15 Psychological Facts about Attraction

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@surplussean3364
@surplussean3364 2 жыл бұрын
As I get older, my attraction has shifted from prioritizing physical looks to prioritizing mental stimulation
@fatgirlboy9341
@fatgirlboy9341 2 жыл бұрын
yes and the experience the other partner can bring to the table
@Sona77.
@Sona77. 2 жыл бұрын
Are you a guy or girl? Men usually never shift from physical!
@theonlysinoda
@theonlysinoda 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sona77. man and this applies to me as well
@TheFatoud
@TheFatoud 2 жыл бұрын
How cliche can you get
@LilXancheX
@LilXancheX 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sona77. cap
@austynnegrete9113
@austynnegrete9113 2 жыл бұрын
Chemistry is most important for a long term relationship. Don’t force it, let it happen naturally because if it doesn’t, it’s not meant to be and won’t last.
@austynnegrete9113
@austynnegrete9113 2 жыл бұрын
And your chemistry can change over time because people get new friends, jobs, or hobbies that will pull at their personality
@SKOLAH
@SKOLAH 2 жыл бұрын
It's not important to YOU. It IS important to others.
@jeremyhyde1963
@jeremyhyde1963 2 жыл бұрын
@@austynnegrete9113 if k it bc of BF off If off If i kids is If if it it off If on N if it is onv if m JH is if my last C bc If is if ox ox I in JH n mix m of it
@Waddduup
@Waddduup 2 жыл бұрын
absolutely agree
@noexcuses5524
@noexcuses5524 Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as chemistry. How come some people say we have chemistry and the other person dont? It is not real. It is an illusions you oeep reading online.
@brainamigo
@brainamigo 3 жыл бұрын
Beauty lies in the eye of beholder which is absolutely true I think. What's attractive to someone is not to someone else!!
@omar-uu8qo
@omar-uu8qo 3 жыл бұрын
It's funny how they're still pushing multiculturalism, multiculturalism has basically destroyed America. it's an illusion that for the most part does not work. Just like the Civil Rights Movement. It was also it was also an illusion which has destroyed the African American family for the most part...
@Thegoldenchild415
@Thegoldenchild415 3 жыл бұрын
But there is a general baseline of what people think is beautiful.. You take 100,000 men of all races, and ages. And you ask them is Lizzo better looking than Beyonce.. 99,998 will pick Beyonce..
@raskult
@raskult 3 жыл бұрын
@@Thegoldenchild415 true lol of all the language u decided to speak facts
@lawrenceneely7859
@lawrenceneely7859 3 жыл бұрын
I like thus
@lawrenceneely7859
@lawrenceneely7859 3 жыл бұрын
Good advise
@judithguy-davies6746
@judithguy-davies6746 2 жыл бұрын
'It's beauty which captures one's attention, personality which captures one's heart.' Oscar Wilde
@nikkirodriguez4590
@nikkirodriguez4590 Жыл бұрын
100%
@suz4055
@suz4055 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think I ever had to build chemistry. My experience so far has been that the chemistry was just automatically there with some people.
@Nirual
@Nirual 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. The chemistry was automatically there for me with some guy in my class. In spite of that attraction, he still screwed any chick who would give him the time of day. He was cute, too.
@trever2244
@trever2244 3 жыл бұрын
@@Nirual that isn't chemistry, that's just flat out attraction. You literally said that in your post. Child.
@businessgurl8346
@businessgurl8346 2 жыл бұрын
With my actual boyfriend, I have a great chemistry, even if at the beginning we hadn't that. We've just built our chemistry putting effort into knowing each other
@Nola5427
@Nola5427 2 жыл бұрын
Ya it' s there or it' s not.
@luciantempest1291
@luciantempest1291 2 жыл бұрын
For sure, I think some people are aware or can pick up on chemistry before interacting with them and lots of people can’t feel it. I would say it’s like intuition
@nicnothingnice
@nicnothingnice 2 жыл бұрын
#7 Bold Communication. He got me. He said what he meant and meant what he said. I'll never forget our first encounter. There's no one like him. Rest in Paradise.
@Nola5427
@Nola5427 2 жыл бұрын
Yes communication is an important one, if they can' t communicate with me it won' t work.
