100 Women: Are You Okay? | Keep it 100 | Cut

[@nic2282]

"I have to be here for my son, there's nothing else. I have to stay" absolutely touched me

[@kimwang2787]

On my worst days, I keep going for my mum.she's all I got.❤️

[@absurdist_cackle2523]

7:41 for askers

[@kitma1000]

I felt this way at one point, but the person I was staying for was my mother. Now I’m staying for the children I have not yet created on this earth, and for myself.

[@kirabrown5407]

@@kitma1000 this is awesome. I am so proud of you its so hard

[@bossali5250]

I mean she has to be hère for him. Otherwise dont bring him to this world if u feel like your not stable enough.. It's selfish.

[@BraxtonTheKidd]

Seeing the girl cry about how hard it is to find a friend group really was so validating to see. I seriously felt that I was being childish simply for wanting friends and not being able to make any.

[@lalabest1aj]

Same because I've just moved to a new school and feel so alone here. I literally have no friends to eat with and just eat by myself most days. And the people I talk to, they're more like acquaintances, I'm afraid I'll never find genuine friends like the ones I have back home.

[@Rico401Prov]

My barber asked me this question today how he couldn’t imagine locating to a new city alone not knowing anyone. I told his that’s his mind playing tricks on him preventing him from living. There’s thousands of not millions of people alive right now that would love to be your friend but are shy just like you to approach. So be nice to strangers or even approach people and ask the same question. You’ll maybe save someone else’s life 💯

[@milkhomie4582]

Same

[@sadgraceee]

same.. i’m only 22 so i know i shouldn’t worry about that too much right now or in general. but it just gets so lonely…

[@tanishaacharya3896]

@@lalabest1aj Aahh same but dats ok.. Until we find friends let's try to be happy by ourselves

[@ms.cash332]

Seeing a short question like this can make adults cry, it makes me think how difficult life behind the scenes can be.

[@roisin764]

It's cringe.

[@derrick.t4031]

@@roisin764 nah fam. Ur cringe

[@amandaelizabeth5032]

@@roisin764 bruh what

[@shurlanafarnum4319]

Made me cry

[@MrMerc-um1de]

Yah so true, one of the most emotional questions to ask someone

[@kayladevonna]

“Are you okay?” A simple question but the answers are always profound.

[@khalilahd.]

So so true 🥹💜

[@noejuliansaavedra]

Yes true. 😂

[@BD06]

@@noejuliansaavedra your insensitivity doesn't bother feeling souls.

[@noejuliansaavedra]

@@BD06 ?????? Why??????😐

[@justinx9892]

This video proves why women should never be president. Too emotional

[@srersh05]

“Are you okay?” Is such a better question than “how are you?” Since the majority answers will be “well,im fine haha”. Which is one of the easiest lies to tell.

[@khalilahd.]

And it’s crazy how we all tell that lie 🥺

[@rubynoonan6566]

So true

[@frankeyithaka]

That's why I always answer that question honestly.

[@frankeyithaka]

That's why I always answer that question honestly.

[@Rico401Prov]

@@khalilahd. girl if you don’t stop posting on every video, I’m a pull up 😂💯

[@katet8639]

The girl that cried because she can't seem to make a solid friend group made me almost cry because I understand her pain very much. I have no one beside myself to rely on. It's not a bad thing but dealing with metal health, I don't want to rely on myself only because that gives me anxiety attacks. It's though, I've tried many ways to make friends, but I don't know why it's so hard.

[@TNDCBaby]

I feel like this. My core friends moved away. I have other friends but I no longer have those girls who i know will be down to hang on the weekend and call me just to drop by the house, snack, drink, and watch movies or chat. In most other groups I feel welcome but not like I'm in the inner circle. I'm second tier late to the party and it's not the same.

[@9kriley]

