15 Signs You Have an Intimidating Personality

Do you have an intimidating personality?
Some people possess such personality traits and corresponding behavioral patterns that we can’t help but freeze up in their presence. These qualities that may seem intimidating such as unflinching honesty, strong will, goal-oriented perspective, observant nature and determination, but on the flipside, they may just appear as rudeness, inaccessibility, intolerance, or lack of empathy. These dualistic sets of characteristics can sometimes exist simultaneously in people we perceive as intimidating, which makes our assessment of those intimidating qualities as good or bad, or both, quite difficult.
In this video we will be presenting you with 15 signs that you might have one of these intimidating personalities, which could aid you in navigating your day-to-day interactions with people.
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[@marktuason418]

1. You are good at observing 2. You are assertive 3. People remain silent and take note when you speak 4. You get straight to the point 5. You don't hesitate to speak your mind 6. You don't tolerate any attempt for people to manipulate you 7. You don't do small talk 8. You are focused in problem solving instead of playing the blame game 9. You project an image of a successful person 10. You are not a conformist 11. You don't apologize for having unconventional opinions 12. You are goal driven 13. People want to argue with you but are scared with you 14. You don't tolerate willful ignorance 15. You can't stand people who constantly complain

[@jaxthedisintegrator8096]

That's 100% (even if I'm working on my honesty, since being always honest in every situations isn't always a good thing). Turned like that after some verbal abuse patterns from narc (or maybe someone suffering from bpd). So far I've been victim of a smear campaign. And I'm at the devaluation stage of the relationship. Never ever thought that I could be somehow "intimidating" 😂.

[@FloweijFR]

Well thats 100% not me

[@tactusxii]

ty

[@neworleansmade504]

This me

[@RafReyes_]

14 :)))

[@nodumpling1484]

Status is an illusion. The more that you know about people the more you realize that nobody is worth idolizing or being intimidated by.

[@CodyTravers_]

Keep tellling yourself that. How did 20 people like this?

[@MetalSStar196]

It's an illusion, but one that creates the right environment for you to get to where you want to be in life. Take my work in the kitchen, for example: I work at a pub, but I don't wear branded work t-shirts and the like, but instead haute-couture kitchen fatigues, including a black or checkered pillbox cap, black chef jacket, and black kitchen pants - I'm taken way more seriously and better equipped than some of my colleagues to effect my long-term agenda.

[@ana______6567]

Yesss

[@bcaye]

I would state instead that someone is worthy of respect, not noteworthy at all or actively unpleasant.

[@fitlife1205]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@goshasoshalskiy6001]

That's not intimidating...that's being a grown up and a respectful human being. I met a ton of people like that they are very honourable people and I do respect them.

[@berto2125]

That's how soft we as a society has gotten. A straight forward man is now "intimidating "

[@diydcappa]

They don't honor like they used to smh

[@NiceMan-mi5po]

Actually this is a video about alphas in society who command respect as leaders have to, also this video talks about certain behaviours alphas despise in corrupted betas.

[@ScarFaceDom_]

yep but unfortunately ppl do get intimidated

[@gabeguzman9478]

I hate how people get intimated I feel like they do it on purpose

[@cetriemmmmm7177]

These are manly traits that keep narcissists and vampires away. It's a beautiful social filter.

[@horustrismegistus1017]

No. It causes them to behave as CNN and MSNBC have towards Trump. Accusing him of being whoever is speaking. Each describing themselves. He is invincible, and they just bounce off. Whenever you see people teaming up, with hatred, against pretty much anyone.. You're looking at a very strong person, who is intimidating the t total hell out of weak pukes who would give their lives just to see them fall.

[@MetalSStar196]

What's manly or womanly about filtering out bullshit?

[@Oldmandoom95]

Think it’s a typo fruit cake

[@user-gj4bn9sr9l]

Some of these traits are good masculine traits to have

[@smolville]

They don't keep the vampires away. They slay the vampires.

[@benbuda5857]

A narcissists worst nightmare!

