11 Tips for a Great First Lesbian Date!

[@carmeister_]

Soooo, to stop being single I have to talk to them. Dang, off to a rough start loll

[@mgraced]

That Haruka thumbnail though

[@wl415]

The way I just think I’m going to magically have a partner 😭

[@n0tmxiaxx]

@@wl415 💀💀💀

[@zoey6311]

LMAOOOO

[@mabelvetta]

I know this is an old comment but I felt this in my soul

[@nappingpikachu]

"Embrace silence" is really a precious/valuable tip ever! I remember the first date I had with my current gf, we didn't feel awkward for any pauses and we even enjoyed comfortably some silence we had. I always think it takes a long time to get to that stage, no matter friendship or relationship, where you feel comfortable while being silent. At that moment, I knew she is special.

[@babbisp1]

They talked about that in Pulp Fiction.

[@mikeygarcia8271]

"The night is almost over, the day of salvation will soon be here. So remove your dark deeds like dirty clothes, and put on the shining armor of right living because we belong to the day, we must live decent lives for all to see. Don't participate in the darkness of wild parties and drunkenness, in sexual promiscuity and immoral living, or in quarreling and jealousy. 14 Instead, clothe yourself with the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. And don't let yourself think about ways to indulge your evil desires." Romans 13:11-13

[@caelanoldacc]

i’m going on my first date tomorrow since coming out as lesbian.. i’m so excited because this girl is incredible, but i’m extra nervous to mess it up because she’s so incredible lmao

[@abigailanker9108]

I hope your date went well !!! I have my first wlw date tomoz and I’m so scared I’ll mess it up because I can already tell this girl is the one

[@ayseipektasdemir7991]

SAME

[@izzycooper8516]

how did it go

[@maiianthe3280]

I hope it went well:))

[@maiianthe3280]

@@abigailanker9108i hope your date went well too!:))

[@marthacrawley4320]

Lmao I love how it’s lesbian content and then a pregnancy test advert comes up 🤣

[@alinak5174]

🤣🤣

[@jessicalovemorgan]

Lesbian women can and do get pregnant and have babies.

[@MayBuggsChannelYT]

I got a birth control and, no cap💀

[@angelwin1243]

Nice

[@GhostieAndLeslie]

I asked the girl I like on a date and she said yes... I’m so happy I found this video!

[@carmenmayers3041]

I’m bisexual and I’m going out with one of my best friends of like 10 years and it’s my first time going out with a girl. I’m nervous but so excited !!

[@anonymousarmadillo9800]

How'd it go? If u don't mind me asking :)

[@carmenmayers3041]

@@anonymousarmadillo9800 it went so well thank you. We’re now together and I’m so happy

[@anonymousarmadillo9800]

@@carmenmayers3041 aww congrats! im happy for you

[@Alexia-ox3gb]

@@carmenmayers3041 How's it going

[@harshinimurali4160]

hii sorryy cld i ask smth, im goin on a first date tomm but i wanna ask is it ok to bring flowers or sweets for the other girl on the first date?

[@francesmorris8881]

Talk about divine timing!! I'm on my first date tomorrow evening with a woman I've met ☺😉

[@shirakowalsky4732]

Good luck!❤

[@guessinfrench]

How did it goooo 🙌🙏??

[@francesmorris8881]

@@shirakowalsky4732 really good. We have another date on Wednesday day time 🤩 excited x x

[@78hundred2]

@@francesmorris8881 Hope it went well 💕

[@faithsierra1804]

Me too

[@falconbritt5461]

What kinds of questions would be casual, appropriate things to ask her on a date? What kinds of questions, specifically, can one ask to learn about her life without being too personal/invasive or heavy?

[@mgraced]

I'm planning on asking out the girl that I like soon, wish me good luck

[@sunshineramirez7766]

How did it go?

[@sophiakapoor5563]

How did it go

[@mgraced]

We have gone out a few times recently and it was fun, but I'm just so scared to make a move omg, we are going to go out again in a couple of days hopefully I'll be brave enough next time

[@ellielades]

hey what about now? how is it going?

