10 Things Elegant Ladies NEVER Wear!

[@avaleneramroop6262]

I understand her points. Though most of the things she listed are my everyday wear....I'm not offended because I'm not trying to be elegant everyday. This is an amazing video. I dont understand the negativity.

[@mariedaniellelaroa6330]

I totally agree with you especially with the I’m not trying to be elegant everyday. You know just dress appropriately.

[@faithalimoediu8127]

Love ur attitude

[@RosieRose369]

I'm working on ditching my work at home attire of yoga pants & t-shirts. I have trouble funding comfy trousers, so I'm going to sew my own.

[@Mftjan2000]

Right....around the house you may not want to be "elegant." lt's good to know what IS elegant when you do want to pull that off.

[@elizabethG555]

Totally agree with you 😊

[@CakesEstrella]

"Just because something is trending doesn't mean it's elegant"... This says it all ❤️❤️

[@Portia620]

She needs to put specific stores that carry these items because even looking at sax it’s hard to find things.

[@mmp495]

I am guilty of wearing yoga gear on flights…I can’t stop! 😅😫 Please change your standard on this. 😄

[@KyaraExMachina]

😛😂😂🤣😅

[@rikim1693]

Yes

[@chrisl7839]

@@mmp495 Why do you care what SHE thinks? Wear what is comfortable!

[@tammylaronde8593]

True elegance comes from within. It’s politeness, kindness, compassion, respectfulness, clear communication, being able to maintain your composure despite the situation at hand, poise and taking care of your self. You do not need high end clothing, makeup or accessories in order to achieve this. Ladies, inner beauty never fades. It’s radiant! Be authentic. Know your self worth. Live within your means. There are women living well beyond their means in order to live a high society lifestyle. You can achieve an elegant look without going beyond your means.

[@yardleyj9391]

Though elegance is important, I absolutely agree with your comment.

[@uppergulliesgirl]

Completely agree! I also do not believe that anyone should present themselves as the holy grail or something to aspire too. That comes off as elitist to me. What exactly makes someone an authority on "elegance"?

[@anaayamone2936]

Couldn't agree more.

[@nuzhatfatimafatima8672]

You say it all

[@sebumpostmortem]

It speaks volumes the fact that Anna didn' t pin this lovely, accurate and truly elegant definition of elegance... 🧛🏻‍♀️🖤

[@sashaborokowski8029]

Best fashion advise I ever got was from my brother. He pointed to a bandage dress on a mannequin and said “every guy would love to see you in that dress, but they would never respect you.” I took that to heart. Great brother!

[@jennifermarie3158]

Ewe. Your brother sounds gross thinking that he should respect women or not based on what they are wearing. Sorry to tell you, but your brother sounds like a misogynist

[@boriraski9043]

But what about when your partner respects and loves you, but also loves to see you in a bondage dress? Will he lose his respect because you look sexy?

[@adalinerosewood]

to be fair, a man won't respect you either way, simply because you're a woman. it doesn't matter what you wear.

[@PistoneChumbler]

I love the design, but I don't have the budget. So I bought the *hotdups* bag. Made from high quality legal snakeskin made by local Indonesian artists. From now on I never want to buy any luxury goods.

[@riddhidutta5601]

Your brother is an asshole.

[@amiyoshida2841]

I wish there were more “wear this instead” solutions.

[@jvc9250]

Amen 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@carberriess]

to be fair, she has a MILLION of those videos on her channel, they just weren't featured on this particular video.

[@afeenzainab2263]

Ami Mowris exactly what i was thinking! Like tell us what we should wear to the airport instead??

[@mb-bq4cv]

She has tons of videos on that

[@adahsilvera8818]

Same

[@xfaroutzx3637]

True elegance and class starts with empathy and kind heartedness....the one person who perfectly exemplified this was Princess Diana Class and elegance is an attitude

[@2lipToo]

There was also Audry Hepburn, a woman of deep wisdom, love and elegance inside and out.

[@ShannonSoSweeet]

I agree with the both of you!

[@Kirby-Amanda]

She also regularly stepped out in sneakers, sweatshirts, and athletic shorts.

[@lindahandley5267]

@Carla, absolutely and she would have been SO proud of her Princess Kate. They seemed to be cut from the same cloth. It's hard to describe...serene, beautiful, neat and simple style.

[@princesslisamarie7860]

I agree with EVERYONE in this thread. Yes x100

[@beverlybenson4839]

Thank you for your video. I'm a 75 year old woman and what I am hearing is what my mother use to tell me how to dress. She was a young woman in the 1940s and until the day she died she always wanted to look presentable. I was truly blessed to have her insight. Love your channel and now have subscribed. ❤

[@eileenmcgovern9193]

I am 72 and this is what my mom told me as well

[@lopamudrabiswas2388]

This is really Beautiful😍✨🥰

[@MableTaylor-kq2nf]

you’re literally my comfort person i love you *suluxs* !

[@mihad949]

Women from the past,, our parents and grandparents were naturally elegant 👌🏽

[@MedaGodines]

New friend here sending may full support. *suluxy*

[@erenramirez1016]

My mom grew up in a poor household in Mexico and we've never been close to rich, but she's always had the same thoughts on style as Anna.

[@firstnamerequiredlastnameo3473]

Wisdom is a form or wealth.

[@daintyflygirl4va]

Me too

[@welcometothesaltyspitoon]

Guys, there is a difference between "pretty" and "elegant." You can look stylish and not be elegant. Elegance is another style.

[@nessyness5447]

@@sabihanahla9841 and i've seen cheap elegant dresses too. Elegance is not about expending more money, is not even entirely about what you wear, but mostly how to wear it.

[@Jamjar-iu3ji]

@@nessyness5447 There's a difference between cheap meaning inexpensive, and cheap meaning tacky, lower class and deserving of contempt. I think that's actually what she was refering to.

[@nessyness5447]

@@Jamjar-iu3ji that's actually worse. It suggest that is someone doesn't dress how she considers is elegant, that person is less worthy and classless.

[@Jamjar-iu3ji]

@@nessyness5447 I agree with you 100%. The comment you responded to seemed to be talking about that kind of cheap. And you seemed to be talking about inexpensive cheap. I was just trying to clear that confusion. I didn't like that she used that kind of "cheap" as the opposite to elegant.

[@marymusic8920]

@@Jamjar-iu3ji Chanel's Karl Largerfeld, said "If you're Cheap, nothing helps....." Cheap is an ingrained attitude, and a spiritual flaw.... Not the "Miley Cyrus" cheap, which is actually vulgarity, or perfectly nice, albeit inexpensive, clothing; it is a personality-driven, infection of the soul..... (e.g.) I had a very wealthy client, who displayed (literally) all the accouterments of showy vast resources.... She was loathed, by business associates and service professionls, for her smug condescension, controlling manners, and snobbish demeanor; all of which are polar opposites, of Elegance..... Impossible to please, never tipped the wait staff, a single dime, and had such terribly high standards-----for everyone, however---not herself...... Contrast that presentation, with another (absolutely filthy-rich) client, in her late 70s.... Genuinely warm, authentically sincere, charmingly appreciative, and universally kind.... Clean, neat, wearing tiny jewelry, while always dressed in Ralph Lauren (green label) "barn" clothes, and beaten-up old ballet flats..... At the entrance door of a swanky establishment, or business meeting, she looked like someone's nice Grandmother, visiting from "The Sticks...." Yet, people literally fell over themselves to serve, assist, and just chat, with this true lady...... She made time, for you.... A (subtle, very quiet) huge tipper, very "aware of people," gave secret "just because" presents, to her laundress, the doormen, delivery drivers, the janitor, and just about anyone who crossed her path, who needed a bit of quality time, and acknowledgement of their efforts... Most importantly, an interested listener... She conducted herself, as a "Lady," and treated everyone else as a "Lady, or Gentleman," as well.... An army of people showed up, for this lovely lady's funeral.... And, it was not a sad gathering; everyone had a sweet story to tell, "about the time, she........" Cheap can define "first impression" careless appearances, but the moment one opens one's mouth, their true character is established..... (Cheap, or "Worth Knowing...") People evaluate quickly, by sight.... However, it is by the hearing, they know just exactly "who" you are.......

