12 Things Men Should NEVER Apologize For

[@clifforddean232]

34 years old, true story my family was toxic. I left my city and moved 8 years ago, leaving behind my sister and both parents. I was hooked on drugs, relied on social assistance and slang. Had my ups but mostly downs, lost everything than one day decided to leave all that b.s behind me and moved 3 hours away, I now have a 3 bedroom house, a wife and a son. Been clean for 8 years now and it feels great but I lost my sister to the streets, she overdosed after my father pimped her out one night, she was paid in bad drugs that was laced with fenytenal. I had to bury her myself as my parents where to high off their asses to help. I appreciate your videos and gravitate towards a stronger male influence as i lacked that growing up, thanks for being here and mad respect. Thank you

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the personal input!

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

Damn, bro. I’m sorry about your sister but I’m glad things are working out for you.

[@mylesid]

Mr Dean Im sorry for you loss Sir!

[@anseldelacruz]

I’m sorry for your lost and I’m glad you turned things around for yourself. Respect.

[@indriadrayton1132]

Wow! You are doing great. God showed Himself mighty in your life despite the terrible loss you suffered. I feel for you about your toxic family.

[@fareedg6703]

I will never apologize for taking care of myself and being myself.

[@TheStyleOG]

No doubt!

[@yusefshakur669]

Yo G I'm surprised we ain't brothers 😂

[@cedricksmith2698]

FACTS!

[@dariuskool1998]

"Never apologize for being a man." ~ Life

[@osaweseowiadolor4609]

1. When you feel the need to say No (set boundaries make sure they're healthy) 2. Never apologize for chasing your dreams ( for saying yes to yourself but there should be a balance, don't neglect the people you love or your health dedicate some time to those things ) 3. For cutting some people off 4. For putting yourself first (don't be an asshole either help people when it's convenient for you and you have nothing to lose) 5. For needing alone time 6. For wanting what women think and like ( don't put women on a pedestal either ) 7. Not immediately returning to a text or phone call immediately especially if it wasn't urgent 8. For spending money on yourself ( I'd say set a budget) 9. For caring about how you look 10. How you feel? You're not responsible for how you feel but how you react ( if you overwhelmed by your feelings constantly and it's pushing people away get professional help ) 11. For expressing your emotion ( don't be the guy who cries everyday either express your feeling without being consumed by it, express them like a man ) 12. For what you love doing as long as you aren't hurting anyone ( I didn't say "being you" cause you might be an asshole and you aren't aware of it ) I'd say men should read more books, on being a man, on relationships ,women and life in general, it'll help you navigate all of these better, and help you find balance in your life

[@drewinsur7321]

about that book thing: Stoicism for sure, helped me a lot to grow emotionaly. and you can see it how to this day the ruler for greatness are measured by that pholosophy. "You're not responsible for how you feel but how you react" its straight up from Marcus Aurelius Meditations.

[@BigGTheBusiness]

Good Look 💯

[@danebeexher4399]

I don't think 1 will be healthy for me cause when I say no it means HELLLL NAH!!!

[@SilverDetroit]

@@drewinsur7321 what book specifically?

[@Lexio3031]

Never apologize for being truthful, even if it hurts their feelings

[@Gregsgreatfood]

I HAVE apologized many times for not getting back to a text right away. My phone...my time. Thanks for the tip Jeff.

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem Greg !

[@KelzBernard]

Yeah I dropped the ball on that several times.

[@micahrichey5335]

Phones work 2 ways, if someone is guilting you about not getting back to you right away they are free to call or send you another message whenever they want. If they make you feel bad about they are are narcissists and they will always be manipulating you. WALK AWAY!

[@OhitsONnow]

Its this that makes me realise, all this goes into having a stable base of self confidence. All these little things add up to the big picture

[@Respect2theFallen]

I have never but people do it to me all the time sometimes girls sometimes homies and I'm like "why are you apologizing if you had things to do that's fine it's not a big deal I'm going about my day regardless" unless we were planning something then

[@herbertlewis8442]

I recall as a much younger man being told I said 'no' too much. I never thought there was such a thing particularly when the ones asking didn't assist you in getting what you have or getting to where you are

[@SonicBoomC98]

I still get that LOL

[@coreyaustin8372]

Jeff with a PHD in style, giving a master class on life and being your best.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Corey !

