10 Tips For a Successful Relationship - Teal Swan

[@22catmando]

1. 1:55 Cultivate unconditional love instead of attachment 2. 5:25 Cultivate love for yourself 3. 6:50 Work to discover and to release your fears relative to relationships 4. 10:53 Communicate completely 5. 12:10 Stay on the same page 6. 15:45 Do not be specific about who you want to be in a relationship with 7. 17:58 Start to recognize and begin to heal your ‘love reincarnations’

[@SolapeAkinlaja-t5i]

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[@fugeelahahaha]

When people say love yourself first this quote: “Stop telling people no one will love them until they love themselves. Stop planting the idea in peoples brains that they are unworthy of love because of their own struggle.”

[@magicianxo6480]

I love this, we need t0 know love is shown to know that extended our love from ourselves to others is what we are here to do. People are greedy and dont want to extend anything and that's sad because we always need each other. People think they are soooooo independent it urks my nerves

[@charlotteblx9050]

Thanks ! !!

[@rey_nemaattori]

I think the 'love yourself first' part refers to the fact that you'll bring the wounds and trauma that prevent you from loving yourself in the love for another, like projection, and it'll throw a wrench in the relationship eventually. It doesn't mean you're unworthy of love, it means you're incapable of loving others fully. You'll be downplaying your wants and needs, you'll sacrifice yourself for another, allow boundaries to be crossed by another..this will lead to resentment, arguments and a general feeling of discomfort within the relationship. Love yourself first does not equate to be unworthy of love or being unlovable!

[@clairemorisseau]

@@rey_nemaattori yes, but it can easily be understood this way. I find it very important that she reminds us that we are worthy of love no matter what

[@evka24]

@@rey_nemaattori so beautifully said

[@ricardoravindra]

Gary Chapman and the five languages of love: 1) words of affirmation 2) physical touch 3) acts of service 4) quality time 5) gifts (minute 31)

[@KarmicBeats]

What happens a lot of times in dead relationships is that people stay in them because familiarity breads comfort. They do not break up until one meets someone else then they have reason to break with the unhappiness that has become so familiar.

[@iedaecouter]

so true. .

[@randyalmaguer4174]

This is called the "Tarzan affect" you grab the next vine before letting go of the first one.

[@LifeStyleTherapy]

Don't let your bad relationship history influence your present. If you are aming at finding true love and being happy, say no to bad memories and start living in the present. If you are feeling hopeless and you keep asking yourself how to find true love, this animated video in my channel "finding your soulmate 6 steps to finding true love" will answer your questions and give you the insight into the things that you should take in consideration when looking for true love. you can watch it now

[@michaelaturner8996]

Randy Almaguer and then continue the same patterns with the new relationship.

[@DHM91]

I'm breaking out of a dead relationship of eight years because I found someone else. That someone else is me. :)

[@sattsjalfminn6908]

Remember you have a 'relationship' with EVERY other being you interact with. Whether it is a intimate relationship, sexual relationship, friendship, professional and even incidental relationships,(the stranger you meet in passing). You have as much control over what that relationship is as does the other person/being; They don't have more control or less control than you do! You (or they) may impose that control either more or less than the other but that doesn't diminish or increase the control of the other even tho it will often cause the other to impose less or more control themselves. You are responsible and capable of making any relationship you have what you want it to be.

[@randyalmaguer4174]

We needed classes like this in school lol

[@madisoncaines1527]

Randy Almaguer 100% agree on this

[@maxpain45678]

But then we won't be mindless drones with any introspection. ):

[@mysticaltyger2009]

@@maxpain45678 Correct. That's exactly what school is about. It's there for social control, not true self development.

[@LightVoyage]

🦻🏼🐚“Could You Say That Louder!”

[@AmandasExperience]

Agree ☝️

[@mumpiechannel]

Teal Scott is such an amazing woman! The amount of intelligence and courage to find the knowledge that helped her is not an easy task!

[@LearningTheLanguage]

Anything you do that benefits your life is the tip to cultivate unconditional love. Wow

[@jerrytyfting2952]

The best kind of relationship is when you choose to be with each other and is not driven by emotions like love but by choice. If there are no emotional attachments from both sides then they are free.

