13 Crazy Things White People Think About Black Hair

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@onesim
@onesim 8 жыл бұрын
I hate when people touch my hair without asking. I'm not a something you can touch without asking.
@niawilson4086
@niawilson4086 7 жыл бұрын
Simone M. I died my hair green and people kept touching my hair.
@thatonethisone5904
@thatonethisone5904 7 жыл бұрын
I'm blonde. Try being blonde and stepping outside the west
@gloriajean8024
@gloriajean8024 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah me to. It happens all the time when I grow my hair out long.
@kjcruiser7855
@kjcruiser7855 7 жыл бұрын
Biohazard BoB want some advice? you should stop thinking anyone who shares stories on the internet a lies or fibs..
@kuinasgf
@kuinasgf 7 жыл бұрын
Simone M. I know. Makes me feel uncomfortable about it and especially if it's boys.
@sw34theart36
@sw34theart36 6 жыл бұрын
People at my school: “You should let your hair down for once” Me: “What does that mean” People at my school: “Straighten it. Like mine” Me: “GTFO”
@sweetenerqueen3403
@sweetenerqueen3403 6 жыл бұрын
Cicely Le Chicken Tendie ikr, my shit goes right up after flat ironing.
@thelazybanana4716
@thelazybanana4716 6 жыл бұрын
My hair would look HORRIBLE if it's straightened forever! I don't want those hairstyles!
@itshxjaaa7984
@itshxjaaa7984 6 жыл бұрын
trueee
@bealaee93
@bealaee93 6 жыл бұрын
That shits pisses me off so much you have no idea.
@lloydinactiondope2883
@lloydinactiondope2883 6 жыл бұрын
Bealae E OMFG SAMEEEE
@purpleunicorn5017
@purpleunicorn5017 7 жыл бұрын
I have long african american hair...i hate when people ask me if my hair is real that pisses me off
@babybluesunshine7432
@babybluesunshine7432 7 жыл бұрын
J V it's disrespectful to like it's none of their business even if it was a weave
@dollbaby929
@dollbaby929 7 жыл бұрын
Just. Laugh and say lol I was going to ask you the same thing
@velvetmoon6162
@velvetmoon6162 7 жыл бұрын
just me ok..... Thank you thats a good one
@BeautyLoveGoddess
@BeautyLoveGoddess 7 жыл бұрын
Same here, I get so sick n tired of that question especially when it comes from nonblack people, like all yall do is talk shit about black women for wearing weave wtf u wanna know if its my real hair n how did I get it to grow out long.
@haley7138
@haley7138 7 жыл бұрын
BeautyLoveGoddess I never heard a lot of white girls speak badly about weave.
@candy_knights_of_thunder6029
@candy_knights_of_thunder6029 6 жыл бұрын
Who else is black and watched the vid?
@editsbytiyanaaa4389
@editsbytiyanaaa4389 5 жыл бұрын
Me
@gachalifedaniella4002
@gachalifedaniella4002 5 жыл бұрын
Me
@lordblazer
@lordblazer 5 жыл бұрын
yo
@kiaraaa6324
@kiaraaa6324 5 жыл бұрын
Me
@sleepykitx5022
@sleepykitx5022 5 жыл бұрын
Me
@pheonixflower2166
@pheonixflower2166 7 жыл бұрын
I hate when people ask if its real like nah its made out of goldfish
@laurelc9326
@laurelc9326 6 жыл бұрын
Pheonix Flower best comment here
@nolimitalllat8730
@nolimitalllat8730 6 жыл бұрын
Pheonix Flower same
@aidadesouza-nianduillet3418
@aidadesouza-nianduillet3418 6 жыл бұрын
Pheonix Flower 😂
@eni867
@eni867 6 жыл бұрын
Someone once asked whether I glued it to my head THE WAY I SCREWED THEM AND WALKED AWAY
@geraldine83901
@geraldine83901 6 жыл бұрын
Eni ! TWINSSSSSSSS!! WHAT ARE THEY THINKING!?!?
@thewinehussy_5609
@thewinehussy_5609 8 жыл бұрын
To everyone who thinks that black hair doesn't grow...you poor misguided souls..
@somto2888
@somto2888 7 жыл бұрын
Brittany Alexander amen
@ryleereynolds5710
@ryleereynolds5710 7 жыл бұрын
Brittany Alexander yea you just have to pull it because it scrunches up. You have to stretch it to actually see it's full length. I'm half black half white and I have extremely curly hair and it's gorgeous but I just get upset because it's up to my shoulders but if I stretch it out it's actually longer or when I straighten it lol.
@nique2381
@nique2381 7 жыл бұрын
Brittany Alexander 😂😂
@gracagigi6322
@gracagigi6322 7 жыл бұрын
Yanique E o
@adenefw8465
@adenefw8465 7 жыл бұрын
Rylee Reynolds yea
@erinmorticia8990
@erinmorticia8990 7 жыл бұрын
So many of the comments here are absolutely horrifying. I am truly disgusted. It's so disheartening to see so much blatant racism. Calling black women ugly? Calling our hair dirty, "hopeless" or "animal hair with lice"? Really? Comments like those make me lose faith in humanity every time I encounter them. It's so disappointing.
@oof4698
@oof4698 7 жыл бұрын
Erin Morticia where they at though
@NinaLady11
@NinaLady11 7 жыл бұрын
If you have faith in humanity then it is sadly misplaced.
@jessjessjess222
@jessjessjess222 7 жыл бұрын
Literally half of the guys at my school said they would NEVER date a black woman. And that honestly made me feel so disgusted.
@NinaLady11
@NinaLady11 7 жыл бұрын
You can't make someone like you. Hang with the other 50 percent who don't have a problem with us.
@jessjessjess222
@jessjessjess222 7 жыл бұрын
Ladee Neenah of course not. It was just the way they said it made me kind of sick. They acted as if people of color were diseased and repulsive.
@FanGurl4TY
@FanGurl4TY 6 жыл бұрын
I wish the teachers would show this at school
@younglaster
@younglaster 5 жыл бұрын
Artist God Sometimes, the teachers need to be shown this!
@apollyon1987
@apollyon1987 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I also wish teachers decided to shoe about hair or some shit when it’s not on the curriculum or that no one cares about
@luciddreamz3044
@luciddreamz3044 4 жыл бұрын
They not cause they don't want us to know the truth
@cdenjames4542
@cdenjames4542 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 They ain't showing it because it spitting facts and they will be exposed.
@reneebono8115
@reneebono8115 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly 😊 I just learned so much 👍
@kingsagenda
@kingsagenda 7 жыл бұрын
a Caucasian chick at work jokingly said to me "oh, you wearing your white girl hair today!" Referring to my natural hair being straightened. I gently told her that my hair is "black" every day whether it's twisted or straightened and to keep her foolish comments to herself. So, yes, this video is very necessary.
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 7 жыл бұрын
SMH
@silky0439
@silky0439 7 жыл бұрын
Von very nicely stated! I t is just us that gets the stupid questions.
@LilKitten1000
@LilKitten1000 7 жыл бұрын
Von 4
@loveandlight_
@loveandlight_ 7 жыл бұрын
Von 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@itsnotatavia
@itsnotatavia 7 жыл бұрын
Roxanne Reid uhh huh get her fired
@tamarchibamu6561
@tamarchibamu6561 7 жыл бұрын
U wouldnt even believe the amount of times people have asked to touch my hair
@amberlyelizabeth
@amberlyelizabeth 7 жыл бұрын
Tamar chibamu same. It is not just black person problem
@marinadiaz1762
@marinadiaz1762 7 жыл бұрын
Tamar chibamu same
@paillard5528
@paillard5528 7 жыл бұрын
imagine their reaction if u asked to touch their hair...they would freak the FUCK up
@kashkid537
@kashkid537 7 жыл бұрын
Asains man Asains I don't know why but they always askin to touch my hair
@Tyler_Reese
@Tyler_Reese 7 жыл бұрын
Tamar chibamu , I'm hip there like your hair is so long and thick can i touch and I'm like if you don't get out my face...
@dakotastorm8786
@dakotastorm8786 7 жыл бұрын
I hate when people touch my hair
@miaaawaaay1926
@miaaawaaay1926 7 жыл бұрын
Me too
@yeetman4953
@yeetman4953 6 жыл бұрын
Dakota Storm thanks for not being racially biased
@user-vt1bz6nf7d
@user-vt1bz6nf7d 6 жыл бұрын
Die Please Well tbh not many people in the comments section were. I mean I go to an African school (like only 5 white kids) and it's the rest of the BLACK children / teens that touch others hair, heck even WAISTS. And it's comment does say 'i hate when white people touch my hair' Please don't take it as an insult, the person is talking about their experience that I assure you THOUSANDS (even me) have been through. Thank you and sorry :3
@yeetman4953
@yeetman4953 6 жыл бұрын
Tarinabo Daukoru k
@mazarinetrends5127
@mazarinetrends5127 6 жыл бұрын
Dakota Storm me too
@wolfmajesty9606
@wolfmajesty9606 6 жыл бұрын
I remember one time in school someone asked me why I don't let my hair down. I said, "Well, why do you always have your hair down?" They said, " Because I want to and it's my hair" I said, "Exactly"
@keithwilliams1243
@keithwilliams1243 2 жыл бұрын
A better reply would be why don't you let your hair up?
