10 Ways to Embrace Your 70's With Joy and Purpose

[@MargaretJeanmonod]

Just came across your post and love it, shall read it everyday, I have just turned 80 and have decided to up sticks and make a new life in New Zealand where my daughter and grandchildren live. I am alone but very active and looking fwd to making many new friends. I love people and hearing about their life's journey. 60 and me I love it and so grateful that I have found it. Thank you. Be happy be kind. Xx

[@alicemendezs]

this was the first time I watched you and since you asked if we would add something to what you said, I would say "spend more time in nature". I am 70 and enjoying my life. Thanks for your comments, hope more women embrace old age like you.

[@sixtyandme]

Thanks for sharing - and welcome!

[@joyascott88]

I am 75 and I try not to sweat the small stuff. My husband passed away several years ago and I have tried to find a new purpose for my life. Time seems to move at warp speed the older you get but I am grateful for each day that I have good health and the means to enjoy a comfortable lifestyle. I live by myself and enjoy taking care of my grandchildren occasionally. Thank you Margaret for your helpful and uplifting advice and subject matter. Food for thought.

[@artsyladie7]

.Margaret, I've been watching you more regularly lately, and since my husband passed a few months ago. I'm age 72. You have become an invaluable part of my day. I just enjoy listening to your kind voice and watching you in the beautiful colors you choose and wear and your always beautiful boquets of roses in the background. Keep going, beautiful woman!

[@sixtyandme]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@sandraforeman2329]

82 and loving life. Had a condo living alone. Decided to move to Independent Living where there are activities every day. I can be social if I chose, or not. Lunch is shared with people every day. Life is exciting and I’ve never been happier. Sandra

[@AyaSmith-rb2hp]

Thank you, this inspires me to move…😊

[@marytom6668]

I am a happy 81 year old and enjoy my life here in the mountains of beautiful North Carolina with my husband of 54 years. I think it's so important not to label yourself as '0ld' but to enjoy every day with family and friends.

[@dianesmith7472]

I absolutely love my 70’s - focused on what I love and what brings me joy ❤️❤️

[@marymcmanus5535]

Thanks for your authentic, open and vulnerable way of sharing yourself and your wisdom ❤

[@Pamela-bm7nj]

Margaret I have just turned 80💓I am so great full to still be here.age is a gift.😅🎉❤

[@lyndagray5937]

You are a joy Margaret. Thank you for your support and kindness which is so helpful to us ‘older’ ladies.

[@bd9968]

I have one to add - Don't use age as an excuse. A number of my friends use the former as an excuse - one has to be realistic (as you stated) at any age to one's physical limitations. There is a difference between "I do not have a desire to _______" and "I am too old to ____________".

[@pam3744]

Agree! I’ve noticed this with my friends and I alternate between anger and sadness when I hear their comments.

[@lauralabuda2268]

Margaret, you said it right in the beginning “change is inevitable and we have to adapt”. Start with changing little things. Change the order of your closet, change the color of your purse, rearrange and change your stuff in your dresser drawers. Move a few things around in your kitchen just to change things up…you might really like the change. What ever it is that you don’t use or need anymore, take a photo of it and let it go. You won’t miss it. And you might have extra space, for a change! I’ll be 70 in September and for now I like change. Thank you for this video.

[@wandapenstone]

I always enjoy your visits. Thank you 😊

[@barbaradieckmann9020]

Wait until your time has come to embrace the 80’s. Like you, I also live alone and honestly enjoy my life more than before. Who knows what’s around the corner so stay positive and get out and respect nature.

[@barbaradieckmann9020]

Sounds like we are at the same age. I don’t exactly have that many years left to enjoy my life and I expect to live every moment the way I plan at this point. I was a caregiver for 3 years and 2024 is my year.

[@ruthmalcolm3028]

Such wise words, I’m 73 and feel privileged to be here!

[@Serenity-1556]

"Time to land and settle" this is excellent counsel. Acceptance is huge. Make the best of what you've been given. Set goals BUT be realistic. Cherish every single day. Celebration!

[@je-mx8ve]

I think this is applicable to anyone over age 50.

[@hannahrosa5485]

Thank you. I just turned 71. You are wise. Thanks for sharing.

[@deborahmartin1432]

I’m turning 70 in February my eyes are not good. I’m always doing things to learn .

