15 Differences Between a High Value vs Low Value Couple

[@alux]

Hello Aluxers, this is the last episode of our series on VALUE. Low Value Woman: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gIWnmqajgqd-mrM Low Value Man: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZ6zh3qpnd2fmLM High Value Woman: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aWXJfZdua5p7jJY High Value Man: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bIPQfZacfpeIaJo

[@dylancullen9999]

You guys are stupid for deleting my comments

[@gojira1230]

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[@chamodyapranidhi5008]

Peace✌️

[@aidenjeremyvister5536]

PEACE

[@bignew7136]

ALUX needs to give Kevin Samuels some recognition. He brought these subjects to life within the Black community. 👍🏽👍🏽

[@badgerlifter9572]

I am part of a high value couple! We started off dirt poor together with a baby on the way... but 6 years later we are debt free (excluding a very manageable mortgage), have 3 lovely children, and make 75-100k a year together! There was plenty of bumps and the growth was slow at first, but I am very proud of my wife and family.

[@jessg1372]

And in 6 yrs be able to say something completely different from that. Grow more. You aren't done.

[@esmiley3]

Nice Man! Keep pushing!

[@alexbob5209]

I make 80k at 24 years old and I feel broke. Haven't even graduated college but I've bought a house

[@hanniacorena7657]

God bless your family even moreeeee!!!

[@mmtech4114]

Great

[@Claire-Knows]

I woke up and realized I can do better and be better. I do agree that having a partner who constantly pulls you down is the worst thing that could happen to a person. All goals are achievable but sometimes the simplest things can become so difficult to achieve when surrounded by the wrong people. Remember, it’s Better to be alone than with the wrong people.

[@mcmaschio]

A relationship can literally make or break your future … however if you cant find a good relationship your better off by yourself … avoid my mistake and dont just get into a relationship for the sake of a relationship it can lead u to dark places 🤷‍♂️

[@janeenharrison1953]

Truth!

[@cryptonomous888]

💯

[@danielland3767]

Facts, learning this the hard way now.

[@emilgzade3158]

Not your but you're

[@greatestever8169]

Hey we have cookies 🍪 here so bring milk 🥛

[@clarissaywy]

In my opinion, high value couples don't compare themselves to other couples and stir unhappiness/dissatisfaction in the relationship but do whatever they enjoy doing and focus on their own path and goals.

[@luxuryhub1323]

Whether you're man or woman. Don’t let anybody, especially yourself, make you feel like you don’t deserve to be in the room you’ve earned a right to be in. You have something unique to contribute - your ideas, your experience, your wisdom, and your point of view.

[@raz7573]

Right on!

[@tgip_pudgy1853]

💯FACT‼️

[@luckyduckydaisyflower2344]

Just don't take it personally when the church couples snub you..

[@luckyduckydaisyflower2344]

They won't want their kids playing with your kids either..

[@PFPSocialMedia]

Peace is everything to me. I slipped up a couple of times but chose to make the decision to only do the things that give me consistent Peace!!💙💙💙

[@transformingstep]

Be careful who you marry. Be even more careful who you have a child with. Another great video Alux!

[@lefunkable]

Exactly...be careful

[@lyndonbrookins5300]

Oh, how right you are.

[@hanooi7450]

Everyone in my family is part of a high value couple. Wealth wise, everyone in the millions. We all have great education, great careers, zero divorces. We invest in our spouses with no hesitation, both the men and women. Always fun bringing our kids together.

[@petermayama8819]

Thank God for that! It’s very rare these days

[@UnlimitedAspirations24]

@ Han Ooi - you are lucky that you’ve met the right ppl to marry because if otherwise I don’t think anyone get married with intentions to later divorce but sometimes things just doesn’t work out and you have no other options. You guys must be lucky ones.

[@hanooi7450]

@@UnlimitedAspirations24 Well, we were able to replicate our success consistently, I don't think it is luck. We have a system for evaluating partners. Plus our family is morally conservative. All this sleep with a person first to figure out whether you want to have a relationship with them garbage would just get a candidate canceled from consideration. Our very first screen is "What kind of family is the person from?" and "Where is the person going with his life, career, education and family aspiration wise?" The third rule is once you find a qualified candidate, be decisive and move fast towards marriage. We have each other evaluate our candidate as a sanity check. In some other threads, I posted an evaluation scorecard we use.

[@priscilladuarte6324]

@Han Ooi I don’t believe it, how could you be happy living with jowels like those. If you have money invest in yourself please!

