Costly Mistakes To Avoid In Courtship And Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

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[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Please send a message to [phone] or visit www.ldmwithpk.org for books and other resources

[@elizabethdomi2323]

God bless you Pastor. I am blessed by this message.

[@Princesschi120]

Were can I get this your books

[@RukkyDINMA]

Amen!!!

[@tolulopedosunmu1869]

God bless you big sir🙏 Your marriage will never know sorrow in Jesus name🙏

[@veronicahnakayaga6893]

Can I get ur books here in kenya???

[@byrnenoel6317]

1. Dating without God (21:10) 2. Marrying for the wrong reason ( 33:27) 3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage (42:39) 4. Some people still want to be themselves (47:33) 5. Not doing pre-marital counseling (53:09) 6. Make sure to follow the due processes (56:02) 7. Not building intimacy ( 1:03:17)

[@maibelmolefe]

Costly mistakes 1. Dating without God 2. Marrying for the wrong reason 3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage 4. Some people still want to be themselves 5. Not doing pre-marital counseling 6. Make sure to follow the due processes 7. Not building intimacy

[@banjoayo3576]

Thanks for the summary.

[@misss7758]

He needs to add listening to married pastors as a single woman. He will never be able to empathize. He has never walked in the shoes. Just talking crap.

[@oluchukwuobioma1127]

@@misss7758 talking crap? Bye.

[@jennifernwanya3165]

Thanks a lot for your summary

[@lalasng8643]

@@misss7758 that's quite an angry response though

[@bluebird4815]

Marriage scared the hell out of me even if i wanted a partner, home and family. I think it's because i have never seen a good example. Now, these teachings are changing my mind.

[@kelechiii_]

Same.

[@victoriamercykataike6715]

Same!!

[@lalasng8643]

I can imagine what you mean. Thank God for His grace that speaks understanding to to us through messages like this.

[@ShirleysKitchenCuisine]

Good 👍

[@jacobnaomi6102]

My dear marriage also scares the hell out of me because I am scared of getting married to the wrong person to avoid broken home or broken marriage. I was brought up in a broke home so I am scared of making the same mistakes my parents made.

[@mbetubom5596]

How I wish I heard this massage 19yrs ago I would not be thinking of how to turn back the hands of time, thanks pastor, I hope your listener's would follow your wise words

[@mechanizedcivilengineering4735]

Love for each other doesn't hold the marriage, but love for God does TIME STAMP: 33:23

[@frolic770]

This touched me so deeply....

[@princetutu]

Where you invest is where you harvest.

[@abimbolaeguntola9782]

"God is too organised to let come into world and be wondering" I caught that!!!!!!!

[@anyanwujenny3599]

Wandering

[@amenehjoylyngum1186]

Me too

[@antoinette9749]

Takes a whole lot of intentionality and commitment for men to do romance.

[@toluyemisitoki4164]

This got me" when u honour ur wife God honours u" true talk

[@Dan_Michika]

When you honour a God fearing wife,

[@jdcharlie]

​@Dan_Michika as a God fearing man why will you even marry a woman that doesn't fear God?

[@gracesobba1602]

Am from Cameroon and your teachings are so helpful to me. It has me made me réalise myself and know God more

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

wow thats great!

[@fonjehrene146]

hi happy New Year

[@mhiriaridy5816]

I was here because I had made my mind up never to get married I hope Pastor K is aware of the many lives he's touching.. It's a big deal

[@roseofsharon394]

Marry what drives him (ladies)not what he drives and marry what shapes her (men) not just her shape.👍👍💫💫💫🌠God is too organized. Thank you Lord.

[@ThatProductGirl]

Omoooo my marriage will be blessed oo, my future husband is so lucky because I'm learning this at my age

[@smiledaniel5650]

Am with you on this here

[@mamahkay6960]

Yes o

[@E.M.Favour]

Lols

[@anichidiebereawesome7987]

😆🤣

[@tonyanioke3645]

Nice 1

[@tuniquecraftchannel1235]

How do you say you are married and you guys have never read the bible??

[@teleiosgaudphrey3478]

I fell in love with this man after I listened to this message.. I wish for an opportunity to thank him..you just changed my life..I’m from christembassy Lagos

[@zoeamato7037]

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

[@zoeamato7037]

He is a great powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯

[@zoeamato7037]

W-h-a-t-s-a-p-p h-i-m

[@zoeamato7037]

+234=704 =286 =4197.......