[@roses6564]

That choice is made because there is love in the first place. Despite popular tropes, emotions are not arbitrary or misleading. They are an authentic, socially un-corrupt way we find out about ourselves and others. Let's not continue to spread misinformation that sounds good in the textbook but is realistically absurd. Why would anyone choose to be with someone they don't love and have no emotion towards, no natural affection?

[@MDOY79]

One of my favourite speakers on youtube, very enlightening.

[@TheRealBlackPanda]

Damn 10 years later and this video is right on point with me right now. Ive been feeling some insecurity with a person Im dealing with (through no fault of their own at all) but its hard to get out of my head sometimes. This video really helped me think about what it is I want and that theres nothing wrong with that and its okay if who you are with cannot give you that. Theres someone who can.

[@daydreambeliever2964]

I think its awesome that you are offering to donate all your money to those that are hurting That's how I know you are the real thing! Good for you!

[@Devonellah]

I also like the term "Learning to speak their love language" :) What a beautiful way to describe how we communicate :)

[@amaiaintxausti5660]

This woman is a gift to humanity

[@22catmando]

8. 22:26 Work to change the decisions that you’ve made based on experiences that you’ve had, as well as the actions that those decisions caused you to carry out 9. 25:10 Ask for what you want and need 10. 29:15 Feed people love every single day with these three things: Attention, Affection, Appreciation (also - the 5 love languages)

[@debbythivener]

I love watching her. My only issue is everytime I watch her I get even more confused of who and what I am..She brings a light to me that carries a dark shadow.. With that being said, I need to watch more videos.

[@rileymanda]

Thank you for these tips. Each and every tip was a wake up call for me. I have made too many sacrifices for others in the name of prioritizing their needs over my own.I have been slowly dying spiritually and experieicing alot of physical and emotional stress as a result.Time to RE-AWAKEN

[@susanv1125]

I rarely write a review, but Teal your videos and topics, and sharing yourself has really touched me deeply ... you are the sweetest wonderful woman. Keep it up...hugs xx

[@carnationsensation]

I really admire you for your courage, honesty, and such great insight into these matters of relationships, love, self-healing, etc. I really appreciate how you post all these videos and they're so well done, well edited, nice backgrounds and everything! Maybe one day I will read one of your books. But I love what you do and I admire how courageous you are to post these videos and even admit stuff about yourself. I am really enjoying your videos!! :)

[@DHM91]

John Sabp - and you're here commenting because..?

[@saamiya_saib_067]

John Sabp .

[@chanianwill]

Teal, you're articulating what I already know, but perhaps did not want to accept either fully or partially. My respect to you for having the insight and courage to dig into these wounds. I also love your impartial attitude towards the nature and needs of both men and women. No red pill, or manipulation tactics in a world where the divide between men and women is sadly ever increasing and popularized. You're simply illustrating logic, that most people do not perceive to be logical. There are so few insightful people catering to the mutual happiness of people regardless of gender. Respect to you!

[@YouTube4Rudy]

OMG, my first panic attack occurred 1 day after a long time girl friend no longer wanted to speak with me. I knew there was a connection- just didn't know what. Thank you Teal!

[@mahas6100]

my guides lead me to this video.. i asked them to help me with my relationship problems, i was watching youtube videos then one video lead to another and now im here... Thank you Teal and thank you guides!

[@angie33able]

You say the most simple and honest things. I have listened and some things you have advised wll change my relationships for the ultimate best.Thank you with Love xx

[@MKP165]

It's really great when you use examples from your own life. It makes your points come alive and eases comprehension. Also it shows that you're not governed by fear but true love and compassion.

[@g.j1907]

MKP165 wait so used to be a stripper?

[@sireanitita]

This is the best relationship advice I have ever heard and I have read and heard a lot ! It shows a larger vision about relationships and how they fit into our lives, as opposed to just concentrating on particular issues within the relationship. Thank you so much !

[@galagauthier]

I asked the universe a question, and got the answer this morning with your video.. Thank you, good luck with your book..

[@Misslotusification]

Very interesting and helpful. Thank you for clarifying the difference between true love, attachement and co-dependency. 26:21 to 27:12 Thank you for acknowledging the 3 A's 29:27 and the 5 languages of love 31:17 I never believed in being specific about our partners preferences, for we're not aware most of the time of what could please us. I trust the Universe, he knows better who we need to meet in order to be fulfilled.