@Sweetpicklehater
@Sweetpicklehater 7 жыл бұрын
“My hair is so hard to brush!” ~Every white girl that has straight hair
@Mochielite
@Mochielite 7 жыл бұрын
Denver Lindsay i had straight long hair and it was so fucking hard to brush
@chxd2206
@chxd2206 7 жыл бұрын
My hair is incredibly hard to brush
@kaitlynalam6839
@kaitlynalam6839 7 жыл бұрын
My hair is weird. One minute it will be nice and strait but then another minute it will be curly of frizzy. I don’t really use heat on my hair that often. My hair usually is wavy. I hate my hair.
@naydrasnowfield8404
@naydrasnowfield8404 7 жыл бұрын
Denver Lindsay exactly fr
@sw34theart36
@sw34theart36 6 жыл бұрын
Yooooo. This is truee
@zoejoyblack
@zoejoyblack 8 жыл бұрын
The kinda funny thing is... Most white people I meet like my hair, like this white guy I dated once, he loved it. Sadly a lot of black people are the ones that put it down. Not all just some. Though I can't speak from experiencing corporate America.
@NaijaChristine
@NaijaChristine 8 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@hichellehakedal8883
@hichellehakedal8883 8 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@RaRaquel7
@RaRaquel7 8 жыл бұрын
This is true!. I work in a white collar establishment for one of the Big Three, but it's a very diverse corporation. I find the non-blacks that don't like my hair or have something bad to say about it, wouldn't say it to my face and if my big boss did.. I honestly wouldn't know what to do or how to feel.
@NaijaChristine
@NaijaChristine 8 жыл бұрын
Raven Cloud​ So in your case non-blacks do not like your hair, because it's opposite for us.
@ediththompson30
@ediththompson30 8 жыл бұрын
+49jubilee. I got bullied all my life from African American women for my hair. I tried not to resent them for it. However it has changed my confidence and interactions with them. I have never gotten hate for my hair from other ethnicities. which is unfortunate in it's own way.
@awesomedeloris
@awesomedeloris 8 жыл бұрын
To all those white people saying "i dont think this about black hair" just remember, just because you dont think this about black hair, doesn't mean that other people dont. (at my old school, people made fun of my hair all the time) Also this video should apply to all people without african/ african american hair types, not just "white people"
@sophiamonperrus2778
@sophiamonperrus2778 7 жыл бұрын
nobody ! I just don't like the title "this that white people think" it should be "things some white people think" as not all of us are like that
@clintjohnson1023
@clintjohnson1023 7 жыл бұрын
Sophia Monperrus the word "some" honestly doesn't make that much of a difference as matter of fact white people want to use the word some to separate themselves from the issue.
@clintjohnson1023
@clintjohnson1023 7 жыл бұрын
ReD BLaZe you're so edgy 😒
@adeolalikesminons6508
@adeolalikesminons6508 7 жыл бұрын
ReD BLaZe please stop using that word, do you even know the meaning of it and how it was used for slavery.You better hide before my family come and beat your ass.You rasict piece of shit.
@peach11112
@peach11112 7 жыл бұрын
+ReD BLaZe stfu now u be thinking all blacks racist from what u commented effing hypocrite
@Just_vanilla_pls
@Just_vanilla_pls 3 жыл бұрын
My *white* principle actually complimented me on how my natural afro looked and said it was very neat. Soon after that many other students from my school stopped relaxing their hair and let it grow naturally 👩‍🦱 #hairpositivity
@jbk_bg
@jbk_bg 3 жыл бұрын
nicee thats good
@itsangel713
@itsangel713 7 жыл бұрын
I had white girls at my school pull on my hair and ask if it's a weave. I'm like bitch why would I need a weave when my hair's sexy af already?
@razzberry9612
@razzberry9612 7 жыл бұрын
Angel Hardman . you should've slapped them for pulling your hair.
@DejH
@DejH 7 жыл бұрын
Angel Hardman i hate that too because my hair is down to like my mid-back so they be like is it real like BISH JUST BECAUSE IT'S LONG DOESN'T MEAN IT'S WEAVE TRUST ME IF IT WAS WEAVE YOU WOULD NOTICE AND I WOULD MAKE IT LONGER FOR YOUR INFORMATION BUT I LOVE MY HAIR TOO MUCH TO DO THAT and i would slap the living daylights out the person who pulled my hair
@jet7194
@jet7194 7 жыл бұрын
Angel Hardman That happens to me so much I hate it.
@mrs.caleetawilliams9392
@mrs.caleetawilliams9392 7 жыл бұрын
Angel Hardman ikr people at my school would do that to me too
@jennaporfirio4610
@jennaporfirio4610 7 жыл бұрын
Why didn't you do something? That's assault.
@amenabdissa32
@amenabdissa32 7 жыл бұрын
I hate it when people think my hair is a weave
@gogeta101savagenaruto2
@gogeta101savagenaruto2 6 жыл бұрын
Amen Abdissa it’s called jealousy
@kaliyahsykes7854
@kaliyahsykes7854 6 жыл бұрын
Right for me too
@basicbetty3302
@basicbetty3302 6 жыл бұрын
When they say that, you should ask if they're wearing extensions.
@Vampyrs__
@Vampyrs__ 6 жыл бұрын
Amen Abdissa ikr
@Kingsombra21
@Kingsombra21 6 жыл бұрын
Gogeta101savage Naruto trust me no one is jealous of black nappy hair
@Gumgumguk
@Gumgumguk 7 жыл бұрын
yikes, this kinda pisses me off because people who think this stuff are actually out there. i find it stupid that black women cant get most jobs with natural hair?? like??? its hair. nothing is wrong with it. its super pretty and people should just keep their mouths shut. being white, i dont know whats its like to go through this daily. i dont have pin straight hair, its more wavy and tangled up. but you guys shouldnt have to relax your hair just for a job. people need to accept that thats how you were born 💜
@Goddessofloveeee
@Goddessofloveeee 6 жыл бұрын
b h 💕
@skye6066
@skye6066 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you girl
@highaunt9679
@highaunt9679 6 жыл бұрын
kaylynn thanks so much it’s about time someone has said it
@ascendedweeb328
@ascendedweeb328 6 жыл бұрын
kaylynn they don’t need to wear it down the don’t hire because most of the time it doesn’t look professional
@thetongueofangels1882
@thetongueofangels1882 5 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@itznxvaehorwhateva2875
@itznxvaehorwhateva2875 6 жыл бұрын
I'm Puerto Rican and I have very curly hair and I hate when these white kids just touch my hair, WITHOUT EVEN ASKING. And then they always ask if it's real I'm just like YES...YES IT IS REAL!!! And then like a week later at school the same person always ask if it's real LIKE EVERY WEEK 😣😒😤😬
@nicolen3177
@nicolen3177 5 жыл бұрын
@@anonuser365 Puerto Ricans are black.
@m.h.w.2081
@m.h.w.2081 5 жыл бұрын
smack their hand away. whites are fawking weirdos man
@ashleekamagate4123
@ashleekamagate4123 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you omg stop touching my hair don't you have hair
@amehka5416
@amehka5416 5 жыл бұрын
@@nicolen3177 no they're not.
@nicolen3177
@nicolen3177 5 жыл бұрын
@From a Bicycle seat oh I did not know this.. I thought Puerto Ricans are black, mixed, or spanish.. I guess I was wrong. Thank you
@jaylaahs.mp3456
@jaylaahs.mp3456 6 жыл бұрын
People ask me if I take my hair out and wash it every night when I have braids😦
@kaitreasure7156
@kaitreasure7156 6 жыл бұрын
incoming j I once had to get a lice inspection and one woman said"Why didnt you take out HER braids? You took out my daughters." Got me like...fool
@haleydavidson7693
@haleydavidson7693 6 жыл бұрын
incoming j omg me too
@LovelyLoveTV
@LovelyLoveTV 6 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@v.c.105
@v.c.105 6 жыл бұрын
They mean take the hair out of the braids.
@yiemyi3136
@yiemyi3136 6 жыл бұрын
HAHHA WTF THEY ARE FOOLS OML
@celestem7285
@celestem7285 7 жыл бұрын
A girl in my class who had perfectly straight hair said she wants my hair tie because she needs more then i do i just walked away.
@JaeMoni
@JaeMoni 7 жыл бұрын
ikr it makes me so bad like you have thinner hair than me but you need it more? just get the fuck out of my face
@bdhshanwhsndnfna445
@bdhshanwhsndnfna445 7 жыл бұрын
xoCelestexo * you yelled at her??? Why?
@dollarama5604
@dollarama5604 7 жыл бұрын
xoCelestexo * You probably shouldn't have yelled because now she didn't learn anything. But I respect that you proudly opposed
@nylamataese
@nylamataese 7 жыл бұрын
xoCelestexo * does this ever happen to you when a person with straight har ask to borrow a hair tie. Then complain about how stretched out it is ?
@sanaya5218
@sanaya5218 7 жыл бұрын
Steve Tualaulelei yes all the time when I take my time about to be late to class to take it out my hair and then they don't want it like bish what
@godlove5912
@godlove5912 7 жыл бұрын
"I want to touch ehhhtt"- that voice tho 😂
@user-vt1bz6nf7d
@user-vt1bz6nf7d 6 жыл бұрын
Lisa Lisa Lol its so familiar. .. So haunting.... XD
@jammydoughnuts
@jammydoughnuts 6 жыл бұрын
actually getting flashbacks just from hearing that voice tbh
@na2.053
@na2.053 6 жыл бұрын
Ichigo lol me too....when they’re faces light up when they see you...and you know for the fact that after they say your hair looks awesome...then they’ll hit you with the “can I touch ittttttt”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@proudplaysandreacts5676
@proudplaysandreacts5676 6 жыл бұрын
When I wear my hair out. "Omg, you have so much hair, when are you going to straighten it?" 🙄Please stop.
