10 ways to make him fall for you | How to make a guy like you

[@bhimalrowjee1370]

Couldn’t agree more..a women who exudes confidence is definitely the most attractive trait but also showing some weakness shows her humanity which adds depth to her which many guys long for in today’s dating age..

[@all4180]

Well said!

[@bhimalrowjee1370]

Al L thank you

[@nelisiwemthimkhulu4904]

@Mark Zaney pqpjf

[@sherribaker1546]

#1 GIVE IT TO GOD AND LET HIM TAKE CARE OF IT!!

[@ReneeSlansky]

Yes good advice! But faith without actions is dead :)

[@krish.5823]

I definitely gave him to God. What else? But I needed God more while being with my boyfriend.

[@whereisthematrixedge]

So constructive.. not

[@millennialmommoneymagnet3340]

Facts

[@paulajacobs2612]

Exactly

[@krish.5823]

Yeah, but if he's not willing to work or provide or have anything to share that fun, praise, and fun gets old. "ALL ABOUT THE MAN." TO MUCH WORK!

[@nofybn7794]

PREACH!!

[@samanthawilburn2531]

Thank you Renee I just started a long distance relationship about 8 weeks ago and I came across your video s and I find it very helpful.

[@ReneeSlansky]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

[@tianiemitchell5692]

High-value woman has clear clear morals and boundaries and isn't afraid to speaker mind respectfully

[@ReneeSlansky]

yesssss!

[@LastEarBender]

just a dude here tuning in to see what advice looks like on this side of the fence - Ms (Mrs?) Slansky offers great advice from what I can see...

[@rosiezazzara7503]

Great advice Sometimes we forget the simple things .Yet there are some men that chase you to death then when you give in they kinda get bored Why is that Why can't they stop hunting

[@johnwinnerdz1]

that's true men and women need responsibility it build value when you come togethe to share time

[@kimt8162]

First, I've never been in the relationship where I've sat down and had the guy do all the work. I've busted my time/energy, to only have the guy turn out having an attitude of wanting more and more. So for the girl, my advice is to do as little as possible especially at first and make the guy work for it. Twice, the more I do; the more they eventually take me for granted. Both situations, the guy left me for less. For the damsil in distress, the girl with no career. So make him fit into your life; don't give your all to him and have him leave.

[@RedPillAware]

Your attitude is already telling us why guys have left and will always leave you for other women (lol)

[@nofybn7794]

PREACH!!

[@nofybn7794]

@@RedPillAware WRONG! THEN HE IS A PRICK!!

[@nofybn7794]

@@RedPillAware SEXIST!! I SEE YOU DON'T RESPECT WOMEN! YOU WANT A DOORMAT!!

[@giftlarry9037]

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[@lovelyskyblue375]

The Dog is always sleeping behind her, the dog is funny. The dog feels good about his relationship.

[@ReneeSlansky]

hahah she does love to sleep and she follows me around everywhere :)

[@estheronos2110]

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[@AgnesLantam]

Thank you so much.

[@anastasiab.2308]

Omg you are such a beautiful woman!!thank you for all your great advice!

[@cletusmorraies7564]

If you really think she's giving you good advice then you better think again. This lady is clueless to be perfectly honest.

[@goodwillbunny5773]

Thank you for this video - I will take the confidence tip to heart! You have been a blessing. B

[@ReneeSlansky]

my pleasure , glad I could help :) x

[@bbardy3924]

Also women if youre keen on this guy then dont put him last. So seeing you're friends and doing everything but actually making anytime for him will put him off. I tried with a women i was keen on and she was making out like her time was more valuable than mine and i should be available when ever she wanted . Its like i had to have my life on hold while she decided to be free, She would get annoyed that i didn't suddenly become available for her even though i had tried a few different times to catch up,

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

In all honesty, I don't think you can force a guy to like you. Maybe you can try to influence him towards that at best, but to MAKE him like you?! Hmm....

[@tianiemitchell5692]

Yeah I think for a first meeting/date that lets you know whether or not it's going to go to a second it can't you can offer to share the cost however if they offered to pay, appreciatively except.

