10k Subscribers Q&A! Answering Your Most Asked Questions [CC]

[@libbyrussell8278]

I'd be so much less anxious about going to the dentist if my dentist was Claudia and not a very nasal, odious elderly man who always drops things on my face

[@catherinehorn4007]

Libby Russell lmfao 😂😂

[@sophiaeisel2332]

Same

[@casssimons9319]

Dropping things on your face? Lol that's terrible! 😂

[@cassachi9347]

Doc Claudia! Such two pretty lesbians. ❤🇵🇭

[@pivinne5536]

mine is a strict and scary Russian woman who hates my crossbite with a passion

[@elizabethbulfer4530]

"easy access" 😂😂😂 Claudia is going to kill me with laughter one of these days 😂😂😂 Great video! I love the description of the audiology appt 😝 I did know why you wore the hearing aids though... unless you're born missing the nerve (or other part of the ear anatomy) most deaf people can hear at least SOMETHING with a hearing aid. I can totally understand getting offended by the wording of that question. You guys make such awesome q&a videos! Congratulations on 10k subscribers!

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Ha ha, she's so cheeky! I couldn't stop her even if I wanted to 😏

[@nightflight27]

Get me someone who looks at me the way Jessica looks as Claudia 💖💖

[@Cat_tiee]

Omg how lovely they are!! 💘 I kept reminding the vedio just to see Jessica looking at her wife smiling and in love

[@Katherine-ds2ft]

I recently discovered you and subscribed! I'm a 30 year old ME sufferer (diagnosed at 13) and I'm a femme lesbian too! I don't think I've ever known another gay person with ME - I always feel like a have a lot of labels 😂. I really like your channel and your openness about everything - I deal with so much shame and basically stopped socialising because of having to explain myself. You and Claudia are so lovely together! I need to find a wife who will accept me as I am! 😆 😘 xxxx

[@pianobooks42]

The number of labels involved with being disabled in the LGBT community is insane!! It's really hard to deal with sometimes, so I usually laugh it off with corny jokes. ("did you see that?" "no." "oh, OH I'M SORRY" *laughing hysterically*) Usually I just say I'm visually impaired and asexual. But sometimes I'm in the mood to see people get really confused and pull out the full terms like, "Okay, well here's my laundry list. I'm asexual graypanromantic. I'm visually impaired due to optic nerve hypoplasia. I also have anxiety/panic disorder and a mood disorder as well as carpal tunnel and a wheat allergy. And I have a number of other symptoms currently undiagnosed, so that's fun. So do you still want to hang out on Friday?" And, you know, then just continue conversation while they stare in shock and confusion. I do eventually break out into laughter and apologize/explain, but the reactions to this are really funny!

[@LERB423]

I feel you. I discovered this channel recently too. I am gay and deaf, also have Bell's palsy and problems with balance. I don't like labels, but people use them all the time so I stay with those. And I definitely want to find myself a Claudia! haha

[@Katherine-ds2ft]

LERB423 It's nice to know there are people who can relate! that's one of the reasons i love the channel, it makes me feel less alone. 😊

[@-Pridebycreatons-]

Ah you are not the only one! XD

[@forvideosofmil]

27, lesbian, also have ME - we others exist. ;) I feel you on the shame, too.

[@lcmusiclover33]

Jessica's beauty has slayed me all the way back into the womb

[@emmawhitworth1679]

'EASY ACCESS!' cheeky Claud! ;)

[@venusamy9033]

was waiting for that comment ahah

[@TheKindziols]

I think it is so cute that Claudia answers a lot of questions about Jess x obviously know her well :) :)

[@bam111965]

You guys are great! One of my favorite KZbin couples for sure. I hope your channel continues to grow. The world could use a lot more of you both!

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Thank you so much! x

[@lola_dash788]

This is so interesting about your hearing! It's incredible how deaf people can read lips so well. I really admire how positive you've remained although you have some handicaps and the other issues you were born with. It's really inspiring. I love how happy you and Claudia look together and I think it's great you have her. She seems amazing (and so do you!) and I think it's so wonderful to see how supportive and accepting she is :)

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

She's definitely a wonderful wife and really keeps me going 💕

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

@@jessicaoutofthecloset and vice versa !