@magivee5915
@magivee5915 5 жыл бұрын
Proud Plays And Reacts I know right!!! That’s kinda like saying that’s short hair. When are you gonna curl it???
@rasendori7578
@rasendori7578 8 жыл бұрын
I'm a 16 year old black boy and people always tell me that my shoulder blades length curly hair is fake. Like shit no its not. And then they'll touch all over my hair to see if I'm lying, and then dismiss me as a whole when they find its real. It really pisses me off.
@taibaybee
@taibaybee 8 жыл бұрын
?? wtf why would you ask that
@taibaybee
@taibaybee 8 жыл бұрын
***** u
@vita50001
@vita50001 8 жыл бұрын
All black people have curly hair, tf. that's why they have an Afro, because there hair curls up.
@vita50001
@vita50001 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree.
@TaniLove96
@TaniLove96 8 жыл бұрын
ItsLit2016 MSP I hated that shit lol
@simonerochelle420
@simonerochelle420 8 жыл бұрын
My supervisor asked me if black hair breaks off when it grows so that's why it can't grow longer..... I had to stop myself from saying something smart or I would've gotten fired that day 😒
@TheCandycane973
@TheCandycane973 8 жыл бұрын
Simone Rochelle stay strong sister ✊
@niabcm19
@niabcm19 8 жыл бұрын
She's not wrong. African hair is more brittle than European and Asian hair. That's why it appears that African hair grows shorter than other hair types despite growing at the same rate. Because your hair is more brittle and therefore more vulnerable to breakage.
@noe4354
@noe4354 7 жыл бұрын
Simone Rochelle I would have been pissed if someone said that to me
@noe4354
@noe4354 7 жыл бұрын
sio19 its probably to protect our heads from the sun since thin hair isn't as protective compared to thick hair
@kailah1923
@kailah1923 7 жыл бұрын
Pissed
@briijacksonnn1924
@briijacksonnn1924 8 жыл бұрын
wishing white kids in school saw this
@noe4354
@noe4354 7 жыл бұрын
Bri Jackson same
@messfluff4805
@messfluff4805 7 жыл бұрын
Bri Jackson ikr
@Teanani-py4bq
@Teanani-py4bq 7 жыл бұрын
Ikr I am so tired of people making fun of my natural hair just because they don't understand it😥
@olivia-ql7zn
@olivia-ql7zn 7 жыл бұрын
Bri Jackson hello I'm in school and white, I don't think these, "black" hair is beautiful and I love it better than my own.
@kylienicholas184
@kylienicholas184 7 жыл бұрын
Bri Jackson I have them squishing it even the mean kids I don't KNOW 🙅🙅🙅🙍🙍🙍🙍
@samera_ptl
@samera_ptl 6 жыл бұрын
Black is beautiful
@pumpkinseeds8990
@pumpkinseeds8990 3 жыл бұрын
White is beautiful. Blonde hair and blue eyes
@theblackearth3843
@theblackearth3843 3 жыл бұрын
@@pumpkinseeds8990 black is beautiful with Dark eyes and pretty dark skin 😍
@theblackearth3843
@theblackearth3843 3 жыл бұрын
@@pumpkinseeds8990 but white skin with with pretty sky eyes with pretty long golden hair 😍
@Buttercup847
@Buttercup847 9 ай бұрын
Nah it's overrated ​@@pumpkinseeds8990
@kamyabrooks5349
@kamyabrooks5349 7 жыл бұрын
I'm black and this happens to me all the time
@donotaylor5307
@donotaylor5307 6 жыл бұрын
kamya brooks same here I'm biracial. my hair is super kinky
@gabby6303
@gabby6303 6 жыл бұрын
same
@ascendedweeb328
@ascendedweeb328 6 жыл бұрын
dono Taylor im multiracial and my hair came out straight and curls when it grows out
@genesisesc4521
@genesisesc4521 5 жыл бұрын
@From a Bicycle seat yes 🙄🙄🙄🤡🤡🤡
@siflurluizer4257
@siflurluizer4257 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913
@Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913 8 жыл бұрын
It so sad that we even have to explain this to people
@ashleyc.484
@ashleyc.484 8 жыл бұрын
Ppl are not born with background knowledge about natural black hair. If you don't want to explain it to them, then don't get mad when they appear "ignorant." This is not an excuse for being rude but you can expect ppl to know things the are not taught.
@shanycetaylor5490
@shanycetaylor5490 8 жыл бұрын
exactly
@standingout34
@standingout34 8 жыл бұрын
You actually don't have to explain anything to anyone lol
@Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913
@Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913 8 жыл бұрын
Ashley C. I understand that but a lot of the stuff people say involving my hair (yes even black people included) is inherently rude and racist aside form being invasive. I feel like its really a manners issue. And it's not my job to educate. If people really were that concerned they'd do their own research and watch videos like these.
@Hippie-chick
@Hippie-chick 8 жыл бұрын
THIS video is offensive. I'd love to learn more about black people's hair, because it's actually very intriguing - and different than mine, so I don't know much about it. I could always assume, but I prefer not to do that. However, this video makes me think that my curiosity is wrong and racist, so maybe I understand more why some people, of any race (hey, Latinos don't have hair like black people...how come you don't slam on them for not knowing what it's like?) may have some boundary issues. This video is spreading negative beliefs about white people in general. If it was about black people, it would be deemed racist.
@latoyataylor1986
@latoyataylor1986 8 жыл бұрын
it's funny cause I'm in college and this white girl I'm my class asked me if my hair was a weave I said no then I asked her was her hair a weave and lol she looked me funny like I shouldn't have asked her that question and let me remind you people my hair is mid back length smdh😟
@misanthropickitty6422
@misanthropickitty6422 8 жыл бұрын
She sounded like she's was trying to start something
@k.sxraiiii9597
@k.sxraiiii9597 8 жыл бұрын
Mine too. Both teacher's and students ask me if it's weave or if it has in highlights(my hair is dark brown with lighter streaks). It mostly comes from my own race.
@brenaomi
@brenaomi 8 жыл бұрын
Because that she-dumby doesn't understand that black girls can grow long hair
@XxxDarkPunkAngelxxxX
@XxxDarkPunkAngelxxxX 8 жыл бұрын
Maybe she was just ACTUALLY curious, there is nothing wrong with the question.
@kvpyv
@kvpyv 8 жыл бұрын
+Genaral Yuki her question was okay but the fact that she looked at her funny after she asked the same thing was totally wrong
@starry.ey3s
@starry.ey3s 6 жыл бұрын
“Black hair doesn’t grow” Bish my hair is at my hips Sometimes I wear weave or color weave
@shenii6512
@shenii6512 4 жыл бұрын
Preach
@teainnit3409
@teainnit3409 4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@shenii6512
@shenii6512 4 жыл бұрын
𝕓𝕒𝕟𝕒𝕟𝕒𝕡𝕚𝕖𝕤🥧🍮 That’s what he said- Michael Scott 😏🥴
@ayo7283
@ayo7283 4 жыл бұрын
YASS sis
@suziesmith8288
@suziesmith8288 4 жыл бұрын
I trim my hair monthly and it still grows very fast. Black hair does grow!
@Ashley-mc5bi
@Ashley-mc5bi 7 жыл бұрын
I hate the term black hair.🙄 There's people in Somalia with type 2 wavy hair. Then there's people in Ghana with kinky type 4 hair. I've even seen a lil boy with straight blonde hair. Black people can have it all.😍
@taxu7936
@taxu7936 6 жыл бұрын
it's a generalization, which means it's GENERALLY true. IN GENERAL.
@taxu7936
@taxu7936 6 жыл бұрын
You can't redefine a term with exceptions
@aretheaforbes8725
@aretheaforbes8725 6 жыл бұрын
That is so true
@aretheaforbes8725
@aretheaforbes8725 6 жыл бұрын
We can even put our hair in a perfect natural bun
@stephenwood8371
@stephenwood8371 6 жыл бұрын
Ashley yep y'all are so great at everything, glad y'all sailed around the world before any other race
@muldrothamadness
@muldrothamadness 8 жыл бұрын
I'm going to clear something up that I've seen in the comments. I'm noticing a lot of "I'm white and I don't do this" comments. I am also white and don't do this, but I recognize the importance of the video. See, denying that it happens doesn't solve the problem. You can't just let racism off with a free pass because pointing it out makes you feel bad. By watching, understanding, and appreciating the content of this video you'll be more likely to see these actions when they appear and more likely to try and stop them. You'll also pay closer attention to what you say and do.
@kennedybyrdsong3644
@kennedybyrdsong3644 7 жыл бұрын
Isobelle Faulkner there is a comment made by the channel explaining why they chose that specific title
@MissRikkiKat
@MissRikkiKat 7 жыл бұрын
Isobelle Faulkner No response this time. Seems they're the only ones who get to complain.
@ecw141685
@ecw141685 7 жыл бұрын
Cheyenne Dewey Thank you
@ecw141685
@ecw141685 7 жыл бұрын
Isobelle Faulkner They are minorities as well
@kourtneylily
@kourtneylily 7 жыл бұрын
Fucking thank you
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
You probably wouldn't fire anyone or kick them out of school for wearing their natural hair either. But it's happening too often.
@chalseywilder937
@chalseywilder937 8 жыл бұрын
this was a great video. And yeah, sad that this happens.