[@StarC_38]

@@zoeamato7037 plz tell me me how

[@odosamamwenogboghodo189]

"I know you will find it, the way I found you"...Omo, that line blew my mind🤩🤩🤩

[@danielle_uju]

No be lie!! 😂😂

[@ogabipraise7726]

As in. I literally awwwned

[@amornievesmilamefuntam3661]

🤩🤩🤩

[@faithirabor9075]

Same here

[@shonisanimahada1763]

i even noted it down🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@focusrelentlessly8829]

Pst k is so simple and funny yet his messages cut through every layer. Thank you for yielding PK. I LOVE YOUUUU

[@bismarckbetty6799]

God has a voice in everything for every generation. He is God's voice in matters of dating, courtship and marriage.

[@UdyBee]

"Doing normal things in a special way" Kai! You're too much Pastor K💪. I've heard this saying severally but I got a new insight into it today.

[@evangel_milez]

Marriage is deeper than what we see, and what we've learnt....I agree with your teachings pastor....I'm trusting God for the wife of my youth soon..

[@billionairejumzietopbabe3304]

I didn’t want it to end..bravo pastor Kingsley 👏🏼👏🏼

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

awwww

[@jibike]

Me too!

[@rachelayodele2520]

Me too

[@chidinmanwanganga9714]

Very explicit,I don't get tired of listening to your message,God bless you with more wisdom

[@mechanizedcivilengineering4735]

If the intimacy is strong, there is no obstacle that can't be surmounted

[@umehmiraclea.1545]

That you're a good driver doesn't make you a good manager. Thank you pastor K sir

[@joskyshams4758]

I am from Kenya and a beneficiary of this teachings.

[@byrnenoel6317]

"Don't marry him (a man) because of what he drives, marry him because of what drives him." --Pastor K. Okonkwo (22:56)

[@situmanasike9011]

I found this page recently..but I enjoy it as I am planning to get married ..God bless you from kenya

[@oluforijimibadejo5567]

Trust me, you are in the right place 😊

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

great!

[@yidahmudaa8925]

Mkenya mwenzangu, nice, nice, nice

[@chiorazu8047]

Please DO NOT negiotiate Red flag!

[@mercymeriy7851]

He is very educative

[@DONYUGOS05]

Pastor kings, you are really a blessing to this generation.. may God continue to bless you with more knowledge

[@deborahjamesoyin2821]

I can't explain how I feel right now this message is just for me am in a relationship that I had to make decisions as soon as possible after listening to this wonderful powerful message my case is settled because I was down in the spirit asking God to help me out God bless you sir.

[@nelsieaddoh376]

This man of God is blessed Blessings are not only seen in physical blessings or money but knowledge 🙏🏽

[@rock.cultureofficial]

May your oil keep running Pastor K. God bless you.

[@damilarebdg]

Powerful and eye opening. Thanks for sharing Pastor K.

[@PEACEWILSONONYINPEREBI]

Just came across this video today. This message just made my day. Been praying about a particular person because I don’t want to make a mistake or doing it by my own will. I prayed about it for the very first time and and I got a confirmation. Still praying about it because I want it to be from God not by my making.

[@claiirejbrown]

Omg!! The way the guy shook him, he knew the guy is not ‘born again’. I honestly cant stop laughing. God bless you Sir for passing this important message in a light hearted way! Its always a refreshing time listening to your messages

[@kathleenibeh6309]

My favorite part of the whole message...it was too funny lol!

[@SwissTunes]

I wish I would have seen and practice this before. Would have save me serious heartbreak! 😞

[@aohio7186]

😂😂😂 very funny and knowledgeable.

[@oluforijimibadejo5567]

More Grace sir. I need to confess that since last year, we have played videos from Pastor Kingsley during our Sunday school sessions and we bless Pastor Kingsley regularly for all the wonderful piece

[@oluforijimibadejo5567]

We would need supplies of your book as there are many who would live to buy them

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

@@oluforijimibadejo5567 hello Badejo, this is great! send a message to [phone] on whatsapp to make enquiries on books and other resources, or visit www.ldmwithpk.org

[@chibuezeconfidence9849]

After listening to this and your life isn't better that means village people dey at work o. Wow!!😍 This is BEAUTIFUL! Thank you so much for this God bless you. See me craving for marriage now😘

[@sizwenyirenda4561]

😂😂😂😂village people Dey at work lol

[@egoigwetabansi-duru7530]

Pst I have listened to ur teachings for some time now but this particular message stroke me differently. Thank you sir. May God continue to water you as you hv watered us.