[@hanooi7450]

@@priscilladuarte6324 What gives you the impression I'm not investing in myself? I have been granted patents for my ideas and have founded a startup company around them of which I am CEO. Better yet, I've been able to self fund all the way to profitability thanks to the large savings we've accumulated and the support my wife gave me on the journey (health insurance from her job). One would think this is the ultimate textbook example of both self investment and mutual couple investment.

[@feliciapillow5860]

I love how alux recognizes how absolutely uneducated it is to put down your partner. From the outside, people really frown on a person who does that. It does make a person look like a "clown".To really bring it home; it's the same when you cheer people on who do the same to your mother, sister aunt or grandmother. Alux. You get the point.

[@danielland3767]

Yup to put down anyone that's not a criminal. They called it fair down the middle from fact based research

[@chrisscanlon3717]

Wahmen initiate divorce 90 percent of the time and the more educated she is the more likely that Hoe is going to quit or cheat on her man. BYE FELICIA 😉

[@doomguy9049]

It's bizarre to me that so many maintain relationships with people they don't respect or even like, but seems like most people eventually end up in one. My guess is it's largely due to people valuing material comfort and familiarity over peace of mind and independence.

[@csensale]

Yeah my girlfriend would put me down saying I shop like a woman was very demeaning

[@seannixon745]

You can definatly be a high value couple and not have alot of money. As one of the points suggested money isn't the only marker of a low or high value couples. I beleive as long as both encourage growth in the other without attempting to change the other from their own desires. They both contribute in one way or the other.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and it is much more than just money.

[@joannabuchanan3287]

A couple who argues in public IS DEFINITELY a low value couple. In my opinion.

[@indirapoitier338]

This one has A LOT of great points, but I cant say I agree with all of them. For instance, at some point life will become routine in a marriage. Yes sure you can spice it up, but most times people dont even realize as its happening. Its not that they are not working towards certain goals together, rather they are in a phase of those goals that demand consistant, routine action. Sometimes, because of life challenges, its prolonged for years. This does not mean theyre a low value couple. Also the point of them always leading and everyone adjusting their schedules for them is flawed. Not every high value couple must lead in everything they do. They are not experts in every area, no one is. Rather I would say they are always a valued member of a team or committee whatever. They are able to identify when others are more suited to take the lead, and offer strong support. Likewise, when they do lead, people are more than happy to follow. As leaders or supporters they are sought out to join. There were one or two other things, but overall this was a great video

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree and they had some good points, but I don’t agree with all of them. Plus, it will vary from couple to couple.

[@BasementBerean]

16. They know how much a divorce really costs (emotionally, financially, psychologically, for them and the children), and they make every effort to avoid it.

[@alux]

Definitely true.

[@guitaro5000]

Correction: HE makes every effort to avoid it.

[@hanooi7450]

Forming a high value couple is like investing in real estate. You make your money when you buy.

[@ApollonianShy18]

@@guitaro5000 THEY DO IT TOGETHER... cs a HIGH VALUE COUPLE MEANS 100 - 100 REMEMBER? OR U SKIPPED THAT PART?

[@hanooi7450]

@@ApollonianShy18 @guitaro comes across as a red or black piller. They are the kind of people who only play to not lose. His kind doesn't know how to play to win. His kind stagnates and then die slow lingering deaths of the soul and body.

[@andiswamadlopha325]

I didn't even know what high value was, yet this is exactly how I see me and my future husband. It's something my mom has always drilled in my head since I was a teen. PEACE

[@raspberry_dreams]

You’re blessed to have had her wisdom poured into you.

[@snee21]

I am very happy to actually have a partner who is equally ambitious and supportive. I see couples who are just going through these block unblock games and fighting over birthday wishes, whereas I have never had a fight with him, because it always have been just an active discussion rather than argument. I would say that someone who makes you feel that they are another chore you have to handle, is not a good sign. They should be someone you should go to have good and meaningful conversations and just relax and being able to share everything and feel comfortable, sharing things.

[@jeremyherschler]

You can recognize a high value couple by the depth of their love, the aliveness they share, and the strength of those involved.

[@soumi1984]

Or by how they react to hard times which is the real mesure of a hight value relationship

[@EboneCurry]

This was so eye opening to see the two combined. The PEACE means so much and demands reciprocity. Thank you for this series. I truly enjoyed it.