[@lamontemckinney9724]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@user-sz2pm1rb9j]

​​@@lamontemckinney9724hought I was going insane at my work and realizes I'm just there white hard R

[@henrywilson7715]

Yep. Once found my ex to be a narcissist I use her logic and watch her clumsy ass fall on her face. Glorious victory.. does temp the lion.. especially when he's a Leo named Henry. The definition of Henry is ruler of the house...king. And test my authority.... I dare ya

[@santhiagoelayan4952]

You're hilarious most narcissists have intimidating personality traits same goes for sociopaths and psychopaths.

[@SectofArcane]

I’m a narcissistic and a sociopath and I have all these traits which makes the rest of my counterparts of humanity act like bitches not everything they tell u is true people who where a hood at night scare people all the time. people like this in this video doesn’t give me nightmares when it’s my time to be down 6ft then it’s my time no man strikes me to be afraid we all bleed there for I am as much as capable as everything another human being can do including the stuff in this video and then some that doesn’t mean I scare narcissists but they definitely shrink around me bc I’m something they can’t understand

[@BasementBerean]

15 reasons why I have very few friends.

[@ericbroussard7402]

And 15 reasons why you can attract the right kind of friends and filter out the wrong kind.

[@silbrinaporter798]

Lol so trueee

[@maikiaxiong3789]

People who are intimated by your pureness to be real and make things work means you need to surround yourself with better people. If you got any of these traits, you's popping.

[@user-sz2pm1rb9j]

I'm getting too the point where I just wanna say nigga confidently and I'm not even black I'm white and Sicilian from the south of Florida in the trenches

[@enderturtlegaming7194]

@@user-sz2pm1rb9jdawg what the fuck

[@CeeDoubleU]

​@@user-sz2pm1rb9jIt's ok. Say it. My best friend is a white boy from German descent and he says it all the time

[@debbiemullen2574]

I was a RN at a hospital for 35 years and often told by my boss that I was " intimidating." I was experienced and spoke my mind. Thanks for this explanation.

[@ShipReK66]

we share the same experience. i'm just happy to be retired. peace be with you

[@debbiemullen2574]

@@ShipReK66 I'm happy to be retired also. Enjoy!

[@cliftonbowers6376]

I was too good ol ER nurse in da day..😮

[@laciehamblin8584]

I intimidate my boss too 😆😭

[@lawandacampbell637]

I'm an RN as well. I recently went up for a promotion but denied to move forward because I am perceived as intimidating. I have more clarity after watching this video. But it still doesn't seem fair.

[@jeanalexandre1105]

People will find you intimidating if they cannot get you into a heightened suggestibility

[@jerrysetlerr770]

That would be me .

[@lucasferreira2073]

That's an excelent insight. Very smart.

[@mrssomeone2143]

Ahhh tysm. I get it why my sisters intimidated by me, because they can't control me but they want every thing under their control

[@sarah.j.777]

Exactly, if they can't find some way they could possibly manipulate you, they get frustrated with your existence.

[@foreverstrong693]

I look people dead in the eyes and read them at the same time. They can sense I see thru them

[@hyemuhyemu8221]

i do the same thing but girls always look happy, stare back, smirk, giggle and wink. they look excited and happy when i stare them in the eyes

[@rdahlinger4509]

Yep

[@jadentrower9743]

Same, I also wear a mask and they can only see my eyes and I have hunter eyes which are seen as intimidating and I can see by just keeping eye contact to people what type of person they are. Shy, nervous, confident

[@ghtbb]

@@jadentrower9743 Not very intimidating wearing a face diaper.

[@jadentrower9743]

@@ghtbb nobody ask for your shitty comment

[@adimeter]

I am a non-conformist. Peer pressure never meant anything to me.

[@thissunchild]

Same

[@andrewhudson7092]

Facts

[@marvinpercival4717]

I just dont care enought to be motivated to confirm.i simply do me.

[@NateS917]

so why are you watching youtube on the internet? not very non conformist of you. hate to break it to ya but no matter what youll do, youre conforming to something

[@Memyselfandi2708]

​@@NateS917You don't have to live in the jungle to be a non-conformist

[@bruceballygar4880]

Regarding 13, I’ve found they don’t start respecting you so much as they start engaging in passive aggressive attacks. They know they can’t win in a stand up argument, so they go around you and find any way they can get you behind your back.

