10 Things You Need To Know Before Becoming A Wife/Husband | Kingsley Okonkwo

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1)Selfless threshold 2)Flexibility threshold 3)Incovinience threshold 4) Forgiveness threshold 5)Tolerance threshold 6) Service threshold 7)Spiritual threshold 8)Patience threshold 9)Correction threshold 10)Sensitive threshold

[@nkechiemelumadu618]

Please did you hear the name of the first book he called

[@Rita-23]

@@nkechiemelumadu618 Prayer journal called "Chayil". I look at their books on Amazon this morning before I heard this video.

[@AliveinChrist247]

3rd point is commitment threshold and not inconvenience dear.

[@faithhope4703]

Thanks!

[@vanessakanangire8641]

Thx fr naming each helpful

[@gaudenciamaghanga]

Ever since I discovered this channel last year, my life has taken a new turn for the good. Thank you pastor K for your advices. Following from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪

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🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

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Same me

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Vv

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Llallsl

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@@augustaisidore530 ⁹the 00

[@vinceatieno9766]

All singles should be in this page, I have been a follower for a year now and I think I have grown so much. so much love from Kenya.

[@J_a_s_o_n]

Wait for the practicals ...

[@angelankem6345]

I love the way your wife stares at you each time you are talking on the microphone

[@BillKabisa]

I know I will never go wrong with a type of person I will choose with your guidance

[@giftedarong]

Daddy u too much, thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏💯

[@Tammy-vt1vb]

I'm going through a breakup thought it would have led to marriage. I'm crushed on the inside but I'm grateful for this message. 🙏 Thank you and God bless

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Sending you love ♥️ & light 💡

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🤗🤗🤗

[@Yourssisterly]

I’m so so sorry Tammy😔 I pray God compensates you supernaturally for this 💙

[@abiodunfaith1056]

Chai. I'm so sorry about your hurt. Kpele. Please take care of yourself

[@aderibigbetoluwani1812]

Pls be strong Tammy... God has the best at heart for you, soon you’ll be compensated with someone way better in Jesus name

[@missbtutorials522]

I can't get tired of hearing the "long distance race " story, always hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Thanks a lot PK for the well of wisdom

[@ekelindaadaku]

Ever green 🤣

[@nikkyshamz2696]

🤣🤣🤣 Kinzo Kinzo. God bless him

[@gillianwelch5874]

Me too

[@Soulmateswithl]

The faith Kingsley has in marriage I wish all married men were like him.we wouldn't have to see any divorce cases

[@maydvicky3316]

So true, I wish all men can listen to this video

[@J_a_s_o_n]

Linda, marriage is two way. It takes two to solve irreconcilable differences. Blaming men squarely is shameful if you did really understand Kingsley. Sorry ....

[@J_a_s_o_n]

@@maydvicky3316 What about women ? This is not a gender war ...

[@maydvicky3316]

@@J_a_s_o_n Take it easy we ain't fighting, yes I wish all men would listen to the video

[@arehmartin3795]

So you think men are the reason fir divorce?

[@Maraberbani]

I have learnt a lot today... Thank you PK &PM❤

[@eunicejohn7483]

I can't see me loving this family less, first I fell in love with pastor K teaches and then mama M has made life easier for me with her teachings,the fact that she gives life experiences examples Kai what a blessing it is for me to be associated with this beautiful family. Love you pastor K and mama M❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@J_a_s_o_n]

Which kind of love is this if you listen keenly to their teachings ?

[@elishashappinesscampaign1597]

Marriages are failing because someone is unwilling to sacrifice their own comfort for the comfort of another person. WORD❤

[@authenticself6657]

After assessing myself I have a long way to go.Not ready for marriage.Need to continue working on myself first.Esp.that forgiving and commitment point cheiii

[@carolineamoah3400]

😂😂😂😂😂 Pastor Kingsley won't kii perzin oo.... there's never a dull moment with u. Wisdom alongside great laughter Thank u for always being a blessing to me Sa

[@kukuaparker5291]

thank you soo much for this beautiful perspective of marriage. I have been going through a very difficult time, grieving over being jilted by a man. I had been depressed and hiding from the pain so much until i found Pst King. This man has changed my perspective about marriage and enabled me to make use of the pain and rejection i feel consciously. Everyday i get better and I'm so impressed with my progress. God bless u Pastor!