[@mgraced]

@@ellielades we are girlfriends now 😊

[@mvs5582]

A few weeks ago I had a date with this girl. Already 30 min into it she had complained to me about her toxic ex and about this other girl she dated a few days ago that wouldn't stop texting her. So intense. And these kind of things happened on other dates I have had as well. To me it seems so obvious that it is literally so weird to talk about all your other experiences regarding sex and exes and stuff on your first date. Idk why some lesbians do that lol

[@innateclue]

literally why is this so common??

[@madi2711]

i’m having my very first date with an woman tonight and i am shitting my pants lmao

[@softestfairieVODS]

Howwwww did it go 😍

[@madi2711]

@@softestfairieVODS thank you for bringing me back to this comment omg but we are dating now and in love :)))

[@softestfairieVODS]

@@madi2711 omgggggg that is so good to hear! Congrats bby!

[@Alezcollection]

“I was stressing out about the fricken fries at the start of the date” 😂😂😂

[@SemaCartier]

I’m so glad that you upload more frequently, when i get the notification its literally the highlight of my week. Thank you ♥️

[@eli7257]

I just asked out a girl for a date for the first time. This answered all my questions. I love your vibe!

[@softestfairieVODS]

How did it go queen 😭💐

[@Kimberly34584]

I have my first queer date tomorrow and I’m so nervous so thank you for the tips!

[@cy7602]

it's hard to have feelings to someone when staying single for too long...

[@lunacy_core2708]

I'm asking out a girl tomorrow and I'm so nervous about when we actually plan the date out fully together(if she says yes), this would be my first date ever Edit :she said yes, all we need to do is talk about a good time to go out for coffee

[@sunnysarchive3985]

Omg how did it go!!!??

[@lunacy_core2708]

Oh shit sorry guys, she said yes, but then we never got to plan it and got a boyfriend the week after

[@oliii3579]

@@lunacy_core2708 Aw dang that sucks…life is wild

[@paperplate1355]

@@lunacy_core2708 I know I’m late but good for you for trying, I mean that. You’re going to find someone. Sending good vibes

[@lunacy_core2708]

@@paperplate1355 I actually did, been in a relationship with my boyfriend of a year and 6 months, we started dating 2 days before Christmas of 2021

[@anni1642]

i have a first date with this incredible girl who is so beautiful and smart and funny and who i vibe super well together and i'm super excited! thank you guys (;

[@anonymousarmadillo9800]

Good luck!!

[@carolrose]

How did it go

[@euphoria.5354]

Im going to ask her out tomorrow, im super nervous, i really like this girl 😭

[@TheMageEdits]

How did it go?!?

[@Sneaky_Snail_Pie_02]

I’m planning to ask this girl I’ve been talking to on ‘Her’ about a date or meeting in person. She and I apparently live in the same town according to the app’s gps, so I’m hoping meeting in person goes well. Edit: They asked first. She and I are meeting in person at a Starbucks this afternoon. Excited and nervous to meet them irl.

[@MadHatter0616]

How did it go???

[@Sneaky_Snail_Pie_02]

@@MadHatter0616 She had to delay then ghosted me and suddenly was in a relationship with someone else. No longer using her for dating because it's happened multiple times now.

[@Nb-pf1od]

@@Sneaky_Snail_Pie_02 god thats terrible im so sry youll find someone better

[@Nb-pf1od]

@@Sneaky_Snail_Pie_02 also the audacity of her asking you first and then ghosting you. Like what

[@ΑλεξάνδραΓραβαλά]

Never had a problem being a lesbian. What I find difficult is finding a companion. Greetings from Greece 😁😉😊

[@noekie9786]

in 5 days ill be going on my first date ever with a girl that i just met a week ago. i know that might sound bad but shes really cute and sweet and pretty and smart and she makes me happy, so i just asked her. thank you for the tips. i rlly dot wanna screw this up. wish me luck :)

[@geetika6540]

I’m bi and going on my first date ever lol I’m really nervous I’ve never been on a date before

[@elliefuller3667]

Same here, bi and on my first date. Why does my first date have to be with a girl it is making me an anxious mess 😅

[@sugaar2420001]

I am happy that I found this video

[@JayCrissto]

Oh Alexis was glowing in this video, so relaxed and funny, adorable!