me too girl. trust me. in all my 19 years of life ive never had a best friend. never. ive never even been in a friend group. i was going through so much at such a young age and had nobody to talk to, especially since i was maturing quicker and the way i would describe my feelings, or talk about the things i was going through didn't resonate with or touch any other 14-15 year olds. i still feel alone, and still have built up sadness and anger from the things i never got to talk about. being misunderstood and seen as the fat girl in a small town fucking sucked. it still does. people can easily lie about me and the things ive done because they know nobody will believe me if i defend myself. one girl can tell her whole friend group a total made up story about some crazy shit i didnt even do and i have nobody to back me up. i have nobody proving my guilt, or my innocence but everyone believes the 10000 voices over mine. it sucks feeling alone and feeling like everyone hates you and you dont even know what you ever did to anybody. i never hurt, or stole, lied, cheated on anyone. all i ever did was get used, and give, give, give, forgive, trust. i got taken advantage of by everyone who ever came into my life and it seems like every day i receive karma for being so gullible back then. i have nobody to talk to. nobody seems to care how i am, or what im going through. ive felt so alone my entire life. i have nobody to "express my pain to" and vent to, and tell my story to so i feel validated. all i want is to be heard, and told none of it was my fault. i live day to day thinking somethings wrong with me or im just not anyones cup of tea. but if its just that, then why do people hate me? why are any men in this town afraid to date me and be known as my boyfriend? what have i done to anyone? i just dont understand. i feel like its corny to feel like a victim, or like im genuinely innocent and everyones against me. i just feel like its corny to say stuff like that because obviously i would have had to have done something horrible to someone to be getting treated this way by everyone i know. the sad truth is, corny enough, im truly innocent. i havent hurt anybody, im just an easy target because i try to ignore it all every time. im just tired of being misunderstood and alone. ive been alone my whole life and i have nobody to help take the edge off my daily struggles, when i had to do that for everyone else.

[@charlietao-x9h]

same girl. i give up at this point

[@TanaBueno]

That Asian women at 7:25 made me cry like a baby. Her being open about her suicidal attendencies but still here for her son stay for her son omg such a strong woman

[@keseanamarie]

Right. That really struck a nerve with me bc I can relate so much.

[@Jvst_jess]

I can relate to the girl that said she’s just a “party friend”. I’ve been letting friends go that made me feel like that. I want to find genuine friends that have the same interests as me, and I will find that one day☺️

[@clintongwanyama7188]

Let’s become friends

[@Heyitspapi]

Guess it depends on your taste in music.

[@craigdax]

I would love to be able to make friends. It’s really really really hard when you’re an introvert, shy and quiet and afraid to talk to people you don’t know. I have social anxiety and I find very hard to make friends.

[@Heyitspapi]

@@craigdax that's totally valid brother and I feel you. Might be in different countries but I'd be down to be a friend

[@ComedyGlor]

im curious as to how you found high school? Did you have any friendships that you enjoyed there?

[@newstartalltheway]

I hate that they used this as an ad. It makes these meaningful responses feel cheap.

[@amyc6667]

Same, they could’ve at least made it clear from the beginning or put it in the title that it’s an ad. I might unsubscribe.

[@newstartalltheway]

@@amyc6667 agreed. I think this is the only time I down voted a video from them.

[@justinemarie6109]

Thought the exact same thing

[@clairafambrough3462]

Agreed.

[@twenty-2923]

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[@Mkeita]

"You go through it, you get through it and then you get okay" favorite quote ❤️

[@brownskinbeauty.]

You're super pretty 😍

[@Mkeita]

@@brownskinbeauty. thank you girl🥺❤️

[@Hoojamaflump]

You should do the same video with guys, just to see if the answers are different or very similar. Love the vids

[@joycemtaula4728]

this is a great idea!

[@ellanora9]

@@joycemtaula4728 it really is, it would be interesting to see how the men answer and how they interpret the question: something more deep or maybe about their day/week

[@joycemtaula4728]

@@ellanora9 definitely I really hope they take up the suggestion

[@jonaswolterstorff3460]

I wouldn’t be surprised if it was shot on the same day. ;) from some comments it sounded like there was a “forhims”-medication as well.

[@MamjMamj1]

I was just thinking the same..!

[@soupcat101]

It's interesting how "simple" the question sounds because of how short it is, but really the fact that everybody interprets "okay" differently according to their situation shows how layered it is.

[@hedgehogshill3522]

My therapist just recently (after years of irregular appointments) asked me if "being fine" and "feeling great" is just the absence of feeling bad. For me is like one of the only things why I would not say I am doing great if my depression is really bad at that moment. If I don't feel my depression everything is great, I say XD

[@martyfer2494]

"whether i'm a little bitch, i'm too much. i don't give a shit actually" ma'am every woman need to have this *confidence*

[@jakeclnicholson]

Your 20’s is felling like “I’m okay” and “I’m about to die” Yep. 💯

[@nihilisticxix]

To whoever is reading this keep going, you’re doing fine! No matter how slow your progress, each new week is filled with tiny steps forward. Be proud of yourself you got this.

[@MariaAndrade-hi5px]

💜

[@AbundantleeJazz]

Thank you

[@AverageHungaryan]

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[@zambanee]

I'll try but I'm slowly slipping

[@satomafuyu6714]

I'm literally crying right now thank you, I really do my best

[@here.and.there.x]

this came to me as a sign im going thru some crazy things. im confronting with a lot of pressure and feelings i shouldnt have. i really hope everyone will soon heal from the things that are too heavy for their soul!

