I'm mid to late 50's i honestly don't trust ANY women anymore no exceptions I got this far for not taking chances
@keepitreal1547 Жыл бұрын
I'm similar in that I've seen all the scams and many women are immoral. This said, I know there are unicorns among them, they're just few and far between. Being very careful is the way.
@paulhart2065 Жыл бұрын
Wise words Sir. A bit of female company is okay sometimes but we must always be careful. Regards, Paul (Uk)
@marcK599. Жыл бұрын
My test with Thai woman is to take things really slow. If they are scammers they will move quick, get impatient and leave
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
I think that’s smart
@TrevorRajadhen11 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree...all the women are just simply gold diggers. they only think of men as ATM.. all the men in this world we don't deserve all of this ..we are precious and mens life is not just piece of ways to provide ...No relationship in this world is worth it...men stay single ,enjoy your freedom and don't waste your precious life's for anyone who's is not worth because then there is no point in living everyday with nothing but just regrets...Men deserve respect and good life..
@barnold629 ай бұрын
If you are paying anyone a base payment to stay with you then that a lone is a scam.
@barnold628 ай бұрын
at least you know you're getting laid lol
@marcusaurelius91233 ай бұрын
Lol. If its consensual its called looking after your partner. To a lonely old cynic its a scam 😅
@horacecomegna3358 күн бұрын
@@marcusaurelius9123No, makes you a dumb needy simp.
@Sarcastro_78 Жыл бұрын
Started chatting with a Thai woman through Line. After infrequent texting back and forth for a week or so things got strange. She said she worked In a jewelry factory and she offered to send me some Thai jewels through the mail for my mother for mother's day in America. HUGE RED FLAG. I politely declined and chatting continued for about another week. She then said she was visiting family in her village for a wedding and said she was going to markets and she offered to buy some Thai silk to send me for my mother to make a shirt or a dress. What type of stranger offers to send jewels in the mail and then silk? This was clearly a grooming activity to see how receptive I would be to receiving items in the mail. I strongly suspected the items at the outset or future items would be Incredibly illegal items or packages that I was supposed to not open and deliver to someone else in my area. No. goodbyes no pleasantries just simply blocked her, as doing so was in my best interest. Always keep them in mind gentlemen when talking with someone keep your best interest at the forefront.
@nw-by-n Жыл бұрын
I wonder how the culture became corrupted this way. I believe it started during the Vietnam war when GI’s would pay girls for services. From then, an industry developed centered on exploiting foreign men. It’s really too bad because Thailand was probably a paradise that became poisoned by lust for money.
@kardark117 күн бұрын
Thaïland is not only bars and night club. Of course if you Always stay in soi 6 or whatever, you 'll never find a trust girl. Learn thaï, go with thaï people learn their culture and you will meet some amazing lady with valor. I can tell you.
@climbtherainbow Жыл бұрын
If her lips are moving, she's a scammer....
@Solomon-StoneАй бұрын
Mate your 13 deadly signs are extremely accurate. It applies for Indian girls too. The I Phone is spot on.
@jamesb.492 Жыл бұрын
Best lady scammer video I've ever seen.
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@markpodobnik125810 ай бұрын
As soon as they mention money, run and don't stop running
@robhingston3 ай бұрын
and they will mention money, so why get involved in the first place
@catman3953 Жыл бұрын
If you meet a girl in a bar, she (and her bar friends) will say she's been working there only a day or two, or that she's only a receptionist. Another point is Thais will very rarely go against each other on your behalf. I spent ten months in Bangkok and have known plenty of Thais in California. There're two types of people I am wary about trusting politicians and people I meet while traveling.
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
Been my experience as well and I’ve been told it’s really an unwritten rule for Thai women that they rarely break.
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
Yes. More common than I originally thought.
@doomd1816 Жыл бұрын
My girlfriend said she was a receptionist at a big massage shop in pattaya. 5 level shop. For asian tourists.
@Awarewolf-n7l3 ай бұрын
Women from south america, russia and usa too.