[@rubenluevano1997]

Aint that the fucking truth. People don't seem to understand that having an intimidating personality does NOT make your life easier. It only makes you more aware of traps and keeps the fakes out of your circle. But it paints a HUGE target on your back. People start analyzing everything you do just waiting for you to slip up so they can attack you. Having an intimidating personality means you can't make mistakes or have a bad day. Its one of those gifts that come with a LOT of curses that most people aren't ready to deal with

[@zacharyperez2427]

Ask them why they think that way and watch them hate you more😂

[@tonykemp4645]

I can look straight through people , do not beat around the bush , straight to point honesty and positivity not negativity,

[@karleepratt-qi7ky]

Dam strait about that you sound very similar to my value on the way I speak out about my opinion.

[@exposingproxystalkingorgan4164]

Being an intimidating bad boy is more respected than a weak and soft nice guy. People only respect what they fear. 😂

[@BellaOfBaritone526]

Respect is not fear. Fear is not respect. One involves people looking up to you because they admire your actions. The other involves people looking up at you, because they don't trust your actions. All the greatest leaders in history, that remained leaders, did so because those they commanded had given loyalty, which you only earn by proving you act in someone's best interests, before your own. The ones who conflated fear and respect, ended their reigns in tragedy. Caesar copped 23 knives in the back and learned that calling himself 'dictator for life' doesn't have the same ring to it, if it's not a long life. Hitler returned to his artistic roots, to commemorate his loss in WW2 by painting the wall of his bunker. and Mussolini was given a whole new perspective on the world (upside down and covered in the spit of all the citizens he ticked off. Or he would've, if he had have lived long enough to see it.) You sure you want the same outlook on leadership and masculinity as them, given how that all played out for them? :) You want real examples of genuine masculinity? Ask Keanu Reeves. There's a reason so many women adore him.

[@CeeDoubleU]

​@@BellaOfBaritone526put a sock in it

[@threeten310]

Niceness is Not a Trait of WeaKness

[@darkgardener9577]

@@BellaOfBaritone526How very feminist of you. and just as incorrect. Fear is absolutely a form of respect. Fear isn't a lack of trust....in fact some of the deepest fears come from the trust that consequences will absolutely happen. Genghis Kahn, one of the greatest leaders in all of human history, did so with an ability to induce fear that is legend almost a millennia later. Objective demonstrable reality absolutely refutes your comment, you don't know what masculinity is and confuse it with femininity, how typical.

[@darkgardener9577]

@@KhuKuRiKhuKhuKuRiKhu No, intimidation is internal. How YOU feel is on you, nobody else is responsible for YOUR reactions/feelings/thoughts. IF I am honest and direct and you are intimidated by that (like most women/fem boys are) that's not abuse on my part, that's insecurity on yours. Your fee fees are 100% all you....not anyone else's responsibility. No matter how much "progressive" leftist and feminist try to make others responsible for their feelings it is absolutely backwards and flies in the face of reality to do so.

[@amohammed5]

So basically, ppl are initiated by ppl have a substantial amount of integrity.

[@horustrismegistus1017]

And they will lie, together, as a group, to take down the one titan they are all scared of. It's not confidence. No. It's being unshakeable and consistent under all attack. Different things

[@xdflow021]

Yeah that's me I got humiliated everywhere I go and I still stand my ground and keep doing my thing like nothing happen. Some powerful desperately controlling me and they took my fam away from me and I still give no fuck and ignore his existing. They bring the police, Gangstar to gangstalk me and intimidate me and I still give no fuck cuz I got nothing to lose. I'm ripped asf btw and bulletproof confident, I don't play game just speak my game directly, I call their bs and they fear me because of that. I was totally asshole to them give no respect but I think they'd kill me eventually cuz they can't control me in every way like they even buy new expensive stuff to impress and I see the desperation thru their teeth bro ngl. They're a lot bro like 1000 evil vs me alone lmao. Bu I think next year they even become more powerful cuz they fly monkey me they're evil.

[@ImaDoGToo]

100%

[@shmoofgang]

Yes!!

[@NathanDavis508]

Im very good at knowing when people are being fake. If you just watch and observe its quite easy to know when someone is being genuine. You learn the most when you stop talking and listen.

