super comfy?!

[@ufosrus]

A human muppet? 😄

[@candyce6233]

This list definitely hits home for me. Every one of them!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Eek 😬 🙊👍🏼

[@amy_ro]

I agree with everything and I’ve definitely done all of these things! Great tips of properly merchandising your accessories and wardrobe - as they say, out of sight, out of mind, and I hate to come across beautiful pieces that I haven’t reached for because I simply didn’t see them when getting ready! As for wearing a lot of black, I will say that black can look more expensive. I think it’s harder for me to find colorful items at more affordable price points because color is very unforgiving when it comes to the fabric or manufacturing; every stitch out of place, bad lining, or misaligned seam will stand out, and any sheerness that isn’t intentional looks off. I do live for those affordable gems, but I acknowledge that it’s often a trade off. I ordered a maxi dress in black and red and the red unfortunately highlighted too many construction “issues” (to me), so I returned it. It’s always worth trying though! Just to push yourself out of the style rut.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

I think I'm really going off the idea now thanks to all of my lovely viewers - so thanks for sharing your opinion :)

[@judithomas5504]

Sparkles, yes…accessory rut, should have kept a few great pieces. Working on what works for me! Thanks for great reminders.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

You are so welcome!

[@georgiaglekas5752]

Hello. Love colors in any season. It makes me feel so much more good. No matter what is going on, around me. 😀🌻 Here for summer to come.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Same here!

[@lindagrace6725]

I’m a magpie. I’ve bought several sequinned items but still haven’t worn them.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh nooooo that’s so sad 😭

[@j.rosario9006]

Same!🤦🏻‍♀️

[@AccessoriesAddict5528]

Me too. 😔

[@carolyngibson7723]

Re the merchandising of accessories. I’ve just put my favourite, wearable and current jewellery into a jewellery tray from Kmart so I can see it all in one place. Previously everything was hidden away in the original boxes. Now I’m aiming to switch up at least one piece every day.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

That's such a great idea Carolyn - I LOVE Kmart!

[@AS-nl7lb]

I have so much black clothes. I want to try new colors too.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes that was me and when I started wearing more colour it truly was life changing. At first it's easiest to wear colour paired with denim instead of your black pieces - it's less jarring if that makes sense?

[@janeseemann2527]

I can definitely relate to the accessories issue. I worked at home in 2020 and am now taking a 6 months hiatus. So I just haven’t bothered with accessories - now I think I’ve forgotten how to use them. 🥴 Actually, I can really relate to all the categories you talked about! My biggest thing is that I need to really focus on clothes for my lifestyle. Also, I am far too attracted to statement pieces and don’t have enough of the foundation pieces.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes I think you're in very good company being attracted to statement pieces. Foundation pieces are often really boring to buy and it can be hard spending the money on them but we all know how important they actually are :)

[@nicola646]

I am the opposite, I am petite so are my feet, so I used to buy shoes that were too big. I thought I could just use silicon pads on the back of the heels. That was so wrong, I tried so hard to keep my feet in place so I got bunions 😢😢 I've learned my lesson, now I'd rather not buy the shoes if they are not my size.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Wow! That's so interesting to me. We both wanted what the other had. Just shows how pointless it was right? Oh and btw I got bunions too - arrggghhhhh!

[@tuxedoneko9837]

Same here Nicola. I have tiny feet and i don't want to wear children's shoes

[@TiaBanana]

Could you do a video for flattering fall/winter looks for the bigger girl? Everything looks GREAT on runway models...

[@ludmilamudrikova]

Yes i do love sparkles...haven't had a courage to buy one until now...i bought a top and just figuring out how to wear it down...maybe sneakers😁😁...and also yes to colours, i need to admit i discovered them just now too😁guess with age😂 but i do own some bold ones and enjoying it so far👌👍👍

[@Thestyleinsider.]

The sneakers sound like a great idea with your sparkles!!!!