[@paparazicreations]

I RECEIVE MY OWN VIRTUOUS AND PRUDENT WIFE FROM THE LORD IN JESUS NAME. AMEN. THANK YOU JESUS 🤲❤💖 Prov 19:14, Prov 31:10

[@oluforijimibadejo5567]

Please, how can we connect to your ministry for counseling? Thank you sir

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Hello Badejo again, for counselling, send a message to [phone] on whatsapp

[@oluforijimibadejo5567]

@@KingsleyOkonkwo thank you sir

[@sandramumen4635]

I am really praying for a better spouse... I do not want to accept that they are no good man out there. I have been building myself with your messages for years and I expect something better from a man from God.. I am tired of heart break and wrongful expectations 😭😭

[@sandramumen4635]

@@olusholasoyoye2089 Hi Olu, I live in Lagos...

[@olusholasoyoye2089]

@@sandramumen4635 Oh, I see.

[@sandramumen4635]

@@olusholasoyoye2089 see what ?

[@olusholasoyoye2089]

@@sandramumen4635 Nothing, I was only checking proximity.

[@sandramumen4635]

@@olusholasoyoye2089 No problem..

[@adejuwonfolakemi4325]

Ignorance is called ignorance because u ignore knowledge..hmm, Thank u sir!

[@anekechidimma6854]

God is too organized to let you come to the earth to be wandering.. I catch this

[@starseed7775]

Waiting from London

[@Womenswell022]

Where is it written in the bible that God was happy with David and Solomon' multiply wives? Read your bible, God always warned that Kings should never multiply wives- Deuteronomy 17:17.

[@muriithipurity1167]

Am in Kenya and I have been encouraged by your preaching..how can I get the book..

[@Dhammilicious]

Eye opening message,as usual!Thank you so much for this!I'm happy that I heard this as an unmarried lady!Wooh,wooh!!

[@naominyamhanzavee894]

I got to learn of your messages two days back thank you so much for impacting people's lives so mightily am blessed from Zimbabwe

[@SUCRE-JZEE]

So powerful. God bless you PK, you are a blessing to my generation.

[@Inspired768]

The hand shake part 🤣🤣🤣 I so much enjoy your teachings

[@ouanziezita8156]

PK's lines😂😂😂 i know u'll find it as i found you

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Please send a message to [phone] or visit www.ldmwithpk.org for books and other resources

[@ntelahatembeh1352]

😂😂😂😂oh Lord I like this man. God bless you and your family Pastor.

[@rosemarychahilu6257]

Obey the Holy spirit always.

[@Shezztravel]

Yah i see why Mama is always glowing.

[@kelechiii_]

Thank you, Pst. Kingsley. You made me laugh and brought me to tears all in the space of one message. The knowledge you’ve imparted to me is priceless, and may God continue to fill your cup, in Jesus' Name. Amen.

[@israelolorundare6140]

Amen

[@okedivina1993]

Wow Ps K, I don't know how to thank u n ur wife, u r an inspiration, I so much enjoy ur teachings, God bless u both n continue to give u de Grace to help people like us..

[@noniwoodtv4202]

You both are doing wonderfully well. God bless you richly Amen

[@ndivhuwotshivhase792]

Thank you Pastor for your wise teachings the more I listen the more I see that Marriage is not for everybody I for one cannot survive it

[@Tracy6183]

😊😂😂🙏🙏 It is well dear

[@fonjehrene146]

it's well

[@precious_ay]

Thank you for this message, Pastor Kingsley. I thoroughly enjoyed watching and listening and I was blessed. It's a wholesome message.

[@ereboremus5072]

It's the simplicity of how he shares this wisdom and Nuggets.. I just listen to you when I do my walks. Thanks pastor K.

[@mikolohouse]

Pastor, I like you said he was a perfect guy, but know Nigerian girls have a culture of consulting seers to know,who their husband is, of course it's biblically wrong. But once they say that, "let's wait" a seer has confused the ladies most of the time

[@KyaringabiraEvas-ub5yb]

Awesome, am learning lot lately from these teachings. Much love from Uganda🎉🎉🎉

[@jabulilebuhlelanga5086]

I learned a lot from this teaching 🙏🏾🙏🏾 may God bless you with more wisdom as you guide us

[@mercyemmanuel9972]

Your teachings are top notch Jst hope God helps in this relationship of mine cux is complicated,am tired of being in a relationship

[@funny_naija_hometv1316]

Sir you use to come to Idi-araba high school to preach back then before you blow 😃

[@johnimjude2782]

No sir others Africans peoples do dat here in Europe. Not only Nigerian

[@nmanma773]

Always educating... Thank you pastor K, I wish my husband will be so interested to watch this & learn... So our marriage can be sweet & better

[@deborahademidunalagbe1319]

You can get him interested. Lemme share how i made my husband fell in love with this kind of messages. 1. I prayed about it 2. I arranged a weekend treat for just the two of us in celebrating our anniversary. I sent the children to a family friend and it was just the two of us. We both enjoyed it and its making us respond to eachother better.

