The Foundation Every Single Should Build Before Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'The Foundation Every Single Should Build Before Marriage'.
Many singles enter relationships without this knowledge and it has caused a lot of heartbreaks over the years, i believe if you can build your foundation right, you can pass through any phase.
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[@jennifemac8870]

I love Pastor K. Absolutely love his messages, however as believers we are under a covenant of grace we are in this world but not of this world. God never looks at age to determine whether one of his daughters can have children. I have friends who waited for years not out of choice but wanted to serve God with purity and not compromise. Some waited longer than they ever imagined they would wait to be married but God came through and honoured their faithfulness to wait. Two of my friends married amazing men in their 40s and went on to have children naturally. One friend was pregnant for the first time at 51 and gave birth to triplets naturally. God is still God, as believers we should not live like the world or think like the world. It is this same God who gave women womb, eggs etc wouldn’t he give children if one of his daughters finds herself waiting longer than she expected. If a woman meets the right man at 25 yr good for her but not every one who married at an early age has “time” to start a family. While on the natural level women do not have time to wait long to marry I do believe that we serve a God that can do anything. I love Pastor”s K teaching and the great teaching to prepare people for marriage but I just feel the timing of when people meet their mates varies and God can still give a woman children at any age. I do not agree that a woman’s option reduces because of age, there is no scriptures basis for this. God would be unjust to create a woman to be less valuable than a man. It’s a shame that churches have allowed the world to influence how we view our lives. The bible says we are complete in Christ so I do not believe a woman’s option lessens because of age. Please correct this error because it’s not scriptural. Christ did not die for women to feel that their option lessens because they married after 40. On the order hand there are women and men who married at 25yrs old are are divorced. God doesn’t look at age and certainly did not create men to be superior to women because of age. Yes women have a timeline for child bearing but when has that ever stopped God? It never has and never will. Basically what you are saying is that God created the male gender to have value with age and the female gender to have less value with age. There is no scripture to support this. God views marriage within the context of eternity to fulfil his purpose on the earth and no one should make anyone of God’s precious children feel they are less valuable or have fewer options because they hit age 40. This is not correct.

[@abbasbeloved6301]

You've made a very valid point here. Thank you for it and for the testimonies of your friends. I'm certain many will be encouraged and blessed by it.

[@liz9664]

I didn't think of what he said regarding women's options reducing in this light. Thank you so much and true, it is not scriptural. Look at Sarah that was desired by other men outside of her husband because God renewed her. I believe my husband will manifest soon in Jesus' name Amen!

[@dikechisom9903]

Nice one!

[@joskyshams4758]

I agree with you 💯 I have nothing to add.

[@oluchukwuobioma1127]

Nice comment and interesting. Just to add that I don't think he was saying that aspect of women's option reducing in a negative light. Even his wife waited for 8 years to have children. He is talking about ladies not married because they are too choosy.

[@vaa2332]

I honestly wish I came across you in my single days. The Grace of God upon you is unquantifiable. Thank you for heeding God's call. I celebrate you Sir.

[@mapsmaps805]

I can't believe I'm learning this at 47, single with 2 adult kids💔. What hope is there than to go down the rabbit hole 😭

[@ericaekpang8818]

Don't go down to the rabbit hole, you can still be whole in Christ Jesus! You can introduce your kids to these teachings so as to help them avoid regrets, and you can find peace by doing so. ❤️

[@elvisoffor2149]

I knew I've been trying to run with some of these, but not in this depth. The amount of wisdom here is, in fact gold. Wawu! Thank you for these deep revelations. Let me write it here to remind my future self: If I and my future wife can't see these qualities in our lives then we're not ready for marriage!

[@eberepurpleroyal1801]

One thing I like about u is dat u are funny wen u are preaching.

[@Princessfaith_]

This sermon on repeat 🙌🏾

[@edwinavarney3901]

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[@ekhatorsylvester4032]

u very correct,I learn from a France friend I have,HE fulfil already, HE meet a Nigeria lady,HE told me,I know this lady don't love me,she hungry for documents. he gave, infact he sacrifice, HE know the woman never love him,at the end he die,the woman took over all the properties. since then I no longer get move,i will be fulfil, even if I marry my direction in life is were i will follow. thank God the woman is a preacher now,she using this case to preach

[@dorcasolasehinde6242]

Thank you so much Sir, I'm so happy and blessed, I have never regret watching your channel sir, I thank God for the day my sister introduced this channel to me, my life has completely changed, and I'm getting blessed day by day, thank you Jesus, I just wish my friend's and everyone closed to me can enjoy this like I have just did now and always, the joy of the Lord just keep flowing in me,can't even explain it 😊❤️Hallelujah🙌🙌🙌

[@topeadelowokan4849]

I am a Marriage Minister as well. I am always blessed listening to Pastor K.

