10 Yr OBSESSION To One Women - My Response

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[@Royster931]

Oxytocin is why oneitous exsists. It’s Scientific. Pair bonding. The rest of the animal kingdom have it.

[@edgeofentropy3492]

I was "in love" with a chick for many years, until I found the red pill. I realized her worth and how she used me. That ultimately helped me to focus on myself. Now she is a single mother of three, AND now a grandmother in her 30's. NEO bullet dodging.

[@tomster7574]

what your statement reads as; out of desperation of hopes and hormones, mostly hormones, you jumped into the first relationship that would have you. she obviously had very low prospects and you fit that perfectly. dude, if you want to find the right one for you, you first have to be the right one for yourself. if you were, and still in that relationship, you probably could have been the one to lead her into being the woman you would have preferred her to be instead of bailing on her, after, you signed up. what would you say about a guy who does that, using a woman out of desperation only to bail when it got intense, serious and real? it seems more likely she force fed you that red pill cuz she could see you werent capable of what you said you were.

[@kubastachu9860]

@@tomster7574 that's a little bit too much of what's called far fetched, wouldn't you agree?

[@tomster7574]

@@kubastachu9860 His statement sure was too far-fetched. Mine was spot on

[@supertruthfortynine]

Neo bullet dodging. Nice one. Very funny!!

[@h5v1y0]

@@tomster7574 nah, you can never change a female, you have to hold them accountable

[@rexduranzelandony]

If you are in a LTR, always be aware it could end at any given day. Women are not reliable or stable. Have options, never put all your eggs in one basket/woman/relationship. Always be the one who cares the least in the relationship, in all the relationships in you life

[@tomster7574]

if you fear that in your relationship, its not the woman that is unstable. if you are saying that cuz you cant find one, thats why you cant find one.

[@ScarfaceFranckRibery]

I agree with both of you! Heart vs Brain

[@kubastachu9860]

Yup, been with chick for over 3 years. She wanted to get married, we started living together in college and not half a year later, she jumped to roommate's bed, looking for novelty.

[@tomster7574]

@@kubastachu9860 You either chose poorly Or lead and cohabitated badly. But sometimes you get blindsided no matter what. But if you’re going to blame that on all women. Then I’m going to choose how poorly you lead and Chose.

[@kubastachu9860]

@@tomster7574 long story short our 4th flatmate was psychopath from our high school class. Years later it turned out once he learned we were looking for flatmates, he signed up while plotting a revenge on me for chatting with his girlfriend in high school. He just exploited her nature, but ultimately, that was her choice. And no, there's no blaming. That's facts. That's the way feminine nature is, one day they want to marry you, next they want sth else, either accept it or you'll always have to look for someone to blame.

[@burhanuddinsakarwala5033]

The longest I took was 9 years. Eventually the red pill saved me.

[@brolysadvocate]

I chased a chick on and off until 9 years later I got her. Got about 3 months of consistent 2-5 days a week, multiple sessions a day... got it out of my system and frankly she deserved it. But yeah, some of us have been there lol. I ended up pulling a red pill move naturally before I came into the community.

[@eruc022687]

@@brolysadvocate ya

[@charlesm007]

Luckily the girl I like for a long time was when I was a kid I’m still 17 and findin this stuff boy am I lucky

[@brolysadvocate]

@@charlesm007 it's not luck. It's from men of experience being confident to tell the truth publicly. Society makes lots of money on single and conniving women. They're incentives to silence the male advocates.

[@mmontagart]

Unless we're talking quality steaks, dead things don't belong in the house.

[@baw-mq4bt]

Medium rare, medium well, or well done good sir?

[@taylorwelch9209]

Medium plus

[@lw9306]

Don't forget bearskin rugs.