[@Rico401Prov]

What’s going on, sis

[@imilui3878]

My teacher asked me this once, my day was going perfectly fine until then. Once she asked me this, my composure just crumbled and for some reason I started crying. I hate this question.

[@quirkyviper]

I think that if you can figure out "why" you hate this question, it'll tell you more about yourself than the answer (yes/no). Crumbling like that is okay, it's human and you are entitled to the lessons that come with it. 🫂

[@Betherick1985]

My mom passed a year ago. I would get this question a LOT after I came back to work after the funeral… not so much anymore.

[@KaylaTheKindOne]

Sometimes people convince themselves that things are fine, or that it's better to pretend because they think nobody will care about the truth anyway. I feel like you hate the question because it forces you to confront that part of yourself.

[@isabellecousineau]

Constructive criticism here: I think there's a moral line to think about when you are talking about mental health and promoting a brand. Now I know that in the US, health is very privatised, but ultimately it comes down to "is it accessible for everyone?". Some brands are very accessible, but just something to think of in your creative process. Love your content btw!

[@celinavogensen1355]

Yes I thought it was a bit offputting to put a brand while talking about mental health...

[@Fernina8]

This! Also in some states you can get in A LOT of trouble for carrying your prescription in a bottle that isn't the one your medication came in.

[@678sunflower]

This is the comment I was searching for. Thank you.

[@julieta9913]

"when you're in your twenties you're always on the brink between i'm okay and i'm gonna die" felt that to my core

[@John_FMTV]

Definitely need one for men too, the general consensus always being that we need to be strong and not show emotions. To spread the message that shouldn’t be the case would be very positive.

[@hottieschicken]

A men episode would be nice but I don’t think that’s the general consensus anymore… I feel like the only people who genuinely think that are usually straight men

[@suivatra123]

@@hottieschicken Nah, it's still widely believed by kids, adult men, and adult women (gay or straight) the facade of acceptance of male feelings is prevalent but the practice is not. On top of that, the idea of only blaming straight men is why the suicide rate hasn't moved at all for us (as a whole). By that I mean 80% of all suicides are men and have been for a long time.

[@Rudi_Mentary723]

They don't have a 100men series. They just have a 100women series. If they had one, they'd have to do a counter video for the men too with topics like '100men given women sex advices' (they had that for the 100women series) and we all know that's going to do no good to their PR. I'd be very surprised if CUT did that. If they did, kudos to them for being brave to do it. There was already men in that video suggesting there be a 100 men series for the same topic(sex advices) and women in the comments were like 'why do you need that' and 'why do have to bring in men into everything' and 'get your own channel for that' etc etc. It's hilarious to see the responses of women in such comments.

[@Rudi_Mentary723]

@@suivatra123 Well when you live with women long enough, men just want to to die. Hence you have those numbers for men !! 😁

[@BelieMyBurial]

@@suivatra123 "the facade of acceptance of male feelings is prevalent but the practice is not. " damn ... it really be like that.

[@TheonlySkye]

7:42 That made me cry. Someone needs to give her a hug, listen to her and comfort her... all of them need that.

[@333Goddesss]

It’s crazy because I was the party friend as well, until I got sober and realized i have no friends. My daughter is literally my best friend, and knowing my husband is there as well has got me through so much. Being 30+ trying to make friends can be tough, because my trust in people is at a minimum. I know I’ll be okay.

[@kenidyreece]

PSA: its okay to not be okay!!! love you💗

[@melanmalvindicta]

I watched that series, it was good.

[@ShannonHarper]

❤

[@ania9133]

10 days post op for a major ovarian mass removal. This hit me. Pending biopsy results, dealing with a 14inch incision. Never knew I had the mass. My world was flipped upside down within a 7 hour er visit. Being admitted and rushed to surgery

[@ariesfairy4444]

hope u have a speedy and healthy recovery🥺🤍

[@byunbaekhyun4010]

I hope you're feeling better. Even if only marginally. Wishing you all the best

[@Nikinik597]

I hope you're truly okay.

[@GalaxyIlumination]

Wishing you wellness and more peace during this tough time ❤️

[@xlane397]

Stay strong ❤❤

[@lyriccomfort8689]

It’s really refreshing to know you’re not the only one in the world having a hard time

[@finelindsigvardt140]

05:36 hit me hard. Being a young adult getting friends is difficult. I wouldn’t know what to do if my friend group dissolved. Total panick

[@jasminee.1701]

I felt the “I will be” 💐

[@kabelo_m]

bitch, omg I am in tears right now 😭 that touched me deep.

[@itisritah]

Hearing this made me feel emotional because recently nobody's asked me if I'm okay. Not my family, not my friends, no one. On top of that, I have a chronic illness and it's like people get tired of me being sick and they're tired of me being unwell. I'm always at home because I got withdrawn from high school and I'm going to start my senior year next year. No one ever checks on me. Edit: I'm not okay.

