😮 how can someone call an aloof person narcissistic, when narcissists are the ones who die for spotlight and attention. We are not just aloof, we are awkwardly peculiarly aloof!
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
People say and do the strangest things. Me included.
@muma655925 күн бұрын
i agree. Not likely to be narcissistic
@danab1725 ай бұрын
Job interview today. I was asked if I valued independence more or working with others. I choked up an awkward answer. Then spent the rest of the afternoon alone in the woods to relieve the built up stress about the interview.
@hyacinthdibley24205 ай бұрын
Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I too had an interview on 8th March and found myself acting more chirpy than my real self based on how the questions were going. I feel like interviews are the one place where we all know we're over-emphasizing (I don't want to say lying), but we are forced/encouraged to give answers that interviewers will like vs giving answers that are true to who we are. I definitely understand taking time to decompress afterwards. I do hope you feel better and find the role that makes you feel whole. Take care ok?
@UniqueGeekFreak5 ай бұрын
I have an upcoming interview, but am dreading it I don't want to go, because I feel like a loser & I don't want to be humiliated & judged by others. I also have nothing to sell about myself or share about myself that is of good use for work
@peachesandpoets5 ай бұрын
Aw babe 😢
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Nothing quite like being alone in nature. Take that sentence however you want to. I wish there were woods and forests here in Tokyo.
@danab1725 ай бұрын
@@hyacinthdibley2420Thank you! :) Wow, and I got 22 likes. Good luck to you as well! And, yea! 😂 I actually practiced for my interview by crying and telling my true story of loss and injustice. Followed by watching fake funny interviews by this guy on youtube. One where he is wearing an appropriate business suit shirt but says hold on let me get my resume, and proceed to show his rear end across the bed wearing leopard speedos. 😂 I did jumping Jacks and splashed cold water on my face...put peppermint in the diffusers. Then acted super chirpy.
@anushamirkhanyan46005 ай бұрын
As an INFP, sometimes I want to open up and in fact I do, but I feel misunderstood or I feel that I overshared my thoughts and emotions and others are not interested in(((
@nathanwood47624 ай бұрын
This is my dilemma too. People say I should "open up and be vulnerable" until I do. Then they say I "overshared" or ignore me as I'm trying to explain something important to me. It's a double bind. Whichever choice you make, you get put at the disadvantage. My choice is to stop wasting effort on people who are not trustworthy. They still call me aloof, but at least I'm not wasting my effort, or revealing vulnerabilities for them to exploit. I hope you find a few trustworthy people. There are some who simply seem safe to me. I do my best not to take a deep dive into raw emotion. Instead, I tell them open-ended stories about things that are noteworthy to me. Then they say "I love how weird you are" and we both feel good. PS: The open-ended stories are only for people I trust. I don't reveal anything I value to people I can't trust. If necessary, I will lie to conceal personal information. I will let them believe I like sports, food, pop music, etc. if it protects my closest feelings from abuse.
@anushamirkhanyan46004 ай бұрын
@@nathanwood4762 I understand you, I've chosen not to talk about things important to me too. They say the most valuable memories are the ones you haven't shared with anyone. But from time to time I want to talk to someone like I talk to myself and not be condemned for being vulnerable. Sometimes it happens that I see and recognize "my" people from the first sight like I've known them for years, but unfortunately I never get the chance to befriend with them.