[@c.s.7993]

I'm in a bit of a conundrum myself, I can't stand when people constantly complain then Ill slowly find myself complaining so I'll distance myself from the ones who do it.. but that's pretty much everyone I know or the friends of a loved one so I now have to feel utterly isolated just to avoid the constant barrage of toxicity.

[@hansscheltema3348]

Peace is worth it

[@timmyg316]

Wierd how throughout telling the truth and upholding the truth are intimidating to most people. It says a lot

[@jamesmcmccray8255]

It’s not about pleasing other people for the rest of your fucking lives, but being who you are and allowing people to come up with their own opinions because that’s what they were going to do anyway. We all interpret things differently, that’s the beauty of humans, so it doesn’t matter how you come off to others we all 😅nterpret things differently anyway. BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE

[@catwhisperer9524]

These are just good boundaries, ethics, morals and standards to have. It took me half my life to learn this. Glad I learned before it's too late.

[@somedude4805]

I’ve been told by multiple people that I intimidate folks. I don’t try to, but apparently I do. I’m told that the way I carry myself and the confidence with which I speak makes some people feel intimidated. I’m a Marine combat veteran, a technician with certification and experience with Mercedes Benz, Maserati and Ferrari, and I’m in college now to become a nuclear physicist, and I’m getting straight A’s. OF COURSE I’m confident! Accomplish some shit and you will be too!

[@vincentsavoca5575]

YOU SOUND LIKE A FUCKING ALPHA.

[@JayTeeAyy]

This accurately explains me but I wouldn’t categorize with being intimidating, I just don’t like beating around the bush, and telling people what they want to hear, because everything ends up showing at the surface at the end

[@hermanhenderson966]

Im trying to understand why it is people don’t like me being direct and to the point. In any profession I’ve ever had my only goal was problem solving but for whatever reason this severely triggers upper management. I’ve also been told i straight up don’t like you when i pull facts out of a "feeling” based argument, I’ve tried to understand where people are coming from and for whatever reason i just can’t and it makes life more complicated then it really has to be. Makes me not even wanna work anymore.

[@macthemec]

Could be the way you say it, i find saying “have you ever ____” instead of “why don’t you ____” makes a big difference for example

[@charlesedwards4160]

Maybe if you just stfu and get on with your job you might find that you get more respect.

[@marvinpercival4717]

U lack emotional intelligence.that tge problem.

[@ayochayce8185]

Bro....Sigh

[@swiftmaster1960]

⁠@@macthemecIf it’s our job to take care of people’s feelings then most of humanity has failed, me at least; however, I was under the impression that people are responsible for their own emotional regulation. That being said considering no human knows anything absolutely outside of maybe a few basic axioms, wouldn’t his “facts” stem from a feeling aka intuition. If it was something I’m assuming to be an improvisational response.

[@SequoiaMoonSpeaks]

Nicely broken down! This is ME UNAPOLOGETICALLY!!! 👍🏾

[@ouji5055]

Honestly I try not to let it bother but when it happens the whole day I can’t help but let it get to me. I try to smile and ask questions about themselves because more than anything I just want them to feel comfatble around me.

[@horustrismegistus1017]

That kindness will either break you into a pleasing and accommodating tight rope walker, forever, or.. It will subside, and vegeta will just allow the weak to die in their own despite and envy. Disregard

[@danalarose846]

​@horustrismegistus1017 you are correct.

[@JihadBunnydick]

​@@horustrismegistus1017Thank You

[@jaxthedisintegrator8096]

Don't do it too much, not worth it. Those who'll learn to know you better will get comfortable enough to even confront you when they disagree with you in a respectful manner etc... (Because yes, you need people who can confront you because sometimes, you're wrong etc... 😅) Others include the kind of persons who would have walked ALL OVER YOU if you tried to appease their own fears. Or simply some who have to work on themselves and their's nothing you can do about it 🤷‍♂️

[@abraham2217]

I subscribed, not because it is free, but because you provide value through teaching.

[@PsychologyElement]

Thank you so much for subscribing!

[@adimeter]

I do prefer solving the problem vs hashing it out over & over. I’m like, so shat is step 1? What are you going to do about your issue?

[@moorlivingholistic]

Its great seeing everyone embrace themselves. I beat myself up all my life.

