15 Things You Should Never Apologize For

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@davinacollins1941
@davinacollins1941 5 жыл бұрын
Never apologies for telling the truth especially to the evil MF's that enter your life.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Or your appearance!
@Javy_Valen_Tain
@Javy_Valen_Tain 5 жыл бұрын
That's hard
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
@@Javy_Valen_Tain I could tell you what else is hard,but it would be a breach of protocol💉🍌✨
@darlinbpeaceful2731
@darlinbpeaceful2731 5 жыл бұрын
Omg could agree with you more 👍 👍!!!😇
@jaycruz8792
@jaycruz8792 5 жыл бұрын
You got It right..Daniel. Orlando
@coachbahman
@coachbahman 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t apologize for who you are.
@lmj7638
@lmj7638 5 жыл бұрын
Your Favorite Lifecoach - yes I think of frank TJ Mackey from “ magnolia “ when he says “ I will not apologize for who I am. I will not apologize for what I want ; what I need” :)
@Wolfrage76
@Wolfrage76 5 жыл бұрын
Always be a original, no a copy.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Or what you say on this site!
@classicnobody9872
@classicnobody9872 5 жыл бұрын
Dude I always do that I apologise for having mental disorders
@dayondastribling5080
@dayondastribling5080 5 жыл бұрын
¡¡¡ AMEN !!!
@curtistinemiller1560
@curtistinemiller1560 5 жыл бұрын
Don't apologize for living your life on your terms.........
@lukebullard6495
@lukebullard6495 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@marinettedupaincheng4749
@marinettedupaincheng4749 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@donnacollins4361
@donnacollins4361 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I needed this
@susanmoran5226
@susanmoran5226 4 жыл бұрын
That is right. If you do not fit into someone else's mould you just don't.
@EBUNNY2012
@EBUNNY2012 5 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for defending your reputation. Ever.
@YanaRose1998
@YanaRose1998 5 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%.
@judykowalski3256
@judykowalski3256 5 жыл бұрын
@@YanaRose1998 frm judy.i agree also!
@lawyerjituburman1527
@lawyerjituburman1527 5 жыл бұрын
Never but ..if worthy of paying back more.... time demands
@pandoraw259
@pandoraw259 5 жыл бұрын
I've been apologizing my whole life.
@peacock8394
@peacock8394 5 жыл бұрын
Reputation doesn't matter, one's character does.
@hoasam372
@hoasam372 5 жыл бұрын
I never gonna apologize for standing up for myself and defending myself. 😏😊😁👏👍💯
@pandoraw259
@pandoraw259 5 жыл бұрын
wish I could say the same
@anngenettekennedy5328
@anngenettekennedy5328 4 жыл бұрын
Yes.🖤
@nandlabh6349
@nandlabh6349 3 жыл бұрын
U dont have to but if one is in the wrong then there is a need 4 apology
@krllt937
@krllt937 5 жыл бұрын
Cutting ties with a toxic family member
@elonmust8859
@elonmust8859 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that i did not do it years sooner.
@vanessa12342able
@vanessa12342able 5 жыл бұрын
So glad I cut ties too.
@lash826
@lash826 5 жыл бұрын
This is a painful one, but true..
@jesussmokesweed8178
@jesussmokesweed8178 5 жыл бұрын
Sad but true 💔
@fiortineo3388
@fiortineo3388 5 жыл бұрын
I am working on that sad part my brother n mother dearest are so toxic. they put me in mental institutions for money
@emerald3970
@emerald3970 5 жыл бұрын
Manipulators always make others feel guilty & give you the urge to apologize for their own faults. Then, they use your apologies as formal confessions and evidences to make you a scapegoat. So even if it is your fault, think twice before apologizing if you suspect your words may get twisted and used against you later.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Should be ashamed,for annoying others intentionally!
@YanaRose1998
@YanaRose1998 5 жыл бұрын
True...
@judykowalski3256
@judykowalski3256 5 жыл бұрын
So true frm judy
@DarkCeleste1260
@DarkCeleste1260 5 жыл бұрын
Manipulators Asian parents : ;-; Younger children’s : ;--; Life: is fucccdd
@shawnasatchell8897
@shawnasatchell8897 5 жыл бұрын
I know all about that.