[@Kiya-me]

Great Video

[@norachen4]

Finished the video, realized that current me doesn’t deserve love and I’m already done with my current(?) date

[@pohyamone3508]

oh my god! i love you. I love your videos and your tips.This is what i need exactly right now.Thank you so much for your tips.

[@ReneeSlansky]

My pleasure! Is there a video you want me to do for you?

[@renacoachman9258]

Thank you for information 😇🙏

[@How.Dare.You.]

im all of it yet he hast fall in love :) weird. also i know a girl who slapped her guy at the bar in front of everyone and he proposed to her later. the world is fcked up

[@leslynthompson7957]

This is great tips thanks you

[@nofybn7794]

You don't know why she slapped him. Maybe he deserved it.

[@anonanon8974]

Sooooooooooooooooooooooo good!

[@pearlonilorep3285]

Good job renee! I love it! 💘

[@nscfit181]

Great video an tips! Thank you. God bless

[@999Patriots]

Ways to catch and hold onto a guy: ketamine, diprivan, precedex, ativan.

[@kstancil5371]

Didnt even get through # 10. I practice good manners always but I'm not going to sit and stroke a guys ego

[@whereisthematrixedge]

Renee this topic is funny.. I am healthy spiritual handsome intelligent man and I usually get ignored or ghosted on the dating apps.. seems to me most women say there is a man drought but judge you superficially and do not even accept initial connections.. what is your answer for this?

[@astridkate5328]

whereisthematrixedge you’re probably aiming at women of a higher caliber than yourself. Most men don’t really have a realistic perception of themselves and go only after beautiful women, who just might simply be way too out of their league. Go for someone your own height/age. The women who do what you say are those swimming in male attention and simply don’t value certain men to continue entertaining them.

[@whereisthematrixedge]

Astrid Kate so initially are you saying men have to entertain women? Your assumption i target phydically beautiful women is both superficial and generalising. We are all unique madame. I only approach women I feel attravted to , as do the vast many real men still breathing:-).. in my case that excludes botox, high amounts of makeup hiding issues and any obvious looking breast augmenting.. a true feminine self loving woman does not need these modern ego builders...

[@dixiebelcher8726]

What happens if you put all of it in and you do everything like you said and but there's he doesn't want to do the communication and you've tried everything that you could to get him to communicate with you

[@millennialmommoneymagnet3340]

Then he's not the one.

[@kandi_glow]

I just figure out your channel and I'm amazed .thanks for yours videos.cheers from Morocco

[@ReneeSlansky]

Welcome!x

[@abu5597]

the accent is super cute

[@shivakhorrami5264]

Tnx tons 4 worthful guides

[@hemofpraiseministryhemofpr3694]

That confidence path got me. Thanks ur video really helped.

[@ReneeSlansky]

Glad I could help :)

[@lailakhan830]

My boyfriend is very unromantic wat should I do I don’t want to force him to do romance when we meet actually when we meet hes romantic we enjoy alott by when it comes to chatting or phone calls he’s sooo unromantic I wonder why he’s doing this I asked him several times that as a women we need some romance from men not cox we are desperate bt it’s natural if I feel for uh so u have to be thr for me bt he always ignore it or change it in a fun way please answer me why he’s doing so ?

[@johnanderson-fm8jp]

How to make gf happy in LDR please I will great thankful for your suggestions ❤️

[@erikadakawaii]

GUYS IT LOWKEY WORKED. OMG- HE SAID THTA HES BASICALLY LIKE IN LOVE WITH ME AND LIKE THAT HE IS LIKE UHHH IDK BUT YIPIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE :DDDDDDDDDDDDD

[@No-one30]

I have a question regarding the damsel in distress. If we ask help, will the man not think that we are too dependent on them or we cannot manage something alone? Don't they prefer to date an independent and strong woman?

[@ReneeSlansky]

Good question , asking for help when you need it doesn't make you co dependent, it's healthy and encourages him to step into his masculine. Being needy and always dependent on him is another thing altogether

[@No-one30]

@@ReneeSlansky thank you so much Renee 💓

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[@doingthissicklifethingwith5752]

Reneeeeeee!! Thank you so much, I’m in a new relationship and this is going to help me a lot.