@justicerobinson4662
@justicerobinson4662 Жыл бұрын
Damn rest easy
@sondoszahra8291
@sondoszahra8291 Жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss, much love to you
@nicnothingnice
@nicnothingnice Жыл бұрын
@@sondoszahra8291 thank you🙏🏾
@erykacane29
@erykacane29 Жыл бұрын
Had someone special like that too, he passed away. May yours and mines rest in heaven😢😇
@thisisme3238
@thisisme3238 3 жыл бұрын
Your info referencing the color red is spot on! I had this red suit and EVERYTIME I wore that suit to a job interview...I got hired for the job. Thanks for the other 14 attraction pointers! 👍
@noexcuses5524
@noexcuses5524 Жыл бұрын
It does not work everytime. There were times were the interviewer felt you want to outshine them.
@positivityventure3789
@positivityventure3789 2 жыл бұрын
Personality is the most attractive and being on the same vibe. Also being at the same maturity level.
@LyrasRaven
@LyrasRaven Жыл бұрын
As I get older, I’ve started to become more attracted to body language than just looks and muscles. I like some specific gestures and mannerisms
@chinomoreno8400
@chinomoreno8400 3 жыл бұрын
Different faces being attractive is not evidence of non physical traits being the determinant. It’s that those faces satisfy the criteria for attractive faces. Symmetry, pronounced features, lack of blemishes and signs of youth can be displayed in multiple ways.
@cammontreuil7509
@cammontreuil7509 3 жыл бұрын
Why did I find my wife attractive when I first saw her and she had a port stain birth mark over her eye ?
@chinomoreno8400
@chinomoreno8400 3 жыл бұрын
@@cammontreuil7509 Cause she has multiple features to assess
@putjesusfirst9814
@putjesusfirst9814 2 жыл бұрын
@@cammontreuil7509 beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
@cammontreuil7509
@cammontreuil7509 2 жыл бұрын
Rethinking I should not have commented to abstract nomenclature.
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын
@@cammontreuil7509 I understand.my mate is blind in one eye and that eye is noticeablñy larger than the other, the asymmetry made me linger on his face longer than usual for.me so.likely he took that as an indication of interest on my part and it was true.l am a hobby artist so pay even MORE attention to visual cues than others do..i really gaze at people.and objects that grab,my attention. judt.part.of.mynartitistcimoriemtatiom.
@peterfallon4018
@peterfallon4018 3 жыл бұрын
Re smiling for men…I’m a ‘happy-go-lucky’ kinda guy & am almost always genuinely smiling. Women who are attracted to me *always comment on it as one of the reasons why they are.
@mons5267
@mons5267 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree men that smile are more attractive in my opinion
@iseethroughthematrix189
@iseethroughthematrix189 3 жыл бұрын
@@mons5267 you say that buy I've seen studies that document that women find men who smile/smile a lot creepy looking and that they're attracted to men who have a more serious expression on their face.
@lanaboyd4776
@lanaboyd4776 3 жыл бұрын
men who smile more > men who smile less. you don't have to look constantly happy but smiling is something that men generally don't do enough
@Tinyfurball
@Tinyfurball 3 жыл бұрын
That's not true, sometimes, being attractive can be a cruse. They envy you. When you're beautiful, truly beautiful. They will harass you.
@Subhumanoid_
@Subhumanoid_ 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but even MORE people will jump to your defense, so.... it's a net positive.
@Tinyfurball
@Tinyfurball 3 жыл бұрын
@@Subhumanoid_ That's not true, neither. I had them turn their backs on me. That's why I don't have friends. They're backstabbers.
@donatello9482
@donatello9482 3 жыл бұрын
@@Tinyfurball He doesn’t understand lol people make being attractive seem like there is no negatives. Which perpetuate more negative actions on attractive people. people view you as being full of yourself and try to take you down a notch. Ridiculous. Men and women do this. They literally have no empathy for you. Mostly disdain
@MOTORCYCLES-ANDGUNS
@MOTORCYCLES-ANDGUNS 3 жыл бұрын
@@Tinyfurball Who gives a shit about people, Do your own thing and go your own way.
@Tinyfurball
@Tinyfurball 3 жыл бұрын
@@donatello9482 I ain't full of myself, idiot.
@rafreyes1190
@rafreyes1190 3 жыл бұрын
think anyone who has the capacity to be open-minded and creative in any way is the most attractive..i've met a lot of people who have doctorate degrees but the only thing they can talk about are those things that are related to their respective fields like bruh let's talk about traumas, aliens, philosophy, mermaids and the things that make your life worth living🤦
@rafreyes1190
@rafreyes1190 3 жыл бұрын
emotionally unstable
@LilXancheX
@LilXancheX 2 жыл бұрын
@Louis Kingsta ok?