@xtechtips152
@xtechtips152 5 жыл бұрын
16. Don't apologize if you've already apologized..
@humanbeing8531
@humanbeing8531 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@3martiniplaydate
@3martiniplaydate 5 жыл бұрын
AMEN TO THAT!!!! 🍸🍸🍸
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Be who you are no warts here!
@narendrakumandan
@narendrakumandan 5 жыл бұрын
No. There is a point in it. Some people over do it. Apologizing too many times is, a, bad sign. It might appear as desperation to pacify the relation. Perhaps this is, what the voice over meant to convey.
@ayeshashaikh8855
@ayeshashaikh8855 5 жыл бұрын
Actually! 👍
@shivamaraj7055
@shivamaraj7055 5 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for telling the truth 👍
@elonmust8859
@elonmust8859 5 жыл бұрын
Say sorry that i told the Truth. lol
@judykowalski3256
@judykowalski3256 5 жыл бұрын
Shiva maraj frm judy.u should always tell the.truthnno matter what.😃👍👍
@msg3tr1ght
@msg3tr1ght 5 жыл бұрын
It depends on how sincere the apology is, sometimes I’m sorry is not enough. Actions must follow
@lauradunn4041
@lauradunn4041 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I tod the truth and people stopped talking to me because they can't handle the truth.
@robertfrate6665
@robertfrate6665 5 жыл бұрын
Laura Dunn hi lura, these people are not worth your time! You deserve better,
@lauran2488
@lauran2488 5 жыл бұрын
This could be titled, “15 Things You Don’t Need to Feel Ashamed of” because it’s the shame that leads to the apology
@newandoldtech5634
@newandoldtech5634 5 жыл бұрын
Must distiguish between guilt and shame. Guilt is for something you have done, shame is for who you are. See narcissism.
@peacock8394
@peacock8394 5 жыл бұрын
@Matt Ludwig . narcissists never change or heal, they'll die that way. We should accept them the way they're and decide what to do accordingly.
@DD-xt6vo
@DD-xt6vo 4 жыл бұрын
Apology can come from empathy, realisation of being mistaken, in error, unthinkingness. Some people are just better avoided and therefore no need to apologise them. An apology can simply be a request to start again re-negotiate, compromise. Good objectives to seek with good people.
@shubhtripathi6725
@shubhtripathi6725 5 жыл бұрын
No need to apologise for ending a toxic relationship or the relationship without hope. ♥️
@tecklatibila6400
@tecklatibila6400 5 жыл бұрын
So true
@unleashingpotential-psycho9433
@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for someone having a bad day if you’re not the one who is causing it. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@nancystclair1376
@nancystclair1376 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah some people are just miserable. You know what they say, misery wants company.
@mostlycloudy5127
@mostlycloudy5127 5 жыл бұрын
UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS why I literally see you everywhere dude?
@pennydrake5585
@pennydrake5585 5 жыл бұрын
I feel when your having a bad & you apologize, I apologize so you know & feel We relate. I need you to know that I understand!
@amberholland8683
@amberholland8683 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying that, for real i need to hear that,
@Alpha125
@Alpha125 5 жыл бұрын
I see this channel everywhere
@BrainyDose
@BrainyDose 5 жыл бұрын
UPDATE (July 2019) - We are monetized again! 🙂 Thank you all for your support and wonderful messages! It means a lot to us. We are still trying to resolve this demonetization issue with KZbin… But, we will do our best to post at least once a week until everything gets sorted out. In the meantime, if you can, PLEASE keep tweeting @TeamKZbin on our behalf. Let them know how you feel about this channel.
@d3ltaking419
@d3ltaking419 5 жыл бұрын
BRAINY DOSE keep up the great work and don’t stop 🛑 glade to see another video posted.
@stephenyoung2920
@stephenyoung2920 5 жыл бұрын
Very Informative! I love it!
@worldsbeauty5876
@worldsbeauty5876 5 жыл бұрын
Feel so good... but wanna see the person behind this beautiful voice... At least his name? 🙂
@margaretswartz3348
@margaretswartz3348 3 жыл бұрын
Why would they do that?
@arcadeguy781
@arcadeguy781 5 жыл бұрын
I've apologized for my past. I'm glad that you mentioned that. I think I apologize too much.