[@theogdeer]

fuccckkk my first date with a girl (and the first one ever duh) is on thursday and I don’t know how to act

[@theogdeer]

@@nana_lilja it went well ig? it was at my house so the first thing we did was lay next to each other on my bed and talk about deep stuff and it was easy talking to her (we live in an islamic country so we're both closeted and have the same struggles and it was exciting to finally meet someone I can relate to) when we felt like it was getting kinda awkward we played our playlist (thank god we made one beforehand) and we danced together!! she also did my makeup and my stomach went all butterflies mode but I kept my cool lol

[@theogdeer]

@@nana_lilja I wish you the best girl🥰

[@μπότα]

How is it going? :D

[@theogdeer]

@@μπότα we’re gfs now!!

[@μπότα]

@@theogdeer OMG THATS FANTASTIC !!! GOOD FOR YOU !

[@cocotulle23]

My biggest confusion is what to wear. I’ve pretty much only dated men and 85% of all the clothes I own are dresses. My few girl dates always seem more dressed down than me. I don’t want to change my style but I also don’t want to seem like I’m trying too hard, even though dressing down WOULD be trying hard bc I’d need to buy a whole new wardrobe that isn’t my style. I’m an “earthy” femme (like girly, but not always super made up ) who likes more of a chapstick type. One girl I dated even said it weirded her out that I wore a dress when we hung out. It was just a casual rayon dress and was the first thing I grabbed. I have never thought so much about what I wear until now. Until a few months ago I only dated guys and it was so easy to wear what I want because it would always be so different from whatever they would wear, but now I feel like I have to mirror my date’s style and vibe.

[@animehubrecapped]

Just do you.... If she's the right person she would love you the way you are

[@cinna8458]

asked out the girl i like at midnight on new years… so excited for our first date!!!

[@landmark_studios]

I just got back from my first girl date and I only saw this now… I feel like it went well though, but it’s still really nice that you guys did this 😊😊💕

[@Naomi-wm5cr]

soooo....... I'm going on a date with my crush next week, and I'm so excited. They're so amazing. It's gonna be a Halloween themed date and we're gonna carve pumpkins and watch movies. I'll update y'all after my date :) thanks for the video!

[@madeline1206]

Sounds cool, did it go well? I'm thinking of asking my Crush out soon also x

[@Naomi-wm5cr]

@@madeline1206 hey, yeah it went really well, they're now my girlfriend/partner and we kissed and they're so amazing. Good luck with asking out your crush!

[@Naomi-wm5cr]

@@madeline1206 we've also already been on our second date and on a double date with friends of ours

[@madeline1206]

@@Naomi-wm5cr I'm so happy for you!! Hope your relationship is everything you ever dreamed it would be XD

[@Naomi-wm5cr]

@@madeline1206 thank you so much! what's your crush like? and when are you gonna ask them out

[@amberhope7822]

This is perfect timing! I have a date Sunday and I am so nervous and excited! It feels different this time. I recently came out but I feel something there for the woman I am talking to 🥺👉🏼👈🏼🙈

[@katjanygaard-larsen6581]

I dont even know how to meet a girl, bc im a cpl years underage and apps are probably too grown, i live in a small straight town and im litterally the only out gay in miles

[@mars4968]

S A M E, I gotta wait 10th months until I'm 18 and I can use dating apps to find a gf ;-;

[@jarvisjackson4833]

I can't imagine a conversation entirely composed of one word answers.

[@Allystargirl]

Going on my first official date with a (gorgeous) girl tomorrow, at 19 let’s see how this goes! (I’m a nervous wreck)

[@animeactress13]

Omg I made it early!!! Love y'all so much and love your videos! Keep up the great content, it makes me feel so seen

[@menakim5860]

I always waiting for the ending moved that you both do or just alexis i really love this move😭

[@cristal914]

I’m about to go on a date with a woman next week for coffee and I’m excited but nervous 😭

[@elliefuller3667]

For me I’m going on a coffee date too this Saturday, I’m the same but a lot more nervous, my first time dating anyone and it is a girl 😭 why are girls so much more intimidating than guys?

