12 Fashion Items Making You Look WAY OLDER!

[@SheaWhitney]

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[@lesliedemarco1691]

Hi Shea! This is by far, one of your smartest videos EVER! Don't take that the wrong way though, cause I LOVE your content! What I mean is, that this particular video, I mean every single point & every single category you made/discussed, hit the nail on the head, I mean every single one! Wow and unfortunately because I'm 20 lbs overweight, some of these are styles I have to be careful with, including sandals/shoes, but I know my limitations and if I woke up 20 lbs lighter tomorrow, then yea, every single point you made is total perfection, so in essence, it's all PERFECTION! 😘😘😘

[@jeangenie5179]

Those Sam Edleman slides (or any ultra flat shoe with no support) are super uncomfortable.

[@Usukca]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@lesliedemarco1691]

@@Laura-mi3nv They are!!

[@Laura-mi3nv]

@SheaWhitney - did you delete the last comment? I was trying to respond, but it disappeared. YT has been weird lately.

[@autumnclack6073]

As a well endowed person, I have found that Eby bras majorly lack support. I only wear the ones I bought for around the house. Definitely not enough support to wear going out of the house. I tried two different styles from them. I am a DDD or an F depending on the bra. Just a heads up to my fellow busty ladies.

[@KRKimbler]

Good to know! Thanks!

[@wendynjflnc5065]

Dana Barez has great advice for the well endowed ladies.

[@carlycarlson1173]

I'm a 32DDD and I actually find mine very supportive and comfortable. I guess it depends on who you ask

[@autumnclack6073]

@carlycarlson1173 What style do you have? I like the material, but the support on the styles I have tried is definitely not there for me, but open to trying another style.

[@freedomthroughspirit]

@@carlycarlson1173 What style did you buy? I am the same size and am interested in finding good bras, always.

[@Sari.T.N]

WEAR WHATEVER YOU WANT❣️

[@karenthomas4575]

Absolutely

[@garmtpug]

Why do you come to a channel like this if you feel that way? Just to troll?

[@bluehibiscus502]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jeanettemarkley7299]

@@garmtpug Did that comment really affect you in some way?

[@garmtpug]

@@jeanettemarkley7299 I found it to be very stupid since the OP was watching a video about fashion for older women. Duh.

[@quantrillej]

I don’t understand women who view aging as a negative thing and youthfulness as more desirable. Isn’t it better to talk about what looks best rather than what looks “youthful” and what looks “aging”? We should be celebrating each passing year and the wisdom and beauty that comes with it.

[@cmclovesnkotb]

Yes, but as a 45 year old, I want to look 45, not 60 or 70

[@danam358]

She means to just look your age not older than you are. For example even if you’re 60-70 you don’t want to look 10 years older

[@lindalambert8712]

Well Said!! ❤

[@danni9867]

If you're not interested in looking younger, why did you click on this video?

[@skibunny2257]

Unfortunately the world values youth. They don't value aging and as you age you just become invisible. This is life. It happens to everyone. The young people that think it won't happen to them are going to have an eye opener one day. Then they will know how it feels to be de valued just because of your age. It's very sad.

[@Dee-743]

The difference between fashion and not, a few months apparently.

[@vickyb9918]

Yeah it’s ridiculous

[@joannecava2418]

SOOOOO. True - you finally get something “on style” (wait until you can afford it or need it) and it is suddenly OUT of style….ugh

[@LVCoffeeLVer]

lol those first panties are legit what I’d call granny panties 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 soooo wearing those will make you look old

[@aimeec.7251]

Fashion is definitely fickle.

[@elenagilbert8498]

These videos are her bread and butter

[@cindyloppnow1621]

laughed out loud when you referred to over 30 as older 😂😂

[@SheaWhitney]

30’s definitely isn’t old!!

[@jamievaduva1708]

@@SheaWhitneyneither is 40s or 50s! 😄

[@lja530]

@@jamievaduva1708 It's not "old" but it's older.

[@aj25055]

@@jamievaduva170850’s are older for sure.

[@Lorraine-l5f]

@@lja530 According to whom? Teenagers? Ask an 80 year old and they'll say those ages are a baby.

[@sherrylindstrom9301]

I’m 64 & the most flattering color on my skin tone is mauve. I am a soft summer so it really all depends on what season you are!!

[@judybus1]

​@@allgems6312I used to do colours on people for a living. Most people have no clue as to what season they are. If you are a true winter as you say, you will look best in jewel tones.

[@megmcdonald]

Completely meant to be helpful: I think you’re biased when it comes to the blushes and mauves. You’re right that these colours would drain and age YOU. I’d guess, based on when we see you without make up, that you are an autumn season, in seasonal colour analysis. You have higher contrast with warm, dark features. That means you can handle darker, richer, more saturated colours (and pull off some brights too). However, people like me, who are Summers, look great in the blushes and the mauves because we are lighter with lower contrast (I have cool medium pale skin, grey blue/green eyes, medium brown hair with fair eyebrows). The rich browns or vibrant greens you wear completely overwhelm people like me. I bet you’d love the whole concept of Seasonal Colour Analysis, and would probably love being analyzed and talking dressing for your season (and you could do many videos on the topic). I did a quick search and it doesn’t look like you’ve done this topic yet. Highly recommended!