[@mikehogan5087]

😂😂😂

[@mikehogan5087]

Looks are the only damn thing that matters to us men! Hallelujah!!!!!! F everything else just as lomg as there not crazy..seriously they are only objects to us these days

[@taetae4092]

Longest it ever took me was 4 years my entire h.s life until I discovered the rp 🙏🏽

[@anchorsaweigh9893]

My Simping days were cured in Highschool as well. Thank goodness I learned young.

[@dexterbarnes5249]

Same. I'm so glad I got the cure

[@revinot]

What is the red pill?

[@ScarfaceFranckRibery]

4 years is nothing bro. You are lucky.

[@anchorsaweigh9893]

@@ScarfaceFranckRibery Better than 25yrs of alimony 😂

[@Crypto-uk4bi]

I kept an old flame alive in my head for about 10 years. Ran into her a few weeks ago, and felt nothing.

[@tool5388]

How old are you?

[@heidehho6191]

it was the idea of her that made you intrigued . not her.

[@mikeparrott8304]

@@tool5388 clues in the name. 34 I'd guess

[@LegendInThaMakin]

I think this is very natural tbh. It’s perfectly normal for a woman that was once insanely in love with you and would have done anything for you to one day fall out of love with you and move on completely, zero feelings attached. My theory is that for some reason this process is different for men. I feel like a man who falls in love with a woman never really gets over her. He just learns to live without her/adjust to the pain? Maybe pain is a bad word but it seems like these feelings last longer for men. Why is that? You can totally stay in your masculine frame and erase her from your life but most men never truly get over it in the way women do. Hope a decent discussion can be had for this.

[@ramsenalbazi7435]

It’s because women have an abundance mindset. They know they have MULTIPLE options for men and they hate rejection so they move on (and monkey branch) to another man extremely fast essentially forgetting about the previous dude while he’s still wondering what happened. She’s not yours it’s just your turn so take it and keep it moving.

[@nicholashenderson6941]

@@ramsenalbazi7435 I would have to disagree. Basically in my 20s I was a Chad. Of course I didn't realize this until my 30s. However in my 20s two women stood out to me. I hate what they did, but still loved them. They still occupy my mind too much. Even when I met a unicorn that has been good to me for 9 years now. I believe when men fully love someone they will always love them. We just have to learn to live with out them because they are bad for us.

[@johnduckworth474]

Yes, I'd be interested in the comments of others on this problem. It's not an easy one to get over, in my opinion, but some good advice from Rich here.

[@LegendInThaMakin]

@@nicholashenderson6941 this is exactly what I’m fucking talking about. A man could be redpilled to the fullest, following his dreams and living to his fullest potential but for some reason he still thinks about a woman he loved like 10 or so years ago pretty frequently. Women don’t really have this problem, they could rid every feeling they ever had of you and move on but I’ve seen it time and time again from men where they never really get over love. They simply just learn to live with the pain. They occupy their lives with productive endeavours, go on to pursue greatness but that woman still some how lives dormant in the back of their minds. They have no intention of rekindling this old relationship, not pursing her, don’t want her, on to better things but yet they think of this woman often. It’s so weird, it makes no sense.

[@fhowland]

I totally agree. Men and women love very differently

[@gregm1194]

If he hasn’t already he should look her up and see how she looks. In my experience that will extinguish the torch.

[@MikeG82]

great point they always look much worse 10 years later

[@rogerthornhill1491]

Simple and brilliant idea! 👍

[@dexterbarnes5249]

facts. They're never as pretty as you thought

[@kennethmills5470]

@@dexterbarnes5249 / 5 % are Beautiful

[@billy5077]

Oof that's outstanding.

[@theofficialgreenkane9645]

Happened to me. Most likely, that was the best time of his life. Life was good. The job, the girl, he was younger, etc. When life gets less exciting or its not as good, we tend to look back & think of those times.