@StyleViewStudio
@StyleViewStudio 5 жыл бұрын
...You only apologize when you made an honest mistake about something...I just say "My mistake"....and MOVE ON. There is nothing more annoying than someone who apologizes about everything........🙄... Great eyeopener videos! Thank you,
@danielmuliira5363
@danielmuliira5363 3 жыл бұрын
When I look back on my life I feel like I needed guidance but I didn't have because I was abandoned at very young age. Wish some one had been there to guide but thanks to this channel I am learning every day on what to do and what no to do. Thank you to this channel.
@marijkevandermeer2772
@marijkevandermeer2772 5 жыл бұрын
When people do not move along with you, they must be OUT of your life.....
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
Who apologizes for needing help...should appreciate that the person was willing to help you out !!
@nihadlasmeur5611
@nihadlasmeur5611 5 жыл бұрын
True ! I have a friend that whenever helps me I say sorry he says I would like a thank you instead 😂
@gocoyle5560
@gocoyle5560 5 жыл бұрын
People who are embarrassed about asking, or want to look embarrassed, cuz let's face the truth a person that's embarrassed to ask for help isn't going to ask for help. When I first moved to the city and I was homeless, I just couldn't ask people for money I couldn't beg, that's just not how I am. I worked I even sold things I found in the garbage. But I just couldn't ask people for handouts.
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
I have Epilepsy and when I have a seizures in public...when I'm asked do I need help. I say " No but thank you anyways"...its just being nice !!
@Vyjayanthi41
@Vyjayanthi41 5 жыл бұрын
It is a great list! perhaps people should not apologize for changing their minds either. No one should want to control you or program you in some way.
@freethinker1970
@freethinker1970 5 жыл бұрын
never apologize to rude costumers! 😂 if you want to get fired! 😂
@mumbus272
@mumbus272 5 жыл бұрын
Customers should never apologise to rude Pakistani or Indians or middle Eastern people who own gas stations or convenience stores
@jessicaauguste5743
@jessicaauguste5743 5 жыл бұрын
Fine by me , I could go back to school and get a better job.
@katharinesoriano3113
@katharinesoriano3113 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t care if I get fired but not apologizing to rude customers or rude people.
@angelwings7930
@angelwings7930 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes “rude” customers actually have valid points. Usually if you listen to their concerns and remain respectful things work out.
@butternutyeeetsbanana.-.5389
@butternutyeeetsbanana.-.5389 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t apologies from where your from or what you believe in.
@neilparmar5705
@neilparmar5705 5 жыл бұрын
Lilly Eatsbananas agreed. That's a big part of you.
@nunyabizwax2298
@nunyabizwax2298 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t apologise but keep an open mind. This channel helps a lot recently, I only hope I can put this to practice.
@rosiestewart870
@rosiestewart870 5 жыл бұрын
words i needed to hear ! i have ended a few toxic relationships, but always feel guilty. the last one was almost impossible, due to both of us belonging to the same organization. now, she's in a nursing home. that's not my fault, but i don't plan to visit her. that might sound cold, but i just don't need the stress.
@loganadams7401
@loganadams7401 5 жыл бұрын
I will stand up for myself when I think I've been wronged. I don't feel bad for people not understanding what I'm about. Life is a journey, not a race. I felt bad for a little bit. Because I felt sorry for them. That's why I apologized. It wasn't for me. Thank you for the video these help teach me when it serves me to be better. I hope they don't demonize this channel or video. That upsets me. I as a human always want to be a better person.
@msleny6767
@msleny6767 5 жыл бұрын
Finally Brainy Dose is back, this is the greatest video and it fall right in time. Never apologise for who you are, for thats who you are and what you have and why you are are doing it; people aren't same at all; our difference make who we are not similarities
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't apologize for your appearance....it's just how you wanted to dress.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
You could be right🙅🙅🎅
@elonmust8859
@elonmust8859 5 жыл бұрын
I look like Peter Sutcliff with my Beard lol but that does not make me a Serial Killer. Unless i want a Bowl of Corn Flakes.
@susanmoran5226
@susanmoran5226 4 жыл бұрын
I have a disability. I do not apologise for that.
@ChessMasteryOfficial
@ChessMasteryOfficial 5 жыл бұрын
*Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. ₩*
@mainecoon5459
@mainecoon5459 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly it's true....
@mw2sd488
@mw2sd488 5 жыл бұрын
Its not inevitable but there is undirect relation between them usually people who suffer have a higher chance to be depressed/etc and people who are depressed/etc have higher chances to be deep hearted/intelligence All what i want to say is they are not inevitable Its all about chances Some traits(for example depression) make your chance to get another trait(for example being emotionally cold) higher and this combined make your chance to get another trait higher This is how i think about these topics
@susanmoran5226
@susanmoran5226 4 жыл бұрын
Just get used to it. I will not be there forever. Your darkest hour is only 60 minutes long.