[@ReneeSlansky]

My pleasure !

[@priscapeyala4166]

Woow really learnt on nurturing thanks Reneee

[@ReneeSlansky]

My pleasure lovely!

[@Cash4Stk]

I came to the channel expecting a campy list, but YES - it's all TRUE advice, and #5 (he needs to chase you) and #3 (make him feel like a man) are the most important in my opinion. I've got a few years under my belt and these are the things I subconsciously look for. As the relationship develops, eventually you will want to drop #5 - and be there for him. Thanks for the great video! :)

[@ReneeSlansky]

thank you :)

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

DON'T LISTEN TO THIS chic she NO IDEA what men want men DON'T LIKE CHASING WOMEN TRUST ME.I have NO TIME for her playing ' HARD TO GET' game's

[@all4180]

Fantastic video Renee, as always! You're awesome! Keep 'em coming!!

[@brianorndorff1387]

Switch #10 and #1; #7 no; #3 definitely

[@markgoodley2450]

Renee, Do you have a like minded, like tempered, unattached sister by chance? 🤞

[@nenenbayucot1052]

It's so helpful.. Thank you🥰

[@humasheikh9315]

Thank you so so much love you

[@MariaPerez-qx1lp]

Well, sorry am not fun at all...Im absolutely predictable and boring. And serious, I don't go about entertaining a man for his own good. I'm no clown. I think a mature man -also wants someone mature and ready to settle.

[@kassandracarroll5217]

#2... Ok, so this one is difficult for me to where my guy never had a mother and was abandoned by her twice, when I show him nurturing of any kind it's not knowledge because he doesn't see it as being anything.

[@Bird19607]

She's classy and beautiful, but very relatable. Never thought I'd subscribe to a video channel, but here I am.

[@pokemondraws9058]

Another great video with a beautiful maker. Hmm that's really important tip. Bye marry Christmas!!!!

[@isiomatheodorandah457]

I agree 100% on this wit u

[@sanghitalks8985]

These are all player tactics. Easy strategy is to be lucky enough with beautiful face 😂😂😂

[@glorious6779]

This was great. I will be watching again.

[@cletusmorraies7564]

No wonder why more and more are choosing to be single.

[@gamergirl1-u3l]

How do you get a boy to talk to you after getting in a fight because that happened to me and I really want to talk to him and he blocked me so I can't talk to him I mean I know we're he lives since we always went to his house to hang out😭😭😭😭I think I love him but I don't know I love his smile I love how sweet he used to be I love how he always says I am not annoying I love how he always talked to me I love how he always made me laugh I love how he always makes me smile I love how he always makes me laugh I love his jokes I love he does everything himself (By the way we are still kids) I love how we just play around at the river I love his beautiful blue eyes I love his funny hair I love the way he dresses I love the way he acts I love the way he talks I love the way he looks at me I just love everything about him

[@leachridlah1927]

Yeah u love him

[@unexpectedthings6173]

💙 I discovered this channel today 😹👀💕💕 & I like it

[@NORRIESHARING]

I begin to love your channel 😍

[@hoviwezah9526]

It will be good if you can give subtle title

[@violetoliver2230]

THANKS RENEE

[@ReneeSlansky]

my pleasure

[@omega-is2ry]

Thank you Renee, its helpful

[@SuperJhon360]

Honestly it isn't ego it's that I know I'm doing the right thing that it's apreciated cause I beat myself up after a date I shouldn't have said that or done that or I should have done this. Some women give nothing at all and there was little good things from the date. I can latch on to to keep going with the same woman I feel like she doesn't like me sure she's amazing sure and I like her but I'm going to hurt myself if I keep going and I feel she doesn't like me.

[@njwjt684]

Great feedback. Communication is absolutely key, from both!

[@metu111]

Thank you, love your videos

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thank you :) is there a video you want me to do in particular ?

[@dutchfeelings8049]

Thank you for the inspiration! 👍🏻

[@ReneeSlansky]

My pleasure :) x

[@an6357]

Well, he's doing whatever I ask for but everytime I feel like I am using him...