[@BalletShoes-c1k]

Yes, sing the GRATITUDE song. And put yourself first 😮. Settle - that’s a good word. Thx.

[@margaretgerth1067]

I’m 72, widowed for over 13 years. One thing I think is important is to accept the things you cannot do, but really celebrate the things you can. Also accept yourself as you are. Do not compare yourself to women in advertisements or on TV. Acceptance brings contentment and happiness in my opinion. Margaret in Vancouver.

[@sixtyandme]

All wonderful advice. Have a beautiful rest of your week and thank you for sharing.

[@Jean-ni6of]

celebrate the things you can celebrate the things you can celebrate the things you can

[@Marie-ij3tk]

Celebrate every instant of every day to the fullest.🎉

[@NancyStinger-ll6wt]

I am 70 and grateful every day for even the smallest thing. If we don’t give ourselves permission now to find our joy in some way then when . I like to say “ I get to” I have had many hardships in life and overcome so joy is overdue and I have been blessed in my latter years . As a,ways thank you Margaret for your insightful content ❤️💚

[@cynthiahurlburt2819]

Realalistic is so spot on. Mix in gratitude and love oneself is imperative. Joy starts in the heart and pumps throughout our soul. I may never be a biological grandmother, but I am one to my neighborhood. We can spread love around even in our sunset years which can be golden .❤ 🌇 🌅 🌆 🌄

[@sixtyandme]

You are so welcome

[@gerriwalsh9846]

As a woman who is about to turn 60, I can only hope to be as classy and gracious as you show yourself to be every time you appear on KZbin - Happy Halloween from Newfoundland, Canada :)

[@sixtyandme]

Thank you so much for the lovely words. Aging is so different for all of us. I was 59 for four years before I accepted that I was 60 :-) take care

[@lizadams7662]

What a wonderful smile you have! It's lovely to see. I'm well into my eighties now, still navigating!

[@vickylee5579]

Thanks Margaret this was very useful. I’m dealing with a lot of health issues now. I just turned 66. I have 4 collapsed disc and they can’t do surgery because I’m high risk. My husband is in the last stages of cancer. We sure don’t want to be sick. I guess it’s God’s will. We had planned on traveling. We did a lot of traveling when we were younger. I love to look up things on the internet. I enjoy watercolor making bracelets. I love bracelets like you love necklaces. You have some very beautiful ones. I enjoy looking at your videos. Thank you so much for doing them♥️

[@sixtyandme]

Sounds like you are going through some very difficult and challenging times. I hope that you can live comfortably. You can travel online and hopefully continue to enjoy your wonderful memories of this life. It’s not always easy but you’re doing great.

[@vickylee5579]

Thank you

[@R20634]

I will be 70 in December and look forward to a new chapter in my life. Thank you , Margaret for encouraging words.

[@sixtyandme]

You can do it!

[@patcurles]

Margaret you are a gift! Thank you for this thoughtful and on time video. I’m sending you best wishes for continued positivity and creativity!

[@cindywhiting1660]

You should write a book…maybe you have? I love your positive uplifting attitude

[@DoreenBellDotan]

I'm 66 and I'm happy to learn what to expect in a short time. Thank you.

[@sixtyandme]

Wonderful!

[@carrielawton1955]

If you live in the US and you are over 60, you can take college classes for credit free of charge in most states. Some states will even allow you to enter a degree program with the tuition waiver. It's a great way to continue learning!

[@mgantner7323]

Thank you Margaret. Its nice to hear your comments on things no one in my world is talking about. I turned 70 a few months ago and before that i was working full time in a miserable office until the company let the whole department go due to new management. I decided to work part time at a store i like. I lost weight and get to talk people and i have really enjoyed it. I have also lost some weight which has helped and just being out and interacting with people has been great instead of working in s cube. It has really been a good change for me. I wasnt sure if i could handle it financially but it has been 5 months and it has been good and it has been a nice change. I honestly dont know what i will do next. My faith has helped me feel like i don't need to have all the answers . I have health issues but me losing some weight has me not being in a cube all day. I live alone and have no family near me so getting out around people has helped. I love my home and gardening but cold weather and the holidays coming up may be an challenge but who knows. Its nice hearing about people having the same issues and what they are doing. Thanks again!

[@sixtyandme]

You are so welcome. I love the changes that you’ve made in your life. It takes a lot of courage wishing you all the best.