@essieseigler4012
@essieseigler4012 2 жыл бұрын
It is not what a person looks like on the outside but what is on the inside that counts to me
@YOU_MUST_KNOW_THIS
@YOU_MUST_KNOW_THIS 25 күн бұрын
Psychоlogy is bаsically the brаin trying tо figure itself оut..
@k-town1018
@k-town1018 2 жыл бұрын
The part where women like men who don’t smile as much is false in my opinion. I think guys that smile are 10000% more attractive than guys that don’t.
@Noname-oo9gn
@Noname-oo9gn 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree.
@emily-sp1hl
@emily-sp1hl 2 жыл бұрын
I agree as well!
@robinnetten4941
@robinnetten4941 2 жыл бұрын
For men, smiling with the eyes in stead of teeth is good if you ‘re alone. When a man has company from someone they already know they should smile once in a while (when a funny moment occurs or someone did something nice) but not all the time
@theproductivebabe
@theproductivebabe Жыл бұрын
Agreed! Nothing makes me melt more than when my bf smiles with his teeth 🤤
@sunmoonstars0369
@sunmoonstars0369 3 ай бұрын
I find genuine smiles with teeth the most attractive on men I can tell the difference between genuine and phoney smiles
@myrachaloix2110
@myrachaloix2110 2 жыл бұрын
Haha, love it: 2:20 "Rapport is a complicated social relationship built upon deeper knowledge and mutual understandings"... Fun fact for non-french speakers: "rapport" is simply the french word for "relation". Personal comment: I love how there is this part of american culture that is so obsessed with (i) these top 10 lists (ii) the idea that to be smart and successful you just need to learn some secret "techniques" (iii) how you aparently need to invent new facy marketing buzzwords like "rapport" to make your thoughts sound very sophisticated and scientific. Love you guys 😘
@mr.j3371
@mr.j3371 2 жыл бұрын
What he says about being in a relationship and being attracted to others is very true. I thought I was bad for feeling this way and turns out other guys feel the same.
@rainnnnnn372
@rainnnnnn372 2 жыл бұрын
No you should feel bad
@skyejacques
@skyejacques 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman and I expect to be attracted to all sorts of people. It's healthy. I was looking at a young boy in high school the other day lol and I'm in my 30s
@mr.j3371
@mr.j3371 2 жыл бұрын
@@skyejacques Haha, seems about right. I get hit on by women in their late 20's and early 30's at my workplace, meanwhile I'm sitting in the shallow twenties ✌
@green6746
@green6746 2 жыл бұрын
It's a human thing , u can't silence the mind ..but you can be responsible and to not go so far with your own ideas and desires..see the difference? The second one makes a guy a bad person even if it's just thoughts.
@sandrabonner1694
@sandrabonner1694 2 жыл бұрын
Shame on you. Leave children alone.
@naaaz373
@naaaz373 3 жыл бұрын
Beauty not lies in the external looks and attire. It's completely depends on the character and mindset Strictly personal opinion
@tatianalegolas6736
@tatianalegolas6736 2 жыл бұрын
It should depend on those traits however in this world we live in, too many people look at the cover and don't always delve into the character.
@fernvill27
@fernvill27 3 жыл бұрын
The color red also makes you hungrier. If you look at the inside of most fast food restaurants and their logos, they all have some red in it.
@yusraraouf4839
@yusraraouf4839 3 жыл бұрын
lollllll
@fernvill27
@fernvill27 3 жыл бұрын
@@maxalexander8564 look it up. It's called color psychology. So blue and green are seen a lot inside of jobs because it makes you more productive. They're also the most trustworthy colors because of the sky and the grass/plants. Pink makes you docile. I forget what NFL team would do this , but they would paint the visitors locker room pink to make them lower energy. They do that in prison as well. Black is authoritative. You should look it up. It's pretty interesting.
@Nola5427
@Nola5427 2 жыл бұрын
He' s not wrong! Diffrent colours in diffrent rooms also give off diffrent vibes, feelings and affect you diffrently.
@MariaMartinez_07
@MariaMartinez_07 2 жыл бұрын
The same goes for the color orange. McDonald’s is red and yellow but combined it makes orange. ☺️
@IKEMENOsakaman
@IKEMENOsakaman 3 жыл бұрын
It's hard to send strong messages with facial expressions with masks on
@SonnyThomasShow1
@SonnyThomasShow1 3 жыл бұрын
That's the point. It erases one's identity.
@rachel_ray8997
@rachel_ray8997 3 жыл бұрын
Stare at their soul and retain dominance.