[@ReneeSlansky]

Do you not feel the same way about him?

[@an6357]

@@ReneeSlansky no, he's not using me if that is what you mean

[@דניאלהאנונימי]

HELLO I GOT TO SAY THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO THAT I SAW/ YOU ARE SPEAKING A LOT LIKE DR' JOHN GRAY. YOUR ADVICES ARE GREAT ALL WOMEN NEED IN ONE VIDEO. I AM DIVORCED WHIT 2 CHILDREN SO THAT WILL HELP ME A LOT FOR NEXT PARTNER. THANCK ;)))))

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thank you :) I have read his books so I know his advice well :)

[@brendashweddings]

Love it!

[@MoniqueDMarcano]

Hello, I would love tips on how to dress more feminine for every day. Not just going out. Fun hair styles and flirty clothes.

[@ReneeSlansky]

Ok will do a video on this!

[@sweetmimasdiakite2821]

thank you somuch for your help you 🙏🏾so beautiful 😍 🇧🇷

[@ReneeSlansky]

My pleasure !

[@judelyngaborno7610]

Hi Maam my problem is i cant find serious man i got chatters but i really didn't see really perfect i mean perfect is i like him and he like me..now the situation is if some guy wants me I don't like him,but i like a guy but he dont like me thats my problem...

[@TUNMICHAY]

This video makes total sense. U just got a subscriber

[@ReneeSlansky]

Welcome! x

[@JDtv888]

Wow beautiful Msg 👍😇

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thanks :)

[@faryalmalik3455]

My husband has a v flirty nature n he has a cheating pattern what should i do i just cant handle his over frankness n flirty nature n than we fight

[@ReneeSlansky]

Give him a consequence for his behaviour

[@Musclefactory_kumbakonam]

Itz working.. taqqq

[@thedaveglaserpodcast4181]

Absolutely love this advice! Thank you Renee!

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thanks Dave!

[@joeybasson3943]

Is it possible to tell a guy how you feel about him is ohk to tell him if you in love with him

[@ReneeSlansky]

Totally agree!

[@vernefits1953]

Very solid points

[@krish.5823]

I started giving my boyfriend what he gave me....Nothing. not one birthday, Christmas, dinner, not even a loaf of 🍞. I'm tired.

[@ReneeSlansky]

Well that isn't the truth , that's just your opinion . Lots of men want to help women without having a sexual favour.

[@redmarilynn]

@@krish.5823 You need to change your man....Dump him and find a decent guy.

[@millennialmommoneymagnet3340]

Hehe so you matched his energy. Lol im sure he didn't like that.

[@sarithmejia]

The nurturing part doesn't work sometimes. He behaves worse when he feels loved

[@kelvinjoyce2081]

Hello Mr ( Wilson ) he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. He was the one that helped me.

[@ckind5117]

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[@zelocixzelocix1010]

ponder of move exactly?

[@ckind5117]

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[@sethe6814]

I would love to meet you because you are simply amazing!

[@Greg_Chase]

**THINGS A GUY REALLY NEEDS TO SEE BEFORE HE'LL PAY ATTENTION** 1) "She is cute" THIS MATTERS 2) "She is in shape, healthy" THIS MATTER 3) "She has a dead-end job" DOES NOT MATTER 4) "She lives at home with her parents" DOES NOT MATTER 5) "She has no car" DOES NOT MATTER 6) "She has no college and doesn't want to go to college" DOES NOT MATTER 7) "She is shy, introverted - not an 'alpha girl'" DOES NOT MATTER 8) "She is feminine" THIS MATTERS 9) "She doesn't have connections, high profile friends/acquaintances, no social calendar really" DOES NOT MATTER 10) "She is friendly" THIS MATTERS 11) "She has no money" DOES NOT MATTER 12) "She is not very outgoing DOES NOT MATTER (see (1), (2), (8)) 13) "Her social status is -- well see (9)" DOES NOT MATTER 14) "She is clean" THIS MATTERS 15) "She is not a snappy dresser" DOES NOT MATTER, WE KNOW WHAT'S UNDERNEATH 16) "She is not interested in long term relationships" WELL WHO IS -- DOES NOT MATTER 17) "She is a huge nerd, including the wearing of pocket protectors and horn-rimmed glasses" DOES NOT MATTER 18) "She is a homebody, doesn't like going out much" DOES NOT MATTER 19) "She is far shorter than almost everyone, much shorter than me" DOES NOT MATTER 20) "She is quiet, not outspoken" DOES NOT MATTER 21) "She is not super-bright but hey who is" DOES NOT MATTER Our (guys) needs are minor. There's a connection to our atrophied emotional capability, at least relative to women. My theory is, women live so much more on emotions, somehow that makes up a huge list of "show-stoppers" Just a theory. **REVIEW** - men have few emotions and few requirements - women have massive emotional content and tons of requirements I may submit this idea to peer-reviewed journals. "Greg Chase wins Nobel Prize for nailing it" . . .

