12 Secret Fears 90% of Men Never Talk About

How to understand men better? Do men care about their diets? Is it true that they worry about their relationships? Is it even possible that men can have secrets? Men try to look as “brutal”, strong and decisive as can be, yet they also have their concerns, worries, and secret fears. Let’s take a look at 12 things that actually worry most men no matter how strongly they might deny it.
TIMESTAMPS
What their body looks like 0:44
Financial situation 1:29
Their height 2:15
Sex is terrible 2:54
Other men can be a threat 3:21
Your family hates him 4:04
Little experience in relationships 4:37
Hair 5:07
Diet 5:49
Their relationship with their girlfriend 6:27
How many partners a girl had before him 7:01
Open expression of emotions 7:46
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SUMMARY
-Men try to look better so that they can compete with other men. And the worst fear is somebody mentioning their beer belly.
-Money is one of the most popular things that keep men awake at night.
-Size doesn’t matter unless it’s about the size of your heart, no matter how cheesy this might sound.
-Once you make your man more confident, you will see that the sex will get much better as well.
-When men are jealous, it’s not usually as obvious as when women are.
-Men really worry about your family’s attitude to you, because they can easily influence you.
-Men always try to look like more experienced lovers than they really are.
-The worst thing that can happen to a guy is becoming bald, especially for men that used to have long hair.
-Men also care about their bodies, about their health and the foods they eat. It’s just that they talk about this way less often.
-Guys are supposed to be «brutal», but in fact they want everything to be okay in a relationship just as much as girls do.
-If a woman has more partners than a man before they met, he might feel the necessity to compete with them.
-Men are scared of showing their true emotions. If you accidentally see your boyfriend crying, pretend, if possible that you didn’t notice anything.
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[@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL]

Hey everyone! Do you have any secret fears? If you don't know, this test will reveal it kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqqunomvZ7l2aKc

[@ashfaquesaudagar5403]

BRIGHT SIDE can you make video about why we can't take water from earth to another planet and start life there..??

[@adilnizam5326]

To show my body

[@mgnsnipez5390]

I have a fear of u click baiting

[@StevenGoClipThat]

BRIGHT SIDE John wicks

[@CrewChest]

how big and long it is ;)

[@dannyboy9715]

Height doesn't matter - says the tall person Money doesn't matter - says the rich person Looks don't matter - says the beautiful person

[@GR3N4D3GUY18]

Spelling doesn't matter says the literate person

[@LadyCoyKoi]

ablities and intelligence don't matter says the able-minded genius.

[@2stringerd]

nothing to say else?

[@kaylastokes3285]

Sooooo true

[@foodnspoof7230]

Me:everything matters

[@kartiksingh7856]

Any Female watching this??😅😅

[@dnniethefox7102]

Me

[@jeromezax2661]

999995

[@savannabownthecuntandassho2623]

Yup

[@anachristopher6804]

yeah

[@ace6645]

Yup.

[@yokito0496]

I'm a guy and I can confirm this that this is true

[@pascualsmithvaldes9038]

hello dude i am a guy and no, half aint true

[@yokito0496]

@@pascualsmithvaldes9038 we all have different life styles so some may not relate to some people

[@mrrichardson9221]

You must be extremely insecure.

[@devonherle6124]

Your mom any guy can confirm

[@puglif3708]

@@pascualsmithvaldes9038 yep same lol half ain't true

[@Brembelia]

I don't trust a man who doesn't ever cry. This means he's out of touch with himself and his feelings; scary.

[@pine_apple6674]

Well I mean it's not on purpose dude's apparently shouldn't cry is what my parents tell me all the time don't get angry don't cry I can handle that but it's really hard not to cry

[@oldassaccount4790]

Yeah Somehow I and up getting friendzoned to the therapist though so.... I can say I at least can trust them

[@crimeslime5419]

Yeah, everybody should be able to show vulnerability. If you can’t accept your feelings or express them with those you care about then you lack maturity

[@parasufikesdrastrirotites5778]

Dude we cry when all alone and nobody sees us.

[@gbntac3690]

Men don't cry, cause we r strong so that we attacks heart deseas more than women.

[@user-it1cp3ux5r]

Society: Men are secretive, decisive, strong, never cries, never gossips. Me, with 4 older brothers : uhmm... No.

[@almacaudilla4721]

Men are the best gossippers...and the gossips are always true !!!

[@tabarakhossain4427]

Men gossips more than women... 😁

[@onyekavictor7145]

@@almacaudilla4721 you are so right, their gossips are always true

[@roniieeem5031]

First 3 are true Last 2 definitely not true 90% people can't help but gossip (80% men, 99.99% women😂)

[@carloscanania1159]

@@almacaudilla4721 🤣🤣🤣

[@contentinmotion]

Biggest fear for a man: GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP. it brings all the other fears along with it.

[@RakneJulio]

That's not necessarily going to happen

[@andrewclarke6418]

Nope, i'm already scared of spiders

[@visheshl]

Agree

[@desiredaura3665]

@@andrewclarke6418 I like spiders as long as they aren't poisonous. They might not look pleasant but they can be great friends!

[@oliaortega3688]

Ok no relationship there

[@butternutyeeetsbanana.-.5389]

I like a man whose honest and straightforward with me, I don’t like it if he’s keeping quiet 😓

[@desiredaura3665]

What about cuddles? I'm asexual so I can't be doing all that but if cuddles works we can be best internet friends! 😂🤣😂

[@KaBoBoHan]

I just afraid to hurt someone feelings Don't even think that I'm a girl Cause I was a boy

[@johnratican3824]

I don't believe you. Women only want to hear what they want to hear. You cannot be honest with a woman.