@Fred.Carpenter2 ай бұрын
The larval has no interest in you, you do not exist, unless you can hook into Hir limited reality-island, transmit on Hir narrow mind-band, unless your behavior offers meaning in terms of possible benefit or threat to Hir: 1. cellular well being 2. emotional-hierarchical status 3. artifact manipulation game 4. socio-sexual security; domestic reassurance All larval interactions are instrumental to one of the four survival attitudes. Larvals are comfortably adapted to this limited four-channel communication, scan automatically for the survival meaning of each stimulus and scuttle by each other like ants, each intent on Hir own "reality" - reacting automatically to relevant cues from others. - Timothy Leary PhD
@TheCentralSun5 ай бұрын
I love us INFPs we’re wonderful 💗
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
💯
@TheFpskiller5 ай бұрын
you truly are! from fellow intp here .d
@bakarka5 ай бұрын
Even now at age 60, I recall clearly my high expectations dashed on the first day of Kindergarten when I saw the other kids and thought, holy crap, am I going to be stuck with these noisy brats? I quickly learned the value of being aloof and keeping my distance. At recess instead of playing with the others, I played with the globe and dreamt of going somewhere else. So little has changed.
@brynax1704 ай бұрын
Same, now at age 36, peopel are so annoyingly noisy 😂
@Nezuko_yoyo3 ай бұрын
Nothing needs to change stay as you are
@azammohammed95672 күн бұрын
@bakarka I am a 38 year old INFP, and I share your sentiments.
@wanderer48655 ай бұрын
i can't believe you're 39 man, you look so young!
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Thank you! I’m starting to get some grey hairs!! So scary
@antoinettenovella16305 ай бұрын
@@GeekPsychology Don't be. Grey hairs are less ominous than health issues - stay healthy and wise :)
@anonymousavatar61445 ай бұрын
Looking young is an INFP trait! It’s that dreamy idealism shining through. 👶
@famousutopias3 ай бұрын
The late great Jack Benny had a running joke that he was 39… for years 😁. You can start now!
@toothdecay24655 ай бұрын
I cut ties with another person recently. It was a loyalty issue, something I viewed as a betrayal. The first time I remember cutting someone out was in junior high, someone who was a very close friend-- my best friend, or so I thought. I told him the closest secret to my heart, about my mother's death (suicide). I caught him talking to others about it and making light of it. The hurt was indescribable. I said nothing then, nor at any time afterwards. Instantly cut off. I wouldn't even acknowledge his presence. If I cut someone out, it's usually because they've violated a core value and there's no point, I feel, even discussing it.
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Good for you. I think you did the right thing. And I also think what you did is it better than the alternative of mistreated and not doing anything about it. And it’s your choice if you want to make amends or not.
@peachesandpoets5 ай бұрын
I can't imagine that betrayal. I'm so sorry that happened.
@LauraCordes5 ай бұрын
Who could hate an INFP? We have our flaws and idiosyncrasies like anyone else, but we're not malicious, not unless someone pushes us much too far, and we care so deeply about everyone and everything. People have accused me of being too distant and aloof, and maybe I am with people I don't know yet, but once I get to know someone, I become more warm toward them and one of their strongest allies.
@julieolson14025 ай бұрын
"Honest, and can't be controlled," scares the he'll out of most people, especially when couched in a seemingly mild mannered, Clark Kent type.
@joannechua82663 ай бұрын
@@julieolson1402 I am an INFP! Totally agree on we are honest, and can't be controlled. I just don't understand why it scare people? I believe as an INFP we would appreciate people who are honest and we don't like to controlled anyone. We just want them to be themselves. I would be so happy to have honest people and people who dare to be themselves as my close friends
@marybell20023 күн бұрын
I don't dislike all INFPs but the person I hate most in the world is an INFP. Needy, overly dependant, infantile, immature, over sensitive, self-pitying, playing the victim while being the perpetrator, a burden, a taker, irrational, vindictive, hypocritical, entitled, delusional, self-absorbed, feeling sorry for self while lacking empathy for others all describe an adult INFP male I know. Some INFPs are great but this particular one and many others see themselves as these poor innocent little lambs when they're really not. It's interesting because as a non-INFP I'm also not a malicious person unless someone pushes me too far, but an INFP will justify the mean things they do while condemning others for doing the same things. In their heads others do mean things because they're evil but when an INFP does the same mean thing it's because they're a poor little angel that was just pushed too far.