[@nofybn7794]

Guys are far more shallow though, you said looks matter. In shape isn't always healthy. This is all bs. Women are interested in long term relationships. Emotions are NOT BAD!! What's underneath? No, women have few requirements, guys require far far far more. You didn't nail it.

[@Greg_Chase]

@@nofybn7794 Nah, think in terms of hiring someone for a job that will last a night versus hiring someone for a job for at least 9 months. AL: "I'm hiring for a 1 day job. If things don't work out, hey there's 364 more days this year. I don't have to be too selective in who I hire." ANN: "Well, I'm going to be immobile for at least 9 months and I'm hiring someone to look after things for at least that long. I have to be pretty careful about who I hire for that reason." That's been going on for all 3 million years that humans have been walking upright. Common sense. But then, common sense is not commonplace. . . .

[@SaidMahmoud]

Agree &100%

[@psgamer3741]

Hey holmes 100% correct on point

[@psgamer3741]

@@nofybn7794 im.a guy and i agree 100% with this guy ask any guy you know if the statement he made is true a woman HAVIN A CAR,OWN PLACE AND WHATEVERS WE JUST SEE IT AS A BONUS other than that we just want that woman

[@whereisthematrixedge]

Renee are you going to answer my question or not? :-)

[@ReneeSlansky]

What question? I haven' t seen any question ?

[@whereisthematrixedge]

Renee Slansky thanks for responding. The topic and question sits in my post 2 months ago...

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[@eniepresley5867]

How the wheel chair woman gets him to fall in love with her?

[@zainabomolola2590]

Hi Ranee, there a guy, he likes me and I do too, bh something is wrong, at first he was putting much effort into knowing me nd at a point he reduced it, I don't know.. Is there a way you nd I can chat apart from this comment box

[@ReneeSlansky]

Have you downloaded my free guide about the 9 types of women that make men run? The answer might be in there x

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[@redmarilynn]

@@zainabomolola2590 You are coming across as a very needy person....This probably turned that guy off.

[@leoniward5660]

I did all these things and he still dont wanna be with me 😔

[@ReneeSlansky]

Then he isn't the right man for you. It's not your job to convince him to make a spot for you in his life and heart.

[@leoniward5660]

@@ReneeSlansky true but it hurts not to be wanted by someone you like so much 😔

[@chlariepeace7958]

I never been in love and no as ever been in love with me 😞

[@dannyellefinch4450]

There is still time...don't give up❤

[@krish.5823]

Your lucky

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[@Kruze-m5q]

I'm a straight dude but I just came here to look at the comments. (P.S if you tell us you like us 99% of the time we will probably date u

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

I ask apologize because i spoke bed sentence and I feel shame

[@Real_darkwolf7]

I do all this still alone maybe I am ugly and fat😞

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[@aberrantlawyer59]

Your comment: [5:43 to 6:33] INCREASE THE CHASE: "Men need to know...even in a marriage...that a [husband] still needs to chase...and that [a wife] should not always be soooo available." Women take that advice to mean have other relations with other men (i.e. "have it all"). Women will swear under oath from the stand "I was just following the advice of my relationship counselor". It's actually very commonly used by the female in Family Court when she is caught cheating and custody is an issue. My dating advice to women: get use to cats