@chestervillaruel6565
@chestervillaruel6565 5 жыл бұрын
You are the master of your life.
@donnacollins4361
@donnacollins4361 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@cherylchewilliams5040
@cherylchewilliams5040 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this list bc I hear people apologizing for others all the time and I dont know why? It's not their job?! I think it shows that they are uncomfortable with whatever negative feelings are leftover? They should just learn to accept them , it is part of growing up!
@nainahasan7825
@nainahasan7825 5 жыл бұрын
Well i apologise a lot...... But now I understand that apologising also reflects ourselves and it's not just a word to say to others for their satisfaction.... Thank you.
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
Reason ppl get mad when you give your honest opinion...cuz they just can't handle the actual plain truth.
@aliciawrightph.d.8951
@aliciawrightph.d.8951 5 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY❗❗❗❗❗
@pennydrake5585
@pennydrake5585 5 жыл бұрын
It's out of pure honesty called respect in my book.
@Huonous
@Huonous 5 жыл бұрын
Actually, often it's not the truth people can't handle, but the way they're treated because of it. For example if you point out something negative about someone, instead of feeling bad about the fact, they might feel bad because (they think that) you judge them. Most people want to be accepted and respected. If you can do that while stating a fact, they aren't that likely to get mad at you even if the fact isn't likeable.
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
I hear it alot...everytime I give ppl my honest truth. They call me rude, mean or evil....!! Dont say you want my honest truth/opinion, then when I give it call me mean, rude or evil.
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
Like the saying goes " Honesty is the best policy "...!!
@dejanu8763
@dejanu8763 5 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video on what you should apologize for and what you shouldn't very much. It was very helpful!
@danielmuliira5363
@danielmuliira5363 3 жыл бұрын
I just keep coming back here for reassurance. Theses videos are gold. Thanks
@sherryhutchison4765
@sherryhutchison4765 5 жыл бұрын
I had a rift with my daughter and although I told the truth I apologized! In stead of helping she proceeded to tell me what I could no longer talk about and we are now estranged. I have a granddaughter that I won’t see but presumably I will be able to send her gifts!
@susanmoreland2671
@susanmoreland2671 5 жыл бұрын
With God...only you can give yourself everything!!!🤗
@GoodVideos4
@GoodVideos4 5 жыл бұрын
Probably need to watch this video a few times, to absorb it all.
@reneelouiseazzopardi2073
@reneelouiseazzopardi2073 5 жыл бұрын
This is me !! One person said, "...if... Renee "...you are sorry about everything Renee then you should be sorry about living or existing.. it is not right but have to STOP doing this. Btw..it may be right, in saying people seeing, "over-apologising" as a weakness. It is clearly not. Just lets the world know we are human and have a thing called feelings or e emotions. Thank you (again!) for making this vid! Loved it ! x
@jackieedwards-henry8315
@jackieedwards-henry8315 5 жыл бұрын
So true,and some of these remain challenging. Thank you for the video. This is so important for personal growth and quality relationships.
@marijkevandermeer2772
@marijkevandermeer2772 5 жыл бұрын
Or leave the organisation or entity where you experience negativity or downward diminishing of your person or personality....
@humairasheikh9203
@humairasheikh9203 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome video as always. All the points well explained and presented. These are things we should remember as often toxic people want us to apologize for these things. We should not actually.
@phamiegowartist
@phamiegowartist 5 жыл бұрын
This is an excellent list! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
I think change is good...sometimes change can really help.
@ericgreen4610
@ericgreen4610 4 жыл бұрын
I love standing up for myself and putting people in check for their behavior and I never apologize for that. What I feel is what I feel and it should be respected. If I feel a certain kind of way I'm gonna speak on it. How others feel about it is irrelevant to me. If people learn to take accountability for the things that they do and say and be aware of how it affects others around them, the better off they will be and just for once apologize for it.