@tamiechristian5719
@tamiechristian5719 8 жыл бұрын
Great video. I pray that this will educate people about black hair and stop the stereotypes.
@tamikadurant5350
@tamikadurant5350 8 жыл бұрын
omg! So true
@faithyoung6625
@faithyoung6625 8 жыл бұрын
I love this omg so true
@ChunkylRL
@ChunkylRL 8 жыл бұрын
i no right
@person2611
@person2611 6 жыл бұрын
I tell people at school, not to touch my hair, they laugh it off and do it anyway, after I feel disrespected. Also, people love saying I don't have much hair, *my hair is coming out due to me laying on the carpet* *its coming out* *i take care of it though* *it just grows slow*
@jacqyralovejoy1637
@jacqyralovejoy1637 6 жыл бұрын
Your hair doesn’t grow slow, lol. It just doesn’t retain the length that it does grow🤦🏽‍♀️
@garnetbabe2.0godschild40
@garnetbabe2.0godschild40 5 жыл бұрын
Swat those ppl hands away girl
@Jryder933
@Jryder933 5 жыл бұрын
The people that touch your hair, without your permission, just punch them in the face!
@Pumpkin_3890
@Pumpkin_3890 5 жыл бұрын
Get your mom to complain to the Principal. Worked for my friend, should work for you.
@callmecoconut70
@callmecoconut70 5 жыл бұрын
I get to school and my hair looks perfect. People touch my hair. I get back home it seems as if I just woke up. Like, no, stop.
@jens8160
@jens8160 7 жыл бұрын
The way how she said "I want to touch it"😂
@carowatwet
@carowatwet 6 жыл бұрын
Jenelle Schaff ikr
@fuegodraw4895
@fuegodraw4895 5 жыл бұрын
@@lhml1238 what?
@rickie-89
@rickie-89 3 жыл бұрын
Me to
@sam_rod76
@sam_rod76 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a white woman that grew up in a community of color.. I was always asked by friends if they could touch my hair or braid it. I think it stems from the fact that humans are curious about what is different.. it’s not racist.
@dinahnicole2240
@dinahnicole2240 7 жыл бұрын
It's so fluffy 😑 I hate when people say that to me
@MixedWhisper1977
@MixedWhisper1977 7 жыл бұрын
DinahhxMsp Well... it is fluffy, there is nothing wrong with saying that when it's true, there Is nothing wrong with fluffy/poofy hair .
@marinadiaz1762
@marinadiaz1762 7 жыл бұрын
DinahhxMsp Why? That's a compliment. You shouldn't take everything so seriously. Your hair is unique and when people say stuff like that, you can't be so negative about it. They could've done so much worse and you're gonna be mad at them for that? What for?
@jadak7714
@jadak7714 7 жыл бұрын
I don't lol
@lhdollbaby
@lhdollbaby 7 жыл бұрын
This obsession with us has to end dam......
@berrybloom2000
@berrybloom2000 7 жыл бұрын
DinahhxMsp FOR REAL, my friends would always say that to me in middle school... so annoying
@evavawa1169
@evavawa1169 7 жыл бұрын
I'm white and not all white people think these things. It just depends on how ignorant or uneducated someone is. I've heard white people say that all black peoples hair is dirty and it disgusts me that they think it's ok to say something like that. All hair is beautiful and no one should be judged or called dirty for what they are born with.
@zjadescientist7362
@zjadescientist7362 7 жыл бұрын
True
@kaleyrose8
@kaleyrose8 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊 I wanted someone like this to say something just because our ancestors were like this or other white people doesn’t mean everyone is all these comments are disgraceful to white people, they think white people think this but their not us and we’re not them
@zjadescientist7362
@zjadescientist7362 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah people don't know what they talking about like this is a weird ass video for people to just be searching up like I didn't even search this it just popped up i don't think nothing about white people thinking anything of our hair because tbh hair is just hair it really don't matter 🤷🏽‍♀️
@itsdeena4life95
@itsdeena4life95 7 жыл бұрын
Ben the Stik i get weave sometikes but my natural hair is still beautjful so i dont appreciate some white people thinking that are hair is dirty its just unique
@beediverse9086
@beediverse9086 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, dude
@SuccessfulDose
@SuccessfulDose 6 жыл бұрын
that's funny 😂 now how would they like it if someone black said "All white people got lice" 😂😂😂 lol talking about "It's dirty" 💀 shoot u got lice 🤣
@ajpwgiveaways1863
@ajpwgiveaways1863 6 жыл бұрын
Try again
@SuccessfulDose
@SuccessfulDose 6 жыл бұрын
Random Girl bitch ik 💀 dumbass i was saying since white ppl think our hair dirty we can say they got lice ... read between the lines 💀 if they something rude we can 2
@worp1687
@worp1687 6 жыл бұрын
Blacks get lice to
@Lana-fp1iz
@Lana-fp1iz 6 жыл бұрын
Factssss....EXACTLY
@Ζωή-σ7η
@Ζωή-σ7η 6 жыл бұрын
Worp Not if they have type 4 hair. But they can if they have a looser hair type. For example when we were kids I slept in the same bed as my brother who had lice (I didn't know) and he had type 3c hair and I didn't get lice because I have 4c.
@justtoya6579
@justtoya6579 7 жыл бұрын
I don't think they understand how offensive that is! Even when they just want to touch it ask first. I hate when people touch my hair hell i hardly touch it. Please white people hell all people do not touch our hair it's disrespectful. 🙄
@laurelc9326
@laurelc9326 6 жыл бұрын
Latoya_the_ Natural we do not all do it, remember that.
@thelazybanana4716
@thelazybanana4716 6 жыл бұрын
Laurenline CM Who said you did? She's saying it to people who DO!
@justtoya6579
@justtoya6579 6 жыл бұрын
TheLazyBanana and that's what people don't understand!
@justtoya6579
@justtoya6579 6 жыл бұрын
Svetlana Anjuska ashamed of what my hair is beautiful this is what I've been threw because people want to touch my hair it's disrespectful point blank nice try though. ✋ bye
@catherineann323
@catherineann323 6 жыл бұрын
Latoya_the_ Natural been thew? ??
@neghiethervil5606
@neghiethervil5606 8 жыл бұрын
When I stopped relaxing my hair, this white girl at my job thought that I processed my hair to look kinky. She didn't understand that it grew out of my scalp like that. Then wanted to touch it. If you are aware of how black hair works, kudos to you, but this video was created to educate those who don't. Not everyone is exposed and this could help. If you already know, It doesn't apply to you so stop the first grade comments about it being racist.
@hannahannafellows4727
@hannahannafellows4727 7 жыл бұрын
i love being black because our hair is the strongest and we dont need to wash it everyday like most people
@charmainej4820
@charmainej4820 7 жыл бұрын
actually it's not the strongest, the strongest hair belongs to Asian Indians...did this experiment this year and there is research to back this
@edoero9729
@edoero9729 7 жыл бұрын
charmaine jay What was the basis for the evaluation of strength in your research?
@charmainej4820
@charmainej4820 7 жыл бұрын
+Eromosare Aghomon In trichology lab, various subjects from different ethnic backgrounds submitted their hair sample (including my own), we looked at the hair structure microscopically . The hair strands were also subjected to different chemicals for a semester (almost 6 months)...more damage occurred in white, coloured and black hair...Asian descendants suffered less damage....I don't remember the other things that we assessed (undergrad), but it was concluded that Asians have stronger hair in general....ask me something chemistry or pharmaceutical 😂at least that's where I specialised.
@diociharesibelli2547
@diociharesibelli2547 7 жыл бұрын
Hannah Annafellows Actually no matter even if ur white u shouldnt wash ur hair Everyday its bad for everyone even skin too
@davnoble8472
@davnoble8472 7 жыл бұрын
[]Xanalimarie[] nasty asss
@iwantmyglasses.359
@iwantmyglasses.359 6 жыл бұрын
what about people mind their own damn business
@maki910
@maki910 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss thank you
@amirahstevenson4675
@amirahstevenson4675 4 жыл бұрын
Sadly, that world is far away...*cough* tea channels *cough*
@rickie-89
@rickie-89 3 жыл бұрын
Yes🤣
@perfectbrunnetdoll
@perfectbrunnetdoll 7 жыл бұрын
they say our hair looks dirty and has bugs in it.....when they are the ones with the lice and ticks infestations .......okay that's logical.
@cookiezandcreamstarbuckscream
@cookiezandcreamstarbuckscream 7 жыл бұрын
StrawberryCreamPocky Exfuckingactly.
@gungaginga4398
@gungaginga4398 7 жыл бұрын
StrawberryCreamPocky ticks? No. Lice? Yes. Why? Cause our hair is natural and straight, and lice like to live in these things,it would be very hard to live in a black persons hair,as it is very curly and sponge-like. Lice don't live in our hair because it's dirty, they live in because of the environment it provides, and it is just right for lice to live in. Checkmate idiot.
@perfectbrunnetdoll
@perfectbrunnetdoll 7 жыл бұрын
If that makes you feel better lil fazeboy.
@bobfryfish
@bobfryfish 7 жыл бұрын
lil fazeboy so are you boasting how much lice likes your hair?? 🥀🥀😂
@piscesprincess23
@piscesprincess23 7 жыл бұрын
lil fazeboy awww yaaa mad 🤣??
@DoctorFancy_SinceForever
@DoctorFancy_SinceForever 7 жыл бұрын
This video obviously doesn't talk about ALL Caucasian people it's just pointing out the ignorant to think things like this🙄
@DoctorFancy_SinceForever
@DoctorFancy_SinceForever 7 жыл бұрын
And yes, people think like that😒
@marinadiaz1762
@marinadiaz1762 7 жыл бұрын
Inysse Tyler You need to checked your grammar. I didn't get half this comment.