[@oneman5203]

A man should never have to apologize for the woman he’s attracted too. It ain’t nobody’s business. Some guys like big women. Some like small. Some go for smart ones and some only care for pretty ones. To each his own.

[@Dimz30]

@@TheStyleOG I 2nd & 3rd that.

[@snappwolftv]

@@oneman5203 💯💯💯 Never heard more of a truer comment

[@madraschap]

I like Jeff's way of thinking. He never gives an advice that lacks authenticity or integrity.

[@TheStyleOG]

I try !

[@Dimz30]

@@TheStyleOG but your making a lot of sense and giving game.

[@snappwolftv]

@@Dimz30 Big facts!

[@KINGDEVON16]

#SnappleFactz

[@keymaster9200]

That’s a fact.

[@MathewRyan111]

Good list. I would add to never apologize for needing time to think something over. Don't give a rushed or unthoughtful opinion in a work meeting just so you can appear dominant or say you spoke up first. If you need time to reflect or research, ask. But don't apologize - you're gonna create more value by thinking it through. (But always follow through.)

[@TheStyleOG]

I like it Matthew !

[@andre7767]

Bars!

[@1rexmorgan]

Love the video!! Thanks again for the information.

[@Templar451]

Truth.

[@ikelenafly]

Not having to apologize for spending on urself is an underrated gem.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the feedback!

[@davisdowell1986]

"I been gettin women longer than you been alive" BARSSSS!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Ha !

[@HiSayIt]

I was like, wwwwhat!? Count me in.

[@iking317]

Great video Jeff....I had to cut several people off also this year. I was doing too much and wasn’t getting the same love in return. Never apologize for moving on from people and Never apologized for telling a women how you really feel about her good or bad she’s going to know where she stands with me.

[@TheStyleOG]

I like it Ty !

[@sueme8170]

Brother Ty, We can inherit money, get a better job, win money or have money 💰 given to us. Money is value to us and we use this as an asset for life. We should treat our time as the same asset. The main issue is that we can’t gain time and only lose it. A person who is in our life; may be there for a season. This person serves whatever goal/function that God has for them. We have to choose who is in our life who will bring productive and positivity. Salut

[@dennisrobinson8008]

"not getting love in return" it really is simple...

[@GraveRave]

You said a very powerful statement "don't let your life be defined by what they like and think", so many men do this and therefore over-accommodate to their wants (women) thus putting yourself last and not being satisfied in the process. Of course this is in moderation, you don't want to be always uncompromising. Salute!

[@05Rudey]

Sometimes you just have to get out of your comfort zone when every fibre of your being wants to apologise after saying 'No'. It's the fear of hurting someone's feelings by denying them something that they want. They just need to be reminded that I have a choice too.

[@TheStyleOG]

Well said

[@insanemang9983]

Never apologize for being *YOU*, because at the end of the day who you gonna have to live with if she leaves. If you can look yourself in the mirror and say "I'm happy with who I am" confidently, then that's the person who you should always be. Shit after all these years I'm still the same hard-core nerdy guy I've always been and I won't allow no one to change that.

[@goukishimura9940]

"Know when to cut people off" -- Man, I wish I followed this advice in my younger days. Instead I spent my time trying to placate and make happy people who just really didn't care about me. Just because someone shares DNA with you, doesn't mean they have your best interests in mind--nor does it mean they know best. A hard lesson learned at the cost of a lot of time.

[@TheStyleOG]

True indeed !

[@skylarblues459]

Gouki, well said and the same goes for me.

[@therockgodabides]

A great list, and I might add one more. I don’t think guys should apologize for dealing with their mental health. As a man who struggles with depression and anxiety, I’ve definitely had my share of people who have belittled this, or acted as if it were as easy as flipping a switch to feel better. As guys, I feel that we are made to hold it in like you said, Jeff. Guys ought to be having the conversation about their mental health, and not be afraid to talk about the tough issues. Salute!

[@conorbuckworth8859]

This video is so great tbh. Im 16 and i feel like this video will help me with alot of those issues of my apologizing too much to people about things i shouldn’t apologize for

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@affordablehvac]

Aye Conor at 44 yrs old, I'm no expert but a lot of things that he touched on in this video are ways to live by, and incorporate into your life. At the age of 16 you're in a position to gain knowledge from wide spectrum of sources!!!

[@curvelover1722]

Sometimes everyone can’t go with you in your life’s journey. So true.