[@DiggitySchwag]

I’ve been through this. I guess I still am. There’s a girl that always pops into my mind that I dated around 8 years ago. For a while it was so bad that it was ruining my relationships. The suddenness of the breakup has a lot to do with it but since I’ve discovered the red pill mindset, I hardly even think about any of my exes. Once you hit a significant milestone, the irrelevancies of your past start to disappear.

[@jefftX]

Why does she pop into your mind? Is it because you thought she was the one? Why did you split?

[@tanguydelooz2881]

All women are different and unique. Every now and then you will miss an aspect of character one had and the others not. It might be upbeat conversations or common interests you shared, a good vibe or memories. You might be in couple and miss those things but then you need to be more creative and find ways to fulfill your life other than through a woman.

[@MrChip1217]

The hot and cold is addictive. Also being zeroed at the same time puts you in a bad mental place.

[@fhowland]

Omg totally man. I just finally spoke up and kicked a girl id been perpetually in the friend zone with to the curb

[@MrChip1217]

@@fhowland congratulations Brother. Now spin the plates and do things that matter to you. Don’t worry about the split tails they will get swept into your draft. Don’t be their accessory make them yours

[@larryrobinson9252]

Its called Narcissm

[@TheSilentBobby]

I keep forgetting about Chris rock’s tambourine special. That whole show was gold every single second

[@kevinboswell1891]

I'm still obsessed with Jennifer Skye

[@StratRider]

I would suggest the possibility that subconsciously he may have a desire to get even with her still. She bounced when he was hitting a low point and that hurts even if you don't want to admit it.

[@diogenes64]

This reminds me of the way after many years of bachelorhood of how I got rid of crazy or women who were like Claymore mines...I either told them I did something stupid in the stockmarket and am basically broke now (and would then follow that with...thank G_d I still have you😎) or tell them that I lost my job and we were going to have to "economize". Man, do they ever run for the hills...love it.

[@Tier1driving]

🤣🤣🤣

[@doradomvc]

This is the best advice I've heard all day. 😂😂😂

[@pixel288]

That is f-ing brilliant!

[@manuelcerda8889]

Genius!

[@TheUnknow]

Traumas are not supposed to be forgotten, they are meant to be left behind. You won't forget the bad things on your life, it is just that the good stuff is what matters more. Don't be like Kratos! You don't need to slay the entire greek pantheon just trying to forget something bad that happened because of one. It is what it is, there is no problem remembering lessons learned. Accept what you learned and keep going. The way he talks it does not matter that much anymore, it just bother him.

[@VoiceOfThe]

It goes beyond oneitis, it is codependency and what’s called a trauma bond. Paul from Apex Mindset discusses this.

[@brolysadvocate]

Most of our best relationships in life are trauma bonds honestly. Life is traumatic from start to finish existentially.

[@VoiceOfThe]

@@brolysadvocate Being sent away to boarding school when a young boy, effectively being abandoned by your caregivers at such a young age can cause this. It then typically manifests in adult relationships. Makes logical sense when you think about it.

[@K.Loves.You8]

I've tried looking for it but I couldn't find it. Would you mind telling a little more about it quickly, like a quick summary of what he says and how to deal with?

[@anchorsaweigh9893]

I mean from a man to man perspective this gentleman has had good deal of professional success and has all education and paperwork to back it up. You are the prize my friend. My wife started dating me when I was E-3 in the Navy. (Means I wasn’t making even minimum wage) I built that career, retired and built an entire business. Any woman who is unwilling to build (and sometimes lose) with you is a wash out. Good riddens. The tougher challenge is finding a Solid LTR when you are already successful. As for the past leave it behind. You dodged a bullet sir. Cheers 🍻

[@cwong1229]

What a tragic story, my condolences for that gentleman wasting 10 years of his life 😢

[@optimizedpran1247]

It's pretty simple. He had his guard down, got terminated from a job, and got walked out on all at the same time. On top of that, he kept in touch while rebuilding and struggling. It's a weird association of positive and negative emotions in a very intense time of his life.