@greenaesthetic6387
@greenaesthetic6387 7 жыл бұрын
Marina Diaz checked?
@kaleyrose8
@kaleyrose8 7 жыл бұрын
Inysse Tyler yes true
@verifiednobody1107
@verifiednobody1107 7 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, obviously!!! How could I be so confused?? Oh yeah... crazy things white people think.... *white people* Not _some_ white people. Not _racist_ white people. Just white people. You're right. It really is so obvious.
@alesiaadams4413
@alesiaadams4413 8 жыл бұрын
omg everything that this video has said is so true , I wore an afro to the first day of ninth grade ,and a the girl sitting next to me wouldn't stop staring at me maybe because she's never seen some one wear an afro or because it was so large and curly and then without even introducing her self she says "hey is that weave? " I was so shocked and offended . and then she starts to touch my hair and says "hey can I touch it?" . Might I say I had an extremely long talk with her about black natural hair and how it was really rude to ask some one "is that weave?" when you don't even know them. But she turned out to be a really nice person ,and now were friends,so I guess this was a "win win" situation because I got to educate some one about our hair while also making a friend.😊
@kayanechilds
@kayanechilds 8 жыл бұрын
Im my school most of the black girls either have weaves or its out and a short short afro becayse theyre about to get it redone. im onw of the only girls who actually keeps her natural hair and Its obvious when its real hair. Truely the only way its off is when your hair curls up too much and it just looks bad
@alesiaadams4413
@alesiaadams4413 8 жыл бұрын
True , and its hurts when you comb it so I only comb it out like once a week with olive oil and water
@alesiaadams4413
@alesiaadams4413 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah she's great
@amataratsu006
@amataratsu006 8 жыл бұрын
the ones to blame are black women themselves (most ) they show so much love for those disgusting weaves
@alesiaadams4413
@alesiaadams4413 8 жыл бұрын
um with all do respect its not their fault ,most women wear those things in there hair because they feel self-conscious about their hair because of what society wants them to be ,so they change them self in order to be "excepted " instead of loving their own natural hair as it is .so I wouldn't really blame them for this.
@lunarcorpse
@lunarcorpse 5 жыл бұрын
I'm white and would never say something so rude about someone's hair, it is part of who they are. And it in no way hinders them at work or anyone else. I am aware of how a black person's hair is cared for and the different hairstyles are something natural to them as different hairstyles are natural to everyone. It's no different from anyone else doing their hair (except a bit more work goes into it for some people). I like watching videos of different forms of care and styles of black people's hair. I don't know why I just do. My favorite hairstyle is the Afro because it reminds me of trees blooming in Spring which reminds me of Gaia the goddess of nature. Gaia is the ancestral mother of all life, which reminds me that all life started in Africa. My sister says I'm weird for thinking that, but that is just how my mind works.
@daisyx1002
@daisyx1002 4 жыл бұрын
lunarcorpse ... the Afro compared to a tree 🌳 is a great comparison because our hair grows towards the sun and defies gravity too. We have very unique and special hair that is linked to earth. Thank you for comment 🙏🏾
@arielsea9087
@arielsea9087 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone is from this earth. Ashes to ashes dust to dust. We all die the same. The important thing is to be in God’s memory to be resurrected. Only the meek will inherit this earth. Matthew 5:5
@lunarcorpse
@lunarcorpse 4 жыл бұрын
@@arielsea9087 Ok?O.o What does this have to do with my post?
@lunarcorpse
@lunarcorpse 4 жыл бұрын
@@arielsea9087 Ok, now it makes sense.
@Demont3-e3e
@Demont3-e3e 3 жыл бұрын
Hey you guys it's just our hair is so curl that the curls are so tight and to the naked eye it looks like an afro but if you look at the hair strand closely you'll see different curl pattern and our hair as blacks is kinky coil curly the best way I can explain our curl is do you remember lark Voorhees aka (Lisa turtle) from saved by the bell well that's is afro hair once it's detangle and the curls are defined. but remember every afro black person have a different curl pattern.
@StephanieFulcher
@StephanieFulcher 8 жыл бұрын
wow.you know what's interesting? i went on an interview a few years ago and a white woman doing the interview emphasised that the company was culturally sensitive. she told me next time you come in...you come as you are. she didnt like that i gelled my hair to slick it down.
@JaniceCeleste
@JaniceCeleste 8 жыл бұрын
That's great! I hope more companies take this position.
@StephanieFulcher
@StephanieFulcher 8 жыл бұрын
+Janice Celeste thanks. i had a second interview with my hair freshly washed and conditioned. got the job. loved that place.
@TeeCG
@TeeCG 8 жыл бұрын
Still doesn't make it right though. U should be able to wear your hair however you like and get the job if you're qualified (hair slicked back with gel can hardly be considered a distraction or unprofessional). And gel is a household hair staple for many men and women regardless of ethnicity or hair texture. Would she have said the same thing if you were wearing braids? Either way, culturally sensitive or not, discrimination is discrimination but I am glad that you got the job. Kudos!
@StephanieFulcher
@StephanieFulcher 8 жыл бұрын
+rhoyal6 thanks.
@hiddenflower862
@hiddenflower862 8 жыл бұрын
Awesome :-)
@Joker31love
@Joker31love 8 жыл бұрын
I like natural black women's hair. I hate that you guys hear these things :(
@2kmarimo
@2kmarimo 7 жыл бұрын
Lily Addams bless your soul
@Lil_Tweeter
@Lil_Tweeter 7 жыл бұрын
Lily Addams I agree
@sakurachan9088
@sakurachan9088 7 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks.
@bittersweet6187
@bittersweet6187 7 жыл бұрын
Lily Addams thx for caring
@youknowmeright228
@youknowmeright228 7 жыл бұрын
Lily Addams ... Thanks ☺☺☺
@instaballer_king2222
@instaballer_king2222 7 жыл бұрын
Same thing for black men
@4knewt505
@4knewt505 6 жыл бұрын
the things my son said people commented about his hair. they ask why does he brush it if it's so low. they think their hair won't grow long. he's considered too black if he doesn't look mixed with curly hair. he's in college now. I twisted it for the first time for him. love it
@supokanatm3435
@supokanatm3435 5 жыл бұрын
Not All white pepole have white hair. Infact most dont
@toohazey
@toohazey 5 жыл бұрын
@@supokanatm3435 wtf is white hair
@supokanatm3435
@supokanatm3435 5 жыл бұрын
@@toohazey white hair is white hair
@toohazey
@toohazey 5 жыл бұрын
@@supokanatm3435 yeh as i thought no explanation
@thatgirlpeyy05
@thatgirlpeyy05 6 жыл бұрын
I went to school with my huge puff and girls were like it’s weave and I said NO they literally had to put there hands in my hair to feel my scalp I hated that!
@xoxoLeLa
@xoxoLeLa 5 жыл бұрын
My hair to long and curly brown for a puff
@aislingdraconicus825
@aislingdraconicus825 5 жыл бұрын
ew i'm so sorry that happened
@thehip-hopsocialworker6401
@thehip-hopsocialworker6401 5 жыл бұрын
WTF????? OOOOOH HELL NO!!! couldnt have been my sister/ cousin/ friend/ or gf.... hell no! errbody gotta get they ass beat!
@sleepykitx5022
@sleepykitx5022 5 жыл бұрын
If they put their hands I'm my hair without my consent I would smacked their hands, I hate when ppl be touching my hair like idk where you've been.
@inannaxo
@inannaxo 5 жыл бұрын
please don’t let them ever in life touch your hair, your hair is sacred boo 💗
@michellecampbell1115
@michellecampbell1115 8 жыл бұрын
I have heard more of this from my own black peers than white people.
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
It's sad but true. I've heard a few of these from Black folks as well, BUT what I have never seen is a situation where a Black peer has threaten someone's job if they didn't conform and straighten their hair or throw a student out of school for it. Thus we must educate in order to create change. Even when we get tired of doing so.
@ASmith-jn7kf
@ASmith-jn7kf 8 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@thehoneyeffect
@thehoneyeffect 8 жыл бұрын
many white people think it but may not tell you, black people just feel more comfortable saying shit to you
@way2girly
@way2girly 8 жыл бұрын
true. I alot of black girl ask me "is that your real hair?" I really hate that >.
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
It's a shame really. Their natural hair would actually surprise them, if they learned to care for it properly. Relaxers actually made my hair courser and dry than when it was natural.
@artisticagi
@artisticagi 8 жыл бұрын
This video needs to be shown at every workplace
@nellyrichards1805
@nellyrichards1805 7 жыл бұрын
Personally I don't think this is limited to white people, it's a bunch of races.