[@sherrylindstrom9301]

100% agree! I am a soft summer & look fab in blush & mauve.

[@laneyoh5]

Yes! I'm a Dark Autumn (in Sci/Art or 12 Blueprints), and mauve or blush aren't flattering on me, but so lovely on my Soft Summer friends! 😊

[@mariahrichards6019]

💯

[@kwr2879]

These are more or less your personal preferences or pet peeves rather than true fashion faux pas..

[@MeBe35]

I think looking too tan ages people

[@FearofGodmom]

not if it's a natural, God-given tan.👍

[@seltzermint5]

I agree, especially ladies' decollete area. I see a lot of women my age (40s) who have gone to great lengths to keep their face looking smooth and wrinkle free but their neck and upper chest is very weathered and sun damaged. To me that is the biggest way a tan ages people (particularly white people of course).

[@janeandrews1790]

Jergen's Natural Glow helps you look healthy without looking baked or giving you melanomas.

[@christy4062]

I remember when high waters would get you tortured in school 😂

[@lindamorgan7855]

😂😂Yes, wearing high waters and floods would cause endless teasing. Maybe that's why I can't get into them.😂

[@crisnemitz1606]

​@@lindamorgan7855Yes! I can't stand that length. Just too much trauma! 😂

[@QueeneoftheDeer]

Exactly! We called them Flood pants. I am NEVER wearing this style. I think it looks terrible on EVERYBODY. Give me some really long boot cuts.

[@mimzyc9949]

I’ve been thinking the same thing.😂

[@keishaduffy8751]

😅😂😂😂

[@YellowCityMom]

Birkenstocks may be comfortable but they’re really ugly.

[@kibbygobo1052]

Totally agree. Hippy vibe. Not youthful or modern. They scream lazy.

[@vickyb9918]

That’s for sure.

[@QueeneoftheDeer]

Birkenstocks are UGLY shoes! The girls from Ann Arbor, Michigan wore those in the 60s and 70s. They also did not wear makeup or shave their legs or armpits. No Thanks!

[@debdenington]

l LOVE birks❤

[@miaccounting]

Will never buy one

[@deniseroberts571]

Sandals with Velcro are assisted living chic.

[@saltycat662]

Yes and I love them! I have chronic pain and health issues and I need them. So if they age me, I couldn't care less. Btw, I wear crocs too (gasp!).

[@dawnprudenti1965]

HaHaHa😂😂😂 good one

[@susanrogoski7333]

Couldn’t agree with u more. They r next level to ugly. 💁‍♀️👠😉😎

[@churchsbiscuits]

Very much Resident Essentials 😂

[@lja530]

I mean Teva sandals are pretty on trend with young people where I live, so nothing is ever set in stone I guess. So are crocs, amazingly. I love that fashion is unpredictable.

[@rljturbo]

The length of the skirt thing we will have to disagree on. I would look redicolus in anything shorter than kneelength. It’s just a bodytype thing.

[@pajamamama5965]

Completely agree. Knee lengths on my body follows the rule of thirds.

[@amiek9226]

ITA. Proportionality is more important to consider than trends.

[@amiek9226]

@@pajamamama5965 I’m the same. When I was younger, I thought shorts just weren’t a good look for me. Discovering knee length shorts and skorts suit my proportions was a revelation.

[@pajamamama5965]

@@rljturbo That's awesome! yes, every pair of shorts and my dresses are knee length now. All pants fall below my ankle and a few dresses are ankle length. Anything else looks ridiculous

[@art.darkly]

Good thing she isn't forcing you

[@valeriemcfadden853]

As an actual old person watching this video I got to say I found it pretty funny.

[@45FOFA]

Same…lol

[@GailKuzyszyn]

Me too. I don't think that bra will work on a boomer with a 40 D bra cup. It is the minimizer bra for me. And don't get me started with bikini underpants!!!! It's all cotton full sized undies for me.

[@amiek9226]

I’ll echo that as well. Short skirts and shorts look more youthful because they only look good on young people.

[@merideethompson9131]

Me too I'm 72. I have really nice long legs that could show off anything, no veins etc. but really I look at other women like me at the market or wherever wearing whatever they want and think, that's the way it should be. We should be comfortable and we don't care to look like we are in our 30's anymore. One more thing, the big purse is so OUT. On the Westcoast we are all wearing crossbodys because of weight on the shoulder and theft reduction. Who needs to carry a bag big enough to call an overnighter? For most outings you only need your wallet and your phone.

[@nancyinthegarden3160]

@@merideethompson9131 I carry my wallet. it’s very pretty and my phone goes inside it. Men don’t carry makeup and brush etc. When they leave the house, that’s it. I have started to wear a scarf on my hair so I don’t arrive like I was riding a horse.

[@eleana1239]

Don't get me wrong, I really like your channel but, more and more you are showing clothes that are not working for the majority of women 40+ because short shorts/skirts ´, mostly sleeveless tops and such look great on you but not great on mid-age and older women .. and they do not look classy neither.

[@lisam8044]

I have been saying this for a while too, majority do not have a body like that and Im sure from the comments on other vids a lot of her viewers are over 40

[@me4011]

​@@lisam8044maybe her channel isn't for you try looking at curvy focused influencers

[@kellycook4347]

I think it's more comedy than real influence here.