[@alexhornewer8396]

You’re at 665k subs now! I’m so glad I got to see this channel and y’all’s love grow 🥺

[@antonellabugeja3297]

I've been binge-watching your videos and I love them so much ( I obviously subscribed!) and they have helped with my own scoliosis!! Thanks a lot and love you both :3

[@98284104]

Antonella -Tonelly me too

[@98284104]

Antonella -Tonelly well not the scoliosis part but totally obsessed

[@HannahWehr]

i've been binge watching ALSO!!!!! in LOVE with this content!!!!!

[@deansilverz]

yes! she is so worth binge watching. besides the lovely stuff there is also the knowledge that both of them are sharing (Y) delivery is awesome too.

[@Awesomenessifiedify]

Can I just asked...how has their videos helped with scoliosis haha? Like just coping with it you mean? Like I'm just imagining you watching a couple of videos and then all the sudden your spine is straight hahaha

[@MissTwilightHater]

Q: What happened to your eyes A: My great grandmother lmao

[@BeverleyButterfly]

Hi new subscriber here! It was so nice to get to know you both better in this way! I'm disabled too I just started posting videos and learning to edit much harder than it looks! Your wife explained your hearing so well I totally get it now!

[@emienorin9949]

Thank you for your Q&A! It's nice that you made a list of the questions in the description. You and Claudia are a lovely couple and you two never fail to make me smile :) Congratulations for 10k subscribers, love from Canada

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Thank you and love back to Canada! x

[@cedriclucas3294]

I love how much she smiles when looking at her wife

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

+Cedric Lucas I'm obsessed with my wife ☺️

[@cedriclucas3294]

omg you replied :D I love you!!

[@justcallmecraycray7671]

Iol I just adore your wife comments it's really funny expression early the one that she said about the skirt thing that is my line over here that I have always been seeing since I was a teenager 😂😂

[@bonnie5076]

aw it's been a bit over a year and they've gone from 10k to 311K!! That's amazing! So much support and love to you guys :)

[@CmptrG]

Congrats you two! I'm a new subscriber from the US and I love when the two of you make videos together. Absolutely beautiful! Pls don't stop!

[@haironhishead]

I did transcription and linguistics at university recently a graduate, I'll help transcribe your videos. Do you have business email I can send the completed word documents too?

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Hi lovely, if you're the fab person who sent me the transcript in an email last night then thank you so much! They're being uploaded this morning x

[@haironhishead]

Jessica Kellgren-Hayes I'm afraid not, would never take credit for work I didn't do. But I will be sending one within the week. Glad you're getting the help though! :)

[@chingyiau3840]

Your videos just popped up randomly! But I'm so glad I came across your videos! Such positive energy despite being disabled, truly someone to look up to. Also how lovely Claudia is! And she's half a Malaysian too!

[@melbclayman]

I happened across your channel yesterday and was completely taken by surprise. You (both) have such a natural... almost unguarded way of talking to the camera and sharing and bouncing off one another that it really is captivating to watch. I loved the wedding video and I'm really looking forward to going back through your video history and seeing what you've talked about in the past. I was inspired to investigate Quakerism in Australia and perhaps going to a meeting; I don't know much about Quakers and am keen to learn more. Enjoy the rest of the weekend and thanks so much for sharing your lives with us!

[@MissTwilightHater]

Can't quite bear how cute Claudia is

[@yoyo6227891]

recently discovered your videos, and they're so lovely and fun even though you have disabilities that could easily make you withdraw into yourself. I'm an newly minted amputee that sometimes can find find life a bit difficult. but your positivity makes me believe that it does get better. So, thank you. 😊 and hope you keep doing what you do.

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

You're so welcome 💗 I promise it really does get better and easier to live with. Sending you all of my best wishes! ✨

[@Cherrishish]

I have no idea why but I went on a binge watch of your videos :D maybe it's your lovely personality :) or your humor! You guys are also so cute with Claudia! Going from 10k subscribers in April to 146k at the end of November is amazing! :O

[@timonmyside6591]

Jessica well done on reaching 10,000+ subscribers you clearly put in a lot of effort and your videos are always thoughtful and fun. As Claudia is doing your braces I think she can call herself an orthodartist rather than just your regular dartist. 40s & 50s styles do suit you. Have you tried much from the late 60s? There were some beautiful mid and full length dresses with lovely patterns and colours, even on more formal styles. Many just think hippy but the late 60s was an eclectic mix.