[@ImaDoGToo]

As a woman with these traits, I spent years trying to be softer and more acceptable. That stopped in my mid 40s. Now, i distance myself from people who do not see my traits as high-value, and try to find like-minded people to vibe with. Very RARE!!!

[@moorlivingholistic]

@@ImaDoGToo so basically we're loners for life.

[@thatomonaheng8995]

Thanks for the post 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@PsychologyElement]

Our pleasure!

[@Gatheryourselve2getherNOI]

This explains me entirely!! ❤

[@jonathansantana6239]

Wow....eye opening. I've been told I am intimidating. After seeing this, I now understand .

[@flowerpower4944]

Excellent video💗💗💗

[@PsychologyElement]

Thank you 🤗

[@Znshwhaad]

5:24 Flattering people is my work of art to boost there confidence maybe ill limit my self doing that. Im doing this so they can make them self belong and appreciated. This content is useful to limit my self and thank you.

[@samuelfrancis1541]

Checked all boxes plus additional ones 👌

[@SecretWeaponShow]

Good stuff

[@danielrussellcooke1170]

Omg! I’ve never considered that individuals could be perceiving me, me, as intimidating. But this makes a lot of sense actually.

[@thomashagen6236]

As it is quote in Sicilia, they should fear you. The respect comes from its own.

[@adimeter]

Yes I am sometimes intimidated by high status people. I will stay silent & let them take the lead.

[@jerrysetlerr770]

Not me cause I can kick the ass of most high status pamperd people ....people find my appearance and stare intimidating .

[@ChillkittzGT]

Unless, if they did they to set me up and use their "high status" as their advantage, that's where I will speak up.

[@diydcappa]

Dont be intimidated by that you may just be a Sponge 🧽

[@tuma0000]

Thanks ❤

[@knittingneedles]

Wow, I didn’t think it would describe me so much.

[@user-oi5if2bs8r]

I don’t mind intimidating I consider it assertive

[@user-oi5if2bs8r]

It’s also confronting

[@alexs5792]

When I was 17-25, I would make friends and be told by many of them that they were very intimidated by me when they were first meeting me, which would always make me annoyed at myself because I would always believe that I was just being friendly when meeting these people. Information like in this video has helped me alot in the past few years with "softening" many of the rougher edges outlined in this video (I can even blunder my way through water-cooler talk now), though my lack of time for the bullshit of others can still be difficult to get around in my personal relationships.

[@SunSaiko]

3:20 weird to see my beliefs exactly spoken in a video...truth may be cold but gah damn do I love it when its cold

[@rosswalker9789]

You just described me!

[@nickf2170]

When during your job review, your boss says, "You might not realize it, but you are very demanding".....instead of the other way around.

[@lightdawnx8886]

All expect last one. Also Heyoka empath. It's all about truth baby. Being true. And not giving fuck what someone might think of that. 😁🌻

[@faliandra7659]

yea, except that most people end up hating you for it and boy,does it get lonely.

[@lightdawnx8886]

@@faliandra7659 Haters gonna hate. Girlfriend, family, friends all over. Still nice tight loyalty group. I don't know if that's lonely or not. Besides people always hate the ones that can speak up and truth they cannot take. Most people go with mass because it's comfort and lie because they are afraid of being real. Well i guess everybody has their style. Also anybody can think themself which is wrong and which is right.

[@taanyahleecat8090]

I have been trying for so long to correctly word the way people are around me... This is where I was lead, finally, an answer. Thx

[@lightninggaming016]

This video accurately explains me.

[@ivanr4300]

Great! Always speak up!!

[@jacobtani9785]

I’m exactly all these traits. Got to have a no BS mentality

[@symbioticape]

You just described me exactly

[@Youalreadyknowthis]

This explains a lot 😏

[@s1os2s3]

I have developed the ability to observe behaviour and intention, in other words I am very sensitive to people behaviour around me and I can tell about their behaviour. This is mostly developed because I have bullied alot and I needed a way to avoid getting bullied. Ofcourse, this is something I realized after the fact, after reflected why my school life was such a miserable life. I am very honest with people because I find it very uncomfortable to lie. I would rather not saying anything or just disengage from the group conversation if I get the feeling that people do not like me being honest. I do not belive I am smart, it is just how I turned out based on my experience. Alot of the signs are secondary and branch out of being observant, being straight to the point and honest.

