10 Things People Hate About INFPs

[@Gjakdjruknownhpjs]

😮 how can someone call an aloof person narcissistic, when narcissists are the ones who die for spotlight and attention. We are not just aloof, we are awkwardly peculiarly aloof!

[@GeekPsychology]

People say and do the strangest things. Me included.

[@muma6559]

i agree. Not likely to be narcissistic

[@danab172]

Job interview today. I was asked if I valued independence more or working with others. I choked up an awkward answer. Then spent the rest of the afternoon alone in the woods to relieve the built up stress about the interview.

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I too had an interview on 8th March and found myself acting more chirpy than my real self based on how the questions were going. I feel like interviews are the one place where we all know we're over-emphasizing (I don't want to say lying), but we are forced/encouraged to give answers that interviewers will like vs giving answers that are true to who we are. I definitely understand taking time to decompress afterwards. I do hope you feel better and find the role that makes you feel whole. Take care ok?

[@UniqueGeekFreak]

I have an upcoming interview, but am dreading it I don't want to go, because I feel like a loser & I don't want to be humiliated & judged by others. I also have nothing to sell about myself or share about myself that is of good use for work

[@peachesandpoets]

Aw babe 😢

[@GeekPsychology]

Nothing quite like being alone in nature. Take that sentence however you want to. I wish there were woods and forests here in Tokyo.

[@danab172]

​​@@hyacinthdibley2420Thank you! :) Wow, and I got 22 likes. Good luck to you as well! And, yea! 😂 I actually practiced for my interview by crying and telling my true story of loss and injustice. Followed by watching fake funny interviews by this guy on youtube. One where he is wearing an appropriate business suit shirt but says hold on let me get my resume, and proceed to show his rear end across the bed wearing leopard speedos. 😂 I did jumping Jacks and splashed cold water on my face...put peppermint in the diffusers. Then acted super chirpy.

[@anushamirkhanyan4600]

As an INFP, sometimes I want to open up and in fact I do, but I feel misunderstood or I feel that I overshared my thoughts and emotions and others are not interested in(((

[@nathanwood4762]

This is my dilemma too. People say I should "open up and be vulnerable" until I do. Then they say I "overshared" or ignore me as I'm trying to explain something important to me. It's a double bind. Whichever choice you make, you get put at the disadvantage. My choice is to stop wasting effort on people who are not trustworthy. They still call me aloof, but at least I'm not wasting my effort, or revealing vulnerabilities for them to exploit. I hope you find a few trustworthy people. There are some who simply seem safe to me. I do my best not to take a deep dive into raw emotion. Instead, I tell them open-ended stories about things that are noteworthy to me. Then they say "I love how weird you are" and we both feel good. PS: The open-ended stories are only for people I trust. I don't reveal anything I value to people I can't trust. If necessary, I will lie to conceal personal information. I will let them believe I like sports, food, pop music, etc. if it protects my closest feelings from abuse.

[@anushamirkhanyan4600]

@@nathanwood4762 I understand you, I've chosen not to talk about things important to me too. They say the most valuable memories are the ones you haven't shared with anyone. But from time to time I want to talk to someone like I talk to myself and not be condemned for being vulnerable. Sometimes it happens that I see and recognize "my" people from the first sight like I've known them for years, but unfortunately I never get the chance to befriend with them.

[@Fred.Carpenter]

The larval has no interest in you, you do not exist, unless you can hook into Hir limited reality-island, transmit on Hir narrow mind-band, unless your behavior offers meaning in terms of possible benefit or threat to Hir: 1. cellular well being 2. emotional-hierarchical status 3. artifact manipulation game 4. socio-sexual security; domestic reassurance All larval interactions are instrumental to one of the four survival attitudes. Larvals are comfortably adapted to this limited four-channel communication, scan automatically for the survival meaning of each stimulus and scuttle by each other like ants, each intent on Hir own "reality" - reacting automatically to relevant cues from others. - Timothy Leary PhD

[@TheCentralSun]

I love us INFPs we’re wonderful 💗

[@GeekPsychology]

💯

[@TheFpskiller]

you truly are! from fellow intp here .d

[@bakarka]

Even now at age 60, I recall clearly my high expectations dashed on the first day of Kindergarten when I saw the other kids and thought, holy crap, am I going to be stuck with these noisy brats? I quickly learned the value of being aloof and keeping my distance. At recess instead of playing with the others, I played with the globe and dreamt of going somewhere else. So little has changed.

