11 Reactive Dog Training Hacks: Walking a Dog Who Barks & Lunges

It's been over 6 months since we released our first video on what NOT do with a reactive dog when I began working with Remy on his reactivity (see video here: • 5 Things NOT To Do Wit... ).
Now we finally have an update, bringing you 11 reactive dog training "hacks" that will help you fine-tune your training.
Remy has made tremendous strides since our initial reactivity video. Remy can now engage and disengage from canine triggers from across the street. Our walks have gotten a lot more relaxing since we've been practicing refocusing Remy's attention on me, along with plenty of distance to keep him below his threshold.
Remy's reactivity isn't "cured" - it's something we continue to work on. But his progress has inspired me and made all our effort worthwhile.
11 Reactive Dog Training Hacks:
00:29 Neighborhood Switch
03:47 More Challenging Environments Means Better Treats
05:54 Frequency of Treat Dispensing
06:32 Knowing Your Dog's Triggers
07:36 Learning Dog Body Language
08:25 Trigger Stacking - How Many Spoons Does Your Dog Have?
10:14 What Positioning Works For Your Dog?
10:49 Avoid Tension On the Leash
12:37 Use Your Body
13:20 Stay Calm (But Engaged)
14:28 How Has Remy Improved?
15:30 Accepting Your Reactive Dog As They Are
Resources mentioned in this video:
Dog Body Language 101 - www.k9ofmine.com/dog-body-lan...
How to Find a Good Dog Trainer - www.k9ofmine.com/choosing-goo...
Other resources for training a reactive dog safely with positive reinforcement:
Reactive & Aggressive Dog Community FB Group (no affiliation)- / reactiveaggressivedog
Reactivity Trigger Tracker: www.subscribepage.com/reactiv...
K9 of Mine's Leash Reactive Dogs Article: www.k9ofmine.com/leash-reacti...

[@amyjones9428]

You have no idea how much I needed this video. It made me feel validated in loving my dog despite his reactivity. Every time I go out I worry that something could go wrong if a dog gets too close or someone approaches without asking and I know he'll react. My dog is the sweetest most well behaved dog INSIDE, but there are so many things that scare him outside, and when he gets that way people see him as threatening and it makes me feel like I'm being an irresponsible dog owner. I wish I could say I've never doubted that I'm doing the right thing by keeping him, but it gets hard when something happens outside of my control. I love my dog dearly and it helps to know that other people have the same issues. Thank you.

[@K9ofMine]

I'm so glad this video helped you! Life with a reactive dog is really something only other people who have been through it will understand. It is taxing and draining and exhausting and overwhelming. I promise you are not alone in your frustrations and doubts about whether you should even have him -- totally normal. You are doing a great job and your pup is very lucky to be in your life!

[@mizziztee1852]

Thank you sooo much for not just talking about handling your reactive dog, but also the emotional aspect and perspective of being her human. It made me cry because “you get it” and I don’t feel so alone in my training journey with my reactive yorkie (who thinks she’s a doberman in a yorkie body😂). Everything you talk about is genuine, especially acceptance of your dog and yourself. Blessings to you and Remy!

[@K9ofMine]

It's SO hard having a reactive dog. Just know you absolutely are not alone - there are MANY folks going through the same thing. It took me quite some time to accept Remy for himself, but now that I've made peace with Remy not being perfect, I'm a lot more able to work on the close-range goals and celebrate our small victories.

[@josryder7841]

This is the most honest dog training video I’ve come across. Managing expectations with my 8 year old Pit is key. Dealing w dog reactivity has beee frustrating for me to deal with. What you said resonated... I have to be ok with the fact that she wont be THAT type of dog lol its hard to accept...I see other owners with their dogs frolicking around and its hard not to be jealous. My Genesis is a great dog, but she is just requiring more training and time. Thanks for your update...I really needed it!!

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you for the kind words, I’m so glad you feel this way. Being honest about the struggles of having a dog w behavior issues is definitely one of my goals for the channel. I think so many people end up confused, frustrated, and embarrassed - I really want people to realize they’re not alone and having a difficult dog can still be a rewarding experience (and doesn’t reflect negatively on you)

[@K9ofMine]

It was hard for me too to accept my dog will not be a dog park pup, he won't be able to go to breweries or hang out at friends' houses. It's a bummer for sure, but he's still a great boy at home and a good companion.

[@louisegariepy2804]

Not only this fantastic video, but I just saw your page on canine langage, I have seen tens of them, I really think that it’s the best one. You are a good and generous person!

[@taylorgwilt49]

Thank you so much for this. I feel so validated and glad that my dog isn’t the only one who has this issue. It’s emotionally draining and I dread going on walks with her because she pulls and doesn’t like strangers, especially men. She’s a rescue and I’m not sure what she went through before so it makes it that much harder.

[@K9ofMine]

It's so hard and you are right, SO emotionally draining. You are definitely not alone! There are many of us with reactive dogs. Hang in there!

[@fureverfriends9999]

Same! I feel exactly the same! Hope does NOT like men and people are afraid of her on walks! I have 6 cats and just adopted Hope 4 months ago ... and she loves to walk but she reacts to dogs and especially men. She is the sweetest dog! But people are afraid of her and I think they think maybe I can't handle her because I'm not a very big person. So here I am out walking with a near 70 pound black shepherd mix and she goes nuts at a person or a dog ... She is recovering faster now though after a lot of work ... and we have another dog that we adopted a week ago from the same hoarding situation (but much younger).

[@marissam3268]

The "I thought all dogs were basically labs" made me laugh. My lab is extremely reactive. After working with her for a couple of months, I felt so defeated and lacked any kind of motivation so I eventually just stopped trying. This video has reinspired me, thank you!

[@K9ofMine]

It can definitely be tough. Don't be afraid to take a break if you need to. Self-care is really important for us reactive dog owners! Hang in there.

[@pendlera2959]

@@K9ofMine How do you take a break from managing a reactive dog? I live in a dog-friendly apartment and I regularly run into other dogs when taking mine out for potty breaks - sometimes three or four dogs in one trip! I have seriously considered rehoming my dog because I have depression and my dog's reactivity is a major stressor that I can't get rid of.

