1. Being well groomed. 2. Being well mannered. 3. Physical appearance. 4. Do you make an effort on your appearance / style. 5. Are seeking further knowledge. 6. Being a gentleman. 7. Being kind not nice. 8. Be a good listener. 9. Having self confidence. 10. Have an ability to roll with the punches / up's & down's. 11. Be a man of your word.
@bassmanx3573 жыл бұрын
💯
@alexandro41693 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@phyllishenderson27042 жыл бұрын
Hello Jeff! Excellent list! Love what you are doing here! I would like to agree with the young lady who said that she finds a man who can "articulate" well attractive. Other than that Your original list is excellent.
@rishiyoutube3832 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@avirgingardenista2892 Жыл бұрын
I loathe a man who does not take care of his hygiene and this includes his nails and feet!! The biggest turn off is a guy who walks around with his pants hanging off his behind. 🤮
@JoSJaNae4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if someone mentioned this, but I also think it’s attractive when a man is articulate.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the input Josalyn !
@rodneycummings92314 жыл бұрын
Being articulate is a by-product of gaining more knowledge and education.
@Ms_Sharpie4 жыл бұрын
@Josalyn Loggins Yes, I do as well!
@dpbrown36234 жыл бұрын
Without being pompous!
@Erv7043 жыл бұрын
no doubt
@cme4brain113 жыл бұрын
I am 62 years old and have 4 years post-doctoral education and I find every one of these videos articulate, well-spoken, and informative. They should be shown to all boys in middle and high school, the world would be a better place.
@legioner92 жыл бұрын
True.
@TheBLACKKING25 Жыл бұрын
I agree!
@FemininitywithMommaGail4 жыл бұрын
You hit a homerun with everything you stated we find attractive. Great Job. One of the things a woman find very attractive also, is a gentleman who is aware and can truly and publicly state that he is a gentleman to His lady. Men are usually a perfect gentleman to other women instead of the Queen he is with. Love That. Very Attractive HQOG! Much Respect. Keep Shining Sir!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Will do Gail !
@michaelmartin92704 жыл бұрын
Indeed Queen indeed
@VaronPlateando2 жыл бұрын
… well, it’ll be ladies who may deserve do be treated gentlemanlike - but that begs some qst.n to individually + specifically explore ex ante.
@xi5043 жыл бұрын
More young men need this channel! Once again, Thank you OG style!💯
@Nicktt244 жыл бұрын
OG said he’s been successful with the ladies his whole life. Talk that talk OG!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Ha !
@mrjimmysboys4 жыл бұрын
O.G. Keep preaching the "Grown Man" gospel. We should be passing the collection plate for these gems...Salute!!!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute !
@melvinmckinney91204 жыл бұрын
Great video Jeff. Solid advice. A lot of men don’t realize that women are very observant of us men and are always watching what we say and what we do.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Melvin !
@branflakee42574 жыл бұрын
Ladies and men, drink more water instead of juice or else that breath is gonna be raunchy
@aprylnicoledesign4 жыл бұрын
You’re on point! The eleventh habit is major!! Actions and consistency are very important! Being a gentleman never goes out of style either! Thank you for the video!!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the feedback Apryl !
@dragosavo4 жыл бұрын
You should set boundaries in what you expect and will tolerate from her. For example, she is still friends with an ex and hangs out occasionally with him - even in a group context. Not anymore if she wants to stay in my world. It might ruffle a few feathers but she will see you have standards and that you have respect for yourself. In my experience, it has always has been a positive move. And if she does not like it and won't respect your wishes then better you say goodbye now.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@treyparker37754 жыл бұрын
Preach
@elleslade32514 жыл бұрын
And I hope you live by those words when it comes to your ex. And for goodness sake...I hope you don't address her that way by saying that you will not tolerate something and what you expect. You are not dating your child but hopefully a full grown woman. Please remember your delivery...
@dragosavo4 жыл бұрын
@@elleslade3251 I am always respectful but I am firm in what is acceptable if we are a couple. That goes both ways. If we have no expectations for each other what do we even have?
@thegoat42324 жыл бұрын
Goin through that right now
@rodharris85984 жыл бұрын
Always good to see/hear another man of excellence, speaking wisdom smooth as silk. A renaissance man. Being a black man in this state of mind these days makes you an enigma. They just can't process it, with the manual. Salute!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Rod !