[@shintanovitasari7784]

Thanksssss

[@anartsog2158]

It's always pleasure to know that someone is beyond their personal state. People watch videos and sometimes can not tell difference between "physical avatar" and "real wisdom". But those ones will understand; the ones already gotten over their avatar and moved beyond their personal perception. Who able to tell between "mind" and "intelligent consciousness" of itself (as being) . What you tell people is your intelligent consciousness and you're aware. And your personal experience is helping others no matter how painful it may seem. You chose to take the hardest path to tell people its possible: TO LOVE no matter what. Those who dislike you merely saying "I am not over my prejudice and personal state- I can not comprehend or accept beyond of my own"framed" perception because I never had to deal with myself" Therefore, thank you Teal for showing us there is no limit in universal love.

[@fernandamaier]

Dear Teal , feeling deep gratitude for Your Presence on this planet ! sending You much Love & Blessings

[@Shikita72]

Jessica Schab, people who have had struggles in their lives usually are the best teachers. Those who have had traumas and abuse that are on the path to enlightenment seek out better answers of truth to their hurts. I for one, think she is quite capable of giving relationship advice. She has found unconditional love through her strife and is now here teaching us how to do the same. Thank you Teal! I feel we know each other! :)

[@monalisakiti]

Omg, I have so much Appreciation for this Amazing Teacher

[@Passion4Dogs]

I don't worry about (or give any thoughts to) other people, especially the majority who are more interested in self gain, status and greed. I only do what is best for me, which is to listen to and read from people (like Teal Scott) who has something intelligent and insightful to offer to my own growth. I am glad that we have people like Teal here who is doing what she does.

[@Kibouo]

An additional point I would make is that people can react in two ways to their upbringing. The first way is how you describe - finding lovers/friends who mirror traits of their parents/primary caregivers in order to feel some kind of 'resolution'. However, I also have found that sometimes one can seek the total OPPOSITE of what you experienced, (normally negative) as another method in order to self-heal. (E.g, find a very warm affectionate person to compensate for cold, unloving parents)

[@gpk8728]

I agree.

[@selineshaw8210]

Thanks Teal 😍

[@cecancorina8655]

I heard your story. You are an indigo child. The majority of us has gone through childhood trauma, but this was meant to awaken us and to make us as deep as we are now. As you are now. You heal yourself by healing others. ❤

[@ChristianRawk]

This made so many things make more sense. I needed an explicit explanation of the difference between love and attachment as I must admit to having confused the two as being one and the same for many years now. So, thank you Teal for providing that for me since I feel like I really needed to hear it!

[@MrEndz00]

i started with 3rd eye opening now i see how i can love my girlfriend and how she is been trying to show love i didn't see thank you from bottom of my heart may the universe guide all of us to our true self's in this life time or the next.

[@rhondajennings9733]

I think people fear the war of a break up..the chaos, the high drama far outweighs what they suffer they think. They think they lose to much materially, to hard to start over at ground zero, afraid how hard to live on one income!!! The humiliation of the friends and families learning of the failed or broken relationship..being hated, being looked down on or they are heartbroken to lose you too!! Or the divide of pets..so many hold out till someone can rescue them, emotionally, financially, asset wise, not have to adjust to empty bed can't sleep problem. Etc.

[@DULCECARICIA]

Repeat negative experiences, only shows inattention. Some people need this knowledge. Discover the couple's love language is just one result of love. Because you pay attention to the person you love. I advise against doing anything you do not enjoy to get the love of another person, but if you enjoy the happiness of the other, in consequence of doing what he / she likes, then fine. Your videos are Grandiose!

[@camgod9181]

Teal, its really great what you are doing for people, lots of extraordinary inspiring ideas

[@77HadassaH77]

I need to share something awsome: I'm so glad to have discovered my faults in my past relationships. Most people walk away without thinking about there contributions to their relationship breake-up.

[@EstefanieSanz]

I felt this video as a masterclass of how to build healthy relationships. Thank you so much!

[@miha89c]

THANK YOU TEAL! YOU ARE LIKE A LITTLE CANDLE IN MY LIFE, REMINDING ME CONSTANTLY WHO I AM. I GUESS WE ALL TEND TO FORGET SOMETIMES. I LOVE YOU!

[@Elricmedia19731]

I could have used this 25 years ago, lol. Good video.