[@shawnmunck7412]

what if that guy is naturally quiet? do you feel hes keeping something from you if hes just normally quiet?

[@oliaortega3688]

Hey question Butternut yeeetsbanana

[@MiracleDiengdoh]

when my man cries i hug him tightly,with tears too. Wiped my tears, kiss his forehead and tell him he’s gonna be fine.

[@petrap.8022]

Pathetic big baby

[@anyebhujal9954]

If I saw my man crying I would treat him like its okay to show your emotions because you are a human too :))

[@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL]

TIMESTAMPS What their body looks like 0:44 Financial situation 1:29 Their height 2:15 Sex is terrible 2:54 Other men can be a threat 3:21 Your family hates him 4:04 Little experience in relationships 4:37 Hair 5:07 Diet 5:49 Their relationship with their girlfriend 6:27 How many partners a girl had before him 7:01 Open expression of emotions 7:46

[@jaysongmking6169]

Ayo

[@courtneystrozier2472]

Really?

[@escuelaprojecto8068]

@Veeral Patel XD

[@annasmith4959]

BRIGHT SIDE thanks for this 😆

[@engrwehelie9641]

i even don't have that patience to see while she is greeting another Guy at that time everything is possible from me

[@samanthacook6900]

It takes a real man to be able to cry and show his emotions that’s why I absolutely adore and love my husband because he’s not afraid to cry in front of me

[@cake8888]

I'm Roksann's husband not her. She rarely makes me cry, and shouts at me if I do. This causes me to cry.

[@jonswedenboysspeed1096]

So real men put their problems on other people cuz that makes sense right My problems are my problems. Everyone's going through something The last thing they need is someone else's problems on top of their problems.

[@jonswedenboysspeed1096]

let me guess he likes to be pegged too 😂😂

[@carndav]

Bright side: Unless its about the size of your... uh heart. What did u think i was gonna say Me:you already know

[@desiredaura3665]

Relatable! 😂🤢🤮😂

[@kimkardashi-un9167]

Its the D

[@shivankar964]

lol i was also thinking the same D

[@fauziyakabir5705]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tylermustardloooser386]

My secret fear is losing my progress in Skyrim

[@mahadev1483]

Tyler Mustard HAHAHAHA LM*AO

[@trythrusting9980]

Tyler Mustard Omg, same here, even though I finnished the game 5 times

[@princess_sonianevermind]

I think I have that game too.. Pleeeeease don't

[@jvampyre1744]

Tyler Mustard... win :)

[@naael4105]

Tyler Mustard same

[@5thLineRecords]

"Men care about the food they eat." *inhales 5th cheeseburger*

[@carolinerajkumar]

😂

[@markfoster1520]

I care about cheeseburgers, zeez!

[@egyptnz27]

🤣😂😅🤣😂😅🤣😂😅funny dude

[@soniaali3683]

Haha.. Enjoy your meal

[@Shhehwhsi24]

*casually eats entire family size Doritos*

[@segampongrhonbethel3659]

I fully agree to the last example. My father regrets not crying from a young age, that's because when he grew older, he couldn't cry even if he wanted to.

[@lanamanaghan6165]

I know one feeling men aren't afraid to hide. Anger. I know this from my dad

[@whitejade2070]

Anger was the only negative emotion seen as acceptable for a man back in his days while women are allowed to express more.

[@ashleybaltz4584]

Yeah. That’s my dad too. When he gets angry about something he did he takes it out on the next person he sees. 🤯🤯🤯

[@johnochako8282]

@@whitejade2070 true that

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

@Lekan Munoz why?

[@spenceriscold4844]

*type f in the chat to say "same"* F

[@xxtoxicxx5472]

You broke the bro code between every man, no girl is supposed to know these facts

[@carolyntaylor3805]

I’m a mother of 3 boys trust me mums already know.

[@killersnakeilussnake231]

Your so right he totally broke the bro code man.."rule 154# don't tell away the fears of fellow bros

[@kristinepeters1448]

HAHAHAHAH THE BRO CODE

[@shawdawg0044]

chewie baca so true

[@PH0T0N]

I think you are more like a woman, not a girl.

[@jeanstephanienjeri2612]

Nabody: Me:watching this knowing very well I have no boyfriend and never had one

[@dreammaker3167]

Me too lets be in relationship 😉

[@candytiger644]

same 😭

[@missgurl274]

yea my sister has at least 12 ex's and shes 12 me i got about 0 ex's i don't understand how we sisters i think i'm just scared for some reasons

[@annsuneeswift6976]

@Deaf Guy Chronicles lol same

[@bgirl2350]

Me and my man have been together for 4 years already time flew we are married now we don’t care about each other’s flaws we love each other for who we are 🥰😍🥰

[@vpascua4684]

I asked my boyfriend his biggest fears and he only answered with one, losing me... 😕💗

[@alexmurphy5548]

Nope it's being broke

[@fareshejazi2297]

I hope your relationship is still good and going well!

[@efilata7854]

Be thankful!

[@Vishanth_kateel]

Awww cute 🤩

[@Dr.Andy007]

he's a beta

[@FDBros]

I think woman will fall in love with you, Because of your attention to her. No matter what you look like, you must care about her. Woman always need attention from someone when she got a problem. Are you agree this???

[@jackoneill0812]

Do not agree

[@Harivanshi10.02]

Ryt

[@rohitandley]

I suppose im an unlucky guy that way. No girl has looked up to me when i do the things you said

[@FDBros]

Tech Guy I Know, sometimes it happen to me too. But when I try again and spend more time to her :) So, There always be a miracle for what you do ^_^ Just trust your self !

