I don't know how to not imagine the worst possible scenario.
@rclark11327 ай бұрын
That’s called ’Catastrophizing’ I hear
@dstenberg3 ай бұрын
I believe that you are stuck in your "Si" function too much. your Guardian tries to protect you based on your past experiences. You need to be more in you "Ne" (The explorer). Because the more you experience out there in the world the less "scary" these scenarious in your head becomes. Use your "Fi" first to know whats most important to you and then use "Ne" first before you start to overthink aka "Si". (See life more like a game thats supposed to be explored, and fun)
@JamieMieLi2 ай бұрын
@@dstenbergyou just expand my mind, thank you so much!!!! So we can be conscious to use our own cognitive functions? At first i thought it was supposed to be come out neutrally
@dstenberg2 ай бұрын
@@JamieMieLi Glad it helped 🙌 Yes, we can be conscious about our functions to help us understand ourself. "Fi" and "Ne" is our greatest strengths. And "Si" is sadly our most overused weakness. We use it so much because we are introverts. So "Fi" and "Si" work together too much. When really "Fi" and "Ne" should be the ones working together most. I thought this overthinking was normal and helpful. But it's not. Don't get me wrong "Si" aka our Guardian is good and tries to help us. But instead of using it 50% of the time maybe 15% is more helpful. 🙏 Hope this helps. Get out there and explore 🙌
@JamieMieLi2 ай бұрын
@@dstenberg *bark bark* thank you!!
@proprgent7 ай бұрын
Research has shown that gratitude's benefit can be increased when you consider how the things you are grateful for actually came about
@acolourfuldreamer7 ай бұрын
A little bit off topic, but when I think of Ne doms, I think of going on an adventure. When I think of Fi doms, I think of going on a quest. Adventures are you going out to explore the unknown and figure out what your place in that unknown is Quests are when you already know what you want from the world, but choose to brave it to gain rewards. Both are rather beautiful ❤
@GeekPsychology7 ай бұрын
I love that distinction!
@Таволга7 ай бұрын
Вы правы. Мне очень сложно разобраться в своих чувствах . Я боюсь сделать неправильный выбор и ошибиться..Постоянный конфликт между разумом и душой.. Спасибо!
@Sandra-rk4mu7 ай бұрын
Is not knowing what to eat every day a common infp thing? I thought it was just me 😅 I have most other things fairly sorted…except that!!
@grantmorgan44465 ай бұрын
What do you want for lunch? I dunno, I'm just hungry - Story of my life! ^_^
@dstenberg3 ай бұрын
i never plan what to eat. the only thing i tend to stick to is pancakes. easy to make and delicious
@sbnd60852 ай бұрын
Your youtube video change my live.🤍 INFP 4 from thailand
@julia.no.X7 ай бұрын
Blooper! 😆 Ne in action! 😊
@GeekPsychology7 ай бұрын
I usually don’t bloop. But when I do, it’s thanks to Ne.