@lokeshwarigowda6602
@lokeshwarigowda6602 5 жыл бұрын
I just want to say you are a great channel. You give really good tips and explanation 😊😊
@Jesus_is_KingofKings
@Jesus_is_KingofKings 5 жыл бұрын
Oriya
@Ben-do5vf
@Ben-do5vf 2 жыл бұрын
Great video, thanks. I had to keep rewinding this video because it really got me thinking about myself as well as past & potential future situations where I apologized when it wasn't necessary. 🤗
@atuhurraannet2864
@atuhurraannet2864 5 жыл бұрын
I used to apologise for most of these points, and now I understand what to do.
@bonniekonjevich7574
@bonniekonjevich7574 5 жыл бұрын
THIS VINDICATION IS JUST WHAT SOME OF US NEED. BRAVO!
@lillolf3758
@lillolf3758 5 жыл бұрын
YES, THANKS! So often we tend to apologize to hurry thru a situation without really addressing what actually happened. It's jUST AS IMPORTANT TO KNOW WHEN NOT TO... AS IT IS TO KNOW WHEN TO!
@itsjustian8484
@itsjustian8484 5 жыл бұрын
I had a friend that I had feelings for, and when I would tell her, I'd end up apologizing to her. I would apologize because I knew the feelings weren't mutual.
@gocoyle5560
@gocoyle5560 5 жыл бұрын
Reject Ted , then you know it's wrong.It will cause u nothing but constant and endless pain. There are a few people in my life who absolutely adore me, two are former customers, I need them to buy my goods not love me. One- sided relationships never work, they're just Bottomless Pits of pain. I was in a relationship 3 years ago with somebody I liked way way more, we were intimate but I was the only one willing to share money. Eventually I realized it was just a game to them. Sometimes we're attracted to people we can't have to prove our worth. Don't do it to yourself. It's a common love trap many people fall into. Rejection raises a person's perceived value. You told her how you feel ,keep it moving. Keep your self respect. Maybe the next one will love you for it. Much Beauty can come from a sacrifice.
@bugeye8749
@bugeye8749 5 жыл бұрын
U need to take that loser inside of u n beat the shit out of it
@jamiegarrity6439
@jamiegarrity6439 5 жыл бұрын
Don't let yourself become a scapegoat. for me it started in jr. high school and has off and on to this day kept me from feeling comfortable with being myself.
@DD-xt6vo
@DD-xt6vo 4 жыл бұрын
Jamie, just be yourself,your best self, as that is the best anyone can be, as that is your peak and no one (not even Jr H.Sch colleagues) can do any better than their peak. Life is made up of hills and mountains, we all start as hills and have to build our skills, experiences & opportunities to become mountains. No one starts at the top.
@BrotherTree1
@BrotherTree1 5 жыл бұрын
4:45 - taking time out for yourself. This is a big one amongst friends and family. Some treat you unfairly and impose guilt for you for doing so, eg. You're selfish and don't care about others... which is complete nonsense. It doesn't mean that all. Just because you are one thing, doesn't necessarily mean you are then the complete and utter opposite to that thing.
@sandyvanperson3401
@sandyvanperson3401 5 жыл бұрын
I was helping out at a huge dinner for a friend, not being told that the garbage disposal didn't work I was letting scraps go down it. The man I was assisting grew angered I stated had you told me the disposal was broke/ not working I would have refrained from using it. I felt NO NEED to say sorry. Had I been told common since says dont use do it.
@tessocampo9968
@tessocampo9968 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I understood & agree with most of them, however, if sometimes you stay quiet about something you believed in, some friends take it offensively, as if you're shutting them out, well, but thanks, I gained a better way of looking at things..God bless.
@wildwoman4911
@wildwoman4911 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent! An excellent affirmations/responses for me to use! Thank you!
@susanmoran5226
@susanmoran5226 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, standing up for yourself is a human right. No body as the right to treat you wrong. You are not a toilet, you are a precious human being.
@ileanahope466
@ileanahope466 5 жыл бұрын
Don't apologize for believing in God and being religious.
@becker2278
@becker2278 5 жыл бұрын
Ileana Hope good! 👏 those who don't believe or think different don't apologize to believers like you either.
@grond348
@grond348 5 жыл бұрын
never seen someone having to apologize for believing in god
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Show me proof about god⛪✝
@becker2278
@becker2278 5 жыл бұрын
halcion cocaine no one needs to show you evidence about God. If you don't believe in him, that's your personal criteria. Why anyone should prove you something that you "know " (supposedly) that doesn't exist?
@becker2278
@becker2278 5 жыл бұрын
M Cursed everybody, either in one way or another, try to impose their convictions. Either consciously or unconsciously. Don't you?