[@flipflop2445]

FD Bros no

[@manuelxsofficial1240]

“ Hey what you think I was gonna say “😏😂😂😂

[@laughs8589]

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[@parichawlaa]

😂😂😂 I was like yo bright side chill!

[@user-nm6cf6ol4t]

Right when I read this comment bright side said it-

[@secretfeelings3434]

I love seeing guys cry, it always melts my innocent heart...

[@DominiqueFin]

Wow all of these are so secret. Who would have known the majority of men care about their health and finances

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

Dominique Fin right? 😂

[@mr.clutch5928]

ha😂 well spoken my friend

[@DominiqueFin]

DjMcYello 2017 NOOOOOO really???

[@washingmachine4993]

Relevant Relevancy no they don't

[@redguy8]

😂😂

[@yefersonherrera532]

Size of your "heart" you just killed me, lol,😅

[@jadahobbs5846]

so true I was expecting something way different who else is with me on this one

[@danilove2266]

jada hobbs my name is jada too and I agree with u

[@i__7444]

Same!!

[@justeli7094]

yeferson herrera M

[@briannarivera7381]

yeferson herrera... Me too

[@mariomalone1418]

Why you telling girls 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@ArtistShreya4099]

Lol😂😂

[@michelleladzekpo5182]

so we know

[@oddlydone7292]

Ok, I’m not saying this is me, but a lot of girls in my school won’t even THINK about dating a guy under 6 ft... it’s just the society we have today 🧐

[@linkfromzelda1002]

To be fair, I wouldn't even THINK about dating a girl who cares about how tall I am... it's just common sense really. 🧐

[@oddlydone7292]

Link From Zelda ur not wrong

[@karlathefox]

Might be true. But why always that "it's just the society we have today"? This phrase is so annoying. As if in the past looks didn't matter. Of course they did! Just sometimes the women couldn't even chose who to be with or had to take the first somehow ok man. So maybe this made them be with guys who they were not attracted to physically.

[@jiminfarrior1737]

@@linkfromzelda1002 me knowing my mom is 5 inches taller than my dad and I am 3 inches taller than my mom

[@linkfromzelda1002]

@@jiminfarrior1737 "Noooo you can't just have a short dad he needs to display his masculinity and superiority as the man of the household nooo!!!!"

[@sparkyspark964]

My husband was a very strong, hard working, capable man. He said his love for me made him see things in a different light and he was able to show his emotions much more openly. I was so touched by that and it shows how important being in love is to our well being. I miss him so much.

[@pitbull-yg6tf]

Oh no what happened???

[@danielmonarrez6029]

Sparky Spark if you loved him let him think than take him somewhere he likes to go if your a rich people

[@charlenebruno757]

Sparky Spark what happened to him is he ok🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@michellekeiscome7361]

Why do you miss him? What happened? Your comment was like a roller coaster - I was touched by it until you said, " I miss him so much." Then I was more deeply touched and just had to say something.

[@mamamamamari]

Sparky Spark What happened tho? But,well sorry for your loss

[@osayd4913]

" we don't stereotype" *stereotypes men*

[@osayd4913]

teakitty4 Day true

[@levischuurmans9400]

I have all of these fears... XD Not gonna lie.

[@josephorossi]

xVx_L3v1_xVx_KillMe #9943 fear is an illusion. open ur mind

[@levischuurmans9400]

I know it is, just like pain is, but wouldn't recommend you cut off your arm to conquer it... Haha, but in all seriousness, I overcame all of them by speaking of them, but that doesn't mean I'm not self-conscious about most if not all these things. ;)

[@Sariine436]

We all have things in common.

[@egyptnz27]

AWWH is that u my uso Levi🤷..U don't uso hajajaja

[@anna-5104]

Well, if you take the points all literally, I have all of these fears and I'm a woman. Even the point about height (because I can be a little too tall depending on who I'm with) and being jealous of other men (because male friends and colleagues take my boyfriend's attention away from me and I'm always afraid he might break up with me, if I talk about how those men make me jealous).

[@Tolerantbuddy]

Oh men!! You got me 12 out of 12, i’m so impressed. You said it all wow

[@Kyphia7]

My husband had almost all of these fears before we got married. It's actually really cute and sweet when they tell you about these things or you notice them. They always made me love him more cause they showed that he really cared

[@angry2270]

Who cares

[@alex47_in_downtown18]

@@angry2270 rude

[@OpEditorial]

Just wondering how did: "the fear of losing everything in a one-sided life destroying divorce" not make the list?

[@ATRUSTEDSERVANT]

Remedy That's more than likely because it is included under the context of number three; their relationship with thier girlfriend, (edit; or wife).

[@maxpower9503]

Thats a blue pill video - divorce rapes just never happens.

[@OpEditorial]

Danielle Perry very true, but given the obsene amount of risk involved it's all but pointless to get married in the first place...

[@metrick1529]

Remedy You forgot how the women gets to take the house that YOU bought with your hard earned money, now your homeless and the girl gets everything... Why is that not on it

[@sheeplebeware9511]

This video was brought to you by divorce lawyers everywhere.

[@school8066]

12. Agree 11. Partially Agree 10. Agree 9. Partially Agree 8. Depends on maturity level (Partially Agree) 7. Partially Agree 6. Partially Agree 5. Agree 4. Agree 3. Agree 2. Agree 1. Agree

[@nutanarya6166]

2 :52 Me:*Coughs* My spirit : time to visit church now

[@KneeCapHill]

Is it possible that Men are as complex as women but are simply more quiet about their problems and generally don't result in asking others for emotional support ?