@rasheemthebestfirstone32743 жыл бұрын
💪🏽
@dholmesjr4 жыл бұрын
Solid advice.. Women always pay attention to the small things.. Its very important to stay sharp and well rounded... Salute to you Jeff...
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Donny !
@lizennageorge-wood8363 жыл бұрын
All great qualities, Jeff. I appreciate that my husband says "thank you" for little things. Also a man who prepares and takes action.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
appreciate the feedback!
@johncarter80223 жыл бұрын
Am from Cameroon and am very happy I have leant alot through ur contents what a great human resource ur a great man may God keep intelligent people like u long enough
@donnelladams83623 жыл бұрын
Communication skills is definitely something that I lack in, but I'll definitely keep trying much respect O.G
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Respect!
@diaymae4 жыл бұрын
not seem desperate, anxious. Self assured yet humble enough to accept mistakes. Thanks for the shout out! wot wot keep preaching, you have us tuned in O.G
@Shawntraci4 жыл бұрын
This was nice. I learned all these early on. You spoke on some great points. Being a gentleman never goes out of style. All the traits I have learned I pass have them on to my daughter's, so they can understand and know how a man should treat them. Keep these outstanding videos coming good Sir.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
You know I will Shawn !
@katrinasmith14644 жыл бұрын
Yessss! Jeff you NAILED IT! I love a kind/ sincere man who is a true gentleman at heart not from his lips and his actions line up with his words which equals the TRUTH. This makes a woman to extend herself and reciprocate as to consider his needs as a woman. Thanks for all that you do Jeff. Keep it coming. Be Blessed.
@lastingimpressionsbyevelyn18363 жыл бұрын
Indeed. That pulled me in with my husband. 32 years now.
@itsmejt34 жыл бұрын
Man , nice shirt brother. What brand is it?
@hiphopjewels4 жыл бұрын
From a woman's perspective, I think you were spot on. I especially liked the bits about being a great listener, a gentleman and exuding confidence. Women find all that very sexy. Great content.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Dorsey !
@hiphopjewels4 жыл бұрын
The Style O.G. You’re welcome OG. Your female fans are always here for consultation purposes and feedback. We love the fellas and want you guys to do well with the ladies. Well done! ❤️
@cwash20054 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head on all points OG! Hope the youngbloods will heed this sage advice.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks !
@savvylifestrategies94454 жыл бұрын
Great video, Jeff. Indeed, it may be your most important video. Timeless advice. From a personal perspective, I feel being prepared is essential. I know the word "prepared" is broad. For me it includes having enough money for contingencies, having a "get home" bag in my vehicle, essential "everyday carry" items on my person, and "the means to protect yourself and loved ones." The specifics for the items in quotes will differ from person to person and from situation to situation. The important thing is to decide what it means for you and act on it. Salute!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Great input Lou !
@Michael-nr8ur4 жыл бұрын
Hey Jeff..You're spot on! Thanks for validating what I've been believing since day one. I've got to check out your other videos!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Michael !
@rovercoupe71044 жыл бұрын
Great advice. I am married, but I still need to impress my wife. M.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir !
@ianditwin74434 жыл бұрын
Cool. I hope your wife is also trying to impress you too.
@Nicktt244 жыл бұрын
Rover Coupe - No doubt!
@Nicktt244 жыл бұрын
Luis - For me, its more like I want too, rather than needing too. I feel like my wife deserves the best version of me in every area of my life. And the energy is contagious.
@toddbilleci85634 жыл бұрын
Same-happily married, child grown-here for over-50 men fashion tips. But I watched a few of these and this dude is into elevating people 💯
@Citrussun7554 жыл бұрын
SO GLAD I CAUGHT THIS! Returning to work had me missing your great content!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Catch up !!
@dpbrown36234 жыл бұрын
My man opens doors for me and I love it! But I also let him know how much I appreciate it!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Love it !
@LishaArlene4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing this to the light - these habits are all on my wish list ❤️👍🏼
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
No problem Lisha !