[@missbeaussie]

I'm sorry Ritah. I hope there are moment of joy in between the turmoil and pain. Sending love and understanding .

[@Lyn-yv2xi]

I feel a similar way to you Rita, my family don't ever ask how I am and if I try and talk about my health they don't respond. People don't seem to have time for others problems and you end up feeling like a downer.

[@Astoria88]

Damn Ritah reading THIS made me emotional. I also have a chronic illness so I know exactly what you mean when you say people get tired of it, people living without chronic illness or pain can sometimes be sympathetic but they will never truly understand how it affects the person. I feel you. I’ve very recently lost my best friend to suicide and nobody’s really asking if I’m okay either. And I’m not. I wish I had some beautifully worded life changing advice for you, I really do, but all I can say is just try and speak to someone around you, don’t feel like a burden. You need to express how you feel because bottling it up (for me) affects the chronic Illness too. I hope you find a light, something to brighten your soul. Sending you good vibes and best of luck for your senior year!

[@Thankuforsubing]

Ok

[@domenica1198]

@@Astoria88 i really liked what u said, it actually made me happy reading someone showing empathy and support to someone else

[@nekocindy551]

I just recently lost about every single person in my friend group- because for the first time I was honest. About my needs, my wants and my limits on what I will accept; because I have been a push over for so long and I just didn't want to be run over anymore. I did all of these, one on one- no tin a big group and separately just about every one of them, walked away. I understand, I do...sometimes all you have is you, but you should always make yourself your own best friend until the right friends come along and find you. That's just how love works, it wanders along in a zig zag kind of path until it runs right into you. To the girls who need to hear it, I would be a friend, I would listen, and I love you

[@sethesteves]

1:26 Omg I love her attitude 💀

[@dominikn19]

Facts. 😂

[@sarahortiz8191]

That made me giggle as I aspire to be like her. I have a coworker who is rude to everyone. I'm the one who mainly works with her so she let's it out more on me. I have done my best to be nice and patient with her but I'm tired of being nice to her all the time. I started putting my foot down a little with her and she may have noticed but I don't care.

[@inkeriananas]

@@sarahortiz8191 good for you hun

[@Gremlin31]

“I don’t give a sheet actually” I felt that lmao

[@02291992mm]

Oof, that girl with the red hair bun got me! I struggle with that, I'm 30 & although I have a great bf I need my friends & it's so hard to "fit in" as a grown ass adult. It's something I've struggled with for a couple of years. You always feel like you're the only one going through that & this made feel better about it.

[@Dr.Smiley1652]

Do not ask me if I'm okay unless your ready for me to cry. Because I will, and I'm so glad that I'm not the only one that breaks down at that question. It's a simple deep question and I love it.

[@mayrose9387]

The way so many of us just start crying. I know I would

[@chase_thoooyt3081]

I agree with the girl that said that she was viewed as the party friend because I know a ton of people at school. I feel like there’s a big difference between knowing a lot of people and having a lot of friends. Because I’ll see my friends hanging out in their group and they have group chats with each other and hang out all the time and when some people tell me “how do you not have any friends, you know everyone” it really pushes me more to the realization that I’m actually pretty lonely at school. Don’t assume I’m popular either because I don’t play sports or anything, I just know a lot of people at my school. I’m a freshman and I struggle with the thought of possibly dealing with this for longer.

[@brandonheyward4022]

Hey “Cut” can we do one of these videos asking 100 Black Men: Are You Okay?. We’re seeing an uptick in a lot of black men struggle with mental health and in the wake of Twitch’s passing I think it would give a lot of black men the tools to check in with themselves and each other by showing examples of men expressing themselves. I’d totally participate.

[@birbmachine]

This please

[@dorte3791]

This is such a underrated question. I’m 13 i have diagnosed autism and stress nobody has helped yet or asked me if I’m okay… i struggle with everything going on with the world rn and having honestly no friends, the absolute worst trust issues and moving back to my old school being scared about what they’ll say about me I have a whole book full of worries and still nobody asks me if I’m okay and trust me they know my biggest comfort is my cat and going to London ( for your information I’ve been travelling atleast 3 times a year there since I was 5 months since I have family there not that I’m close to them it’s just that it feels like home just without worries ) thank you for reading this I want to apologise for writing it since it makes me afraid of what people will say but I’ll send it thank you for reading

[@maryamnajafian6699]

"I don't need solutions all the time, I just need someone to listen " ohhh I felt that

[@Alex.kantrowitz]

Pushing those pills at 3:00 did take me by surprise tbh

[@amyc6667]

Yeah, I think they should’ve made it clearer from the beginning that this was sponsored content. It’s not the first time they did this, I’m considering unsubscribing.