[@syntax8025]

Sean Brogan Most likely. The self harm rate is higher for girls in the UK, but the male suicide rate is higher than the female suicide rate. It may be that males are less likely to share the fact they do self harm, and this leads up to a greater build up emotion leading to worse effects.

[@pedrobeato9084]

Yes

[@KneeCapHill]

As george Carlin said: Women try it more often but men are better at it

[@epfizerdoolittleajl2165]

Sean Brogan women aren’t complex men are

[@ronin3635]

Nah, We're simpler and more straightforward, woman are just confusing

[@BlastOffer]

Also men are attracted to looks, no matter what he says. Its just a biological thing. Looks matter

[@alexmurphy5548]

Yeah I guess that's how we are wired

[@DeathByBaconHawk]

Has literally 0 to do with the video but okay?😂😂

[@tomunderwood238]

@Jacklyn Demon that makes looks even MORE important.

[@random...3723]

Not really looks But men like groomed girls

[@shalevsaada7596]

ummm so woman im not a woman but it is very important for them no matter what they said

[@arpitapps5327]

😭😭😭 This is by far the best video you have ever posted....Thanks

[@jayaupadhyay5750]

I feel like I'm attracted to guys who cry

[@shanuhere8758]

😂😂তাই নাকি

[@jayaupadhyay5750]

@@shanuhere8758 what

[@shanuhere8758]

@@jayaupadhyay5750 i said "so is this the matter?"😅

[@jayaupadhyay5750]

@@shanuhere8758 lol yes

[@kramarancko1107]

Why is that

[@CupcakeTheNightFury]

I love it when men show their emotions :) I don't care if they hold it in when their in public. I get it. Women do that too. No one want to be embarrassed... But, I hate it when men hide it in front of the person they are in a relationship with :( Remember! If you cry in front of a woman and she tells you to "man up" then SHE IS NOT FOR YOU! CRYING IS NORMAL! NO ONE CAN CONTROL IT! *IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU'RE WEAK!*

[@garnethusky911]

Some men may continue to hide their emotions, even when told not to, because it's something they've gotten used to growing up, and changing that would be weird. Say you were stuck in a box since birth (given food, water, etc.), and all of a sudden you were exposed to the general public. You would be petrified by other humans, etc. I'm not trying to sound snobby or anything, I'm just saying that some people are entirely okay with staying in the dark about their emotions.

[@iCazZiStronZi]

Cupcake The Night Fury you think women hold in their emotions in public?!? Ha!! Thats a good one!

[@iCazZiStronZi]

DMG02 its not healthy to constantly bottle your emotions, no matter who you are! It COULD lead to bad things

[@CupcakeTheNightFury]

SUBIE4estr XT Women do their best to hold in their emotions! But it's harder for us to do it because it's natural for us to be more emotional!

[@terminated5435]

I never cry in front if anyone not even myself

[@TBjunk25]

here at bright side we are against stereotypes... so here’s a list of stereotypes

[@MsPrestige2009]

You're funny 😁

[@Halo_Legend]

How about no? He listed things many women would not think men feel. He did not say EVERY man is like that, chill. Men want to talk about their problems, women want to talk about their man's problems, why would you prohibit that? In the name of what? Lifting your self esteem as to look like a macho who worries about nothing?

[@rae.baleto]

Toastercalico

[@MNJay1]

Exactly. A stereotype is a stereotype for a reason. They don't like stereotypes? Not talking about them doesn't make them go away. Example: A man sells drugs on the corner in L.A. He sells them all the time. So you hear one speaker of sound about it. Pretty soon, this same thing starts happening in Dallas. The exact same thing. Its no longer a monotype thing. It's exactly like it is in L.A. Sounds identical in both places. Like, um, what can we call it? I guess we'll have to call it stereotype. Because it sounds exactly like the other. Not mentioning it doesn't make it go away. Quite the opposite. It allows It to continue. It needs attention. Positive attention. To the point where the negative behavior that created the negative sounding talk about it stops. Then and ONLY then can the "stereotype" go away. Your comment was exactly what I was thinking. BRIGHT SIDE has now been stereotyped.

[@rae.baleto]

Y

[@vincentdavi3514]

I LOVE this channel and you are the best narrator on KZbin, TV, Netflix wherever. Best narrator. Period.

[@thestiffanyeduardo]

I always remind him to never be shy to cry and let his emotions all out. I really adore when men cry. It means you are strong. 💪

[@vexmea5813]

I completely agree

[@zedio8463]

What no it means that hé is weak

[@indianathe3rd742]

But my girl actually hates it when I show my emotions

[@mattc5273]

“We’re against stereotypes” *continues to tell a list of stereotypes*

[@Texarmageddon]

xxxMattmanxxx - stereotypes normally form when there is a repeated occurrence of it. Wouldn’t be a stereotype if it didn’t happen very often now would it?

[@garret1930]

Fetus Clef there is a higher instance of phsycopothy in men than women

[@garret1930]

Bret .Frankman I would not deny that fact as I have as well: case in point my ex.

[@wubzt3r]

Uh...do you know what a stereotype actually is?

[@OfTheiAm]

PonyDubWubster Do you ... They are common ideas about a group of people based on RECURRING actual behaviours by that same group of people, so not only can stereotypes be true , the video narrator based this video on the viewer already thinking "men don't show emotion" "men don't worry about things" etc. He used the stereotype itself to say men are a certain way, that is what the comment was referring to

[@barbaradalzell2597]

My husband is a bit on the "sensitive" side - for a man. And I've gotta say I love it! I find it extremely attractive that he's not afraid to feel, or talk! It is in fact one of the things that attracted me to him in the first place!! 💖💖💖

[@elisays258]

"Oh no I don't care about height or money or anything, I only care about his personality!" - Lies women tell

[@tiffanypersaud3518]

Barbara Dalzell Thanks for sharing!

