12 Signs You Should Cut All Contact with Someone (Life Lessons From The Elderly)

[@WiseAdvice93]

Here are the exact words of wisdom from an 80 year old man: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4ipk6KcYqZ6fNE

[@williamwalker5326]

People are not obligated to respect you. However, YOU are not obligated to tolerate disrespect. If you realize there is no respect for your presence, it is better to be remembered for your absence than to tolerate a devalued presence.

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree with your opinion

[@vivinm9640]

❤❤❤

[@inaphtali6176]

👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@jenniehughes6927]

Even when it's your own flesh and blood. I cut contact with my 42 year old son because of his disrespect of me.

[@jenniehughes6927]

​@@Susannah472This is the 6th month. The more peaceful I feel, the more I like it. All my best from Louisiana ♡

[@Priyamvadha8958]

Resonates with me strongly. I cut off toxic family relationships, some toxic colleagues and pretend- friends. Now experiencing great mental peace and growth. I surround myself only with goodness and good people.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for sharing.

[@Fegga1955]

Great guidance. Thanks

[@antoinettegorman8833]

Wouldn’t it be fantastic if all of us non toxic people come together and of course Praise God for he is with us . This is why we are hated . Blessings and psalm 35. And 91 amen

[@RoodyBazile]

Better to be alone & be happy than be with fake friends

[@WiseAdvice93]

Wise advice

[@darlenemartin8859]

Well said.

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@darlenemartin8859 Thank you

[@Fegga1955]

It got lonely,but so true.So many users and backstabbing 😢

[@kathleenbrown1715]

Live by this life will have joy in it

[@dorothyclarke5792]

Great advice. Walking away from a toxic relationship have saved my life. 13:29

[@WiseAdvice93]

Yes, it is necessary to leave toxic relationships.

[@vivinm9640]

I lost my 1st reply. Why does it hurt? Detaching is a .... not sure what word 2 use. Like I'm addicted 2 him. Change is a tough one 2 feel. Lession 4 me 2 learn, helps 2 tell myself n support group. Walk Way n I using up practicing yay. Have 2 share.

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@vivinm9640 Great sharing. Thank you very much, wish you always have good luck in life.

[@lindavezina6224]

What if its your adult daughter that is toxic.how can i let go.if i try.i have the worse feeling inside my stomach

[@lindavezina6224]

​@@vivinm9640I know a few people that lost their mind over someone they loved.And ended up in a care home

[@malonesinclaire9201]

I am 73 and it has taken me a life time to let go of my family. My needs from childhood were not respected, my personhood was not respected, yet because they were family was a struggle. I loved across country thinking that would help…it does not. Slowly over the years the ties that bind were cut. It is painful as a long for a relationship that never was. Many have passed away and to be honest l don’t miss them, l never cried and that is saying a lot.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Great sharing. Thank you so much, have a nice day.

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@Susannah472 Thank you very much

[@mjparham6430]

🔨Nailed It!!!

[@Zoe-u1r]

The only thing that truly matters in life is to love yourself more than you hate other people because all hate does is destroy your health and happiness.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@Susannah472 Thanks for sharing

[@Priyamvadha8958]

Great advice. Story of my life. Walked away from toxic people. Now knowing real joy and happiness

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you so much

[@TD-bu9wv]

I had to do this with my Mother who recently passed. I never stopped loving her but learned to love and respect my self more. I forgave her and told her so on her death bed and wished her peace. I didn't go to her funeral but Im at peace. The feelings are beyond confusing but for the first time in a very long time I’m ok. Going no contact is not for the weak, especially when it's a parent. Know you deserve to be appreciated, your boundaries deserve to be respected. If any of you are going through this tememberbon your saddest and darkest days peace will come. We are warriors.

[@johnedward2402]

Just walk away, if you're not valued, it's not easy especially if you love that person, it will hurt, but remember when one door closes another one opens, and some one will come along who appreciates you,

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree with your opinion. Thank you very much

[@Fegga1955]

So true,but pain remains for long time as someone passing away.Thx

[@NonameNolastname-c2g]

Thank you. I am 60 this years. I have cut all toxicity near and far. But my problem is I can never overcome anger.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Control your anger, things will go easier for you.