[@esmiley3]

I found myself binge watching these videos daily this week, receiving something more with each video. Truthfully, I have a high-value work ethic, I earn high-value wages. But everything else in my life is low-value. Wife, family… Help! I need to make life changes, starting right now! I now smell change in the air, beginning with me. I will nolonger roll as or with anyone low-value. Low-value family members and friends will now be kept at a distance. This writing holds me accountable. Peace!

[@lilid5016]

We rooting for you

[@mathogre]

All the best to you, Eugene. I'm definitely in the upper middle class region with high value goals and aspirations. As with you, parts of my life were low value. Over the years I walked away from the low value people in my life - family, friends. Regarding immediate family, wife and daughter, I find I must be the relentless guide, not just by talk, but by example. I won't do low value activities. I won't talk trash. When someone says or does something trashy, I'll ask, "Why would you say/do that?" I hold them accountable, just as I hold myself. As in this video, there are times it would be desirable to just walk, yet I know I made decisions many years ago, and I'm committed to them. You sound like a good man. You have the money side worked out. You have the drive to make other parts of your life better. You have the intelligence to figure out how to do that, to find resources, to find information, to really learn right and wrong. All the best to you in your journey. Keep up the good work!

[@danielland3767]

I see alot of these videos as a guide and nothing more. Like the having kids when young part, that can come for systemic reasons and such. But you can either take the information and do what you see fit to do with it

[@SingleMomMission]

Best of luck Eugene. I walked (moved 1000's of miles) away from low value friends and family four years ago and have endured relentless criticism ever since from my husband. I can't lie though, it has been so darn liberating!!! Best decision ever!!! I'm excited for you!

[@esmiley3]

@@lilid5016 thanks!

[@onelife7247]

Communication, emotional intelligence and functioning as a team rather than competitors really does help! The rest of what was mentioned, I guess should be obvious, e.g mutual respect and intimacy, fun etc.

[@brentduanefoster]

As I read through and listen to this list, while I thoroughly agree with the entirety of this list, being a “high value” couple has nothing to do with how much money either party has. The truth is that there are PLENTY of “low value” couples who make a lot of money. I’ve had clients who have shared with me some pretty scandalous stories with certain couples who would be considered “high value”. All that glitters isn’t gold. In other words, you can be a “high value” couple before you make a high value. Be of high value mentality FIRST.

[@QueenT4]

Yes! High Value Mentality!

[@nowie4007]

Agreed fully with this comment,a high value mentality is 1000 times better than having great deal of money

[@2022l]

It all comes down to mutual respect and being good teammates.

[@verb0ze]

I agree that having lots of money doesn't automatically make a couple high value. However, a couple who struggles financially will have a hard time achieving some of those things that lead to high value. It's harder to provide for good education, diverse experiences, etc for the children and the family if money is a contention point. Agree 💯 mentality is where it starts.

[@nyanzarojas8776]

@@verb0ze it’s all about mentality. Bc if a Financially low value couple times together, but has a high value mind set it’s only a matter of time before they build together and create a financially high value life them and their family.

[@thisdyingsoul76]

I feel like I'm part of a high value couple now. My wife is amazing. She saw something in men when we met that I didn't even see in myself. She stood by me through my divorce and helped me to become a better version of myself. She got me to take more pride in my appearance, she encourages me to excel in my career. She lifts me up when I need it and gives me a reality check when I'm being unrealistic. We compliment each other because one is strong where the other is not. I didn't have all this in my first marriage. My ex actually left thinking she could do better. 4 years later she is still single and the grass was not actually greener on the other side while I have thrived without her thanks to my current wife. I wish the best for my ex, but I feel like she did me a favor by leaving.

[@torycook1215]

Each person in the couple has to have respect for the other in order for them to grow as a high value couple. It can't be one-sided. 💕👍

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and it is always a 2 way street.

[@salahuddinmuhammad3251]

If you stay away from the sick concept of unconditional love, and it is absolutely damaging. I've seen men and women stay in relationships that they should have left and said that it was unconditional. It is silly and stupid. Always have conditions. Respect, shared values, safety, and so many other areas. Never tell anyone that your love is unconditional. There should be conditions and accountability if negative actions thought processes or habits affect your life. Always have conditions.

[@Ayo_Aderinola]

Happy Sunday ALUX. I've been waiting for this compilations of this. Because ALUX is high valued, I choose to be a high valued person. Cheers!

[@alux]

This will add even more value.

[@RebeccaEvans]

As a woman, being respected demonstrates love to me. I do not care just about effort but about outcomes, and the partner observing those outcomes after his actions or mine and planning accordingly over time. Coddling a male because he feels he cares is of no interest to me. A man who demonstrates respect to you brings more peace and communication than the male who showers you with gifts or constant compliments

[@Aj-fd4ne]

What’s coddling ?