[@homosexual2.033]

Barbara Dalzell, my boyfriend is the exact same way. And he is so cute. Especially when he gets shy about something.

[@baronperez8200]

Men are afraid to talk because they are seen as weak and ignored by women and men in contrast to when women talk about their feelings they are helped by both women and men. But when you find those rare girls who actually don't mind you talking about your feelings as man, and don't just say they do, it's awesome. My girlfriend is so understanding and thinks about others, not just herself.

[@mrbenz2017]

@@elisays258 lol

[@mariav5253]

“Here at bright side we don’t like stereotypes” As they list every basic stereotype in every video

[@whos.emii361]

2:44 I got tricked into thinking he was gonna say sum different 😭😭.

[@ruthelisaluna6910]

Find it precious when men show their emotions! LOVE them!!!

[@indianathe3rd742]

My girl hates it😔

[@jiminfarrior1737]

@@indianathe3rd742 TUFF

[@desiredaura3665]

That scares me too.....

[@harrisonzandonella5257]

See tho when you say precious it makes men feel like children or something to be amused at and not a fellow equal or possible mate you know...

[@jiminfarrior1737]

Same. I would rather be in a relationship with a man who shows his emotions than a man who doesn't think it's okay to cry.

[@rachael8646]

wow, it's almost like man are human beings and worry about the exact same things as everyone else :O *gasps*

[@sexyladyakb]

rach P wouldn’t be the first lie the internet told 🤣😂

[@Flyinggirl893]

Haha 😄

[@laumay7364]

Oh come on, men are human beings and worry about the same stuff,lol, sure, sure. 😂😁

[@blue_breezesky8495]

Rachael Bo-bachael is it me or us girls think that men are monstrous creatures 😂

[@OfficialSnowhite]

Wait... They're human?

[@nicolebarnett8702]

"Ask him to tell you how he feels" 😂

[@frankdanieldaileg7095]

Wow thank you bright side!!!! Everything is true I will show my emotions sometimes if I had to

[@JohnRBruno]

Another thing that a lot of men worry about is whether or not they truly make their mate happy. Many men worry that their mate will tell them that they are happy when they aren't.

[@crazykayci5041]

Mourngrym Stormhand thanks I think this may be the case with my bf actually

[@oisinosborne2852]

ha i read mate like a friend and not a partner.

[@sabcam2000]

girls do that too... unless they don't care about the guy and are looking forward to get out of the relationship. It's just a sign of love and maturity to care if the other is happy.

[@teej783]

Not really.

[@JohnRBruno]

+CrazyKayci no problem. hope you guys worked things out

[@daemonianymphe5276]

" size doesn't matter " lol why am i thinking of something else?😂

[@mahadev1483]

Faye Rivas HAHAHAHAHA

[@dragon_slayer709]

"It's the size of the *pause* heart" Hmmmm I wonder what I was thinking there

[@ademathew4963]

because that what you want,right? :D

[@Haileyjane2004]

Faye Rivas 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MichaelCharlesBishubo]

Faye Rivas because it should have been on the list

[@Jay.dev23]

Love this vid

[@earlmalicse8433]

This is true I've been laughing when I remembered my experience

[@rainsplash43]

"We at bright side are against all types of stereotypes" Entire video is full of stereotypes about men and women

[@akosboth2070]

Rainsplash no the real stereotype is what you thought before this :).

[@Mystic_Sanctum]

I think a lot of those were sarcasm.

[@princess_sonianevermind]

+Yuffa Tuff Me too, usually KZbin comments are sarcasm

[@lxi7374]

No he was saying that those are stereotypes that everyone uses against men

[@Mystic_Sanctum]

SergeantObezity12 I understood that but I think the narrator was saying them in a sarcastic manner. I believe he said them with a sarcastic tone because they are stereotypes so to emphasize they aren't true. I wasn't clear enough with my first comment.

[@foreversmith4516]

"Size does not matter,unless its about the size of ur..." Me: O.O "...heart" ._.

[@itbewhatitbemyg]

Paige Light real talk.. you’re cute asf I dig it

[@acolytes777]

- ᴅᴇᴄᴇɴᴛ - you thirsty bro?

[@itbewhatitbemyg]

acolytes777 aren’t we all?

[@lovemidnight6377]

😂😂

[@MegaMill_Will]

That was merely a subliminal euphemism but we all are of what was being implicated. 😏

[@nissjournal]

The sudden gap in voice when he said "unless it's about the size of your........heart" killed me🤣 2:43

[@nancymcloughlin2931]

I love this video! Men are human! I love that feelings may or may not be expressed the exact same way but that they are expressed! And I like the concept that two individuals, male and female may express feelings similarly! It does not have ‘to be exactly the same way’ but expressed! Go BRIGHTSIDE!❤️🧚‍♀️

[@icreatedanaccountforthis1852]

How dare you reveal these secrets.

[@jesler805]

Yea

[@samhoffmann9155]

Your username!!!!

[@ifrahkhan3808]

I Created An Account For This i just loved your comment

[@LichlordKazam]

You've exposed yourself, You are one the majority!

[@crazy_cat_lady6663]

I Created An Account For This hahaha i know you secret’s now

[@MrProfessorLightyear]

Shouts out to all the females watching 😂

[@shanafondon8767]

Sweet

[@fartmaster1123]

Clorox Bleach why are there so many of you???

[@JULIA-yk2wc]

Me lol

[@faraanimations3321]

MrProfessorLightyear thanks..........................