@stoniebrookes8478
@stoniebrookes8478 3 жыл бұрын
The eyes actually speak a lot tho
@somewhatsomething4882
@somewhatsomething4882 3 жыл бұрын
@@rachel_ray8997 sounds like the social equivalent of Nazism
@poloteam8366
@poloteam8366 3 жыл бұрын
That’s y I ask if she is smiling under the 😷
@herrgegenwart5037
@herrgegenwart5037 3 жыл бұрын
I can only say be authentic. everyone who finds you attractive also means you, and not some techniques or what you have heard about attractiveness. Everyone notices when you are not authentic. a fake smile is extremely repulsive.
@kimpaintscanvas7023
@kimpaintscanvas7023 2 жыл бұрын
Facts. A person who refuses to be authentic with someone, does not love them. Being authentic should happen with most people you meet in life. That has to happen 1st before any kind of relationship can form. Getting to know each other, then becoming friends, falling in love, establishing an emotional connection, sharing intimate parts of yourself that you dont share with anyone else... none of that can happen without both people being genuine and authentic. And somehow my husband expects me to believe he loves me although he refuses to be genuine. He doesnt understand how much of a tell of truth that truly is. Sorry for the too personal info. I'm stuck in a twilight zone marriage and just need a little validation that I'm not crazy. Well I am crazy, but I'm not wrong about authenticity being necessary for love and marriage. 💔
@ana_silly_little_things
@ana_silly_little_things 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve had a chance to talk to a psychologist on Voicely. She told me some of these facts and it really blowed my mind. Great video!
@shoumabhopaal.2722
@shoumabhopaal.2722 2 жыл бұрын
His voice is a real turn on! Yes I am speaking of the man that's doing the voice over! The way he speaks is in itself a thing worth noticing and taking a note on ! Salute you sir !Love from INDIA.
@Avoid_Low_Frequency
@Avoid_Low_Frequency 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! My BF is absolutely more attractive to other women now that we are dating. He said when he was single and unattached, women did not approach him. I’m considered attractive and nothing is more appealing than a man with a beautiful woman😉
@Ms.Jingleberries
@Ms.Jingleberries 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 TRUE!!!!!! Additionally, I "revamped" his whole look and style, so that now people don't even recognize him anymore xD
@adagiobreeze8493
@adagiobreeze8493 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think red is true for everyone, I think everyone has a shade that compliments their features, people tell me that black and navy bring out the color of my hair, eyes and skin.
@SuperDetroit9
@SuperDetroit9 3 жыл бұрын
Red,in fact is"attractive"because it attracts ones attention FIRST!! Red has the longest wavelength in the visible spectrum,thus it reaches ones eyes BEFORE any other color does!! My life-long neighbor and block-club president Bernard"Stonewall"Jackson brought this to my attention in 1990,as I and a few buddies were sitting on Ms. Quicks front porch with:"P"is smarter than the rest of you guys. HE has on a RED cap;so all the girls are going to SEE him FIRST!!" I went home later that evening and rsearched"Color"in my World Book Encyclopedia and found out red is not simply"louder"than other colors,but that it REACHES your eyes FIRST!!
@literallybya
@literallybya 2 жыл бұрын
The face similarity in couple is so true!! I just recently realized how similar me and my ex boyfriend look. My google photos would even confuse our photos up with one another! What a trip😅
@johnburrows1179
@johnburrows1179 2 жыл бұрын
For me it’s personality. A woman with a great personality, smiling, happy, are way more attractive than a textbook swimsuit model etc. And a natural look. For me a woman in a pair of jeans, sweatshirt, and a nice smile, is way more attractive than a skin tight dress and stilllettos.
@SK-le1gm
@SK-le1gm 3 жыл бұрын
I have to say, you have a remarkable voice. One of the more striking voices. Good stuff 👍🏾
@SuperDetroit9
@SuperDetroit9 3 жыл бұрын
"Maybe I'm just happy with you!!"I said while looking in the mirror. I look at my reflection and see,that I'm happy with------------ME.
@EPÏKUS.MUSÏC
@EPÏKUS.MUSÏC 2 жыл бұрын
Then your reflection gives you a thumbs up and a mischievous grin...without you moving at all! 😱
@JasonGoldstein78
@JasonGoldstein78 2 жыл бұрын
I never knew how amazing I was..... Until the narcissist tried to break me :)
@SHALONyounggoddess
@SHALONyounggoddess 3 жыл бұрын
I'm attracted to my mans smile and its a turn on for me. What one person likes, another may not but good info
@biancadelarosa7986
@biancadelarosa7986 3 жыл бұрын
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@biancadelarosa7986
@biancadelarosa7986 3 жыл бұрын
massage him on WhatsApp
@BornIIfly
@BornIIfly 3 жыл бұрын
What makes a woman or man really attractive is when the person shows her or his best side. 🤓😉😘
@Indonesia_wales
@Indonesia_wales 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not into men with facial hair.. just unattractive to me 😅 Face similarity , yes I agree with this as I have seen many married couples including my parents who looked alike. They're soulmates.