[@brynax170]

Same, now at age 36, peopel are so annoyingly noisy 😂

[@Nezuko_yoyo]

Nothing needs to change stay as you are

[@azammohammed9567]

@bakarka I am a 38 year old INFP, and I share your sentiments.

[@wanderer4865]

i can't believe you're 39 man, you look so young!

[@GeekPsychology]

Thank you! I’m starting to get some grey hairs!! So scary

[@antoinettenovella1630]

@@GeekPsychology Don't be. Grey hairs are less ominous than health issues - stay healthy and wise :)

[@anonymousavatar6144]

Looking young is an INFP trait! It’s that dreamy idealism shining through. 👶

[@famousutopias]

The late great Jack Benny had a running joke that he was 39… for years 😁. You can start now!

[@toothdecay2465]

I cut ties with another person recently. It was a loyalty issue, something I viewed as a betrayal. The first time I remember cutting someone out was in junior high, someone who was a very close friend-- my best friend, or so I thought. I told him the closest secret to my heart, about my mother's death (suicide). I caught him talking to others about it and making light of it. The hurt was indescribable. I said nothing then, nor at any time afterwards. Instantly cut off. I wouldn't even acknowledge his presence. If I cut someone out, it's usually because they've violated a core value and there's no point, I feel, even discussing it.

[@GeekPsychology]

Good for you. I think you did the right thing. And I also think what you did is it better than the alternative of mistreated and not doing anything about it. And it’s your choice if you want to make amends or not.

[@peachesandpoets]

I can't imagine that betrayal. I'm so sorry that happened.

[@LauraCordes]

Who could hate an INFP? We have our flaws and idiosyncrasies like anyone else, but we're not malicious, not unless someone pushes us much too far, and we care so deeply about everyone and everything. People have accused me of being too distant and aloof, and maybe I am with people I don't know yet, but once I get to know someone, I become more warm toward them and one of their strongest allies.

[@julieolson1402]

"Honest, and can't be controlled," scares the he'll out of most people, especially when couched in a seemingly mild mannered, Clark Kent type.

[@joannechua8266]

@@julieolson1402 I am an INFP! Totally agree on we are honest, and can't be controlled. I just don't understand why it scare people? I believe as an INFP we would appreciate people who are honest and we don't like to controlled anyone. We just want them to be themselves. I would be so happy to have honest people and people who dare to be themselves as my close friends

[@marybell2002]

I don't dislike all INFPs but the person I hate most in the world is an INFP. Needy, overly dependant, infantile, immature, over sensitive, self-pitying, playing the victim while being the perpetrator, a burden, a taker, irrational, vindictive, hypocritical, entitled, delusional, self-absorbed, feeling sorry for self while lacking empathy for others all describe an adult INFP male I know. Some INFPs are great but this particular one and many others see themselves as these poor innocent little lambs when they're really not. It's interesting because as a non-INFP I'm also not a malicious person unless someone pushes me too far, but an INFP will justify the mean things they do while condemning others for doing the same things. In their heads others do mean things because they're evil but when an INFP does the same mean thing it's because they're a poor little angel that was just pushed too far.

[@ameliadeshane9192]

I loved when you said we avoid conflict, and corrected that it might depend on enneagram. I know I do not avoid conflict because I know conflict = growth and opportunity to learn. I know this is not the mentality of all INFP'S. I am a 4w5, Turbulent, with Avoidant attachment style and I wish conflict was more fearful. It would help if I was afraid of people and worldly consequences

[@billyb4790]

It's so funny how INFJs and INFPs are vastly different on the cognitive function stack but we often end up outwardly in the same places.

[@UniqueGeekFreak]

I stopped sharing of my thoughts & emotions & what is going on internally or my different opinions, and just keep them to myself. Whoever genuinely wants to know or hear them will. I just keep all the good energy to myself because ppl can't handle others being dreamy or optimistic, they want to burst your bubble just for you to confirm to their misery. I've been there many times as well, thinking it was too much when someone was cheerful when i was moody or sulking, i got afraid of that person & stayed away from them, because i couldn't believe my eyes i met someone similar to myself....that i just ran away instead. Been praying yo be with my own kind. Whenever it happens, i get so shocked i don't know what to say or do, that i just leave never come back. It's as if i am looking for the bad, because that is all ive ever known. When someone or something good shows up i get very suspicious because it is so unfamiliar. I rhink i will just be myself when im with myself. And i treat ppl accordingly to how they treat me or how they want to be treated

[@GeekPsychology]

Do you think that it’s possible that you’re bringing some of those preconceptions into new interactions or relationships? I appreciate the good energy, and I think there may be some ways to be expanded so that you are happier and you have more positive interactions. I know it’s an uphill battle sometimes, but I really believe that INFPs have an endless well of curiosity and joy- but we don’t always allow ourselves to experience it.

