10 Best Things To Talk About On A First Date

In this video, Jeff from The Style O.G. discusses the 10 best things men should talk about on a first date.
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[@MistahUnknown]

Ask about where she's from. Ask about where she grew up. Ask about he favorite movie/tv show. Ask about what she is passionate about. Ask about her favorite places to go/travel. Ask about what she would do if she were to hit the Powerball jackpot (leads to many follow-up questions) Ask her what is on her bucket list. (It's a cheat code topic to keep the convo going) Do not talk about: -Your ex -Money -Politics -religion

[@Spider2083]

Definitely not politics 🙄

[@justkay233]

but what if you're both religious lol

[@Spider2083]

@@justkay233 Don’t do it lol

[@carlathompson9308]

Or how you haven't had sex in years . A guy actually did whine about that on our first date:/

[@audendelft1115]

I already putted in the notes 📝🤣

[@glenndixon6761]

You are never too old to date. Reading, exercise, faith, travel, learn something new. Never sit down and retire. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Right on!

[@pauljaikaran9790]

A decent way to talk about " Ex" ...." Great girl but didn't workout "...now that's a Man with good standards. Another great video brother Jeff....Salute!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Paul!

[@thetherapeuticcoacht.7260]

This!!! I once was on a date and he talked about himself the whole time... he asked me one question but turned the conversation back to him. He wanted another date but I declined and respectfully told him why. I’m a good conversationalist but not showing interest in me is a major turn off. Another great video sir! Thank you! I may start sending my dates to your page! Lol

[@lilithdemonia74]

Ya heard!! I'm already sending guys I know to this page. Jeff is a natural.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the feedback! and the sharing

[@johnlombardo7816]

Thanks for the input.. I mean hopefully most men don't do this.. haha but I can imagine sometimes we'd get on a roll about something and talk too long. I get that.. definitely something I will be self aware of on my first date!! ❤️

[@thetherapeuticcoacht.7260]

@@johnlombardo7816 yes there is a difference in nervous chatter or just being comfortable sharing but to not show interest in the woman you’re spending time with by at least by asking a little about her- will narrow chances on getting a 2nd date. I believe in you John! You can make it a wonderful 1st date!😊

[@johnlombardo7816]

@thetherapeuticcoacht.7260 thank you! I have been texting with her too on and off and it's going better than I could have imagined so far.. I know I'll do fine as well, just very nervous since it's my first date in 15 years ! Appreciate your guidance!

[@ac5875]

I'll probably never go on another first date ever again but gotta watch the video and give a thumbs up 👍👌👏

[@TheStyleOG]

My man!

[@OSoloJr]

But you can

[@devo3333]

Beta comment delete this bro

[@shaggyterrell8460]

@@devo3333 You have no idea the hardships another man has gone through sir, you should try and boost your fellow men up, which is why your comment is the real beta comment.

[@Halo-lg7rq]

@@devo3333 nah like marriage, never on a first date cuz he is in a relationship

[@rageraptor7127]

Remember when you meet her you need to establish that connection 1: give her a proper hug and greeting (establishes physical connection and makes it less awkward going forward) 2: when eating or talking look her in the eyes and sit next to her. Not across from her. (Sets the tone of proximity between you two and makes it easier to make a move) 3: gather info. Don’t spill it. Answer only what you need to and just let her talk. Then end the date slightly after or before the most climatic part. Don’t let it linger. Keep her wanting more of you. But also make sure the date is planned. Ahead of time and that hints were dropped before hand on what you were going to be doing on said date. I date with no direction isn’t a date. It’s a greeting. As a man your in charge of guiding the conversation because women typically have no game. But they sure as hell expect you to have it.

[@johnlombardo7816]

Thanks!

[@Mb_Drei]

Seems like we have a fellow Matthew Hussey fan here!

[@johnlombardo7816]

@@Mb_Drei who's that?