[@connieroche6564]

Parent and relationship…..ruminating, reincarnation, recreational re-creation, explanation, back to…..ruminating stories. STOP. I feel as if my living in a story ….like now…..😮 what a joy to share my thoughts with you. 🙏💕

[@markfury7291]

Omg only starting watching you're vids few days ago.. Im amazed by what u have to say .. I love or spirit ..x

[@superblessed8186]

Same here bro liberating aren't they

[@URLOVED247]

You’re a ray of light for me since I found your channel - a couple months ago. Recently, you are offering advice for topics that I am needing - at the time I am needing it… and I so look forward to Saturdays nowJ I love you, too.

[@cnags89]

I love your videos Teal! They’ve been such a huge help in my life especially lately, thank you 💕

[@PWalden762]

This is totally right, notice how Teal's videos have mostly likes, and not dislikes... It's not because most people agree with her views, it's because for the most part, only people that are in a place to accept or hear what she has to say find her videos.

[@BarbaraMerryGeng]

While I appreciate all your thoughts and insight, on this topic, I think love is as easy as letting it happen. Love is not a struggle, or an intellectual challenge. It is easy as breathing in and out. When it becomes complicated it is not love . But contraction.

[@TheForaaa]

I can't be more thankfull for all wisdom you are sharing with all of us.. I must admit that my life and my mental health started improving since I've discovered your channel. Thank you 😊 💓 ☺️. Love,Peace n Unity..

[@aster07flar31]

n Sorry 4 my english...pardon me...bt i m learning....luv n light from me☺.....if u see dn plz rply me...i'l feel so hapy n proud...it's my first coment.!

[@ChildFlowwwer]

good job! ^ o ^

[@The_Red_Pill__]

That is so nice. I hope you continue to learn ❤️

[@thegoldenzipper]

🙌🏻 👌🏼😄

[@thekindred999]

I remember when you only had a few hundred subs. You've come such a long way. I'm going through these old vids out of nostalgia.

[@BaresHoney]

OMG! I love TEAL SCOTT! I am hooked on watching your videos! You are an amazing woman and I thank you so much for sharing yourself with the world. You have moved me and inspired me and brought me to tears. I identify with you and the things you say. I pray you keep on doing what you are doing for the greater good of all! Peace from Julia

[@AnindyaSNag]

Thank you for the 5 love languages. I asked universe to teach me harmony and suddenly started getting the urge to gift my art pieces to my friends or simply give them a call. Today I penned down what I like to get in return. It's a sweet feeling of knowing that I am capable of loving people in my life.

[@ayeshawindsong990]

Thank you Teal. Very positive and helpful. Thank you for your time and for sharing and service :)

[@tonyclark9947]

Hi Teal. I realise what you went through to learn this and appreciate that you have chosen to share if with us. Just so you know - I am finding my way out...thank you.

[@marilouritter7215]

THANK YOU TEAL! I really appreciate your presence in this world! I am so glad I was open enough to see into your message. I have read some of the books you have mentioned. Your message totally resonates with me! Thank you for having the courage to do all these videos! Thank you for being a messenger for Source!

[@jerrytyfting2952]

She actually helps very few. Not many truly understands nor are interested in such psychological/spiritual stuff.

[@BeautyPro4u]

You touch my life on a regular basis. thank you for sharing your gift. have a good week ;)

[@smoochiecoyle2533]

I love the tone you speak in....there is no ego or judgment in your tone....love your video's!!!!

[@diddiemcfly6584]

"Your relationship is nothing but a mirror of the relationship you have with yourself."

[@yensa]

My friend just shared two videos of yours with me and I was instantly hooked! I am so grateful for your wisdom, tools and all insights that you are so willing to share! THANK YOU!

[@Meganbiller1234]

thankful you exist

[@GypsyInThirteen]

this total video made my heart explode---I had to come back to say this. the daddy part and the the dynamic between you and your friend---beautiful. this is such such good stuff

[@mariejae]

I love this! This makes so much sense. Thank you!

[@carlahartzell7249]

i feel like you r helping me thru my dysfunction growing up family life. thank you. I am healing very slowly. I discovered I am an em path. very sensitive & I can heal other if they are open minded. I was raised by a narcisist

[@ujjwalsharma5870]

This was uploaded 7 years ago?? Feels like today.