@ameliadeshane91925 ай бұрын
I loved when you said we avoid conflict, and corrected that it might depend on enneagram. I know I do not avoid conflict because I know conflict = growth and opportunity to learn. I know this is not the mentality of all INFP'S. I am a 4w5, Turbulent, with Avoidant attachment style and I wish conflict was more fearful. It would help if I was afraid of people and worldly consequences
@billyb47904 ай бұрын
It's so funny how INFJs and INFPs are vastly different on the cognitive function stack but we often end up outwardly in the same places.
@UniqueGeekFreak5 ай бұрын
I stopped sharing of my thoughts & emotions & what is going on internally or my different opinions, and just keep them to myself. Whoever genuinely wants to know or hear them will. I just keep all the good energy to myself because ppl can't handle others being dreamy or optimistic, they want to burst your bubble just for you to confirm to their misery. I've been there many times as well, thinking it was too much when someone was cheerful when i was moody or sulking, i got afraid of that person & stayed away from them, because i couldn't believe my eyes i met someone similar to myself....that i just ran away instead. Been praying yo be with my own kind. Whenever it happens, i get so shocked i don't know what to say or do, that i just leave never come back. It's as if i am looking for the bad, because that is all ive ever known. When someone or something good shows up i get very suspicious because it is so unfamiliar. I rhink i will just be myself when im with myself. And i treat ppl accordingly to how they treat me or how they want to be treated
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Do you think that it’s possible that you’re bringing some of those preconceptions into new interactions or relationships? I appreciate the good energy, and I think there may be some ways to be expanded so that you are happier and you have more positive interactions. I know it’s an uphill battle sometimes, but I really believe that INFPs have an endless well of curiosity and joy- but we don’t always allow ourselves to experience it.
@midnightcat61165 ай бұрын
Fellow INFPer here 😅 People tell me i come across as a b*tchy mean girl. Once they get to know me, they realize I’m super nice, almost too nice in a toxic way lmao 🤣
@nikolqy5 ай бұрын
? As an INTP, i think that you are very selfish... It's digusting.
@brynax1704 ай бұрын
@@nikolqyoh, thats rude man. That is ironic as an INTP, and you dont know her and havent walk in her shoes and just judged her on her one comment! 😂
@nikolqy4 ай бұрын
@@brynax170 no, I just know I’ve spent 10 years of my life in 5 year close friendships with INFPs and they both ended the exact same way. They were definitely the exact same passive people.
@angelcoyote98025 ай бұрын
Your way of communicating is so soothing and clear, and more like me than I usually see. Makes me feel happy to be INFP :) Thank you for the good tips.
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad! Feeling happy about your personality type is very important.
@Peachbunnyyay5 ай бұрын
As an INFP I really appreciate ur vids, pls keep up the good work
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Thanks ^^ What would make it even better?
@Individually_Authentic1115 ай бұрын
Your description of the struggles of an INFP is so accurate. I appreciate your willingness to share your experience and insights as to how to tap into our potential. Thank you.
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
You’re very welcome ^^ thank you for commenting and telling me
@t.c20315 ай бұрын
I find it very hard meeting new people as an INFP but your videos have helped me understand more of myself !
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Happy to hear that it helped. Keep at it!
@sweetabby77004 ай бұрын
This channel is an INFP gold mine 😍
@amporu5 ай бұрын
i cant even connect to myself, so i understand why people would not be able to connect to me
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Good point. I guess you know where to start if that’s the goal ^^
@danab1725 ай бұрын
That's an interesting comment. I have never thought about it in that way. I know that I know my interests and values and life experiences and purpose. Yet, do I connect with myself? What would that mean? Sometimes I think.... would I as an outsider want to connect with me? And yikes. I honestly would feel intimidated by myself. Even when I'm warm and friendly there is something secretive. A coworker told me many years ago that I scared people. Another one made a comment once that she thought I was afraid to be myself. What did that mean? I was professional. This would be some great topic for @geekpsychology on here.