[@quietcell]

Yeah it's off key. Not here for adverts

[@professionalamateur417]

As a female myself, I genuinely feel bad for those women who have to go through really tough times. Of course men do too, but since this is about women and as someone who will soon be called a woman (I’m not 18 yet), I can really relate and understand.

[@itz_akuma]

Why is your name the composer himself .?? Just wondering

[@spilledsoju03]

A lot of A-holes will still refer to you as a girl until your 30s

[@professionalamateur417]

@@itz_akuma It’s just a random username, it has nothing to do with myself or my gender. People assume me as a male, which I completely understand though.

[@itz_akuma]

@@professionalamateur417 I'm not sure what random means . You choose that name and the image behind it. Just like I chose mine . And I'm done with people saying things have nothing with their gender. Have some respect for yourself and what god blessed you with.

[@professionalamateur417]

@@itz_akuma Are you implying that I’m lying about my gender? Why would I? If you really wanna know, well, “composer” refers to people who compose music in my case, and I, as a music lover, decided to choose that name because I thought it was a bit abstract while being related to myself as a person. However, 99.9% of composers, living or deceased, are male, and this is why it makes no sense to write “the composer HERself”. I don’t want to give my real name like some people, but I also don’t want to come up with a childish or stupid name. But the most important reason is because I love music, and so I wanted to have a name that’s somewhat related to music. There you go! :)

[@casse__8785]

“I will be” this hits home 🥺🥺

[@Smolgnome828]

The lady that said “I don’t need solutions all the time, I just need to listen.” I felt that💔

[@bibblebubble583]

It's questions and answers like this that remind me how similar the human experience is to all of us, how simple are the things we deep down all want in our lifes that sometimes feel so big and far, like being okay or someone to listen to us. It hurts my heart a little to see all these women in particular struggling, but it also fills me with joy and pride seeing they face their issues and don't give up. 🧡

[@Iftisha-s7x]

" Are you okay ? " " Nah , but who is?" Convincing.

[@harris6543]

"The general sadness of the world affects me pretty deeply"

[@yeseniamendoza5844]

The lady in the orange sweater; you absolutely will get through it. My heart ached so bad for you , I felt your pain through the screen, and im so sorry, you got this❤

[@sarahhoffman5390]

❤❤❤

[@blessedndhlovu1023]

When I started therapy, I cried every session for a solid 6 months when my therapist asked me that question. It's such a simple but oh so heavy question.... Sending so much love to everyone who's not okay 💜

[@rocbotum8]

I taught my daughter that this is the question to ask kids... If they cry, you will know if they need you.. Always ask children if they are okay... They may need you but won't say so

[@salfred8252]

"I have to be here. I have to stay." That hit me like a truck.

[@kylarose3740]

The way the question "are you okay" started to make me cry every time.

[@Zerobk21]

"I'm not ok, but I'm aite" I felt that on a subatomic level

[@theodoretekkers]

Here’s a hug to anyone who needs it. Everything will be ok. It maybe tough now but you will get through it. You’re strong, you’re brave, you’re tough and you’ve got this! Don’t give up!

[@missbeaussie]

Was not expecting an ad halfway through that

[@whimsy_gal5205]

This is such a powerful reminder that everybody goes through difficult times, and it is so important we treat each other with kindness and patience, because you never know what someone is currently experiencing, the kinds of weight they are carrying in addition to just living...

[@xcaitastrophicx]

To the “party friend” girl - I am sending you the biggest hugs!!! I am and always have been in that same boat and it’s such a lonely feeling. I’d be your friend 🥺❤️

[@valxem]

Damn the girl with the friend situation REALLY hitting close to home. (5:50)

[@ShannonHarper]

Oh my God I relate this so much ❤️ I’m not okay. Will I be okay? I’m not sure. At least I don’t feel so alone after watching this video.

[@missbeaussie]

Thinking of you 💜

[@flowerfields2379]

I hope you'll be ok very soon

[@mnsadvkta]

I am also going through sone hard time at the moment. I am also not ok, but we will get through this. Sending you love and more strength ❤

[@flabbergasted6231]

The losing their oldest sibling one hit me hard because I lost my oldest sister who is also my oldest sibling out of all my siblings to Covid. I really wish asking people things like this and getting real responses was more normal because I would love it if people told me the honest truth on how they were feeling. I love it when people feel comfortable enough with me to open up and tell me when they are sad or upset or just anything they want to share or tell me about. I get people asking me for advice pretty often too which is surprising but also really nice that they respect my outlook and thoughts on matters enough to ask me for help when they are going through something. It is really meaningful to me when someone trusts me enough that they are willing open up to me like that and ask me for help.