[@aderogbaayoola3427]

Can't get enough of this powerful and insightful message. This is a must watch for every Single 👏👏👏

[@mabelamahagan2793]

I don't like to wait longer before getting married:I have already advised myself.

[@henrymelchizedek]

Your single yrs are not to wait for marriage 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rosemaryumeh599]

Pastor K...God bless you for this timeless message..it was loaded.

[@chikauche8900]

Pastor k ..u're the bomb..your teachings are top notch..God bless u for us all singles..

[@bomaoriyebaka1249]

Wow wow... I am transformed by this message I'm have sent it to a single group I'm in, they need to hear this.. More grace Sir

[@kemilolafadeyi5483]

More anointing and more wisdom . You were called for this . What a testimony ? No doubt you have been called for this . You are a blessing to the world . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@GivenZelina]

Am single and in a relationship ,I bless God that am hearing this at the right time.

[@beckybioh8695]

Too much wisdom in one sitting. Greater Grace to Ps.K and wife!

[@yvettelache6940]

Pastor K is so anointed ....

[@beckymbah]

What an Inspiration preaching. I am really happy wachting this.

[@olleyannie371]

I love this man of God....he has made me know my worth...I love the new me

[@kratosalexander1217]

You are a blessing Pastor K. I am always learning!!! 💕

[@annvic3996]

Can we appreciate how full and thick PK's hair is.

[@mpumintuli6960]

Lol

[@Princessfaith_]

Facts

[@adjoamynah9111]

It's always a blessing watching you Pastor K. GOD enrich you and enlarge your territory

[@magdalenemusa1383]

Thank you so much Sir. More unction from the Holy Spirit in Jesus name.

[@igbokwechinecheremjacinta2263]

I don't miss out anytime ......More grace Pastor K

[@jubilantchikukwa6446]

your wisdom is beyond this world

[@elizabethmesioye]

I thank God for your life sir. You have blessed a lot of souls on this channel

[@ruththompson2757]

Omg, God allowed me to come across this ANOINTED/ APPOINTED msg 🔥 🔥 🔥 🙏

[@franklinodaro]

My God, this message is so complete! I'm glad I found this

[@joystitch]

God please continue to bless this man

[@oyindamolaolatunji6076]

Thank you Sir for teaching me. My mind has been largely enlightened

[@graceomakada5082]

So much wisdom here am blessed to watch this.

[@sophieamanston5192]

Wow wow wow this is deeper than I would ever imagine. Thank you man of God for this wisdom and knowledge God have bless you with. Now I'll be happy as I'm single and prepare for marriage as i put my house in order. Yes this message has heal me and stop me from being sorry for myself in my single life. Now I've realized that my single life make me to accomplished a lot of things to satisfy myself. Thank God for this wisdom that he has given you my dear man of God.

[@adescholastica2472]

Thank you so much sir, more Grace daddy, I learn a lot from you sir, may God continue to speak through you in Jesus name amen 🙏

[@jessd9841]

Can’t love you less Pastor K!! God bless u

[@margaretrameetse9592]

God bless you Pastor K. O. That was powerful. Words of wisdom . To God be the glory! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ezekielayuba1166]

Nice message, I love your messages mostly on KZbin even when they are repetitive but true.

[@ivieodigie]

What a sermon full of inspiration and the Word of truth. Thank you Pastor K

[@mabelamahagan2793]

God bless you Reverend Kingsley,for sharing,I badly need this message🙏.....

[@attahprosper3610]

You are a blessing to our generation 🙏

[@ivieogidiagba5405]

Thank you sir for all you do.. thank you for allowing God to use you. More grace sir.

[@Nyemaspeaks]

Thank you very much sir and this message was much needed. I learned a ton and took notes and will implement on them. God bless you.