@danab1725 ай бұрын
@@GeekPsychologyCopy and pasting my comment for you. Ideas for a video? That's an interesting comment. I have never thought about it in that way. I know that I know my interests and values and life experiences and purpose. Yet, do I connect with myself? What would that mean? Sometimes I think.... would I as an outsider want to connect with me? And yikes. I honestly would feel intimidated by myself. Even when I'm warm and friendly there is something secretive. A coworker told me many years ago that I scared people. Another one made a comment once that she thought I was afraid to be myself. What did that mean? I was professional. This would be some great topic for @geekpsychology on here.
@Ela2965314 күн бұрын
@@danab172I agree this is a great topic . I got the same comment from my mgr, that I need to be myself more and that I am acting professional all the time. But I am being myself, they just don't see it for some secret reason.
@GeekPsychology14 күн бұрын
@danab172 what is the topic? “What does it mean to be yourself?” ?
@JohnSims-su8tnАй бұрын
Once on a job I wrote a line of code that caused my boss to threaten to KILL ME if I set foot on his property ... Needless to say I left that job in the next month 😢.
@borderedge64655 ай бұрын
Matt, this is fantastic! So comprehensive and in depth about INFP. From this INTP’s standpoint two things. 1)Something both INTP and INFP may not be too aware of that is off-putting to others, we can both come across as Goody-Two-Shoes, being just ‘nice’ when everyone else is “acting out and being a bit irresponsible, really!” This, as Leon of Type Talks (another incredible INFP) explains, is our 3rd function Si and the immature way we express it, making us look just lame and exaggerated in appearing ‘good’. I know we’re not TRYING, but that’s what it looks like to others. I think our difference is; we INTPs appear to be be Goody TwoShoes about being ‘nice!’ to people (inferior/ aspirational Fe), and you guys about ‘ALWAYS helping to get the work done!’ (Inferior/ aspirational Te). Resonate, anyone? 2)our Fi or Ti makes what comes OUT OF OUR MOUTHS seem more stubborn and dug-in than what we genuinely feel on the inside. And THAT is hugely off-putting to most people.
@julieolson14025 ай бұрын
"There is a cost to specialization." Most succinct encapsulation of this idea I've seen short of, "You gonna pay!"
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
thanks! its a very important concept that has helped me a lot
@Nostalgik5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for these heart to heart talks. I admittedly struggle to find time to just sit and listen through all of it at once with all these internet stimuli nowadays, but when I do, you really put me at peace 🥰
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
You’re welcome. It’s a long video, too.
@christinehallfeldt42805 ай бұрын
When u said rub the people wrong way it made sense. I am always told that. And it makes me sad like maybe I shouldn't say anything at all and then I can't upset nobody. I'm like what i do or say that was so bad? I still don't know lol. 😊
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Maybe upsetting people is not the worst in the world and is the potential cause for positive change
@thescribe47425 ай бұрын
Me, an ISFP, identifying with 70% o these issues👀
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
^^
@vivjrhy11295 ай бұрын
i love sharing any ideas to my brother and talked about it. but in school i cannot open my mouth. i saw the gladness of my classmate's face when i started to talk.
@Chris-tg3qy7 күн бұрын
Narcissistic people do not sit alone in a corner.
@Mildly_Unsuccessful_Individual3 ай бұрын
Good stuff; I resonate! As an INFP, I generally do not share the same level of enthusiasm for much of what is popular, normal or conventionally appreciated by the average person. On top of this, I also struggle to adapt my expression to match outward, social expectations whenever I'm not feeling it. I think this is often misinterpreted as me judging others, but it's mostly just a result of me being ruthlessly true to myself. I assume this aspect of my personality is what's most often grating to the average person; especially extroverts.
@khadeejadja5 ай бұрын
Wow... A lot of trigger points here but a great video as always, Matt. Thank you for being brave to say all these points, now I can see clearly on why I being and have been misunderstood by a lot of people.