[@NehaKumari-mj9gy]

FF yriyuuuuirlll

[@imanicoleman2308]

i loved this. i struggle with depression, anxiety, negative thoughts, and suicidal thoughts. it’s hard struggling with these things because your perspective on the world is completely different from everyone else’s. i wish i could just vent but lots of people and “friends” showed me to just keep it in and they don’t care, am i the only one who just vents in their notes lol?

[@Lostmyspoons]

I feel like it’s extremely hard to make friends with other girls. I’ve dealt with so many mean girls, it starts to feel impossible.

[@JewelTrendsetter]

Honestly 😔…

[@aidaarteaga1855]

Yes, I actually just turned 30 and haven't had a real friend since HS..recently have found a "mom friend" from my Childs school, I never thought I would actually find someone who I can relate so much too but its just so simple yet so hard to start by even initiating a conversation and then to actually hang out...Happy to start my new friend journey!!!

[@simonisenberg4516]

Fuck. I finally thought Cut would still do non ads too, especially on such a deep and loaded topic but nooooooo. :( At least just put it at the end as an offer (I'm not opposed to Cut making money), don't muddle the conversation and use the people you interview for the emotional connection and trust we put into them.

[@amyc6667]

Yeah I noticed they’ve been doing stuff like this lately, I might unsubscribe if it doesn’t change.

[@ms.cash332]

1:33 She must be an opera singer 😭😭

[@isaacwalker5124]

Damn. I'm on mood stabilizers (SSRI), and I think we gotta crush the stigma. BUT!! Springing an advert on them/the audience felt pretty manipulative and slimy... 😬😬

[@161-h8n]

Yeah thats fucked up

[@amyc6667]

Yeah I think they should have made it clearer in the beginning/in the title that this was sponsored content, it felt very manipulative. I’ve noticed the past couple of vids having this type of format too, I’m considering unsubbing unless they change

[@161-h8n]

@@amyc6667 Yeah in general it's quite a sly and manipulative way to advertise, but it becomes even more fucked up when it comes to using people's personal struggle as a means to turn a profit, through advertsiement pushing drugs, anti-depressives on people, for the sake of profit.

[@Traumatised311]

Yoruw a guy and on a mood stabiliter Imagine how hard it is for us women When all men r such narcissistic

[@jacobcecil9319]

To the girl who said she was having problems finding an actual friend group because she’s seen as the party friend, you aren’t alone. You’re gonna find your tribe. Don’t concern yourself with the “friends” that treat you like a token. There is someone or some group of people out there looking for you just as hard as you’re looking for them.

[@pedroyong5208]

I grew up with three sis and a single mom . I'm super impressed at how woman can just keep pushing thru no matter what's going on. I suffer a minimal inconvenience and i gotta sit down to map it out, i legit refuse to do anything else until that is solved.

[@annasulina]

To the woman holding on for her son, I get it very much, I have been holding on for my little brother since I was 12 years old and tried to out myself. I came to a realization that it is a huge weight to put on another person, to essentially make it their responsability to keep you alive. Please live, stay for your own magnificent self. Please want to stay. As hard as it may be, and some days I know it just does not look like there is any hope or point, but there are, and I know you know it too, there are those beautfil days where it hurts a little less, and breathing in the air makes you feel alive, and it all seems worth it. Look at your family, see what life has given you, feel the love that is them and is you. Life is just that, love. And I know how sometimes it does not feel like that. At all. But there is love to stay for. I give you the biggest hug, please stay.

[@khalilahd.]

Wow this was so powerful. I feel like we can relate to almost every one of these reactions. Such an important video 🥹💜

[@dominiquelemon7125]

It is ❤

[@goodenergi]

Hi

[@texo3463]

Yeah and it would also be important if there was a same kind of video about men when 78% of all suicides are men..

[@GenesisSpeaks]

I get asked “are you okay?” by my therapist every time we have a session, and each time I sigh and want to cry. Not being okay is a burden being carried around until we get asked and actually, truthfully answer no. It amazes me the diversity in women around the world and it makes me feel alright knowing I’m not alone in what I feel and what I am going through.

[@texo3463]

78% of all suicides are done by men and yet there still isn't this kind of video about men

[@GenesisSpeaks]

@@texo3463 I agree with you…it is something that needs to be tend to. I actually get quiet emotional when I think of all the men I’ve come across in my life. Whether it’s a friend, stranger, my brothers, my own father, past significant others, I somehow feel the need to nurture them, to love them like they’ve never been loved before because you can almost see in their eyes, that that’s all they really need or want. To just be loved and cared for, listened to and understood. I stand for men just as much as women, why? Because us women are the ones that bring men onto this world, and we need to do better in raising them, loving them, educating them, and making them feel just as equally important as another woman.

