103 - Crossdresser D - Crossdresser or Trans .

[@gillianphillipson2487]

Be up front and honest about yourself. Your lovely as you are but as long as your dates know they are meeting feminine "D" and not your another personality. You need to be safe "D". We all want that for you. X

[@lindaaustin5890]

Why label people. You are wot you are. As long as your happy, and hurting no one, why should you have a label attached.... There is far too much judgement in today's society, instead of live and let live.... Be happy D, no judgement here 😊 xx

[@pacberoi]

are u deluded.

[@MichelleChick-zo7ic]

Nope!!! You are not trans, you do what your intuition tells you! Your happiness is the most important thing. Don't let others dampen your spirits D xx

[@bluebell7250]

You do what makes you happy

[@jono718]

Exactly D, please don't get caught up in this whole woke trans debate, you do you and as long as you are happy that's all that matters

[@gillianphillipson2487]

Do you feel at your happiest being "D", or your equally happy being your male self? You can be whoever you want to be without judgement. No need to mess about with hormones if your satisfied with who you are. I would be interested to know if I may ask? As your bisexual, if you find a woman attractive, do you approach her as "D" or your male self? Are you wanting to be sexually attractive as the male you or a woman to find "D" attractive? I'm sorry if my question is rude, I'm judt curious, I am not judgemental.

[@taleuback6799]

Hi D! I Don't worry about people trying to fit you into boxes because they don't understand you. Also, if in the future you change your label, it won't make you look bad because everyone changes constantly ❤

[@themidnightminx]

Hello D! I wouldn’t worry about labels, I don’t, it’s a minefield out there! If someone says I’m trans, gay, weird ect they are entitled to their own opinion. I know who i am and that’s all that matters ❤

[@PamFord-g9q]

No your not trans at all. you are just doing what makes you happy carry on doing that ignore any haters

[@justabossymum9804]

Lovely live your life as you wish 😊

[@sneezymonkey]

You're a TV aren’t you, not a TS? A good old cross dresser? Nowt wrong with that love. You do what makes you happy 😊 You randomly appeared on my suggestions & you seem a nice person so I'll subscribe now!

[@joannamorgan6911]

You are you x I would say cross dresser. As long as you are safe and happy and treated with respect x

[@dragoncult666]

No, you're not trans as I understand the term. You don't strike me as thinking you're in the wrong body and wishing you could transition. More that you're expressing your style and personality through the way you dress. (I could be way off).

[@artistavanessa]

I was under the impression that people whose gender did not match the gender they were born with were transgender; regardless of whether they choose to transition or not. Some people are comfortable in their natural born bodies. I have also been led to believe that nonbinary or gender fluid humans may feel like they are a mix of both genders. Nonbinary can also be those that feel like neither gender. Cisgender people represent those who only identify with the gender they were born with. As for crossdressing, I think it means to dress in what is not usually worn by your natural born gender. So, I guess it could possibly encompass all of the genders above, if they choose to do so. On a different note, Pan, bi, hetero, and as3xu4l... describes the preferred orientation. Pan orientated people like any gender, including trans. Bi like males and females. Hetero like the opposite gender. As3xu4l.. have no attraction to anyone. Everyone has their own combination of orientation and gender. Only they can say how they identify.💕

[@KristianAugust1964]

This a matter of concept. Transvestite is an old synonyme for crossdresser. From wikipedia: 1) "Transvestism is the practice of dressing in a manner traditionally or stereotypically associated with a different gender. The terms transvestism and transvestite were coined by Magnus Hirschfeld in 1910. In the early 20th century, transvestite referred to cross-dressers, and also a variety of people who would now be considered transgender.The term transvestite is now considered outdated and derogatory, and has been replaced with the more neutral word cross-dresser." 2) "A transsexual person is someone who experiences a gender identity that is inconsistent with their assigned sex, and desires to permanently transition to the sex or gender with which they identify, usually seeking medical assistance (including gender affirming therapies, such as hormone replacement therapy and gender affirming surgery) to help them align their body with their identified sex or gender." That is the reason for the confusion between crossdresser and transsexual. "trans" is now solely a short for transexual.

[@mr.grumpy]

Well said and concise. I think the confusion stems from the two words sharing the same prefix, "trans", but having different meanings. I agree the term "cross dresser" prevents confusion.

[@DanielChapmanYT]

I think what people are getting confused and contorted is, is it sex or gender that is being changed, Sex is the physical side of things and Gender is the more about feelings and emotional side of things. You can be male and still feel female or feminine, which would mean that you are transgender but not transsexual. I think at the moment that it feels like that people are trying to mold the two and its confusing people.

[@dpcorkill7301]

Just be u

[@neildowjones]

How un-self aware those people that tell you how you must define them have the audacity to tell you how to define yourself…… you know you best pet (apologies if saying pet is cultural appropriation - cancel me now!)

[@youtubemembers40]

I think your lovely x

[@Princejoan27]

I agree with the above comments, you are a cross dresser. 😊

[@riclancaster2604]

I see you as a cross dresser, not Trans. Different issues entirely.

[@justabossymum9804]

Where have you gone d?

[@BeingD2023]

Don't worry I am here. I have just been making the most of weather and getting out I do have a number of video to process and put up. so as soon as I get some free time that will happen

[@justabossymum9804]

@BeingD2023 great ill look forward to it I've missed vids 🙂

[@tvkatieriverside8809]

i see a crossdresser is someone who dresses regular but not all the time a transvestite is someone that dresses all the time but has not had surgery and transexuall someone that dresses all the time and had surgery to alter ther body

[@philpeate6938]

I think your one happy crossdresser.Enjoy life!

[@debrafletcher317]

I don't think you know what you are

[@philpeate6938]

@@debrafletcher317 I'm a happy human being Debra.You have yourself a nice day!

[@Sarah-dw9en]

Isnt crossdresser exactly rhe same as transvestite? Or was the comment refering to transgender or transexual.I mean im pretty open minded with regards to what you do with your own life, as long as you are happy and hurting no one then who am i to judge, I do however think theres too many different words out there meaning different things its confusing, then throw in this identifies as catagory, it really is getting silly! Absolutely no hate here towards you though!

[@emilymccartney1593]

Does your wife know you’re gay?

[@BeingD2023]

I am not gay I am Bi. and my ex knows i dress like this if you had watch some of my early videos you would know this

[@emilymccartney1593]

@@BeingD2023 Well, I haven’t watched your earlier videos.

[@garethdrain1479]

Just why????

[@lindadonaghy2353]

Absolute weirdo!

[@Sarah-dw9en]

Yet here you are!

[@amoltaylor7050]

This comment shows us what you are like, not a likeable person, hurtful and not wanted! go away! Linda!

[@pacberoi]

100%. the hard discs need checked. dodgy dodgy

[@Sarah-dw9en]

@@pacberoi So let me get this right, here you are watching someone who is a cross dresser then telling them they aren't right in the head. You are in denial my friend. Just come out the closet im sure you will be accepted.