2024 was a kick in the nuts for me. Wife left back to Australia, we did long distance for almost a year until we decided to finally get divorced just a few weeks ago. My business had to take a backseat as a side gig because I was in deep financial trouble and I had to juggle 2 part time jobs working mostly nights, and also driving Uber on occasions. I was basically in limbo because I was in between making it work with my wife and possibly moving to Australia, or carrying on with my life and choosing myself. Still managed to maintain my sanity by being around my friends and exercising at least 2-3x a week. At 33, I'm still looking good, I've got the scars to prove I've been through stuff and it didnt kill me, and I got more wisdom out of the experiences. 2025 is going to be another challenge but I'm ready for it.
@mohamedalkaboom18 күн бұрын
Why wouldn’t you look good at 33? Do you have extreme ageing condition?
@kodir980118 күн бұрын
I feel that i too had the unsavory experience of the divorce
@elicohen507317 күн бұрын
Keep going!
@josenaranjo856417 күн бұрын
IT'S VERY HONEST OF YOU TO SELF REFLECT IN THIS WAY . CONGRATS!
@JoeThis-oz5dj18 күн бұрын
Pain Is EVERYWHERE but Adapting to it Is The ART of it 😔
@sk8girldecks1118 күн бұрын
Number one thing that the military taught me and has always stuck around with me…resilience. It’s the best skill a man can ever have.
@mohamedalkaboom18 күн бұрын
@@sk8girldecks11 Confidence and satisfying a woman
@longtalljay18 күн бұрын
Pain is in perception.
@CraigDewhurst17 күн бұрын
Makes or breaks you,ex military my self l@@sk8girldecks11
@zuhair666117 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for so the moving and essential advices. Best wishes to you.
@mjk455418 күн бұрын
Whoever first said 'comparison is the thief of joy' was one very wise person.
@CraigPedder17 күн бұрын
Wish I was that wise.
@deusvultpictures655017 күн бұрын
Eleanor Roosevelt
@theurbangentry18 күн бұрын
This video is PRECISELY why I will always support you. I hope 2025 will be the year I finally get to meet you and thank you in person. Or at least get a selfie!!! 😉 Thank you for all the wonderful content, effort and inspiration, never stop. Onwards and upwards fratello. Un abbraccio forte! T. P.s. You are looking strong and healthy btw, you still got that magic spark of optimism, just seeing that makes me feel better.
@OqEh12318 күн бұрын
Aaron is that bro in the group that, no matter what mood or situation you're in, will give you the best pep talk that will make you rethink your life for the better. Your efforts are much appreciated. (P.S. Tiege Hanley rocks!)
@FSUSean211218 күн бұрын
im 32 and it has helped me out too, love the Scrub and the AM and PM
@aaronbaird944417 күн бұрын
Thank you brother. Been watching since 2017. Wishing you nothing but the best.
@Flint13816 күн бұрын
Aaron - you have done a great job helping to build a community focused on success! Let's all have an awesome 2025!
@EnriqueReyesJrREALTOR17 күн бұрын
Spot on. Never give up, keep on going, do it better. Everyone have a fantastic 2025.
@therealsimpshady164118 күн бұрын
Shout out to Alpha. Great words to begin a new year with!
@MCSKITEL4 күн бұрын
lmao nice handle 💀
@kokenyesybalazs54Күн бұрын
Dear Aaron! I've been a viewer since high school and I want to thank you for all the good things you've taught me. It really refreshing to have a presence like you online. I made huge changes last year and I will be kicked into full gear in 2025. Thank you for being someone I can look up too! Balázs
@ismaelhall399017 күн бұрын
Alpha M. keeping it real and helping so many guys for the past 15 years. I'll drink with you if I ever see you.
@andrewhayes8818 күн бұрын
I know ads pay the bills, but these last few ad-free one on one videos are the ones I miss. Keep it up Alpha! Happy New Year everybody!
@serfdude202518 күн бұрын
Well said Aaron, that’s why you’re Alpha! I appreciate you!
@ZakirShobuj18 күн бұрын
2025 will be the Best year!
@HelloworlditsSamuel17 күн бұрын
Agreed
@VikramGT745516 күн бұрын
5 -6 Years ago in my early 20s I saw his videos, it helped me a lot personally. Now coming back and seeing this as my first youtube video on 2025 means a lot. Keep hustling happy 2025 all.....