[@garmtpug]

You don't have to follow her style to the letter. Take facets of it and add it to your personal style. She is giving ideas, not proclamations. LOL Her usage or brighter colors, structured clothing, current pant hemlines and patterns, simplicity in handbags etc are all things anyone can draw from. Being short - 5' - the baggy and super oversized tops are a no for me as well as most patterns. I don't wear sleeveless but look for clothing in similar styles that have some upper arm coverage. No KZbinr is going to tick all my boxes, but that doesn't mean I dismiss their entire channel as unusable. These are ideas... The trick for not looking older than you are is not buying clothing that is advertised for older women!

[@lisam8044]

@garmtpug you're right, sometimes she does a whole vid with size 2 under 25 clothing but I look at the combination of colors etc, I'm sure it's difficult for her to please everyone and she goes to a lot of effort

[@crownhearthands]

A tote with a good handbag organiser hidden inside is ideal!

[@snacksandsunshine605]

I just wish their bras/products were cotton! I don’t like putting plastic or synthetic materials near my bits. But I love the looks and how seamless they are! It’s too bad that you can’t really do that with cotton but I understand why.

[@janetjaken1389]

Bali has some cotton bras

[@TheSweetnsalty1]

Those pants that show a little ankle only look good on long legs cause they shorten your legs. Next season when they’re out of style this will be the reason 😂

[@loveydovey89]

They are a great trend for me because I'm 6ft tall and I can just buy regular pants for that! lol Plus, nothing could make my legs look short hehe

[@gkaur1522]

Exactly.

[@EndlesSBloomzZ-1]

I totally agree, I’m short and those pants would look ridiculous on me

[@friend2u777]

Doesn't help my 4'11" body!

[@js9273]

@@loveydovey89 Ha ha - same here!

[@laureliechapman1267]

Great video Shae. Your comments about color at the end are spot on! Fair skin and gray hair can age us and make us invisible! Also, in my opinion, purses, or anything, with a lot of pockets and zippers can be not only ageing but downright tacky! The "cargo" look with multiple pockets on pants and skirts sometimes looks comical, not stylish or expensive or "classy"! I do have a different perspective on oversized - I worked very hard to lose weight and now to keep it off. My former self was 16/18 US and I am now size 8/10 US. I hid behind big and baggy but I no longer feel like I have to hide. I don't choose "tight", but look for that middle ground. Thank you for your hard work to present your audience with useful tips and tools!

[@kati3louwho]

The trick to watching Shea’s videos- Find a few nuggets that can help polish your outfits and that apply for longer than a few months. Sure as heck not buying new yoga pants just so they drape on my sneakers more. I’m super picky on the tips from shea I use.

[@amiek9226]

Yeah, not to mention super drapey yoga pants would make them impractical for actually doing yoga.

[@merideethompson9131]

Fashion changes so that the clothes makers can sell clothes. They are still functional, those pants in your closet. You probably bought them because they look good on YOU and that's so cool. I am tall, I can wear just about anything but I have my standards. I never bought ripped jeans! I gave away my skin tight jeans last season. I just look in the mirror and yes tweak or balance an outfit from there. French fashion advisors have different opinions too. It's fun to compare the content makers opinions.

[@art.darkly]

Actually covering the shoes slightly at a certain angle has always been considered a slightly better look - its extremely old school for slacks and pants.. Just not usually yoga pants but athleisure is its own thing now.

[@crystalcaprice]

I’m sure you take a lot of heat for these videos, but I love them! I don’t take it as you telling me what I HAVE to wear, just informing what the new trends are 👍🏼 Please keep making these!

[@avisladera6415]

Hula dancer from Hawai'i here:) So funny about the contrasting florals making you look old. We must be looking old over here with our contrasting florals😂

[@sbryant6797]

I think forgot to say except for the beautiful Hawaiian prints. There are some beautiful prints. And I think they are timeless.

[@art.darkly]

Yes you do - Hawaiian print, animal Print, most loud prints look like they need to be on someone over 60 and have sequins

[@angelamcmurry7873]

I prefer to cover my FUPA and BUTT and STOMACH and UPPER ARMS and BACK FAT with long flowy tops. I’m 60, 5’8” and 180#. For years I was underweight, then I had years where I was normal weight. The last 7-8 years, I have to be on medication that caused weight gain. I think women who are overweight like me and wear tight clothing, short tops, etc. just look horrible. When I wear leggings, jeggings, or skinny pants, the stuff needs to be covered!

[@Tamarad82]

Some of us really want to NOT put our older cheesy thighs on display so Bermuda shorts fit the bill. If my thighs looked like they did when I was 40, I’d wear the short shorts. I feel I’m doing the world a favor. One day you will understand.

[@garmtpug]

I'm old and am not happy about my legs. But instead of wearing long, frumpy shorts, I wear crepe or linen pants when out in public. They are as cool as shorts and look much more stylish.

[@tamb7587]

Amen , Amen ! I said the same thing in my comment!!

[@tamb7587]

@@garmtpugjust recently bought myself 2 pr and totally love them they r a loose weave so they r cool and look very summery w/o wearing shorts!

[@lachell257]

For me I'm thinking about work. At work you can't wear shorts that are super short. You need it to be knee length.