@xxsnow_angelxx39535 ай бұрын
True many ppl are conflict making 'naturally' nowadays. So it gets hard to on purpose put yourself in a confrontational place
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
I debated making the video. Then debated releasing it. Lots of touchy subjects, but I did my best to deliver them in a way that is still supportive.
@andytheindividual38625 ай бұрын
As a person, and an infp, I despise these things too 😂
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
lol
@CommissionerLofi13 күн бұрын
Bro... This advice... Is helping me man..
@uncoolcat955 ай бұрын
Bro where has your channel been my whole life? XD
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
I don’t know. I’ve been making videos for like 10 years. I have literally made over 1000 videos.
@Fred.Carpenter2 ай бұрын
It doesn't matter if I hate them first. I didn't always, they trained me to do so.
@kevinwalters288710 күн бұрын
I just assumed I was crazy until i researched this. Wow this is so me! Finally someone understands me 😮 (edited this comment like 5 times and im still not happy with it... fuck it)
@imeprezime90984 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video. I completely agree with everything in the first part of the video, naturally, completely skipped the second (advices) and enjoyed the ending :) Only true INFPs will understand ;)
@peachesandpoets5 ай бұрын
Also, you look and sound so young. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us
@Yukon334 ай бұрын
My mom is INFP (mom at home), I am INTJ. We clashed on basically two things while under the same roof: 1) I found her overly sensitive to "blunt words" (getting hung over the words instead of the intent, or lack thereof, behind the words) 2) Her lower Si-Te for organising things, which I judged as a waste of time and irrelevant to my Te, and she was super annoyed with me I would not follow her "rules" on ordering and cleaning, and when to do it. I also had to learn to discuss with a Ne person who always leaves the main point of the conversation in a very short time, and interrupts the flow to go in a completely unexpected direction without warning lol. I became very good at having "mind post-its" of unfinished conversations I wanted a conclusion on, to be continued at a later time, sometimes weeks later. :)
@enricio5 ай бұрын
My daughter is an INFP, and I'm an INFJ. We are like two hands on one belly. I enjoy her pace but even more her insights and ability to reflect on herself. She has grown so much the last decade with lots of pain. I've always told her she's the most important person in her life. When life was tough my words kept her on her feet. ❤😊🥹
@truthtransistorradio67162 ай бұрын
As an INFP male, I have noticed that I have had the most relationships with INFJs. Not sure if they have more understanding and connection with us or what.
@linmonPIE5 ай бұрын
I needed this talk. Thanks, Matt!
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
You’re welcome. Thank you for listening and commenting and taking it to heart.
@KevinBerus5 ай бұрын
When people are put on a pedestal they usually end up falling
@nikolqy5 ай бұрын
Falling on their own or falling in the eyes of the admirer?
@KevinBerus5 ай бұрын
@@nikolqy both I suppose
@sawdustadikt979Ай бұрын
I don’t know where I got it from, but I’ve always been a “work on my weaknesses” kinda guy. I’ve found over the decades, when I choose to focus on something I suck at, everything I’m good at immediately improves. I don’t know if it’s fostering humility by going all in on something I will fail at but time after time I suck alittle less at the thing? There is quite a bit of discipline and structure that goes into this, otherwise I’d never do it. I can easily imagine that if I didn’t do this, there would be fertile ground for arrogant ignorance to flourish, that possibility scares the hell out of me.
@ashlieperez37555 ай бұрын
I don’t think people have a hard time connecting with me as much as I have a hard time connecting with people, because it takes SO MUCH for me to feel connected to others. I remember in college I unintentionally offended someone because he said we were friends but I just casually said that we weren’t, even though we interacted a lot because we had several classes together. In my head we weren’t friends because I do have high standards of what determines friendship.
@aurograce29835 ай бұрын
For me I have acquaintances, sorta friends (like friends that only talk to you at class or at work), friends (talk to you at or outside of work, you have their personal number and have shared intrest and have shared your personal lives with eachother) and good friend (someone who is alwaus there for you and you are friends at all times, can hang out together and pick up where you left off, can talk about most anything).