[@robsollars6435]

The worst part I experienced, my ex left me after my Mother passed away days later of the Funeral. Leaving someone after they got fired is one thing, but being a cold person like that is a whole another level. Good thing though, the one's who see your worth will always be there.

[@moff_unplugged]

Yeah I dunno man. I’m not buying it. This seems like a perfect example of a guy who is just spouting sound bytes of TRP but hasn’t actually fixed his mental framework. Sounds to me like he has Oneitis and is not being honest with himself about his level of Unplugging.

[@willse_]

All people talking about simping and having girlfriends etc .I am an 22 man never had a girlfriend not becouse I can't search and get one but I focus on my career not letting my eyes running after women's

[@MrChip1217]

This guy needs to do to post mortem. Take the rose colored glasses off and review the bad stuff that happened. As long as you remember only the good stuff you won’t get passed it

[@iohannesfactotum]

My Belorussian college roommate used to grabd me by the shoulders and say, remember bad things. Saved my fscking life.

[@doradomvc]

He needs to remember the bad things, starting by how quickly she ditched his ass after he lost his job.

[@nickk.5661]

That’s actually what I did to get over my ex even though I irrationally still had feelings for her. I realized and spotted the things that weren’t in that relationship that I would’ve wanted from a long term partner. I noted that she didn’t prioritize me or try her best to make this relationship work. It seemed like I was doing most of the work to keep it going and I was just oblivious in life to the point where I accepted those circumstances thinking that there’d be something more as she seemed to promise. Overall, I’m glad that it happened and that it’s now over since I can focus on better things. Also, sometimes your brain just has a hard time of letting old habits go like letting go of a relationship. The good moments seem to overshadow the bad aspects of the relationship because you feel uncomfortable now that feeling is missing in your life. So you irrationally try to justify why you need to get back and not try to move on from it. It’s definitely a tough process but you could definitely learn a lot from it when you’re over it.

[@MrChip1217]

@@nickk.5661 getting rid of bad hadits starts with remembering the pain and what caused you strife. Then replacing the old habit with a new healthy habit.

[@jephteyiphtah3458]

I had a HS crush. Until put of college, we even to college in the same town away from home. You'd think this would make her see me as more then a friend. But no. Fast forward 5 years, she moved to another province became a nurse, I am a project manager, now she want to meet up and I must take her out, but her lunch. I can only think she's failing and wants a financial cruche, unfortunately for her I discovered the red pill.and I know my worth.

[@lobstertodd857]

I went through the exact same thing this guy went through. I fixed it by working out, removing all triggers of her, and changing my environment. It does go away. It does have to do with self-worth. Keep your head up and move forward.

[@kevinjohnson8220]

It sounds more like nostalgia.

[@kennethmills5470]

dido, I have been there.

[@user-xm8rf6ik7b]

I know the feeling , I remember a huge bass I lost 14 years ago 😔. That fish will forever haunt me .

[@theguynextdoor4978]

Most guys are not in love with the girl, but in love with the IDEA of being with her. It's called limerence. What often happens is that if the guy actually got together with her, he would realize quickly that she is not worth pedestalizing. She farts, snores and got the same issues, if not more than most people do. If she is not giving him the time of her day, it means that her actions are telling him to move on.

[@billy5077]

What a Fool Believes by The Doobie Brothers. Heard that song my entire life but never really listened to the lyrics. One day I did, right around the time that I found out about the RP. It made so much sense to me. Most music is blue pill but every now and then you find one with some red pill truth

[@paulzeigler1075]

This song was also part of my childhood soundtrack in the mid 1980s. Like your experience, it was in the background during summer cookouts, 4th of July BBQs, beach trips, etc...I never knew what The Doobies were saying/singing but the tune was always familiar and comforting. I looked it up on the KZbin and reconnected with it after I spotted your comment and HFS!!! 💩🤯😵 Mind blown....🙊🥴

[@hoosfoosfull]

When the going gets tough, the women start quitting.