[@lindalove2627]

May the Lord continue to heal you and bless you with a good man, in Jesus name Amen!!!!!!! 🙏🏾

[@russelllevers9513]

I love these teaching honestly!!!!! They have taught me a lot!!! God bless you ok . All the best for you and your family be blessed be prosperous be safe

[@preciousbrown5981]

I am soo grateful to God for the gift of PK and PM. But most importantly, for the gift of technology! Imagine there was no KZbin to access this kind of information freely🤯🤯🤯. God bless you sir and ma. You have no idea how many lives your words of wisdom are transforming

[@sylviemorgan9770]

Amen..

[@lindalove2627]

Yes, you took the words out of my mouth 👌🏾💯 I love listening to these couples! ❤️

[@elinabanda8873]

Supporters don't matter in this life as long as you are prepared you will make it👏👏👏🙌

[@princejohn3108]

You are an epitome of knowledge. God bless you.

[@Nanaefya21]

Pastor Kingsley is a full package. Father Lord Jesus please by your mercy bless me with a kingdom man like pastor Kingsley Amen.

[@marylmutheu2781]

You really changed my thinking about relationships... thankyou so much and may God bless you abundantly 🙏

[@kukuaparker5291]

me too!!! big time!

[@ezedinonso2620]

Wooow, i'm so blessed upon hearing this. Thank You Sir, GOD CONTINUE TO INCREASE YOUR WISDOM TRESHHOLD IN JESUS NAME, AMEN

[@ojelabioluwatobi8440]

It is easier to be happy when single than when married🤔 Thank you pst Kingsley

[@classicalretroback]

Mysterious fact🤔

[@lizzydominic4658]

You are too blessed sir if all couples understand this and live it religiously. Divorce will be so scarce, my hatred for divorce ehh.

[@mildredolang6674]

This is so true, I always sing in prayer meetings🙄may the holy spirit help us with the gift of speaking in tongues

[@ilukholorprisca6011]

Wao two people can't be talkative , thanks for this it's a very big true

[@oseibonsuconstance1741]

God bless and replenish you Pastor. I must also commend the Technical team. It is obvious that there were some troubles in the video taping/recording or broadcasting but they did a good job! We could still hear clearly. Much is learnt

[@agbochinasa1913]

Ur teachings have made a great impact in me thank u sir &more grace I pray

[@ekelindaadaku]

I love you pastor Kingsley ... you crack us up well🤣🤣🤣 and still teach us the word

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

I'm never tired of listening to PK and PM May God continue to increase you and your family 🙏

[@tochi-babyluvelemuwa9096]

WOW.. What an eye opening teaching! Thanks a lot, Pastor K and Pastor Mildred. We are thankful to God for you in Our Generation. Our marriages will not fail🙌🙌🙌🙌

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Ameeennn

[@kwobsiemarius9613]

Thank you Pastor Kingso. I started watching from a deep place of pain. I hear, learn and confirm a whole million things;

[@nursegina1963]

I am always impacted by PK and PM's teachings, thank you both and God bless🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@ckks0nyoutube]

Was listening while driving, not a good idea, was laughing so hard

[@edithaboyonas9145]

Im very patient and humble and understanding to all my men and my Children in my life I did not mind if I had men or children important I had my relation to God my God is my source of Income in my life no matter I had men or not in my marriage now I had no more husband cause he pass away last 9-10-2021- I dedicate my life to my Lord 100 percent to love God and to trust him and to faith full on him thank you pastor everything you teach us I put always in my life your teaching God bless pastor say hello to your Family and pray for me all my struggle and my living and good health and financial need!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️👍🏻👍🏻👋❤️

[@emasko8]

Love how pastor K brought that aspect of serving each other from 41:23. I’m from Africa but hate this mindset; it’s kinda oppressive than caring to a wife

[@collegekmis3withmarg]

Pastor k always coaching me from a distance. Thank you for your zeal to help singles do marriage God way.

[@kisitupascal687]

Thank you for all of your time, effort and guidance pastor K and our beautiful Aunt Mildred...your mentorship has been a game changer, and i appreciate everything you've taught me.it is people like you that this world needs more of.Though i live in uganda,iam so grateful to have you both in my life..since i started watching your programs,honestly im a changed man.thank you so much and may the Almighty Lord keep blessing you!