@modernhipster17 күн бұрын
I've always really liked your channel but this "reboot" that shows your vulnerable side is even better. It makes you appear more genuine and trustworthy. All the best to you in 2025!
@sujoymazumder17234 күн бұрын
Not only inspiring but made me stood before the mirror...the mirror of concious
@Dustin_Mc18 күн бұрын
The last couple minutes… no, the Entire video just kicked my ass! Thanks Alpha! LFG 2025
@shahidulaleef35517 күн бұрын
Thank you Alpha.
@Zeitresu18 күн бұрын
This was a good video to end the year on, so I just wanted to say thanks. I hope you and everyone here watching the video has a happy, healthy, and successful 2025.
@juanarocha862917 күн бұрын
Wishing everyone a happy New Year, "Strength and honor"
@Tweakkkkkk17 күн бұрын
I went through a lot of pain from the mostakes i made this year. It was all my fault. I'm just glad the year os over and I've learnt a lot from my mistakes.. Greater 2025 ahead 💪🏽
@Welshtractorboy18 күн бұрын
It's been a hard year but we pulled through
@neilmedina728718 күн бұрын
Always great videos man!
@benoitgagnon576515 күн бұрын
Thank you for your usual wisdom !! You are amazing. ! I am 61 years old and I learn from you buddy! Best regards from Montréal !😊
@zayb92643 күн бұрын
Man I have been watching your videos for 10 years, You are the best ❤️
@DSG080516 күн бұрын
All solid advice. Nothing I have never heard before but sometimes I need that concise set of points, “boom, boom, boom” to get the confidence to make adjustments
@jtboss304318 күн бұрын
Wow I’m blown away, perfect words and amazing energy. Thank you alpha
@Holt33318 күн бұрын
You’re so right‼️🙌Nobody is gonna come save you. Big up to 2025🎉🎉🎉… loving this pre New Year insightful message my brother 🙌
@andrewm84293 күн бұрын
New year, trying to be a new me. Although i know that doesnt change because of the date. Its been a process, but im working on it. Im turning 30 in a few months which has me panicked for some reason even though its not logical. I have been working my "dream" job for about 7 years but have realized i am not progressing. There is nowhere to go and it has become a chore. I have been working from home which has helped me a lot over the last few years but I have been depressed for a while and im trying to work on myself to better my life. I would like to start a business but i dont know how itll go. I guess nobody knows until you take the jump but I know i need to do something big if i want to make more money for myself and my family. I can feel im meant for more than this. I am stuck in a corner and am really trying to get out. Thank you for always inspiring me to do and be better alpha
@seandawkins178218 күн бұрын
Shout out to Marietta, Georgia!
@ianbreeze530914 күн бұрын
Basically a map for fulfilment right here! Well said cousin 🤙
@mhdz00710 күн бұрын
Thank you Alpha… I needed to hear all this. Much love and appreciation in the coming year Bro 👍🏼.
@alex.laurent18 күн бұрын
Wishing all my brothers out there a happy new year and remember, focus on yourself, work hard, train relentlessly and when she comes back, you’ll live in her dreams ❤
@David-t5j3y17 күн бұрын
This alpha I've learned the most from. He's so sincere as well like unless he's fooling us he really cares about us . Thanks alpha glad God put u in our lives
@lifesaninsidegame775118 күн бұрын
Great advice, Aaron.
@whitelean434816 күн бұрын
real. thanks adam. hope you have a better year than the last.
@Theboobooman18 күн бұрын
Top notch video, really helps to put things in perspective. Cliche or not a reminder like this is always helpful to hear and keep reiterating to oneself!
@Griffin-gs7vn18 күн бұрын
I thought this video was very inspiring Alpha I think every guy needs to know this
@benjaminmobleymobley386017 күн бұрын
Thank you Aaron....been watching you for years and you have been such a positive influence in almost every area of my life. Congrats on the success and kick butt in 2025.
@ComputerCentralInc17 күн бұрын
Wow I needed to hear this. Hard to not be able to deal to the three that I need to tell I love them.
@hughdimaio178912 күн бұрын
Thank you. Great advice!
@EmpireProd10 күн бұрын
Great video learned lots of things thanks mark
@wyrrlynmyrrlyn18 күн бұрын
Thanks for all the good years and the recent re-focus. You're the best!