[@mena5090]

Anna, will you please do a video on proper casual attire? Comfortable, classy clothing that you can wear to grab a coffee with friends, go to a doctor's appointment, or go shopping with your kids. I feel like I'm lacking in knowledge in this area! 😘

[@ashaigboko949]

Mena Marie if you check out her Instagram page you can get some ideas!

[@lilbabytears]

Yesssss

[@zomgseriosuly]

Yesssssss!

[@silmm1886]

Outfits that are appropriate for the uni please ❤️

[@mena5090]

@@silmm1886 oh yes that too!

[@depeesify7811]

I like it how she always emphasizes that showing too much skin will lower your class or make you look cheap

[@MichellePoepping]

Yes - some modesty is good thing.

[@firstnamerequiredlastnameo3473]

More women should realize that showing a lot of skin is definitely NOT cool. Don't let your bra straps show, either.

[@melanisethares267]

I totally agree 👍. Women today are dressing so carelessly and unaware of their appearance. They are NOT ladies, they are Women. Big difference!! Everywhere you go Women dress so cheap and tacky; it doesn't take a lot of money to make the right choices to look put together and attractive! Females all look alike, wearing the same boring, drab clothes: leggings and a tee shirt. She is the epitome of class, elegant and refined!! Gorgeous ⚘️✌️⚘️.

[@adw6894]

@@firstnamerequiredlastnameo3473 Just to satify other people's judgmental?

[@leonilamontgomery9464]

It does

[@notyourmum7883]

elegance and casual wear are not mutually exclusive. YOU CAN DO BOTH and still look amazing.

[@maryannraley]

My mother quite often wore t-shirts in rich, vibrant colors with dress slacks, accessorized with jewelry or a scarf. She was an incredibly elegant lady -tall, slim, beautiful. She looked incredibly "put together" and elegant.

[@victorialandert5396]

**jUvEniLeClOtHiNg**

[@maryannraley]

@@victorialandert5396 You never met my mother.

[@polarbyrd23]

1887 wants you back.

[@sofimora5647]

Yeah you can do both and look dazzling yk but there’s a difference between elegance/fancy and being casual

[@aditi1729]

Anna’s style is exactly like mine. I don’t like Insta baddie outfits. I don’t mind other women dressing like that, I just won’t wear those outfits myself :)

[@LIVE-nu7tg]

Thank youuuuu I seem not to understand the comments sis is basically giving us the how to pop up your look

[@helenalozancic1195]

I feel the same! 😊

[@NatureLover-62]

It’s a personal choice, but I am like Anna as well. I have a style that I am comfortable with and I may add some inexpensive trendy pieces to add, but I stick with my basics. I learned that lesson early. Trends come and go, you don’t need all of them, but choose a few that you can add and that are inexpensive. Spend your money on items good quality clothing and alter, alter, alter!!

[@FeenstaubCupcake]

It IS possible to be respectful and let others still feel good about themselves and their styles when doing videos like this. But she is not. Otherwise there wouldn't be a 2:1 up-/downvote ratio. You know, there's always a reason behind downvotes. Maybe you don't want to see that because she's clearly not attacking people like you here...

[@valenciasantos8236]

Same. It's boring seeing girls wear the same things (crop top, leggings, messy bun). It's refreshing to see a girl wear something not very common like a modest dress.

[@jennysomething3666]

This makes me feel like a new princess who entered a palace and I got a teacher to teach me how to dress so I won't embarrass the royal family

[@agarildtoft7993]

something something Sorry to say but royals wear many of the mentioned blacklisted items, just so you're aware 😜

[@marilynrichards3551]

@@agarildtoft7993 Any examples?

[@travelmementoes]

A Arildtoft I also wanna know who?

[@somethingsomethingsomethin8366]

Lol, we almost has the same username. Thought that was kinda fun.

[@Wesam.s]

Couldn't relate more

[@ue2267]

Elegance for me is just people who are clean. They smell clean and look clean. And when you look clean, generally you clothes are well maintained (no wrinkles, stains etc), your hair is neat and well kept regardless of texture, and your body/skin appears neat. Nothing on them overly stands out, you see them as an entire person. Most importantly their aura shines. Something about them is light, friendly and positive.

[@TheStepmonkey]

For all the people complaining: She is not “judging” people. She is just teaching what u should not wear if u want to look classy and elegant, which is a style she clearly knows about.

[@harshitashanker471]

Exactly

[@ZoeyCLR78]

Agreed 👍

[@hellgavampenstein9906]

Well there are leggins and jeggins which looks elegant. 😝

[@rzkkmrth6059]

Ikr. it's same as telling people not to wear oxford shoes for hiphop/street style of fashion.

[@rootje812]

She is not teaching... she's judgmental and comparing. What is her definition of classy? Thats my question

[@bettyedubala2170]

She means basically being modest & wearing the appropriate outfit in every situation? She's right.

[@catleaxmas5416]

That's my take away from the video too. And I also agree.

[@car2nerr]

I think she wants people to put some effort into looking like you are intelligent, deserve respect because you look respectful, enjoy looking beautiful. You can be comfortable and wear good fitting clothes. Do I follow her advice myself? No, most of the time I am working with my dogs, working in the yard and taking care of the property. But if I want to go downtown her advice is spot on.

[@MsSisi9898]

@@lindalarsson1436 She's not pretentious, if you feel that way, you're just i.n.s.e.c.u.r.e. Deal with it.

[@Leila-xs7kd]

MsSisi9898 i think it’s slightly pretentious and it has nothing to do with insecurity. i can think someone is being pretentious without being insecure. i think you’re projecting... this entire video is created for high society so it’s safe to say it’s a little pretentious. not enough to call her on it (imo) but enough to say it’s there if you ask.

[@erikaem3115]

And yet being predictive on motives of why people do what they do and unnecessarily filling in with her own narrative doesn’t really deliver that exact message. If a person knows how to communicate they don’t need disclaimers and white knights on horses such as yourself to teach us how to read between lines. We all know the mean girl trope. She knows it too. She can select better ways to communicate what you think is being said but yet she didn’t.

[@emmadesgranges8340]

So she basically described my whole wardrobe

[@Estella0707]

Emma Desgranges lol

[@PumpkinPixie1978]

Mine to. Whats next, can't wear my Vans because it's something Jackie Kennedy wouldn't wear?

[@tammystiletto]

We will, just walk away slowly...

[@mariam3947]

@@tammystiletto 2 thumbs up to that👍👍

[@mariam3947]

@@PumpkinPixie1978 if she had them, she would've worn them, it's the video chick who wouldn't, I dont remember her name, as I prefer to forget my nightmares!!