[@nitroriley857]

Your videos are educational, helpful, positive, uplifting and absolutely delightful. Thank you as always for being a part of my day, every day.

[@sixtyandme]

You are so welcome

[@junethiel632]

Thanks Margaret, also for your daily emails - love being in discussions! I honestly do not know where my work ends and my hobbies start! I am constantly scurrying around, with work to earn rent and food money, piano and organ for concerts, and playing for our chapel services; I also am now being invited to sing, and get paid for doing so, at events! I would rather be busy creatively than just sit, like some folk here in our retirement community are doing - they are miserable, with zero hobbies or interests. Terribly sad to see....Yes, I agree, to cultivate an attitude of thankfulness is vital, as well as choosing joy each day, in spite of your circumstances. I continue to learn, I have such an inquiring mind! 🙂

[@gildasomia3461]

That's awesome 😍

[@mgantner7323]

I turned 70 this past year. I stopped working full time doing a lot of sitting and now I work part time at a store I really like. It has helped me to lose weight and enjoy being more active and interacting with people. Who knows what I will do next. I don't have relatives close by but i don't feel like i need to have all the answers anymore. I love being at home gardening and doing what I want to do or not do!

[@sindynewman1805]

Hi Margaret, how have you been since your hospital visit,? I hope you are feeling good!! I am 71 and I feel so grateful for my good health and exercise daily, take classes and love to grow. I never feel invisible, I say hello to everyone and spread my love and joy to all those around me. We are as happy as we choose to be if we're lucky enough to be in good health. Ladies, you can always eat healthier, exercise, dance, learn new things and choose to be positive. With love...Thank you Margaret!! I think you're a blessing ❤🎉😊😊

[@sixtyandme]

Thank you so much for that follow-up comment. I’m actually feeling much better since the hospital visit. My latest to the doctor was that everything is back to normal with my liver so I’m very pleased that you focused on healthy, eating, and diet and appreciative of the support that everyone gave me. Made all the difference.

[@vickihilty7112]

I just turned 70 two days ago. Thank you Margaret, you are always very upbeat! I am just trying to stay healthy & happy. 😊

[@roseyc.5846]

Margaret, I honestly feel, at 73, that I'm just only waiting for death. I know that's awful, and very negative, but not one of my dreams came true. And, for most all of them, it's just too late now. I love your content every single day. Thank you. Rosemarie ❤️

[@sixtyandme]

Hi Rosemary. I know how you feel but I hope you can shift your mindset. 72 is so young you have at least 20 years left in your life and so much more can be done. I do understand how you’re feeling but there are new dreams yet to be fulfilled still. Please take care of yourself and try to stay more positive .

[@roseyc.5846]

Margaret, thank you VERY much. You've been such a lifeline for so many of us. Much love. Rosemarie ❤️

[@lizadams7662]

Can I suggest you look for new dreams, manageable ones? I'm much older than you. You have time!

[@gildasomia3461]

Gosh, I needed that, thank you Margaret XX. At 77, yes, it is time for me 🙂😍🥳

[@sixtyandme]

Wonderful!

[@MariaMartinez-jb3zn]

I love learning too❣️ never too late 😅😊

[@thefox08]

Thanks for always being encouraging and realistic ❤

[@gailmiller7035]

Margaret, I will turn 74 this month. It is a big number but hopefully I will enjoy even bigger numbers someday. I finally retired at 72 and what a change for me! Suddenly, I experienced an identity crisis, a financial crisis, the medicare nightmare, loss of social contacts. Wow! It took at least a year for me to find my comfort zone....at least somewhat so. I am really looking forward to being 74. I am much more relaxed, more comfortable with taking things at a slower pace, less stress over minor things. Taking better care of my health. I have even joined a Christian Community where I can virtually attend Sunday service. Even though I was raised Catholic, there was not emphasis on The Bible. I now I am learning about what is in the Bible. Last Spring spent 5 1/2 weeks travelling to visit family and friends and I absolutely loved it. Now I have at least one or two travelling visits visits on my to do list.

[@sweetkitty3249]

Thank you! At 66 I'm starting to experience some of the changes in the way I feel & think already. You've helped make it concrete.

[@sixtyandme]

You're so welcome!