[@susanmontgomery3968]

((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))) to these ladies. We need to normalize not being okay, and being able to say so without shame or judgement.

[@xTIYx]

I'm not okay. I'm the strong one, so nobody checks if I'm ok or not. I'm the strong one, so my own feelings are never priority. Even my parents don't think whether they will hurt my feelings or not, while they go all the way to pamper my sister (who is an adult and still bullies me and tries to actively hurt me) because she has depression (guess what? I HAVE DEPRESSION TOO)

[@Lullayable]

Oh wow. This hits different today. I'm not ok. I had my first therapy session today. I didn't want it but I needed it. I also learned today after my session that my uncle, who has been sick for the last two years, has decided to get euthanised within the next two weeks and I am not ready to say goodbye to him. I don't want to say goodbye to him, and even though I understand that he's taking this decision because he can no longer be what he used to be, I selfishly don't want to lose him. And I'm really sad. Really really fucking sad.

[@marylenehall405]

Everyone needs a human to talk to who can be understanding and not judge mental.I also had to cut off toxic people and habits and had to quit my job which were all triggers for me I would shut down and isolate myself from everyone for weeks.Prayer kept me going I kid u not even when I had suicidal thoughts and thought the world was against me I remain in faith and spoke affirmations to myself and listened to uplifting music.But I’m not saying what works for me works for everyone.I also started to think of going back to therapy.I pray everyone heals and gets a person in their life who can make them feel better and a love like no other

[@frederickkgagane]

The only way to know if a person is really fine is to ask "Are you okay?". A lot of times we see people smile and laugh but that does not mean that they are okay. We should ask them if they are really okay.

[@cnb1233]

I totally relate to the “on the brink of ‘I’m okay’ and ‘I’m gonna die’”

[@Lyn-yv2xi]

This question hit me hard. My health has been bad for a long time and my family have stopped checking up on me, I feel like an inconvenience in their lives and they don't want to hear about it. My sister thinks my life is super easy and I should be more grateful, she never acknowledges my health struggles. And yet I listen so patiently to all of their problems, only to be shut down when I try to open up. I am finally well enough to start socialising, but making friends is hard and I get very lonely. Sometimes I think it is easier to just not try as I can't be the positive, entertaining person everyone seems to crave because of my physical and mental health struggles. I feel that everyone already has their circles and unless you are super exuberant/exciting/attractive you just get ignored. That if you don't make the effort to arrange things and stay in contact the other person won't bother.

[@cholieandresa]

The woman who spoke about suicidal thoughts and such, but said to her self “I have to be here for him, I can’t leave” something along those line… hit me like a billion bricks… once my mom said to me that she had those thoughts and planned out how to do it to cause the lest damage (making sure we were gone from the house for a bit, etc.) and later in my life she passed away of natural causes. And I miss the crap out of her every day. My father passed away July 2001. I’ve had a long time to heal from that, but my world changed immediately. And then again in 2014. She died on those wedding date. Soon after I became super depressed and self sabotaging and I came very close to possibly unaliving myself, but I couldn’t do that to my kids. I’m so thankful for them every day, they have saved my life more than they will ever know.

[@lleahssimone]

Im so emotional just watching this because I’ve been the one checking up on everybody for the past 6+ months and having nobody to check in on you kinda sucks 😕 if someone asked me this question I would burst into tears

[@justsaying5633]

Awesome video. I’m glad that people were pretty honest. Having someone that’s willing to listen is a great feeling and absolutely necessary.

[@davidluv4]

I thought I was ok until I watched this video. I feel so much empathy for everyone here.... xo

[@emilieclarke5074]

"who i am without both my parents..." - that hit deep.

[@QueensNYgirlie1988]

Is anyone really okay right now ? 😭😭😭😭😭 Sending love and light to everyone who isn't 💗🙌

[@thesinfulyogini2073]

The question made me cry immediately too 😢

[@taylorm1690]

Damn… I be goin through it rn. Especially today when I woke up and I’m getting ready for work. This helped so much. Sometimes you feel alone with your depression. Thank you for everyone who shared 🖤

[@AlohaKarlee]

I’m naturally really quiet/shy, but recently someone told me that my reserved/quietness makes me look rude and unapproachable and it’s completely ruined the way I view myself lol. I’m not okay

[@deannadanielle]

This happened to me too and since I have no actual friends or a partner I don’t know what to think of myself and started to believe everyone I encountered assumed I was rude.