[@GottaSayIt]

I’m watching Anna Bey videos from 3-4 years ago and they’re still on point. Timeless advice

[@JaeBlaze09]

I came to this video for tips on how to dress on days that I WANT TO LOOK elegant. No one said we had to be elegant every day. I’m shocked by all the negative comments. Take what u can from the information provided✨

[@BrownEyedGirl1367]

I agree. I’m confused by the number of people who have/take the time to be so disrespectful on a channel when there are thousands of other channels. 💐

[@TiggysTC]

Totally agree 👍🏾

[@sahpire75]

Best comment! On days that I want to be and feel elegant is everything she has to offer

[@ih1183]

No one knows what elegance is nowadays... they dress like homeless people and think they look good because everyone is doing it.

[@nicnaknoc]

I don't really see that manny negative comments, only ppl having a bit of fun on their own expense

[@nakiyembabetty9621]

Why did it take me so long to find a honest classy lady like you ........thanks for teaching us ..... I know your words are for only a small group of women ...

[@wonderwoman8615]

Am proud to see my fellow Africans on such educational and informative programs

[@franciscapomaa2388]

Yes o sister Betty

[@amadib.6405]

Right♥️

[@tenderparenting]

Exactly! Love her channel.

[@circegorgon9638]

she’s not saying this is how you must dress, she’s just suggesting how you should dress if you wish to present yourself elegantly no matter the occasion

[@dOVERanalyst]

Only difference she doesn't know what elegant fashion is. That butterfly dress was as ladylike as it gets. Shorts are definitely not. They are screaming the opposite of "ladylike, elegant or classy". Though I agree with ditching the horrible blue shades.

[@_angelicr]

Exactly! It's simple yet so difficult for most people to understand. It's true that "common sense isn't so common after all".

[@KC-kb4pz]

@@dOVERanalyst Ladylike and elegant are close but different I think. That butterfly dress looks like a dress I bought on Amazon for 20 dollars 🤔

[@eduardasartorio8932]

@@dOVERanalyst honey this is her pov of what being elegant is…

[@dOVERanalyst]

@@eduardasartorio8932 but she stresses her pov of elegant is dictionary definition of elegant. And no it's not. Shorts are never elegant. If someone wrote elegant in dresscode no Idiot will wear shorts there. It's so unacceptable.

[@cherankimiorak1739]

The fact that I don’t have to spend big $$ for a stylist and watch Anna instead? Life saving 🙏🏽

[@ayahaiti1413]

me too

[@chihleihuang]

I believe my grandmother totally agrees with her.

[@TheKikayTita]

@Amara my thoughts exactly 😂

[@VoiceTalk52]

I don’t think my grandma would either! 😂😂 Mines a badass

[@ingrithgarza9974]

Not even my grandmother agrees with her lol

[@hannachristina5387]

Even my strict grandma disagreed with her

[@hannahduong5255]

😆

[@Isary96]

An elegant woman for me is one who takes care of herself. Like brushing her hair, ironing her clothes and looks put together. I do not think that elegance means having one type of style, or having to look like a grandma. It's mostly how you carry yourself, how you talk and how you treat other people.

[@lydiabildave7532]

I 100% agree with you...finally someone thought in my direction

[@Mikyda3]

Someone that takes care of themselves, hair, clothing, etc. but may be in a T shirt and jeans, you would think them elegant?

[@dr.kakoli6051]

@@Mikyda3 yes. As long as the person wears appropriate clothes according to situation/place/event.

[@PeggyRoses]

Tottaly agree with you! It's not about the style of clothes it's about how you care yourself and set the clothes, or maybe what sigh send to Others! ❤️

[@wellesleykopsa6463]

She said she was making this video for those who want the information. She also says an elegant lady must be nice to the core and non judgemental. She's not judging those who dress that way. But she wants to help people who want to know how to dress traditionally elegantly how to do so.

[@nicolekovacs8403]

I can see why everyone is kinda telling her off, but she's honest kinda right on some of this stuff. Elegant woman are more modest and crop tops, booty shorts, and cartoon t-shirts really aren't elegant. I think its okay to still wear whatever you want when you're home though because you're not around anyone and you can be comfortable. Leggings is a big thing too and if you want to wear them ya whatever I wear them too but most modest women really don't wear them and if they do they cover their butt. You can still be modest and elegant without wearing old lady looking clothes too you just have to kinda have to shop around and being elegant doesn't mean you have to buy the most expensive clothes. Everyone's style is different and if you don't agree with her I understand what everyone is saying and fashion is a little different nowadays but she is right on some stuff about elegance and modesty

[@l.y.299]

100%! It is all about the context. Also, what you wear in your early 20s and what you wear in your 30s - are completely different things. Add a formal occasion to the story...and voilà!

[@mb-bq4cv]

Exactly! It's fine to wear crop tops, your choice, but don't expect people to view you as elegant.

[@mb-bq4cv]

Also, you can be fashionable but not elegant

[@MegaLightsfan]

Yes 👏

[@AW-xv3jd]

You can wear whatever you want all the time not only when you are at home...

[@robertamirtha4242]

In a nutshell: Don't dress like a Kardashian.

[@gigitonsvajv]

Ba ha ha you’re spot on. They’re not elegant at all!

[@mina_ophelia.Moonbeam]

so right!🤣

[@charlottesophieperper2445]

haha you're so right! 😄🤣

[@kimyoung3484]

👍👍👍👍👍❤️

[@vasunthram8628]

😂😂

[@thewonderlandfox1575]

The good thing about elegant fashion is that it’s timeless and will not go out of fashion for decades so you don’t have to rely on fast fashion.

[@anombradoful]

Agree. I would rather spend more money on classic and timeless than less money on clothes that will go out of style AND have such a negative toll on the environment and human labour.

[@fairymystonight1783]

A N just because things go out of style doesn’t mean you can’t wear them. I understand you will lost interest when the trend ends, but people have their own fashion and still wear old trends because it looks good on them

[@_BlueMoon]

I'm watching this in sweat pants and a hoody, with 2 different socks.

[@aishaahmed5256]

Lmfao , I'm wearing tracksuits I love wearing most of what she listed especially insta baddie outfits , but I agree with her points.

[@VelveteenRabbit77]

Elegant ladies dont own hoodies lollllll.

[@_BlueMoon]

@@VelveteenRabbit77 ya, I'm not sure I'm an elegant lady. More like a cowgirl... lol but it's good information to know incase I want to come out the boots

[@Kimberlyelayyne]

Can we be friends??? Me too lmao

[@_BlueMoon]

@@Kimberlyelayyne absolutely

[@saandayy8861]

Lol this woman bashed every single thing i own, but I’m gonna be real - i enjoyed it 😂😂😂

[@saandayy8861]

I have a feeling she doesn’t like the brand free people! 😂✌️

[@larissaswinkels3661]

saandayy But let’s be honest, the woman she showed in the pictures look good. If I had a body like that, I would wear those clothes!

[@jeyviecarpio3394]

Saame! Lmao HAHAHAHAHA

[@crystalmielcossey]

saandayy 🤣🤣🤣

[@rawandash]

saandayy hello same 😂😂😂😂

[@ashleyroberts7583]

Traveling in yoga pants and workout clothes feel comfy in stressful times. Sometimes putting on something comfy can make stressful tasks a little more bearable.

[@AlexaLikes]

I'm officially not elegant. I wear half of these and I love it. Then again, not trying to snag rich men. No discrimination. I still enjoyed scrolling through..

[@marinetteadrien8758]

Same and who says ritch man likes just classy things cmon everyone has his own taste

[@RaVeNaNdTiM]

The ONLY reason I watched this is to learn how to snag a rich man. Bahahaha!!! They’re all crappy anyway (in my experience so far) so May as well have a rich crappy one, at least you’ll get what you want, need and then some. I guess I just give up on finding a good man. So I just need a rich one. It’s hard to get rich being a single mother with minimal help. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lestariabadi]

My sentiment exactly. All those no nos are my staple wardrobe & already hv my rich man. But....I’m now 50 & kinda have to learn to look more grown up...