[@marybailey6166]

Margaret you look beautiful in pink!!! Love your hair shade too love the necklace ❤️🎀

[@sixtyandme]

Thank you so much

[@roseminsumar3897]

Thank you Margaret for your wisdom. I have been watching you for awhile. I enjoy the videos as well as the newsletter. This video has hit home😊. I will be 70 in June and am going to embrace the changes and challenges and make the most of what life has to offer. Thank you much🤗

[@goldenera7th]

Hi Margaret! Thank you for your positivity and helping us to take care of ourselves and be happy❤

[@sixtyandme]

You are so welcome

[@MelElido]

Thanks a lot Margaret . I reiterate , I am your age 74 yo , I enjoy all your topics, and just seeing & hearing you . I agree with all 10 ways to embrace the 70s. I was a banker for 42 yrs and now with a Foundation for almost 11 years as Exec Director . I also trained as Life Coach some 12 yrs ago, so I can also do counselling . One thing I added to the 10 ways which I am actively doing now is - serve in the Lord’s vineyard . I am a commisioned Lector/ Commentator in Catholic Holy Masses and I sing with one of the church’s choir every Sunday . So fulfilling indeed . And for your “ stay active “ reminder ? I drive myself to work 5 days a week. A good 20 km one way or 40 km daily . Praise God for all these graces & blessings & having you to inspire us .

[@sixtyandme]

Thank you for sharing the beautiful life you’ve created. I love your passion for life. Continue to stay strong and safe.

[@MelElido]

I failed to mention Margaret that I am a widow for almost 4 years now. My only child 46 yo now has his own family living elsewhere.

[@100hotinarizona]

How about late 70’s? I’m 78 and I’m not sure how I feel about it. So close to 80 but at least I’m still here and healthy.

[@d.rothenberg8295]

Am with you on that! Same stage. Not sure about anything these turbulent days. I feel great, but am alone - in the midst of family. Am still shocked I might have 20 more years ahead - my mother's cognitively not ok, but very alive! Am in a limbo, actively working on positivity and searching for fulfillment

[@marilyndalen3197]

Playing cards and games online alone or with others is a fun hobby for days when you can’t or don’t want to get out. So many different ones all in one site. Thanks for great videos.

[@sixtyandme]

My pleasure!

[@elizabethanderson8528]

I love your pod cast Margaret...have a nice Nov 1 st. And I fell like your birthday is coming up soon 🎉😮❤

[@SusanBrown-nd9mw]

Wise and wonderful advice!

[@lindavernon8051]

Cultivate the good and navigate the less good. Cultivating a good life has a lot to do with interpretation. Okay, we all have regrets . . .blah blah blah . . .but maybe it all boils down to finding a new way to interpret things. Anyway, food for thought . . .

[@iloveparee]

You are always so cheerful. 🤩

[@sixtyandme]

I try. Thank you for being here for your very kind words.

[@lw5592]

Turned 70 a couple of months ago. It's..... OK. I have noticed signs of aging that I didn't notice before, although I've almost always been mistaken for younger than my years, and I seem to gain weight just by looking at a piece of cake (nah, I love to cook and since there's no one to cook for, I eat it all myself. :-) ). Didn't expect to be alone at this time of life, which isn't to say I'm not used to it. I know how to live by myself well enough but I didn't expect it and truth be tolddon't prefer it. But for the moment, it is what it is. I'm a little lonely, a little bored, mostly because I currently live in a small city that doesn't offer much, and is not as walkable as I'd hoped, but I'm planning to move back to a larger city next year. Feel kind of like I'm in a holding pattern.... but trying to stay positive.

[@sixtyandme]

Thank you so much for sharing. I’m sure things are going to work out for you. Exactly the way you want. Stay strong. Stay curious and safe.❤️

[@therese181]

Aging is a gift not given to everyone.

[@soniewhitten4844]

great video!!! thanks, and be safe.

[@sixtyandme]

Thanks, you too!

[@rubychurch3466]

I wish wish wish I was more like you. My life is crud. I wish I had your presence and happiness.

[@sixtyandme]

Hi Ruby. I think we’ve all had the moments in our lives that you are experiencing. You will get through it. Please have confidence in yourself.

[@rubychurch3466]

Margaret, thank you for those words. I can’t actually see improvement coming, but I can live vicariously through you. You are a beacon to many.

[@gcrichman53]

Aren't you going to be 75 this month?