[@JazBeYou]

I have an American Akita and there’s really not a lot of videos about then online. She’s become very reactive on leash, would not take treats outside, would rather sniff the ground at all times no eye contact, would lounge and bark at mostly people. We consulted quite a lot of trainers and they’ve concluded it’s due to lack of socialisation at that golden age of puppy. Wish I could’ve paid more attention and avoided the situation we’re in but it was around the peak of covid when going out wasn’t an option I’m now putting everything I’ve got in order to just have a proper and good walk with her 😭 it’s really tough at time that it makes me cry most days so thank u for being a light in this situation.

[@K9ofMine]

I know how tough it can be! Hang in there, there are a lot of folks in your same position. I promise with work practice it'll get better!

[@StephanieGlaros]

There are lots of videos about leash reactivity, but usually the camera shows both the trainer and the dog. Seeing what you are doing from YOUR point of view is extremely helpful. I also appreciate your words about not being too hard on yourself and the link to the body language info. Thanks!

[@K9ofMine]

Glad it was helpful :)

[@keirac6256]

This video is exactly what I needed to watch after a less than successful training walk with my young reactive dog. She is very slowly improving but we are going through the good day, bad day phase where no two days are the same and some are amazing and some not so much. It’s sooo reassuring to see such an honest video so thank you for this

[@CrystalGreene-rz2db]

I’m so glad you posted this; I needed to see it. 6 weeks ago I adopted a Plott Hound from a shelter. I’ve had a Plott before but that one and my current are similar in some ways and night and say different in others. My first was Plott mixed with a European lab and, evidently, had the lab’s personality (sweet, snuggly, friends with everybody) but had the Plott’s intelligence. My current Plott is 100% Plott - temperament, reactivity, difficulty to train. Like your Remi (hopefully, I spelled that correctly), unfortunately I don’t think my current Plott is going to be everybody’s best friend, which isn’t what I wanted and and it breaks my heart.

[@marconbhuide2182]

This is a really good video. I have had two reactive hounds over the last decade and live in the city so have been researching for years. This is great support! Thanks

[@ckadjepong]

You are my hero for just being honest. My dog is so reactive and it was really getting to me but hearing this really helps

[@kimbers8665]

Brilliant, real video and great for a new dog owner like myself with a dog that’s showing signs of reactivity. Thank you

[@sdoublait]

I work in rescue in France and for obvious reasons, many of our rescue dogs are highly reactive. I often foster the hard cases so I am constantly watching videos from the US since you are always way ahead of us. This video is by far the best and most comprehensive video I have ever seen. Thank you for this wonderful and helpful content. Sending tail wags from France :)

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you so much for the kind words! Thanks SO much for fostering and for taking on and helping those tougher cases. You're a lifesaver for those pups!

[@jakenelson7195]

I feel like this video came to me at exactly the moment I needed it. My one year old rescue's behavior is right in between where Remy was in the original video and this update, and this video (especially the words at the end) are just what I needed to stay hopeful in the training. Thank you!

[@K9ofMine]

I'm so glad the video was helpful Jake! I know how difficult and heartbreaking it can be to have a dog with behavioral problems. I promise that with enough time, patience, and hard work you will see improvements!

[@joycesayers670]

Such a great video!!!! Thank you!

[@susanmerila4958]

Nice, honest approach with helpful insights. Thank you.

[@drwp3nn]

Your videos are amazing! Keep it up!

[@avichaikalij]

This is such a great video and important one.

[@sweetiedahling8137]

Thank you so much for this video! It reminds me so much of our Milo, who we adopted almost 6 months ago (he even looks a quite a bit like Remy!) I had all the same assumptions beforehand, experienced the same struggles, and have gotten to almost the same point in our training now (though we do still have to stay a bit further away from other dogs). It has not been an easy journey, but knowing we're not alone makes all the difference 🧡

[@emj2782]

Fantastic video - thanks so much for your encouragement 🤗🐾🐾

[@hotreindeer]

I really needed this! Thank you! 💝

[@carolmccabe4359]

A very fair and encouraging video. Thank you so very much

[@gigglesvids3561]

This is invaluable! Thank you!

[@yaccenicastelan-flores965]

Out of the numerous videos I’ve seen about dog reactivity this is the best explained and I learned the most

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you so much, that means a lot! I’m glad it’s been helpful

[@debbieturner8306]

Just wanted to say how much I appreciate your videos! I've watched hundreds of other videos about walking reactive dogs and yours is the first that I can really relate to. You show what's it's really like in real life and that it's a constant work in progress. I've been getting discouraged by what I perceive as my dog and I not making progress, but I know we just have to keep working and we'll get there at some point. Thank you!!

[@K9ofMine]

It is absolutely always a work in progress! I understand how you feel, I feel frustrated some days too. Just try to celebrate those small victories! It also helps to journal a bit and keep track of improvements over time. A lot of times it can feel like you're not seeing any changes week to week, but when you look at progress over months you can start to really see the changes!

[@michellew6097]

wow, this was the most relatable and honest training video I've ever watched lol thank you so much! Subscribed 🙌

[@K9ofMine]

It's definitely not always easy! I really want people to know they aren't alone.

[@KTJD12]

This is by far the best and most comprehensive video on training dog reactivity. What you covered is what I've been practicing with my pup from a year's worth of research on the topic. It should not be so difficult to find reliable free resources to train such a common problem. I'd refer my dog walking clients to this video because it explains everything so well. Keep up the good work!

[@K9ofMine]

Awesome! Thank you so much for the kind words. I tried to include anything and everything I've learned from working on Remy's reactivity. It's such a stressful behavior problem, I hope this can help folks!

[@DrewLytle]

This is one of the best culmination videos of what having a reactive dog is like and what tools are at your disposal to help them work through that behaviour. Great job!

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you so much for the encouragement! I really did try to cover everything.

[@louisegariepy2804]

Loved this sooo much! Thank you.

[@mail4sandeepraj]

Thanks for the video. It gave me whole new perspective on what i need to work on.

[@K9ofMine]

Glad it was helpful!