[@nwokpororowland4216]

Wow. You should start your youtube page too, very insightful

[@rageraptor7127]

@@nwokpororowland4216 I wish I could I’m outta time now a days I’m super busy now lol

[@oldirtjay]

So, I can’t tell her I speak fluent Klingon on the first date ?😂 seriously , I feel you on this one. My wife and I had a great first date and we just talked about what we did in our spare time.... salute✊🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@mrsincere7]

Also, I hate interviews and asking questions, just to get someone to reciprocate conversation. It seems too much like interrogating someone. Especially when you have someone who doesnt reciprocate in kind. I would want a person who is interested in me, to express interest on their own. Not because I prompted them to talk by asking them questions. Sometimes people get individuals that will answer questions being asked, but when it's their turn to initiate getting to know about the other person, they are mute/nonproactive. So the person who is the initiator, has to manage both sides of the conversation. Like volunteering to tell the mute/non proactive person about themselves, and answering the same questions that they just asked the mute/non proactive person. That is a common reality. In my case it happened with some women I was trying to get to know. Another variation of this problem is, dealing with certain women that are only good conversationalists when they are talking about themselves. A lot of comedians have joked about this when it comes to some women. And as long as the man is showing interest, the woman actually believes she is having a two way conversation. She actually thinks the guy is a great conversationalist, and easy to talk to. LOL

[@jaye3537]

Style OG, I would just like to take this time to let you know that you are a great epitome of a "man" in a time when the line between what is manly and what is not is often blurred. Great job my brother, keep representing!

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@whereistheaccountability7353]

Good points as always OG. Other points are to be truthful, don't build a character who you are not and don't commit to anything other than another date. Women remember all promises made , no matter how small. Be consistent.

[@danielengel4593]

First Date in 2 hours, last time I literally wrecked my nerves till it hurts, and it was a disaster, watched so many videos, my brain was fucked up. This time I just watched this one videos of yours, lets hope I've learned something from the last date and your input. It all sounded very nice and I hope some of your input will pop into my mind while we sit there and learn to know each other :) Thank you!

[@hellihello2333]

How did it go?

[@walistambo7323]

bro prolly had a stroke and died

[@MistahUnknown]

@Daniel Engel How did it go?

[@danielengel4593]

@@MistahUnknown It was a nice time, but there was not another date.

[@jeffreycicero6685]

Why no second date, I wanna know, was it dead spots in the convo or did you choke on some words or what..I'm going on a first date in over 22 years, help me out here....please

[@smatlanta1]

Awesome real-world help. I like how you went into detail about WHY each idea works (or doesn't work) rather than just superficially give some tired list. I heard so many people lately "teach" NOT to ask cliche questions like "where are you from", movies, hit the lottery, etc. So thank you for explaining WHY these topics are always great.

[@TheStyleOG]

You got it Steve!

[@BighomieKSB]

@@TheStyleOG my guy thanks. I thought I had all the answers and game but you sharping my sword on this one

[@user-de6tr1lh4t]

Thanks….good stuff

[@jeancarbone209]

Good, simple, straightforward advice.

[@thegroove2000]

You got a keeper if she watches the style OG. SALUTE.

[@louiscyfer6944]

not at all. she'll know all your tricks and tactics. if she watches style og, you have to cut her loose

[@AEdavirgin]

Nah, that's a double agent.

[@nikkis21]

@@louiscyfer6944 🤣🤣 I watch occasionally. No tricks. Im aware understand my values and desires.

[@louiscyfer6944]

@@nikkis21 i am talking about the guys' tricks.

[@meme-zv7kw]

Thanks for posting this video appreciate you bro

[@abubakrsalim9622]

Great topic and content you really knocked this one out the park OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that!

[@briangrant8644]

Great video! My oldest brother told me when was a teenager. "Be a good listener! Women love a good listener" No other thing I don't bring up on a 1st date is Sex! If she does fine but don't You do it.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed!

[@hump1953]

I really liked this video! Thank you..!

[@tineshiabobbitt62]

Great video Jeff I love a guy that can make me laugh as well as have a great conversation. I agree coffee dates are great!

[@isabellegiorgis2975]

Excellent advices!!!! You are amazing!!!!

[@tomcaldwell5750]

Thanks, Jeff. Very helpful. I will take action.

[@murkcash]

Great video. Two killers to never talk about on first dates are money 💰 and sex. Those are just no no because it is a most likely a turn off for men asking about his money and a turn off for women asking her about sex.

[@laurajones1211]

Enjoyed and learned some things! Liked the man planning the date and taking the lead. Also, like the questions which open up conversation to learn about each other! Set a positive stage to move forward🙂 Thanks so much!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@ilovej0e]

I really like these conversation topics! They seem like a good way to get t know someone without making the first date seem like an interrogation. Although, I don’t currently have the answers to all of the questions this video gives me some easy questions to think about in case someone asks. Thank you!