@fazbell Жыл бұрын
The first sign would be that she is THAI!!! It's something in the water.
@purplesprigs Жыл бұрын
Years ago, I read a blog post by a guy who lived in Thailand for many years. He stated that he would NEVER even seriously date a Thai girl. Why? Because they lie as a general rule. Apparently (like China) if a lie works, it is morally "good." There is no stigma attached to lying in Thailand. It's like a place where the rules of physics do not apply - crazy.
@alitcher442510 ай бұрын
I am Thai and when I was in the university. I had to interview some foreigners for my project. And yes, that farang said fk off you hooker while i was dressing in a university uniform. nothing sexual. It was really disappointing and dishearthening.
@Tony-mh3dmКүн бұрын
Even the slow serious ones are soon going to start hitting you up for money. Its absolutely going to happen. And when you give it to them , it never ends , its a bottomless pit that never ends.
@garylee4107 Жыл бұрын
I think the first sign a Thai Lady is a scammer is the fact that she's a THAI LADY! Sorry if this sounds like a coverall but I've had some experiences... Just go on dates as you wish but don't let your heart get too involved.
@markmelanson6785 Жыл бұрын
not coverall , exactly the case 99.99% of the time, dont get attached to them, they are not worth it
@keepitreal1547 Жыл бұрын
No different to women from my home western country.
@alitcher442510 ай бұрын
I am Thai and I never ask my fiance for money naaa. Only ask him to teach me his native language for free :D
@FirePattaya6 ай бұрын
@@alitcher4425Best wishes for a great relationship.
@eddiejohnson44345 ай бұрын
@@keepitreal1547it is different. Western women wouldn’t be as fat or abrasive if it they were into scamming as much.
@Tony-mh3dmКүн бұрын
Messaging you and saying " I MISS YOU " is another big one.
@Misterstinkfinger5 ай бұрын
1 don't get married. 2 don't invest in businesses 3 don't buy property. 4 don't lend money for anything. If you catch onto the fact that you are being scammed play along until they provide you with something you value and then dissappear 🙌 I've got a nice new motorbike and a new girlfriend in a new town 🤡. Thanks Terak👋🖤
@ncascadehiker Жыл бұрын
I’ll be darned, I didn’t realize there was an organized scamming business.
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
Yes. Of course many are freelance scammers, but it’s not uncommon to. Run across a professional group led my one man. The brick and mortar school was the part that absolutely shocked me.
@Renovegas61097 ай бұрын
My bank says there is and canceled me. I just had some questions on withdrawals. And told her I was in a shotgun wedding sort of. Within 2 weeks I'm living in mother's house and paying everything 😅
@braindojo4128 Жыл бұрын
hide everything. change ur locks often. get in. get out. no problems.
@naresrit Жыл бұрын
Thanks Robb, great info and you’re right on the target!
@endofexistence6 ай бұрын
People seem so focused on chasing tail... I don't get it. I just live and for better or worse they always seem to be around. I'm here for travel and life experience. It doesn't include trying to text and figure out a woman. People are strange to me.
@lightner69243 ай бұрын
Bro you act so self righteous. People who travel in a country full of prostitutes are strange to me.
@acr93193 ай бұрын
"The first girlfriend or two were scammers"... yeah right, try first 6 (for me) but learning much and knowing how to avoid them sooner than later.
@petermathieson56922 жыл бұрын
Curious. When did the scam you referred to happen? On an exploratory visit? Or after you left the US and began the process of settling in Thailand... and if the latter, was it in Jomtien/Pattaya, or in Korat and environs?
@emptyemptiness83728 ай бұрын
According to the multiple universe theory there is a universe out there where beautiful young loyal honest thai women are madly in love with us , sending us money and buying us houses......we just inhabit the wrong one.
@jhors77775 ай бұрын
I am enjoying your channel. Thank you for posting this helpful video.