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын
I am attracted to facial hair. I.know many are not.
@ramonmendoza2510
@ramonmendoza2510 2 жыл бұрын
That's easy, asians look all the same 😝
@lafonzmalone3813
@lafonzmalone3813 2 жыл бұрын
Do you shave the pulley snapper?
@c.uni2370
@c.uni2370 2 жыл бұрын
Yea facial hair is just a no for me
@r.a1301
@r.a1301 Жыл бұрын
@@c.uni2370 you like femboys I'm guessing
@CRUSH71
@CRUSH71 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is fairly accurate but I definitely am not attracted to people that share my features or facial similarities.
@qasimimtiaz9668
@qasimimtiaz9668 Жыл бұрын
Yeah… I’m attracted to girls with opposite facial features.
@wolfdog2112
@wolfdog2112 2 жыл бұрын
This video just told me to smile sweetie
@lenatrofimov7605
@lenatrofimov7605 2 жыл бұрын
I liked the video....but do not agree with some points...in my particular case....but I'm sure others will agree. 1. when I was single I always had specific and high standards for what I found attractive in the opposite sex....but I became more accepting of different attractiveness (wider range) after I entered my long-term relationship. this is opposite to the video......you could say that I decided to settle for his looks (that was not quite my type) because his personality was better than those that had the looks of my exes but not the other qualities that matter in longterm relationships.....and now I am extremely attracted to him....i know that there are other people with similar experiences. 2. facial hair on men, does not make someone look attractive or not, it is the overall look....some facial structures and features along with colouration look better with facial hair and some don't.......even those that do look better with facial hair, it's not any facial hair style that looks good on them. different lengths and shapes of facial hair suit different faces......i would never be able to say that I like facial hair on men generally speaking......I LOVE facial hair, on the faces that look good with facial hair, as long that the style and length suit that face. 3. I believe that the words beauty and attractiveness have a lot in common and can be used interchangeably but in some cases, they are very different. I believe that in a number of areas of the video the word attractiveness was used interchangeably with the word/meaning beauty, but not at the part of the video when it was said that to be attractive one doesn't need to have certain features and that what makes someone attractive, is self-grooming and health that stand for attractivness....NO, not really. The word "attractiveness" in this part represents "good image", which is also attractive. The thing is that different "things" can be attractive: natural beauty (doesn't matter if overweight or underweight, well-groomed or not, good sense of style or good taste) genetic features that make one attractive, and good image (taking cake of appearances/image with grooming exercise and finding a style that suits your body and face type). The naturally beautiful individual who takes care of their appearance will be WAY MORE attractive than an average individual that takes care of their appearance (in comparison, the latter might even be considered unattractive). What makes someone beautiful is the relation and balance of all their features...not a specific feature. Maybe not all scientists but only the ones who's research was used in the making of this video, have a weak grasp on "beauty"....their conclusion in the video was that if all attractive people do not share a feature therefore facial features do not make someone beautiful.....WRONG. I'll give an analogy, a room is made up of flooring, ceiling, walls, windows, doors, trim/mouldings, furniture and accessories. A room isn't beautiful if it has a "specific feature" such as a specific window or floor.......what makes a room beautiful is the balance and how all these features work together. So, yes, a face, isn't beautiful just because it has a specific chin or nose, but it is beautiful due to the balance (face symmetry) and how all the features look in relation to each other..... Yes, it's all about the structure and features of the face.....as a whole....t's art.
@Subhumanoid_
@Subhumanoid_ 3 жыл бұрын
4:06 Here it is. The reason you clicked hoping for a laugh.
@YOU_MUST_KNOW_THIS
@YOU_MUST_KNOW_THIS 25 күн бұрын
Thе humаn mind is one оf the most cоmplex things, gоverned by mysterious and elusive rules..