[@lunastasiaphantom2115]

MrProfessorLightyear heyo

[@elenapaun4760]

My husband is exactly how you described... :)) :D

[@_yussra]

I'm a woman and I know most of these fears men have

[@ballerr69]

I have a few: The fear of failing. Because so many people think guys are great at anything and everything. Guys do fear to fail at certain things in front of people (especially women) The fear of asking out the girl you like. Guys don’t like the feeling of rejection at all, most people don’t. For guys it’s different than for girls, because if a girl was to get rejected by a guy her “girlfriends” would be there to comfort and support her but for guys getting rejected won’t have their friends doing the same unless they were extremely great caring people. The fear of not being enough. So many guys in a relationship constantly fear that they aren’t enough for their partner. This fear sticks in their head and makes them want to try to better themselves to fit what they think their partners criteria is for them. The fear of loss. Guys can obtain so much in their life. A wife (or girlfriend), kids, a great job. This is probably a mans biggest fear depending on who you ask, the fear of losing it all. Men like to have control, it’s a natural part of being a guy. But when they don’t have that control and they lose what they love and worked so hard to keep it puts stress on them mentally and makes them feel as though there is no hope. When a man can have that control in his life where he can keep a job he likes so he can feed his family, he feels as though he rules the world. In my opinion this last one is the biggest fear of most guys.

[@hannahnelly1193]

That's not specific to men, though. I think most people worry about these things.

[@calee2868]

Men fail at the same things.. 😒😒

[@jeremysears4263]

Very interesting. Most of the things you listed are covered in the book "Think & Grow rich" by Napolean Hill. In the chapter called "The six Ghost of Fear". Extremely eye opening stuff.

[@sealordx2700]

Losing a mother is the scariest thing ever as a man in my opinion

[@robertorivera2741]

SeaLordX I cry everyday when I’m alone Because of that, but outside I show no emotion whatsoever.

[@someguy4888]

When ever I find out that she has had a lot of previous partners it just makes me think that it won't last

[@tashatasha2329]

I enjoyed the video thanks 😊😘😊 more

[@robertpalomo5926]

Men might be afraid to talk about "SIZE". If it gets noticed by a woman then they will try and lie about it.

[@kuroyuki6254]

If I saw my boyfriend cry I'd hug him

[@Blackconnection-]

Kuro Yuki YES i just wrote a comment about that XD. Good idea :D

[@speedzebra6613]

Kuro Yuki Awww that’s good

[@bebedragneel4687]

Kuro Yuki SAME

[@_Ronaldo__7]

the best girlfriend award goes to...KURO YUKI

[@SilverAndSapphire]

Thats nice :3

[@shadowbonniethehumanbunny6504]

Boys don't cry, true men does.

[@leon-vb8cx]

Toddler cry all the time tho

[@lakhmiar]

Phil nailed it

[@convolutedclarity]

Thats dumb, everyone cries. Except for people with certain disorders i guess.

[@soumen8624]

boys do cry, but they hide and cry somewhere

[@alphaplenn]

In Vietnam, I remember how good it was to know that Medics cared enough to cry for our wounded soldiers!

[@SandeepMeena79]

You are right in every point..people think that we don't have any problems and we should be strong in every situation..how can it's possible..society taught us in very bad way

[@pauladeegan6926]

Great video - Thank You! Question: Where do I get a wallet that’s shown in #11?

[@markvickery5894]

What about the fear of finding the right girl and never having the courage to ask them out, or the fear that if you ever do get together you’ll not show them you love them enough, or the fear you’ll be like your parents always fighting?

[@romkin1197]

Then you're probably better off without a girl....

[@sparkyspark964]

vicma praur Then you will regret it if you don't ask. When you meet someone, start with something like "I noticed you're interested in (fill in interest) I like that too." Ask a question about said interest. Smile. Be confident even if you are nervous. You never know what could happen.

[@robertharaldsson2881]

so deep man... right in the feels. On a serious note tho, I think you are absolutely right. I showed my first and only gf ever that i loved her more than anything. She said I deserve some one who can love me back the same and left me..... last week. You can never do it right boys!

[@rachellecormier6943]

Don't be afraid to talk to a girl, even if what you say ends up not coming out the way you intended to she will still appreciate the fact that you got the courage to speak up, the worst thing you can do is ask a friend to speak to her for you, and about the not being like your parents thing, the fact that you recognize that it's not right will help you along the way, My parents fought all the time too and I chose not to fight I talk it out even if it takes days, good luck too you ✌️

[@jennifermichener5200]

Awwwww, I think it's so adorable or sweet that men have so many fears... a lot more than I imagined..... the cutest !!!!

[@destiny1895]

Any females watching this?😅

[@demolition_loverxx]

nice profile pic!!

[@Kate-xd9bq]

Destiny Winchester Morgenstern probably, it definitely sounds as if it's written for 'em...

[@codzydee1870]

yes i was clueless before!

[@halesmar]

I am i just sound like a boy but im not

[@alisontan836]

Destiny Winchester Morgenstern me

[@jackiepicker1411]

Thanks!

[@rampage9284]

you missed one important fear:men always fear to stay single

[@Tizitoons_Tsepo.Mubita]

I've been single for 16 years

[@rlm5087]

No, im not ? Being single is nice ...

[@yohanawasthee8700]

We fear of being friendzoned too.

[@nik_4218]

Asexual men watching rn ✨👄✨

[@simpletrollgt1784]

Size doesn’t matter unless it’s the size of your ...... heart

[@retrospectklow9447]

*Wallet*

[@grownman1017]

Simpletroll Gt lies!!

[@user-ip8zq4yk6f]

Methadonia ohio that's totally ole miss america 1 I'll I'm on another 1

[@starlite04]

Heart. Right. Okay. I'm kidding.