[@karenmickens1239]

Many times I have worn outfits with regret and although I might get compliments, I feel I could have done it better.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Aww maybe you’re extra hard on yourself? Just a thought cause it sounds like you were doing a lot right to get lovely comments 😊

[@janicevin4207]

I have a small closet so I bought a rack and each season I take out the pieces I need and hang them on the rack, there is a shelf which I use for the bags and I put the shoes underneath on the floor. I had your problem with the accessories so I chose the seasonal pieces of jewellery and put them in a drawer in a cabinet I have in my room, it is a cabinet with glass doors and shelves on each side for books, I took the books out and put my bigger seasonal statement jewellery so I can see them.

[@jenniferdube4966]

Excellent ideas. Thanks.

[@jajatime9724]

I thumbs up even before watching the video. Another informative video as always.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yay that's super cool to hear thank you :)

[@achomgrace1658]

Omg shinny and sparkly is my. trend too .😁😁😁. I thought I was the only one

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Ahhh no you're not alone - it's all I would ever buy if I had my way LOL :)

[@Ozziecatsmom]

Me too! A friend and I say we’re going to make great tacky old ladies because we’ve had so much practice!

[@danamatsukawa4762]

I have made most of these mistakes at one time or another. My problem now is that I don't buy clothing that suits my lifestyle, which is very casual. Like the bright shiny pieces for you, many of these "fancier" looks I try to pull off make me feel insecure, and out of place.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

I think it's all too easy to forget to focus on our lifestyle and how relevant some clothes are for us. I've definitely done that too :)

[@maribellelebre6809]

Yeah, I have Magpie Eyes too. I tend to buy stuff I'm not having occasion to wear much at all. Awful expense

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yessssss me too sadly!

[@maribellelebre6809]

@@Thestyleinsider. Wishful thinking perhaps? I dunno. There's also been a lot of talk here in Toronto about a second "Roaring 20s" once all the restrictions are over so there may be plenty of occasions after all. :)

[@meldasharif4026]

My god, I've made so many of the same faux Pas! And have recently been trying to make some changes so I don't keep making them! I'm the opposite of you when it comes to colours though, and now trying to inject more neutrals to my very colourful wardrobe 🤣

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Ah that's interesting - I imagine it will be rather hard trying to add my neutrals if you've been a fan of colour ;)

[@chrissengemmill6024]

Another magpie here. I have started trying them on and take a photo...and it dissuades me. I also take a close up photo of the fabric so that I can enjoy it later...thinking I will start a Pinterest board on fantasy items in lieu of purchasing. And recycling with Bustle boutique and/or Recycle Boutique...feels good to know someone will wear them and that a little money will come my way. Less is more! I turn 60 is a couple weeks, and I think I have finally cracked my style lol

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Wow what a great idea and that's so interesting that you take a photo when you are trying on and it dissuades you. Why do you think that is?

[@chrissengemmill6024]

@@Thestyleinsider. I think because I am more critical/objective of a photo of myself and removed from the intoxication of the item, if you know what I mean. I am learning to "love/appreciate" items, but not have to HAVE them. I can appreciate the beauty/art of the material or piece in a souvenir photo. And yes, I am going to start a Pinterest board on this from here on out :-) Found a great "le Smoking" yesterday at the opshop to experiment with ($10), so worth a gamble (even with $40 of tailoring) vs. Helen Cherry at $800. Also a couple great basics in the men's section at H&M (sustainable range).

[@Thestyleinsider.]

@@chrissengemmill6024 that makes so much sense to me. Where’s your favourite op shop? Sounds like you’re in NZ??

[@chrissengemmill6024]

@@Thestyleinsider. yes, in Hamilton. for op shops I have been most successful at Hospice (both in Claudelands and Lake Road), and yesterday found the Le Smoking at the new St. John's in Frankton. For Designer recycle you have to go to Bustle (River Road). Had a good success with my daughters at Recycle on Grey st. the other day. I mix vintage with Assembly label, Everlane, and Juliette Hogan (on sale) for the most part these days. A few Helen Cherry and BASH pieces but hard to justify these days (recently made redundant, trying to reinvent myself). Black, camel/tan and grey is the palette with a few surprises in there. If you are ever in Hamilton please let me know!