[@laurenbrown9643]

Thank you SO much Teal, this video has helped me out of a dark place. The part about the primary carers specifically actually caused me to have a huge epiphany. I now see the pattern which has run through all of my romantic relationships, and why I feel the way I do and thus take the actions I have to basically force the same issues to keep arising, causing me pain and my partners frustration. I sought out something to help me with my relationship issues because I am now in a new relationship and really wanting it to work, however finding myself feeling the same awful emotions. I really didn't expect to find something so on the money, and your father experience is the same as mine and I can finally understand why I keep doing what I do! I thank the Universe for leading me here!!! Much love to you

[@roblovegreen]

I love you!....Wait, I am attached to you.

[@rdhlovebug4700]

Hahahah that's improvement

[@VV-pt2gg]

Really ??? 😬

[@donschlegel1972]

Lol

[@neilblackman2965]

@@VV-pt2gg So you wouldn't move heaven and earth to find a life partner with Teal's qualities?? I genuinely have to try and distance myself from the desire I experience whenever I watch these presentations, and I'm completely sure I'm not unique in this..

[@emavran]

Teal you touch my soul so deeply and give me so much courage to find and express my real self that I truly believe that you are an angel in my life. Thank you so much!

[@ymearth]

You are amazing💝 Thank you so much❤️

[@Dayana-mk5ch]

Unconditional love as a practice is to be in a the vibe of love more often it appears- the opposite of fear. That’s great for manifesting & health, since many are more afraid than necessary.

[@civi4270]

can we just stop and talk about Teals eyes? how are they so shiny????

[@civi4270]

Miguel Chappell :3 beautiful

[@Stevennus]

google - pleiadian

[@civi4270]

***** whats that?

[@dizzyaaron]

They are called "catch lights" reflections from the lights used to light the video.

[@civi4270]

DizzyAaron noooo these are different

[@lassfurst4846]

As shallow as my comment maybe, I felt compelled to write it... Wow she looks incredible in this video. Especially in the beginning, she almost puts me in a trance!

[@bekkalove1121]

I am so happy I stumbled upon all of your videos. I truly believe the universe brings teachers to you when you are ready, and you truly have helped me open my eyes to concepts Ive been starving for. Thank you for your wise help and guidance

[@stevejones7140]

thank you for showing me this...I never let anyone in or tell anyone if i have a bad day or phone up someone .Why should i burden other people with my life...always thought this way can't remember when it began. ...thank you for showing me this and to try and communicate with human's harder.

[@laaaaajjbby]

Teal, what about relationships with negative people? I have a roommate who I have grown close to however her outlook on life is extremely negative and draining. I have started to remove myself and distance myself once I realized the negative impact it has on my life. I feel so bad though.I truly want to help but I'm positive there is nothing I can do.

[@HKrisaH]

+Lajune Mcmillian don't feel guilty because you can't help her. she is in her path for the best, nobody can be helped if they don't want to, try to visualize her finding her own strenght.

[@corsicanlulu]

im in the same situation w/ a friend i want to help..but she doesnt want any help and is negative...i guess i must take care of myself for a while, maybe u should too. just take a break maybe

[@laaaaajjbby]

corsican lulu

[@animaa6220]

Lajune Mcmillian when you start focusing on yourself you will help her see how to do it for herself. This is how you help

[@The_Red_Pill__]

Send her a few great books-the love language of gifts. :)

[@thevoidincarnated9283]

Love this classic. Putting it in my favs list. Thanks for all you do Teal and the way you love humanity. ❤ Love you. Please stick around.

[@ellieburbridge8155]

you look like Bella from twighlight

[@shekharbasnet7226]

ellie burbridge 97y5nn

[@asathora1819]

Sounds like a compliment, but is it?! After all she’s older than Bella ...

[@unamass75]

Asathora what’s her age got to do with her look?

[@YunelKuroya]

please. she is more beautiful than that.

[@andreatorluemke4982]

We love you too Teal! Bless the mama who made you!! Amen

[@pavlapruchova1971]

I just love U teal❤️🙏 just like Matt kahn 💕🙏💖🍀please what do u think about soul travels vardankar science?