@wheels59300
@wheels59300 3 жыл бұрын
I just always been blessed I just have so much going for me
@deleon3747
@deleon3747 Жыл бұрын
Wearing well fitted nice clothes with nice color tones that go with your skin color is huge . Doesn’t have to be expensive
@sketchbook8725
@sketchbook8725 2 жыл бұрын
"The best way to build chemistry is through conversation" Me(a quite and shy person who gets too nervous to talk to people) ...I will be a lonely hermit forever, lmao
@shinipapaya846
@shinipapaya846 2 жыл бұрын
Same here let us keep in touch each other I live in united Kingdom UK 🇬🇧 thank you and have a wonderful day
@bluenomadbruh
@bluenomadbruh 3 жыл бұрын
My preferences are broad when single? I've been single for years cuz I barely feel attracted to anyone.
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын
Here is the science from research in many countries many studies: 1. Males and females are both attracted most,strongly statistically to average faces that are symmetrical... 2. How closely one side matches the other predicts how attractive the face is rated overall. 3. Same with the body..asymmetry on the outside is a predictor of assymetry internally while symmetry predicts genetic health.. 4.We are all attracted to indicators of health: good teeth dental.hygiene, shiny hair,.clear eyes. 5. In women high hip to waist ratio, average weight are perceived as attractive...the wide hips predict ease of childbirth. 6. In men wider shoulders and narrower hips, an,average weight but muscled body...not extreme, is.prefered. 7.Some cultures like women to be of lower or more.weight that is culturally determined. 8.Signs of genetic abnomality are perceived as less attractive, low set ears, extra digits, etc even attached earlobes indicate less than average genetic internal normalality. Anyone with five or more of the seven most common anatomical abnormalities will,be perceived as less attractive one or two are not very predictive. 9.Some outliers LIKE some unusual features. I for example am attracted to longer and larger than average noses in men likely due to my Anglo Saxon ethnic heritage in which both genders.tend to have long noses on average. Yet I also.find some Middle Eastern,.Italian, Spanish ie substantial noses not my heritage attractive while I find tiny noses on men unattractive. I myself have a smaller shorter nose than average for my ethnic heritage so.perhaps I am pushed in mate choice to select.for genes that will balance my "too small" nose in my offspring and in fact that HAS been the case with. my offspring...interesting hypothesis at least. Sybil.Francis PhD clinical psychologist,.researcher and professor
@derekk.1750
@derekk.1750 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, very nice commenting
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын
@@derekk.1750 Thanks Derek, glad you enjoyed it!
@PsycheFiles2
@PsycheFiles2 2 ай бұрын
this video helped me get to where I wanted to be in life, thank you!
@airplanemechanic5561
@airplanemechanic5561 2 жыл бұрын
I'll say I met a woman at work years ago, and I hope I never see her again, thus was the strong sense of mutual attraction. Thank God we work a a large employer.
@brandibrawn4244
@brandibrawn4244 2 жыл бұрын
I love the message this video gives. So helpful
@actuallybusiness1622
@actuallybusiness1622 3 жыл бұрын
*Time is finite! One day it will run out!*
@mikzuzumaki4961
@mikzuzumaki4961 3 жыл бұрын
Its all about intangible things,spark,electricity and mutual happiness of opposite sex will attract them the most and beautiness and handsomeness is a just BONUS!!!! -me😊
@Teksonserm168
@Teksonserm168 3 жыл бұрын
Good knowlege. Thanks for sharing 👍
@jeanettekniebusch9812
@jeanettekniebusch9812 3 жыл бұрын
Christy Brinkley pointed out smiling gives you a face lift. I look way better smiling.
@ms.harleygamer7232
@ms.harleygamer7232 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely disagree with A LOT of what you said. Especially the fact that you stated that chemistry can grow, or that it's under someone's control. I'm 49 years old. And I've found that either you have chemistry, or you don't. For me, The very first kiss with someone is the telltale sign. Either it's there, or nowhere! After the first kiss, If I want to continue to kiss that person & I feel sensations run wild throughout my body & I get butturflys Or I feel NOTHING at all & I'm not going to take anything any further, because kissing them is like kissing my mom on the cheek! So if you're telling me I can make the chemistry grow.. I need detailed information from you on exactly how you are able to do that!?!?
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын
Some studies show that kissing is as much,about smell as,taste. Smell in the animal kingdom is hugely important. In kate attractiinmitmis used to.determime genetic complememtsriness in potemtiañ mates ie you are seeking someone to mate eith with whom you do.NOT share alot.of.genetic abnomalities. Errors.in genes are very common because we have so many genes and it is believed we in part pick mates by smell.
@Nola5427
@Nola5427 2 жыл бұрын
Well said, I agree!