[@cutehollygolightly]

I don't think those dressing tips are to snag a rich man. I guess they are for when you already have a rich man, because job, school and extreme weather, not to mention kids and house shores... Now that I think about it, I can't be a lady. I basically wear what I can. I agree with almost every tip she said, though. I just don't have the time and money to look like a lady. And my rich guy went away with a young girl that wears all those no nos and worst!

[@christinamurphy8645]

Why does being elegant have to be for a man? And why does elegant mean rich? 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

[@malba411]

A true elegant lady is kind, loving and caring. I find that very "elegant".

[@bludsukertyricea]

@Lumani LuLu totaly agree! Its truly ridiculous when people call themselves elegant while wearing so called recent trends like booty shorts and ripped cropped clothing.

[@arisa373]

We're not talking personality, we're talking fashion here. Catch on!

[@malba411]

Wow........kind and caring no longer in style. Judgement is...😮

[@mellel1797]

This video is great for those who are superficial, but true beauty and elegance comes from within.

[@headintheclouds7905]

I couldn't agree more with you.

[@MIZIUPA]

Melle L I completely disagree with you, we should always thrive for improvement

[@CerebralTheReal1]

That's bullshyt

[@marya5726]

Why did she like this comment lol

[@eggedon6112]

Yes, but men can't see what's within you until they interact with you. Many Young women need to understand the mating game a whole lot better than they do. They may think they know it all, but they don't.

[@irisbjones]

I am with Anna - sharply pressed clothing elevates. My friends laugh at my ironing fetish yet ladies always ask what brands I'm wearing when I'm a budget girl who just understands presentation is 75% of style :)

[@scorching8709]

Thank you for this, I will be sure to use these tips when I find out I’m secretly a Genovian princess

[@lemonke9037]

lmaooooo

[@SaintShion]

Hahaha serious Princess Diaries Flashbacks.

[@anneshirley2095]

Did you hear that movie #3 is in the making?!

[@lemonke9037]

Anne Shirley - WAIT WHATTTTT

[@lalirico]

Anne Shirley - WHATTT. OMG MY 10 YEAR OLD SELF IS SCREAMING

[@missminti]

A classic fitted white tee is absolutely appropriate layered under a jacket.

[@jamiearmstrong2173]

Mint & Tea Yeah if you’re a man

[@pekkapekka7220]

@@jamiearmstrong2173 ur disgusting Its 2019

[@oisheechakrabarti2809]

@@jamiearmstrong2173 Actually, it probably looks better on a woman.

[@preztigiouswoman]

@@jamiearmstrong2173 Lmbooooooooooooo😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@preztigiouswoman]

Not to a banquet!

[@mgcap-p6v]

Fashion is one thing, class is another matter...

[@ShinySilverBunny]

Amen! I've met some beautiful fashionable women who have no integrity and operate on a low vibration. Fashion can cover up insecurities, class comes from within.

[@humansrtrash324]

Truee

[@blowitoutyourcunt7675]

Some ppl have fashion but NO class! Lol

[@mgcap-p6v]

BlowItOutYourCunt just switch on the tv (or internet) to see a couple of very famous examples 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@fredleblanc7260]

Exactly... there's nothing classy about judging people for what they wear...

[@rozyue1177]

Everyone hopes to dress and appear elegant but equally important to be genuine , authentic , well mannered , considerate and kind .

[@Venus.actor.singer]

You don't offend me, this channel is about elegance so, if tight gym outfits are not elegant to wear on the streets, that's what it is. That's what I want to hear and learn. Thank you for being so honest to help us elevate our status.

[@chrystianaw8256]

This is the most mature response in the comment section. Everyone else clicked on a video for advice and are offended at said advice even though it's accurate.

[@Godongo]

Exactly!!!

[@catajohnson1027]

@@Godongo I don’t do any of the 10 things. But, I am offended by her presentation. She keeps say “why, why, why?” Well, because as you say, but obviously don’t believe - everyone has their own style. I don’t usually WANT to look elegant. Her problem is she really looks down on people who don’t dress like she does and that’s what I find offensive.

[@Godongo]

@@catajohnson1027 She just finds it weird to wear clothing made for different things. It may seem to her like if you wore a suit to a swimming pool. It just doesn't look right and she's like, "Why?" She's not looking down on anyone, she's just confused why you would wear gym clothes to an airport. Yes, it is a style, but some may think it is weird and there is nothing wrong with that. Especially since some people may not be used to seeing things like that so it just makes sense not to wear certain clothes in certain situations. All of it is up to how you view it, and she's just giving advice on how to be elegant which is a certain style. You can take it as she is putting people down if you want, but she's not.

[@Amy_omer]

@@catajohnson1027 do not judge her from this video you can check her other videos

[@marilynfernandez3279]

I don't wear them because I don't like them, but I disagree about the t shirts. Jackie Kennedy would wear them with capri pants and jean's and she always looked fabulous. Needless to say she was the epitome of elegance!

[@bluegoldie1007]

marilyn fernandez me too

[@bebop54]

a silk tee with french seams will always look great ...

[@rach5516]

It depends on the t shirt and the style. The 90's style is not particularly classy.

[@turena8745]

Yes a well made t shirt and well fitting is not only appropriate in warm weather but looks very classy as well, particularly with a nice necklace.

[@liu.u]

Really you are going with Jaqueline kennedy as an icon of elegance, please! Not even 👎

[@hildaayesa9170]

All of you taking offense don’t understand that this lady is an etiquette/ affluence teacher. These lessons are not for you! She said don’t listen to her if you don’t agree. Is that so hard?

[@Stinoco]

Ella Akehurst we don’t care about your life. If you don’t like the video, don’t watch it

[@annmariebailey123]

I agree. If it's not for you then don't watch this video.

[@HummingbirdEighty8]

@Ella Akehurst you make the best point! I knew a young girl whose boyfriend died in a car crash. She was still in high school. She was extremely upset for a very long time. Some months later, her friend stated that someone ( I don't honestly remember who), had died and it was the worst thing she had ever experienced. My idea about this is that both experienced a great loss to them. But the first girl shamed the second girl on social media. For the second girl, this WAS the worst loss in her life. For the first girl, her boyfriend's death was HER worst loss. Everyone has different experiences in life. It is a battle. I have health issues that prevent me from enjoying life as I did before. We should not judge another person, but always put ourselves in their shoes. How would I feel if I had a stroke? This would be much harder to deal with than my present illness. This way of thinking puts things in perspective and allows us to be more empathetic to the human condition. God bless you on your journey.💓

[@HummingbirdEighty8]

@Ella Akehurst I also noticed that you stated that everyone's opinion is fine with you, and went on to explain YOUR own view. Folks, why should we have a problem with this. She said that your opinion is fine, and stated her opinion. Elegance does not judge harshly.💓

[@nicolerr720]

@@Stinoco very mean you are.

[@aksonybag]

There’s a thin line between elegant and pretentious.

[@leahbrosnan7774]

Gaby Noska correct! Trying hard to be elegant looks forced, cheap and unclassy.

[@jujuba9277]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@kristinearianegumaru6321]

oooof!!!!!!

[@pherltv]

Hahaha

[@gracekaveke8653]

Lol.she said move on to the next video😁😂

[@lanamedcalf1561]

Elegance is a state of clothing, of mind, and ladylikeness! She made clear at the beginning that this episode was for that genre. Don’t be upset with her or put her down for her own opinion. It is very nice. I’m myself a tee shirt, denim shorts kind of gal but appreciate the differences. Don’t care if I look expensive or not. Keep my skin covered, feel comfortable, know I look nice, this is my bag, not hers, although I agree with her on shabby handbags!!