@famousutopias3 ай бұрын
Conflict avoidance is strong in me to be sure. But there have been two (very traumatic) occasions where I couldn’t avoid it (“wouldn’t” avoid is more accurate) and I shocked both myself and my “conflictors” with my forceful resolve, firm communication, and air tight control over the situations. These were matters of principle about things and people I cared about. Fortunately each was short term- becoming what appeared to be a ESTJ or ENTJ was terrifying, painful, and exhausting! I’m secretly gratified I successfully went through it 🙃
@MissLlewella5 ай бұрын
I'm an infp in relationship with an infj, and with an estp. It is really amazing to see how I function and my loved ones. I learned to communicate and be direct and honest though. And I try to be unconditional, and to mirror that. That the differences are ok. Yeah I feel deeply, for others too, and it is ok, even if others don't feel that. I learned a lot, and happy with it, and being an infp ❤
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Great lessons to learn ^^
@zd4w95 ай бұрын
Nice video. So true about this personality type.
@pauljack22675 ай бұрын
Thank you
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Thank you very much Paul, it helps out a lot!
@melaniesmith29174 ай бұрын
Aw 39 but still looking 17...❤
@GeekPsychology4 ай бұрын
lol
@pugninja70375 ай бұрын
They are adorable , my sons a infpand friends and they care, my only thing they can be really emotional. But they are real.. as a entp, they are literally cute people
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Emotional especially in the younger years. I like ENTP and INFP dynamics
@zach57545 ай бұрын
Thank you, this was really helpful (:
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@ericaburdette5 ай бұрын
That was such an INFP ending 😆
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
lol
@kilppari785 ай бұрын
Cracked up at "Lowered expectations..." 🤣
@ranikster99555 ай бұрын
SO true. Often I’m so caught up in my own thoughts 💭 and daydreams, and I’m pretty sure that no one in my family understands me My mother said I would never get a boyfriend if I am this disorganised lol
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
That’s her perception. I’m sure there are plenty of other people that are not her that would be happy to have a free spirited, curious, and authentic person in their life.
@sabrinaszabo93555 ай бұрын
It’s not OK to abruptly stop speaking to somebody without an explanation because that is harmful and you have to put yourself in their shoes. I have been at discarded and Extremely hard time believing one of us would do that to a romantic partner. Unless we are very much does stressed or depressed or really mentally unable, but I hope there’s accountability
@Pizzatime420085 ай бұрын
“Seal the wall so that the zombies don’t get in” Matt Sherman, 2024
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
lol. Gotta watch out for the zombies.
@joshuamensah93095 ай бұрын
Cool setup in the back btw
@lailolema9 күн бұрын
My goodness, this was me to a T.
@user-wx3wz9tu8q2 ай бұрын
After watching your video.. I have a bit of understanding of my Infp personality.. I'm struggling with negativity.. I feel empty and useless most of the time.. Tbh, I'm thinking, is this life too hard for me or is it just my head that's too crowded with negativity. I'm mostly alone and locked myself in my house .. I never reached out to neighbours or friends. I know they're trying to reach out to help like you said. But I'm so afraid of my own thoughts and locked myself up.. I was thinking about ending my life soon.. I hate this personality.. but this who I am.. How do you guys manage all this time? I really wanna live.. but I don't see the point of living in this world.
@alexwelts25535 ай бұрын
Ugh, 3/4 of tasks. Everything. We need a finisher and would be happy to exchange or barter or trade the services of another talent.
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Yes! Willing to trade emotional support for someone to close loops on boring tasks.