@resetwithrobb5 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@LePubPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Hi Robb. I enjoy your videos and best of luck with the channel. I think this sort of thing Hass to be put in context. Personally I lived here for over 13 years and I don’t believe I’ve ever been scammed once. I’ve had ladies steal some small money and possessions from my room, but that’s it. But there again I never meet ladies online. maybe that’s where the problem stop. You can just meet ladies in a regular date go to Waze on the wrong for the problem. Thailand really is a wonderful country with a very low crime rate.
@resetwithrobb2 жыл бұрын
Agree on crime. Gonna do a video on how safe it is here. I love it here too. As I keep repeating, they are truly kind people.
@resetwithrobb2 жыл бұрын
To all my viewers- I want to emphasize: I am not saying most Thai ladies are scammers. Only that scammers can be very skilled, and they have a habit of getting to newcomers here ahead of the genuinely nice Thai ladies.
@LePubPattaya2 жыл бұрын
@@resetwithrobb I look forward to that video Robb
@theasianjaywalker445510 ай бұрын
You've had multiple ladies stealing money and possessions from your room. wow. interesting.
@LePubPattaya10 ай бұрын
@@theasianjaywalker4455yeah, like 500฿ or something. But hundreds of ladies took nothing.
@michaelray50237 ай бұрын
I been FaceTiming a lady from Bang Lamung. She’s very open about what she does. I ask about her night outs with the girls at the bars in Pattaya and her job at the Spa. Well I don’t really ask about the job, I know massage industry is very sketchy stuff. We were cool, but lately she’s been hanging up on me without saying good bye and she’s be online frequently without answering me. Very strange behavior, anyway. I thought maybe she has a guy out there now and she has to choose between the guy overseas and the guy just minutes away or something. Also, she gets very upset when I post photos of me and my daughter on social media. I don’t understand that kind of behavior. She knows I have two kids. Anyway, super complicated woman all of a sudden. I was planning a trip, but I’m canceling now. I feel like it’s a waste of time.
@resetwithrobb7 ай бұрын
Yea. Glad you saw it. IME, 95% a scammer. Seriously.
@michaelray50237 ай бұрын
@@resetwithrobb One thing that caught my attention too is she didn’t text me back or FaceTime me for 3 weeks. Not until I posted a photo of my daughter and I meditating at the park. I thought she was a Buddhist herself, but I don’t think there are any genuine Buddhists in Thailand. If there are, they’re probably out of sight and out of mind. A part of me still wants to visit and only 3 reasons I would go is to verify who this woman is and see her lifestyle. The other two reasons is to visit with students from our school and see how they are doing. The last would be to just travel and say “I’ve been to Thailand” lol. Other than that, I think one visit is good enough for me.
@Rio-mn1cw Жыл бұрын
Well what i did was to play them at their own game!!!! I had 3 to 4 girls on the go , just like the Thai girls will do !!!! I just weed out the wrongons!!! And end up with the honest one….
@resetwithrobb5 ай бұрын
@rhh176 those odds are probably about right ,IME. Probably looking at screening at least a few hundred to maybe way more online profiles to find a good traditional lady to care for you if that’s what you want.
@ri10325 ай бұрын
Before Land of Smile but now Land of Scam
@taykoko15 ай бұрын
Pro tip: find a woman in America your own age, simple
@MexicotravelLtd5 ай бұрын
😂
@jsavoni64784 ай бұрын
No thank you...
@Renovegas61097 ай бұрын
So are you saying i didn't buy a 57 year old virgin in North thaialnd ?
@WelcomeHome762 жыл бұрын
I don't know why ppl don't ask around about the person they are interested in. Find a 3rd party friend that speaks Thai and English and go to the person you likes neighborhood. Ask about the person's family reputation while your at it.
@resetwithrobb2 жыл бұрын
That is always worth doing.