[@chantellewhite7378]

Being elegant and classy doesn't have to be so so plain and boring. You can still have Personality in your fashion and be very elegant

[@fishi246]

Chantelle White elegance stems from kindness

[@ElefantedeJade]

Chantelle White like Blair Waldorf? 🙈❤️

[@sincerelysomehumaniguess7610]

Yes!!

[@prynkya]

Yes agree.

[@lv-home2545]

I think she means look elegant for women over 35 ? Thats is right and make more sense with no rip jean , animal print or crop top ??

[@Torihappyness]

I fail to understand why the women in the comments are calling her judgemental yet are on a channel called School of AFFLUENCE! She's right on everything! Especially Bandage dresses,they ARE revealing and only attract low calibre men or men who's mission with you are unsavoury. Loved the video Anna❤️❤️❤️,haters and the delusional can watch something else.

[@lubnaadean6029]

I don't wear any revealing clothes only comfy, I dont like dresses or any that's revealing

[@evaharvey840]

I agree 🥰 these are standards. Some aren't going to register. That's ok with with me, makes it easier for the cream to rise! Keep up our chic. It speaks volumes Ladies 🗼

[@musicislife-yt7iw]

Honestly, I like bandage dresses, tbh I don't think so that you have to wear this or that to look elegent, elegance can be in your manners too. She isn't being judgemental but it seems like that, people who wears those dresses or outfits feels like she is looking down on them. Tbh it's her opinion and ig she should have said that it's her opinion and she isn't judging anyone.

[@MaryLou913]

What if you wear bandage dresses because you like the way you look in them and not because you're dressing for a man? 🤷🏾 Some men like women that dress in fashion and they were in fashion at one point.

[@musicislife-yt7iw]

@@MaryLou913 exactly! Perverts get attracted no matter what you wear tbh. I personally love bangde dresses, idc how people look at me or what they say, I dress up for myself and it's okay if you don't like bandage dresses but how can you call it 'cheap'? It's offensive to the women who likes it and wears it. We can simply dress however we want and everyone has different tastes, you cannot force your opinions on people and it could simply be a 'guide to elegant fashion' she could show what is elegent dresses or outfits are like instead of showing what you should wear or not. Tbh I think elegance and class are something that should be within us and not only in what we wear.

[@amalminou1474]

Her videos are meant for a specific audience. I don’t see why everyone is so worked up.

[@Cesarica24]

For audience who want to look "classy" and to get a rich housband, that doesnt make a lady from woman.

[@vikashinisivasakthi2911]

AGREE.

[@alexismorales5045]

Yes, pretentious people who can’t attract men with their personality

[@gillian776]

Emerson Riley I was thinking the same exact thing! It’s like move on people !

[@SuperBartles]

Mainly because some people wear these clothes & like them - and she's been slightly caustic about the clothes, (at least I think it's just, the clothes and not the people wearing them) People are bound to take remarks like "please! I'm bleeding from the eyeballs" personally. Women start to see veiled insults in what other people are saying. All entertaining for people-watchers

[@thehangrywoman5556]

I'm soooo happy it's okay to wear a t-shirt when digging in the garden! What a relief.

[@67maezinha]

A truly elegant taste is generally accompanied with excellency of heart. Henry Fielding

[@ameliadeshane9192]

Love, love, love.

[@zenayesanchez1842]

Wow! I love this and so agree. Elegance is not about hair or makeup, but character, the content of a person’s words, thoughts, values etc. Looking great is so important too tho!

[@lindahandley5267]

@Adriane, I really like that!

[@jeanvignes]

Has he met Anna Wintour?

[@lindahandley5267]

@Jean, he really should. She makes this woman look tame.

[@batangmabuti7495]

Honestly, Anna Bey is like my mom when she gives out suggestions on what to wear and what NOT to wear. When I was younger, I used to dislike her fashion suggestions because I thought they were too conservative and rigid. But one time, we were at a hotel and I saw an aged beauty queen (she's the same age as my mother), and to my surprise she styles herself just like my mom. The vibe and the aura were the same! Highly elegant! Now that I'm a bit older, I seek these kinds and pieces of advice. This kind of style is truly timeless. Thank you, Anna for sharing these tips to us!

[@JF59122]

But I love crop tops and jeans...and printed Ts... 😬😬😬 I love her channel though...

[@MadelynZ]

I don't like how she doesn't give an answer to her disagreements. "Instead of wearing yoga pants to the airport wear ______ ." Don't just bash on the clothing. Give a solution to try. Otherwise it's not helpful LOL

[@Anakin737]

Madelyn Z Yeah exactly, I was waiting for her to talk about alternatives.

[@adrimendoza1685]

Trueee👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@briannaduke7166]

Madelyn Z agreed!!

[@Julia-zv3kg]

Didn’t she give an alternative she said instead of wearing yoga pants you could try trousers which are more fashionable and can be comfier

[@wingicecream7125]

She's just judgemental. She hates alternative people, or really anyone who isn't a clone of her and she really REALLY doesn't like happieness. That's why.

[@barrysmith8193]

I am a man that works with very high net worth client couples. I am constantly looking for ways to understand my lady clients in all ways. Besides being elegant they are all very gracious. I love what they bring to the table in look, mindset, and point of view. Thanks for these great videos.

[@RubysLegoLab]

Ladies a lot of being classy isn't what you're wearing it's how you carry yourself, this is in my opinion, #1...

[@marinaalex0510]

That is right, but it's easier to carry yourself in a classy way if you are elegantly dressed. It is not enough but necessary, that's how it goes, first we've being judged on appearance

[@msm4478]

Marina Alexander So you haven't heard the saying "Dont judge a book by its cover?"

[@marinaalex0510]

@@msm4478 Of course, I have. Haven't you heard an expression: "YOU WILL NEVER GET AN SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION"? Please note that in my comment I've written FIRST we've being judged on appearance. That's why there are many advices are being given how to dress for the job interview. Or even more importantly, how not to. Because yes, no matter what you or me personally think, people do make their first judgement on appearances, because the appearance influences first impression the most. Personally I think that most people, when they look well and dress elegantly (or at least think so), they would feel good and more confident, and that would help them to carry themselves in a classy way. Back to the beginning of this discussion.

[@marinetteadrien8758]

True and i think you are the one who makes clothes look beautiful not you

[@orangeblueandlavendar6826]

Yes mam please and thank you goes a long way in a pair of pretty leggies lol

[@designsonyouinparis]

Clean, well tailored/fitted, wrinkle-free, size/age appropriate, well manicured, and a smile will always serve any first class lady very well.

[@nerdgeekcosplay909]

I’m trying to find a good blazer one that’s not too tight or to lose .

[@christy7516]

@@nerdgeekcosplay909 this is hard you need to go to a store in person

[@Sophesi]

I have a beautiful periwinkle blue Kristin Blake tailored jacket and I was so surprised to get so many compliments on it when wear it. People are drawn to pretty colors

[@sdavis5001]

@@Sophesi Periwinkle is a color that serves almost anyone beautifully. That’s why I LOVE that color, or, any color VERY close to it. It is my personal favorite! 💙💜

[@sdavis5001]

Amen!!! 💙💜💙💜

[@lauracalvo8229]

I actually wear almost everything she said not to. I still am not offended by this video and actually enjoyed very much... definitely will subscribe

[@manyagaver1946]

Me too! I think everything has its place but she’s giving us advice on how to look elegant. If you want to look elegant all the time, don’t wear sports clothes outside of sports. If you only want to look elegant sometimes, then do you. I think there are yoga pants you can dress up and still be comfortable but that’s just me

[@SadiesAriel]

I’ve spent pieces of my life working in sports bars where we can always wear jeans and some type of sports t-shirt. everyone always asks me why I’ve been “dressed up”. I get nicely fitted shirts (or cut / tie them), nice jeans that flatter my body, and always have my hair done (even though it’s in a pony tail) and makeup nice. I always get better tips too. And I feel better which shows. It makes a difference!