[@cathymeep]

wow this makes me feel so seen! i’ve been so frustrated with my dog lately and it’s hard not being able to talk about it with other people because not everyone understands. it feels lonely and isolating sometimes, but i love my pup so much and i’m willing to put in the work to help us both out. these were great tips, thank you!

[@K9ofMine]

Non-reactive dog owners definitely don't get it. I've been there - it can be so heartbreaking and isolating. Just know you are not alone and these kinds of problems often have a lot to do with genetics and are NOT due to anything you've done. Thanks for doing your best to help your pup!

[@Willneverstoppraying]

Just finished the K9 reading about reactive dogs and your training and I agree that this must be the best educational training I have read. Your compassion and easy way to explain the behavior and training is the best I have seen. I know I will keep watching them to make sure I have captured all your great advice and samples of how to help my little Luna. Good luck to you and Remy!

[@K9ofMine]

That is so kind of you to say, thank you! Just trying to build solidarity with other reactive dog owners. It ain't easy!

[@amazoncharlie5087]

You are one of the few channels I subscribe to - I have loved your journey and appreciate how you and Remy went down into the depths of despair before coming out together - i LOVE the way you train him, and am also grateful that you reviewed doggy dan's methods, I had been wondering about him and am glad I decided not to sign up - would rather follow your force free gentle methods. Thank you!

[@una2702]

Remy is a sweetheart and I'm glad to see how much you've helped him improve. I have a reactive rescue dog too, and could relate to your story.

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you!! He really is a sweetie, it just took me a long time to understand his mindset. He’s a really sensitive dude.

[@emmareynolds9926]

This has given me hope and a little more resolve that me and my doggo can make progress with simple methods and repetition

[@K9ofMine]

We believe in you!

[@ji8211]

Wow came here for tips but actually really needed your words of encouragement at the end. My pup is so so sweet inside the home but on walks goes absolutely insane. I feel like other dog owners judge me (I judge me) but we are trying our best and inevitably will fail sometimes. I'm hopeful we'll get to where you and Remy are.

[@K9ofMine]

Don’t beat yourself up! No one has any right to judge you - especially if they’ve never had a reactive dog before! I will admit many years ago if I saw a dog that barked and lunged at other dogs I would think the owner was not responsible. Of course now, knowing what I know about how challenging reactivity can be, I feel nothing but sympathy for other owners in this position. It is easy for others to judge but they really have no idea what it’s like to work with a reactive dog. Just keep track of your own progress and take pride in your steps forward, even if they are small! Every improvement counts. Good luck!

[@kikobunny0102]

I love your message in the end!! We recently adopted an adult dog and based on his behavior, we think he is reactive too so this video really helps! He is getting better but still working on him playing nice in the dog park and not chasing and barking at them.

[@K9ofMine]

It can definitely be an unexpected surprise with many rescues! I'd encourage you to take it nice and easy. Consider opting out of dog parks (which can be stressful or even dangerous due to the large mix of dogs with no oversight) and instead try to find well-matched playmates, or a trainer-run play group where there is supervision over the dogs. A certified force-free trainer is also not a bad idea either to work out any kinks in your training plan!

[@jman2k0]

Great video. Will practice these techniques with my girl tomorrow👍🏽!

[@Am3thyst91]

Great video! It's so nice to read the comments and see that I'm not alone. I'm training my reactive girl but I also need to work on myself. Sometimes I get so nervous whenever I'm planning on going out to train her... Thank you for the video!!

[@K9ofMine]

I totally understand. I promise it does get easier! Sometimes I’ll still get a little nervous about taking Remy to an area with lots of dogs, but usually these days it feels more like an exciting challenge than something scary. It just takes some practice to build up your confidence!

[@kyanderson3989]

Thank you so much...I needed to see this video. We have a 4 yr old reactive (rescue) border collie lab mix. It's been a trying five months, but we're making progress. I keep reminding myself to be patient, consistent and have compassion. I've taken a few cues from this video and look forward to applying them to our walks. Most of all, your Zen of encouragement toward the end...thank you for "seeing" us. Namaste.

[@K9ofMine]

Aw thank you, that means a lot. I see you because I'm right there with you! I think what made the biggest impact on my relationship with Remy was really being willing to celebrate the small wins, even if they don't seem like a big deal in the grand scheme of things. A reaction-free walk, even if we have to stay several yards away from triggers, is a serious win in our book, and I make sure to tell Remy what a great job he did :)

[@meadsie1]

Just wanted to add a big thanks for sharing your story. Brought tears to my eyes but was also very encouraging for me ... I have a female Amstaff that's fear reactive with some dogs, most people, and all kids .. has a stack of other triggers too, but like your Remy, she's smart, loving and playful .. and she's taught me a bunch about myself too!

[@K9ofMine]

It's definitely not easy having a reactive dog. It takes a big heart and a lot of compassion. But seeing then blossom over time is such a gift! Thank you for sticking by your girl, I know how enormously stressful it can be.

[@lauriegalpin1097]

I am in tears after watching your video. Thank-you from the bottom of my heart for posting this. I have been working with my reactive terrier and feeling like a complete failure as trainer and owner. I have never before experienced such feelings of frustration and failure when working with my dogs. Thank you for your positive and encouraging words to owners. You have given me hope to keep working with my four legged friend.

[@K9ofMine]

Reactivity is really tough! Definitely don’t get down in yourself, I know how stressful it can be. Just hang in there and celebrate your small wins - those rare days when you see a dog and your pup stays calm. And if you’re really struggling, don’t hesitate to reach out to a Certified Dog Behavior Consultant (CDBC) - a very specific certification- or a Veterinary Behaviorist.

[@alphaone9587]

Thank you for your sharing on the good and hard time with dog!

[@K9ofMine]

There's plenty of both!

[@benteam3647]

7:48 The Reminator is SUCH a handsome pupper!!!

[@K9ofMine]

My beautiful boi!

[@lizbidinotto4356]

I am so glad that I have found this video and this channel. I just adopted a shelter dog 2 weeks ago and really want the best for him since he's already had a hard time. I didn't know the term reactive in trying to train him, but this is definitely the word I would use. I feel like I've learned a lot in just the 18 minutes of this video. The video really made me think of how I approach him when we are out together and looking for clues to "protect" him from all the triggers that are out there. I will watch your other videos on how to train him to be my best dog. He already is a great cuddle bug. Thanks!