[@bac9346]

I hear you. Time will heal you. Been there. You need interests that give you happiness and that will take your attention away from toxic people. One or two honest good friends does wonders.

[@Fegga1955]

@@bac9346wow great guidance

[@Fegga1955]

Understand you, I feel disappointed.Being angry tore me apart so am carrying grief with me.We need to move on

[@derpderpington5433]

I bought a fun car and drive on curvy rural roads to get rid of my anger. 200 mile rollercoaster, chasing the sunset, then dinner at a really good taco truck. No more anger.

[@MichelleKennedy-sd5yl]

And when you walk away stop mulling over the hurtful things that was said or done or you might as well still be there,

[@WiseAdvice93]

I completely agree with your opinion

[@Fegga1955]

Thanks so much,means the world to me when in reference to family.

[@catherinehazur7336]

Constant resentment and holding onto it forever immerses you in a toxic stew.

[@texasson7950]

For some of us, forgetting is NOT SO EASY. The hurt REMAINS!!!

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@texasson7950 I agree

[@ZheEnterprise-tr8pb]

These are positive thoughts for my well-being...they coincide with my life at 73 now... thanks alot...very uplifting

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@buzzingbee2222]

I was looking for this❤ These relationships made me feel unworthy and as if i was the problem.😢

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you for sharing

[@EileenGoehring-lb8hy]

Sometimes It's direct family sister, I live with, it's not always easy

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you for sharing, I wish you good luck in life.

[@mr.g1758]

I did this with a former gf who had deceived me. Made her mad but I had to do it for my own peace of mind.

[@WiseAdvice93]

One door closes another opens. All the best to you.

[@conniemiller5125]

Getting ready to walk away from this poisonous toxic relationship

[@penniroyal4398]

Getting ready is the first step, walking away is the next step. Don’t get stuck on step one! Take the next step!

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@penniroyal4398 Thank you

[@KarenSears-iu5ne]

I walked away from him 3 years ago he lived here I have had him blocked he called like last week I just made sure he's blocked he's blocked he said the same thing over and over he is a complainer I don't have time for complainers in my life new him from high school days he's gone❤❤❤❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@KarenSears-iu5ne Thank you very much for sharing, I wish you happiness and good luck in life.

[@KristinaCarvalho]

My daughter doesn't want me around, I've helped her and her neglected kids most of their lives. I love her so much. She's been diagnosed with cancer. I want to help her. Love her.the kids are saying I did nothing for them . I havevfriends that have seen all I've done so im nit lying. I cry all night in bed. And can't function.

[@dorothyclarke5792]

Great advice. I can identify with a toxic relationship but I am happy I walked away.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@zandradaniels4456]

❤

[@zandradaniels4456]

❤

[@Fegga1955]

Thank you, I had to walk away to save my soul.

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@GetaLlamas]

I will protect my mental health 😢

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree

[@mondopinion3777]

If you must cut off contact you can still pray for them. That way your love for them still has a place within you, where God is, just not in the world of human society. Love is eternal.

[@WiseAdvice93]

A great share, thank you very much. Wish you good luck in life.

[@Fegga1955]

Wow,great help.Thx

[@Fegga1955]

Wow,great help.Thx

[@josepeka1189]

This is my life. I arrived in Australia 38 years ago , married 45 years. I had to keep doing good and provide for my young family my wife did not find her feet and even blamed me for ruining her life because her mum forced her to marry me . She never came to grip being married since 20. I kept praying and I paid off our house working 3 shifts in 24hrs . Ut rained abuses by the truck load to the point I spent my time asking myself if this is a life but today . My retirement is all about thinking how good I have done. It was not for materialistic gain. I have Provided all the way but I considered I could not turn my back and start over again as my age speaks at me every day despite having being a registered nurse and showed compassion to others which gave me a selfworth. My two kids have succeeded in life and they know our situation. I accept my situation as I know I am In charge of my peace and no one can bring me such a valuable asset . Thank you for this meaningful video. It’s like looking in my mirror. Jose from Australia

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for sharing, you are a good person. Wish you always have good luck in life.