[@catherine2268]

I want to know what pants are comfier than leggings?

[@Mimi31_]

Catherine S right!!! Lol

[@bubbz7351]

Sweats. But that's probably not what she meant 😂

[@ussarng4649]

Cotton blend baggy pants.

[@madnessofmymind]

@@bubbz7351 Agreed. Sweats are the best! Leggings are next.

[@MTaraV]

Cullottes?🤔 to me they are more comfy because they are loose and leggings tend to be too tight for me

[@lavinder11]

T-shirt inappropriate for home wear. Yeah, okay.

[@marymoon9015]

lavinder11 ikr

[@catherinezhu4761]

Just wear silky soft pajama, I guess. She is talking about high society. Have you ever seen any woman from "Gossip Girl" wears T-shirt at home? ;)

[@leilanidru7506]

Catherine Zhu most women aren’t in the tax bracket and social class from the women from gossip girl.

[@kurniakenconorukmi4035]

well, I wear pajamas at home, not the silky one but the one with cartoon on it, so ..... yeah

[@lavinder11]

@@catherinezhu4761 Gossip Girl isn't real, but I know trust fundees living in West village and ues, and yes, they wear t-shirts.

[@aprilvscott4787]

I love her so much even tho she just dissed my whole wardrobe haha

[@franciscanwadialor6617]

Same😂

[@justineselenge5460]

Same

[@northstar5240]

I Know right

[@destinixshakur]

facts lmaooo

[@necadrateescabarte5778]

Same

[@Awaregirl]

You are taking the word elegance to a different level; and yes I meant of simplicity; modesty; cleanliness; chic; and yes living with order and self confidence! Just because Rihanna wore it; you don’t have to wear it! Thank you for teaching us; to be ourselves 🙏

[@subrinawood1383]

I am not an "elegance lady" but I agree 100% with everything you said.

[@mariavg12]

I remind the first time I saw this video, I just took all my clothes from my closet and sold everything I could to girls who actually like to wear those clothes. I'm a dancer and also and investigator and after I change my clothes I noticed that I love myself a little bit more because I look as that smart and athletic woman I always was but my clothes never show it before. I'm so glad I found this channel and there's nothing wrong with change your image for YOU, if someone still wanna wear those clothes it's okay, just don't offend people and they will no offend you.

[@yourlehrness]

María Fernanda Valenzuela Gutiérrez that's because you have taste

[@mariavg12]

@@yourlehrness and have no guide during those years

[@gigip4727]

Congratulations! :)

[@olgachekh3114]

This just made me realise that I really don't wanna be elegant

[@burberryclaretred6676]

Who sets elegant standards

[@gissellmeza9]

So boring

[@jbslimshaddy]

Sameeeee

[@heartstrings110]

😂 Yes, these standards are set around a certain demographic of elegant ladies. She’s accurate, though. The millionaire women I know who fit her target audience, and are married to millionaires dress like this.

[@ThakurAnjali_2.0]

Agreed

[@PercyandCo]

I just want to say I love how unapologetic you are in your opinion. It's a breath of fresh air to hear advice that isn't holding back. I love you're advice even if I don't agree with all of it and now I'm subscribed!

[@hayleybryan-brett3640]

Jackie Kennedy was the epitome of elegance, she wore jeans and simple t’shirts often.

[@takayasweeney]

Hayley Bryan-Brett Truth, but she was tailored to high heaven as well and looked great.💙💜

[@takayasweeney]

Maria Al-Masani I don’t like the torn jeans look on anyone, I don’t care who it is, they make my skin crawl thinking about the way those individual strips of fabric feel against skin.😱 I’m not quite sure what you’re referring to as a casual vs. formal society as most in today’s time seem quite lax as a whole. There may be pockets of formal but even referring to the “royals” I wouldn’t say all of their ensembles are anything to write home about, regardless of their cost. Sometimes the lot of them have looked downright frumpy and ill-fitted...especially when it comes to all of those ruffles billowing about in the breeze. Please don’t get me started on those ridiculous “fascinator” hats. 😄 The “royal” men look mostly sloppy to me because they’re out of shape with guts. Perhaps they require girdles as well as some of the females? 😄

[@stylyoreilly]

Plus Princess Diana

[@1MegArbo]

This is true. She also never traveled in jeans, nor went to the publishing house in jeans. Jackie O most assuredly was dressed appropriately for the occasion at hand.

[@oniari77]

Oh, finally Here the right comment i was looking for. T-Shirt is a big No no? I dont get it. Somehow It’s not all about what clothes someone wears, but who wore it! It’s about Who’s inside the clothes and not what about what you put on. I guess that’s being a lady, it’s a person inside. I could see someone so beautiful and Chic in t-shirt. What makes classy is the one Who wore it, our persona. Thank you for mentioning Jackie O. 😊 And ps, it’s not cartoon. It is Disney! What is not Classic and classy about the older Disney story and character. Again, it is not about how it appears only (childish, a mouse or animal Who can speak), but the story beneath it, the value held in it. 😊 Disney is classy and classical. ❤️. Period. Just please do not generalize all tees and animal looks are not appropriate for classy or elegant appearance. Can not deny when “casual is a new elegance”, when a proper lady wore it in a perfect elegancy and right moment.

[@alliefu7499]

I regular fly long distance flights (15 hrs) and so far I found yoga pants the most comfortable. I wonder what other options are most comfortable in her opinions

[@TheGinaChan]

Riiight? Honestly I can't even fathom what could possibly be MORE comfortable than yoga pants, on an airplane of all places..

[@Blaire_Shoe]

Please, someone reply and let us all know what is more comfy than yoga pants!

[@LongliveEDL]

Allie Fu culottes are also loose and comfy

[@sthefanigallardo9737]

Maxi dresses

[@MIZIUPA]

That’s why you will never be upgraded... you certainly know no better.

[@melyas541]

I feel like being elegant is more an attitude than just clothes but it’s just my opinion you know... You can totally be elegant with just a white t-shirt and jeans

[@idkman8962]

Melyas deff yes but most of these folks live day to day in very high class society visiting high class places and in those there are RULES and DRESSCODES u have to follow regardless, that what she is teaching

[@mariaeinarsdottir5390]

I think she was focusing more on an elegant style rather than elegance over all in this video. There are just different styles that all fall under different labels. She was just giving tips for those who want to follow this certain style, and yes, she might have been a little hard on certain things. But if something does not fall under the category of elegant, it does not mean that is is bad (even though she clearly doesn’t like that 😂), it’s just a different style. But when it comes to elegance over all I totally agree with you! 😊💜 (Also the white T-shirt and jeans look is great, definitely elegant I think!)

[@Alexis_005]

Doubt it

[@Gracie0918]

I agree with most. I wear a few of the things you said. I don't like to wear most of the things you said. And since I live in a tropical country, there is a difference in the fashion trend.

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

Why so many dislikes ? I feel like people didn't listen to the disclaimer : this video is for women who want to elevate their looks. She's just giving advice, no need to feel offended if you wear some of these clothes.