[@TheStyleOG]

For real!

[@Deephouse_Gent66]

'Cutting people off' is a GREAT one! I also have much personal experience with this one, and I mean in terms of former friends or toxic relatives. And nowadays, folks try to make you feel bad for doing it by calling 'Cancel Culture' on you. But I say if someone in your life needs to go in order for you to grow, then 'Bye Felicia.'

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

This comes from a man who has been around the block a few times. As a man approaching 60, I endorse what he is saying. You do you. Be polite, honest, & direct with other people. It's also important to do what you say you will do. You can politely say 'no,' and you can politely stand your ground. It's also important to understand that you are not responsible for other people's happiness, or entertainment. Again, you do you. And be willing to take a loss and move on.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input Ace!

[@breadnbutter2218]

Had to share this amongst my fellow brothers & brethren’s. Thank You Jeff. (Salute)

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@Ty-mh1lz]

I think one more thing is never apologize for telling the truth. Sometimes we’re vilified for being honest. A woman may not always like it but she should respect unapologetic honesty.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed !

[@brian10171]

Tripple OG !!!!salute. My girl catch me watching the viedos daily she is like who is that i told her im perfecting myself don't worry about it lol

[@TheStyleOG]

Ha !

[@Uzodesign]

Lol, that's just great.

[@chaselesser3191]

Lol, it depends on how she asks it. If you gotta talk to her like that, you might just want to keep looking for a girl, one that you can talk too, not worry about answering too.

[@thejaguarmx]

For the point of the friends, if they really are your friends, there is no reason to cut ties. My best friend went to Spain to be with his girl. His family (and me) didn't like that. But in the end, it was his decision. No need for him to apologize. We chat almost every week and do videocalls. We get together every times he visits. We are still friends. Not always friends have to agree with each other. But they keep being friends.

[@ynotmoah]

I'm 41and everything you saying, we on the same page and this is what I tell my kids. Preach brother.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Tony !

[@jeffreyryder273]

The OG Jeff is back with more amazing content.... Salute 💪🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Jeffrey!

[@entrepreneurking8162]

@@TheStyleOG where you from og and you got email or social media?

[@edkin2013]

Brother Jeff you definitely get an "A" for the Day ! Excellent content. Salute !

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@CharlesTurnerTheKing]

This is one of the best videos by far Sir 😢😢😢... A few of these topics touched home for me and I shed a few tears from it. There are some things Im working on as A Man that need to improve and most of it is exactly whatchu talked about in this video. Just turned 37 and I've been A Fan of yours for years. Im a consistent follower of your vids and I appreciate them. I didnt have A Father Growing up and no older brothers or nothin like that. So its always kinda cool to see you pop up and talk about stuff like this as far as fashion, style, and other matters of A Man that we should know. Im into all this stuff I mean Men's Suits and all that. I hope this weird but I kinda look at you as A Big Brother or Uncle in a sense when it comes to all this. Thanks for all that you do man. I appreciate it!!! Showing Love From Detroit 💪🏾👑

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Charles !

[@Thextreme319]

I’ve had anxiety for a long time about some of these topics. Once again, you broke down so it clear and makes sense. Thanks, O.G.

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@nerdicmem5720]

It was short and simple but your story about moving states to continue education really just hit me hard. Ive been thinking about transferring to a college with more educational opportunities for some time now and I feel bad leaving my friends behind, some of them even think I’m leaving because of them which is not true. Thanks for sharing that story it’s definitely helped me in making a decision in traveling down my own path.

[@samuelnatal8014]

Mr. Dean is a perfect example of one helping themselves. Had Mr. Dean stayed, it could have been him under. He wanted better and made his move to get a better life. Much respect ✊.

[@DXIII_365]

A man should never apologize for self-care. Great video as always O.G. thanks man

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@quincydean1689]

O.G. appreciate you dropping that knowledge. Waiting to see what the O.G has for us to start the new year off. Respect!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Respect Quincy!

[@ardenpowers7730]

I now express things that need to be said . . . as in the past, I've had regrets about not doing so and wished that I had ! Tact and poise play a big role in this endeavor. Thanks for sharing . . .

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@JohnNathanShopper]

Clear and insightful as usual. Jeff, I remember watching your first vids with split-screen editing errors. I knew you’d make it.

[@TheStyleOG]

Haha!