[@darrelldreajr2334]

Again as a divorced father of two beautiful kiddos who is also navigating the challenges of being a bisexual/gay Empath I see your message. I appreciate you. I'm learning and growing because of you and others like us. Thank you. The next level of clarity for us as a whole is to reach as many as we can with these messages of abundance and functionality that raises vibration. I'd like to pass on what I gain from this work and other bright loving stars like Amanda Flaker, Judy Orloff, Teal Swan my grandmothers who from a young age instilled the value of truth...but are no longer on this plane but still guiding and guarding me. Unfortunately my gifts at this moment don't include recite or the words that will effectively resonate. I know that I will get their but to start my self training,I'd like to ask permission to pass your messages along pretty much word for word in order to reach a population that is in desperate need of valid truth. That group is the LGBT community and our families/friends/ neighbors ect. Let's talk . Darrell Dewayne Rea Jr. Grand Junction Colorado. [e-mail]. it's a beautiful day. Be good to yourself and others.

[@GemyniMoodJuice]

this is the freudian concept of wanting to date your mommy or daddy. However, I have never agreed with it. I think some of us will try to recreate the parent/child dynamic and others of us, like me, will rebel entirely against the parent who abused/neglected them. I exclusively date men the exact opposite of my father. My father was an alcoholic, chronic adulterer who would flaunt his mistresses in my mother's face and bring me to his mistresses homes as a child while he fucked them and i played with their children. I exclusively date the exact opposite of that. sober men from loving two parent families who are err on the side of awkwardness and nerdiness so that they feel too insecure to cheat with other women.

[@corsicanlulu]

thats because u are AWARE of this dynamic, however most people dont think critically or at all and so they do wanna be w/ their mom or dad and never realize it

[@naomi1234ization]

This is what I felt like I´ve been recently yearning for, I´ve starved my soul for a while and needed such food urgently. I´ts amasing I´ve been practising some of the mentioned things intuitively, looking for ways that work for me. In all these experiences, I reconnect even more deeply with myself, which brings me emence joy. Thank you for sharing in a clear language, what I resonate with.

[@dennisdunn3420]

This is this man's wife typing. I want to know what brand and color Teal Swan's eyeshadow on her eyelids is. I love her wisdom, but this has been bugging me because it is so beautiful. Teal, will you tell us women your secret even though this is probably trivial to you?

[@77HadassaH77]

He is giving me space to get to terms with myself and being the person I need to be. This even comes from the gifts he gives me. We are not living together (yet), but even living in diffrent countries untill the right time is there for us to live together. First we need some closure with our old lives, and then who knows what will come for us...

[@mandyt5162]

so,if i provide love and protection that my parents didnt provided for me,it stop attracting not loving and caring ppl to my life?

[@s4ndmanthorsminion637]

In a nutshell yes.

[@NandaBenetti]

You have to provide love and protection to yourself. Start feeling that you are deserving of being loved and protect yourself, stand up for yourself, go after what makes you feel that way. Don't accept anything other than that. And if you have people in your life that don't seem to correspond to your needs, remember to assert those needs to them, because sometimes people aren't aware of how we are feeling, so we need to express that, and if our needs are aligned to what they can offer us, they are most likely to do so.

[@ayur12345]

Nanda Benetti t

[@anthonyhurtado7358]

you are the bomb...you answered many of my questions i have not been able to find anywhere! Just to two of your videos is all it took. Now i need to practice to be love and share it without having too many ??? and feeling empty. You are Awesome Teal!!

[@dianabates5078]

teal Swan I want to tell you I love you too sister

[@kellybelly0213]

Totally get what you mean - if they're no longer clinging to you, it'd imply you don't serve that comfort/need for them (which implies a sense of importance in your being). As annoying as the clinging may be, we like feeling important.

[@lizxu322]

Is it strange I get Kristen Stewart vibes from her? In the best way x

[@gotime5883]

teal would be a better vampire than bella!

[@77HadassaH77]

The one I truly wanted is a partner who completes me and is self aware, (truly) respectful to all of me, and being powerful in expressing his true feelings without resentment. I even was given more than I expected out of my request to the universe. He is able to see right through me making me able to truly work on myself.

[@g.j1907]

Hadassah Kehilla yet I bet you cheated on the end . So whatever

[@skepticat8874]

Jessica Schab, Jessica, it sounds like you're suggesting that because someone has been in abusive relationships, they cannot grow out of that? That is where your statement is flawed. Are you also assuming that she is/was in an abusive relationship at the time of this video? My suggestion is to watch her interview video where she discusses her childhood and you just might appreciate just how far she has come in her growth. BTW, your sentence structure has a bit to be desired. So, does that mean that people should discount what you have to say because of your history of bad sentence structure? Think about it.