[@Fegga1955]

Thanks so much, I was never valued,being too lenient with family and friends.Its such a shame.At least, I raised two great sons,even if not appreciated,I feel I did my best.🙏

[@ThembiLuthuli-p6h]

May you find total peace and happiness i wish I met someone like you 😢....

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@ThembiLuthuli-p6h Thank you very much

[@Priyamvadha8958]

You have lived honestly and courageously. God will reward all your struggles. Love, from India❤

[@amelittaberretta9109]

Thank for your healing words.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@howardgodwin9241]

Great advice ❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much.

[@harveyisom549]

Thank you

[@rajennaidoo7]

Thank you. Profoundly grateful for this video.

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@rajennaidoo7 Thank you very much.

[@ThatBerkleySingerPoet]

I am going through this again. It did not feel right being with my daughter and her children after she disrespected me. ❤❤❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@gjdoan]

This advice is exactly what I need right now. Thank you!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@puvanespm6096]

It's one of the darkest phases of my life....is now.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you for your sharing ❤️

[@Fegga1955]

Me too,thx for comment

[@franwebb7756]

The sunrise is about to crest the horizon in you life ❤🎉

[@puvanespm6096]

@franwebb7756 I feel it too as if I am 25 ❤️

[@helenh9210]

Thank you very much for sharing this video ❤ and I learned a lot from it thanks again 😊

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much, have a nice day

[@Lightwhite136]

Absolutely correct

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@conniemiller5125]

Thank you for this video. I needed that.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@rsayles6335]

Great advice

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much, was my video helpful to you?

[@peace4825]

Thank you for these precious ideas. I really needed to this.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for watching the video. Do you think my voice is good?

[@dna1435]

Insightful Awsome Really great, thank you for your hard work.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

[@ant9697]

Thank you for opening my eyes Amen

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@barrypaton9726]

Wow, just going through something at the moment. Great advice.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@francesbernard2445]

When young people leave home sooner than most people do then they often make mistakes like when being a poor judge of character while they are being more vulnerable than adults would be. That is not their fault.

[@johnwieczorek]

Thanks! You helped me make a decision.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@MadonnaGrogan]

Me too

[@Fegga1955]

Still need a compass.Glad for you.🙏

[@ramvoria234]

Great advice/ Love it

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@amelittaberretta9109]

I had to”learn to live without love and compassion,😊

[@chevrierjohanne2043]

I have to do ,living without love and compassion .It is so difficult 😢

[@isolda980]

Thank you Wise Advice. 🤔This was valuable & somewhat painful & soothing at once.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much ❤️

[@fb1musicman854]

Excellent teaching; clear, logical and concise.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@HMaxTube11]

@@WiseAdvice93…although you should correct all of the badly split words and repetition of the same thoughts in your future videos.

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@HMaxTube11 My reading voice is not good, right? Please give your comments.

[@HMaxTube11]

@@WiseAdvice93 The voice isn’t too bad, although the inflections are off somewhat.

[@ConchettaTucker-vc3cm]

Thank you 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

[@WiseAdvice93]

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[@ritaroddrick5000]

Wise people make others wise thank you sir thank you so much I learn o lot from you big hug love u ❤️💚🩷💛🌹🌷🌹

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@matshidisoankie6156]

Thank u for the video it opened my eyes really❤❤ better to be alone and happy

[@WiseAdvice93]

You are really a good person. Thanks for sharing your words.

[@AntoniaPeacock]

I had to walk away from family members. It was so hard but getting easier. No respect shown me. Sometimes I do miss the family I wanted but that is not what I had.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you for what you have shared

[@theblackbrazillian76]

Good advice, especially for the person that posted it!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much!

[@georginaboateng205]

Great video you are on point.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you, do you think my reading is ok?