[@art.darkly]

Bermuda shorts are a punishment not a choice

[@teriaguiar8244]

Love you and your videos, but this was a tough one. If I had a body like you, then I agree with everything you said. However, people need to know their limitations. For example, sadly I have awful legs so short shorts are not an option. Also, many of your recommendations seemed to be intended for the great bodies and clearly those women who are YOUNG since 30ish is no way “older”. Please know that your videos are viewed and followed by a broad range of people.

[@PatriciaCook-p1j]

Yes!! I totally agree. One day she will be “over 30” and gone through menopause and will look back at her videos realizing that she really could’ve had a much larger audience if she weren’t so focused on the trendy styles. Or maybe she’ll stay this slim forever 🤷‍♀️ but I do wish she’d meet all of her audience where they’re at.

[@artbigotti2640]

For those of you who are apparently on You Tube for the first time, just take a deep breath! I feel like the spirit of this video is “if you’re youngish to slightly middle-aged and wearing these things, it’s making you look older based on current fashion trends.” Wear what you want, obviously, but I really don’t think she’s suggesting that 50-70 year olds wear these unless it happens to suit their body.

[@art.darkly]

Which is why I've been trolling these gertrudes endlessly.. Clearly they searched for something about looking younger to land here lol but what to whine they aren't her demographic. Well guess what I'm not the demographic for a lot of things so instead of going out of my way to be an annoying hag i just don't 😂

[@torigillispie9823]

I’m 69 yrs young and wear what feels comfortable. In my old fashion town, we don’t dress to impress!!!

[@flowerpower3618]

That’s wear I want to live .

[@garmtpug]

I'm surprised you are viewing this video then since all you want is comfort.

[@flowerpower3618]

@@garmtpug it’s stupid hot outside today and I stuck inside . 🤣

[@art.darkly]

Then why you here watching the video or you just like being cranky and contrary Susan

[@torigillispie9823]

@@art.darkly you are the mean one… I can see why your called darkly

[@pamelasmith470]

I'm so confused about the tees. Why oversized? That will make you look larger. I've never heard about a tee that fits as a thing that makes you look "older".

[@Mrsmaryiawhite]

The reason I like over sized is that it skims over my mom pooch. It also gives a more laid back comfy style.

[@friend2u777]

Since I'm under 5 foot, oversized tees make me look like a square😂

[@jeanies8495]

It’s because the younger generation has adopted the oversize look. It makes you look older because older people are wearing that style. Does that make sense?

[@pamelasa]

@@Mrsmaryiawhite but there is a difference between TIGHT and something that fits perfectly.

[@pamelasa]

@@jeanies8495kind of. But wearing a shirt that fits doesn’t ever go out of style. I don’t mean tight, I mean a proper fit.

[@unlikelycritic9356]

I have 63 year old, cottage cheese thighs...the longer the better imo. LOL

[@art.darkly]

Which is why this video, channel and clothes aren't for your demographic

[@tamaralarson7615]

Shea, I bought two of these from your last EBY BOGO video. Having been a diehard Soma girl, it wasn’t an easy thing for me to do. But, I trust you and wanted to give them a go. As a breast cancer survivor, I can’t do underwire anymore and have loved wearing Soma’s wireless bras. But I’m sold on the EBY Relief bra! Girl! These are extremely comfortable bras and I’m tickled pink with them! THANK YOU, SHEA! 😊

[@SheaWhitney]

Ahhh I absolutely LOVE hearing this!!!!! Thank you so much for sharing!!! So glad you love them too!

[@tammypereira9615]

Thanks for your comment I’m a breast cancer survivor myself been looking for new bras I’ll try these

[@tamaralarson7615]

@@tammypereira9615 You’re very welcome…happy to help. I’m pretty picky and I was instantly happy with the EBY Relief bra. They’re very supportive while being wireless. The padding liner feels very secure inside the bra. I’ve washed my EBY bras on gentle and hang to dry. Happily, I never found any escaped bra pads in my washer. The straps are thin, which I’m enjoying. The sizing feels pretty accurate for non-numbered sizes. (EBY does S,M, L, etc.). I live in hot, humid, sunny Florida and find these bras to be so light and comfortable. I hope you enjoy yours. 💗

[@suzisharp132]

I was going to purchase one of the bras to try it, went to the website, and although you can get a 15% discount, that is not good because the prices on the bras have increased! It's the first time I've ever seen this! If the bra was priced at $60, it's now $66. No thank you!

[@jenn2712]

My job has a rule: any sandal without a back strap is actually a flip flop, and therefore not allowed 😭

[@susanruby3239]

Why does your company have that rule? Is it the slapping noise the shoes make when one is walking?

[@jenn2712]

@@susanruby3239 pretty much! 😕

[@hanhstauffer653]

If your under 5'3 you should stay away from those capris that are ankle lenght, they will make you look even shorter. Trust me :)

[@katiannb.5195]

If you have the room in your closet...keep it all. It WILL come back into style at some point. And your daughter/grand-daughters will have some cool "vintage" clothes to wear. My daughters are loving the 90's styles I rocked. 😉😃😘😘

[@helenalennon9528]

In what world have FLOODS become fashionable?? Help!!!