[@thatbooknerdoverthere7899]

Uhm, people are actually allowed to dislike something and also state their opinions?

[@pauline1809]

I'm not offended because i wear the things she's talking about, i'm annoyed because this is an extremely classist, boring and repressed video...

[@cherryblossomist]

I feel they didn't even read the title

[@catttoz]

Cause its nonsense

[@ernesto1461]

Because she's arrogant and nobody likes it!!!!

[@a.karencampose.2144]

I would love to see suggestions of wardrobe for travel, comfortable and elegant. Happy to have you back Anna!

[@itsmeGeorgina]

Yes! I agree

[@emesefodor7594]

Agree!

[@paulamwelwankandu1440]

Agreed!

[@shoh1541]

Yes please!

[@shkoderloce7280]

Yes pleasee

[@chrismas7590]

What I find strange are the people getting upset about a video on dressing elegantly when they aren't interested in dressing elegantly anyways. It comes off as insecure.

[@59gloriabethsaida21]

Yesss

[@cristinap273]

They feel personally attacked. I don't. But some people also make this mistakes but they take it in a good manner.

[@mariannek6735]

Or they disagree with her opinions on what elegance is, or with her attitude. I'm one of those people, I disagree with her. I strive to be elegant, but not her version of elegant. Now I haven't left a comment on it, but it's perfectly fine to criticise or discuss the topic, her opinions or her attitude if you have something to say or discuss. Commenting is not only for those who agree wholeheartedly with her and who has nothing thoughtprovoking to say. Some might seem angry or upset in the comments, and that's because they are. I'm sure you'll understand why if you read the longer more in depth comments on the subject.

[@Lin-kk5be]

People don’t judge her style people judge the way she expresses her superiority complex.

[@pluggerblog]

Very true

[@tinker5389]

Just found your videos and appreciate what you are doing. Sadly, many women have the wrong ideas about how to dress their best. It doesn't take a lot of money or effort. I am 70 years old, and because of health issues, am on SSI. I don't have a lot of clothes, but most of them are good quality and in good shape from the thrift shop. I dress carefully and neatly in mostly neutrals, keep my hair in an easy classic cut, wear minimum accent jewelry, and make sure my few pairs of shoes and purses are neutral and in good shape. I often receive compliments on my appearance from strangers as well as from friends and family. Just because my health and finances aren't great, doesn't mean I have to feel bad about myself and want others to pity me.

[@shraddharoy3951]

in other words- "Don't follow the Kardashians"

[@lizcedie]

I never really got the hype with the Kardashians so that's ok

[@michcamaro71]

Best comment on KZbin!!!

[@amadib.6405]

Yup

[@MonethSato]

An expired bags belongs in the cemetery 😂

[@nancysrios]

That is so true. Kim dresses like Mortisia.on The Adams Fsmilly.

[@user-vi2xr5vb3j]

I'm literally so addicted to your channel. I adore the change in style and manner you are affecting in young people like myself and others.

[@katieday2744]

Elegance is intelligence, being well spoken and educated. It's no good dressing as such if there is no substance to it!

[@mrm3535]

Katie Day 🙌🏼

[@bassam7317]

Katie Day It’s both not just your substance and lest be honest most of you lack that too

[@bathos22]

And to be intelligent is to NOT buy into what's in this video.

[@bathos22]

@S.Laila D Except no one is saying people are not judged by how they look. The point actually is, this idea that women are supposed to meet some arbitrary standard set by some misguided folk is neanderthal thinking. Simple as that.

[@starseed484]

You came not to tell us what we want to hear but what we NEED TO HEAR! Thank you for another video Anna 🌸 You’re transforming our minds to become the classy ladies we truly are 🌹

[@SinaAla]

I love how you do not equate what rich girls wear to what elegant ladies wear. Great channel overall. Thanks!

[@katiehughes9497]

“yoga pants are not even the most comfortable thing to wear” me: ...you know what she’s right *gets up changes into sweat pants* 😂

[@harleybaker4684]

Moooood

[@vanessanegus4698]

👊

[@ad4029]

The only other thing I could think of too 😆

[@George_Tropicana]

This comment should have many many more likes 😄

[@suzanneaubin7599]

😂😂😂

[@fioremon.9840]

So basically DO NOT follow the Kardashian’s look if you want to be elegant 🤣

[@19797104]

There is NOTHING elegant about the Kardashians. The way in which they became famous just proves that

[@Alice_Z10]

😆😂😂

[@etherike2769]

Kardashians are anything but elegant.

[@babydoll2887]

Sinds when is a model elegant??they are more trashy

[@aspynk1198]

Fiona Moon 😂

[@tnaomi577]

There are only 2 things I don’t agree with here: 1) no cartoon/ animal pictures on your clothes, not even pajamas?! I think I deserve to be “childish” in the comfort of my own bed. 2) No t-shirts, even at home? In my country’s hot weather, that is the only thing I wear at home! I guess I don’t have an elegant soul. 😂

[@specialmomsgarden1743]

You spoke my mind!😂

[@g.t1492]

You have a happy soul haha🤭😊 if it makes me happy I'll wear it

[@mirasultan1137]

Imagine being her daughter LMAAAOOO

[@viperafangs]

Mira Sultan yikes. No thanks

[@preetydevi2375]

Worst nightmare

[@sososesar5154]

She would probably be a Punk :D

[@vanessafranzel4864]

@@sososesar5154 that's what I thought! The first thing I'd do would have been cutting my hair with awful bangs, completely rainbow colored and only wearing ripped everything, hippie style and shoes from the garbage lol

[@sososesar5154]

@@vanessafranzel4864 okay, you just described me, but yeah 😂

[@ananyamisra6556]

This was the first video made by Anna I ever saw. I was annoyed initially and decided to hate watch some of her content. I was however surprised as to how much I enjoy her videos. Her views on femininity and gender roles are not something all would agree upon, however some of her videos are really helpful if you want to refine some of your characteristics. This video is not a good example of her entire content. These are her opinions on elegance, you are free to disagree. However, I urge you to give Anna a chance.

[@jamien.5528]

We’ll see

[@Shopee313]

Yes I agree, her videos helps you to be a refine lady so it's your choice if you want to be feminine or elegant lady enough or just be you. She is so straightforward but i believed she says things according to what she have learned from school , School of Affluent meaning its not all about her opinion but base from study.

[@rachelbegmusic]

This is the best comment i can agree on. Totally true 👍. At first , my ego was out of place and got angry .😂. But i'd be stupid to judge a lady just by a video. So i watched more of her videos. And damn , her recent video showed how women have the freedom to wear anything in an elegant way. How we can bring elegance in our different fashion style. Some things are hard for me to miss like shorts. But now i know which shorts to wear to make me look more refined n polished lady. Also my fashion style is not royal like Anna Bey so i skip on some points. I have curated my wardrobe based on my style & her tips .

[@HeyRache]

“Hate watch”😂

[@simranrebeccakujur5373]

Yup ...I agree

[@bebop54]

clothing is very important ...but true elegance is so much more than clothing... it is elusive ...a gift...a rare gift ..manners & etiquette can of course be taught, but not elegance, which is a natural state of 'being' .. ultimately , it is how you make others feel when they are with you .. graciousness , kindness , a great wit , a wonderful listener & conversationalist .. a person who is irresistable to others ...a very cultured person.... the energy surrounding the person ...these are the true qualities of 'elegance'....

[@joliennina]

bebop Brava 👏🏽

[@moistsocks9435]

100%

[@mbendashley]

Sooo true

[@amd4677]

Very well said, I agree.

[@MC-hx9ub]

Clothing is 'important' ? Only if fashion is your hobby.