[@GodWorksOut]

When the going gets tough, the women get going. 😂

[@supertruthfortynine]

So true

[@crimsonclover2636]

When the responsibilities come a'calling the men start walking 🚶‍♂️

[@michaelkearney7923]

You may be infatuated with the 10 year old relationship, but you and she have both changed and you can’t get it back.

[@stevenpearson9845]

So true.

[@shanemenger7937]

Rollo and Rich are right don’t root through the trash. I came to this conclusion once too when I went back to an ex. It’s a mistake. At the time I described it as You can never step into the same river twice. You’re different now after 10 years and she is too. Just remember that what you think you had will always be better than what you would get now. On a lighter note try and find a woman that looked like her ten years ago and relive the fantasy. I’m not a therapist but that sounds like more fun. LOL!!

[@ElectrikCompany]

Rich you are the best, thanks for everything you do for us who had no guidance before, I am 26 but I still think it is not too late for me

[@richardk5246]

26? Your life is just beginning.

[@jondoe384]

it's never too late

[@joningrum7376]

26??? Lol you’re a puppy bro

[@theblackdr.phillip9330]

@@joningrum7376 😂😂😂 puppy 🐶

[@BullseyeBY]

Get obsessed with a sport it will never dump you 😂

[@Motivatedk9]

Bjj 4 life

[@albertgrant1017]

Great vIdea and you gave Ryan ? Good advice. It was probably the combination of his losing his job that broke the camels back and made her decide to leave.I would suggest that he go briefly to a psychiatrist if his thoughts lead to anxiety or depression. The Mind is like any other organ or body part that has to be examined periodically for a routine check up.Hope this helps !

[@clarkgaither]

Wow!. This could be me. To this day I often think about someone I dated briefly ten years ago.

[@TheSilentBobby]

This explains so much, in intricate , excruciating detail . Surprised I don’t watch your channel more. I will make a point do incorporate your wisdom into my routine .

[@Tom-cp6yj]

curious to hear about Richs take on the whole "twin flame" phenomenon in last 10 years.. "omg!! we have this big spiritual connection and we HAVE to be together"

[@oscarm.1417]

Six years here; lost my business, lost my wife. Double whammy will wreck you emotionally.

[@Logan24855]

The worst would be:lost your job, lost your car, lost your house, lost the gf or wife 🤯🤯🤯

[@rogerthornhill1491]

A summary of divorce?

[@Logan24855]

@@rogerthornhill1491 That comes soon after or even the same day😂😂

[@Heritagepostfarms]

It is proven that people that live through traumatic experiences together are more closely bonded forever. For example if a couple got caught up in a robbery, that experience will pull them together. The study found several couples that fought 24/7 yet were still deeply connected due to the shared trauma.

[@exa11762]

So this is a marketing executive [a real talker] struggling. As an engineer this is a relief. One thing for sure is tomorrow I am going throw away anything that reminds me of her. THANKS.

[@dexterbarnes5249]

Got Rp’d in college. Started stacking paper and looking hot. Once you do this, you never look back.

[@blankakasza7221]

It’s called trauma bond. Forms when one partner or both alternates between sweet and mean. It causes a dysfunctional emotional bonding that is hard to shake.

[@isabellalora6533]

Yes between good and bad

[@elta6241]

It happens. It happens.

[@brolysadvocate]

I once got a good series of revenge f**ks from a girl who swerved me since freshman year high school...9 years later, not gonna lie... worth it. Admittedly I'm the long game type in all things.

[@Dabu-Dabu]

R.A.D. - reactive attachment disorder - could be laying at the base of this case. I would suggest seeking a good psychologist, a shrink if you will who could investigate and diagnose the issue properly. I know I have it, I simply don't let go, I can get overly attached to ppl not proportionately to actual interactions with them, to the timespan etc. I don't think a regular rationalisation will help in any way, shape or form. The guy actually mentioned his logic is good, so... I don't know why we openly encourage guys to getting rectal examinations, but you almost never hear encouragement to see a shrink and get the head checked out..