[@mrscott01]

Sounds like you have a thick masculine shield repressing your femininity. A sign is your disgust with what you term "coddling" that you are disgusted with the feninine.

[@nyanzarojas8776]

@@Aj-fd4ne babying and excusing bad behavior to protect someone’s feelings.

[@doomguy9049]

Better be willing and able to give whatever you hope to receive then, because any man worth having won't tolerate a disrespectful, lazy or selfish woman just as you won't accept that behavior in him.

[@doomguy9049]

Better be willing and able to give whatever you hope to receive then, because any man worth having won't tolerate a disrespectful, lazy or selfish woman just as you won't accept that behavior in him.

[@darwinlandav]

I love how you guys can always deliver such good quality content.

[@shatteredsoldier81]

Something that I have learned from past relationships is if she is going to her mother, friend, or some other dude about issues you two are having then you need to leave her. No matter what who fault it is everyone will take her side. If you want to go outside of the relationship for advice then see a couples therapist. At less they are a neutral party.

[@doomguy9049]

Yeah man, women love taking bad advice almost as much as they love giving it. I've seen women destroy their relationships, families and lives on the advice of others so many times IRL and it never ceases to amaze me. Often the ones giving the bad advice do so knowingly and maliciously too, but the woman never realizes it until too late because the advice flatters them and encourages them to act impulsively.

[@fosteringleaders9872]

So true!

[@kpeggs82]

This is a good video for those looking for a relationship now or in the future. I personally am not looking now but still agree with the content 100%. I know some of both here and I have always said the partner you choose is the only family you decide to be with, that is the most important choice.

[@PositiveWealthBuildingNow]

So do you go to bars only to become an "alcoholic", "talk", or "have fun?"

[@tgip_pudgy1853]

Fact‼️

[@linuxman0]

This is the video every person should watch before getting involved with someone and that every couple should watch to strengthen their relationship.

[@Calcuttasnippets]

Will you ever make a cast abt divorced women? I mean marriage is good and there are some women who do not have the good luck of a good man or marriage and yet they show courage walk out and start from scratch... They too can be high value.. may be some tips on how they can find good partners

[@dre7370]

As long as there's a breath in my body I'm NOT going to stop trying to improve my quality of life, & if a woman that I'm attracted to wanna GROW TOGETHER then God is watching over me for sure. Until then I'll do it alone. PEACE✌🏾

[@antuandunte1238]

Well said.

[@danielland3767]

I'm glad ya'll made this into a series

[@narcisodelgado-cruz3204]

This channel keeps getting better and better! The amount of knowledge and wisdom given here is worth millions and millions! Thank you 🙏

[@alphamoneyacademy]

It's no surprise that the majority of divorces in America are cause by problems related to money or lack thereof. Get your financial situation straight before you commit to a long term relationship if possible. Your future self will thank you for that.

[@charlesblack949]

I hope I get this right. I'm about to get married in a few months haha

[@generic-channel]

100% agree. A marriage is no longer a romantic commitment. It's an enterprise, a "company" of sorts.

[@mariannestone6441]

Been through a divorce once for exactly that reason and I can confirm this...

[@tammysummers7360]

High value men are scarce these days, ngl

[@ghorn1217]

@@tammysummers7360 Lol. They represent the top 10% of men, so BY DEFINITION, they were always scarce.

[@czarlifestyle5335]

By the way ..as a man, I can honestly say..when you have a high value woman in your life, cheating on her is 100% impossible...

[@ravindumirihana2784]

When I'm in the right relationship I feel like doing my 100% to make my partner feel special and happy. I go the extra mile and can not justify why I work like that. I usually don't get this energy for the other things in my life.

[@dearbrave4183]

When you are? That means you leave the $1,000 for the $500 on the ground?

[@charlenegoskowicz8220]

Best advice ever! Men do want respect and appreciation. To them that equals love, and it took me a long time to learn that. Too much of today's media buzz is about toxic masculinity...nothing is toxic about true masculinity and it deserves appreciation.