[@TheStyleOG]

We made it !

[@jayfrankcastle9203]

Salute O.G. This video felt personal as I like to call it a Heart to heart talk...as real as it gets ...thank you for this, I know guys that don't know how to say no and I tell them that will hurt them in the long run. Keep putting out this type of content, much need it in today's world.

[@TheStyleOG]

Will do!

[@MisterMikeReal]

Jeff, you're spot on with everything your stated. Only thing I would add, don't apologize for being articulate / speaking proper English and displaying proper etiquette especially in a public form. In private settings with family and close friends, that's a different story, but there's a time and place for everything.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@melvinmckinney9120]

Great video Jeff. You brought out some fine points. Another thing that a man does not have to apologize for: A man does not owe anyone an explanation for why he made a decision about certain things. Some people don’t know how to take no for an answer. And no one has the right to tell anyone what to do with their money or time. Keep up the good work my friend.

[@TheStyleOG]

Will do Melvin !

[@bluewave3417]

You outdid yourself with this one, Jeff. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@ronaldjules2236]

Once again Jeff you have made it clear and simple!! Keep it coming cause this wealth of knowledge only help you and your love ones.

[@theschoolformen3665]

The O.G spittin truth! You inspired me to follow my passion too and talking about style! Thank you G 💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@michaelosullivan3529]

It's hard to look at yourself as No,1, but even at my age I struggle because as the Style OG states it could be a generation thing but in the end sometimes you have no alternative. Three years ago my wife and I moved to the other end of the country and started afresh. It was summed up in the last few months as the best decision we ever made in 30 years of marriage with the pandemic and the Christmas holiday season. People here are looking out for one another rather than what they can get out of you as in our previous life Sound advice OG keep it coming

[@TheStyleOG]

Will do Michael !

[@peterturayjr1209]

Bonus thing: "Men should never apologise for expressing their perspective, even if it's the most unpopular or disagreed with" Expressing your perspective if non-offensive proves your boldness as a man for how you think, process things and situations and what you believe in. Even in a sea of disapprovals or an open crowd, there's always one or 2 who you'll trigger their interest and approval.😎🙌🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

I like it Peter !

[@peterturayjr1209]

@@TheStyleOG Likewise Jeff, thanks for these tips as I've encountered a few of these too.🙌🏽

[@LiLiKOiOiOi]

That’s fir everyone

[@Yupster2501]

Who cares if you offend someone, to have the right to speech is to risk being offensive.

[@LiLiKOiOiOi]

@@Yupster2501 yeah, but you make sure not to verbally abuse someone, and that’s the point of why people are more polite and aware because of each other. It could also be more than offending, also possible triggering.

[@Kimmieziven]

As a woman, i agree with all of these points. I appreciate there are people who guides others to do whats good for them and their lives while not being an a-hole or ignorant. Thankyou.

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@damonsmartin9894]

I appreciate you. Your style, delivery... definitely needed

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@sebas4139]

when to apologize: 0:35 you are wrong when not to apologize: 1:11 say no 1:57 say yes 2:50 cut people off 3:45 put yourself first 4:32 time alone 5:20 want to know what women think or like 6:25 give a slow answer to non-urgent message text or calls 7:10 spend on yourself 8:00 to care about your appearance 8:49 how you feel 9:31 express emotions 10:25 be authentically you

[@Snowboarding2020]

I knew I was right for not apologizing for my side chicks! Respect!

[@TheStyleOG]

Ha !

[@Uzodesign]

Lol, you're terrible, playboy.

[@TAM-mj9lb]

Excellent advice from a man for those who seek to go on their journey of improving themselves. Men today feel as if they had to apologize for breathing which is exactly what the "woke" world wants us to do in order to diminish our influence and masculinity. What I generally say to the proponents of that group is: "O.K., do all the hard things in life without our assistance. Then you can chime in!" Rights and entitlement should come from having delivered first, not by the mere fact that you exist as a human being. And here, the correct word was intertwined - accountability. That is a real man's currency!!!

[@morrismontgomery2386]

Another great piece of information. This video enforces what I have been sharing with my son. SALUTE O.G.!!!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Morris !

[@okey9904]

Thank you very much for being here big bro. A lot of us really need this stuff.

[@TheStyleOG]

My pleasure!