[@stevensides4046]

The juice is never worth the squeeze with a woman

[@Sammy.a1287]

Never? really?

[@manujagro]

A relationship is always a two-way thing. If one party is willing to give while the other is not, it will surely fail in the long term. A good, healthy relationship has both parties caring for each other with goodwill and tenacity.

[@allanreyes5520]

Been there, thank God got over it. Fell for this girl 14yrs younger than me, never became us but seems like shes into me..very2 hard to deal with how to approach her. Im 31 & shes 17 at that time..such a long story to put that here, but im glad thats just a past now..

[@jrosa__]

I want that t shirt!!!

[@katherinehancocks283]

I'm not an evolutionist but I agree with you on some of your facts about human nature. As a Christian if I married a man and he became a quadriplegic because of an accident... I would still have principled love for him... but in many ways he would not be the man that I desire. But today there's a lot of people men AND women who have no principles.

[@rogerthornhill1491]

Well you don’t get more honest and that Katherine? Would you expect the situation reversed to be exactly the same??

[@martinnakov6384]

Just block her everywhere, date other women and you will eventually forget about her existence lol

[@se.i.4393]

This is the evidence that man obsess over women who kinda don't care about them

[@evannash7032]

Are there any videos where Rich addresses Paul Dolan's claims that men are the beneficiary of marriage? Would love to see that

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Email a link to his claims I'll refute. Email is on about tab

[@evannash7032]

@@EntrepreneursInCars Emailed

[@brian5682]

Even the best pickup artists/dating coach/relationship coaches can get oneitis. Be stoic and unattached emotionally, people come and go in ur life.

[@Clarkjacksonfitness]

I still think of my ex. I think fondly of her. But it’s over. Now I broke up with her, so it’s a little different. She broke up with you so she clearly didn’t value you enough. No point in wasting energy on someone that doesn’t value you. The hind brain, the instinctual part of the mind, is much more sophisticated than the forebrain. So dealing with this at the deep, subconscious level is probably the approach. Hypnosis, as Rich recommended

[@jorgeserna8411]

Wow. I'm currently in a complicated situation with a woman. I felt depressed for spending the las 4-5 months "in love" with her. Now I read some of you guys actually spent years or decades....

[@wccrispy]

I hope what he takes away from this is that a better woman would have stayed by his side while he went through the process of rebuilding. A better woman would have helped, encouraged, and strengthened him in the process. She's in his head because of the the additional trauma she placed on him during that time by NOT CHOOSING to be a better woman.

[@napalmholiday9708]

I appreciate the reassurance that recalling past experiences with exes over Netflix and other random objects is a normal occurrence.

[@JALA578]

You know women really do save us by leaving relationships when we lose a job. You no longer have to provide for them 😂 unless ofcoarse you are married or in a common law relationship and she goes to cash out her chips.

[@adude8186]

This pic lol. She should just let him hit it so he can ghost her and move on. Win + win

[@thepoet456]

I’m a Muslim who was supporting “left “politics since it seemed sexy . But now I have come to realization in how similar my family and cultural values are with “right wing Christians “ ..in Particular when it comes to handling your women ,feminism ,pro life issue ,importance of raising kids by a father and mother together …etc

[@johannesswillery7855]

Well said friend. Common sense is more important than any ideology.

[@thepoet456]

@@johannesswillery7855 so true

[@theblackdr.phillip9330]

this happened to one of my friend, he lost his job yet his girlfriend did the monkey branch onto another guy, she didn’t realise he had a trade skills within 2 months He got his life back on track, thank you Rick waking me up from my sleep , aka understanding women nature , one love from Uk 🇬🇧

[@stevec3526]

Come on, she left you when you needed her support. After 10 years I can almost guarantee she is now nothing like the woman you thought she was.