[@abbasbeloved6301]

Thank you for this Pastor K, my marriage Doctor

[@peaceojo-osagie4746]

Exactly,as the bible says love you neighbor as yourself... Honestly you give people what you have not what you don't have

[@olabodeatoloye7544]

Hmmmm, this message is another loaded and divine encounter to my life. God bless you abundantly sir

[@kemilolafadeyi5483]

Thank you for this master piece. Marriage will never make you happy so is okay to be happy while you single because marriage only makes you better . Your professor in college job is not to make you happy but will only make you better . Is got to be mutual .

[@blessingchisom6982]

Thank you so much for such a wonderful message ❤

[@estherchinaecherem9590]

Thanks Pastor Kingsley, is well with Me🙏 God Bless You and Mama Abundantly 🙏

[@monicadiegboh9339]

Am do much blessed today 🙏 mey God bless you richly sir 🙏 for this message 🙏

[@corneliuskipkoech4996]

This is powerful,,More grace

[@BudgetingStudent]

Yes ooo I was amazingly blessed 🙌🏼 Thank you Pastor Kingsley 🙏

[@bernisassambom7515]

Thank you so much for this message Pastor, I am learning a lot from you

[@ruthbisong9907]

ALWAYS A BLESSING PK.God bless you Sire

[@AlhassanBlessing-kj9qo]

Am 24 am happy am learning what i need to know about marriage ❤ thank you so much pk

[@deborah7992]

Thank you so much for this MESSAGE ♡

[@Barnabas_Akinrinola]

Thank you so much, Pastor K!!!🙌🏾♥️

[@blessingchukwu9074]

God bless you so much pastor K 🙏🏾

[@marknyami4451]

Thank you pastor for this grt piece

[@kafunyakaswilo6634]

Always blessed by your message pastor.

[@veratwinztv6413]

Thank you so much, sir. Am always blessed watching your channel.

[@edimepeace5583]

This sermon is everything

[@graceg1844]

I needed this thnks pastor may God reward u.

[@nwagwetiruth]

Thank you sir for this profound teachings

[@nikkiventures4205]

This is amazingly amazing. Thanks kindly Sir

[@Cyril-OC]

I was truly Blessed OMO 🔥

[@ezehjennifer324]

🙌Thanks be to God for such a wonderful message God bless you sir 💯❤

[@rosenanaodurahmensah3289]

I'm blessed listening to you Sir. God bless you

[@manzalerlohrey3043]

This is soooo good! Thank you Pastor.

[@chinyere2090]

Thanks sooo much pastor Kingsley

[@davefx_]

So much words of wisdom sir

[@melodyokechukwu3103]

Thank you Jesus 🙌🙏 God bless you sir 🙏🙏

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

So Blessed sir. More Anointing.

[@liz9664]

Great teaching but I was dizzy the whole time with the background lighting.🤨

[@julielindo8955]

Greatly blessed by your message 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@parfaitfurnishing4007]

Thank you Sir. God bless you always

[@ifeanyicollins5086]

Pastor k, I really Like to meet you one day and learn from you sir, I celebrate you greatly, I wish you can make me your Timothy....

[@marhoziregbe7528]

Phenomenal PK!!! This has blessed me.

[@lydiasesay1908]

Thank God for this messages .

[@preciousglory6735]

Yes I am blessed. God bless you sir

[@richardaddy4444]

Awesome Message!!

[@ChikaJennifer-bq7kj]

🔥🔥❤❤i love your messages, I have really learned a lot from them...... Looking forward to seeing you and your wife someday.

[@Real_chynaza]

I have been in this begging for love.. But am out of it Love my self more now

[@blanchkuitat5021]

Great job may God blesse you

[@balogunsamuel1843]

Jewel of wisdom

[@dalisobandatv3924]

Thank you so much for this message.😍

[@onyisglowempire1963]

Thank you Pastor K.

[@harriclaphton2838]

Life is not about bread and butter but purpose Don't join the bandwagon of relocating, hear from God first

[@tamara3825]

Thank you Pastor K

[@marypauline4858]

Grace located him 🙏🙏

[@traydolventures]

Awesome awesome... Great job sir

[@gracemunachiokike9516]

Amen thank you pastor k

[@danbliss1950]

nice one pst K, always dropping it like his hot, well served,

[@chisomchukwudimma3234]

Thank you very much Sir

[@idim9248]

God bless you sir

[@emilycorola7526]

Amen hallelujah thank you Lord

[@erechijohanna9550]

I have learnt alot from you Pastork 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@paulatitambong611]

This sermon 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@nalugwaalexandra3631]

Thank you Sir🙏🧎‍♀️

[@teejay2841]

Thanks pastor ❤️