[@alinak5174]

@@elliefuller3667 because girls notice everything

[@SnickersPlays]

watching this video makes me so excited to go on a date!

[@hollandwinkey3517]

I remember like a few months ago I skimmed through this video Bc I didn’t think I would go out with anyone soon but I’m watching this now and have a date with this girl I rlly like this Friday lol so tysm for making this video!!

[@simonsayys7346]

Woah I’m not single anymore and I was invited to a hot topic date.. I’m terrified

[@miagarcia9333]

I'm lesbian now (proud!) And I'm going on a date with my gf so excited tysm for all the tips 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

[@hibilly4786]

These were all such great advice!! Thank you!

[@citrusvqz]

im writing a lesbian book and even though im pan, i need help oml

[@simayhatabay7237]

Im going out for a first date tomorrow and just saw the video:D cuteee

[@roazure]

Hello! Could you guys do a video on finding a place in Toronto/your process/what you found? My girlfriend and I are going to be moving there and are feeling very overwhelmed at the prospect! Love you guys!

[@AlexisLilian]

Oh god... It’s a nightmare, that’s all there is to say 😅 It took us a long time and a lot of money to find something. We will be doing an apartment tour soon! Best of luck 😊

[@JocilynWagner]

I've fallen on my stupid face after chasing tail so many times I was really on the verge of giving up. Thank you for doing these--I feel like I can maybe try dating again at some point now.

[@user-ri8sc7kq9z]

im going on my first (ever) date with a girl soon and im so excited

[@pennypop270]

i’m going on a date with my gf tomorrow for the first time and it feels so unreal😵‍💫. im nervous asf!! i hope it goes well i like her so much :)

[@tae_minagustd9964]

What if we both are the shy types ...like im actually a top type if im dating a guy im not shy but when it comea to girls im soooooooo shyyyyy And my girlfriend is an introvert ..looking forward how itsgonna be our first date which is after the boards 👀💓

[@kodim.2735]

I'm a bisexual and I'd like to try going on a date with a woman, but I've only dated men... Afraid of the bisexual stigma I also agree with the FIRST KISS advice, first date is TOO soon

[@SaraJones-mf8nx]

Hi! Just curious what your personal opinion is on bisexuals. My question is can you personally date and maybe marry one sex and forego the other sex completely? And I mean like if your marriage lasts a life time. I realize that marriage means foregoing all others but would it be a big problem for you to never ever experience the other sex again? Thanks!

[@psychopillia7865]

I am pan going out with my pan roommate for the first time . Kinda scared and excited at the same time . I am thinking of an italian restaurant she loves italian 😅

[@hellobye6364]

i’m going on a first date tmr, i don’t know what to do... :/ it’s like my first ever date

[@yellow_bell_pepper]

How did it go??

[@amandaconnell653]

I find a daytime event, only for a few hours then arrange to meet again in a few days if all goes well. This gives you time to process yr thoughts on the date & you can be more sure of yr feelings for ther next time . Definitely don't drink & don't talk about yr ex. 😂😊stay safe everyone ❤❤🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍🌈 🇬🇧 🇬🇧

[@kencoleman5007]

This reminds me of the most awkward date that I've ever been on. After I told her that I was an illustrator, she asked for me to bring my physical ortfolio on the date. Pretty much the only subject we could think of to talk about was her time working at Mass. Eye & Ear (I have a strong interest in medical sci., and it turned out that I knew one of her coworkers from the lab). It ended with her insisting on one dessert (I had never been on a date where you share a dish like an apple cobbler). We ate from opposite sides, leaving sort of a wall of apple cobbler between us, just standing there like the demilitarized zone on the Korean peninsula. Another time, I didn't even know if it counted as a date. Some very forward woman used a wake (as in mutual friend's father had passed away) as an opportunity to network for business and meet single guys. She had already accused me of being selfish for picking this time in my life to explore the possibility of being trans, and she asked if I was going to be at an art show organized by an indie comics group that I'm part of. She told me that her daughter needs a better father figure than her ex-husband, and introduced me to the little girl as "Uncle Ken". Much to the woman's chagrin, the kid surely called me "Auntie Ken". She asked if I could keep an eye on the kid and show her how to draw while she looked at art. It turned out that she was schmoozing most of the night, and to the point where some of the members of the art group though that I had a cute kid and very assertive wife, and I was like "NO.". She called a few times after that saying that her daughter "misses" me as an attempt for emotional leverage,