[@ryantccarver]

Hope you enjoyed your Christmas, O.G., really good advice! I used to be way too apologetic about wanting to spend time alone, glad I grew out of that

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Ryan !

[@SageVaughn]

Thank you Jeff. This video is sincerely more powerful and liberating than I had expected

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@lennonmoore2847]

Jeff thank you brother! This is one area I consistently need to work on. Appreciate you 🙏!

[@TheStyleOG]

You are so welcome

[@oscarfernandez6961]

Words of wisdom, Jeff! If I may add, I don’t think men should apologize for sticking to their principles or having opinions. Oftentimes I see others wanting to impose their views on me, but I can’t make everyone happy

[@snoopy6867]

Thank you and please continue to educate the masses. -Joel

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Joel !

[@dannychang9662]

Keep up the good content. I've viewed many different youtube channels to help men and you seem the most authentic to me. And I like how you say emotions are okay for men.

[@TheStyleOG]

Will di Danny!

[@azziz4biz]

Right on point about emotions.

[@ademibia7235]

Risks must be taken in order to achieve extraordinary things which lie outside our comfort zones. Jeff spitting facts as always.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@averagevotersmith3326]

Wow Jeff, this is one of the deepest & most powerful videos on self-development I've heard in a while. Thanks.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the feedback!

[@luismaggio8507]

Hey Jeff just watched this video. Thank you so much for stating all of these key points. Interaction with women is hard enough. With men, it’s usually cut and dry and feelings are tested and hurt. We don’t say sorry for anything. I love that you touched upon most things that create a rift between men. Lastly, your final point about being yourself was gold. Again, thank you for enlightening me and hopefully other men out there who act like men and don’t apologize for it. Continued success.

[@dixonju42]

I really appreciate your content, it is valuable. Thank You!

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@andyb7213]

Yes sir. Confidence, integrity and kindness while still caring about your own needs.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@SwaveeyLive]

I never ever regret subscribing to your channel, your channel is so underrated u be dropping nothing but gems 💎🙏🏾 I really appreciate you ma brother 😎 Salute 🍻

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@HiSayIt]

Whoo! Thanks Style O.G. I needed the video. Been bothered for the longest time after being compared to someone's husband. She wasnot even her like her friend. However, I knew better in avoiding telling her that I had had better than her. I am me and I needed to be worked with. I had felt bad for moving on from a good friend. He was stagnant. If I did not leave him behind, I would have been stagnant too. Happy that I moved on with much success. Happy New Year O.G.!!!

[@MrKronus1]

Once Again OG you rise to the occasion again! Keep it going brother, we as men must be able to not let our emotions take control of our life but we also must be able to express at the proper occasion. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@fetsamiaraya9651]

Great video Jeff, you're one of my favourite channels. I especially liked the 11th thing on your list, it's so important to remember that we're not responsible for how we feel, but we are responsible for how act.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@cuthbertwchance9045]

YES, Jeff DEEP VERY DEEP, Telling The TRUTH Big Bro. HOOYAH

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Cuthbert!

[@kingdom.citizen]

Not only did I subscribe for the information you provided. But when you said you followed your passion in your 40s. That’s was what convinced me.

[@TheStyleOG]

Nice!

[@jasonmiller6382]

O.G. huge ups chief you just changed the game. It's real easy talking about being an alpha/man when you have no dependents, but you and Kevin Samuels have shown you can be that man as well with children 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Jason !

[@MatrixxSoundlab]

THAT VERY FIRST ONE, saying "no". I had to say no someone just a couple of hours before seeing this video. It was an unreasonable request. After seeing this it confirmed what my answer was and had me wondering why I had to force myself to say "no" in the first place. Thanks brotha!

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@glenngray6859]

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas my Bro. I have learned not to apologize for saying No to family members. Great video my G . Salute my friend

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Glenn !

[@WarriorQveen]

I’m 54 and have learned these very things about men on my journey in life. You nailed it Sir... you nailed it. A lot of this can be applied to women as well, but this isn’t the forum for that. I just love that you put this out there, particularly the emotion part. Fantastic!!! 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Alicia!

[@dubidad]

Good stuff Jeff. Awesome content as always man. 🙏🏽👌🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Norman !

[@Shawntraci]

Nice video Sir! I say "NO" without explaining, I could care less about how people feel when I want to know about what women like , nor did I listen to those who told me why would you leave everyone you know here and join the military. One of the best things I never apologize for is minding my own business. I do not have to react, respond, or engage anyone who compromises my peace. Keep putting these awesome videos out here for the masses good Sir!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Love it Shawn !