[@creativeugandan]

yayyy 🇺🇬

[@preciousekpo3252]

I'm really anticipating 🔥🔥. This is gonna be awesome!

[@BudgetingStudent]

Wow even if you're not supported, your preparation will take you through 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Susanna_Adeyemi]

God bless this man, everyday and Everytime😂😂🙏, I've learnt so much from him, and I keep learning 😌😚

[@favourashezisamuel589]

Marriage is about giving and forgiving

[@Fairygodmoda]

Very apt....if you don't pray in tongues you go sing tire

[@favourashezisamuel589]

Marriage is a place for service despite not being appreciated at all times.

[@odeciousbdennis6148]

Kingzo kingzo kingzo 😂😂😂 I love you so much Pastor. Ur teaching is both a lesson and entertainment. I got married bcuz I listened to you and read as well. Thanks a lot.

[@EmpressCreationsx]

Sir you were divinely made for such a time like this!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼😁😁 your ministry has been a blessing to me and many more. So so grateful for your work. God bless you PK AND PM! We are learning and we will get it RIGHT!

[@gloriaenwenna1924]

Thank you my marriage Coach

[@edithaboyonas9145]

pastor I born a Christian I been a lot of pastor I learn but a lot a good learn from you especially about marriage cause in my Marriage I can’t find pure love for all I have men in my life in my marriage I always men and woman in my Children I can’t feel that I had men he take good care of me always I take care my self and all my Children and my men no fifty2 for me thats why so much stress in my life!

[@mpeycelinaeyong2355]

Tolerance 4giverness Selflessness Flexibility Service Patience Correction ( teachability) Sensitivity

[@preciousnjoku602]

Commitments

[@جاكيجاكي-غ8ق]

Thanks pr kingsley and pr Mildred okonkwo for blessing me always may God bless you guys more n more and anoite u more so that your spare people's relationships and marriages👏Job 28:28

[@shefferzvibes9643]

Your such Ablessing for this generation Pastorz Kindred

[@estyb2148]

Am Bless by PK teaching, Thank God we have u in our generation

[@paulzerina]

Marriage will inconvenience you. Men don't treat all women the same. Men learn from you how to treat you. There's a right time to say some things. As a Woman, - Don't confront men. Always come by the side. - Don't complain. - Don't criticize. As a Man, - Don't dismiss her feelings - Don't disagree; allow her to talk. - Don't debate with her. - Don't defend yourself. I must have a great Marriage!🙏 Thank you Pastor K❤

[@Pretty_yves17]

It’s a life changing experience listening to pastor K and his beautiful wife…

[@nomfanelokhumalo5609]

We appreciate you Pst Kingsley as single women. I've learnt a lot from this message. Thank God for you.

[@realtalkwithphil]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@mboweninelly4421]

I'm a loyal subbie 😍😍we owe our future success to God through the ministry of Pastor K & Pastor M. We laugh so hard as we learn

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Yes o. A huge blessing to us all.

[@omordiajpat6395]

You are truly a teacher

[@jennieelijah8412]

Yes i have listened to pastor K and pastor Mildred's messages its life changing👍👍👍 pastor!

[@mutalevincentmusonda2389]

Thank you pastor Kingsley for this teaching, learnt so much, with love from Zambia❤️🇿🇲🇿🇲

[@pearlugochi6349]

Teaching Extraordinary...... I just love the Okonkwo's.... God bless you PK for this message 😌😌

[@estherchukwuchetam5059]

God bless you sir for this wonderful teaching❤

[@ebaiayuk5083]

Powerful message. I really needed this. My boyfriend and I have been having problems because he stopped calling and is hardly concerned about things that affect me personally. He now sees me as a nag because I keep asking why he has suddenly changed. I never realized I was a project and now that he has landed me, he doesn't see the need to do all those things he did before. Thank you Sir

[@sylviemorgan9770]

Sorry my friend,life is a journey..