[@AlexisLilian]

Hahaha thank you for sharing these, at least bad dates make good stories afterwards! The second one sounds just... what? Haha and the apple cobbler story was hilariously illustrated. Now that’s even trickier than sharing fries! 😂

[@amandaconnell653]

Omg! Using a wake to network!! Oh! So funny! One of the funniest stories of dating I ever heard! Wtf?! 😂😂😂

[@lizaroberts9167]

You are the most adorable couple ever!

[@lizaroberts9167]

Not sure if this even matters but I am not a lesbian but your channel came up and I watch you because of your wonderful personalities and the beautiful love and respect you have for one another!!

[@michellearnott9749]

@@lizaroberts9167 hi Liza

[@xmidsummersky]

ngl, when lilian said "get the area ready", i immediately thought of cleaning my personal down-there area (which ofc is also important) instead of my actual home 🥲

[@mixiegacha4792]

I can’t!!! My gf (bestfriend of 4 yrs) just asked me on a date! I’ve never been on a date before and this is my first time with a girl. I live in a country where lgbtq isn’t allowed so I also wanna be discreet.

[@carlcondenced]

I am so sorry for you, it sucks that you can’t love who you love freely. Please stay safe!

[@mixiegacha4792]

@@carlcondenced ty

[@carlcondenced]

@@mixiegacha4792 Yw! I really do hope it gets better!!

[@rachaelgardner718]

In my opinion if you ask them out on a date or suggest the place you’re going to you should pay it’s just the nice thing to do

[@cherrydaisuki]

aaaah this is an amazing video ! Thank you for the tips , I’m always a huge awkward mess when it comes on first dates and when it happens I tend to talk over people :/

[@michellearnott9749]

What’s your ideal first date

[@gray7624]

Got my first girlfriend this week

[@crunchycereal94]

Thanks for this. I'm going on this first date witha cute girl Ive had a crush on for a while but supressed my feelings for. I like videos like this cause it feels like I'm getting parental advice from my moms since I can't ask my actual mom and dad for advice :,I this helps a lot, ty!

[@wiktoriasz8428]

Hi, how does it went like?

[@Local_gremlin2009]

This is really helpful. I(lesbian) have been really thinking about taking this girl(bisexual) I like out to my local cinema after school hours to see a movie but I haven’t been able to ask her yet. Hoping for good luck.

[@김민트-n1e]

I started to subscribe your channel cause i feel comfortable to watch and learn many date stuff. I am single now its hard to find the right person. I hope to find a right person.. so if there is someone for me and start to have first date i will listen to your comments ❤️ thanks for great advice😉from Korea.

[@Lari_crescent_moon]

In two hours im going on my first date with my girlfriend. Oh my god I am so excited!

[@emilieloveskiwi]

I (think) I'm bi, but I still don't feel 100% comfortable with that label yet because I'm /mostly/ attracted to men, but occasionally to women. Like, VERY occasionally. And I've never been in a relationship with ANYONE yet, so in my mind, I always imagined my first partner would be a man. HOWEVER, I think there's a girl who's into me and I'm internally freaking out because I wasn't mentally prepared for that scenario. If she asks me out, I'd definitely say yes, but also, like, I'm super nervous about it all.

[@justloutea4027]

I was in a situationship with a girl for a while and we had lots of ups and downs but we love e o so bad much that every time we somehow came back and talked things over ,and finally after 10 months she now asked me if I'd like to go on a date with her 🥺

[@deIcorazon]

thank you for everything 🥺

[@kaylaw366]

I asked a woman out for the first time in two years. Thanks for the tips. I'm a bit rusty.

[@danielalina8380]

Hi

[@kam731]

I’m going on my first date since coming out (lesbian) very excited and kinda scared!!!