[@beachs7210]

Exactly! I will never wear flood water jeans. They look stupid 😂 imo

[@susanruby3239]

@@beachs7210 I totally agree. I am five feet tall and those ankle length pants with the wide legs are just plain awful looking on me. I also wear the long shorts that are tight on the leg and roll up. They cover up my cellulite skin which is 60 years old.

[@nikeap2947]

Tell me about it! I've been 6'3 since the 7th grade and have struggled to not wear floods nearly my entire life. NOW they are "cool". It's taking a lot of reprogramming and a general "who gives a 💩" at age 42 to serve up these ankles. I'm out here flooding and the water is fine!! 👖 🌊 😂

[@jsi4064]

Deserts?

[@aj25055]

They are🤷‍♀️ A lot of jeans are this length

[@carlycarlson1173]

I like how so many people give Shea shit because they are overweight, or they do not love their bodies enough to look past the human flaws. Everyone (even people in shape) has natural signs of aging *cellulite*. She is a KZbinr. She is not putting a gun to your head and telling you that you're old or out of style. She is creating content that I (as a 29 year old) find refreshing and entertaining! Take what she says with a grain of salt. Live your life and find a different channel.

[@lja530]

Couldn't agree more. Just one thing: Cellulite isn't an age thing.

[@aj25055]

@@lja530right. I’ve had it for so long lol

[@garmtpug]

Agreed! I'll be 74 in a few weeks and I like what she's saying because it's realistic and true! Too many people haunt these types of sites and then complain about the content! I'm of the mind that if a person wants to look old and frumpy fine, but don't get upset when someone is suggesting there is room for improvement.

[@WorldsDarkTales]

Her audience are mid age ladies 30-50. That’s why…,

[@seltzermint5]

totally agree, even though I am 47 and a lot bigger than Shea I get what she's doing and take away good tips, discard whatever I don't want or need. Good videos!

[@lindacoolbaugh962]

My problem is I need capris or longer shorts because my thighs are a mess. Nobody want to look at that LOL

[@lisagriffith2097]

Ditto 😩

[@merideethompson9131]

I like capris. With long legs you can wear them. In hot weather I like that they will cover the back of my upper leg when I sit on say a plastic chair or a sticky restaurant booth and still be cooler than long pants. See everyone is different!

[@art.darkly]

I pair shorts with long ruanas for back if the thigh coverage during resort season - always makes me continue to not give a shit what others think.. Try it.

[@nabenfante]

Shea, I love your style but most of the clothes you recommend end up looking aweful on me. Could you help us plus size woman find some stylish fall clothes on Amazon for everyday and office. Need help! Everything else from home to jewelry I end up buying like 70% of things you recommend. 😊 Thank you!!!!!

[@little.golden.crafts702]

I think it would be nice for her to colab with a plus size guest. Cause I’m the same age as her but because I’m curvy I don’t think I can pull off the things the same as her.

[@sonagalova6538]

Me too, I hate wearing capris but what should I wear if I look horrible in skirts, dresses and shorts and have no AC at work? 😂😥 sometimes it's just a matter of surviving the summer time.

[@wendynjflnc5065]

Try Dana baez, she's a beautiful stylish plus size influencer that shows lots of fashion advice and hauls.

[@ashleighmackenzie8670]

She can’t. She only shows stuff she’s being sponsored for. If it’s not making her money for forcing it on us she’s not interested.

[@little.golden.crafts702]

@@wendynjflnc5065 great recommendation! Thanks

[@tinabecker1313]

I think my skin tone and hair color look good in blush and mauve, and I’m always mistaken for being way younger than I am. I think it depends on the individual color analysis if blush and mauve colors look aging or not. I don’t think I look good in a bright teal, but Shea does. All up to the person wearing it 🥰

[@les0101s]

Speaking of being old.....I have a warning. I think flare legs look great, but I almost fell down the stairs wearing a pair. I kind of turned to get on my stairway and started down and one foot got caught in the floppy flare of the other leg. Luckily, I did catch myself before falling too far, but it was a wake up call for me. Now that I'm older, I don't have the same balance and I probably have slower response times.

[@KRKimbler]

Color palettes are so individual. It took me a long time to understand what my best colors actually are and what suits me. For instance, the peach trend from this past spring was a big no in spite of how popular it was. I do like the shorter tops, though. My favorite summer tops are actually your Amazon recommendations. I wear them to work and no one would ever know they aren't higher end!

[@Christine-ec3mh]

Well Shea, all I can say is you’ll be “older” someday too!!!

[@christy4062]

@@Christine-ec3mh I think she's in her early 40s? I'm going by her face, but I don't know

[@carlycarlson1173]

She is simply giving style tips for people who are not "in" with times of fashion to help them look more youthful - perhaps she herself has felt that as well.

[@ashleydanielson3222]

@@christy4062she is around my age and I am 35.

[@merideethompson9131]

She's in for a shock.

[@christy4062]

@@Christine-ec3mh I think it's her heavy makeup that's making her look old.

[@susanc1179]

So oversized t-shirts and sweatshirts ok but over size blouses make you look old? This makes no sense.

[@tammystiletto]

Tshirts and blouses are two completely different things tho??