[@theblackknight9783]

You preached a whole sermon right here.

[@TheStyleOG]

My man !

[@leslieoconnor1902]

I Am The Sermon

[@hahahano2796]

Respect is earned. Kindness is earned. Courtesy is given until the person shows they don't even deserve that.

[@_TonyCrossroads]

Salute bruh. In grad school currently and I told myself until I have my PhD and my finances where I want them it’s all about ME. My 20’s are my selfish and getting to know me years *shrugs*

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@GammaFitInc]

Very sound advice, Jeff. Especially what you've said regarding the difference between being in tune with the what/how women think and how to be tactile with them for the purpose of a relationship, versus being a "simp". Knowing what women want/like is not at all simpish...placating and acquiesing to them at the expense of your manhood is.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input Andre !

[@TheOmega4ever]

This , in jy opinion, has been your best video! Well done and great information that men need to hear as well as women!!!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@lebronshairline4768]

We're listening, well I guess I'm the only one judging by the comments , lol

[@jeffreyfigueiredo1740]

Awesome video Jeff! Two 👍🏾 up. I can very much relate to all the points you pointed out and agree with most of them. Started realizing all of these points more so as I became older.

[@cliftonsledge962]

Good stuff it’s time to put myself first ☝🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir !

[@JRich71]

Timely message, Jeff. I just shared this with my brother and brother in-law. Salute.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@i.b.i.c.s7778]

Solid episode O.G, SALUTE 👍🇬🇧🇳🇬😎

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@wiseone01-o2t]

Great content brother. There is a lot of wisdom in this video ,something many other KZbin videos lack. Thank you !!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Toney !

[@SumeetSarangal]

Style og is a true g! Hes helped me in so many ways! Whats ur review on dior Fahrenheit og?

[@TheStyleOG]

Super classic and the ladies still love it

[@Richard-jq6mq]

Jeff, So good to hear you again. As usual with you...sound, solid, self respecting advice for a balanced life. Kudos. .

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Richard!

[@fredmercury1314]

Never apologise for someone else hurting their own feelings, even though they're trying to blame you for it.

[@VScriptedVizionairy]

Establishing this channel was a GREAT idea Jeff. Keep em coming!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Will do !

[@quaddafismith7018]

Happy Holidays OG. You consistently putting out 🔥videos. Keep bringing that 🔥in 2021 and beyond

[@TheStyleOG]

Same to you !

[@torrancewynn7554]

Hey OG I agree with #1 definitely! It’s one the hardest things to say. I thinks as men we learned to give excuses oppose to say no to avoid confrontation, or hurting someone else’s feelings.

[@TheStyleOG]

Very important!

[@visualizedbymal]

Really appreciate this video OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad to hear it !

[@Ezekiel144k]

@The StyleOG: Excellent topic! Im surrounded by brothers that say you're a "pretty boy" when you take care of yourself smh. They dont take of themselves like that. Im a competitive brother (former college football player) and and i have an edge to me that bothers some brothers. As a husband and father, i ALWAYS make sure to take care of them first; its my obligation. When all my obligations are met, then i have some fun and enjoy the fruits of my hard labor. I know this is an older video, but im combing over some videos i missed. Great topic!

[@ms.leosmiles7361]

Ge, Jeff Ooo whew, sweet!😃 Talk that talk! Excerpts for a best seller. You are The "Hit 👊man" - Style O.G. .💛

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Ms Leo!

[@teddyblack126]

This is great advice, and even more so with the new year around the corner. Let’s be true to ourselves in 2021!

[@omegagiraffe1172]

Finally a man leading men without that douchebag complex. Men get so caught up in so much competition with each other instead of really trying to give out valuable advice, so this is a breath of fresh air!!

[@dholmesjr]

Great video... My only intention is to move forward in a positive way.. I set goals and then put in the work to accomplish them.... Staying sharp and focused makes me a better person.... No need to apologize for that... Thanks again Jeff...

[@TheStyleOG]

Love that!

[@azrael01010]

This is such a great list. As someone with a newborn son I can tell you these are wonderful life lessons I'll be teaching him

[@joshct9426]

Just found this channel tonight and am already 8 videos in. Really like and respect how this channel is for Men.