[@lordium1848]

I considered these some of the most common traits that any eloquent, intelligent and confident person should possess.

[@mrthes7172]

All of these describe me to a t. I think this is the reason most of my relationships with others don’t go very deep because they think I’m cold and don’t like them.

[@scottmiller6270]

My actions and words are not implemented without thought. I say and do things with purpose and meaning. No time too waste on meaningless situations etc.

[@jasonashley4579]

Grew up in Italian neighborhood in the 80's, everyone was assertive to say the least.

[@albertgunter640]

LOL...a few years back my wife and I went to a state agency, in conversation with the employee, she remarked I am intimidating, a strong personality. now I read these 15 signs and I have them all but often temper some depending on the circumstances, it is not worth my time to debate or argue a point when the outcome will bear little fruit worth consuming.

[@Userm2155]

I’ve also got about all of them and mostly very intensely, but I don’t like being known as intimidating

[@lordofneannub]

Thanks for telling me why people are afraid of me.

[@sigmaramen]

Nobody is afraid of you. Haha.

[@lordofneannub]

@@sigmaramen finally now I can die in peace

[@user-zj9sx6vb6u]

​@@sigmaramenyour name is sigma, nobody fears you

[@laciehamblin8584]

Wow this explains why no one talks to me 🤦‍♀️

[@HoboMerlin]

I find the wonderful reality shows of Bravo to be all the drama I need in my life.

[@FantomMC2]

"ramp up the 'excitement' and drama that many people seek to fill in the endless voids inside their empty emotional lives" What a professional burn.

[@MysteriousVirScorpio]

I am like this, and my personality type is INTJ-A.

[@dinenpine]

This video just autoplayed from whatever I was watching last while cleaning. Halfway through I just came to a dead stop, thinking wtf some of this sounds sort of like me, and rewinded the whole thing to listen to it again with the actual intent of taking in information instead of having ambient background noise. In recent years people have told me I can come as condescending or initimidating in conversation. This confused the fk outta me cause Im a natural introvert that needed to learn how to blend into social situations and initiate and maintain fun and entertaining social interactions. If you lean introvert, doing that is fkn exhausting. If I gotta go to multiple social events, it can literally feel like work. Also Id like to think Im naturally anticonfrontational to begin with. I want everyone to have a good time and enjoy the event. Id like everyone to have a fun and engaging time. Im also not buff, rich or tall so in my head Im especially like "wtf do you mean Im initimidating..." Recently though I learned some shit. A handful of my very good friends and I love to get into long and involved arguments about something someone said or believes. We can spend like a hour pointing out fallacies or weak points in the structure of their logic or point out counter examples or the opposite thing being true and on and on. We find it fun, no one takes it personal, we may or may not alter our opinions, whatever. We're just making conversation and killing time. Turns out my dumbass does not realize the majority of people do not enjoy this. In fact a lot of them will get offended and may take it as a personal attack depending how much I wanna dig into whatever it is theyre saying. One thing that stuck out from what was said in the video was that Im usually pretty solid in what my thoughts and opinions are but I'm open to talk about them if someone really wants to. So I can discuss and argue points with someone over whatever topic, but after some time has passed and Im convinced there is just simply no conciliatory middle ground and we simply believe different things Im cool with just calling it with it is. "We believe different things, thats it. If we were friends / cool before, that hasnt changed to me." I guess that comes off as dismissive and condescending to some people, but the alternative is a longer pointless heated argument over nothing or outright lying just to be done with it. That whole first point about easily predicting or figuring out someone's ultimate or end goal given a initial series of actions always came kinda easily to me for forever for whatever reason, but you learn pretty quickly to not put people on blast about that shit lol. I donno why I be writing these youtube essays. I guess this is maybe cheap male therapy lol. I dont even have a real nugget of wisdom or something to say after you sat and possibly read that except I donno, maybe lie or zip it and dont really say what you really might feel like saying in every situation. Would you rather have a good time or argument 😂

[@kierstinsmith1557]

This describes my boyfriend so much like wow he’s so harmless though he’s just hisself

[@Znshwhaad]

1:31 I'm tolerating others to bully someone or making a bad mouth but I make them think of their actions towards others.