[@georginaboateng205]

Yes sir so inspiring

[@WiseAdvice93]

@@georginaboateng205 Tkanh you

[@genieb6685]

yes ! i agree with this statement xcept it could be construed as ‘judgmental’ because it’s important to help others to know how relating can work ‘ no man is an island ‘ i think to give respect possibly you will gain respect ‘lead by example’ but with kindness !as some people .. may feel very rejected - for me UNDERSTANDING. is key ..THEN .. ask don’t assume why someone NEEDS your energy and help them before you close the door on them .. we are all here to learn from each other and nobody has ALL the answers - and isn’t the reason that life is so ‘fastinating’ but yes i totally agree ‘self care ‘ and once you learn it PASS IT ON 🙏 🤗

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you so much

[@zinaanderws8747]

I needed that

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much.

[@linetterodrigues1917]

❤ thank you for this good advice.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@ruthmcgee2879]

Growing up in ministry, these concepts were not even on the table. We just did what we had to do, and gave of ourselves to work things out. This day and age is "all about me" which is not what the Bible teaches. In an ideal world, where everyone would get along, one could stop to think about what "I" enjoy, because it would all be pure. Selfishness hurts others, so there is need for being centered on God, others, and then yourself. In my best generational past, we didn't just walk away.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Great. Thanks for your sincere sharing. Wish you always have luck and success in life.

[@bac9346]

I am proud to say I didn’t just “walk away” but lived my own life helped when I could even though when I was in need they turned their back on me. Saw to it my entire family was buried. I have been saved and baptized and have no regrets.

[@patricagordon5681]

Very true thank you for this advice

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@earleenGreene]

You are so right on

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@dhanalakshmyrammurthy2574]

Absolutely true statement.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@barbarabrown9269]

This keeps talking about getting rid of toxic relationships. Duh! We know all this is often hard. What destroys trust is the people you love and trust suddenly announce they are moving away… or they die of some stupid freak accident or disease. We are supposed to hand onto those we love and cherish. Well? What of they have a life changing situation that excludes you? Getting married, moving away. We think it will endure but it never ever does. They just move on with their new life.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much for your sincere sharing. Wish you always have good luck and happiness in life.

[@matshidisoankie6156]

This is reality i no longer worry on how they treat me i know how to respond right way or distant myself

[@Fegga1955]

@@matshidisoankie6156Great guidance

[@Fegga1955]

Wow thanks,you explain beautifully

[@franwebb7756]

Life is ever changing, does not stand still for anyone. Cherish what you have in the present knowing it will leave at some point.

[@BarbaraGillespie-jj4qy]

THANK YOU FOR YOUR VIDEO, IT IS VERY HELPFUL! I NEEDED TO NEEDED IT! HAVE A GOOD DAY!😊

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much ! Have a good day !

[@inspired9239]

My version @7:28 ~ Cutting ties does mean burning a bridge so that new bridges can be built through new opportunities, new opened doors, and new people to begin anew.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for sharing.

[@roseellencarlson3588]

Finding happiness is not easy but it takes work 😮

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree with your opinion

[@carlorizzo827]

ThankU!! I have added many of these. But I also am old, and squandered so much.... I don't understand "deserving", wasn't raised to. 'T's all a crap shoot, huh 🕊

[@WiseAdvice93]

It's okay, it's all in the past. The best things will come to you. Wishing you good health!

[@Fegga1955]

Same here,guess we accept moving on

[@HULovingLife]

Thank you so much. ❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@angelasirjue1957]

Great advice! 👍

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you ❤️

[@nnekaedokobi8717]

Great counsel❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

❤️❤️❤️

[@HistoricsEchoes]

Great video, the advice is valuable and we will definitely be useful one day 🙂

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much 😍

[@CraigAnderson-h2h]

It onlytakes one, betrayal of trust. It's over!

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree.