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you for not giving up on him Liz! I know adopting a reactive dog can be really overwhelming and emotionally taxing. Keep up the great work!

[@sherriwade2207]

I recently had my dog reactive dog stay with a trainer at her home. She runs a very small board and train (2 dogs) and has her own dogs. The board and train dogs were in a separate part of her home but she did work on socializing my dog with her dogs- which I really appreciated. It was expensive but I thought if I was going to pay for him to be anywhere, I wanted someone who could help me improve his quality of life, and to give me the skills to keep helping him. It was a great experience. I really appreciate your videos and love the engage disengage game!

[@K9ofMine]

That’s so great! It’s awesome to have a trainer you can trust and rely on.

[@taylorpeck1688]

thank you. i love my guy so much it’s just so hard sometimes. he gets very anxious/scared when he sees a larger dog. LOVES humans and dogs his size. i can’t wait to learn more about him so we can have happier walks!

[@K9ofMine]

We all have certain things that make us nervous or uncomfortable -- dogs are no different!

[@kyung5819]

Fantastic video & advice regarding managing expectations & acceptance of the ‘not perfect’ in our dogs. Well done you & Remy 😃

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you for the kind words! It was certainly a lesson hard earned for me. Loving and accepting Remy for who he is has taught me so much about how I manage appropriate expectations not just for him but all my important relationships. Now we work to improve his behavior issues not because I feel he is a bad dog, but because altering some of his behavior would allow him to experience more of the world with me! However, if it ends up he will be largely an at-home dog, that's OK too.

[@thiendang9092]

Okay, your comments about our dogs being unique and Remy’s reactivity teaching you how to manage expectations of other people literally made me tear up. I never considered that expecting a well-mannered and near perfect dog was a reflection of expectations I have for others and myself. While I want to work on Nimbus’s leash reactivity, I also have to learn how to love him for who he is instead of trying to “fix” him. I suppose that’s the posture we ought to assume when enter into every relationship, be it with an animal or person. I came for dog training suggestions but left with newfound revelations about to better interact with and love those around me and myself. Thank you

[@K9ofMine]

I'm so glad my and Remy's experience was helpful to you! :) I think it it definitely still behooves us to work on our dogs's reactivity. The difference is that previously I wanted to resolve his reactivity because I found it annoying, embarrassing, and frustrating. But now my goal is to lessen his reactivity simply so that we can do more fun things together. I've also become so less stressed about his reactive behavior after accepting it as just "one of his quirks" rather than some huge issue that needed to be resolved. We still do counter conditioning work every day, but if and when Remy goes over threshold and lunges, I'm able to just laugh it off, roll my eyes, and move on. I know my dog is so much more than just his situationally reactive behavior. Wishing you all the best with Nimbus (and what an adorable name)!

[@ilovecanines]

Very good!

[@ginger1011121314]

I needed this. Thank you for showcasing a real life dog in a real life situation with real life ups and downs while training with positive re enforcement. I have been training with my dog for the better part of a year on her reactivity, I figured our move would help but it actually made things worse. I realized there was alot I was doing right but also alot of I was doing wrong. I couldn't understand why sometimes she was fine and other times she'd lose her mind. Turns out I wasn't really listening to her triggers, not incentivizing her the right way, and couldn't control my OWN anxiety. I've come to terms with the idea that my dog will probably never be chill and that's fine, as long as she can be safe.

[@K9ofMine]

Working with a reactive dog can definitely be tough, and it's so normal to make mistakes or have bad days. Our reactive dogs certainly teach us a lot, usually my necessity. It sounds like you're working hard and doing right by your dog!

[@ShadowCatDreams]

This made me cry. Ive been struggling with my dogs reactivity for years due to some bad events that happened to her because of bad owners of other dogs. And because shes half pit i never get any slack for her reacting even a bit. Its exhausting. But i think this video is helping me to manage my expectations and adjust. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@K9ofMine]

I’m sorry you have to go through that, I know how hard it is to have a tough pet. I feel you with the pit stuff - I hate that Remy is such a bad breed ambassador 🤦‍♀️. It’s hard, but I think the best place to get to is love the dog in front of you while you work on reaching smaller, more attainable goals.

[@katea.nature]

Thank you very much for this awesome video! I absolutely loved the last few words you said about you and Remy, it really comes from your heart!🥰

[@K9ofMine]

It really does! Love was what got me through those early years. If I didn’t love this dog I could never have survived.

[@kaylagarcia3137]

Awww! I typed in “reactive dog walking training” in the search bar to find a quick video and yours popped up! As soon as you said Remi I was so happy. That’s my reactive dogs name and I was searching this video for help with her! ❤️

[@K9ofMine]

Hello from a fellow Rem! 👋

[@littlebee1087]

This video has given me so much insight into what I can do to help my dog. She is a 1yr old Cane Corso and was in training to be my service dog, but due to the pandemic she ended up going through a major fear period and we weren't able to go out and train during it at all, which has led to a ton of uncertainty and fear reactivity. While I am a balanced trainer, 90% of what I use is R+ and I was struggling to find any information that I would be able to implement into my own training, and that set realistic expectations. I hope you and Remy are doing well, and keep up all the great work!

[@K9ofMine]

Best of luck to you two, and thank you for the words of support

[@serenagibb]

thank you so much for this 💙

[@margysfavourites8444]

Excellent 🐾⭐️🐾

[@coyoteroams]

so this neighborhood concept is very interesting to me. i took my dog to a board and train in the city and he did phenomenal, beyond my expectations there. everywhere i've lived with him has been more open, and i think i'm going to make drives up to the urban area so we can practice. i never thought of that, but i'm glad it's something you noticed and pointed out.

[@K9ofMine]

Definitely give it a try! Seems to be the case for us.