@anthonymarshall2012
@anthonymarshall2012 7 жыл бұрын
Nelly Richards you're right cause asians are racist as hell
@lachancla7849
@lachancla7849 7 жыл бұрын
Anthony Marshall dang dude I'm Asian I'm not even racist
@anthonymarshall2012
@anthonymarshall2012 7 жыл бұрын
gerards tøe I didn't say you were my statement is clearly a false generalization of you're race based on historical context of asians and blacks relationships, and how asians treated their own dark skin asians as poor. Not everyone but enough for me to notice
@anthonymarshall2012
@anthonymarshall2012 7 жыл бұрын
gerards tøe thanks you're part of the one percent
@davnoble8472
@davnoble8472 7 жыл бұрын
gerards tøe man shut the hell up stupid ass
@nevaeh9171
@nevaeh9171 6 жыл бұрын
I've gone through all of these scenarios and I'm only 12 I'm African american
@nairaw6334
@nairaw6334 6 жыл бұрын
NevaehTalks2u 34 Same
@fonwijikong
@fonwijikong 6 жыл бұрын
Same
@amirahstevenson4675
@amirahstevenson4675 4 жыл бұрын
Same except I’m turning 12 in August 21
@bee-pc9st
@bee-pc9st 4 жыл бұрын
Same here sis 😔
@ellaquestane9172
@ellaquestane9172 4 жыл бұрын
Same but I’m one year younger
@tyrale9658
@tyrale9658 7 жыл бұрын
MY DAD DOESN'T EVEN LET ME WEAR WEAVE😂
@nia356
@nia356 7 жыл бұрын
same
@nanisex1427
@nanisex1427 7 жыл бұрын
Yea
@haileywondem5197
@haileywondem5197 7 жыл бұрын
Tyra Le i could if I wanted to but I won’t because I look awesome without one already!
@kelbana4036
@kelbana4036 7 жыл бұрын
Tyra Le My mom doesn't care, but my dad wants my real hair to grow.😪😂😂
@thegoldenb7280
@thegoldenb7280 7 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if I had a daughter, I would do the same
@rachelmariewicker462
@rachelmariewicker462 8 жыл бұрын
"It's unprofessional" I hate that so much because I went to an interview with my hair natural and I got it on the spot. Plus at my current job I always get offered jobs because of my great customer service, appearance doesn't matter, it's all about how well you do your job.
@TheTheThe_
@TheTheThe_ 7 жыл бұрын
Actually it does. There are statistics of whites with criminal records getting the same jobs blacks with college degrees don't. Sorry for spoiling the mood
@leavemeal0ne378
@leavemeal0ne378 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheTheThe_ Well That's no her fault, but the racist system's fault.
@KamalasNotLikeUs
@KamalasNotLikeUs 2 ай бұрын
@@leavemeal0ne378Who said anything about it being her fault. The point is that she can only speak for herself.
@lavenderhoney5712
@lavenderhoney5712 7 жыл бұрын
This is a great video, I'm sorry an entire race has to explain their hair to people.
@wildfyah
@wildfyah 7 жыл бұрын
Foxes And tea Clorox is kinda right that people don't care. They know. They don't want to care, if it's not like theirs and you aren't willing to do unnecessary shit to fit in then as far as they're concerned, you complain too much and want the world to change for you... Weird huh?
@mcsage3522
@mcsage3522 6 жыл бұрын
I love how she said our hair is styled and that when some people see our hair in a curly fro etc they see it as not done because our hair is different from there hair texture and type, this is SOOOOOOOO TRUE! 😍😍😍
@Alexa-yj5fe
@Alexa-yj5fe 7 жыл бұрын
Every time at school people touch up my hair like BITCH ITS MY PROPETY MY BODY MY HAIR SO U HAVE NO REASON TO TOUCH IT
@rickie-89
@rickie-89 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@justachick7761
@justachick7761 8 жыл бұрын
one day an elderly white woman came up to us (Im white and have 3 adopted children black, white, black) and started to 'pet' my daughter's hair. Now she didnt mind and was used to it but I thought that enough was enough and I picked up her younger brother and told him to 'pat' the nice lady's hair! We all laughed and I think she learned something. I know my daughter did!
@jborrego2406
@jborrego2406 7 жыл бұрын
Thank u for doing that, lol I had a co worker ask to touch my hair I said yes but she did not touch it she pet me like a dog in front other co worker
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
This video was created to fight racism against Black hair. You can't call something racist when it's fighting racism, just because you don't like the word, "White."
@starcherry6814
@starcherry6814 8 жыл бұрын
You're right but the title is only specifying white people. I'm sure as a black woman with (I assume) natural hair you've heard these some of these same stereotypes from black people. Like for example being called "Nappy headed" and told to straighten.
@seiteisauzaa8016
@seiteisauzaa8016 8 жыл бұрын
Yes you can. There are also asian, hispanics etc. But you only say white people.
@Violetsinbloom
@Violetsinbloom 8 жыл бұрын
+Star Friend White people are the main ones making comments
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
Right. But so far, it has only been White people who have threatened to fire people from their jobs or kick them out of school for their hair.
@starcherry6814
@starcherry6814 8 жыл бұрын
I recommend her changing the title to avoid racial tensions. Remember when people criticise certain hair types it's typically because they don't fully understand.
@kidscartoons2539
@kidscartoons2539 6 жыл бұрын
“Why do you have so big hair?” it’s called Afro.
@tasmeenbaker9912
@tasmeenbaker9912 4 жыл бұрын
Woo Chile, I've gotten this before too
@janedo8373
@janedo8373 8 жыл бұрын
I actually had black people call my hair nappy bc I choose to have the hair on my hair match my DNA. My people are brainwashed beyond belief!!! Thanks HUFF!!
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
Love your natural hair girl! Represent!
@janedo8373
@janedo8373 8 жыл бұрын
+Successful Black Parenting I've been natural for 13 years. ..still going strong. ..
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
I bet you probably have some stories and can relate?
@janedo8373
@janedo8373 8 жыл бұрын
+Successful Black Parenting most definitely!
@sdeisha1
@sdeisha1 8 жыл бұрын
OMG tell me about it. The other day my aunt decided to greet me by shouting "Hey Nappy", while she was traipsing around in a wig. 😑😒 Thank God I'm a peaceful person
@kekelauren6251
@kekelauren6251 8 жыл бұрын
I actually don't mind when people gently touch my hair. It kinda makes me feel proud as long as they are doing it out of genuine curiosity.
@Taj-Mahal
@Taj-Mahal 8 жыл бұрын
yeah like a puppy dog lol 😂😂😂
@kekelauren6251
@kekelauren6251 8 жыл бұрын
+Taj Mahal No, like an irrisistible African princess 👑 idk I guess its just me
@saphanahbathyisrael7379
@saphanahbathyisrael7379 8 жыл бұрын
+Keke Lauren no like a irresistible Hebrew Goddess!
@jae15.
@jae15. 8 жыл бұрын
I don't mind the touching either. It's when they don't ask and just stuff their hair in my fro without making sure I'm okay with it that bugs me.
@diz0973ify
@diz0973ify 8 жыл бұрын
Really? I think that's rude!
@rayvenchatham2619
@rayvenchatham2619 7 жыл бұрын
Everywhere I go people ask me is that weave in my hair🙄😑😂
@purpleunicorn5017
@purpleunicorn5017 7 жыл бұрын
Rayven Chatham i hate when they ask me that too
@amberlyelizabeth
@amberlyelizabeth 7 жыл бұрын
Rayven Chatham everywhere I go I get asked if my hair is real 😑 questions like that are annoying isn't it? Pft even if you had a weave..and if I had a wig who cares? None of thier buisness anyways!
@babybluesunshine7432
@babybluesunshine7432 7 жыл бұрын
Rayven Chatham it's none of their business if they think if its a weave that's so rude to ask
@oceanstar5844
@oceanstar5844 7 жыл бұрын
Rayven Chatham ikr
@eugeniasyro3482
@eugeniasyro3482 7 жыл бұрын
Because 80 percent of black women wear hair from women of another race on their heads, desperate to pass it off as theirs.
@thatkatkrazykid4742
@thatkatkrazykid4742 6 жыл бұрын
I’m Caucasian and I always admired the way African Americans hair grew naturally, I think it makes them look impressive and disciplined in a way white people will never come close to replicating, I have know this type of hair based racial stereotyping is an issue for a long time, but I still can’t understand why, it makes no sense to me, but I realize I can’t truly see things through anyone’s eyes but my own, so maybe there’s a reason behind it that I just don’t realize, but honestly I think it’s just people being idiots.
@nairaw6334
@nairaw6334 6 жыл бұрын
ThatKat KrazyKid thanks
@rdc6360
@rdc6360 5 жыл бұрын
I LIKE THAT YOU USED THE TERM CAUCASIAN.
@PhantomViper49
@PhantomViper49 4 жыл бұрын
White people are jealous that they don’t have the hairstyles we have so they use it to their advantage and make it like it isn’t normal .
@moisttowlette1247
@moisttowlette1247 3 жыл бұрын
@@PhantomViper49 Not all of us, maybe you didn't mean all of us but i am not jealous of black people's hairstyles, I know your hair isn't dirty and I know you guys take good care of it, I dig your hairstyles but that doesn't mean I'm jealous, sorry if it sounded like i was arguing or pissed off.
@PhantomViper49
@PhantomViper49 3 жыл бұрын
@@moisttowlette1247 it's totally fine the way i worded it is my fault . I didn't mean all white people just racist white people if that makes any sense .
@imani1592
@imani1592 6 жыл бұрын
So I play basketball and I wear an Afro puff every day with a thick Nike headband, and this one cheerleader at my school touched my hair and asked do I do my hair everyday or wake up like that. I told her I put in leave in conditioner, detangle it (10 mins), twist it, wrap it at night, daily scalp massage it, and pik it out. Then i said if that don’t satisfy u then I’m sorry. Deal with it!!
@carolynbailey2390
@carolynbailey2390 5 жыл бұрын
imani stop explaining to white folks..its not their business.. they need to worry abot their hair..all of a sudden they wesaring braids now...