[@sherigina3601]

Lol 😂

[@lovetobe6118]

On #11 I think that a woman should look for a man who is a hard worker, not be a gold digger. I know several girls with a mindset of "It doesn't matter about money". They married guys who flunked out of college, hate working, and made their wives agree to support the family and nurture the kids, so they can watch TV and game. That is a red flag right there! Both partners should be hard workers in a relationship.

[@microtyger]

Yes.. and a guy that works hard, but has low income despite this.. and maybe for very logical reasons is very different than a guy who just doesn't care and is non aggressive in the world of work​ and supporting the family equally.

[@pompuskaya]

Charisse Hopkins agreed

[@DaxThePaladin]

Or execute a plan as I did after 5 years of marriage. At year 12 she graduated with 3 degrees, into her career choice and I chose to be a SAHD. I "retired" at 33, ex Head Chef, gas station manager, housekeeper. I have a wife of 21+ years, a kid who is almost a teenager, and I work hard and don't get "paid". I rejected the typical grind for a life that I can say is mine. I may not be "rich" but I am wealthy beyond measure.

[@jessielynch7493]

Charisse Hopkins My husband is a disabled veteran and draws disability. I met him when he was in the military and worked a job off base. Funny thing is he and I have a age difference (I'm sixteen years younger) and after he got disabled to everyone's shock and horror I stayed by his side. When he was the bread winner I went to college and advanced beyond that. I put my degrees to use and I now make 4X his disability. I worked in the house and took care of the kids before now he takes care of the house. This is my long way of agreeing with you. Sorry for my ramble

[@cebo_sa1952]

The only thing I agree with is that both partners should work hard. I'm a college graduate with a prestigious job that used to pay me more than 4 times the salary of my girlfriend who I live with. I refused to be with someone who barely graduated high school and earned peanuts so I took it upon myself to help my girlfriend re-do some of her high school subjects so she could qualify to study towards a degree. I also took it upon myself to look for a better paying Job for her, coached her for the interview and ultimately helped her land the role. I totally reject the notion that it's Ok for the man to work hard while the woman slacks off expecting a good life for nothing. My girlfriend was never a gold digger but like many women today, she had the gold digger mentality thinking that it's ok for the man to be expected to do more.

[@juliennicolas3450]

I love your video keep up

[@markokoli7460]

On point! 👌

[@riceofthebrown]

My fear is losing 1 year of progress in a game because of a freaking blackout

[@phycogsmithomniscience309]

sometimes

[@danielmonarrez6029]

_Raph_ _ your spacing out because you don't know the woman dude get a life keep moving forward Smirnoff richbwoman are supposed to feel emotions once and for all

[@brandoncaldwell95]

That that first gaming consol that doesnt save? I read about a guy thats never turned his game of due to the level. The worst and scary part was the battery was bad. Quickest move he ever done and the gaming consol is still on to save his progress of 20 or 30 years..

[@crazykayci5041]

_Raph_ _ Ummm yea same most people feel like that

[@oisinosborne2852]

one year what kind of game takes the long to complete?

[@fun2drive107]

I don't exercise for women. I exercise because I always have and will. It allows me to eat what I want and have no aches and pains. Most women I know place build and looks about 3-4 on their list behind confidence, being kind and considerate. The older I get the more emotional I get. I am not happy about that but there is nothing I can do about it.

[@adriancic1993]

Now that makes sense. I couldn't believe it when they said that thing about men exercising to impress women... Maybe teenagers. As a woman, I can say that how many muscles someone has is irrelevant, that's probably even lower than 4 on my list.

[@ladymaiden2308]

Fun2 Drive .... solid attitude. That's a healthy way of being. and you're absolutely right about kindness being more important than anything. I wish more people had your confidence and attitude. Rock on brother!

[@Capthrax1]

I could do that in my early 20s . I biked everywhere, i had no car and nothing was far away. I could eat anything. Half a tub of ice cram for dinner, yum. Now i have to eat salads or exercise if I let the diet go out of control.

[@danieljohnsonred3378]

everything we do dose matter looks rich nothing

[@thumbnailman8488]

A true legend put markers on the description.... This one deserve a sub

[@carndav]

Mans worst fear Mans hair: good bye

[@alexmurphy5548]

My grandfather is 98 and he still has lots of hair so I should be fine

[@andrewcruz7595]

@@alexmurphy5548 lol

[@laughs8589]

I have lotsof hair

[@elultimo102]

@@alexmurphy5548 Lucky him! On me, you could see skin by 28.

[@kosmischerkaiser5417]

You forgot crippling depression

[@danielamon504]

Pornographe

[@sherigina3601]

Oh Ivan that's sad I know the feeling.

[@m_winewood]

I think thats just the result of these other problems lol

[@HolyDiscoPotato]

I'm not afraid of it because I already have it! 👍 😀

[@austinbrase6188]

My GREATEST FEAR Waking up in the morning

[@RandomHuman-yp7lt]

Me too

[@craicrat246]

Spooky asf

[@nairobinyeusi5811]

😂😂😂

[@christianlopez2960]

So you don't want to wake up ever

[@user-ke9jl9uy1q]

Actually, you should fear not waking up in the morning

[@deanj8870]

Well said 👌

[@tikumercyb5567]

This video to me is more like a "relationship tips" or "how to understand your man in a relationship". It's not fear. Great video tho, I'll keep these in mind 👏👏

[@prabhjitkaur1845]

Which girls watching and interesting to see the thumbnail ?

[@pinder4898]

That,she is intrested in this

[@vintage.5223]

Me!