[@art.darkly]

No it makes perfect sense.. You just don't get it because your old 😂

[@susanc1179]

@@art.darkly so, who better to know how older women should dress than, say, an older woman? If we started making videos about what younger women should wear, you all would be up in arms and telling us to mind her own business because what do we know? And you would be right.

[@debbiemeyer7666]

The problem with older women wearing too short shorts is showing flabby skin and cellulite on most women. I’d think the, jorts are better for covering up those problem areas on older (60+) women.

[@Ltmotley]

Love these videos because they are so helpful. Agree with you on everything. Thank you for your honesty. People will benefit from your wisdom on how to look more youthful. Bravo!

[@Trisha-sk3eh]

"older people 30 and up" 😭 I'm only 25 but 30 is not old 🤣

[@mikam8801]

I almost bought Eby until I saw that the cup liners aren’t fixed. I still love the Neiwai fixed cup w/ clasp bra.

[@vickilavoie2516]

Shame unfortunately we all aren’t built the way you are girlie😊

[@little.golden.crafts702]

She should just name her video “dress like me” not everyone is gifted with a slim body at that age 😔

[@bhahn20061]

Fortunately you can find many other influencers that may match your body type for ideas.

[@Kris-willow]

Lol, she is clueless

[@CourtneyG1015]

@@bhahn20061 Even that seems to be hard to do these days. I followed a couple of influencers that were more of my body size/shape and suddenly they have lost all of this weight (like within a matter of months) but won't share how they did it. I can only assume it was due to some medicine, but it's frustrating because I really liked their recommendations and could visualize wearing what they were sharing. But you're right, trying to find someone to match your body type can be a huge help when looking for ideas.

[@js9273]

Go to an overweight influencer if that's what you want.

[@missymercer2879]

I’m 60 and agree with you on everything!! There are a few styles that aren’t for me, but I still agree it looks better😊

[@cmclovesnkotb]

Everyone coming at you in the comments- Shea always says wear what you want! However, that doesn't mean she's wrong. Certain style, just age you. I'm 45 and don't mind looking 45, but i won't want to look 60 or 70!

[@merideethompson9131]

Wait until you are 70, if you make it. You will be glad to look alive. And you will look your age which is appropriate. Sorry you are so afraid of aging.

[@lynnogden2728]

so glad to see your recommendation for EBY underwear and bras. I am absolutely in love with this brand. I started with the underwear initially and it has been the only brand I have that doesn’t show under my exercise leggings. They stay perfectly in place.They are so comfortable and after many washings, they still look brand new. I now own two of the relief bras, and one of the Seamless bralettes. I am way older than most of your followers probably are and I am a post bilateral mastectomy patient. These bras create such a seamless look under any T-shirt no matter how close fitting I saw that one complaint was that the pad inserts weren’t sewn down however I have found that I don’t need those at all, and happily remove them. I Encourage others to give EBY a try. I don’t think you will regret it.

[@erica6825]

Some really good surprises in there, like the "covering yourself from head to toe in fabric". Definitely agree. Also the cropping of pants - going try the ankle-display length. Fun to watch :)

[@leslielippert9623]

Wear what you like. Don’t take fashion advice from a tiny, skinny woman who,appears to be on speed!

[@brightlinebetty1258]

Yay! Wide leg yoga pants are available to buy again!!❤

[@miabhlub63]

When you have nice body shape, anything looks on you. Never had any weight issues until I hit my 40s... that starts to go downhill. 😅😅

[@poodlegirl55]

This was funny. I can't imagine being so self absorbed. Don't wear a big top it will make you look old, wear a big sweatshirt it won't. Hello, people who are actually old don't give a flying F$$k. That is the benefit to being old.

[@flowerpower3618]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@art.darkly]

Why are you here again? You are like a yapping Yorkie Gertrude.

[@taraisaschultz9897]

Capri pants are back this year and so is polka dots and leopard is everywhere.

[@sbryant6797]

I wear 5” rise shorts which provide enough coverage, but aren’t old looking. I am 5’8” so they work on me. And I got rid of a lot of my cardigans that were just boxy and unflattering. I found a super cute “cropped” cardigan that gives me a waist. Not the super cropped, shrug length. Thank you for showing what florals are better. I have tried to buy a couple floral dresses, but end up returning them. I am doing more tone on tone now. I am 60.

[@josephinerodriguez6332]

You said you don’t make the rules, who does make your rules?

[@jeanies8495]

It’s interesting as I look at this now that I’m in my 50s and I’ve always really been into fashion. A lot of the rules aren’t rules of course, but the things that are popular now started off about three or four years ago with teenagers and have now gone mainstream. The shoes, the denim, the baggy clothes, all of them were reflected in teen fashion about four years ago and now are what make you appear useful even if it’s not flattering

[@JonEllis-o1q]

The fashion industry so they can profit. It’s crazy.

[@josephinerodriguez6332]

@@JonEllis-o1q I just realize I’m too old for this influencer. A lot of these trends are so ridiculous. And yes, they are all geared to very young women.

[@kimrucklos5608]

So good! Direct and to the point with visual examples. Thank you

[@elzroman]

On the color thing, you NEED to look into color analysis. Because sorry you're definitely wrong 🙈 pops of color can look bad on people who arent in for example a bright winter season

[@art.darkly]

I don't think you took color theory based on that answer at all - fine & applied arts graduate

[@elzroman]

Lol ok....