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[@all4180]

I don't get it Renee, please help me out. You list the top ten here, and they're completely on the mark!!! (for any ladies out there who aren't convinced!!!!) I'd be lucky to see a few of them in a woman. I'm a good, caring, strong, supportive man, who would be entirely willing to commit to the right woman, but most seem bound and determined to purposely try to break every tip you just outlined. I actually had a friend of mine immigrate to Canada tell me that he finds North American women act like they're made of gold, never to be touched by anyone. They make it so difficult for a man to even approach them, that guys don't even bother trying. He was shocked at the utter resistance at every turn. I worked overseas for over 4 years and I noticed the difference as well. Why do women in the western world feel that they're on some sort of pedestal and that 90% of men aren't worth their time. It's actually pretty sad. I really don't get it. Enlighten me please. Just a personal tip for a lot of women out there, quit playing so hard to get, or even to approach, and you'll find a good man. They're out there, but you often dismiss them before a single word is spoken. And if you keep ignoring men who are trying to make contact with you, then stop complaining that you can't find anyone to commit.

[@ReneeSlansky]

Sounds like you are dating the wrong type of women who can't appreciate you!

[@all4180]

Yeah, I've been trying to focus on different types in the hopes of finding someone more "normal". Not looking for a princess, just a normal human. Surprisingly hard to find these days.

[@meenanaicker8999]

Hi where are you from

[@krish.5823]

That's because most of the men have absolutely fuck it up for your friend generation after generations of them.

[@DesertOrchid06]

Great video! :)

[@ReneeSlansky]

Thank you!

[@dotpulchritude1829]

Repeat.

[@all4180]

When a man gets a cold he turns into the biggest baby? Really??? Okay, okay, you're right!! LOL

[@cletusmorraies7564]

The only time I feel good about myself is when I'm alone and I don't have to listen to all her crap she gives me. Nothing better than a single life, you do what you want, when you want with whoever you want to do it with, without any strings attached. The other thing is never let her live with you or you're f*cked big time. This lady doesn't know what she's talking about. The only thing men want is respect from a woman. Let a man be a man and not what a woman's concept of what a man should be.

[@SaidMahmoud]

Wrong We prefer shy beautiful feminine women

[@krish.5823]

And stupid too. Ahill, ahill.

[@ambientacademy]

I'm a girl and I agree with this

[@shivaniedesmond6883]

awesome

[@yankeedoodle6293]

I’m a guy. I think you’re overthinking it. Sorry

[@krish.5823]

Go yank your doodle

[@xochitllee24]

nope.

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[@erniedavidson-qs3jl]

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[@tomswift6198]

Another take - Rule #1 - Don't talk so much. Rule #2 - Don't talk so much. Rule #3 - Don't panic when he doesn't act like a somewhat defective copy of a woman. Rule #4 - Don't talk so much. If you stay on the phone until your batteries die, that's way too much. His ear will eventually hurt and you don't want him to associate your voice with pain. Rule #5 - Don't expect him to chase after you. In the modern #MeToo world, men are perceptive enough to know that they can be raked over the coals and ruined for showing any initiative or anything which can be misinterpreted as creepozoid aggression, and they won't do it - face it, you're just not worth that level of risk. Sorry, but there it is. Rule #6 - Don't talk so much. Rule #7 - Don't assume that just because he doesn't talk whenever things are slightly quiet that he hates you. Men like some quiet every now and then. Some men like a lot of quiet. It's normal, it's not about you. Rule #8 - Get off the phone occasionally and come up for air. Rule #9 - Realize that the word "confidence" does not mean remotely the same thing to men as it does to women. Using it for any sort of philosophical or tactical guidance is hazardous. Rule #10 - Relax, nine rules are enough. These won't necessarily make him "fall for you" but at least you won't drive him off.

[@ReneeSlansky]

Some of these are great points ! However some men do love to talk . I have clients who are dating men who can talk for hours on the phone . But I get where you are coming from :)