[@coor0kun]

So useful to see what your experience has been and thank you for sharing! The community of owners working with reactive dogs has a wealth of knowledge, and has been a huge help to me, so I'll share some of my own! I had a similar, but also opposite experience from yours: we moved from an apartment to a less dense single family home neighborhood. We still see plenty of dogs, but they no longer jump out from any corner with no room for escape. It's been a huge help! Also, I've been told that cortisol can stay in the system for 3 days, so a low-spoon day (trigger stacked dog) may mean you have less spoons the next couple of days as well. I just give us a couple of "easy days" after an exciting one. I've worked with a few trainers all with similar, but different, approaches. Some have worked better for us than others. Every dog is unique, so listening to your dog and learning what works for them is key!

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you for kind words and sharing your experiences. I’m so glad you guys were able to see improvements. Having a reactive dog can be so stressful, but you learn so much too!

[@fureverfriends9999]

This helps me sooooo much! Thank you! I adopted Hope 4 months ago. She came from a Hoarding situation and at first was so afraid to even go outside. As she got comfortable with me she was excited to go out for walks! But now she is extremely leash reactive to other dogs (and some people). Ironically, she is fine off-leash in a dog park. We also adopted Faith, another dog from the same hoarding situation, a week ago. She cries when she sees other dogs. Sometimes I feel like I have my hands full and I just want to do the right thing for them. I have been working with them separately and together. But there are times when I am so frustrated! Your video helped me to know that what all three of us are going through is okay. We will get there, or wherever it is that we can manage. I think Faith will be the dog everyone can pet (she is just a year old and came into the shelter with puppies on board!) but Hope is 7 and has that many years of abuse in her life. People are afraid of her when we walk (Shepherd / Border Collie mix (we think) ) because of her extreme reactions. .... I do corrections with treats and I do need to learn to also better manage my own emotions. She was recently attacked by another reactive dog (who was unleashed) -while we were walking-, who ran across her lawn, across the street and to us. That dog locked onto Hope and I hit that dog with my gloves . Finally she released but gave poor Hope a huge bite into her hip. The vet treated her and that dog's owner paid my vet bill. ... But not sure if that helped Hope's reactivity to other dogs. I love them both so much and they challenge me in good ways. I think dogs (especially rescues) help us to Hope for the best and accept what we cannot control, and have Faith in the Lord, who sees more than we are capable of knowing or seeing.

[@K9ofMine]

On behalf of Faith and Hope, thank you so for working so hard with them! I know it can be really, really tough. You are doing your best to help them, and that's all anyone can ask! In the last year I have really focused on just managing Remy's reactivity and making sure he can enjoy his life. Some dogs are never going to fully get over their reactivity and that's OK. I 100% agree that challenging dogs can teach us so much about accepting what's out of our control and loving them for the imperfect mess they sometimes are!

[@bbarbabietola]

This video is really well done and helpful. Thanks for the tips, especially the trigger stacking one. I never thought about it that way, but it makes a lot of sense.. We're working with our rescue dog and we looked for a trainer but it's not easy to find good ones here in Belgium. Many improvised ones that do more harm than good... We'll keep working on our own and keep looking for help as well.

[@K9ofMine]

It can be tough- we also have a video about how to find a behavior consultant. Most of it has to do with US-based folks but it might be helpful for you too. Good luck, I know it can be tough!

[@emfen]

Thanks for the insightful video. My senior adoptive is fear reactive and will lounge at dogs that show interest or stare him down. He is otherwise an amazing dog, with lots of smarts. He became more reactive after my neighbors dog ran up to him off leash and did not disengage him.

[@loridrysdale7129]

This is a great video and exactly what I am working on with my reactive rescue dog. I really liked the honest words at the end- sometimes I am not sure what to expect of my dog. I always get rescue and a lot of the dogs are reactive. I had really hoped to go jogging with her in the woods where there are always a LOT of dogs...and I am not sure I'll be able to.... BUT I can jog with her on the streets and handle her reactivity too. Thank you for the video! So great to see in action how to work with a dog.

[@K9ofMine]

I think it's fantastic you're willing to adjust your expectations based on your dog. Not all people are ready to do that. It definitely took me a while! Some pups are just always going to be a bit of a challenge and will be more limited in what they can do, but it doesn't mean we still can't have lots of fun with them!

[@sherriwade2207]

I smiled as I watched this. I have often said to my friend, with a non reactive dog, that walking my dog sometimes feels like I am a live action figure in a video game- always looking for dragons :)

[@pvillelde]

I needed to hear this. Im currently training a reactive pomeranian, I wanted so badly to start agility training, but the reactivity has been the speed bump in the road. Im in tears. Thank you.

[@K9ofMine]

Hang in there, it's definitely tough! If you want to continue to pursue agility while you work on reactivity, I have heard of some places offering reactive agility classes, in which the other dogs wait outside while each dog runs the course individually. Might be worth looking into!

[@pvillelde]

@@K9ofMine I definitely will!! Thank you!!

[@lightblulbb]

Your last comments really resonated and was the most helpful 😢😭💕🤗 learning to accept my dog i feel will really help!

[@K9ofMine]

It really does! It took me quite some time to accept that Remy is not a normal dog. Of course that doesn't mean I don't still work with him every day to lessen his reactivity and hope to one day reach a point where he can be more relaxed in public - but he is definitely a problem boy and I accept him for who he is at this point in his life, while still working towards bigger goals. :)

[@lightblulbb]

@@K9ofMine yes! In this point of his life. Thank you so much it can get frustrating. Love your content and comment :)

[@roxiefrox252]

Thank you so much for this video, i will be using these methods for my dog. At first glance, he looks like a very well trained dog. But with reactivity, he is so difficult. Love to see it is working for you.

[@K9ofMine]

So many reactive dogs are angels when they are in the home! They aren't bad dogs, they just have a rough going sometimes ;) Best of luck with your training!

[@roxiefrox252]

Thank you :)

[@michelledawnharpist]

thank you for this!! my dog is confusing to me because she does totally fine with *most* other dogs (unless they are aggressive first or try to hump her which is understandable), loves most humans, plays at dog parks well and does fine in day care but get someone or another dog near our apartment and she is a whole other animal it seems. i don't know exactly how to train this out of her as it is not a regular experience but this has given me some ideas anyways. i love your quote, "not the dog i dreamed of but that's okay." i know i made a commitment to her to give her the best life i could when i adopted her and sometimes that means A LOT of training (and not just cuddles, toys, and good food)

[@christymoore8789]

Love this so much! Remy is absolutely beautiful! ❤️

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you so much!! I'll tell him you said so ;)

[@Nina.Mandarina]

Thank you, this was really helpful. I just realise my puppy is reactive and its been a struggle i have to admit, i did not expect having a dog will be so difficult. He is super reactive to puppies and kids.