[@miguelgonzalez6213]

2:35 "Men don't want to be loved, they want to be respected." #FACTS This is where modern women get it wrong every time. They come at us (men) from THEIR perspective and assume we look at the world the same---which we do not. Its the rare woman who can break out of her comfort zone and learn that her man does not have to externalize his feelings to prove to anyone what their relationship is about, or their commitment to each other. That is all between them. As long as they are both showing each other respect and loving each other the way each individual respects and accepts it, then they are good and forget what the world thinks. I'm always suspect of couples who seem a bit too determined to show PDAs in public. At some point, it always seems a bit forced on the male end of their relationship. As if he knows he doesn't want to do it, but sort of has to, or she'll be upset with him. I appreciate older couples who occasionally hold hands, or I'll see them support each other in very small ways, but don't feel the need to prove to the world they love each other by hugging and kissing 24/7.

[@tosin1018]

thanks for this. I am beginning to accept the fact that men don't externalize their feelings. I have always been with men who showered me with beautiful words but rarely backed it up with actions. I am currently with a man who shows love through actions but rarely showers me with sweet nothings. He tells me here and there but not as often as what I am used to. He is one of the most reliable men I ever met. I am experiencing love as an action. While I love to hear the words, I will take a man who shows love through action than the one who consistently compliments me but is unreliable and won't be there during hard times.

[@AbbyLeebarbieluvsfashion80]

My husband and I are definitely high value. Love this video.

[@isaacahadjie4866]

Literally every topic I have a debate the night prior, turns out to be the Sunday motivational video 😅

[@alux]

We're good at reading your mind Isaac

[@hhhoneycomb]

this is gold as someone who is working towards myself I now know who and what o must become

[@norbertlubega4326]

High value couples are were each partner puts in 100 percent.That's great insight Alux team.

[@ambrosia-venusbelladonna835]

I'm personally not looking for anyone at this stage in my Life; right now. However, I am glad Alux touched on this particular topic because I (until now) didn't really know what a High Value Couple was or what that means. I found it highly educational. Prior to this, my thoughts ran along the lines of "If you're doing extremely well alone; why would you add somebody else to your Life and possibly risk it?" However, everyone is different. If someone does make your Life better in every conceivable way; why wouldn't you marry them? This video has opened my mind to that chance. If it is possible. Thanks again, PEACE 🕊️ ☮️ ✌️🕉️ .

[@waqas]

Beautiful video as many many more, completely agree with you. At the start it was briefly mentioned that often our geographical location dictate who we pick as a partner, what if you like in an area with low population, super focussed on your targets in life and career progression, are dating apps your only resort? When statistic say most people on these apps are mentally/emotionally damaged. Any advice or suggest would be much appreciated. God bless you guys

[@dawncopley5671]

Peace, love and gratitude. Alux videos have been a huge blessing and of immense value in navigating through life with a vast amount of insight and common sense as well being a constant inspiration to pursue one’s most noble skills and purpose. Thank you!

[@ChairmanPaulieD]

PEACE ✌🏼☮ I’ve been learning from this channel since LATE 2020 and I’m considered a “Alux Loyalist” 🙏🏼👌🏼🙌🏼👍🏼

[@TheGhostQuarter]

As someone who works retail, what is generally a tip off to a low value couple is when they can't agree on anything, bicker over small things, complain about their lack of money, usually all of those within one span of a trip to the store. Another tip off is when they'll remove food that they could ya know. eat? To put cigarettes on. I know a high value couple when they come in, their clothes are neat, they don't argue with each other over every single thing, and they know exactly what they want. They can clearly and directly tell me politely what they need and don't lose their absolute crap when I don't have it in stock. They have their stuff together, Peace out.

[@01adityaghosh]

Very well articulated, all golden nuggets of information, a must watch for any adult who wants to have a high value relationship :)

[@larissavuolo5282]

#12 and #13 hit home. We can sense when there's something wrong. We state our issues up front, argue/discuss, but we forgive at the end. #13, Pre Cana was a pre requisite before getting married in the Catholic faith. We learned each other's short comings/nobody's perfect, and accept them. If you/fiancé has an issue, then you do not go through with the marriage. (2 years) before taking vows.

[@georgecampuzano]

Peace. My wife and I have known each since Fourth grade. Since we've been together we've grown so much .

[@dhanagunter5893]

This video is very insightful. I've never had a high value relationship, but have seen couples who do and are in loving committed relationships. I was never seen as having any value, only being a burden. Being alone is how I'm going to ride the rest of this life out. Better to remain alone than make someone else miserable.

[@stellafraser8351]

I'm sure you have a lot of value unless you are a horrendous psychopath or something equally negative. Being a good, kind person is always valuable. Take care.

[@spiritualBaddi]

I am part of a high value power couple 😌 peace is power 💛

[@ladyparmelee1003]

So true!! Peace is Power. 💕 Going on 17 years married to my power dude.