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

I really love 40s and 50s, but sometimes I wear a more 60s look. Check my instagram, I always put details on the description! @jessicaoutofthecloset x

[@Jellybellybean914]

I think you two are lovely. I recently subscribed just days before you hit 25k and now you are at 73k. Can't wait to see your 100k video!

[@gimmizay]

Ughhh your videos give me life! So cute and funny, as well as interesting and thought provoking. please continue! love it! xxx

[@fifthpegasus2403]

I am less than two minutes in and already got educated. Thank you. I always had a preconception that to be considered deaf, any where within human society, meant you had zero ability to hear. I was never made to understand that it is a gradient scale. Different Levels. Thank you for this video. I look forward to the rest of it.

[@estherkoon]

Wow, congratulations for 10k!! I subscribed only a few days ago when you're at 7k+ and your audience is growing so fast! 😄 Super happy for you and now, on to other milestones! ❤️

[@NicoleCoenen]

Congrats!! :D You deserve it!

[@ashley3449]

And now you are at 101K subscribers! How amazing! I think you are so awesome and inspiring!

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

First time seeing Claudia, I thought she might be Maori , native peoples of New Zealand. Pretty no matter the origins come from. Love both their accents, not sure where Claudia's is from in UK. Fun ladies !

[@yumeesc]

I didn't have the heart to go to work when I woke up so I watched this (bec. yeah, you guys lift my mood up😊) and it got worse when I heard "Malaysian" from this video 😅😅. I just got home from a vacation in Malaysia. Congratulations for the 10k!!! 💚💚💚

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Malaysia is awesome! Thank you x

[@brioche8123]

I asked the hearing aid question 🙊sorry. I didn't say "*if* you're deaf" but I did say imply it by saying "but you wear a hearing aid". My apologies

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Aw, that's okay, I understand you weren't being rude- I just get upset with the people who say it maliciously 💗

[@evemadden516]

Jessica, you are an absolutely brilliant person and you deserve every subscriber you have and more. I have no doubt you'll take over youtube in due course :-)

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Thank you! 💕

[@generalign0rance]

Congratulations on 10k subscribers! It's obvious how much hard work you put into every one of your videos so it's definitely well deserved. I'm a fairly new subscriber but have completely fallen in love with your beautiful family. I first found you through your bsl tutorials but have watched and enjoyed a whole variety of your videos. I'm really happy for you that the channel is growing and really excited to see where it's going to go in the future xx

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Thank you so much, it's lovely to know that my hard work shows! Welcome to the channel 💗

[@Nino244]

You: a massive bum Me, an intellectual: a quite large behind *i'm sorry*

[@caseyneill7015]

From 10k to over 650k in 2 years.. So awesome.. I love watching your channel.. Also the sound of your voice is asmr worthy

[@kels_ey490]

I've watched your videos from when you had about 50 followers! congratulations :) and it's good to see another femme couple so thanks for sharing your story x

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Ah thank you so much for sticking around! x

[@UrbEeeNa]

You're both so beautiful. Lovely couple!

[@reneetmp]

I love your videos! You and Claudia make such a cute couple. Cheers from Panama❤

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Wow, love to Panama!

[@carlagianchino8688]

Congratulations on your 13k subscribers milestone, my wife and I really enjoy your videos,very entertaining and informative. Lots of love, spoonies and sunlight all the way from South Africa, Gianchino ladies

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Hi Carla, thank you very much for your comment x

[@gemz2v904]

You guys are the cutest!!!

[@TheTexasgirl1996]

Congratulations on 10k!! 💕

[@kristalmorris7130]

Ps i was very depressed recently but i watch your video and you guys gave me warm fuzzys all over i love your channel you guys an inspiration to us...

[@bloodlacerose1688]

10K ??? You meant 100K right cause you are 119K now. Congratulations you deserve it and more. Have a happy day!!

[@ArcticFalcon]

This video was uploaded when there were still 10k subscribers

[@bloodlacerose1688]

Yes I realize this, it was my way of being funny while congratulating them for a fast rise in subscribers. Have a happy day!!