[@K9ofMine]

It can definitely be tough! Hang in there, you'll see improvements with enough effort, I promise.

[@robertkezer3665]

Brilliant TY

[@boniboni4912]

Omg thank you, I have 2 rescued dogs that are very reactive, I don’t have good sight and sometimes they see the dog before me and all comes crashing down, my dogs had bitten me from redirected aggression, and is so frustrating, because I love outdoors and hikes and can’t take any of my dogs because there is always other dogs, it bums me out so much and I feel guilty when I go hiking and I don’t take my dogs, I’m just so frustrated and defeated, glad you acknowledge that is mentally frustrating for the owners too

[@K9ofMine]

That's really hard! I definitely know how disappointing it can be when your dog can't do the activities your dreamed doing with them. :( But try not to feel guilty! Truthfully, a lot of reactive dogs feel stressed outdoors in strange situations or around strange dogs, and it's worth remembering that your dog probably doesn't want to go out on those hikes. They may be perfectly content and happy at home, and prefer that, in fact! I've definitely tried to separate more in my mind what I want from my dog vs what he wants. And while my dog Remy gets excited about new adventures, he also gets very overwhelmed and over-aroused. I know he will not be calm or enjoy certain outings. So, I'd simply say enjoy your hikes without your dogs, and when you get home you can engage in activities that the doggos enjoy! I know it may not be what you had planned on for your life with your dogs, but it doesn't make the reality wrong or bad, just different than what might have been expected.

[@mariaivanova491]

Thank you for the great video 🙏🏻 We live in Bali, there’re a lot of stray dogs/free roaming dogs. It’s a disaster for my reactive dog, but we’re trying hard. Your channel is very useful ☘️❤️

[@K9ofMine]

I'm so glad you find our videos helpful! Ugh that is so hard when there are stray dogs around. You could try bringing SprayShield or an air horn with you on walks to keep stray dogs at bay. Definitely makes things a lot tougher!

[@mariaivanova491]

@@K9ofMine We already have a whole arsenal against them, from water spray to slingshot.🙈

[@risika93]

Yo I was just mindin' my business an you go an hit me with that encouragement and validation. I was not prepared for that soul cleanse. Bless you. 🙏🏼❤

[@K9ofMine]

Aw thank you so much for those kind words :)

[@LikeWeDidOutdoors]

Makes a lot of sense to me, particularly the trigger stacking part. We have the most amazing adventures, real Enid Blyton type stuff just me and an incredible (to me) dog and on the way back to more populated areas and home, we're on a countdown of squirrels, bumble bees, blokes cycling past and it adds up QUICKLY. Many a fun day ends with a squabble 2 minutes from home, I feel silly trying to explain to someone "sorry mate he's not bad, we just had a squirrel dropping twigs on our head, and then someone had a noisy car...". I've never heard someone else put it into words, very interesting video thank you

[@K9ofMine]

Totally! I know when I've had a rough day I'm more likely to blow up or get frustrated towards the end of the day. That's why I end up resorting to takeout so often! 😬

[@leagossmann1975]

Hi, I'm 15 and watch this video from France. I'm passionate from education and dog behavior. I have a dog, an australian shepherd. He is reactive on other dogs, bike, children, some people, ... I'ts not verry easy to training because I live in countryside and we see not as much dog in my city. But me and my dog, we word hard to have result ! Thanks you so much for this interested video !

[@K9ofMine]

Hi Lėa! Thank you so much for leaving a comment. You are not alone - nearly every owner of a reactive dog agrees that it can be very hard and stressful! On behalf of your dog, thank you so much for working with him and sticking by him. He is very lucky to have you. Keep up the great work!

[@ecupcakes2735]

i cried watching this :( it's tough. ours has been reactive ever since he was attacked by another offleashed dog. ours used to be totally okay meeting other dogs and now hes just completely afraid and on guard almost all the time. my heart is broken because none of this was his fault. hearing you say that he may never return to how he used to be ...it's rough. i wished more people understood.

[@K9ofMine]

I’m so sorry that happened to you and your dog. :( Hang in there. Things will definitely get better. Who knows, with enough work your dog get back to where he was, or at least close to it. Every dog is different, it’s really hard to say. I wish people understood too. People see a reactive dog and think “untrained dog and bad owner” but that’s not the case at all and very unfair.

[@fureverfriends9999]

@@K9ofMine That is what it definitely feels like! We adopted Hope 4 months ago and she is very reactive. People are afraid of her and that is what I feel like people are thinking ... "untrained dog and bad owner' and they have no idea. She also was attacked by an unleashed dog just a week ago (and Hope was not okay and is a reactive dog) on our walk. None of that was her fault either. Thank fully the owner of the other dog paid Hope's vet bills (she has a huge wound from being bitten on her hip). ... but the emotional recovery ??

[@kohlastone]

This video has been saved me and Deidre! Last May we rescued a little terrier mix that is super reactive. We almost didn’t take her because of her reactivity but her owner wanted to “get rid” of her because she was “obnoxious, nasty, yappy, whiny & wanted too much attention!”. I took her because I didn’t have the heart to see her sent to another shelter. And because she is only 17#. But she is 17#’s of spinning, lunging, gyrating, thrashing, choking berserk behavior. My biggest fear is she will get eaten since she’s so little & has been able to escape several harnesses & collars. She will charge the other dog, but once she gets near she usually just runs in circles around the dog barking. So far, thankfully she stays out of reach. We live in a small neighborhood with many dog walkers & many people who allow their dogs off leash. Thankfully she’s never escaped by an off leash dog. We ARE making progress but it’s been very very slow. I’m 71 & have had dogs all my life. But I’ve never had a dog that has been reactive. With COVID I’ve had a hard time finding a trainer. No one is seeing people for private lessons & I just don’t see how you can have a Zoom training with a leash reactive dog - Much less be able to afford it. Trainers in my area are charging $125-400 an hour. My husband and I are both retired and on a limited income and there’s no way we can afford that so I’ve been scouring You Tube. I’m making progress with what I’ve learned but until I saw your video today I didn’t realize what I’ve been doing wrong. I am so thankful for people like you who are sharing their stories and training tips. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! I can see I’ve been expecting too much from her too soon, not yummy enough treats, allowing her to focus for too long or not being able to break her focus. Even with all my mistakes 3 steps forward and 2 steps back. With what I’ve learned from your two videos with Remmy maybe now it will be three steps forward and one step back. I’m going to watch all your videos!!!! Thank you thank you thank you!