[@midnightcat6116]

Fellow INFPer here 😅 People tell me i come across as a b*tchy mean girl. Once they get to know me, they realize I’m super nice, almost too nice in a toxic way lmao 🤣

[@nikolqy]

? As an INTP, i think that you are very selfish... It's digusting.

[@brynax170]

​@@nikolqyoh, thats rude man. That is ironic as an INTP, and you dont know her and havent walk in her shoes and just judged her on her one comment! 😂

[@nikolqy]

@@brynax170 no, I just know I’ve spent 10 years of my life in 5 year close friendships with INFPs and they both ended the exact same way. They were definitely the exact same passive people.

[@angelcoyote9802]

Your way of communicating is so soothing and clear, and more like me than I usually see. Makes me feel happy to be INFP :) Thank you for the good tips.

[@GeekPsychology]

I'm so glad! Feeling happy about your personality type is very important.

[@Peachbunnyyay]

As an INFP I really appreciate ur vids, pls keep up the good work

[@GeekPsychology]

Thanks ^^ What would make it even better?

[@Individually_Authentic111]

Your description of the struggles of an INFP is so accurate. I appreciate your willingness to share your experience and insights as to how to tap into our potential. Thank you.

[@GeekPsychology]

You’re very welcome ^^ thank you for commenting and telling me

[@t.c2031]

I find it very hard meeting new people as an INFP but your videos have helped me understand more of myself !

[@GeekPsychology]

Happy to hear that it helped. Keep at it!

[@sweetabby7700]

This channel is an INFP gold mine 😍

[@amporu]

i cant even connect to myself, so i understand why people would not be able to connect to me

[@GeekPsychology]

Good point. I guess you know where to start if that’s the goal ^^

[@danab172]

That's an interesting comment. I have never thought about it in that way. I know that I know my interests and values and life experiences and purpose. Yet, do I connect with myself? What would that mean? Sometimes I think.... would I as an outsider want to connect with me? And yikes. I honestly would feel intimidated by myself. Even when I'm warm and friendly there is something secretive. A coworker told me many years ago that I scared people. Another one made a comment once that she thought I was afraid to be myself. What did that mean? I was professional. This would be some great topic for @geekpsychology on here.

[@danab172]

​@@GeekPsychologyCopy and pasting my comment for you. Ideas for a video? That's an interesting comment. I have never thought about it in that way. I know that I know my interests and values and life experiences and purpose. Yet, do I connect with myself? What would that mean? Sometimes I think.... would I as an outsider want to connect with me? And yikes. I honestly would feel intimidated by myself. Even when I'm warm and friendly there is something secretive. A coworker told me many years ago that I scared people. Another one made a comment once that she thought I was afraid to be myself. What did that mean? I was professional. This would be some great topic for @geekpsychology on here.

[@Ela29653]

​​@@danab172I agree this is a great topic . I got the same comment from my mgr, that I need to be myself more and that I am acting professional all the time. But I am being myself, they just don't see it for some secret reason.

[@GeekPsychology]

@danab172 what is the topic? “What does it mean to be yourself?” ?

[@JohnSims-su8tn]

Once on a job I wrote a line of code that caused my boss to threaten to KILL ME if I set foot on his property ... Needless to say I left that job in the next month 😢.

[@borderedge6465]

Matt, this is fantastic! So comprehensive and in depth about INFP. From this INTP’s standpoint two things. 1)Something both INTP and INFP may not be too aware of that is off-putting to others, we can both come across as Goody-Two-Shoes, being just ‘nice’ when everyone else is “acting out and being a bit irresponsible, really!” This, as Leon of Type Talks (another incredible INFP) explains, is our 3rd function Si and the immature way we express it, making us look just lame and exaggerated in appearing ‘good’. I know we’re not TRYING, but that’s what it looks like to others. I think our difference is; we INTPs appear to be be Goody TwoShoes about being ‘nice!’ to people (inferior/ aspirational Fe), and you guys about ‘ALWAYS helping to get the work done!’ (Inferior/ aspirational Te). Resonate, anyone? 2)our Fi or Ti makes what comes OUT OF OUR MOUTHS seem more stubborn and dug-in than what we genuinely feel on the inside. And THAT is hugely off-putting to most people.