@carolynbailey2390
@carolynbailey2390 5 жыл бұрын
daniel leslie..... why are white people so as you say curious.. i never see a blk person asking white women about their hair..WE DONT CARE bottom line..always something from whiters about blk woemns hair..w ffolks mind your hair business and leave our alone!
@piratesfan123
@piratesfan123 4 жыл бұрын
@@carolynbailey2390 Whites have been wearing braids since ancient history from the Greeks, to the Romans, to the celts and Vikings, braiding is a universal hairstyle oh and BTW I can guarantee that 99% of white people aren't concerned with how someone wears their hair nowadays
@howsmartareya3908
@howsmartareya3908 4 жыл бұрын
@@piratesfan123 they aren't the same time of braiding, oh my god
@apollyon1987
@apollyon1987 4 жыл бұрын
How Smart Are Ya? They are
@Kmishelle
@Kmishelle 8 жыл бұрын
When I hear about natural hair being a distraction, I take it as a compliment. Like wow, you can't focus because my hair is that extraordinary? Thanks! & I don't mind if someone wants to touch my hair. As long as they ask first. Some people are just so rude and have no sense of personal space that they will just approach a black woman and stick their hands in the fro. Now that is a BIG no no.
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
That's cool until they say your hair is such a distraction, you're going to be kicked out of school unless you straighten it or fired from your job if you "don't stop wearing it like that." That's saying something is wrong with our hair.
@Kmishelle
@Kmishelle 8 жыл бұрын
Successful Black Parenting That is very true.
@susiefoureyes6256
@susiefoureyes6256 8 жыл бұрын
I'm white and I like to see black women with natural hair, it's black women wearing false hair that looks strange and unhygienic.
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
Can we ALL push this comment to the top? Natural hair is absolutely beautiful. I prefer it too!
@karminyates3261
@karminyates3261 8 жыл бұрын
Like white girls wearing wigs hmm?
@chloecharlton9704
@chloecharlton9704 5 жыл бұрын
Someone please send this to onision😂
@amirahstevenson4675
@amirahstevenson4675 4 жыл бұрын
OMG IM DEADDDD
@Nkosazana-yt1
@Nkosazana-yt1 4 жыл бұрын
For real you'd think that big head of his would let common sense seep through
@D3fcon141
@D3fcon141 8 жыл бұрын
Why are people so mad about this? Jeez, it's an explanation of misconceptions, people! There's nothing offensive in this video, it's probably as innocent as it can be!
@lynnmiller2396
@lynnmiller2396 7 жыл бұрын
I'm white with black friends (especially females) and I think their natural hair is beautiful. I just wish some of them would embrace it more.
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 7 жыл бұрын
We LOVE you!
@TheTheThe_
@TheTheThe_ 7 жыл бұрын
I have the same feeling. I am in a predominantly black family and only three of my family members don't relax or flat iron their hair. I wish they could just leave it tho cus it does look beautiful.
@Only1Sosa.
@Only1Sosa. 7 жыл бұрын
lynn miller Why do YOU feel the need for them to embrace their hair more? Their hair, their choice! Coming from a non processed All Natural.
@nautical81
@nautical81 7 жыл бұрын
So3a They didn't say they "needed", they said they " wish"... Curly girls that straighten their hair usually have someone who can't hold a curl wishing they could. It has to do with admiration, not "need".
@Only1Sosa.
@Only1Sosa. 7 жыл бұрын
nauticalmamma81 How do you speak for someone else? I get what she says. It's still not her business. It's just another form of judgement. And what's a curly girl?! You mean black, or women of colour. Please! I wish her ancestors hadn't FORCED mine to have to cover their hair, leaving deep rooted insecurities. As you were ✌
@brettbarager9101
@brettbarager9101 Жыл бұрын
I'm a white gut and my partner is Black. She has helped me understand and appreciate Black hair, culture, etc. so much. I love running my fingers through her locs!
@eezhan2579
@eezhan2579 6 жыл бұрын
In my school everyone loves black, real curly hair and they are almost admired in my school! I love how poofy their hair is! Love who you are no matter what! If you don’t love yourself, who else will?
@latranquilagr28
@latranquilagr28 8 жыл бұрын
omg do not touch my hair without my permission I despise that so much. I dnt always like to wear my hair straight, I can only be me.
@foodlover2337
@foodlover2337 8 жыл бұрын
SAME they will touch my hair because it's really curly they will touch it and be like it's so soft and pretty. Thank you but I DONT KNOW WHERE YOUR HAND BEEN
@azhrayharris8
@azhrayharris8 8 жыл бұрын
Black girls constantly touch my hair because it's straight and silky. It goes both ways.
@foodlover2337
@foodlover2337 8 жыл бұрын
+Azzy Azzbourne mine curly and ppl think it's fake and try to touch it. they don't understand how much time we put in to our hair
@azhrayharris8
@azhrayharris8 8 жыл бұрын
Cierrah Page I've had three black girls yank on my hair and demand that I tell them where I "got my hair". I'm just trying to point out that this isn't a race specific issue. People are just curious. Some are a little more... forceful.. than others.
@stanateez5600
@stanateez5600 8 жыл бұрын
some people touch my hair because they think its so fuzzy literally a kindergartener called my hair Fluffy Bunny since it was in two puffs
@HappywifeTaylor
@HappywifeTaylor 8 жыл бұрын
I've had more black girls and a few mixed ones ask me about my hair than white people. I had a mixed girl stick her hands directly in my puff one day. I didn't see it coming. She just did it. I tried so hard not to curse her out. PS: Why do the black women cartoons look so angry?
@PamelaTaylor
@PamelaTaylor 8 жыл бұрын
one day i was in the office and i hearrd a young lady say certain people dont wash, there hair, it is pass tuff, a bunch of crap we all told her to shut she sound dump as paper rocks
@HappywifeTaylor
@HappywifeTaylor 8 жыл бұрын
+Pamela Taylor They just don't know.
@Vonniesistah
@Vonniesistah 8 жыл бұрын
Being honest as well, I've had more black women tell me it looks unkept, I'm never going to get a job, it looks like you didn't style it, what you gonna do about those naps and more other races amazed when I come to work with my flat twists, totally amazed on who long it's getting since I cut it. The only black people who like my naps are black men and other natural ladies...kind of weird that they paint it like only white people hate it or something. Out of all the styles I've had my hair in, my boyfriend (who's white) loves when I leave my hair in an afro lol
@JJoh4040
@JJoh4040 8 жыл бұрын
they are being DISCRIMINATED against I'd be mad to
@simplyd2027
@simplyd2027 8 жыл бұрын
Great video! This needs to be a part of sensitivity training at the workplace and in schools.
@zambanellapurple9031
@zambanellapurple9031 6 жыл бұрын
Someone: can I touch your hair? Me: Uh.. *touches own hair and has tons of grease on it* Me: no.
@linospillow
@linospillow 7 жыл бұрын
As a black female student I love this video and how Accurate/informative it is, I love what you've done and I want to thank you.
@lclaney6240
@lclaney6240 8 жыл бұрын
I have 30+ inch *REAL LOCS*, but, ignorant, hating, "hair hats", try to get to me, by constantly, making ignorant, insulting comments/questions: - "What kind of hair is that?" - "Oh...that's yarn locs." - "Where did you buy that hair?" And when state the fact that "It's all mine" - "I don't wear fake hair"; they walk away with "screw face". XD
@misanthropickitty6422
@misanthropickitty6422 8 жыл бұрын
How long have you had your dreads?
@lclaney6240
@lclaney6240 8 жыл бұрын
I consider my hair "Locs", for a couple of reasons: 1. The word dread is negative, and in my opinion, there's nothing negative about natural hair. :)I "Dreadlocks came from the word dread for the meaning of fear and horror." 2. Many others, especially Rastas consider their hair as dread(locs)...to each his own. :) Now...to answer your question...XD I've been growing my "Locs" for 14+ years, but, recently, decided to go "Free Form" :)
@futureangelica1125
@futureangelica1125 8 жыл бұрын
I am so in love with locs, I've wanted to have some since I was a little girl but I'm terrified of commitment, so I just stick to crochet locs.
@lclaney6240
@lclaney6240 8 жыл бұрын
I understand about being apprehensive about committing, but, once you start growing them; going through the process, you'll see that it's not so bad. And you can style them in so many styles. I have created over 25 loc styles. :)
@lclaney6240
@lclaney6240 8 жыл бұрын
"Hair Hats" - via "Tommy Sotomayor" XD
@LillySombr
@LillySombr 8 жыл бұрын
I actually don't mind when people ask to touch my hair. Haha
@LillySombr
@LillySombr 8 жыл бұрын
In fact, I think women with weaves are more weary of people touching their hair
@BlizzardxThexWolf
@BlizzardxThexWolf 8 жыл бұрын
Not to be rude but good for you? A lot of people don't like having complete strangers touching their hair. It's all about respecting personal bubbles and boundaries.
@LillySombr
@LillySombr 8 жыл бұрын
+BlizzardxThexWolf Yes indeed. Good for me. I never said I had any problem with other women who don't like their hair being touched. It's our hair, we either allow it or we don't.
@LillySombr
@LillySombr 8 жыл бұрын
+BlizzardxThexWolf And also, they are respecting your personal boundaries I they ask for permission first. If you say no then it's fine.
@MsT_ThatsMe
@MsT_ThatsMe 8 жыл бұрын
You ain't never lied.
@vlone.8437
@vlone.8437 5 жыл бұрын
When I straighten my hair this boy said to me at school, "Nice weave," that shit hurted.
@galaxykeke6303
@galaxykeke6303 4 жыл бұрын
Smh, people really can be nasty for real.