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@dr.garynelson4687]

Great info as always, OG. SALUTE!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Doc!

[@macs.gone.fishin]

Thanks for the tips! This was exactly the video I was looking for!

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@TreyD_zzy]

Hey big fan, I listen to you all the time. And use a lot of the things you talk about. I noticed that you said no concerts or amusement parks, it’s funny because I was just having this conversation with a few women about 2 days ago. And they were telling me that, I’m not sure if this falls into the same category as concerts and amusement parks but they were saying that they’d like or think a good first date would be bowling or something fun along those lines. They said that they would rather do something fun and they would like the competitiveness of the date. Like I said, I love what you do, it’s helped me a lot and I appreciate you brother!

[@alfacentauri3686]

Practice dating so you get comfortable before you do some real dating. You can even practice on some male college. Just to get to know him deeper. These are actually great advices for growing any deeper relationships.

[@Mr.MallyMall]

This just might be my favorite video of yours. This video gets an A+ for sure. Great job on this one.

[@TheStyleOG]

Wow, thanks!

[@Mr.MallyMall]

@M T I don't know of any.

[@rachealracheal7999]

the real shows

[@bryanedwardpope3979]

Great ideas! Thanks.

[@TheStyleOG]

You are so welcome!

[@_thomas1031]

Enjoying these practical advice vids, Mate👏👏👏

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you like them!

[@spencerhulcy727]

Anyone else watching this a couple hour before the first date they've had in years? 😅

[@butlermj76]

Great video as always. I just put my son on to this channel. I'm 45 and still learn things from your vids. Keep it up bro!

[@TheStyleOG]

Will do Matt!

[@earlvsmichael]

Timing on this for me is impeccable as I’m heading on a first in less than an hour. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏿

[@bjbrown54321]

O.G this is a really good video with great advice. Much appreciated my man.. Keep em coming!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks! Will do!

[@kenoe21]

Great topic and ideas. Keep up with the greats videos.

[@TheStyleOG]

More to come!

[@rvtvtherippermanvaleriushow]

I learned new things today. Thanks Style O.G. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad to hear it!

[@StarlightSGs]

I appreciate you and your work OG. You probably don't get it often but I would like to give you your flowers 💐 while you can still smell them.

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@donpucky2815]

Interesting first date topics indeed. Hobbies could be one too. Thanks O.G.!

[@TheStyleOG]

Right on!

[@janzvolsky6178]

So far the best advice I've heard.

[@pierregeorge9050]

Hello Jeff, I see you rocking that pocket square. Nice. I needed this info 25 yrs ago. But for me the most important we’re things not to talk about. Ex’s religion and politics, money. My go to are music, sports and movies. Salute to the family.

[@TheStyleOG]

I like it Pierre!

[@vm53506]

Your videos are the stuff of legend.... Cheers!!!

[@HARDBODYRONNIE]

I’m a well seasoned brotha and I have great success with women so this guy’s tips and advice aren’t really needed on my end but I’m SO GLAD that his page exist. Between Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit and bums whose whole purpose is to teach young men how to be fake alpha jerks to women. This brotha is trying to help decent guys find and successfully date decent women. It’s better for society that young men watch this page instead of the others.

[@mahammadoutunkara6430]

Thank you

[@dearickslife1257]

Dope this really help

[@AceeSoul]

Good stuff bro. And thank you for turning me on to the Chelsea boots, just ordered a pair

[@TheStyleOG]

Any time!

[@TonyTony-tk4qf]

Excellent advice, salute

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Tony!

[@gsxawd981]

In front of the waiter I ask her “2 tabs right?”

[@Chris-hz3bt]

Lmao!!!!! Good one!

[@bartenderzzz]

😂😂😂 I bartend. It happens often.

[@nikkis21]

Smh...

[@stefanurquelle7736]

If she can fill out a job application and go to an interview, she can at least pay her own tab.

[@Chris-hz3bt]

@@stefanurquelle7736 Facts!!

[@mde8682]

First dates I just make fun of myself and go back and forth with questions and the jokes alone will tell you If the person is comfortable with you and just go from there.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input Marquis!

[@felipea1844]

I think self-deprecating humor is a valuable technique. It doesn't come natural to me. Hopefully I will emprove with age. 🙂✝️🇺🇸

[@nikkis21]

Bingo!!! You got it.