[@nmanma773]

@@deborahademidunalagbe1319 thanks dear, I wish that worked for me... My dear, i have tried my best but no, I will just keep praying on that

[@Malligue]

When shall you do premarital counseling? Before getting engaged?

[@joymwendwa6959]

hello ma. most people do it after engagement but you could ask in your church

[@johndiamond1646]

Your teachings are the best.....I pray God help me because i really want to be with a good man and train my future kids the right way.....God bless you pastor K....

[@ruth_richard]

Pastor Kingsely this was so enlightening.

[@olajumokee.adeoye5788]

You and your wife are a blessing to me and this generation, thank you for all you do 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@damilolamoses8829]

Am impacted spiritually,mentally and emotionally. You are blessed. Pls I need more teaching concerning TITHE. Is it scripturally right to pay tithe or use the money to help the orphans, widows and the poor both in the church and outside. Thank you

[@sandynonyeaduba4018]

Hmm l like the perfume delivery romance illustration. Doing the normal things in a special way

[@SweetBrownGirl]

47 seconds in and I can honestly say I love his Spirit.

[@ILonggasaAmerica2024]

Subscriber from Philippines here.. Great teachings. Learning a lot!

[@triumphvids5904]

Absolutely brilliant Christian teaching for marriage... its nice to know u are learning as well as myself.

[@joanneclarke4226]

Marrying without God Marrying for the wrong reasons follow processes (emotions lie) not building intamacy; always ask for The Holy Spirit; it's important that you must obey The Holy Spirit; The Holy Ghost knows the mind of your spouse.

[@faustinaowusu313]

God bless you Pastor Kingsley. I always enjoy your teaching on this subject. Keep being a blessing to us🙏

[@TobechukwuElijah]

1:01:10 🤣🤣 God bless you richly for the message. I listened to the end. Thanks very much for the teaching.

[@captainbosingwa7226]

It's true my relationship was base on money when put her into test if she really serious to have baby she say not ready.

[@favourdave4680]

Great One Sir!!! I was truly Blessed I must say. More Oil to your head Amen!!!

[@abenalinda2239]

God bless you Pastor! I have learnt so much! May you never ever luck and may you continue to pour into us! Amen

[@borderlesstv777]

Powerful!!!!!!!

[@funmilayobalogun176]

Brilliant message. Thank God for His anointing upon your life Sir

[@gracejaweya5777]

Greetings Sir, how can i get ur books and for u to be my counselling am in cameroon

[@UniceTv]

I listened to the end, so blessed. Thanks sir. i pray my man will locate me and our marriage will be filled with joy and fulfill God's plans for us.🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@aginahtreasure]

God bless u pastor, for this message, ur teachings has really changed my perspective towards getting into marriage .I use to be frustrated before but now I have a path,feeling so relieved.

[@winifredsowah6210]

God bless you sir. But I will like to ask friends who have feelings for each other...but the guy Tell her lady friend he is not ready for commitment cos the lady feels cos they have the connection they should begin a relationship.... Please what should the lady do

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

she should walk away now

[@nanahemaa9075]

Fire🔥🔥🔥God bless you sir

[@pastormarymigot1509]

Mine too will be a testimony in Jesus name Ameeeen

[@monsuratagbabiaka9953]

Wow, thank you sir for the word and for giving to the Lord. God bless you sir, I can sense the anointing and I pray the Lord strength you more in Jesus name (Amen).

[@shedrackuchechukwu6020]

Please how do I get this books ? A- z of marriage and 52 tips

[@marybunmi573]

How do I get the All year round book

[@comfortnwachukwu6]

i found it very hard to respect my husband i don't know what to do

[@ednaoge7195]

OMG! God has finally gave me rest through this message ... Thank you God🙏

[@comfortabang5450]

Holy spirit, let the man you ordinate for me, find me in the mighty name of Jesus amen.

[@ogajijohnny6960]

I'm so blessed to have listened to this message. God bless you sir

[@chantaludeafor8046]

This Message is full of wisdom , God bless you pastor K