[@K9ofMine]

I'm so glad our video has helped you and Deirdre! Thank you for working so hard with her - I know how hard having a reactive dog can be and I think it's incredibly kind and compassionate that you took her knowing beforehand she was reactive. She is so lucky to have you! You are so right that reactivity is often progresses in a non-linear way. There will always be good and bad days. Your dog will improve and you'll also become better at reading her body language and assessing her threshold as you work together. It means so much that this video gave you hope, that's definitely what I wanted to do with it! Best of luck with Deirdre :)

[@NotMister]

Boy can I relate! We have a 2 year old reactive golden retriever. We are learning together.. Our first golden was the perfect dog for beginners, our 2 nd golden was crazy now our 3rd dog is over the top. Thank you for the video. Love the tips.

[@K9ofMine]

I imagine it must be tough having a reactive golden as so many folks consider them the epitome of safe and approachable dogs. I'm sure you have many people that come barreling towards you often! While it makes me sad sometimes I admit it's nice that most people naturally give Remy plenty of space as a pittie mix!

[@NotMister]

Ever since a dog attacked him he hates all dogs. We also have a stupid neighbor kid that poked him with sticks so he hates kids too. I've talked to the parents and the kid stopped.

[@lmitch0430]

I loved this video, thank you for making it. My main issue on walks is that in my city, the majority of dog owners don't follow leash by-laws. All it takes is for one off-leash dog to come bounding over to my dog and we are set back several weeks of training. *sigh*. I will try to implement some of the tricks you have here and explore some quiet neighbourhoods with her. ❤

[@K9ofMine]

I feel you -- off-leash dogs (where there shouldn't be any) is a huge problem for us too! Lucky Remy can develop quite the blinders when I have cheese dangling in his face ;)

[@melodyxx2020]

Hello from the uk 🇬🇧 my Kevin was so chilled on walks, walks to heel and was generally fine on his lead until recently now he whines all around his walk and when he sees a dog he cry’s and then frustration barks and lungs. I know he’s physically fine with dogs because he goes doggy daycare and loves playing with others. But it’s become so frustrating so thank you for uploading this.

[@K9ofMine]

Aw poor guy. I know it’s so hard when you can’t go let them say hi! You’re doing the right thing though, as over-excited greeters can freak out the other dog and it can cause issues. Aiming for calm is definitely best!

[@chrisoultram9458]

Love it so helpful.looks loving place Christine from Windsor uk

[@ShadowGin3]

Thank you for making this video! I'm so glad I found your channel. This is my first time having a reactive dog and he is reactive to both humans and dogs. It's so frustrating/hard/ tiring to the point where I feel like maybe I need to rehome him to a farm or a forest somewhere where there isn't anything or anyone to make him be this stress. What happen if you call his name or use a clicker and he is still staring at the dog/person and not you?

[@erinnorwood6124]

Make a U turn.

[@kays3440]

Amazing video! What you said at the end of it made me laugh and cry. I've been with my reactive dog for 5 years but I'm still having trouble dealing with her reactivity and sometimes gets disappointed. Your remarks made me think and somewhat comforted me.. Thanks! Well I was wondering if Remy had no reacitivy on leash from the start? I am working on leash pulling but she's too excited to walk on loose leash even when we walk in our neighborhood.

[@K9ofMine]

I totally understand Kay! Remy has made such great progress since I got him two and a half years ago, but his reactivity is still something we have to manage regularly. Remy wasn't initially leash reactive when I first adopted him, partly due to the fact that I'd let him approach other dogs (when I absolutely shouldn't have due to his arousal level). Nothing ever happened, and I even brought him to the dog park a few times, but I noticed him getting more mouthy as he decompressed and got settled in to a home life. That's when his reactivity started to really become a serious issue (along with a host of other bad behaviors that only came out once Remy was settled outside of shelter life). It took me a while to get Remy to walk loose on the leash too, as he also gets very excited and extremely stimulated outdoors. Check out our video on loose leash walking too! Using those techniques Remy has gotten a lot better. I can't say he's perfect but our walks are MUCH more enjoyable now!

[@kimberlyhorling8622]

Good job

[@K9ofMine]

Thanks!

[@jerimiah_y]

My dog’s triggers is EVERYTHING. Smells, sticks, and the usual suspects.

[@K9ofMine]

Ugh that's rough. I get it, my guy is triggered by melting snow, haha. Our sensitive guys can be such weirdos!

[@lisbetheddy1451]

So glad I came across your video. Your dog, Remy is absolutely adorable!! Glad to hear he is also a pro cuddler. My dog, Barney, is a rescue from the streets of Rosarita, Mexico. I rescued him when he was about 3 yrs of age. (pretty much a guess). Lord only knows what his past experiences were like. He is a reactive dog...to some dogs, cats, small critters, etc.. I really liked your video because you supported what I have been working on, as far as leash reactivity. Barney is also reactive when we are in the car. I never know which dogs, or humans, passing by, or working on the side of the road, he will react to. He seems really selective, and I have not figured out a common denominator. I'm wondering if the reactive leash training, will also help, with the reactive behavior he exhibits in the car?? ideas? suggestions? I guess I will just have to wait and see...

[@K9ofMine]

Aw Barney is a lucky guy! Sounds like you’re doing great work with him. As far as reactivity in the car, it might be worth considering having your dog in the back and putting shade curtains up to block the view - it might help from preventing him from seeing stuff outside and reacting. While I think your general leash reactivity work would work fine in the car, unless you have another person in the car doing it, I think it would be a major distraction / driving hazard to try to attempt that while driving!