[@rhepungus3657]

I like to watch stand up comedy before you get myself in a playful mood. That carries into the conversation. Plus I go in with the thought that I really don't care the outcome. I'm going to have fun. If they want to tag along, Great. If not, they probably never will, so it's best to not see them again anyway...

[@rickybushy]

Listened to this on way to a date and it went amazing she digs me and I her. Liked and subscribed 🙌

[@caenterprisellc6922]

The point I made a million times!!!! This is why it's important to meet in-person.

[@morrismontgomery2386]

Great job OG, wish I knew this way back when. My Son will definitely be getting this video. SALUTE!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Morris!

[@essentialistlifestyle2048]

Jeff as always you are a pure genius 🙌🏻 I really love the trailer I was in downtown Philadelphia In J.Crew talking about you Purchased a lot of stuff there because of you also. I am a subscriber for life

[@TheStyleOG]

That is awesome!

[@stevenschembri1288]

Brilliant video! Excellent tips.

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@RivalHades-mk1xl]

going on my first date on sunday. Excited!

[@awthentik3310]

I love the collars on your shirts. They’re so crispy and symmetrical. What brand are your shirts?

[@TheStyleOG]

made to measure Apposta

[@jayfrankcastle9203]

Much to catch up, but always great content O.G....SALUTE!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@TrojanMars1]

What a GREAT video, my G! Major Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that!

[@stevenwells5069]

That nostalgic look in your eyes, talking about your ex! 😂😂😂😂😂 Jeff you have the BEST content/advice!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks so much!!

[@nikkis21]

Don’t do it. Lol

[@roberthenderson9363]

First date 101 right here. Good stuff Bro!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!!

[@A.R.DaVision]

I'm glad I found you man. I gotta date tn kinda nervous lol but you kinda helped alot wit what I should or shouldn't do man. I hope it goes great. I hope i can memorize the topics you made and make them flow naturally

[@lukegravity3911]

How was it

[@cliftonsledge962]

Nice blazer it’s looks good on you O.G. Great advice and salute 👍🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that!

[@clesser87]

Great video Jeff you are the MAN Salute!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that Chris!

[@Chris-hz3bt]

Good video Jeff!! My first dates especially living in Southern California is always a hike. You're not breaking the bank plus you can find out if she is in shape.

[@TheStyleOG]

Good call!

[@luckyjinxer]

That might be a little uncomfortable if it's a first date... going in the woods with a stranger is like the start to a horror movie. But maybe a walk in the park?

[@Chris-hz3bt]

@@luckyjinxer here in Cali in the day time there are hundreds of people hiking especially on popular trails.

[@luckyjinxer]

@@Chris-hz3bt that's a point, I'm east coast, lol.

[@Chris-hz3bt]

@@luckyjinxer hahaha yes the way you said woods i was thinking east coast! First thing i thought was Pennsylvania and The Poconos!!

[@CultureCrossed64]

Good tips!

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you think so!

[@ernestcarter7073]

Great video Jeff! Great advice on the things not to talk about on the first day! Those are Buzz killer. Keep it up good work bro!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Ernest!

[@ernestcarter7073]

@@TheStyleOG you're welcome

[@timoates501]

Big salute OG!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Tim!

[@lungujdavid4606]

Helpful video! In the case of the first date being successful, upon parting way what must be done? (I mean action-oriented). 'Cause I remember having a first date with someone then in the end just said good night to her and we parted way I wasn't emotionally intelligent😒, which left things akward.

[@gir489returns2]

You look like my 5th grade PE teacher who I always used to ask for advice and so I clicked the video. Was not disappointed. Thanks Mr. Jackson’s doppelgänger. 😊

[@BuildingCenter]

This is also relevant for TEFL/TESOL conversation teachers. Word, fam.

[@TheStyleOG]

did not think of that!

[@mackclemons9145]

Always good OG! Always

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Mack!

[@life-is-here]

This video is great for anyone who's nervous about first dates - it provides helpful tips on what to talk about to make the date enjoyable and productive.

[@nikkis21]

All that’s great but make me laugh and make me smile... real real simple.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input Nikki!

[@paulv1973]

Ugh I failed big time on my first date with a girl a couple of weeks ago. It was my first date in 20 years so i was completely nervous, did most of the talking, and told her all about myself. She asked if i wanted to go hang out with her friends afterwards at least. I am surprised she agreed to a second date.