[@purpleshine6832]

Prints like mickey mouse print, animals print, strawberries are so much fun. It just makes me happy looking at my shirt. I think some prints bring happiness.

[@jessicawalton3497]

As someone who is VERY casual in their lifestyle, I'm not mad about any of this advice. There's a difference between casual and trashy. If you're trying to come off as "elegant" her advise is solid and practical. I'm 42. I also reject the 90's retro look. I was a teenager then and I'm not trying to look like a teen again. I'm guilty of having a pair of jeans with small holes but I'm not trying to wear them everywhere I go.

[@justsomegirlwithoutamustache]

Same. I'm 20 now and trying to change up my style just a little, although I don't think I could fully make everything I wear elegant. i like a bit of variety

[@19751222]

Gee…I have a long jean skirt with holes…and I am ….kind of old…😅

[@earolycarasco4792]

elegant is so lovely

[@mirandack4350]

I hope I dont offend anyone, to me flannel doesnt look elegant. Its a 90s trend that shouldnt have come back, its very tacky in my opinion.

[@mysa.relind977]

You sound like a confident woman Good for you 👍

[@estyalasu]

ahh, everything my mom told me growing up that I refused to listen to. It all comes full circle now that I'm an adult and trying to be a classy lady.

[@heddaszczepanski9210]

Me too😂 I was a rebel! But, I haven’t forgotten what she told me🤗

[@aquarius7060]

Its exactly with my mom right now...... but now i got to know that she is right.

[@Maner1013]

I actually do not follow trends! My favorite guide quote is: “In a world full of trends, I try to remain a classic!” Iman. 🙂

[@ZiggyKitty]

Nerma Jasarevic “trends are for the anxious.”

[@gaudycouturist4856]

Love Iman

[@Nofretari]

T-shirts made from good quality fabric that fit your body well does look elegant with an skirt or tailored slacks.

[@PatriceGilliland]

I’m watching Anna Bey videos from 3-4 years ago and they’re still on point. Timeless advice

[@gorgeous6854]

Elegance should not only be in what a LADY should wear but should reflect in her bahavior. As a man, that's my opinion

[@Ellen_Seokjin]

yeah, but she is talking about clothes specifically.

[@JadynMock]

The way you dress is the way people so your personality, so if you want more respect and to be seen as an elegant that's the way you need to be dressed. and ladies dress elegantly or at least modestly. Nonladies are the ones that want sexual attention by dressing like that.

[@lyricallyaesthetic9561]

@@JadynMock I'm a lady and I agree.

[@jemma-joon]

@@JadynMock 👍 true, and we all know that, yet u'll see the cheap ones arguing against common sense.

[@danijelaradanovic9827]

Totally agree. 🙂

[@annetteemma6585]

Life is to short to be elegant and uptight all the time.

[@LoveHappinessShineOn]

Actually, balance should be the goal. •Elegance doesn't have to be uptight. •Dressing for comfort doesn't need to look lazy like you don't care. •Dressing sexy doesn't have to be trashy. Too many people pick one style and use it for every occasion. Then ignore, turn away from or put down other styles and modes of dressing. Life is too short to ignore or refuse to be open to the options. Finding a balance can be fun and makes it your own style. I think this video does have some good tips. But the lady in it could use some more balance.

[@niveditabdass4811]

@@LoveHappinessShineOn I like these words.. balance must be there for a full filling life ..

[@leyali524]

Her advices are miserable and degrading

[@LoveHappinessShineOn]

@@leyali524 - What parts do you find miserable and degrading about her advice? I'm not being funny. I really want to know.

[@leyali524]

Deborah H the fact that if you are not following her advice you are not elegant and the comments about high society bs.

[@GiorgiaFumo]

I love the way she is always polite but looks disgusted when talking about what to avoid 🤣

[@dezirae1619]

Epitome of affluence. Diplomacy is an art.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

LoL. I have that look on my face a lot. People's clothes say a lot about them. I try to look elegant as I can. You never know who you will meet and network with.

[@aureliepaulinem]

That's because respect and politeness are two different things my dear. They were short in money so they had to cut the respect class

[@sistersmith2336]

How about when she said "shoot me if you don't agree" lol!!

[@patr70]

@@aureliepaulinem That makes no sense..

[@clauarden7512]

I love your videos anyone that gets offended by your advices is not elegant and don’t belong here anyway. Thanks so much Anna Bey I’m in my 40s I’ve been watching your videos for a year now and I love how I’ve changed my look even when I go to bed and feel great about it. Love love love it beautiful lady 💃🏼

[@kaboomaroom1629]

Take a shot every time she says cheap, elegant ,ladies or please

[@amandamohammed9028]

did you mean cheap?

[@elenipanagiotopoulou2317]

And "why?"

[@mellisapollom2241]

It wouldn't take long at for me to be loaded! Lol

[@industrialcathedral]

and affluent

[@MarsellaFyngold]

And juvenile

[@suzywilson]

Anna, ladies always have high standards that are clearly articulated. I have a lot of respect for girls who are able to have the bravery and the class to articulate them elegantly. Well done, Anna! Haters are going to do their thing but the rest of us are here to support you and learn from you.

[@stephanievalle8257]

Okay, please tell me I’m not the only one interested seeing a closet tour from this elegant queen ✨ Excellent video by the way, very helpful💖

[@adrianaleichovsky7496]

Stephanie Valle YES!

[@lucianamjjose4358]

Oh yeah. ....... please Anna

[@soulrhythms6538]

Yesssss OMG

[@sweetrang]

Yes please ✌️

[@shachede6828]

same here!

[@lizbits9339]

I like making an effort but since I became disabled with chronic pain I will wear my leggings more. It’s so easy if you’re I’ll to get lazy but the more I care for my appearance the better I feel. It helps me with depression too when I struggle. I grew up in an upper class family and was forced to do the whole quiet money look but I got bored crazy with it. I was only allowed to wear navy and maroon colors growing up. I drove my mother crazy when I begged her for neon clothes and patent leather. More and more I’m enjoying the classics again. It makes me feel secure and how I want to present myself. Hope everyone is having a great day and never let a wealthy person intimidate you. They’re just as insecure as anyone and often way more neurotic. ❤

[@karolinatomczak8069]

if you are dressed neatly and you feel confident and good in it, this is enough to be classy and beautiful;)

[@sunnywithoutachance1603]

Please donate your "expired" bags to me.. thank you

[@mariam3947]

Yessssssss

[@jessiecatmeow419]

Me too

[@sandylu1]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nargizayusupova3524]

hahaha

[@sindhura1341]

smart 😂

[@cath3077]

She literally dragged Instagram baddies tho

[@cath3077]

Davynn Balinski what’s narcissistic about her ?

[@outerspace2325]

@@cath3077 because she's acting like her style is only appropriate. I'm gonna dress how I feel and express myself the way I want to. You can see, she's onto rich men, that's why she wants and forces herself to be elegant. She doesn't respect other styles and sounds pathetic.

[@cath3077]

outer space well I mean, if you wanna dress a certain way good, but the video is specifically for ppl who want to dress more elegantly. I don’t recall her being disrespectful to other styles, simply saying what’s elegant and what’s not, and for the most part she is right, the whole Instagram baddie thing does not look sophisticated. It doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with it. She’s only mentioning what is not appropriate if you want to have that style, Also, assuming she forces herself on it is pretty rude, some people just like to look that way for themselves. If you want to dress how you feel and express yourself however you want I support it but then why are you watching her video?

[@virgomelody8545]

😅😅👌🏽

[@cd7942]

outer space but then you have to accept that ppl look at you down