[@Photoshopuzr]

This narrator is probably on the tip of the top. These are true from my experience. All the best I heard a song one time from a book... Lucky is he that finds a woman that understands a man 👍🏿👍🏿

[@ladybarbarapinsonartist431]

Brilliant insights! These are the guidelines I’ve lived by my entire life, contributing and receiving while expanding the beauty and Joy of our worlds. Thank you for putting pen to paper.

[@samdegr3901]

PEACE ✌🏾 I enjoy the video so much that I share with my siblings and their spouse and most of friends. Thank you for the amazing content. Keep it up! Following your channel, I have been growing on many levels… 👍🏾

[@ramakrishnakamathsuresh1076]

Did anyone happen to notice that there is an undefined income range from $150,000 to $200,000. Middle class is until $150,000. While upper middle class starts at $200,000. So what is the term for families with income between 150k to 200k ? Middle-middle-class?

[@sandrapates7644]

I did notice.

[@thedatasciencetrinity]

Hi Alux, your all videos are great and I try to apply them in life as well but as you are creating content always. therefore so many things miss out. can you suggest some way to apply almost every possible thing to improve life

[@asdf_lifestyle4245]

Mw half-way through the video: I hope alux makes a video on High Value Families and Low Value Families. Thank you for your content alux, you always help me expand my knowledge and I'm totally living for it 😭💕✨

[@wynnvip]

One of my all top relationship video, specially at this current phase I am experiencing

[@CassiesPetParent]

I TRULY need to find myself within a high-value relationship, if not rise to & accept myself as a single high-value woman. 😓 #HardTruth #DropLossAversion

[@nancychism3480]

PEACE! This is my first comment since subscribing.... an add to this list is that a HVC work toward and present a "unified front" in important matters (to others).

[@robertwhite4980]

Good configuration, respect for each is prima/excellent. Peace have to do with forgiveness.

[@MrGchiasson]

This would be fantastic advice for a pre-marriage counseling session. Whether it's for the middle-class or the rich...it would be a tremendous benefit! Peace.

[@everythingemary5991]

my future husband and i aim to become a high value couple 😍

[@TheSeunAlbert]

Same with my future wife and I

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I hope my future husband and I will be one too. But it will take a lot of work.

[@nadinenyangii5151]

I am thankful for this great message 💓

[@BasementBerean]

50% of marriages end in divorce, but not 50% of first marriages (at least not the last time checked). The legendary 50% statistic includes second, third, etc. marriages, and second marriages fail more than first, third marriages more than second, etc. I've been married and divorced once. That was enough. The kids are raised, and I'm done .

[@Justsayingthat]

Exactly. There are many serial divorcees.

[@lorettaknoelk3475]

Oh wow. I never thought of that

[@Real.Flowers.]

Respect for each other in their face and behind their back.

[@navodabeyasinghe8599]

Damn the thing about middle child is soo true. I am going through it myself

[@toniriedl2399]

Another true and aspiring video. Thank you .

[@muhammadaayanaziz7916]

Mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯

[@alux]

End of the series...

[@romilsahu4847]

# Peace 👏 that's why some men choose to be single until they found their Peace "life partner". Once again thanks Alux

[@tg7949]

High Value is not comparing you or your relationship to others. Simply stay on your path and do you. Some people take these videos wrong and it can create a Narcissistic person which is an entirely different issue. Nobody is perfect, and we all get into slumps at times. Just get up, brush off and try again.

[@informationcollectionpost3257]

My relationship leaves me confused after watching this video. We seem to be neither high not low value as a couple. We earn less than $50,000 as a couple about 50% of the years yet we afforded a house with a low mortgage in the country & with decent neighbor s. We also have more assets than liabilities; th erefore, we have stuff but a not a lot of cash. We do take short vacations & don't always stay home when we take vacation. In terms of mutual goals we need to work on that. We trust each other and don't fool around but we not as snugly as we should be. First off, you always need to work on your relationship. Unfortunately, I work 10 to 12 hours per day as my employer requires it. It leaves me little quality time with my wife. We both acquired education & a degree but we can only work in menial jobs most due to our age, physical condition, and a local economy that only create menial jobs. There are very few professions in the area even if major corporations are present.

[@eduncan501]

May I suggest something? Think outside your "local economy" think outside your employer. When you fix that with the education you and you spouse have, you will resolve #1 the snuggly issue and the time together issue and the income issue. I'm 57 and starting a brand new business because I was "too old to hire" now. I'm starting this journey with other men even older than myself. We are all full of life and look forward to each day. I'm about to remarry, things are great. You can do it!