[@chrissengemmill6024]

Oh, have to add Kowtow, Standard Issue, Shjark (on sale)...Try to use sales to get the higher end pieces!

[@lynetteraab3107]

I have a problem letting go of pieces I really really love after they start to look tired and worn.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Ahh yes I can totally relate to that too :)

[@nijoodubey3164]

great insights leoni... i love your work... thank you. i love shiny stuff...sigh...total weakness... and i have gunmetal shirt that i have worn to death... :D

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for watching Nijoo :)

[@deborahedelman2659]

Super video...thanks for sharing!!!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thx ☺️

[@jannamartens8066]

Oh I love colour love that I have brought this back into my life it can be really fun

[@Thestyleinsider.]

I agree - it's so much fun :)

[@AnnieL001]

Nice video! :) I think my biggest fashion faux pas items are dresses or skirts that are (too) short. I am tall (almost tall as you at 179,5 cm or 5 11’) and I have bought dresses that were regular or more on the mini length but shorter on me of course. After a couple of seasons and/or when I have aged now I dont feel that great in them anymore so they end up in my storage. If I found a way to wear them still in my 40s I’d be happy...Otherwise I might have to get rid of them now... As for sequinned items I have some and find that I reach for them during Christmas time. So I actually have a lot of use since they are still in style season after season. When it comes to colour, I have always loved colours but my problem is living in Northern Europe there sometimes isnt enough colour on offer. Accessories I like but since working from home I sometimes forget to wear them and I dont know how people cope with them in a rush situation, especially when you are running late and trying to put on that necklace which seems to be a struggle to hook or finding that special best that you were planning to wear...😄 So in a way I guess my other big fashion faux is usually being in a hurry and simply not having enough time to put all the pieces together, or sometimes finding that the dress you were about to wear just dont look good on you or just not feeling it...😅 Another fashion faux are jackets that are too short, this usually happens with sports clothing, I might have mistakenly bought or ordered a sports down coat that is a bit short in length or tight when wearing heavy layers during winter. My weight fluctuates+/-3-5 kilos especially now with covid-19 and not being able to exercise as much as I usually would, so I keep items in my closet even if they are a tight since I know they will fit me again :)

[@prayonkreutz2398]

I'm guilty of buying clothing that Looks Amazing on someone else (especially Influencers), but doesn't work for me. I don't usually wear a lot of neutrals, I think they wash me out & I feel Blah. I do wear color, but it's seasonal. Bright colors in the summer & more jewel tones in the fall & winter.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

I totally agree! Thanks for taking the time to comment Prayon :)

[@sheylacherryholmes1550]

Sadly I have to admit that I can relate to all the list 😐 I have got rid of pieces that they were staples and I used to buy shoes smaller than my size. By the way I wear a size 7 This makes me realize I need to have a talk to my daughters. They are only nine and 12 hopefully I can avoid this painful situations for them 🥰 thank you 😊

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes if I had daughters I'd def be trying to help them avoid falling into the same painful trap as me. How silly we were right?

[@patriciachartrand798]

Your sweater is fabulous!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thank you so much Patricia :)

[@evelindblad1187]

Re: influencers. I stopped long ago worrying being led by lux trends. I have to love it regardless if it’s designer or not. Real state means more to me than designer bags collections. Lol. I’ve made a lot of your mistakes too. I still love fashion no matter where I find them.

[@AK_Aufraeumcoaching]

Greetings from Germany again😃😎😍I love you and your videos🙋Stay as U are and thanks for the tips👍

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thank you so much Angela! Will do and greetings from New Zealand :)

[@giedrebey5444]