@larod0243 жыл бұрын
I am a retired Latino male who learned lots of what your saying awhile back, but I must say, hearing you just re-assures me along with hitting that refresh button keeps me up to date with life style and manning up to your honey... Thank you I will continue watching/ listening to your how to be cool and interesting to my wife and others.... Garcia’s Amigo
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Louie!
@FaithfullyAri_4 жыл бұрын
The older I get the more I’m attracted to: 1. Men who are in shape 2. Men who are kind 3. Men who are gentlemen and shows chivalry 4. Men who let me rant without interrupting 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Jeff u get it right every time 😌👑
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the input!
@avmidnite3 жыл бұрын
I was knodding my head the whole time. Excellent work!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Andrea!
@elijahselbicky36394 жыл бұрын
Setting boundaries is very important to me. Thanks OG Jeff!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
No problem Elijah!
@horaceowens83683 жыл бұрын
Hi Jeff, you ain’t tripping with your posts. You’re on-point and deliver with matter-of-fact fluency! Salute 👍🏿
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@horaceowens83683 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG I’m already getting a grip on ma wardrobe 😆. Thanks again
@MrAdriancooke2 жыл бұрын
I have always been caught in a vicious circle with the confidence thing because my confidence would derive from women finding me attractive but presumably the reason they don't find me attractive is that I am not confident!
@orangenblue69814 жыл бұрын
Jeff is that buddy every guy needs. Salute!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute !
@lincolnfromct344 жыл бұрын
All your videos are great O.G., but this is one of your best. Love how you encourage decorum and respect for women.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lincoln !
@222333aaaaaa2 жыл бұрын
Jeff is the man.. Just started watching his stuff, and I’m hooked. Dude has swag.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Welcome!
@stevesharief73 жыл бұрын
man...i wish vids like this around about 20 years ago
@nathanmyles37853 жыл бұрын
Facts. Especially for us who grew up in single parent homes or on the streets. I would've been extremely receptive to the type of game as a young man trying to find my way after an underserved childhood
@spectre5x54 жыл бұрын
Great video! I like that blue blazer on top of a light blue shirt. Classic. Salute!!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Shawn !
@tineshiabobbitt624 жыл бұрын
Great video Jeff! Everything you cover is so true.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tineshia!
@weetabix24 жыл бұрын
I could well have missed this as there is sooo much on your channel, but having flicked through a few videos I was wondering if you might do one on timeless styling both formal/informal. For all the material you have, it made me think about what styles would still be relevant to say a video you did a year or so ago. As ever, Salute!!👊🏾🔥
@cameronatkins74964 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the ad placement i straight fell out while you were talking about listening, guess i know what i can work on
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Ha !
@davew88413 жыл бұрын
You're so right that how we treat others is important. After all....it's a make or break quality that I watch out for in every woman that I'm interested in.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@uncleal55174 жыл бұрын
Thank you OG for the sermon you preached that word for the HABITS WOMEN FIND ATTRACTIVE. PEACE AND BLESSINGS OG.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Blessings!
@astheticgirl46844 жыл бұрын
Another banger O.G. SALUTE!!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Maurice !
@duanerobinson9354 жыл бұрын
Floss!! Helps with the breath. Good dental hygiene is a sign of self care.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Truth !
@temibobo61474 жыл бұрын
Another invaluable video...I can testify bro...making the effort surely counts!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Temi !
@michaelmoreno95224 жыл бұрын
Great video OG! I've already been someone who embodies all of these and has been successful with the ladies. But this is great advice for these young boys out here, especially some of the things that are not so popular these days i.e. being a gentleman. Great stuff! I hope to instill these same qualities in my son when I have one.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you Michael!
@sincitydude314 жыл бұрын
I disagree that being nice works. Definitely didn’t for me in my younger years. Briefly dated a chick some years back that told me that she had caught her ex cheating on her. And I’m talking literally walked in on it! Him and the other chick straight up nekkid beating cheeks! Sometime later just when I thought things were going well she broke it to me that she decided to work it out with her ex. Yep, the same dude she caught! She felt like they had too much history and she wanted to try to work it out with him. I was speechless! That was the day when I quit being nice and it has worked out for the best honestly. Besides that, I agree with the rest.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
I said be kind not nice, there is a difference..
@OnlyUknow24 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG What's the difference?