[@wahooooh]

What is the thumbnail about anyways? I would watch the video, but the opening was already too ridiculous lol

[@katrinajackson5788]

LPS KittenLove yOuR like TEN

[@vintage.5223]

@@katrinajackson5788 I was still curious :P im always curious

[@kenny-ek9ns]

I love how a man is just assuming that women don't know what guys worry about. I know that guys have body issues and insecurities too. That's literally what being human is.

[@kingspeech2240]

Kana Karrike I love how a woman constantly thinks everything is about them🤦🏾‍♂️

[@kenny-ek9ns]

@@kingspeech2240 It's literally a video for women to explain what men worry about. 😂 I mean. It was just a sentence I didn't feel was true.

[@aliens566]

Girls *don’t* know what men worry about.

[@kenny-ek9ns]

@@aliens566 All my best friends have been guys so I'd assume I know a bit.

[@azbudski2750]

Kana Karrike I couldn’t be less confident if Jesus him self showed up and told me I’m not as great as I think I am.

[@toxic_mircifull1930]

I swear the 2nd one is the most relatable lol

[@joann.5041]

I agree with all of this!

[@FlowerKnight2]

Did you just say there's no standards brought on by society that say men should have good bodies? Really? So, every movie, TV show, male model, video game, comic book character, toy, etc doesn't show off ripped men with defined jaw lines and abs? As well as pretty much every women sees that as the ideal male body. It's the same for men and women as far as body expectations go.

[@imsistershakingatmyreflect140]

As a girl, I don't prefer *extremely/very* masculine bodies. It makes me feel uncomfortable.

[@wrathman999]

Shh. P

[@imsistershakingatmyreflect140]

@@wrathman999 pp?

[@grimsoul2396]

Shh. Yeah that is true you don’t need to be strong to have a girlfriend

[@nunyabusiness2280]

Sir Fortesque76 straight up

[@lokeshkondala8945]

Size of ur ............. Heart !!!!😂

[@ethanbrinkman7110]

Night mare 👌😂✋️

[@quintarin5120]

we've been bamboozled

[@duhhitsck2346]

Night mare wow...

[@isabellechapman8914]

Are you trying to say the family jewels thing?

[@brodie_8488]

If its not the same size of ur fist say goodbye

[@EK-qn4tk]

A real attractive men is someone who knows his responsibility not just for his self but for his future family.

[@myself4128]

U dont know men,ur a woman so u have no idea

[@EK-qn4tk]

Bruh I'm a dude.

[@Demogorgon47]

NOOOOOPE! That last one is a completely justifiable fear. Learning to control your emotions is a useful skill. Learning to bottle up that anger then letting it out in a healthy manner as perfectly rational. I know from personal experience that if you learn to wear your emotions on your sleeves, evil people will twist your emotions into a nothing burger that it actually isn't. I spent my 20's and teenaged years being emotional and it just made it easier for evil people to go "See, there's something wrong with him!" whereas I wouldn't have been such easy prey had I not have done so. Men learned long ago to control your emotions and keep it to yourself because if you don't others will take it as a sign of weakness and seek to destroy you. Better to leave your opposition confused than to give them the key to ruination. The myth is that we bottle it up till we explode which OBVIOUSLY is unhealthy but the truth is the sooner you learn to control your emotions and view the world with a harsh glare that anyone around you is a POTENTIAL threat that you may possibly need to destroy the better you learn to tap into your manly man-ness and become a more protective and stronger individual capable of fighting of evil. Don't bottle up your emotions but don't wear them on your sleeves either lads.

[@GameArchon215]

Actually for me, whenever I have negative emotions, I like to hide them. If I show those emotions, and people feel bad for me, that makes me feel way worse. If I hide the emotions and nobody can tell, I see the world around me, and everyone’s going about their business. That convinces my brain that it’s not a big deal, and it’s not the end of the world. That actually cheers me up. Plus, I feel like a badass how I was able to hide the negative emotions so effectively. If I actually showed the negative emotions, I’d feel like a baby, and people would feel bad for me out of empathy. At that point, I’d be surrounded by negativity, and I don’t want that. This might be an extremely bad idea for some people, but it’s a great idea for me. Based on what I’ve heard, if most people tried this, the emotions would linger inside of them until they explode. However, for me they actually disappear and I feel fine.

[@nazzyd3559]

Archon Gaming Dont show emotions girls don't like it

[@thaneofwhiterun3562]

I agree , I was raised with the whole "boys don't cry" and I think we shouldn't cry , it's a sign of weakness , and all men don't like having weaknesses , because truth is , men are waaaay more competitive than women , so we will always compare ourselves to other men and take glory if we are superior , that superior can come from anything , from intelligence to phisical skill it doesn't matter, most of us feel fulfilled when we are better at something than other men

[@LE4F4]

kittytoast 58 // That's the dumbest comment I've ever read xD

[@thaneofwhiterun3562]

leafa lee, are you a woman?

[@epfizerdoolittleajl2165]

Archon Gaming omg me too! I’ve been thinking like this for years! And yes it’s awesome! But am a chick though, I think men instinctively know to do what you do because in the past you haven’t had the time or luxury to wallow in sadness

[@ethanbaker2271]

"We here at bright side are against all stereotypes" ........ "It's much more obvious when a women is jealous then a man" ........ *says how's stereotypes are bad again* ....... *continues using said stereotypes*

[@timothykearns2232]

Yeah, Ethan Baker, I caught that, too. Men and Women are chronically stereotypical!!!

[@emmanueldipom7183]

This is so relatable. I think that this is how i would be and the things I would worry about.

[@jakodinewberry4320]

My ex was always honest about his feelings and fears and I loved him even more for it. ( We broke up cause of family stuff though)