[@ArcticFalcon]

Oh... sorry for misunderstanding Have a happy day too :)

[@fallensway855]

181,148 now. Amazing channel growth for an amazing women/couple

[@nikavance9453]

You are so amazing. You totally deserve it. :)

[@florence7091]

Well done on hitting 10k! Very well deserved, and I think you'll get more and more as time goes on :) I just came across your channel a few days ago and love you both! You are both so stunning, funny and smart and I must say I love how chilled out Claudia is. Also Tilly is soooo cute

[@agathegathoo8756]

10 suscribers already ?! Omg I suscribed when there were 2k suscribers I'm also hard of hearing and love vintage livestyle so I immediately suscribed to your channel ! I love watching your video, it bring me joy and positive vibes in my daily life 😊 love you 💖

[@IsMiseTerri]

I only found your channel a few days ago, just randomly in my suggestions. I am also a deaf spoonie in conjunction with mental health problems. I have been on a constant binge of your channel since I found it. Although we do not share diagnoses, I have found that we do have a lot of common symptoms, so I have been using your channel to help my partner understand some of the problems I have. Slightly regretting that because I get asked about my 'spoons' about 50 times a day now. lol thanks for making your channel and congrats on a well deserved 10K

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Oh haha sorry about that! And thank you for your nice comment 🌸

[@elisalukasik6334]

Aw! I love your channel and you two are such a beautiful couple!

[@eliseeasley3665]

I love your videos so much, and I always feel so happy after I watch them! Also, both of you are super adorable!

[@leamartin8392]

Wow...from 10k to 70k in 7 months!! You guys are relationship goals ❤

[@squirrel6536]

Wow! I've just come from your newest video about the Besamé makeup and fragrance (and now I want them ALL) and I've just looked at the date on this video. You've gone up almost 150K in less than a year. That is amazing, and you 110% deserve it! Love and luck to the both of you!

[@pianobooks42]

Omg! Your guesswork with voices is the same as my guesswork with text!! Like, nearly exactly! Whenever text is small or far away (...at least for me so that means like not touching my face lol) I almost always guess correctly at what it says by context and the vague shapes I do see (that letter goes below the base line so it could be a p g q or j....). The few times when I've gotten it wrong it's pretty funny! My vision teachers and mobility instructor when I was in school always found this really confusing and couldn't wrap their heads around how I managed to do this so quickly (almost as fast as a sighted person reads text as long as it's good contrast and not too, too far away). And explaining it to anyone other than other's with nearly my same visual acuity (20/180 for me) has lead to some pretty priceless faces :D

[@joannabird]

pianobooks42 I totally understand that! I'm VI too!

[@carolbuzelim]

Omg, the dance part was just adorable

[@kaleidoscopeallie]

You guys are too cute. :D I find the conversations about the hearing interesting. The brain really does just pull out all the stops to piece things together when something becomes damaged. I had wet macular degeneration in my left eye which happily was successfully treated and I regained most of my sight but there is still a small pulsating effect which prevents me from telling the difference from say c and e in small text. I was fascinated during the whole experience by how my brain used other clues to make sense of the visual clues I was receiving (even when the swelling was at it's worst). Likewise, my stepmother who is deaf in one ear constantly 'guesses' about what people are saying and quite effectively. I live in Sweden and when my daughter was younger and they would come to visit she easily communicated with my daughter despite the fact that two entirely different languages were going on. THAT was when I realized just how much of the time she was going off body language and contextual clues. Fascinating stuff.

[@KingofNorway]

Man I love you two!

[@jadelear6515]

I've just been watching through all your videos 😅😂 but congratulations, you deserve 10k and more! 💘

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Thanks Jade! x

[@jadelear6515]

You're more than welcome!! P.s. i'm gonna keep commenting on your videos that you should come to Norwich, until you do 😉 x

[@carlfarmm]

You guys are the cutest thing ever omg

[@sarahgates3135]

You girls have great taste in necklaces!