@peachesandpoets5 ай бұрын
The thing I have a hard time changing is the disappearing. I tell people how I'm feeling, I tell people what I think, I tell people how what they're doing is affecting me. If after I have done that they still try to manipulate me, or gaslight me, or minimize what I'm feeling, I'm not explaining shit. I say okay and they never have access to me again. Like all infps I've met, I can be in a group having a conversation, and someone I've cut off can be in the group and it's fine with me, I just don't address them. I even have a parent that just doesn't exist for me anymore. I don't see a problem with that FOR ME. But I can see why others might want to change that, maybe in a work setting or family.
@sabrinaszabo93555 ай бұрын
I think conflict resolution and compromise are healthy but I’d rather not just issues come up
@cynthiadenny9155 ай бұрын
I. Am. Known. 😳😉😊 (62yo F INFP-T)
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Hello
@andrewfields45165 ай бұрын
intro music reminds me of maple story kerning square music
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
^^ I sent the guy a bunch of songs that I liked and he made what he thought was fitting of the vibe.
@sabrinaszabo93555 ай бұрын
I want the table organized, I just really struggle to organize it
@zegeist3335 ай бұрын
This feels like a death sentence
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
What do you mean?
@sabrinaszabo93555 ай бұрын
Maybe a gift you just have to shift your perspective on. After all, there is a cost for everything. The sensitivity is needed
@TonsOFun84035 ай бұрын
So many of these hit home, but I always blamed most on my ADHD, I'm surprised to find how many stem simply from being an INFP.. Wondering if you could do a video on the correlation between the two. How many other INFP have also been diagnosed with ADHD? The struggle of this combo is Real!
@coreyroberts475 ай бұрын
Meeeeeeee
@sabrinaszabo93555 ай бұрын
I have ADHD to and I suspect some autism and of course high sensitivity. I wonder what astrological signs, I’m a Capricorn cusp
@Luciofernandez6663 ай бұрын
You dont tell an infp what to do. Im an absurdist. People sucks
@xxsnow_angelxx39535 ай бұрын
I had to explain to my bf that I'm headcanon, thats just how I understand the world n he said: I'm both confused and understand a little (like it makes sense). It is scary to let them get into our head when we have our own versions and put up walls.
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
No need to be scared. You control your own reality and reactions to it ^^
@dermotjones87533 ай бұрын
Avoids conflict but has 3 Katana's on the wall?
@sabrinaszabo93555 ай бұрын
Then would two of us together be in heaven as friends?
@Nick-Nasty5 ай бұрын
16:53 omg this is so huge for me at the moment...
@b.lloydreese203011 сағат бұрын
Yeah, my dad just told me (because i couldnt read his mind) that i have cognitive and behavioral disabilities/impairment (which of course i couldnt have gotten from him). Typical boomer
@marcusdefgomes4 ай бұрын
You look 21 dude
@Snowlily015 ай бұрын
I think the advice could be a little more “helpful”and not vague like some 1 star marriage counsellor. Could be this or could be that. Yeah I figured that out myself good enough.
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Good idea. Like what?
@ameliadeshane91925 ай бұрын
And thank you so much with your insight. If your wife needs a fraaan, lmk. I love ENFJ'S. In a non- carpet munching way.
@TheKonnoisseur115 ай бұрын
So adhd basically 😑
@unionunicorn67765 ай бұрын
Watched this for self harm
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
Oof
@kataiwannhn5 ай бұрын
In my opinion, the biggest challenge for your personality type is not selfishness, but rather problems in perceiving objective reality. However, it's not quite as bad as the Fe types.
@kataiwannhn5 ай бұрын
@@ShaSha-zq3my For the MBTI feelers, experience has shown that Te is all about planning.😁
@qpstrafe5 ай бұрын
I hate INFP people, but I am one wah
@hbyisme90945 ай бұрын
take care of yourrself bro you aged a lot from what I remember
@krystle85345 ай бұрын
He looks great
@danab1725 ай бұрын
Here I was wondering how he looks so young and fit for his old 😅 39 age.
@GeekPsychology5 ай бұрын
I had covid when I was filming. Or strep throat. Or both. It was an awkward time.