@jmorgan08294 жыл бұрын
❤❤💯 great job.. good details
@MidnightWanderer4 жыл бұрын
How you treat others around you. Great advice. I keep telling my 2nd cousins and nephews this all the time. Especially while dating someone you're with. Ladies, the same scrutiny applies to you as well. I'm ALWAYS wary of a woman that is nice to me, but hella nasty to others around her...including how she acts in public or says in private. It's just bad character if you're like that...and a HUGE turnoff. 🤨
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Indeed !
@clifftonfrederick67734 жыл бұрын
Speak that shit O.G. SALUTE!!!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Clifton !
@BAYKING_3163 жыл бұрын
This channel is amazing. Thanks heaps Style O.G.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate that!
@bmuhamad2 жыл бұрын
Great grooming and manners, almost everything. Thanks brother.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
You bet!
@Judah984 жыл бұрын
You are not lying about the clothing! I can have on the most simple outfit and ladies will tell me in a minute I look nice.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir !
@mikeandmars23454 жыл бұрын
I get told that to if u.now how match and were the right outfits at the time u are good
@lastingimpressionsbyevelyn18363 жыл бұрын
@@mikeandmars2345 we also pay attention to how men write and spell😉
@WilliamLious4 жыл бұрын
Although high heels could make you a bit taller; the pocket square seem a bit formally configured for your open shirt.
@aunt-teainthecity16824 жыл бұрын
Personal Hygiene, A clean 🚗 car/ vehicle, & A CLEAN HOUSE/APT. .... If the inside isn’t clean or the bathroom is 🤢 Nasty then I just know that it’s our last date!!! ... NASTY HOUSE= HE CANNOT TOUCH ME OR EVEN HOLD MY 🤚🏾 HAND!!!! It’s a WRAP🚫.... I AM VERY DETAIL ORIENTED N THIS IS A NON- NEGOTIABLE FOR ME SYLE OG/ SALUTE💯
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the input!
@glenngray68594 жыл бұрын
What's up my bro Og. Great advice video my G. Myself and your brother out here love hearing your words of wisdom. Salute my friend.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Glenn !
@michaelanderson59754 жыл бұрын
Great presentation very informative and to the point a lot of your suggestions are instilled in me because I was raised by a southern woman keep up the good work we're watching LOL God bless I was thinking as I was watching you maybe you should show your bloopers because you're always so studious just a suggestion keep up the good work
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Considering a blooper reel !
@stevewise16564 жыл бұрын
Also, think about whether you like the woman and the way she’s treating you as well. Keep your eyes and ears open. What do you like or need in a women. Be a decent human being and you’ll meet the right woman who’ll appreciate you.
@thepump22714 жыл бұрын
Great points especially being a gentleman every women loves it when she is fussed over. The ladies are always going to notice the guy who treats others right.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Indeed !
@BlackLitGeek4 жыл бұрын
Jeff the Style OG Broke another one down! Good Lookin' OG!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute BT!
@janiceszwast67253 жыл бұрын
Great video, especially the point about self confidence.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Janice !
@MrHydevsDrJekyll2 жыл бұрын
As a high value man, leveled up, super fit, successful, confident. What does a women bring into my life… Nothing except a fun night
@radcliffbillinghurst52784 жыл бұрын
I feel more confident after watching this because it's right on Point 👍🏾
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@Londa.G4 жыл бұрын
I find punctuality attractive. Be on time! I also find it attractive when a man has a pet that he cares for. Also, I find selflessness attractive. I definitely agree with you.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the input!
@cliftonsledge9624 жыл бұрын
All facts O.G. I’m glad I can put my 2 cents in. 🤣 Salute Salute
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Clifton!
@mikechaffee43313 жыл бұрын
Edit suggestion at 9:24. Use "we guys have" instead of "us guys have." Only thing keeping this video from perfection! Terrific!
@vadude7574 жыл бұрын
Jewels dropped as usual. Salutations from Virginia. 👊🏿👊🏿
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute !
@egansegal34764 жыл бұрын
Love the Scarface reference OG!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir !
@edw72014 жыл бұрын
Hitch at work again. Lol. 🙌🏽
@ToneTone-4 жыл бұрын
Good game bro. You always come with the real spit! Keep it up 👍🏾
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Will do Tone !