[@vanillaonmytongue2]

thats weird cause ive always wondered if Claudias malaysian. cause im malaysian and you look like one

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Well spotted! x

[@tmx1994]

heda lexa haha how can you tell tho? She doesn’t sound like one , but she does look a bit Chinese. She could be From China , Taiwan , Hong Kong or Singapore ;p

[@leonfortayne6720]

Im guessing anglo-malay like Keanu Reeves, Ive seen the face structure before on another anglo-malay from south africa. Tell you what....give Claudia to Australia and we will give you Penny Wong (a lesbian lefty politician from Malaysia, fuck shes a gruff bitch)

[@unicorn1876]

YES SAME

[@HOHNancy]

@@tmx1994 I noticed in some of the videos that Claudia did look a bit Chinese, especially in the video they were doing the makeup on each other. 🙂

[@buddeepetto]

Thank you for subtitle it help me learn english and both of you is really cute >

[@TheDaydreamer793]

Thank you for making this. I'm curious though, what are your favorite things about Brighton? I've been there once in the summer and miss it dearly, and I'm just curious what you enjoy about getting to be there year round!

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Oh my gosh, that's certainly a video in itself! Brighton is amazing! I'll have to ruminate and write my list for you...

[@racheljennadelacruz]

You two are too cute. 😍

[@happydayes]

Jessica, your accent's so cool! I love it! 💙

[@SweetAsCookiePie]

My partner is half Chinese-Malaysian half Caucasian (but NZ not British), and sometimes gets mistaken as South American/Spanish at times too!! P.s. recently discovered this channel so I'm just catching up on videos :)

[@elainetaylor6619]

Congrats on 10k You're so Great Together 😀😀😀😀😀

[@lereloleloshakirashakira7710]

The fact that they kiss in almost every video makes me so damn happy I want a relationship like thaat

[@fransiskadevi7038]

You deserve the 10K followers and many more! no wonder Jessica!! You're a nice and beautiful person inside and out. Hope a big success for you 😘😘😘

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Aw, thank you that's so lovely of you 💕

[@fransiskadevi7038]

Jessica you replied my comment!! Since you have now more than 11K followers, I can understand if you can not reply every comment. Therefore thank you for reply in your busy day. I am so happy :)

[@katharinatutor5681]

You really deserve more subscribers! Love your videos!

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Aw thank you x

[@Amesirvine]

I'm not sure if I missed something in another video but you have a care taker or a nurse that helps you? Why would Claudia find you on the floor? I know you mentioned you loose feeling but is that why? It can come on that sudden an often? I had no idea BSL had the same sub languages as ASL because we have SEE and PSE and they use the same signs for the most part it's more the sentence structure and context that changes things if that makes any sense. You two are so cute together! Congratulations on 10K!

[@margaritacruz8418]

Hey guys you should exchange styles, that would be super cute :3 . Thanks for your videos :D

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

That's such a great idea for a video! Love it x

[@deborahcaleb9466]

Omggggg you both are so charming, and as a very, very gay woman I am SO JEALOUS and hope my future wife and I will have the adorable relationship you guys have

[@maaikebouwman1168]

Love Jessica's smile at 12:04, and ya'll are a sweet couple!

[@CharmEng89]

monolid love

[@lunafaraway6397]

Congratulations on 10k!!! :)

[@carliwells8488]

I can't wait for your 100k subscribers video!!!😊😊😊

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Aw, thanks lovely 💗

[@airmaster2933]

congrats jessica😍😍😍😍😍

[@Za3chik]

I'd interested in hearing more about your Quaker background :)

[@SeahorseShimmer]

Love your videos, btw, ASL isn't just on one hand, only the manual alphabet is on one hand. (:

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Ah, I see, thank you! x

[@hazelstritt7848]

Just subscribed!!! I'm super motivated to learn sign language and you are my inspiration! Plus I love your vintage look!! ❤❤❤

[@pguns044]

yayayay congratulations, no one deserves it more xx

[@missjessanpessan]

Congrats on 10k subscriber! I myself recently became a subscriber of yours. Love, a Swedish lesbian ;)

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Thank you! Love back 💗

[@lagiseti]

Jessica, do you ever guess wrong? I do, and people tend to respond pretty aggressively or as if I am crazy. It's demoralising, especially since I'm not sure if it's deafness, my depression (so slower cognition), or lazy inattention.