@coffeecoder9458
@coffeecoder9458 3 жыл бұрын
Thankful for playback speed settings
@jermainehaslam5634
@jermainehaslam5634 Жыл бұрын
If you both have had similar experiences and have same interests that builds and creates chemistry period.
@audrey_lyn22
@audrey_lyn22 3 жыл бұрын
OMG TOP THINK YESSS THANK YOUUU
@stevem5787
@stevem5787 2 жыл бұрын
You can't control someone else's desire for you with the things you can control. It doesn't work that way. Financial stability is the only compromise to lust. Beyond that, you're SOL.
@c.uni2370
@c.uni2370 2 жыл бұрын
I love how he said we tend to look for partners that look the same, me being latina interested in Asian men.. I beg to differ 😂
@yinx4ts883
@yinx4ts883 2 жыл бұрын
2:52 " .... But how do you crearte chemistry? It's easier than you think: communication and be yourself!" So, it's imposible
@flowerpower4944
@flowerpower4944 3 жыл бұрын
Loved your video, you definitely hit the target 🎯 yea👍👍👍👍🤗👍
@syedalimurtaza4763
@syedalimurtaza4763 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations for 2m subs 🎉🥳
@quinn_star758
@quinn_star758 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this 😁❤️
@SKOLAH
@SKOLAH 2 жыл бұрын
I don't see much chat about what studies have proven about human attraction and the base, genetic and animal drives that we conceptualise as part of human culture. We ARE animals. Looks signify so much to those base parts, as do smell, yes, but also voice. Many cues are subconscious and the sooner, in my opinion (not stating fact), the sooner humans accept the animals in us, the simpler and easier life could be. Beauty bias is biology. No need to be butthurt about biology.
@jncyj
@jncyj 2 жыл бұрын
i saw girl working at a coffee shop , i walk up to her i ask what her name is, she tells me, i ask what type of muffins she has she tells me. I say what puts a smile on your face? She says what? I say what are in the brownies? She says what puts a smile on my face? I say for me it's when i come home my dog runs up to me jumps into my arms. What about you? She tells me what's in the brownies. Did i impress her? She caught the line but then i change the subject was that good flirt technique?
@veryclairely9312
@veryclairely9312 2 жыл бұрын
love it
@kiriljade882
@kiriljade882 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of new info to think about. Thanks :)
@hellohjbgjh
@hellohjbgjh Жыл бұрын
Completely agree with number 7 !
@thiplumputta9009
@thiplumputta9009 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the videos 😃
@biljanapinderova
@biljanapinderova 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all just the fact that we looked this video up and opened it 😑
@ToxiCisty
@ToxiCisty Жыл бұрын
No it’s straight forward (male) Facial symmetry Jaw line Hair line Height Build
@Dreoilin
@Dreoilin 3 жыл бұрын
Attraction is subjective and therefore can not be analyzed.
@sashah5702
@sashah5702 3 жыл бұрын
My mom always said all my bfs look alike 👀..
@streetkombat6088
@streetkombat6088 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@NashBenzotv
@NashBenzotv 3 жыл бұрын
Why would they look alike then lol
@ledominic3924
@ledominic3924 Жыл бұрын
Just gonna say it right now, the chances of that type of couple in the thumbnail is EXTREMELY rare.
@Luis-cr1tw
@Luis-cr1tw Жыл бұрын
I tend to find more atractive not the regular people, but the ones who have differebt carachteristics. And some i can even manipulate my mind to find a person atractive. But the better atraction and real is when i just look at someone and you just get that atraction. I had that university collegue girl...I didn't find her beautiful at first time, because it was more than that, but like, some day, i had to write something on her back, and i felt a strong smell coming from her. Like i couldn't handle...
@terriyoung1234
@terriyoung1234 2 жыл бұрын
some people are quiet cuz they are shy. or observant. those are the traits that I had when I was younger. then I grew up that when I got older. but yeah it's not a bad thing it's not a good thing.
@kinggabanna6689
@kinggabanna6689 3 жыл бұрын
Wealth mindset let’s keep going 💪🏽💯
@zuriiiii77
@zuriiiii77 2 жыл бұрын
Actually you can change your face shape by working out or surgery
@sanjanewmoonlife
@sanjanewmoonlife Жыл бұрын
I don't have chemistry with everything and everyone,with some people or men I feel stressful,nervous,cold,boring,mad sick.
@sheldoncooper8199
@sheldoncooper8199 2 жыл бұрын
Here is Something weird and i think This is REALLY True. Young Women look for Men that have the personality of their Father. And Young Men look for women that have similar Looks and personality of their mother.