Yes sparkly thing tried it didnt like it. It was expensive, so thank God was able to sell it without loosing too much money. Too smalll shoes yes done it but for different reason . Size 11.5-12 US, its hard to find High fashion european brands, so i would squeeze my feet in smaller sizes. I dont do it anymore. Although last year got BV mesh square toes, they have some stretch, but of course little too small, but i will wear them 🤪 too small or not fitting as i would like, at that size, i dont do it anymore. Although last year got Redone vintage Levis they are too small, although i remember that those jeans need to be strech out, wearing them wet 😳 well lucky for me , right now wide leg trends, so i will keep them and see how i feel next year or so. I dont have problem wearing color or something more extravagant . Accessories i love now. Including, headscarves, hair accessories, head pieces …but for many years, all i wore only one necklace and earrings.. i do need better organization of my closet. Another day, i realize that i forgot some amazing outfits, that i have 😳😂 have a blessed day 🙏💕

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Ahh sounds like we're not the only ones squeezing our feet into smaller sizes sadly! :(

[@monikab2222]

My biggest mistake is not to wear my best pieces becouse I don't want them to get destroyed 🤣 I feel frustrated that I will not find anything similar

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes I hear you Monika and I'm definitely guilty of that from time to time too :)

[@bojanaznidarsic1365]

Me too

[@ufosrus]

@@Thestyleinsider. You taught me to wear my good clothes more often, something I do more nowadays. Thx for the encouragement!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

@@ufosrus that’s so great to hear 👍🏼

[@julieburwash4505]

Hi Leonie, your skin looks amazing. 💖

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thank you so much Julie :)

[@jessica_g8719]

This was so well done 💛

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yay! So pleased you enjoyed it Jessica :)

[@truthfulT]

I was guilty of buying extremely extravagant/sexy dresses and then being too shy to wear them :) Waste of money and a constant reminder of my cowardice lying dead in my wardrobe))

[@Poppy-]

Hi Leonie, guilty! All of the above 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Right!!

[@karolmolpus9536]

Yes, accessories....true

[@tuxedoneko9837]

Inner magpie, lol, that's me too

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Crazy right?!

[@dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122]

Nine months later the most casual bag is the sparkly Prada reedition. I hope you've bought it by now hahaha

[@marenhaugen5283]

Honey, I am a rainbow Magpie. Even worse than you - I love facial glitter and body glitter. Am not a stripper. But, I was a little hurt when my husband's ex-sister in law (who he works for) said, oh yeah, she wears all that stripper glitter. I was really sad, and now realize, it is not her business. On sparkly pieces, I limit this way: if I can sew it, then I can have it because it won't cost a fortune. I sew for myself and fun, not as a business. It has been so useful in my fashion journey.

[@sadiqafeher6318]

YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL🙌🏽💯

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Aww that is so kind thank you Sadiqa :)

[@amarachiadigwe2038]

I used to be a magpie and everytime I wore something sparkly, I felt like a disco ball(Not in a good way). So I got rid of sparkly and stopped buying them.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Yes I hear you on the "disco ball" front :(

[@suedyer1428]

I so relate to everything you said

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for watching Sue :)

[@LynnIPoor]

I, too, am a magpie...but I say who cares and wear them anyway...work day, fun day, holiday...life's too short not to have fun with fashion. I'm also horrible about my jewelry...I have loads but hardly ever wear anything other than earrings. I need to make it more visible in my room.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Good for you on the sparkle ✨

[@l.q.1253]

Great video.. and where is your jewelry today girl?

[@sadiqafeher6318]

SO HELPFUL✋🏼❤

[@Thestyleinsider.]

That's great to hear :)

[@TheJprose]

Oh! My inner magpie! I have a hard time keeping her caged but at least now I know I am not alone. I live in a VERY rural area, so sequins? Really?!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Funny how if you're hard-wired that way it doesn't matter where you live - the temptation is still real :)

[@lyzettevega1234]

Great video!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thx for watching Lyzette ☺️

[@jannamartens8066]

I buy a size bigger because most shoes are narrow and I have wide feet big challenge for me . I don’t like it when shoes squish my toes together.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

I hate my feet feeling uncomfortable now - I'm sure it's because I spent too much of my youth with sore feet LOL :)

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I’ve made all of these mistakes!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Eeek! At least I'm not alone. How are you going these days though? Still making them? I'm guilty of still making a few of these mistakes (duh!)