[@Heidelmann]

Did you overcome the accidental overshare? How's it going after the 2nd date?

[@carlosT3000]

How was the second date?

[@user-cp3kp5fs2k]

Lol😅 chill bra

[@mujtabamurtazazada9587]

Obviously before we ask someone out, we know them a little. It’s better to talk about things she is interested, find mutual passions and get the conversation going this way we could enjoy our time together, have fun and have a good time 🤷🏻.

[@liquidsleepgames3661]

Not always. I did a spur of a moment do you wanna go out this evening (she did a I guess I'm gonna go home and be alone again. Comment) she said yes. We are going out again this Friday.

[@jamescompton5977]

You put me up on game with tailoring denim jeans. Thank you my brother!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Any time!

[@jamescompton5977]

I'm new to your channel. I must say I enjoy your wardrobe selections as well as the shoes once again thank you for putting the tip out there about tailoring denim jeans

[@jamescompton5977]

I lost so much that I thought I had to throw out my 40 30 Jean's. Then u came along lol

[@anthonyjacksonjr4812]

Life gems for sure. 👌🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@donalddavenport7136]

what's up Jeff how are you doing.just wanted to let you know that you are a beast in this game and you speak the truth.keep up the great advise and as always SALUTE

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Donald!

[@rianaandriamaharo4359]

I failed my last first date 5 months ago … I will date another girl in a few hours, hope this one will work out thanks to your video!

[@MistahUnknown]

@Riana Andriamaharo How did that recent first date go?

[@rachealracheal7999]

thanks for your good content.. would u start up one realitic dating site coz the ones that we know are not real..

[@aj4377]

Great video. Often times in the Red Pill spaces they emphasize so much on money, looks, and status. However, they forget that a good personality and good conversation is needed to compliment that stuff

[@TheStyleOG]

Great point!

[@stevengerrard6711]

Awesome tips brother Continue the great work 👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Steven!

[@eastcoastnews9529]

Ty for your service MR old G . But mannnn u not old ✊🏻much love and respect 🙏🏻

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@butlermj76]

Pretty sure the O in O.G. stands for Original, not Old

[@theDapperVault]

OG spittin' facts!

[@TheStyleOG]

I try!

[@yoniboboshov500]

I went on a date with a girl and after when I asked her out for a second date (we both mentioned how we had a great time in the first date) she told me that “I didn’t sweep her off her feet” and subsequently called it off. I was just trying to get to know her

[@Victorfeshley]

Salute O.G!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Victor!

[@Texas_Made91]

OG you are far better than Kevein Samuel and Verb. It’s obvious those men are hurting inside, but I appreciate your authenticity.

[@jmorgan0829]

Great Advice bro !❤

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Sis!

[@Manlikebenj]

OG out here singlehandedly saving 2021

[@TheStyleOG]

Kind words indeed

[@nerdbamarich2063]

Thank you OG

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem Rich!

[@glenngray6859]

What’s up my bro Og. Dr. Og in the house, great tips for the single guy. Salute my friend

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute my friend!

[@prestonmcleod1726]

Man!! I wish your channel was around back when I 1st got into the game.

[@brianforte9113]

Good job

[@BQ900]

Just wanted to see what the men were told. Excellent video to be advising my sons as a widow, I have to advise them. ❤ Good job!

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@WarHero373]

Awesome video boss! Salute

[@blaed011]

Love that jacket! How did you fold that pocket square? Make a video on that...

[@user-et9bb1kb1k]

thank you

[@TheStyleOG]

You're welcome

[@m_jay5]

I'm going the old school approach so I don't waste my time, I want to know if I'm making it to a 2nd date immediately. Difficult topics like children, politics, religion, money, etc. come to mind just saying. I'm in my 30s now and casual dating is not an option for me!

[@SoulTouchathePoet]

Good stuff.

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@SoulTouchathePoet]

No doubt. Always dropping gems. But my question is, how would one go about getting you on their podcast

[@KispylikeKreme]

The Style Og dropped another banger

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@Keiphton27]

Thanks Style OG….I owe you one. First date in 20 years man and the nerves are working a bit. This helped calm me down….good looking out!

[@TheStyleOG]

Nice!

[@Keiphton27]

@@TheStyleOG Crushed it thanks to the help of great informers like yourself sir.....I'll be spreading the good word that this is advice central. Thanks again and have a Happy Holidays....Cheers!