[@roninstrength1883]

Good.

[@00steward]

Well I have every one of these 15 traits😂 I will never change I love that about me .

[@user-pr6dq4ir8k]

My honesty is very intimidating. A good person would not find that a problem.

[@michaelbustamante1702]

Makes a lot of sense now..

[@NikoxD93]

I love number one 😂😂😂 That's me! That's intimidating

[@loveme24now]

I realized this some years ago. It's sad 😔 because sometimes I feel like people in general wants me to fail or not have good intentions for myself just so they could feel better about themselves. I've noticed often if you do well, good, etc at something. People are jealous or instantly feel down on themselves. To be honest I don't get it. I'm happy to see people doing well. I feel safe and good in a environment where people are fulfilled, happy, improving, and content, etc. Never in my mind I look down on myself or become jealous. I know two things it I want it I'll have to earn it or if I don't want to earn it I don't. I just enjoy the sight of ours happiness. I don't have much worries with happy people. I worry about sad, envious, jealous, revengeful people. Those are the people who would kill, steal, hurt, our people to get what they want.

[@anlla3]

This vid is the story of my life))).

[@mahkhardy8588]

Great for business, hard on personal.

[@philmclean9470]

People have always told me im stubborn.but i reguse to believe them

[@horustrismegistus1017]

The majority of this world, is compensators. You, the reader, bear a 99% chance of insecurity, of some sort, with some need to shine or stand above.

[@JoeFabeets]

I have zero tolerance for people that constantly complain. Venting is one thing.

[@Userm2155]

Absolutely, chronic complainers only seeing issues, even at work before coming with an issue you should’ve first started quickly thinking about solutions.

[@DefenderofTruth.]

A leader.

[@dermotschofield9304]

Even if we've got the best argument to win a debate even if its the truth ,doesn't mean im right ,everyone's different

[@Userm2155]

And doesn’t mean we have time or want to get into pointless conversations or arguments. But if it’s deemed important then I want to win.

[@Znshwhaad]

3:46 This is interesting it's quite accurate how do you describe me as a person.

[@SpaceQueenKee]

Ohhh thank god, men are just intimidated by me.. I GUESS!? I just speak my mind, I don’t let people who are less intelligent then me sway my opinions and beliefs

[@bigl63]

Yes I do

[@JiggaOfficial]

Working on being more straight to the point. I have all the rest

[@michaeljeffery7466]

Interesting.

[@adimeter]

I am paralyzed by the fear of failure. What a mixed bag I am.🤨🧐

[@forrestb1165]

I have certainly failed before. I have also succeeded. Learn from your mistakes and try to never repeat them. Don't beat yourself. Move on. Don't let fear control you or your life. Be appreciative for what you have and for who you are.

[@paulinemegson8519]

Hah!! I get told I’m intimidating all the time whilst at the same time being totally ignored….no wonder im schzoid half the time

[@blanegra]

Yup Thats me

[@Leah_Limelight]

so yes

[@Jay-bx8fk]

Hey, nice video I'm trying to create a KZbin channel solving a different issue, I'm wondering how you created the background footage for this video?

[@cynthiafreeman2995]

Wow this describes me

[@geico1975]

Damn! Of all the videos I've seen this one hits home the most with me:) HA! No wonder I'm the oddball everywhere I go....

[@equine2020]

I've had some say I'm intimidating. Just a confident secure nature.

[@fiftyshadesofgrey1991]

All these are my traits but not sure about exactly ambitious and successfull image. Just never thought about it but probably I do

[@nataliaNOTnatalie]

See this explains why all the friends I made at a STEM camp said I’m “intimidating” or “scary” pftttt

[@TheDukeofDeath666]

I'm so glad I'm not an intimidating person, I would be sad knowing that people fears me

[@kennyroselle7522]

This is totally me

[@mr.business6356]

Sometimes I go dead quit and look at them

[@TheRealCalijokes01]

Yes this sounds like me so far

[@zacharyperez2427]

I was able to read someone who didn't want to be read within 12 days... I didn't know that was an intimidating take, I only wanted to understand who they were.

[@heavymetarismyway9741]

I've been to the eye of the storm, and I forgot what fear is. Lolol

[@alanbiles]

Finally someone gets me...