@bryanmccallum4614
@bryanmccallum4614 3 жыл бұрын
Great video top think!
@georgezeros2318
@georgezeros2318 3 жыл бұрын
#4 Facial Similarity is basically saying you fall for people who look like you. So why, when you were picking the images to illustrate the couples did you pick a dark person to go with a light skinned person about 90% of the time? Top Think needs to think a lot more.
@agnieszkat3935
@agnieszkat3935 3 жыл бұрын
Because it’s about similarity of facial features (shape of face , eyes, nose). It has zero to do with color of skin.
@georgezeros2318
@georgezeros2318 3 жыл бұрын
@@agnieszkat3935 Nonwhite people don't generally have the same facial features as white people. And the category is Facial Similarity not Facial Feature.
@janetwebster6782
@janetwebster6782 Жыл бұрын
Tell me you're a racist without telling me you're a racist
@rhayman4709
@rhayman4709 2 жыл бұрын
"You can't change the shape of your face." Gen-z/millennial/kardashian "hold my beer"
@silkroad1201
@silkroad1201 3 жыл бұрын
I'm attracted to everyone and everything. Including YOU reading this comment. Sup dashing 😘
@chooseyourself4821
@chooseyourself4821 3 жыл бұрын
😉
@amberwilson5769
@amberwilson5769 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@arenagrenade9672
@arenagrenade9672 3 жыл бұрын
Awwwwwww
@zamoraobed
@zamoraobed 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this channel!
@amelorins
@amelorins 2 жыл бұрын
Looks is very subjective. Your solid 10 could be 5 to me.
@JelinaHavanaSergioLopez
@JelinaHavanaSergioLopez 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting video sir. Now I have an idea.
@thandomathanda3201
@thandomathanda3201 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the videos😃🙂
@christybahiwag9183
@christybahiwag9183 Жыл бұрын
Very well said
@leagirma9477
@leagirma9477 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@susansharp112
@susansharp112 2 жыл бұрын
I never chose partner that looks like me. NEVER
@cindyfuller8556
@cindyfuller8556 2 жыл бұрын
Women fall in love with their ears, while men fall in love with their eyes.
@sinyandanso9552
@sinyandanso9552 Жыл бұрын
Good very interesting
@dmtdreamz7706
@dmtdreamz7706 2 жыл бұрын
Just sit there to contemplate it all after you come back because you're gonna see such crazy and radical things in these trips. That when you come back you're gonna be like what the fuck was that? And you're gonna spend a week just in the shower, what the fuck was that? Cooking your food, what the fuck was that? Driving to work, what the fuck was that? Sitting at work doing your work, what the fuck was that? Thinking that. Trying to wrap your mind around it. Try to remember and trying to figure it out and that's a very valuable process.
@SelainaAheto-gg7yq
@SelainaAheto-gg7yq 8 ай бұрын
Them: what's your type.😅 Me: NOT YOU😋
@sheldoncooper8199
@sheldoncooper8199 2 жыл бұрын
I really like the Animations Style of this i dont know Why.
@Yellamiami
@Yellamiami 3 жыл бұрын
no money, no body ,I am funny lol thats all I got *_*
@austinsy8056
@austinsy8056 2 жыл бұрын
I have a random question but why do women and men usually go for the gangster attitude type of guy and bad girl types? Why do a lot of young women aged 18-25 date guys that use the slang to refer to their woman as the b word? I think it’s absolutely disrespectful the people my age refer to women as the b word. I obey the law and don’t have a criminal record at all and stay out of trouble. my family has told me i look very attractive and could be a model. Why don’t any men or women my age 18-23 ever compliment me in public? I have an emo look like johnnie guilbert but that doesn’t seem to get any chicks/dudes to simp on me? And i have been rejected a few times why would people reject someone who looks very attractive? I was approaching them respectfully and smiling and they never seem to wanna go out why? Are most women really picky? Why don’t they go for the good looking men that don’t act gangster?
@vrcatlady7227
@vrcatlady7227 3 жыл бұрын
No amount of stylish clothes can fix a big nose and teeth gap. But money can. ☺
@divyac7782
@divyac7782 2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much loved it....
@rsatcliff
@rsatcliff 3 жыл бұрын
Why BMWF? Just why? Was it really needed here?
@johnhynes7891
@johnhynes7891 10 ай бұрын
Hate the subliminal "wokism" in couple images ......
@yellow_bell_pepper
@yellow_bell_pepper 2 жыл бұрын
I tend to fall for very different people from me
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