[@julieolson1402]

"There is a cost to specialization." Most succinct encapsulation of this idea I've seen short of, "You gonna pay!"

[@GeekPsychology]

thanks! its a very important concept that has helped me a lot

[@Nostalgik]

Thank you so much for these heart to heart talks. I admittedly struggle to find time to just sit and listen through all of it at once with all these internet stimuli nowadays, but when I do, you really put me at peace 🥰

[@GeekPsychology]

You’re welcome. It’s a long video, too.

[@christinehallfeldt4280]

When u said rub the people wrong way it made sense. I am always told that. And it makes me sad like maybe I shouldn't say anything at all and then I can't upset nobody. I'm like what i do or say that was so bad? I still don't know lol. 😊

[@GeekPsychology]

Maybe upsetting people is not the worst in the world and is the potential cause for positive change

[@thescribe4742]

Me, an ISFP, identifying with 70% o these issues👀

[@GeekPsychology]

^^

[@vivjrhy1129]

i love sharing any ideas to my brother and talked about it. but in school i cannot open my mouth. i saw the gladness of my classmate's face when i started to talk.

[@Chris-tg3qy]

Narcissistic people do not sit alone in a corner.

[@Mildly_Unsuccessful_Individual]

Good stuff; I resonate! As an INFP, I generally do not share the same level of enthusiasm for much of what is popular, normal or conventionally appreciated by the average person. On top of this, I also struggle to adapt my expression to match outward, social expectations whenever I'm not feeling it. I think this is often misinterpreted as me judging others, but it's mostly just a result of me being ruthlessly true to myself. I assume this aspect of my personality is what's most often grating to the average person; especially extroverts.

[@khadeejadja]

Wow... A lot of trigger points here but a great video as always, Matt. Thank you for being brave to say all these points, now I can see clearly on why I being and have been misunderstood by a lot of people.

[@xxsnow_angelxx3953]

True many ppl are conflict making 'naturally' nowadays. So it gets hard to on purpose put yourself in a confrontational place

[@GeekPsychology]

I debated making the video. Then debated releasing it. Lots of touchy subjects, but I did my best to deliver them in a way that is still supportive.

[@andytheindividual3862]

As a person, and an infp, I despise these things too 😂

[@GeekPsychology]

lol

[@CommissionerLofi]

Bro... This advice... Is helping me man..

[@uncoolcat95]

Bro where has your channel been my whole life? XD

[@GeekPsychology]

I don’t know. I’ve been making videos for like 10 years. I have literally made over 1000 videos.

[@Fred.Carpenter]

It doesn't matter if I hate them first. I didn't always, they trained me to do so.

[@kevinwalters2887]

I just assumed I was crazy until i researched this. Wow this is so me! Finally someone understands me 😮 (edited this comment like 5 times and im still not happy with it... fuck it)

[@imeprezime9098]

Thanks for the video. I completely agree with everything in the first part of the video, naturally, completely skipped the second (advices) and enjoyed the ending :) Only true INFPs will understand ;)

[@peachesandpoets]

Also, you look and sound so young. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us

[@Yukon33]

My mom is INFP (mom at home), I am INTJ. We clashed on basically two things while under the same roof: 1) I found her overly sensitive to "blunt words" (getting hung over the words instead of the intent, or lack thereof, behind the words) 2) Her lower Si-Te for organising things, which I judged as a waste of time and irrelevant to my Te, and she was super annoyed with me I would not follow her "rules" on ordering and cleaning, and when to do it. I also had to learn to discuss with a Ne person who always leaves the main point of the conversation in a very short time, and interrupts the flow to go in a completely unexpected direction without warning lol. I became very good at having "mind post-its" of unfinished conversations I wanted a conclusion on, to be continued at a later time, sometimes weeks later. :)

[@enricio]

My daughter is an INFP, and I'm an INFJ. We are like two hands on one belly. I enjoy her pace but even more her insights and ability to reflect on herself. She has grown so much the last decade with lots of pain. I've always told her she's the most important person in her life. When life was tough my words kept her on her feet. ❤😊🥹

[@truthtransistorradio6716]

As an INFP male, I have noticed that I have had the most relationships with INFJs. Not sure if they have more understanding and connection with us or what.

[@linmonPIE]

I needed this talk. Thanks, Matt!