[@beverleycraig7299]

I really like these tips. I can see exactly what you are saying. Thank you for these tips. It makes a huge difference in my confidence.

[@drelizabethscott]

These are some great ideas--I love knowing what prints are dated and fresh rn. Thanks for sharing!

[@cindihunter9119]

These "rules", drive me nuts! Age, height, body shape, etc...

[@SheaWhitney]

There’s no rules…that was a joke!! Wear whatever you want…this is just for fun and entertainment!!😀

[@carlycarlson1173]

This person clearly takes everything seriously..

[@art.darkly]

Could just wear a sack

[@andrear1282]

Please do a video where you style friends that have different sizes!

[@kimharrison8816]

Yessssss! I will volunteer too!

[@TerriSiler-hv8in]

No to the ankle jeans I don't need to look shorter

[@tammyhowington8396]

Agree!

[@art.darkly]

Then don't.. See how easy that is.. You did t even need to type it

[@gillsargisson8863]

Shea, I enjoy these videos so much. Even if I don’t always agree with everything, you are right in pretty much every case and I ‘try’ and take on board some of your suggestions, just wish your videos were longer 🥰👏.

[@starletd.1673]

I’ve read too many negatives comments to count. Here is the bottom line….. This person and this video has been created for people like her, like myself, like millions of other women in the world, who love fashion and all the little fashion tricks & tips people like Shea is kindly sharing. The information shared here happens to be really great tips. You don’t have to watch this video and you definitely don’t have to blow up the comments with criticisms. All you need to do is move on until you find a video that suits you and the things you enjoy. It’s like reading comments in the girls bathroom in the 7th grade. Come on, leave Shea alone and move on to something else. Find what suits you best and follow that person. It’s that easy.

[@LaurenRascoll]

I’m 49 and everything you said is truth 💯…I shop a lot in the junior dept to find the styles I like

[@JMinn14]

Shea! Thank you for recommending EBY bras! I have been looking literally for YEARS for a more comfortable bra without underwire that still does the job and EBY Relief Bra ticks off all the boxes. I ordered one to try from one of your previous videos and just ordered more! 😊

[@SheaWhitney]

I'm so glad they work for you!!!!💕

[@JJ33438]

nope - bells will never go out of style and ankle length or a little shorter make short women look dumpy. some things I agree with. thanks for this.

[@inabind416]

You have to understand something. If you have bigger breasts you can’t wear oversized because you’ll look bigger than you actually are and frumpy as well. We need waist definition!

[@jsi4064]

Sandles are a gateway fashion piece to heaven's waiting room. Along with functional handbags.

[@tinajof4059]

Thanks Shea❣️ I look forward to your videos every week! Don’t forget to do a Christmas Black Friday video for MEN👍🤗 That helped me and I purchased several things from you last year! Also, Shea do you still have a discount code for Miranda Frye jewelry?

[@dominiqueritchey6795]

Be healthy, and wear what flatters your body style and proportions. It doesn't matter what's fashionable if it looks funny on you.

[@natalierussoniello6250]

Everything changes each year, so we have to spend more money. Getting older lets me say, screw it. I will wear whatever I want and feel comfortable in!

[@art.darkly]

This video wasn't made for your demographic so we don't care

[@lauramccollum5686]

But why do I, as a 54 year old, want to dress like my daughter who is in middle school? I am specifically calling out the oversized tshirts and hoodies. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ChickenDuckish]

I'm 55 and understand where Shea is coming from.

[@mpbeautyinsight]

Just my opionion, oversized looks sloppy (but I am 'older' .. lol).

[@michalinamalinska467]

I find it really tacky when people come to the office wearing birkenstocks. I don't think they're a representable, classy shoe. I wear mine only while walking my dog and running errands

[@pajamamama5965]

I'm forty eight. I have 2 teenage daughters. I really struggle to dress in a way that flatters my body, looks current, And not embarrassing them in public. Shopping in their department is a big fail for me. I'm 25 pounds overweight, despite going no sugar, constant dieting, and swimming. It's hard to find clothes that fit nicely. Oversized stuff makes me look even bigger. Thank you Perimenopause for packing on the pounds just by looking at food. 0h to be 30 again.

[@lisagriffith2097]

Oh, I feel ya! I'm 51, 5 foot nothing, post menopausal with a little extra weight myself. We just cannot win here! 😂

[@pajamamama5965]

@@lisagriffith2097 Thanks. It's so strange to try all the things I did all my life to lose weight and not have them work. Unfortunately I gained the weight after a car accident and hip injury. couldn't walk much and barely slept until it healed. I still have residual pain So I swim instead. All that does is keep my muscles from atrophy.

