10 Traits That Can Actually SCARE People Away

[@barbarahall5514]

If someone is scared of me? Well then they’re not my peeps….😂

[@VegasD702]

A LOT of people are weak in todays world...

[@cw5451]

Amen

[@kirilmkdsrb]

​@@VegasD702exactly

[@FilipRanogajec]

Same here.

[@shreyak9962]

You are not scaring them by threatening them. You are scaring them just by being yourself. This is an amazing quality of a sigma woman

[@sandraqureshi9333]

I have most of these traits without even realizing it. They're are good traits and I'm not a people person anyway. So thanks, I working on them more.

[@robertkwiat5520]

You said what I was thinking

[@michaelmayojr.3031]

I struggled throughout my youth to fit it. The social phenomenon of isolation just tore me up internally then. In my more matured life, I gave up and accepted the self refection and understanding that I am one of the "scary" people. I have many of these characteristics in the video above and gave up on being "with" others socially. As of today, I have had five days off from work and yet to talk with one person.

[@stephenhobbs4753]

I don't diminish my light... One either likes me or they don't... Someone's inadequacies or perceived inferiority isn't really my issue...

[@johnlogan3451]

blunt and to the point,that`s me. I hate talking to people that take 5 min to tell you a 30 sec story

[@t.v.4551]

If you ‘hate’ those people, you shouldn’t be living in a society! Why don’t you claim some mountain and stay there! I hate people like you - arrogant and full of themselves! You are just nuisance for the rest!

[@diva555sg]

Hemm... We are being our authentic self so we can't help it if we scare them away. Not necessarily we are not compliance but to what cause; can we not think like the crowd & always think out of the box so life is never a dull moment; failure is an opportunity for growth to solve problem; see problem as a task & not a destiny.❤

[@Keithfire100]

I have a strong personality but in a nice sensible way

[@DominiqueFrancon]

Me too!

[@oliviao2238]

You are powerful. I have been saying this about you for weeks.

[@Rambleon444]

1# should be people who can't stop talking. I run from these people! Their conversation never ends, it is dominated by their narcissism, so any topic brought up they will make about themselves.

[@FilipRanogajec]

So relatable - I'm an accursedly gifted listener, but I know when enough is enough, and those people who can talk so much without saying anything of value are not impressive in a good way.

[@KarlLetcher]

If they can’t stop talking, it’s not a conversation-it’s a monologue.

[@FilipRanogajec]

@@KarlLetcher, agreed, Karl.

[@rihannadiamonds2504]

No need to even watch that video... I went straight to comments box.... I am a kind, humble person. But assertive when needed, particularly when facing unfairness, ect.... And won't let people walk over me or take advantage of.... and if people feel they are being scared away... each to their own to think whatever they please.

[@FilipRanogajec]

Exactly my thoughts. I won't reduce my value so that someone else might feel better about themselves. Nope, not happening.

[@Elizabeth-yg2mg]

These are good points. I'm too Independant and need to tone down a few other points.

[@sarahhurst701]

Valuable insights. Brilliantly done.😊❤

[@sgreen0000]

Uh Oh! Just as I thought-I have every one of these traits. 🤔😁

[@Dark_Spark007]

Clicked in trepidation, watched with satisfaction knowing these are good traits and if anyone has a problem with them then the problem is their's alone and they probably find fault anywhere, with anyone, anything anyway....................

[@keeblergraham211]

What I hear is, "If you're thinking about being authentic, don't. Read the room and stick to predetermined scripts like everybody else." This is essentially a guide for how autistic or neurodivergent people can mask as neurotypicals. -A good reminder of how limited neurotypicals can be.

[@FilipRanogajec]

As someone who possesses almost all of these traits - if not all - and who engages in retrospection every single day, I do have one thing I never compromise. For anyone. That thing is: I will not make myself small or lesser so that someone else can feel better about themselves. The moral of the video's story is on a good basis, but it goes a bit too far.

[@JameeSkidmore]

What he said!

[@FilipRanogajec]

@@JameeSkidmore, just the facts. 😉

[@casssmith2610]

I refuse to lessen myself to make others feel better. Grow TF up, jmamfj

[@vinnavuong20]

Your video and I like it that you’re not only point out the traits but then how to adjust it so it doesn’t put off people.

[@1matim]

thanks, good video

[@mycharles3340]

Ive had several people tell me theyre afraid of me....😮

[@sandraqureshi9333]

I want to find out these 10 traits, I want to find how to make people afraid of me, that sounds cool. 👻😂

[@davidbergman7277]

Yes. I scored a perfect 10 Screw friends

[@geeskin5750]

How about as a people person some being afraid because they think ur hitting on them or others referring to you as "too friendly"

[@blackwonderBW]

1:51 I dig this channel but, what's up with this scene? Pause and look at it. He's drinking a mug of beer. There appears to be two opened wine bottles. There are two bowls of snacks. And what looks like two bottles of medication? Now, I know that this is stock video footage. So why do I bring this up? Because it's just so unrealistic and artificial. The image undermines the overall topic. Just IMHO.

[@nicholas1493]

What if though you've been on the side having felt intimidated by how any else come across

[@timhargrow]

Honestly, this is a turn off from living authentically except for the last one.

[@Thebuilderofthings1]

Pull my finger, where'd everyone go?

[@sandraqureshi9333]

😂🤣🤣 That's a good one

[@denialgodmudgway3654]

Far too hard to trust people

[@pandoraalberts5267]

Good.

[@989787777778787]

Autistic people tend to have all of them, just like I have all of them. We're very scary people!

[@entekita-mw6ty]

i'm chase autismian, ive been diagnosed Pba.

[@NukeCult666]

Carry on🚶‍➡️ I'm not accommodating .

[@donaldmckinney2862]

I agree with some of the points here, but one other Brainy video theme is:it’s okay to be intelligent and have few friends??Not sure of the discrepancy by the same author

[@edennis8578]

It depends on what you want for yourself. Do you want a lot of friends you have to walk on eggshells around? Not me.

[@allkindsofgroove]

if you have any kind of personality and self-awareness, you will scare people away.. No thanks. I'm good, lol

[@nodozhit]

In other words, coddle them and feed them your fish, but never teach them to fish because women, children, and weak minded men rather be entertained or entitled than be enlightened or empowered.

[@crystaldance5731]

Thanks brainy ❤️😊👍🏻

[@sjmullen6691]

I am the most non scary person ever. But I scare people because I am serious about everything I do.

[@bishop2051]

GET TO DA CHOPPA!!

[@christophertea6788]

I have at least 5 of them in the list.. But I am always have a high standards..😂

[@DominiqueFrancon]

This describes me.

[@andyrobertson9685]

Food for thought

[@stephenmotenjr.9816]

Facts 100 ❤🎉

[@andreadunkley2191]

I enjoyed this video I am aleader of agroup and when I asked for a feedback on an a project they said I don't know what I am doing one said I should give up of Being a leader. I gess you can please people all the time. You got to stay focus.

[@casssmith2610]

Good… run… I wouldn’t like you anyway.

[@edennis8578]

That's usually true.

[@renegadedalek5528]

I don't want o be a part of the trembling flock of neurotics you want the world to be.

[@crystalm4324]

Yeah, well, it’s not my fault they don’t make men like they used to. 😅😢 This advice would’ve been useful 30 years ago. Now I just wonder if you’ve been spying on me.

[@FilipRanogajec]

Well, you've got one here - generation of '96. ☺