[@informationcollectionpost3257]

@@eduncan501 My wife doesn't want to leave the area because of her daughter and her daughters children. Her daughter, my step-daughter had difficulty remaining with a man but she is getting better at selecting them & keeping them in the house. My wife is risk diverse on starting a business and I myself would only go into business if it was with multiple partners as in a chapter S-Corporation or an ESOP. I have spent my first half of my life before moving to this area working for small or mid-sized family controlled companies that often failed after the owner died or retired. Such an arrangement not only cuts my risk but keeps the business going after I retire or in one of my past cases die from a stroke while working on the job. I have tried to talk to my wife about starting a business and the consequences of working for a local corporation but somehow she can't connect the dots so to speak. My back ground in Mechanical Engineering heavy machinery design and an MBA with concentrations in project management and finance. I have some experience in project management ( very similar to managing a design build company for heavy machinery) and have spent some time in the finance industry through Primeamerica. While working design engineering I also worked as a cost estimator and did some marketing. I am 63 years old but educated, experienced, and very diversified.

[@eduncan501]

@@informationcollectionpost3257 I'm in Alabama, my partners are in Philadelphia, Florida, Hawaii, New York Washington DC and the Caribbean. We meet by zoom. Bringing all our talents together to solve a problem not only motivates us but we didn't need to spend any money, only time together. But it was time well spent. Form an llc, which won't cost you much to start.. Look at all the emerging technologies and see how your experience can solve a problem. With new technology, you'll have the same experience as everyone else in the field, but you'll have years of experience on how to enhace it or in your case manage a team working on a solution. Answer two questions for a company to be of value How can you make them money or save them money by implementing your ideas. The quickest way to making money is by helping others to make money.

[@eduncan501]

@@informationcollectionpost3257 just looking at your response I see niche you can look into. Help prevent failing companies by helping them with succession planning. All of these soon to be Alux billionaires will need that service. You can provide virtual MBA and project management services, etc. I hope I got you thinking 😊😇

[@randyramey6549]

If you both have children then you are "in the middle of the grind" and have limited flexibility because of your responsibilities. Do not beat yourself up. You should be proud of your accomplishments.

[@evanlai9787]

This is one of the best contents Alux has ever produced. Thanks Alux.

[@RedAndTheCompany567]

*NUMBER 2* is a key point for me. Yes, I *do* judge a man's love based on his efforts. .Respect be damned, it's meaningless if the man doesn't show how much he is willing to sacrifice for that love. Exactly.

[@cuisinemarysway]

I love the peace...so important!

[@Chaos1612mr]

Both sides having alot of kids by different people. That's a sign of a low value couple.

[@atenas80525]

LOVE the bonus - spot on, maybe fundamentally the most important point of which all the others flow from

[@Hiro6543]

I love the idea of a relationship being 100-100. We never just split the bill. I'll pay the bill, and she leaves a 100% tip. I'll do the dishes, she then washes all of them again.

[@RamonRodriguez-hq7vn]

Lmao 🤣.

[@briaunahinds6092]

🤣😂😂

[@theorderofthebees7308]

😂😂😂

[@TheLastTitan007]

Just remember this video isn't just about significant others. This very much pertains to friends as well.

[@KanuKatalyst]

Genuine laughter between a couple speaks high value .. PEACE

[@calikingz9924]

If you got someone that’ doesn’t control or he or she feels like u gotta go threw them before you make a move leave them If you got someone that lets you move around stick with them in life loyalty always makes you stronger

[@anyamiranda9452]

As much as I love Alux, what's with all the marriage/couple/parenting videos lately? Is it really necessary to have a partner in order to be considered important? I mean, it's bad enough that there aren't any decent options in my Eastern European country - I don't need to be reminded of this when I'm watching a success channel and trying to make something out of myself 🙃

[@CurserTV]

Change your surroundings

[@tloporomamabolo7141]

Relationships are major contributors to any individual'd success. If success channel leave out this topics, then they have not done justice to individual success. Success is to be celebrated and enjoyed with family.

[@anyamiranda9452]

@CurserTV Oh yes, because it's the easiest thing in the world to leave your family behind and just be on your own in a different country, with very little money and job experience, and probably not even knowing the language 🙃 how haven't I thought of that?