[@GeekPsychology]

You’re welcome. Thank you for listening and commenting and taking it to heart.

[@KevinBerus]

When people are put on a pedestal they usually end up falling

[@nikolqy]

Falling on their own or falling in the eyes of the admirer?

[@KevinBerus]

@@nikolqy both I suppose

[@sawdustadikt979]

I don’t know where I got it from, but I’ve always been a “work on my weaknesses” kinda guy. I’ve found over the decades, when I choose to focus on something I suck at, everything I’m good at immediately improves. I don’t know if it’s fostering humility by going all in on something I will fail at but time after time I suck alittle less at the thing? There is quite a bit of discipline and structure that goes into this, otherwise I’d never do it. I can easily imagine that if I didn’t do this, there would be fertile ground for arrogant ignorance to flourish, that possibility scares the hell out of me.

[@ashlieperez3755]

I don’t think people have a hard time connecting with me as much as I have a hard time connecting with people, because it takes SO MUCH for me to feel connected to others. I remember in college I unintentionally offended someone because he said we were friends but I just casually said that we weren’t, even though we interacted a lot because we had several classes together. In my head we weren’t friends because I do have high standards of what determines friendship.

[@aurograce2983]

For me I have acquaintances, sorta friends (like friends that only talk to you at class or at work), friends (talk to you at or outside of work, you have their personal number and have shared intrest and have shared your personal lives with eachother) and good friend (someone who is alwaus there for you and you are friends at all times, can hang out together and pick up where you left off, can talk about most anything).

[@famousutopias]

Conflict avoidance is strong in me to be sure. But there have been two (very traumatic) occasions where I couldn’t avoid it (“wouldn’t” avoid is more accurate) and I shocked both myself and my “conflictors” with my forceful resolve, firm communication, and air tight control over the situations. These were matters of principle about things and people I cared about. Fortunately each was short term- becoming what appeared to be a ESTJ or ENTJ was terrifying, painful, and exhausting! I’m secretly gratified I successfully went through it 🙃

[@MissLlewella]

I'm an infp in relationship with an infj, and with an estp. It is really amazing to see how I function and my loved ones. I learned to communicate and be direct and honest though. And I try to be unconditional, and to mirror that. That the differences are ok. Yeah I feel deeply, for others too, and it is ok, even if others don't feel that. I learned a lot, and happy with it, and being an infp ❤

[@GeekPsychology]

Great lessons to learn ^^

[@zd4w9]

Nice video. So true about this personality type.

[@pauljack2267]

Thank you

[@GeekPsychology]

Thank you very much Paul, it helps out a lot!

[@melaniesmith2917]

Aw 39 but still looking 17...❤

[@GeekPsychology]

lol

[@pugninja7037]

They are adorable , my sons a infpand friends and they care, my only thing they can be really emotional. But they are real.. as a entp, they are literally cute people

[@GeekPsychology]

Emotional especially in the younger years. I like ENTP and INFP dynamics

[@zach5754]

Thank you, this was really helpful (:

[@GeekPsychology]

Glad it was helpful!

[@ericaburdette]

That was such an INFP ending 😆

[@GeekPsychology]

lol

[@kilppari78]

Cracked up at "Lowered expectations..." 🤣

[@ranikster9955]

SO true. Often I’m so caught up in my own thoughts 💭 and daydreams, and I’m pretty sure that no one in my family understands me My mother said I would never get a boyfriend if I am this disorganised lol

[@GeekPsychology]

That’s her perception. I’m sure there are plenty of other people that are not her that would be happy to have a free spirited, curious, and authentic person in their life.

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

It’s not OK to abruptly stop speaking to somebody without an explanation because that is harmful and you have to put yourself in their shoes. I have been at discarded and Extremely hard time believing one of us would do that to a romantic partner. Unless we are very much does stressed or depressed or really mentally unable, but I hope there’s accountability

[@Pizzatime42008]

“Seal the wall so that the zombies don’t get in” Matt Sherman, 2024

[@GeekPsychology]

lol. Gotta watch out for the zombies.

[@joshuamensah9309]

Cool setup in the back btw

[@lailolema]

My goodness, this was me to a T.

[@user-wx3wz9tu8q]

After watching your video.. I have a bit of understanding of my Infp personality.. I'm struggling with negativity.. I feel empty and useless most of the time.. Tbh, I'm thinking, is this life too hard for me or is it just my head that's too crowded with negativity. I'm mostly alone and locked myself in my house .. I never reached out to neighbours or friends. I know they're trying to reach out to help like you said. But I'm so afraid of my own thoughts and locked myself up.. I was thinking about ending my life soon.. I hate this personality.. but this who I am.. How do you guys manage all this time? I really wanna live.. but I don't see the point of living in this world.