[@Stevel_]

Most guys have 1-2 girls who live in their head rent free. Nothing wrong with it, can just realize it wasnt meant to be, and move on. If you think of them occasionally, so be it. Same way Alpha Windows think of their old guys (aka women do the same thing.) "The one that got away" etc.

[@katherinehancocks283]

If I stole your car and crashed it... ... I assume you would totally GAF. Even though I am the criminal your insurance may go up. I want a few people to care about me. As a Christian I have principled concern for everyone. I cannot personally care about all 7 + billion people in the world. I don't expect all 7 + billion people to care about me personally. You should GAF about defamation. If a woman falsely accused you of rape that would totally FU your life. Intentional defamation as a crime in Canada and it should be. And you should GAF.

[@e.o9470]

These things happen dude, you know…

[@TheShospitali]

I hear the story about this guy & I can sort of relate. You never ever really get over it I had it real bad once it took me years to get over it. Fueled ⛽ with Bipolar Disorder made it even worse. Every time I go back & revisit it in my mind which I try not to do I get all heartbroken 💔 upset & mad ticked off all over again with all those emotions over being rejected. All of my energy went towards thoughts over that unappreciated unthankful Bitch that a nice guy like me admired her.

[@marioescobedo5854]

I did this and it has been one of the stupidest things I have done in my life. I waisted 10yrs of my life chasing and doing everything I could to win her over. In the end, she married someone else. A lot of regret now that I am in my 30s. A warning to all.

[@Realelduque]

I used hypnosis YT videos for when I sleep. I wake up clear minded like a clean slate. It helped me very much.

[@DiggitySchwag]

Notification squad.

[@timsimmons9995]

I think the consensus is that women are just mostly a waste of time and don't get attached to any one because they are very expensive and rarely loyal, and between dating and marriage you have less than 1% of keeping any one woman.

[@pirateking31]

Took me 4 to 5 years longest

[@1032ramos]

That guy is marinating on that chick too much!

[@Tindel10]

bro it happens!!! you know that but marinate is the perfect word. maybe dry ageing

[@johngray7304]

Women is plural. Woman is singular.

[@Youngboss1024]

That shirt and the white long sleeve henley you had on in another, where can I get them?

[@WALKINGWITHFIREMUSIC]

I was in love with a woman that had a toxic boyfriend at the time back in 2011. She and I were intimate with each other. Played me like a piano. I remained infatuated with her up until she picked a new boyfriend just a week ago. To be honest her looks have deteriorated a lot these past years. Honestly I don’t think she could of offered me anything that I don’t already have. Sooooo over her now. Been single for 10 years now snd going strong. I don’t need a woman and I don’t need sex. I’m an alpha lone wolf.

[@SamanthaP48]

Oof. You “don’t need a woman & don’t need relations.” Are an “alpha wolf” only after a week of -> all chances being eliminated. Now you try to talk about her looks like a catty fefail. 😬 Still best to you. Prosperity Purpose & Health.

[@WALKINGWITHFIREMUSIC]

Thanks for your concern, but I’ve been doing fine being single now for 10 years. Just goes to show that a MAN doesn’t NEED a woman to stay alive :)

[@SamanthaP48]

@@WALKINGWITHFIREMUSIC - Was that ever even a posed question? If a man can stay alive without a women? I’d sure hope not. “Doing just fine?” By your own admission you were “infatuated” with this girl merely a week ago. So excuse me for giggling slightly at your response. Sounded more overcompensative & bitter in my honest opinion. 😅 Just as a heads up -> the term “Lone Wolf” is meant to describe older females driven from the pack or the young females searching for a pack of their own. The “Alpha” would naturally be the leaders & main breeders of a current (pack/family) certainly not the “lone” anything. You’d be best described as an Omega Nomadic Lion if you are using the animal kingdom as an analogy. 🧐 Simply meaning you’ve chosen to be (given up on) out of relationships & are a wandering MALE without a pack/pride/family of their own. Nothing more, nothing less. Again best to you Sir. I mean no hard feelings.