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Ok

[@FindiJoanna]

Wow is such a blessed teaching and so rich God bless you sir

[@xxpurplelover5982xx]

omg pastor mildred looks so good chai - blessed are you pastor k

[@agnessmwitwa757]

4c for men dont confront a man Dont complain Dont criticize 4d for woman Not dismiss what they feel Not disagree Not defend or debate

[@KikelomoAkinwunmi-ye6kn]

Ever since I discovered d channel I av been blessed...I nw love myself so much even without been in a relationship...he has thought me alot of things..God bless u Sir ❤much love from Lagos, hope to attend ur seminal in person someday 😊

[@favourashezisamuel589]

Your success in marriage depends on how quick you are ready to forgive

[@johnakpa2769]

Pst k and pst Mildred..I love you people so much💃💃💃💃💃

[@gloryyussuf4335]

Pastor K and pastor M I love you both More Grace my people Ur teachings have changed my life I was glad to see you both face to face at house on the Rock Abuja 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@godstruthwithsuwilanji9575]

Wonderful teaching,I love you both very practical and relatable, I have been imparted and transformed

[@stellanakalema7944]

Truly Pr(s) Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo are gifted in this area. How I have gained so much insight just listening to you two. God bless you always

[@obiomaeze7397]

Thanks pastor k am so blessed with this

[@rachaelekuibe9360]

Am blessed by this teaching God bless you abundantly Pastor $Mrs kingsley 🙏

[@aceyshari]

I can’t stop laughing “your hands”😂😂😂😂😂… this man is indeed a blessing.

[@kathrinejames1621]

God bless u nd ur wife for d great work u both r doing. Thank God for ur lives. But pls will like u guys to check out d small (g) they use to write God. Pls. Thanks . God bless u.

[@preciousnayame4556]

Thank you so much papa k and mama Mildred for the great teachings I'm always meditating on your teachings each and everytime I can't get tired of buying data just to watch and listen to your teachings thank you so much and I just discovered this platform 💃💃🙏🙏

[@blessingsam4035]

Thanks so much for allowing God to pass through you to help this ministry. 😘💞💓💖🥰😍

[@mariamomotolani2721]

I always thank God I came across pastor Wilfred and Kingsley okonkwo messages on counseling,all your word of advices touches my heart and help me alot

[@eberehope371]

Waw I really learnt alot from this Thnk u so much pastor K God continue to strengthen yu nd ur wife Amen

[@ekoehi2479]

PK is so wonderful indeed. May God enrich your fountain of knowledge 🙏

[@Nathaniel_MD]

Thank you very much for this message, sir. God bless you. ✅️

[@siacis2478]

Thank you man of God. This is a very great eye opening. I am trusting God for the day I will meet you in person. From Sierra Leone

[@mindjohnson18]

This is what I always want to hear 🤠 Thank you kingzo 👑

[@nomusamsa2227]

Even when I listen repeatedly, I learn something new. Thank you MoG

[@joyibaah2935]

Your massages are always a blessing, thank you sir.

[@AchaChelsie]

This teaching is very relatable. So good

[@awilliams382]

❤❤❤ Always love listening to their wisdom on marriage!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

May God continue to bless and perfect all that concerns you and yours for yielding yourselves to be a tremendous blessing to us especially in this area of ministry where a lot of people have made errors cos of lack of good teachers like you all. ❤❤

[@linasgranton681]

Am celebrating the honour and grace of God invested in your teachings Papa 🙏🙏,, you have really impacted my youth positively... God bless you Pastor K ,, Kenyans Celebrate you🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@kepemmy6083]

Pastor k you are a blessing

[@constantineonyi6951]

The fact message , God bless you sir

[@lydiakarimi251]

😂😂😂😂😂😂My ribs oooh, Pastor K. your funny! Am enjoying this session, thank you.

[@akanbirebecca02]

This is so touching and full of wisdom God bless you sir

[@okoroucheomadeborah3296]

I've really learnt a lot from this platform and teachings, God bless you sir

[@bennydimples]

10gbosa for Pastor K. Thank you 😊❤

[@gloryyussuf4335]

Such a mind blowing teaching So practical

[@chikaibe4293]

How committed are you to finishing what you started? What is your forgiveness threshold?in marriage you give and forgive..how quick are you to forgive?

[@akannifolashade2722]

great message i learnt alot nd i have subscribed to your channel, but pastor you forget to add a comedian to ur tittle, bilv me i laugh throughout the message, but i learnt alot. more of God's grace.

[@junic2794]

Most of Nigerians are comedians naturally

[@rum3234]

Thank you, I find your teaching so useful. It always gives me a lot to think about . God bless 🙏🏾

[@realtalkwithphil]

💯💯💯💯

[@omordiajpat6395]

Thanks for this great message

[@omordiajpat6395]

I appreciate you Sir