@alicebaldemoro2166
@alicebaldemoro2166 5 жыл бұрын
Things I should learn and relearn over and over again
@masalakinkela4940
@masalakinkela4940 5 жыл бұрын
Alice Baldemoro you look so pretty
@lydiafo1
@lydiafo1 5 жыл бұрын
I apologize to much but I recently learned not to , at least for the things that don’t need apology, and this is a very good list ,
@deirdrestewart4394
@deirdrestewart4394 5 жыл бұрын
Great vid ! True never apologize for who you are or dampen your truth even if people dont like it or cant accept it standing up for what is right never be predictable for others to take advantage of whatever the situation staying focused and being true to our purpose in life!
@sassykozak9668
@sassykozak9668 5 жыл бұрын
I’m Canadian we say sorry for everything 😂😂😂♥️🙏🏻🇨🇦
@eshamukherjee5538
@eshamukherjee5538 5 жыл бұрын
Great list! Learn the art of detaching yourself from you and seeing things. If someone else would have done what you did, and you'd be mad at them, then probably you should apologize too. Don't have double standards! That when u do something u don't feel the need to apologise but when someone else does that you get mad! Have a great day guys 😊
@jillfraser2749
@jillfraser2749 5 жыл бұрын
This is an excellent list I wish I had these tips under my belt when I was younger, I had to learn by my mistakes and even then it took learning about narcissism and empathy to put things in perspective, only a couple of years ago. I'm a lot better for knowing how people can make you feel how everything is your fault ♥️
@becker2278
@becker2278 5 жыл бұрын
jill fraser i went through t same. Therefore, u r not t only wun.
@cstevens8788
@cstevens8788 5 жыл бұрын
I learned from years in AL-ANON no one makes you feel guilty. That’s on me. What did I do to feel guilty? I did much & had to change my way. Once I cut myself some slack & realized only I can be the best person I can, I felt free. Stay true to yourself, mistakes & all the good you tried even if you screwed up often. We are all worthy of respect for ourselves. I remain a work in progress but aren’t we all? Hugs❣️😄
@marilynbennett9649
@marilynbennett9649 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Thank you. Certainly reminded me to kick some automatic apology habits that I have. Surely gonna remedy those.
@therisingrainbow251
@therisingrainbow251 5 жыл бұрын
Omg, #13 I had to apologize for seeing the Dr and as a result for a rehearsal. Which made me mad that someone told me to be on time when the person in charge knew. I said, ”I am sorry my health is my top priority, and it is your last priority and go mind your own business.”
@michelleparsons8775
@michelleparsons8775 3 жыл бұрын
I apologized to my adult children for having an episode of depression after I left my husband. It left me feeling invalidated and like a failure. I will never do it again
@schmalzilla1985
@schmalzilla1985 4 жыл бұрын
Don't apologize if you're not sorry. A thoughtless sorry has as much worth, as not even saying it.
@finnielu
@finnielu 4 жыл бұрын
My opinion on No. 4 being honest: People don't actually ask for an "honest opinion", they ask for "recognition". That's why that got upset. Besides, your honesty and your truth not necessarily other's truth. I would say: no need to apologize, no need to feel guilty, but do have compassion for others.
@truelily7
@truelily7 4 жыл бұрын
Really hurtful when people hold your past against you that happened before they were born, that they couldn't possibly understand, and that has nothing to do with them.
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 5 жыл бұрын
I see this all the time ppl saying " I apologize for his/her actions/attitude..!! "...that person should apologize for his/her actions or attitude. Not another person...!!
@natashaevsimon1441
@natashaevsimon1441 5 жыл бұрын
I agree fully with this. Know your worth
@patrickmullen2657
@patrickmullen2657 5 жыл бұрын
This is a great list, and in some situations where someone is trying to dominate you by nullifying your logic with contrived emotional situations towards you a true Christian with talk, a few of these points can manifest on a singular manipulation situation
@jd-lo5ie
@jd-lo5ie 5 жыл бұрын
I agree !! I been saved !! Amen
@taddeojudemugagga2306
@taddeojudemugagga2306 4 жыл бұрын
I surely agree, thanks
@katharinesoriano3113
@katharinesoriano3113 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t apologize for being direct and honest. I also don’t apologize for other behaviors and I don’t apologize for asking clarification or for help.