[@OurWorldOfInsanity]

Congratulations 🎉! woot 10k! you guys deserve so much more!!!!

[@lereloleloshakirashakira7710]

Fun fact: Almost every time I hear the word wife I remember the first time I was taught its meaning. My cousin and I were playing a weird polar bear simulator game on our tablets and she referred to the bear's mate as his "wife" and I was like "what is that" and she explained so then I thought it was exclusively a polar bear wife and when I heard it in textbooks I was so confused lmao

[@98284104]

Almost 12,000 already! Yay!

[@TeeVeeZed123]

Congrats!🎉🎉 Also, easy access under the skirt,👍🏻😆

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

haha 😊

[@chian9032]

Hi I'm from Malaysia and I really like your channel. It's an eye opener for me to people like u and I am in love with u and your wife!!!😍😍😍😍😍LOVEEEEE YOUUUUU

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Love back Malaysian friend! x

[@perrylove13]

We do some ASL with both hands. Also I love you both you both are so beautiful.

[@mossmartinez4820]

You look very beautiful in vintage clothes🤗 And you seem comfortable in them😘. Claudia seems equally as comfortable 😎 in her clothes 🤔 I love Tilly and Walter they are so cute 😍

[@ninayee6361]

Claudia, I knew you were a halfsie! I am too! Chinese/White. People also mistake me for Native American/Mexican all the time lol

[@marljusweety6606]

Im surprised. The explanation of how you "listen"to others and have conversations, it somewhat fits how I cope with conversation with my ADHD. I miss out on bits and pieces and/or forget instantly stuff people say. So I do alot of guessing, based on context and situation. Its really exhausting with people I dont know very well.

[@cemb6321]

Congratulations!!

[@raemouse]

My hearing range is the opposite, I hear the high notes better! I have to ask for female members of staff because I really struggle with low voices... I do the same thing with guessing what people say, I think that's how we learn to cope! I don't realise how much of a difference lip reading makes until someone covers their mouth or it's hidden! Two kids at the school I work at had a conversation six metres away in a swimming pool while one was in the pool behind the wall. I was completely stumped that they could talk to each other in that situation!!

[@kaaaaaak1604]

Yeajj, I was right. There WAS some swedish blood in you ;) I found your channel in a few days ago and had a feeling there was some scandinavian in you. "Kellgren" felt very swedish also :-) / Warm hugs from Sweden!

[@LERB423]

"So I can have easy access" XD Oh man, I need a girl like that hahaha

[@feentje92]

Joining the club at close to 300k 😝 thank you for this beautiful channel

[@keg9097]

Congrats for the 10k!!

[@illusionsfan1]

I recently had an Audiologist appointment myself and I got 100% on the "With lip reading" aspect and 60% with my eyes closed ... this was with her essentially facing me (as I wasn't turned around which I think affects my hearing more since the microphone isn't neccessarily in the right direction then) ... I still need to show my boss the paper so that she understands how much of a HUGE difference looking at me and me looking at a person when they're talking makes with what I pick up on.... The fact that when someone talks to the back of my head or covers their mouth means they're only giving me a 60% chance of understanding them I find is actually quite offensive really (although I fully understand that it's not a total strangers fault if that happens lol) especially when you oftentimes get into grief over it by the "offender". Why didn't you do this or that? etc... I also related when Claudia said she had asked you about when do you feel least trapped in your 'bubble' and alone and you had said dancing because of the loud music no one can hear anyone... I actually agree... It's like finally everyone is at my level and I'm an equal... I'm actually a bartender and there can be like 5 people around conversing and I'll feel lost... but then we'll have like a function of 100 people and everyone is all leaning over the bar to hear you or your coworkers are to hear their customers and you're just totally fine because you can lip read like a boss... (although when people have a few too many drinks they can start saying things in the wrong order etc which doesn't help lol!) I even went to a music festival in March and you literally couldn't hear the person right next to you half the time and it's so funny because they (Hearing) will give you their ear to yell in... and then if they speak to you they come in to your ear and speak and you literally have no idea what they said because you can't see their lips... so a few times I would actually like push (redirect) the person to stand in front of me and speak... because I can lip read WAY better than hear them over the music through my hearing aids lol!