[@alexwelts2553]

Ugh, 3/4 of tasks. Everything. We need a finisher and would be happy to exchange or barter or trade the services of another talent.

[@GeekPsychology]

Yes! Willing to trade emotional support for someone to close loops on boring tasks.

[@peachesandpoets]

The thing I have a hard time changing is the disappearing. I tell people how I'm feeling, I tell people what I think, I tell people how what they're doing is affecting me. If after I have done that they still try to manipulate me, or gaslight me, or minimize what I'm feeling, I'm not explaining shit. I say okay and they never have access to me again. Like all infps I've met, I can be in a group having a conversation, and someone I've cut off can be in the group and it's fine with me, I just don't address them. I even have a parent that just doesn't exist for me anymore. I don't see a problem with that FOR ME. But I can see why others might want to change that, maybe in a work setting or family.

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

I think conflict resolution and compromise are healthy but I’d rather not just issues come up

[@cynthiadenny915]

I. Am. Known. 😳😉😊 (62yo F INFP-T)

[@GeekPsychology]

Hello

[@andrewfields4516]

intro music reminds me of maple story kerning square music

[@GeekPsychology]

^^ I sent the guy a bunch of songs that I liked and he made what he thought was fitting of the vibe.

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

I want the table organized, I just really struggle to organize it

[@zegeist333]

This feels like a death sentence

[@GeekPsychology]

What do you mean?

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

Maybe a gift you just have to shift your perspective on. After all, there is a cost for everything. The sensitivity is needed

[@TonsOFun8403]

So many of these hit home, but I always blamed most on my ADHD, I'm surprised to find how many stem simply from being an INFP.. Wondering if you could do a video on the correlation between the two. How many other INFP have also been diagnosed with ADHD? The struggle of this combo is Real!

[@coreyroberts47]

Meeeeeeee

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

I have ADHD to and I suspect some autism and of course high sensitivity. I wonder what astrological signs, I’m a Capricorn cusp

[@Luciofernandez666]

You dont tell an infp what to do. Im an absurdist. People sucks

[@xxsnow_angelxx3953]

I had to explain to my bf that I'm headcanon, thats just how I understand the world n he said: I'm both confused and understand a little (like it makes sense). It is scary to let them get into our head when we have our own versions and put up walls.

[@GeekPsychology]

No need to be scared. You control your own reality and reactions to it ^^

[@dermotjones8753]

Avoids conflict but has 3 Katana's on the wall?

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

Then would two of us together be in heaven as friends?

[@Nick-Nasty]

16:53 omg this is so huge for me at the moment...

[@b.lloydreese2030]

Yeah, my dad just told me (because i couldnt read his mind) that i have cognitive and behavioral disabilities/impairment (which of course i couldnt have gotten from him). Typical boomer

[@marcusdefgomes]

You look 21 dude

[@Snowlily01]

I think the advice could be a little more “helpful”and not vague like some 1 star marriage counsellor. Could be this or could be that. Yeah I figured that out myself good enough.

[@GeekPsychology]

Good idea. Like what?

[@ameliadeshane9192]

And thank you so much with your insight. If your wife needs a fraaan, lmk. I love ENFJ'S. In a non- carpet munching way.

[@TheKonnoisseur11]

So adhd basically 😑

[@unionunicorn6776]

Watched this for self harm

[@GeekPsychology]

Oof

[@kataiwannhn]

In my opinion, the biggest challenge for your personality type is not selfishness, but rather problems in perceiving objective reality. However, it's not quite as bad as the Fe types.

[@kataiwannhn]

@@ShaSha-zq3my For the MBTI feelers, experience has shown that Te is all about planning.😁

[@qpstrafe]

I hate INFP people, but I am one wah

[@hbyisme9094]

take care of yourrself bro you aged a lot from what I remember

[@krystle8534]

He looks great

[@danab172]

Here I was wondering how he looks so young and fit for his old 😅 39 age.

[@GeekPsychology]

I had covid when I was filming. Or strep throat. Or both. It was an awkward time.

[@julia.no.X]

​@@GeekPsychology❤🫂

[@peachesandpoets]

Aged from looking 25 to looking maybe 30? Lol.