[@WALKINGWITHFIREMUSIC]

Still trying to figure out why you’re so concerned lol what’s with the long replies? Call me what you will, but you don’t know me.

[@SamanthaP48]

@@WALKINGWITHFIREMUSIC - *Replies* 👈🏻 😅 Ok.

[@hades.97]

Poor dude.

[@itzjermz1749]

I saw a video you posted 5 years ago and you look sooooo different bro

[@zemaspaze1211]

Lol after reading rational male, I only date once she shows signs of interest in me.....

[@xpallodoc]

Well if you want kids you’re kinda old now if you’re late 40’s but I’m sure you can find some women in her 20’s he may be good mother material wants to stay home raise the kids. Don’t get married but yeah have kids it’s the natural order

[@Pablo.Degregori]

Great content 👍👍👍👍

[@PhilosoFeed]

This makes me feel a lot better about being destroyed by a woman for 5 years. Lost my best years through betatization but I'm back baby. At least it wasn't 10.

[@Blando7887]

I can relate. When I was 17 years old I got my first serious girlfriend, lost virginities to eachother, took her to prom, I thought she was the one. She ended up cheating on me then married the guy she cheated on me with. Absolutely broke my heart. I obsessed and moped around for 4-6 years constantly thinking about her, crying to sappy love songs etc I was a mess

[@fejukas1]

cool name brother, you should be a singer

[@mikeodell5915]

On point

[@mezzofemme]

Crew neck for Toxic Masculinity t-shirt please.

[@LA-dh1bq]

Is there such a thing as a better women though if hypergamy is in there nature? Seems contradictory, idk I just haven’t met a women who was willing to be in a low with a guy, ever, like never ever so idk I just don’t think good women exist personally.

[@maxmeurs3286]

Not sure if you’ll see this but real question, kinda new to this. I’m turning 20 soon and i’m definitely not a player, i dropped out of school earlier in life cause of private reasons, am introverted and don’t make any money. However, i am pretty fit, tall and have objectively nice facial features. I have girls walking up to me and staring at me, and when i tell them as both a joke and seriously how quite frankly worthless i am in my life right now, they’re still persistent about going on a date, having a one night stand to put it politely, etc etc. Now i know they’re probably just sluts, but do fitness and looks get seen as some sort of worth/value? Thanks in advance and honestly loved the life stories. Also, greetings from the Netherlands

[@manuelcerda8889]

I have been there. Several things happened that made me realize that I was dumb for obsessing over this lady from my past. One of which was watching your channel and others like this.

[@mekelo9566]

Had similar issues with an ex. Hypnotherapy with Ryan is worth it!

[@Tindel10]

where can I find what you are speaking of

[@kurts6741]

10 years in his mental prison

[@stevecalvert6420]

Comment 👊

[@stevelynch5843]

I'm suffering in a sense the same way this guy is, one-itis, 12 years wasted, still think about her all the time, was worse before I found Rich on line and started my red pill journey, I think she's stuck in my sub, found a counselor that says she was just sex and I use her memory to relive stress, so she is stuck somewhere my red pill thoughts don't reach, I going to try this therapy Rich talked about and remove her, replace with a new stress relief

[@noahhradek5426]

Men love deeply but it hurts when they date avoidant women who walk out. Find better women, it's like the marketplace, find a better supply.

[@robertwormald1865]

I've never loved a women until she leaves, then I love her. Everything is your mental perception.

[@johne.6547]

Nice shirt Rich.

[@jeremyanderson3615]

LOL. 10 years? My mom had a male “friend” for 30 years. A decade is nothing

[@jamesedwards1528]

The three f rule find them f(@# them forget them