[@elettragrandi9696]

I confessed to the girl I like, and she kinda friend zoned me, but she made it seem like there was a future possibility and said to me that i can ask her out if I want, and god yes I want to.... but idk what to plan! I don't want it to be awkward, even if we are already friends and share many interests (we are classmates). Any suggestions?

[@katiebolda6637]

I’m going on a fist date ever with a girl and I’m super nervous but it feels more right than being with a man

[@malcourtroom9996]

You guys are so beautiful and fun! Aaaaannnd, y'all are starting to sound alike when you speak(similar ways phrasing sentences, emphasis points during speaking--ugh, I don't know terminology re speaking)

[@annclancy1394]

A plus for Audible. Have used them for years, love to listen to books while driving and they have apps for phones, iPads etc,

[@Jkolllll]

I'm talking to a girl and I want to invite her out on a date soon. I'm nervous 😅

[@Lmachine1]

I loved this video and I’m loving the comment section 😊❤

[@oreillyholly]

Anyone ever spotted a jaw-droppingly gorgeous waitress and been like "how do i get talking to this person outside of the basic waitress-customer dynamic???" I am in a bit of a pickle on this as its the first person ive felt drawn to in a very long time but im terrified of ruining it by coming across as creepy.

[@love_june]

Just write your number on the recipt or something

[@oreillyholly]

@@love_june Good tip, thanks!

[@starrynight669]

I think I'm going on a date with this lady I met soon. She's cute and seems nice but I never went on a date with a girl before. I'm afraid she'll think I'm boring and lose interest.

[@gabby9025]

Thank you for this!!

[@rorschachdaws7505]

Great video

[@Roo_Skadoo]

I'm going on my fist queer date (i'm a late bloomer lesbian) I'm chatting with her on an app. She doesn't mind me bringing my service dog. It's my first date since getting my service dog so I have the nervous feelings about the date andthe service dog.

[@ellajeffres4747]

I just asked the girl I like out, and these tips are great! :)

[@scubagoldfish45]

Loving the protips as always!

[@karenferns6160]

Loved this..!! You both give great advice.. X!

[@joynnama5028]

Beautiful video, love U two always.

[@shaniachantel5413]

i have a first date with my gf tmr (we liked each other for a while but never actually hung out one on one) & im nervous lol.

[@jbsang54]

Hiii. I am an older lesbian (50's) and want to attract a slughtly younger lesbian. How do I do that? I've tried everything... :(

[@piecookies3488]

My crush and I are going on a trip to the aquarium and then I’m sleeping over at her house. And I keep thinking of it as a date but it’s not. But here I am being delusional

[@menakim5860]

thank you guys , i will rely on this video to my future experience 💜

[@michellearnott9749]

First date should be treated the way it comes

[@EricaSager]

whats the background song?

[@SuperJess135]

Y’all r so cute! 💖

[@makizenin2457]

I’ve asked a girl before and I think it went well but I recently got ASKED to a date and I’m so nervous I wanna make a good impression and I’m such an introvert and overthinking and making scenarios in my head god I need help 😭

[@makizenin2457]

The first date went well cuz we were both introverts so we didn’t talk a lot but we ended up at my place and started dating after that. Also cuz I planned it and was in control 😩

[@cassidyalcorn640]

Alexis is probably the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen.

[@cgr6010]

I agree. 😍

[@boqueronbecky6977]

Thank You! I am going to start dating soon. Wish me luck 😊

[@bindasofficial7958]

I am an Asian girl who is very shy to ask date to any girl..... I am 32 and still single.. my bad luck...

[@alinak5174]

That was helpful!

[@kevinnosx9]

I hope I get a date. Some day

[@jacquelineclairereinerical4831]

I’m skyping with my new match (we haven’t met in person) tomorrow. She invited me to meet for coffee and I asked for the Skype first cause I’ve met some... interesting people online. Thankfully she said yes. Lol. Advice?

[@tifawt3736]

Can you explain why you use the term “queer” rather than lesbian, because we all have different definitions, and I’d like to understand your perspective. Thank you 🙏🏼💗

[@AlexisLilian]

Sure, we have a video where we discussed the term queer, and whether it’s offensive or empowering- search for it on our channel 🙂

[@patrycjaj5707]

Love u guys🥺