[@changethematrix]

That is not what she is saying. She is correct that we are attracted to people that will abuse us the way we were abused as a child because as a child we were not able to resolve those issues so those issues play out continually through our lives until we recognized them and deal with those issues. She is making you aware of why you are attracting what you have and how to change that not that you will forever be suck in that. Listen to more of her videos. She knows what she is talking about.

[@marziamoon1499]

loving others in this attached way just feels so good and kinda right. wonder why we all do that? very rare seeing the pure unconditional love in relationships

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Thais Gibson has a lot of good stuff on healing your attachment style. (Not born with these) this is the reason for attachment versus love.

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Healing your inner feminine as a woman will help you to relate in ways that work better with men too. Love

[@Oliver9402]

This Teal perhaps (I don't know her) shows the power of marketing over the stupidity of the public. With her good looks , appealing style and memorised new age spiritual wisdom she is doing a roaring trade. What makes me suspicious of her is of all things the "visa" logo on her jacket in another video lol.

[@changethematrix]

Why would you say she is stupid? What exactly dose she say that you think is dumb? You know sometimes the very thing we need to hear is what we don't want to hear.

[@enlightendartist]

She was born beautiful, sometimes it is difficult to have good relationships when you are, but she has great advice!

[@whizzywig]

Cari Geldreich - may I respectfully suggest that you re-read Olly's comment? He isn't saying that she's stupid, just that the public is stupid! That was a silly knee-jerk response to something you mis-read.

[@whizzywig]

+Cindy Villacis +Mer kaba I never heard of Teal Swan until an hour ago. She is very pretty, beautiful and appears articulate and wise. I don't want to de-bunk anything here, as I do believe in energy healing [I am medically, acupuncture and Reiki trained], and do not wish to cause any offence. Teal's words and advice seem authentic enough, but I'm not so sure that they're her own words. She may well have an excellent team of advisers, counsellors etc, combined with a great memory for the script :) . Certainly doesn't appears to be using Auto-cue! However, some here really do show their susceptibility to her looks (myself included), for example ... Re Teal's eyes: + Cindy Villacis said 'can we just stop and talk about Teals eyes? how are they so shiny????' + Mer kaba ... you refer to 'Old Soul's eyes', but ... I doubt very much that it's 'Old Soul's eyes' but rather simply reflections from studio lights!! ... 'in case you don't know about eyes' [ Mer kaba ;) ], any Doctor, Optician, medical student or portrait photographer will tell you about the corneal reflex! This is the reflection on the cornea produced by a bright light. The position of those corneal reflexes show that the light is reflective - look closely and you can see her pupils separate from the reflexes. There is no light coming from her eyes. It's cosmetic. This production has been slickly presented by her team, of course she/her team want her to have appeal. Much that I enjoy listening and watching this delightful lady, I have to listen to my internal suspicion monitors as well. Others such as Olly have already mentioned the slickness of these productions. For me the jury is still out.

[@JTown4211]

I wouldn't call it stupidity. I'd call it the tendency towards a sense of spirituality that is not adjunct to the dogma of religion. She makes it more contemporary and appealing.Though, for her marketing, I don't see any of her videos monetized or really any ads on her website, nor do I really see her selling a product. I think Ms. Teal is actually genuine in her intention which is refreshing contrast to a lot of things on KZbin. I don't really take her literally on her spiritual terms though,I take it more metaphorically anyways. I use to satisfy my emotional needs rather than my objective.

[@mashasorin7416]

Hi Teal, I just found your channel yesterday and I must say, the way you explain things and lay them out is exceptional. You have changed my way of thinking in only 24 hours. Thank you for making these videos and I look forward to hearing more of your words of wisdom

[@j.r.9158]

you wanna see an angel???just throw on some fake wings on this chick

[@GammaRayBOOM]

..not even comfortable with and this is just one easy way to understand and observe yourself. Not everything always have to resonate with you but it doesn't mean that you have to shut it down right the second. All you need is an open mind which we all have, cause we are just born with it.

[@sarahyarwood7440]

This is real and authentic stuff, thank you so much for sharing the varieties of insight that it would take a lifetime for most folks to figure out if at all.

[@goldangel029]

you can help not wanting what you want focus on the negative part of that person and voila no more love. Its the story you tell yourself.