@Renovegas61097 ай бұрын
My bank canceled me after i told them i was in thailand
@resetwithrobb7 ай бұрын
😮
@DuBzarzy4 ай бұрын
Anyone know of any IN-DEPTH scams. Like rn I’m dating this Thai woman. I met her at a Japanese sushi place. Things are actually great, she’s very attractive, however she’s on a work visa and is renting from a place from her boss where other co workers also stay. Something just doesn’t sit right with me here. Do Thai women have this massive scam to get married to American men to get citizenship then turn around and divorce you later?
@resetwithrobb4 ай бұрын
Yes. Actually common. 90%+ she’s a pro scammer. That guy will be the scam boss and he’s physically dangerous. Be careful.
@DuBzarzy4 ай бұрын
@@resetwithrobbah I see. Yes this was actually a few years ago.. just wanted to keep it simple to get the situation easily laid out. But it’s always been a curiosity in my mind. It lasted abt 3 months, I always had my guard up, had some good times, sex was alright but not the greatest… she was VERY concerned with getting knocked up alittle more than any woman I’d been with. She ended up having to head back to Thailand since her 6 month visa was up and… that was the end of it. She got annoyed when I told her I’d never been able to fly out there to see her… who knows what would have walked into if I visited her in Thailand alone😬 seems like a massive opportunity for extortion. Not from me but my family.
@BiffBurns10 ай бұрын
Good show Robb! Stay cool 😎 kind and generous!
@fastbandit1250 Жыл бұрын
Money number one, money still number one, and a fool in paradise, and if you still go after reading those books, then it’s your own fault for putting your wallet through extreme pain LOL. That jet black hair and that ready smile turns into a hissing snake
@xerxeso17 ай бұрын
Poor Family's Buffalo is Really Sick (Got Bitten by a Cobra)...:-)
@herbertvonsauerkrautunterh25134 ай бұрын
I met my wife in Thailand pre social media and texting
@raymondfrank49576 ай бұрын
Good report 😢robb i never got such good info fro,m. The robb report😮
@ras9875 Жыл бұрын
#1 she's Thai
@eddiejohnson44345 ай бұрын
I think many of these scams are so surface level because there are so many guys willing to hand out money. I’ve had maybe two Thai women try lazy scamming with me. The one that I still talk to is a 25 year old Pattaya night club girl. Not bar girl, she enjoys doing it for free too much. But her requests for money are so lazy “I sick, I cannot work”. I just say something like “ah, I hope you get well. See you when I’m back in Thailand!”
@resetwithrobb5 ай бұрын
5555 love it.
@seans72286 ай бұрын
You forgot: Omgggggggg 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ my grandma is in the hospital! She has a..... HEMATOMA!!
@resetwithrobb6 ай бұрын
Yes- the joke here is they’ll say “I need money to take my buffalo to the hospital “- 555
@scottdilley3567 ай бұрын
Hey there's a Thailand lady giving classes to younger girls teaching them how to get a man hooked and how to get them to give them money it's crazy lol lol
@resetwithrobb7 ай бұрын
I’d like to hear more about that if you don’t mind sharing.
@ibrahimrahim87148 ай бұрын
Well done
@internationalfranchisealli5547 Жыл бұрын
There are so many warnings in the internet/KZbin. If these silly farangs still fall for these scams then serves them right.!!!
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
We’ll sort of. To a point yes. Keep in mind nearly every guy I’ve met has been scammed at least once, so literally every can’t be a dummy- they by definition must be sort of average. Admittedly, that’s not a high bar.
@alexanderkroboth3310 Жыл бұрын
@@resetwithrobb I've pretty much never been scammed before, including a month I spent in Thailand recently. I don't think that's because I'm smarter then others, I think that's mainly because I generally distrust people. When a stranger talks to me I assume they are trying to get something from me or scam me. It often just surprises me how naive most people are, especially in poorer countries like Thailand most people who sell something could potentially try to scam you.