[@katnisskatiebell8681]

Thank you for this video. Your summary was the end was really touching! I once read a quote,”Live without expectations and there will be no disappointments.” We all picture our dogs to be perfect dogs but what’s the definition of perfect right? 🙏

[@K9ofMine]

Aw what a wonderful quote- well said!

[@morganlilly4527]

So, my dog has had 5 reactivity incidents today alone. We haven't been on a walk in 3 days because I can't get her out of my apartment without: 1. Her reacting to someone in the elevator 2. Her reacting to someone or another dog in the lobby 3. Her reacting to dogs that pass by our building. I know this means she is "out of spoons". She needs to exercise but we can't even go out because now every little stimulus sets her off. Your video really put things into perspective - my dog is way too reactive for me to continue living in this busy apartment complex. The environment is making her reactivity worse - we can't avoid dogs, people and other triggers because as soon as I get in the elevator or in my lobby there's at least 2 dogs and 5 people there. I'm so exhausted.

[@K9ofMine]

That sounds really tough Morgan, I feel you. I used to live in a dog-friendly apartment complex with Remy and thank GOODNESS we were on the 3rd floor, because we'd just use the stairs (which rarely had people or dogs in it). I don't think it would have been possible if we had to use the elevator. Some folks in a similar situation might resort to taking their dog out at really odd times of the day when there will be less people around (like super early in the morning or super late at night). I wonder if it would be possible for you to relocate to a unit that is floor level or closer to floor level for easier access? Ugh you're in a tough spot, I totally understand. I know plenty of folks who have had to deal with similar arrangements, it's really hard. A duplex, single-family home, or a less populated apartment unit might be the ideal option.

[@thekas47]

This is great! I have a reactive rescue too and it does take a lot of patience and time to see results. Do you have any recommendations for introducing other dogs?

[@K9ofMine]

Hey Andy - yes, we actually have a video all about parallel walks, which is definitely the best, safest way to introduce two dogs! You can check it out here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qKWvoKOjnauGgq8

[@awsumjulia]

Hi! Found your video and think you have such a great way of looking at it. I’ve been struggling with my dog and his reactivity for some time now and unfortunately we’ve had some bad experiences that caused us setbacks in our training. I’m just wondering if you have any tips for a dog that lays down and refuses to move when a trigger is coming towards us? It’s really hard to gain distance with a dog that does everything not to move. Sometimes treats will brake up the behavior and he can walk with me, but sometimes it’s like talking to a wall.

[@K9ofMine]

Hi there! If your dog is laying down and refusing to move, that's the dog shutting down due to fear. :( I'd suggest trying to spot the trigger before your dog does and help move him to a further distance or safer spot where he is more comfortable away from the trigger. You might have to start by simply giving your pup treats simply when they see the trigger to work on building that positive association before anything else. It might also be worthwhile just starting out by spending some time walking back and forth on a familiar street and avoid going to new or novel location until your dog can build up his confidence more!

[@MrClaymore152]

Thank you for the great video! We are facing the same issues has Remy with our dog Finnigan. You’re advice and experience definitely helps. Question for you, what breed is Remy? If you know. We got our dog from a rescue shelter and they have such similar looks, in everything except fur color!

[@K9ofMine]

Remy is a rescue too! He's a APBT + Staffordshire Terrier mix (along with some Husky and even a tiny bit of Bloodhound). We did an Embark dog DNA test to find out. He was labeled as a Boxer mix at the shelter, but there's not a drop of Boxer in him!

[@zuzy4788]

Love the update! I've actually been considering moving to a more open/spacious neighborhood because my current neighborhood is so busy. But I've also noticed my dog won't react when we're around a lot of people. So I'm torn whether to move to busier or more rural area. I suspect my dog doesn't react in front of more people because she's overwhelmed. Thoughts? Thanks for sharing!

[@K9ofMine]

It's definitely tough! I think every environment has its pros and cons, so I'd choose where you see yourself the happiest and go from there. :)

[@somebodysomewhere22]

Hi! I really enjoyed your video. Sorry if this has been asked before but what harness are you using on Remy?

[@K9ofMine]

No problem! In this video we mostly used the Rabitgoo Harness (amzn.to/2NIwGkD) but I've also been a fan of the 2Hounds Freedom Harness lately too (amzn.to/3tIPnUw)!

[@tyrannicaltrix1445]

Never heard of the spoons theory, but I totally see it! This was actually somewhat helpful when it comes to my dog. I've got to ask though, do you think this sort of training will ever allow the dog to be totally calm around other dogs?

[@K9ofMine]

That really depends on so many factors, including the dog’s genetics and individual personality. But yes, it’s possible for some dogs to be calm around other dogs after this type of training. For others, there will always be a level of discomfort or anxiety, but they can remain calm as a distance.

[@borzica]

Having your dog heel around corners will help with your control when another dog is there

[@K9ofMine]

That’s a great idea! We’re still working on heel.

[@drkarenswrld]

Omg! I find more urban areas so much easier on my reactive dog than our suburb with open spaces!

[@K9ofMine]

It’s weird, right? But I guess it makes sense - it’s easier to be on full alert in quiet areas. But when a lot is going on at once, your focused attention gets a bit divided.

[@itsjoleeg]

Love this! But what do you do when your dog is triggered and jumping and barking? I try pulling away but I can’t seem to break that moment for my dog

[@K9ofMine]

Hey Artemis! Once your dog is over threshold and is jumping and barking, it's kind of game over. It's best to just get away as quickly as possible. Your goal will always be to work with your dog below threshold and practice counter-conditioning work and engage/disengage at a distance where he won't flip out. Once he's overthreshold, he's too aroused/stimulated for any new learning to take place, so just end the interaction and try again at a greater distance!

[@ronaldbagley8316]

cool dogs

[@frenchhornqueen]

This video is so helpful for me and my reactive dog Is Remy part pit at all? He's a beautiful dog.

[@K9ofMine]

Thank you, I find him quite handsome too! Yes, he's APBT and staffy with a smattering of some other stuff ;)