[@nellynell1807]

Great video..👍🏾

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@leonilatopacio7647]

Thanks ❤❤❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you ❤️

[@cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn]

New Sub experience all of the above but when it comes to a toxic Mother it's touch and go..without completely cutting off at her old age need to occationally be there. I love being alone with my daily projects I create 🙏Thank God for that

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@asdisastvaldsdottir2686]

Thanks it’s was really inspired and it’s easy to see the difference between what do or what doing for your best interest , I’m grateful for listening to different perspectives and opinions and it’s was really helpful and so much easier to understand something what we do ,thanks so much and it’s was really appreciated and you prepared and you were great to speak and ,so much easier to see different of our responses to some things I’m grateful good to learn and appreciate what another person experiences in life love and light in your life,🙏😇👼

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you for your sharing. I wish you always happiness and good luck in life ❤️

[@glenroyjordan7530]

This is very good advice it's a pity that I can't memorize it all thank you

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@Kat-ko4hj]

Namaste …❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Hello. Thanks for leaving a comment here ❤️

[@earleenGreene]

Thank you for imput❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@sallymiller4973]

Too bad it took me so many years to learn this!

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much ❤️

[@Fegga1955]

Yes,reached 70 to learn all I offered was with much stress.Never took care of me.Now we need to move on

[@CandidHope]

Precious advice for everybody except, maybe, for a writer in need of inspiration for his next dark drama story.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for sharing

[@catherinehazur7336]

It's all very self centered and one way : ME, ME, ME, ME There is a difference between a one time or occasional MISUNDERSTANDING and a repetitive PATTERN of DISRESPECT. It requires discernment and critical thinking to tell the difference. We need to lose the prevalent, popular and pervasive viewpoint that it's always all about us

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for sharing. Thank you very much.

[@MichelleKennedy-sd5yl]

Good video but, talk to your problem people,tell them how they affect you,then if they are unwilling to change , walk away,some people are incapable or unwilling to change it takes experienced judgement.❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much for your sharing

[@jackieblack6248]

I was about to post this almost exactly.

[@MiriamMagee]

Very Good

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@conniemiller5125]

12 SIGNS YOU CUT ALL CONTACT WITH SOMEONE

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you!

[@LewisTaylor-v8x]

Appreciation

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you 😍

[@michaelshaw9177]

Enjoy being anti toxic

[@WiseAdvice93]

yes

[@LifeLessonsRadio]

Remove fake people from your life.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@mrbetaanimals]

Good voice , where did you get this

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@mrbetaanimals]

@@WiseAdvice93 can you please tell me the text to speech website or app plss

[@Meronlavender]

Amen

[@WiseAdvice93]

Amen

[@mikearakelian6368]

Yep

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@endlessdaze6054]

Thoughtful and important for people to know..

[@RobertEnleed]

Walking away from the system is A1

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you 😍

[@Hoot12345]

No.1 commentary

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@johnscott3795]

Number one❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much

[@rajivkumarmishra22]

Nice video. But many sentence has been repeated. ❤

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you very much. I will fix it.

[@mink7088]

Nuff said

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@ismatqureshi2661]

I am shocked, disappointed ,my brain can never accept it . I feel sick .

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thanks for sharing your words.

[@Fegga1955]

Same here,am functioning on autopilot.Just disappointed trying to find my path

[@Rugz-smoke]

I already did I don’t respect them and never will

[@WiseAdvice93]

Great sharing

[@ElviraTay]

I am already cut them so long time ago.. I don't need them don't need my life nonsense nd jealous!!!!

[@WiseAdvice93]

I agree, thank you for your wonderful comments

[@inahansen-vb5mn]

Et skridt frem to tilbage måske er det værste det man lærer mest af jeg tror vi søger den vi ligner på godt og ondt

[@WiseAdvice93]

Tak for dine meget oprigtige delinger !

[@MaryRaletjena]

Painful truth

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@OviedoStarr]

💯

[@WiseAdvice93]

😍

[@eileenkung5839]

Own sister toxic.

[@WiseAdvice93]

Can you forgive your sister?

[@antjetautkus5506]

Bingo 🎉

[@GetaLlamas]

Yah thanks 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you

[@rubyredRabbit]

What if they don't take the hint?

[@WiseAdvice93]

they will understand

[@elizabethhalloranhalloran7530]

Ooooh

[@WiseAdvice93]

Thank you