@Citrussun7554 жыл бұрын
JEFF YOU ARE SPOT ON AS USUAL!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the feedback Monica ! I
@westfieldartworks81884 жыл бұрын
Of all the guys I knew, and there were three in particular, who were the most successful with women, seemed to come in right around 5, 8" inches in height. Just reading a few articles on height/attractiveness, and all the latest research data shows that women find men who are around the 5, 8" mark to be the most attractive, generally speaking. 5, 5" was seen as an ideal height for women, which does NOT surprise me at all. Salute
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute Anthony !
@coquitodulce49613 жыл бұрын
Yes! Great advice! Please spend time on your mouth hygiene. Also be humble. Most of the time I don’t care how attractive you are, but if you’re humble, clean, smart and fair you are winner in my book.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the input!
@cashmerefunk21364 жыл бұрын
Just passing Thur always on point fellas clean your bathroom always
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
My man !
@cashmerefunk21364 жыл бұрын
@Blessed Rivers & Streams hey mama how are you doin .
@Larry-qz3es4 жыл бұрын
Being sapiosexual with a sense of wit. Knowing when to dress for the occasion and how well it fits. Taking a stand against something and knowing to take a step back. One can be kind but never too nice. Seeing there are things a man can not change but improve his outlook (I am 5'5 tall ) and being confident, never cocky.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Great input Larry !
@robertcachia64844 жыл бұрын
Agreed, listening skills are very important with the ladies and initiating the conversation doesn't hurt either.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Truth !
@Kohbruh4 жыл бұрын
Aye, you dropped jewels on this one. Put these in your crown, fellas.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Salute !
@bkvibe23534 жыл бұрын
The anatomy of a well rounded man... thanks Jeff!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
No problem !
@KJ408ESSJ3 жыл бұрын
Why doesn’t the STYLE OG have at 1 million subscribers. Come on fellas, ladies too. Hit that subscribe button!!! SALUTE
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
appreciate you!
@damianlopez76302 жыл бұрын
@The Style O.G. You Are Awesome!!! Thank You. Peace.
@mjwooten60224 жыл бұрын
appreciate the game brother God bless!
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Blessings !
@charlesprice72954 жыл бұрын
You are the Man Good Sir....wow...I really really enjoy your videos...keep them coming and God Bless
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Charles!
@anthonyjacksonjr48122 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Very informative. 👍🏾
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@tharanmanning78683 жыл бұрын
I got compliments on my skin.
@lennonmoore28474 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jeff! Appreciate you!
@GeraldThomasphotojunkie2 жыл бұрын
Preach it Jeff!
@markdaniels50863 жыл бұрын
The shirts.... How you get the collars so perfect!
@kareemroberts36984 жыл бұрын
Making sense Jeff.... there are a few I did fall off..... I am going to watch this again
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
My man !
@Juli-n-David2 жыл бұрын
I have no style I feel like..how would I upgrade myself to obtain better style ?
@CKT12494 жыл бұрын
Thank You again Style O.G. for another informational video for this will helps Me in My life for like the other video Eye watched before this one.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@dennislee48683 жыл бұрын
Brotha you are on point the knowledge you spit l appreciate thanx. If anyone wants the knowledge. Take to the O. Peace!!!!
@Megacorn224 жыл бұрын
This is me too a tee. I catch a lot of looks and smiles from women. Feels like the definition of a gentleman has changed these days
@ntk7894 жыл бұрын
OG 5'10 is not considered short.
@definitelydoing4 жыл бұрын
In my family it is, I'm damn near the shortest person at every family gathering 😭
@munoken4 жыл бұрын
@@definitelydoing it's not size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of fight in the dog.
@abbasalkawiz22284 жыл бұрын
Fashion industry has made most clothing sizes fit for average stature folks.
@raymeester78834 жыл бұрын
True.
@cuthbertwchance90454 жыл бұрын
YES Jeff looking Good, feeling Good, Style with right outfit, and being Gentleman, HooYah always BIG Bro.
@TheStyleOG4 жыл бұрын
My man Cuthbert!
@dredrob2 жыл бұрын
This is like having that cool wise uncle everyone wants, ON DEMAND!!! “Hey Uncle So and So, what about this??”
@vr6aaron4 жыл бұрын
Solid advice .. I look forward to your videos for refreshers