[@anyamiranda9452]

@Motjetse Mamabolo You're contradicting yourself. Individual succes and family success are literal opposites. Achieving success as an individual has nothing to do with the family you created: quite the opposite, children can *really* hold you back. So can your partner's constant demands. I already have my family, which I love dearly. Don't see any, and I mean *any* reason to start another.

[@CurserTV]

@@anyamiranda9452 I did it 8 years ago. No excuses

[@alexbonganindhlovu5857]

Not Alux throwing shade at dentists🤣🤣 10:43

[@HUSTLER-AT-HEART]

Alux do a video on unfair use of child support and how to get out of it

[@RebeccaEvans]

If you cannot use co-parenting apps to work it out, you go to court and get physical custody of you child and rear them yourself, and the other partner sends your child child support.

[@RebeccaEvans]

Your child matters. How you two treat each other in front of your child matters. Petty squabbles, constant stress, and micromanaging your ex while neglecting your child are negatives.

[@HUSTLER-AT-HEART]

@@RebeccaEvans 💯 percent

[@blackkcinamacritic]

70% of marriages fail & Rich couples dont stay because they have less too lose, its most likely the female needs the resources. Rich couples have high steaks issues

[@hanatirk4375]

From your comment I can tell you are very law value and poor man.

[@marieaxen645]

Thanks for your new video! Always samething new to think of. Peace. /Marie from Sweden

[@DMRoper1]

I must register my distaste for and complete objection to the classification of people as "high value" and "low value." It smacks of elitism, bigotry, snobbery and contempt for some categories of people. Some of the criteria used to determine whether people are "high" or "low" value are superficial and sometimes downright dumb. Stop it, Alux! Just stop it! Over the years I have come to respect your content, but these "high value", "low value" classifications of people just get under my skin. So some people might never have had the benefit of influences in their lives that could shape them into people who make better decisions for themselves. We should all be so lucky. Others, behave in ways that are consistent with their personalities, culture, background and circumstances. On the other hand, there are some people who appear to fit the mold of what most people hold up as "high value." But if you really get to know them, you discover them to be cads and downright corrupt at the core. Now, I'm not trying to excuse bad or foolish behaviour, but it takes all kinds to make the world run. For the record, I don't believe there is any such thing as a "high" or "low" value person. There are just people. And people, as human beings trying to make it in a harsh and unfair world, are all just priceless.

[@nowie4007]

Well , people aren't exactly completely a winner of loser in life ,so yes I can understand what you are saying

[@krissybell1973]

We are mainly products of our environment . Underneath we are the same value . But we still need to understand this world and not be too open , to the point where we make bad choices due to not wanting to define humans into categories.Self protection is important without thinking you are better than another person .

[@5thdimensionliving727]

This was an incredible video with amazing content 👏👏Having been in a 20 year marriage previously, divorced 7 years, I’ve been in a later life relationship for the last 11 months having been single for 6 years. So having reflected on my relationship history the last 28 years, my partner and I would regards ourselves as both high value partners working towards some relationship goals. However, your video was masterful in the way it offered some top notch insights on how to be in a high value relationship. We will refresh our relationship goals accordingly as your video was so enlightening and helpful - thanking the content writer/s wholeheartedly 👍👍👏👏

[@John_Q]

If you're a high value man, you have nothing to gain from marriage but risk losing a lot.

[@ItsMe-dr7ir]

Then you’re not really a HVM. You only THINK you are.

[@John_Q]

@@ItsMe-dr7ir After seeing multiple billionaires lose a large portion of their wealth over divorce, it's safe to say people like you are talking out of their ass.

[@alimora442]

Wonderful subject as always, Alux. PEACE

[@austinscott4695]

Don't get married lol

[@alux]

There's actually plenty of value to marriage, watch the video, you might reconsider.

[@austinscott4695]

@@alux I never said anything about the value of marriage. Yes it has many values. But those values are not worth the risk for a man. Im sure you are aware of the double standards against men in family courts.

[@ItsMe-dr7ir]

@@austinscott4695 If you do what the video says, BE a high value person and choose the right high value partner, why would you even have to worry about family court??

[@lalabell1953]

Thank you Alux..this is really a good help for me..

[@vectorkaiser]

Thank you, Alux for finally making these videos. Peace!

[@walterherrera3660]

Peace! I always love learning from you guys. Thanks for the pointers.

[@119Skyline]

This is one of your best videos! 🍷

[@nickfuller3428]

Thanks Alux! I needed this video as I get married next month.

[@dreambreakerarts5611]

Alux, can you make a video on the things necessary to ask before marriage?

[@denisebooth8963]

Thank You for this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