[@ElleBrielle]

Sometimes you do not realize you're not okay until someone asks you this question

[@Lbenning]

Damn seem like such a basic question but everytime somebody asks me that I burst into tears 🥺

[@uchei.9288]

Im so conflicted with these ads infused with these type of videos.

[@tbassett0823]

Love this. Can you ask 100 men as well? Not sure if you already have, but I think thatd be so interesting

[@harrietellingworth1649]

Absolutely love this channel. Really makes you realise that there are hundreds and thousands of people across the world going through the same experience as you and it’s so nice in a simple way to know that other people are feeling the same thing as you it’s just there on the other side of the world and I think we all forget that ☺️

[@EliTasrev]

It's kinda giving medication promotion. Reminder: medication treats the symptoms not the root. Medication however works best together with therapy. Also the amount of antidepressants taken in the US is scaring, realise that the industry is out for money, realise that some medication have research proving they're barely beneficial (for some drugs). Just please do some research because medication comes with risks, side-effects and addiction. Lots of love to everyone dealing with (mental) health issues.

[@animemangaluv13]

Yess

[@stefaniamalatesta8076]

I wish I could hug all of these people. Life sucks sometimes.

[@rybye1261]

Do this with men next! Also it'd be amazing if it was kept anonymous to encourage them to answer honestly

[@quirkyviper]

The fact that your note about being anonymous to encourage honesty makes sense makes me really sad about society.

[@rybye1261]

@@quirkyviper It is depressing, isn't it? I struggle to open up to my best friends and I don't even know why I feel that way

[@mbrownn]

@@rybye1261 i feel like this as a female and its so strange since women are meant to be more “emotional” and open with things. i always thought someone has to be the rock and the thought of me crying to my friends would be the last thing i would do. but it is miserable that men don’t openly talk enough and your idea is very interesting

[@rybye1261]

@Warda Wada huh

[@kimberlya9614]

The “I have to stay” is the one that I really felt there

[@user-kf2oi4sq5b]

Wow, as soon as he asked that, it hit right down to the bottom of my stomach...I just felt everything all at once...how did he do that? 😭🥺😥

[@AshlyMonet]

I love this because I use to randomly text my friends and siblings “are you okay”

[@chinwechinwe3560]

This is a good thing

[@Sammy-gy3rx]

5:08: "When your in your 20s you're always on the brink of 'I'm ok' and 'I'm gonna die'." like gurl, I related so much to that, damn!

[@niyahlorraine6105]

i like this video a lot i just wish the sponsorship wasn’t throughout the entire video it just gives it an inauthentic feel

[@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat]

I was kind of thinking the same thing about the sponsorship, yet at the same time it was really impactful and made me cry and feel it's nice to be asked. Genuinely I ask you as random commenter I've never met, are you okay njyah lorraine? ❤️

[@s.hinzman7728]

Watching this as I am coming home crying - yup the algorithm knows me

[@unicornonrainbows]

Damn! I feel u girl @5:50 It IS so hard for find solid friend group as an adult. Especially if u wanna make new friends cuz you’ve outgrown ur old ones and not enough ppl talk about this! Ur not alone girl 😭😭

[@camxox6089]

You know I’ve been having a hard time dealing with life recently. I’m about to turn 21 and finally realize how much of the world is depressing. As a child you see this world that is guarded by your family and don’t realize the flaws. So reachig adulthood is really tough for me. I see all my friends and family going on with their lives and having purpose. Yet here I am feeling stuck. I really feel like I always will be. And every one I express this to say it’ll get better but I’m still here feeling like this. I wouldn’t call it depression because I don’t feel depressed. I’m not depressed. I just think maybe some people just don’t know how to live. And that’s me. I just don’t get it. And I suck at it. I don’t understand why I’m here in college and still nothing excites me like it did when I was younger. Anyways, some of the people in this video made me realize how normal it is to not be ok. And how even if they’re not they still don’t feel like it’s the end of the world. My heart is still heavy but at least I know that I’m not the only one who is struggling

[@zdf74]

i relate to this heavily

[@gillianmanzini8388]

Hey love, You should know that your friends and family might be going through the same thing as you. No one knows what they are really doing. We are all playing pretend in this world. 🙏❤️

[@nayc1616]

I feel this

[@discipleofjesus719]

Hey there, I get how hard that can be. But even though you may seem stuck in life, you and every person still have purpose in this life and are very valuable. You are meaningful and those around you are blessed to have you. Plus, God cares about you and sees great worth in you too. So much so, that He gave His one and only Son to die and rise for you and every individual. So don’t forget that you are loved and worthy. Have a blessed day and feel free to reach out “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?” Matthew 6:26

[@eve_lou]

"Are you okay?" is such a simple thing to ask but it really should be asked more!