11: Ludmila Woodruff on Attracting Secure Men, Trusting After Heartbreak, & Dating at 40

[@marissamonique7511]

Ladies, we REALLY need to heal, grow, build our confidence and replace our current beliefs about ourselves & dating with NEW ones. You can tell that our host, like many of us has dated from a disempowered mental and emotional place and so many unfortunate things have happened to her that have left her deeply skeptical about love. Rocsi, you too can have what you want in love ❤It takes discipline, humility and new knowledge. We have to remember that we have COMPLETE AGENCY and choice over our lives and in dating. Men pursue us so we get to discern and CHOOSE whom we allow into our world. We also get to protect our hearts by choosing when to walk away. When we don't even know what we want, what our values are or how a man could align with us, we are LOST and we waste our own precious time. We must get clarity and do the courageous work required to get new results. Cheers to healing and growth!🎉

[@thebillionairemerecco]

Wow! Let’s say that backwards, wow!! This Rocsi, was such a phenomenal interview, the best I have seen thusfar. I learned so much, not just about myself, but also human behavior. I truly needed to see this today. Thank you so much! As a man who values relationships, love, trust, loyalty and all the above, this has helped me to understand the other sides of myself and why I place myself on the back burner in order to please others. I can’t wait to see part 2. You’re amazing, keep going! 💪🏽👏🏽🙏🏽

[@Hopeisalive2024]

I really enjoyed the Coach’s perspective and recommendation. At some point one has to understand that the difference between getting what you WANT and avoiding the outcomes you don’t wish to experience comes from self accountability! Not blaming others, not making excuses but taking an honest look at ourselves and doing the courageous work that leads to healing. …Lasting healing that comes from therapy and/or from seeking a relationship with God❤ blessing to all🙏

[@thereviewqueen513]

Great interview. I need to reflect. Men move on quickly while we regroup if we focus on one too soon. This inspired me to list my wants and past feedback to get the relationship I want. Please bring her back!

[@genejohnson3508]

Absolutely wonderful podcast episode!!!! And quite revealing, as well.

[@ashleymolina3673]

Amazing interview. Ludmilla as always I learned a lot, as a proud client I can just say this episode sums uo your work and how you have helped manny of us high achievers. Amazing interview ladies 🎉

[@alb44777]

I love Rocsi’s energy, really everything about her vibe… great interview. From the male point of view I can tell you that overpleasing at times comes across as fake, even though it may be well intended. The biggest problem is often women try to give/push on men what the woman thinks you should have, not what a man TOLD YOU he wanted. When you do that, you are really pleasing yourself more than the man. It’s wasted energy on your part. The other key thing the coach said, at multiple points in the interview, is listen. Too often women talk over men, or try to redirect them to the point or part they want to focus on. Do it too many times and you’ve just taught a man that he can’t have a conversation with you, so what’s the point. As she said regarding women, though it applies to men too, you’re not always right and your way is not the only way to do whatever “it” is. Last thing, Rocsi is 🔥🔥🔥

[@charleswarren3337]

GOD BLESS SISTER ROCSI, THX FOR THT POWERFUL INTERVIEW MUCH NEEDED INFORMATION. PEACE BE ON TO U. BROTHER JIHAD. ALLAHUAKBAR!

[@esherm916]

Amazing interview! Ludmila's perspective is 🤌🏽

[@charleswarren3337]

GOD BLESS ONCE AGAIN SIS ROCSI, HAPPY UPCOMING BIRTHDAY AS WELL HAVE A SAFE BLAST 🎉💐.. ON THE INTERVIEW TODAY ONE OF THE QUESTIONS ASK FOR U WAS WHAT DO U SAY WHEN ONE DOSE A GOOD DEED FOR U, UR ANSWER WAS THX, THT WAS NICE OF YOU, ECT. BUT WHN I OFFERED HELP TO BRING UP SOME OF YOUR EQUIPMENT AFTER WORDS U TOLD ME, U TOLD ME YOUR BE BELSS FOR THIS, MEANING THE ACT OF KINDNESS. THT WAS A LITTLE OVER 2 YEARS AGO. BUT THE KEY 🗝️ WORD WAS BLESSED. PEACE✌️BE ON TO U . BROTHER JIHAD..

[@STOMPTobacco]

40-55 Go Together🔥❤💥💞💫

[@joannewomble2708]

First night date we slept together and was together 17 years and he passed in 2018

[@csauls]

She was great and had good insight...but it would be good to hear the man's perspective on what men think...

[@ludmilawoodruff]

I agree, I always invite men into the conversation. All my male clients express exactly what I shared in the interview and I understand we are all different in our preferences and likings.

[@yusufraage8554]

Hahaha, secure men love old women, hahaha.

[@MrVenom973]

This was really good, Rosci we need to see the male perspective now!

[@MrVenom973]

Great episode! The only thing i really disagreed on was dating multiple ppl at the same time, not only is that exhausting but i wouldn't wanna date someone who was doing the same😂like i understood her reasoning but..naw lol that aint gonna fly

[@thereviewqueen513]

I see your point. I think dating multiple people is fine. She’s not saying 5-6, but 2-3 without sleeping with them seems reasonable. If he ghosts or you don’t like him, you’re not stuck restarting or upset since you weren’t focused on just him for weeks or months without commitment.

[@MrVenom973]

​@thereviewqueen513 No i get it,I'm just saying most ppl wouldn't be cool with it lol well if they actually knew you was doing it anyway, but for me it's just too exhausting, been there done that lol

[@ludmilawoodruff]

@@MrVenom973and that’s ok. It’s not exhausting for my clients. It’s a mindset shift. They enjoy the process. They are doing it with integrity. Imagine you go on 2 dates with someone, and than someone else asks you out. I am not in a relationship with person nr 1 , I go out with person nr 2 . I can understand what I like here and there, where we are aligned on values. Dating is a lot about you as a person. Understanding what matters and what feels safe, joyful and aligned. I am not talking about the hookup culture, I am speaking about decent adults who want to create beautiful relationships. Everything comes down to intention.

[@abiggy2689]

Is that the lady from 106 &park ?