@danielbrown9418 күн бұрын
You’re inspiration to everyone man more blessings to you and your family in 2025!
@kshitizkumar594011 күн бұрын
love from India, i feel blessed that i got to see this video at that point of time in life when i needed to hear or see or needed someone to remind me of that i can still achieve all the dreams i ever dreamed of, and to leave the past behind.
@dbnance346118 күн бұрын
Best part of the speech was the end. Much appreciated.
@seanfowler396617 күн бұрын
Something I wanna say about getting in shape, I've learned this the hard way. Don't do it because of social media, or because of how other people look at you, screw those people, do it because you want to be around for the people in your life who love you, because at the end of the day those are the only people who matter.
@erichacker864617 күн бұрын
You’re fucking awesome and have a happy new year.
@NewLegendXxX2 күн бұрын
Thank you. Your words are always so encouraging, you' re an inspiration 💪
@gottkomplex921118 күн бұрын
You can't imagine how much i needed this. Thanks, man!
@MichaelHowald18 күн бұрын
A video without a sponsor and lots of good advice. Cliche perhaps, but always relevant. Happy New Year!
@jonathanmacias351918 күн бұрын
Thanks brotha 🙏 💯 💪 🙌
@ilyavaiman395314 күн бұрын
Awesome video alpha. Thank you.
@alphaomega135117 күн бұрын
I hate you out of luv ❤️ brudda. Happy New Year! 😎
@Ange-C18 күн бұрын
Thank you Alpha. New years is always hard for me. And I do my absolute best to be better each year and accomplish and hit goals. Watching your video made me tear up a little. Thank you. And happy new year.
@SweetLuo15 күн бұрын
you are awesome Aaron Happy New year!!
@Mohitofficial11817 күн бұрын
I have been following you since I was a 14-15 and now I am 25 I have learned a lot of important things from you man. These days TBH I rarely watch you videos but I do get back on here from time to time and keep Doing what you are doing man it’s the best btw Loved this video mate. cheers take care 🥂
@JF091318 күн бұрын
Thanks to you for sharing your experience and knowledge with us all. Much love,Health, Wealth,and Happiness to you as well!!!
@zuhair666117 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for so the moving and essential advices. Best wishes to you.
@Deployable-14 күн бұрын
Happy new year everyone
@jeevanurs16 күн бұрын
Amazing Video Aaron .
@JohnKernMusic18 күн бұрын
Wise words to end the year of 2024 with! Where did you get that black cardigan? I want to buy one.
@Gavin_jk18 күн бұрын
youre the man! You've helped me a lot during hard times over the years with your advice. Thanks alpha
@GarnetCODM16 күн бұрын
Damn alpha you saved my life, You are the only person on KZbin who i can really look upto, i recently failed at my restaurant business which led me to a huge loss and that thing really pulled me off from the life and made me really depressed i wasnt even doing anything from past 3 months even if i had the opportunity i didnt learned those things and i failed miserably in learning new things too all i ever did was giving excuses in these 3 months that i will learn another business strategy in a different field but instead of learning about it i simply gave up and never learnt about it, The way you explained really matters, all i did in my life was giving excuses about everything, Now i regret my decissions but i have 365 days to make it right, I am counting on myself and my life, Because if i dont change it there is no one in this freaking world who can change it for me, Thankyou Alpha, You are my hope, And please remember this you will always be my mentor who i can look upto, And alpha i have a sincere request that please never stop posting videos like this because ill always be watching all of your videos for my own success, Very few youtubers like you which exists to make men more masculine about their choices, And im Glad god showed me this video and introduced me to you, i never really share my life to anyone including my own parents, i hide 99.7% of my life, and never even try hiring any therapist, Guess what you are my own therapist now ❤.
@pacnwhiker121318 күн бұрын
Appreciate that Alpha can provide some great life advice in under 10 minutes
@worshipwhilewewait18 күн бұрын
Love You too Man. 2024 was a Year where I took My foot off the brakes and just did things because it felt right. Scary as hell but ended up being the most fulfilling Year so far because I found out for the first Time in My Life what I was capable of. And here's the REALLY cool thing - I got to take People WITH ME on that Journey. A BIG part of why 2024 became what it did was People like You Aaron that poured into Me and slapped Me up side the head every once in a while and made Me think about things from a different perspective. I might not like all the curse words (lol) but what I Believe is God uses People to reach out to Us and to say things to Us that He sees that We need. THANK YOU DUDE. Will never forget how this past Year changed Me. It's because of the People, Aaron, and the things We ALL face. Things go a LOT better when We face things TOGETHER. In My eyes, You're just like the cologne I bought off Your site - a LEGEND (wifey says I need MORE - She LOVES that stuff!) ...thank You!