[@lisagriffith2097]

@@pajamamama5965 You know what? At least you never gave up! After everything you've been through, it would have been so easy to just throw your hands in the air and declare that you surrender. But you are still fighting the good fight. I think that has kept you strong both mentally and physically. Those things are beautiful in themselves. So what if you have a few extra pounds? That's actually pretty common these days. (And looking like a super model is overrated. 😅) Not knowing you at all, I still believe that you are a beautiful person! And I'm sure your family thinks so too! Stay strong... You got this! ☺️💪🏽

[@pajamamama5965]

@@lisagriffith2097 Thank you so much for the encouragement! It's true I've had my season of suffering Over the past few years. I'm you're right I would've been so easy to give up but I just didn't like being so heavy andNot being able to keep up with my kids. Plus obesity is not good for our long-term health. It took 2 years to lose 25 pounds but better than never. Now I seem to be stuck but I won't quit. Still doing no sugar at least. I'm sure you're an amazing woman yourself😊😘

[@art.darkly]

Yeah didn't need the blog post a about it brenda

[@DiRidpath]

Let's address someone in their 60's and 70's. I'm 73. If I wear shorter shorts, you know what people see? Elephant skin legs. Aging legs and arms are not pretty. It saddens me, but it's life.

[@lattesandlux]

I appreciate the video Shea! Love the recommendations!

[@SheaWhitney]

Thanks so much for watching!!!

[@frannievanselow5568]

OHHHMYGOODNESS!!! I’m So Sad reading these comments! Shea is Helpful not Hurtful. Listen to her suggestions and find what would help make you look and feel better. Live in Today and not Yesterday. We don’t need to hear every reason WHY Shea didn’t Encourage with the way You needed. We all have way too much and lose the stuff that doesn’t flatter. I’m an Older follower, ok with it, 68, and follow Shea because she makes simple sense statements that are truth. ❤❤❤❤loveya Shea❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@geringergasse2]

Capri is an island in Italy that is pronounced with emphasis on the first syllable.

[@traceyjames4681]

Houndstooth. The oldest pattern ever - so old, it's back.

[@art.darkly]

Somethings are timeless

[@SallyPatrick-bb1ku]

I ordered a couple of different of the Eby bras last time you were promoting them…awful sent them back!

[@KarmaGirlDreams]

Shea nailed it. I have the same opinions, all the way here from Kuala Lumpur. Love ya Shea 😍

[@justmebedford6098]

those bras wouldnt fit anyone with a larger bust,,, and the video is really the same video with different outfits of the same mistakes,,, capri pants, longer skorts or shorts,, etc,,,, its really a repeat of videos you have done already

[@autumnclack6073]

I bought 3 two different styles. I found that they fit, but lack the support a larger bust needs.

[@j.p.9864]

Thank you soooososoosososososoososososoo much for these video they are so perfect like my literal roman empire was finding you ily

[@Mar-ME-s3h]

You’re so talented ⭐️

[@ladyyahingoy-dzia2789]

I really would love to see what is in for plus size women.some plus size women can't wear their shirt tuck in,or that has zippers or snaps. They would prefer leggings.

[@little.golden.crafts702]

Just watching for fun 😂 I’m plus size and these rules are a little different for me

[@art.darkly]

Not all of them.. Just think how you tweak the outfit for final styling of it.. Like accessories such as belts ya know I'm a firm believer that anything can be made to look better with a little thought

I think looking orange tan is also aging you. Just saying

[@jamievaduva1708]

I’m 49 and I wear longer shorts but I know how to dress and sorry but I hear all the time that people think I am way younger than I am. (Which absolutely makes my day and I’m so flattered) just saying there’s ALWAYS a way you can tweak your outfit to look current and youthful on you whatever your age. One of those for me being long shorts.

[@art.darkly]

You don't know how to dress if your wearing long shorts unless you live in the outback

[@terwya]

I love your videos and this one made me laugh because I'm 74 & no matter what I wear I look old. Ha Ha. Can't wear the long Flare leggings I would be tripping on them I like the ones that just touch my sneakers.The shorts for me have to be just above my knees need to hide my flabby legs. I would be lost without an organized style purse. I have a place for keys and place for my phone a place for my wallet. nothing worse than rummaging thru my pursing looking for something. So this is the Senior review.

[@yadiraavalos6389]

You are so hilarious 😂 “the bell dangling leggings” “ the purses with multiple zippers…love this video.

[@mariahampton4595]

I usually enjoy the content here, but this video has too much ageism, perhaps the word outdated instead of the word old would have been nicer. There’s nothing wrong with being older, not everyone can get away with dressing like a gen-z.

[@jamievaduva1708]

Or I think instead of old how about frumpy? Because at any age avoiding looking frumpy is a nice goal. But yeah outdated is a good word too!

[@karenthomas4575]

Absolutely spot on. .

[@debbiemeyer7666]

I’m 5’9” 123 lbs and I have a hard time finding of yoga pants, but the Yogipace brand comes in different inseam lengths and fit perfectly!

[@hespergamp]

Wearing baggy clothing makes plus-size women look larger and I speak as a plus size women. The only reason Wearing "baggy style" t's and sweatshirts "make you look younger" is because kids wear them that way. Thankfully, none of this is set in stone. 🙌🏽 Ladies, whe these are nice tips, wear whatever you want.

[@art.darkly]

Try a hoodie dress instead

[@Tina-tz2ud]

Is Eby bra available in Canada? I am unable to find it

[@Jcislord1860]

Love this!! The only thing I disagree with is the color mauve conversation because as a soft autumn complexion, I look best in muted colors like mauve, rose, seafoam,etc. but yes I agree to wear the other colors that suit me best over always wearing the mauves. Thank you! Great video!!