@SmallestWARRIOR
@SmallestWARRIOR 7 жыл бұрын
Yes, DON'T TOUCH MY HAIR! I DON'T TOUCH YOURS.
@cherrygaming8304
@cherrygaming8304 7 жыл бұрын
Don’t touch it. J-just no... Really, don’t touch it.
@metabolismofindominable8219
@metabolismofindominable8219 5 жыл бұрын
Pull it to de-stuck.
@bugstupid3952
@bugstupid3952 5 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaas I’m the only black girl in my class and whenever I get my hair done sooooooo many kids touch my hair
@Pumpkin_3890
@Pumpkin_3890 5 жыл бұрын
@@metabolismofindominable8219 what's that supposed to mean? Like genuinely confused as to what you typed0
@metabolismofindominable8219
@metabolismofindominable8219 5 жыл бұрын
@@Pumpkin_3890 When you pull the curls they get de-stuck, at least, momentarily.
@Pumpkin_3890
@Pumpkin_3890 5 жыл бұрын
@@metabolismofindominable8219 Like, there are some patches that stick out?
@nikkia2452
@nikkia2452 8 жыл бұрын
I love my hair but honestly I absolutely hate when black people tell me, "you should straighten your hair" or "You should get a weave/braids etc done" Like no, I only do that if I'm doing protective styling for the winter but I enjoy wearing my natural hair. Not hating against weaves or braids because I enjoy protective styling but I do love my hair too.... Also, I won't make the mistake of flat irons in the winter ever again....
@sundragon13
@sundragon13 11 ай бұрын
I'm white, and I think it's absurd that this isn’t common knowledge.
@mimosasmagnolias1243
@mimosasmagnolias1243 8 жыл бұрын
I don't feel this way at all & am sorry that some people are so unthinking or disrespectful... 😶😐😬😯😕 Much Peace & God Bless 🙌💗
@samanthalockamy518
@samanthalockamy518 7 жыл бұрын
mimosa's & magnolia's no bish no you know........I'ma calm down .......STOP
@oof4698
@oof4698 7 жыл бұрын
Samantha Lockamy what?
@aquaqueenx2664
@aquaqueenx2664 7 жыл бұрын
mimosa's & magnolia's LMAO u guys r saying that do u won't look bad I love being black and meh curls long af
@ajhona4169
@ajhona4169 7 жыл бұрын
mimosa's & magnolia's - 🙍🏽
@toxicpeach6902
@toxicpeach6902 6 жыл бұрын
AquaQueenX lol what
@kenyawhite4109
@kenyawhite4109 8 жыл бұрын
I like this video! Very creative and educational! Thanks for video 😁👏💙
@JaniceCeleste
@JaniceCeleste 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@kenyawhite4109
@kenyawhite4109 8 жыл бұрын
+Janice Celeste Your welcome 😊
@parketaylor
@parketaylor 8 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to inform you but this video is doing nothing to help the racial divide and it's just creating more of a problem and victimizing black people even more
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to inform you that Black people are victimized when they are losing their jobs and being kicked out of school because they choose to wear their hair that matches their DNA.
@parketaylor
@parketaylor 8 жыл бұрын
Successful Black Parenting Can you provide evidence. This is such BS it crazy.
@skweel
@skweel 8 жыл бұрын
I'm 11 and I have an Afro and people just can stop touching it, one time my mom took a long time putting my hair in bun that was in the shape of a bow for the last day of school.A boy touched it and the hair tie broke, a black lady in the office had to fix it but it still kept falling apart!
@mommie1557
@mommie1557 6 жыл бұрын
I DO NOT want ANYONE putting their hands in my hair. I’m not an animal or some exotic creature on display. I am a human being. DO NOT TOUCH MY HAIR.
@cupcakes4444
@cupcakes4444 8 жыл бұрын
also you forgot the "did you cut your hair?" phrase when your hair shrinks up or when you change a hairstyle.
@SuccessfulBlackParenting
@SuccessfulBlackParenting 8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 true
@shiannafoxx
@shiannafoxx 8 жыл бұрын
OHHH GOODD NOO. I get that wayyyyyyyy toooooo freaking often. It's like "No I...nevermind". Also "How do you get your hair like this?" And "Is it a weave?"
@dailyn2735
@dailyn2735 8 жыл бұрын
A biracial Black girl asked me this and I just looked at her like she was crazy...
@shiannafoxx
@shiannafoxx 8 жыл бұрын
Dailyn Simmons Same. Except a black girl asked me this..............A BLACK GIRL!!!!
@chattyjazzy7997
@chattyjazzy7997 8 жыл бұрын
+Dailyn Simmons I get what you saying lol ugh
@user-uj6sc7ls9y
@user-uj6sc7ls9y 7 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a person who's 3/4s white, I have to say that none of these thoughts have ever occurred to me. The only thing that has surprised me about black hair is what my Jamaican sister in law (who's a hairdresser) once told me; black hair is more sensitive to bleach than white hair. I've always wondered why black women would put themselves through the health risks of chemically treating their hair to straighten it. Lack of acceptance by other colors in society? Having been socialized to believe that it was unattractive? I'm so glad that natural hair is considered fashionable these days. My niece wears her hair natural, and not only is she stunningly beautiful, she's also watching after her health and respecting herself.
@rdc6360
@rdc6360 5 жыл бұрын
3\4 CAUCASIAN , WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOT WHITE THEIR SKIN TONE IS NOT WHITE.
@apollyon1987
@apollyon1987 4 жыл бұрын
zodrigue ss fuck off
@sarahwill9759
@sarahwill9759 4 жыл бұрын
@@rdc6360 and? black people aren't black either... I am white.
@sarahwill9759
@sarahwill9759 4 жыл бұрын
Some of my friends relax (chemically straighten) their hair because it is easier to deal with. Combing an afro takes a lot more time and effort and can be quite painful.
@ellaquestane9172
@ellaquestane9172 4 жыл бұрын
They relax their hair some times because it’s too much to handle
@bestinstagramhits7940
@bestinstagramhits7940 7 жыл бұрын
why are white people so offended
@oof4698
@oof4698 7 жыл бұрын
Best Instagram Hits ! why are black people so offended
@bestinstagramhits7940
@bestinstagramhits7940 7 жыл бұрын
Marti Boopideebopidee Just stop.
@LawryMathias
@LawryMathias 7 жыл бұрын
Clorox Bleach then why'd you watch this video?😂
@purpleunicorn5017
@purpleunicorn5017 7 жыл бұрын
Laura Babtists 😂😂😂😂😂
@getjinxed96
@getjinxed96 7 жыл бұрын
Best Instagram Hits ! Maybe its because they are claiming every white person thinks this about black hair
@leyahruizdeloreto6420
@leyahruizdeloreto6420 Жыл бұрын
Great video and all common questions we’re covered 😊
@TheMicrocheck
@TheMicrocheck 7 жыл бұрын
I think some people are getting confused. Black people don't mind a little curiosity about our hair. As we grow to embrace our natural hair and learn new styles we don't mind sharing. The problem is that some people begin to feel they are entitled to that information. I've had co-workers and clients at work ask me from across the room, "Is that your real hair?". I think that is rude, annoying and to me it's an attempt to make me feel uncomfortable or "out" me in some way. It's one thing to ask me questions to my face once in a while when I do something different, or something unique that you've never seen before. It's another to berate me every--- I mean EVERY single time I change my hair style you feel entitled to all the details about how i did it and why I have changed my hairstyle. The worst is when they tell you they that they preferred your previous style---took hours hours to flat iron with chase method, oil, heat protection (guess the style.......) I find it offensive because I notice when people change hairstyles. But because they are white people and I know that whatever they do to their hair, I could not necessarily or easily do with mine, I don't bother to ask about the ins and outs and complexities or non-complexities involved in their styling process. Why don't they feel that way too? Why do white people feel they have the right to know how we got out hair that way? Why do they think that can freely give me suggestions on styles without me asking? It's gotten to the point where I avoid people at work because I dont want to be asked about my hair. I need to find a way to get it through their heads.
@mar1ine
@mar1ine 8 жыл бұрын
Black natural hair is STUNNING❤
@ikyedalloyd7468
@ikyedalloyd7468 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks King !
@Seoulsister5
@Seoulsister5 8 жыл бұрын
Here's another one: Them: Do you ever think about straightening it sometimes? Me: Yes, I do when I feel like it, but I'm pretty certain this is supposed to be your passive aggressive way of telling me I need to, so... [BTW, Don't me fooled by the username; I'm actually a blasian (black/asian) with curly hair]
@Seoulsister5
@Seoulsister5 8 жыл бұрын
Lapis Diamond Crystal Gems You obviously do if you took the time to tell me that you don't care. Nice try, though, *pabo.*
@anonymouspancake4414
@anonymouspancake4414 8 жыл бұрын
+Str8UpSeoulSister awww blasian 😍
@Seoulsister5
@Seoulsister5 8 жыл бұрын
anonymous pancake At least I know I'm appreciated by somebody. :)
@anonymouspancake4414
@anonymouspancake4414 8 жыл бұрын
Str8UpSeoulSister seriously. It makes me happy when two foreign people and races come together. It tends to restore humanity's integrity. You are the living example of that and don't let anybody make you feel bad about who you are. Much love 😊
@Seoulsister5
@Seoulsister5 8 жыл бұрын
anonymous pancake Thank you. ☺
@Shayycraft_
@Shayycraft_ 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo y is the white character staring at her hair so angrily 🤣🤣🤣
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