@erikutterback644618 күн бұрын
Your advice is always on point. Thank you for your channel and investing your time and talents in your viewership. Hope 2025 is your best year yet.
@derekramsaroup388318 күн бұрын
Thank you once again, Aaron, for your usual sage wisdom ...HNY
@stevebarthelmes897918 күн бұрын
Thank you for years of good thoughts and good advice. Much appreciated.
@paulrenis893018 күн бұрын
As a wise friend told me, and I hold her close to my heart, she always says that in order to succeed, you must fail. Anyone who tells you that they always succeed and never fail is lying to you.
@sandzt109818 күн бұрын
Thanks for the inspiring video, keep improving with goals is what makes us stronger
@bradsmith991918 күн бұрын
The Brutal Truth videos are always my favorite! Happy new year Aaron.
@Bostadsfotografen16 күн бұрын
alpha is def back!
@HYPERxSONICxFANx201218 күн бұрын
great video. definitely tell friends and family that you love them
@kowshikkush999818 күн бұрын
Love you back ❤️❤️❤️
@cleveland216..18 күн бұрын
Happy New Year from Cleveland,Ohio
@jesusesparza531916 күн бұрын
Thanks for what you do!
@AngelHernandez-rh1sw18 күн бұрын
Good job brother ❤
@mr_e_forex17 күн бұрын
Always coming back to Alpha for some mental health guideline, wishing a good 2025
@karandoeseverything432418 күн бұрын
Happy New Year Aaron To You And Your Family And Your Uncle Barry
@geno516918 күн бұрын
Happy new year to you alpha! And everyone reading this! I hope me and alpha and everyone has a better new year coming
@manoftomorrow598717 күн бұрын
Great video man. Love the wisdom
@ArsenalAK47AZ17 күн бұрын
Damn!! Best advice I have heard from you!
@DavidFernandez-o7l13 күн бұрын
Great video alpha M always awesome info and up lifting moral. Thanks man I appreciate you. 👍👍
@johnmarkley15718 күн бұрын
Thanks for Everything!
@ryanandrous76518 күн бұрын
Thanks for the video, Aaron!
@keithribeiro838718 күн бұрын
Everyone fails, faces disappointment, rejection at some point - even the most successful people. It’s how we get up off the floor that counts.
@smallworld70718 күн бұрын
Thanks, Alpha!
@luizzocenteno17 күн бұрын
Muy agradecido, Un Abrazo!
@jarvisholland783718 күн бұрын
Great advice
@matthewcormier874418 күн бұрын
I'm listening 🎧 now
@Orange-label18 күн бұрын
This was a tough year, nice inspirational words my man... We keep moving 💪
@phil612218 күн бұрын
Praying for a better 2025 👍🙏💪🏽thanks bro God bless you
@mohamedalkaboom18 күн бұрын
Your a handsome man
@alexanderjfit18 күн бұрын
Aaron, I love you and appreciate all the wisdom you pour into your channel. Been following you for awhile, even had the pleasure of meeting you in Chicago (Zach's tall friend) and still respect the hell out of you. Always grateful for you and all that you do. Happy New Year brother and to new opportunities!
@alpham18 күн бұрын
I remember! I stood on the chair!
@alexanderjfit17 күн бұрын
@ THATS RIGHT!!
@dillonvossen114418 күн бұрын
thank you Aaron!
@RodrigoJavierCruzProaño17 күн бұрын
Cheers, bro! U'r awesome, thanks, greetings from Ecuador!!!
@metatechnologist17 күн бұрын
Love ya right back Mr. A.❤!!
@christianpilon772517 күн бұрын
hope you have a beter year Alpha take care 😇
@dannycuper544617 күн бұрын
Best advice ever! lit's of stoic thought for a crystal like fragile society
@chrisdiaz761518 күн бұрын
Really enjoying your content lately, more than usual. Great video Sir.