@Tony-mh3dmКүн бұрын
I spent 3 months there. I avoided the bars like the plaque , because I learned through these videos that they are nothing but scam artist. Its shame. But thats just the way it is. They are dirt poor and desperate and you are a rich American ATM machine to them. And they are very clever at what they do . Most seem to have no conscience, I quess because its survival for them. And the real pretty ones are the ones getting rich. You can find you a plain Jane girl at a regular job , but sooner or later she going to expect you to support her too. I had one that latched on to me . I told her I was nt rich , just looking for a cheap country to be able to love in. But she obviously didnt believe me. Because the nagging for money was every other day. And she had a good job , home and nice car too. She was a safety engineer working 7 days a week.
@JEZER911 Жыл бұрын
Be careful my friend love from Philippines
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Serendipitously, I just uploaded tomorrow morning’s video -and I talk about the Philippines a bit. Hoping I redeem myself there- 🙏🙏
@rp7r543 ай бұрын
BE CAREFUL EVERYWHERE
@theGreenleaf84 Жыл бұрын
We all got scammed in thailand. Some know it some don't even realize it. 😅 thank god im not attracted to asian women.
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
You make an excellent point. I’ve seen many guys that have absolutely no idea their wife is an active sex worker and she’s stealing from him…… crazy.
@danielwebb98896 ай бұрын
I was told massage girl is just a bar girl who doesn't drink.
@linehempel1622 ай бұрын
Shame Dear Gentlemen,we really feel your pain,stop chasing sex...
@markmoo38372 жыл бұрын
There a Thai lady scam me for 22,000$ after 2 years she cheat on me
@resetwithrobb2 жыл бұрын
Oh. Very sorry! How she scam you? Build house on land?
@markmoo38372 жыл бұрын
No bro she scam me over a phone. I was in America and she was in Thailand we been in a relationship for 2 years and never see her. After 2 years she blocked me on everything and someone told me that she has new husband.
@resetwithrobb2 жыл бұрын
Oh that is terrible. They scam many people here. If you come here, you can show all your texts to the police- that is typically investigated here as a crime and they can go to jail. I am very sorry for your experience.
@mattalex8701 Жыл бұрын
@@markmoo3837 Typical in how they deal with farangs when they consider it's over. Don't have even the decency to talk if something is wrong,just move out like a robber destroying the soul of the stupid foreigner. They can keep the relation for years to end up departing suddenly. They play the long game every day without shame. Very coward.
@resetwithrobb Жыл бұрын
Yes. I have seen that. Their capacity for coldness is staggering
@tealcheif19492 жыл бұрын
Are phones cheaper there compared to the states?
@resetwithrobb2 жыл бұрын
There are inexpensive phone from a company called OPPO, and probably others. Monthly plans are cheap and service is good.
@Renovegas61097 ай бұрын
Yes. It appeared 150 gets you a phone
@SophaKhamАй бұрын
What she name ladies numbers 2,3
@norrisdustlessblasting45077 ай бұрын
Bro I think I’m with a Thai scammer. Can I message you?
@resetwithrobb7 ай бұрын
Absolutely. Resetwithrobb@gmail.com
@jsavoni64784 ай бұрын
Hey Robb, I'm in Thailand right now and have a story about a girl I met before I came here.. I keep scammer in yhe back of my head, but would love your opinion on what you think.
@br59272 ай бұрын
they are all scammers, intentionally or by desperation
@charlesparham38028 ай бұрын
The tags were fake
@scottdilley3567 ай бұрын
Tags are for them to return and get the money you paid for it lol
@Tonnywaffa7 ай бұрын
That's why you don't accept gifts from just anyone. What is the motivation behind it? Always ask yourself what is the reason is it legitimate or something behind it.
@WelcomeHome762 жыл бұрын
For real, the no job thing.
@resetwithrobb2 жыл бұрын
Sadly I have know 3 rather pretty young ladies without ostensible means of support and they were all professional scammers. Even a friend of my GF turned out be a scammer. She’d taken 2 Farang for condos. My GF was upset because it made her/ Thai women in general look Bad.
@sairungcrabbe341611 ай бұрын
So so sad that your guys accused us Thai gal, woman all scammer...