@Angell_Lee
@Angell_Lee 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!
@saritkumar9351
@saritkumar9351 5 жыл бұрын
I used to apologize to people for petty reasons in my life too. Now, first I completely analyse the situation and if I'd done anything wrong, then only I apologize.
@moonseed209
@moonseed209 5 жыл бұрын
Don't apologize when your not wrong even when that toxic person tries to convince you that your wrong
@saritkumar9351
@saritkumar9351 5 жыл бұрын
Finally, you guys are back with more interesting videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@livluv987
@livluv987 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct.Great video loved 💙👍👍👍 thank you. 🌹
@renheirangjam8332
@renheirangjam8332 5 жыл бұрын
It was worth to learn ..thank you
@zakithiganyaza9168
@zakithiganyaza9168 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this 🙌 today now
@artspeaksart4hearts443
@artspeaksart4hearts443 4 жыл бұрын
Great thanks so much for sharing this information, so much help
@edratompson1811
@edratompson1811 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much...from today onwards m not sorry fo standing up fo MYSELF
@earthchild04
@earthchild04 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with this list 100%.
@sarahhurst140
@sarahhurst140 2 жыл бұрын
Great list! Your content is awesomely reassuring & inspiring!💜🌍
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 жыл бұрын
This was a great video. In the UK, people apologise far too much, it's ingrained into the culture. Hope the situation with monetization has improved
@BrainyDose
@BrainyDose 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Unfortunately, we are still demonetized.
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 жыл бұрын
@@BrainyDose hope it gets sorted soon
@KM-oh5ob
@KM-oh5ob 5 жыл бұрын
Really? Brits don’t apologise! They’re too arrogant to apologise and think they’re better than everyone!
@bettyemachetetmi5005
@bettyemachetetmi5005 5 жыл бұрын
I have a problem with the over politeness and I am not a typical American. I read this comment and I remember the way that I am mistaken for a British citizen who has been raised in the States or a Canadian when I am working on tour in Europe as a musician. .. I'll be doing whatever the way I am and I guess I am not as.... ass out loud about life as most Americans? I don't smile much, I'm kinda quiet, and I have no use for ketchup. Or ice. I don't expect everything to be a McDonald's or ask for people to "Talk American," oh my God the cat is having kittens.... in my bed.
@fmjjjjn7510
@fmjjjjn7510 5 жыл бұрын
I live in London and that doesn't happen all the time, most of the people in my area are quiet and nice but when u get into town, most of the people are assholes.
@ta3970
@ta3970 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I am coming out of apologizing for things I didnt even do.
@peaceout5191
@peaceout5191 5 жыл бұрын
**D🚫N'T APOLOGIZE FOR SERVING YOUR LIFE PURPOSE souls mission!**
@anee7163
@anee7163 3 жыл бұрын
Your channel is worth watching I have been developed so many useful personality traits in me after learning from you. Thank you so much ! ❤
@damonrjoseph3012
@damonrjoseph3012 3 жыл бұрын
Another great video great practical advice.
@darlenesmith3881
@darlenesmith3881 3 жыл бұрын
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@sylviaa4378
@sylviaa4378 3 жыл бұрын
These are really good videos. Thank you.
@damonjoseph1825
@damonjoseph1825 5 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in this video
@lyndsaymcgregor9529
@lyndsaymcgregor9529 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I really appreciated the video!!
@babydollm2571
@babydollm2571 5 жыл бұрын
People normally apologize when they feel they’ve done something wrong or bad.If you’re not remorseful don’t apologize.Especially if you’re not to blame.If you ARE to blame,apologize sincerely from your heart and move on.Dont Keep apologizing for it.
@dimbulb1178
@dimbulb1178 5 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for unintentionally farting. Just say "excuse me."
@graciekerr3137
@graciekerr3137 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@miss.conduct8083
@miss.conduct8083 5 жыл бұрын
Don't apologize because you are sick - I felt that! I have Neurological Lyme disease. Last weekend my family took an impromptu trip to our place at the Lake. 2 years ago, my life took a completely unexpected turn. After surviving a coma and all the other hellish things I go through like lumbar punctures, Neruo & Rheumatology appts I am not the same, stay up until 3 party girl. While I have finally reached stage 5 of grief: Acceptance, accepting that there is no cure however, there is maintenance! And maintenance for me looks like a whole lotta laying down. I don't want to lay down or sleep? I want to be like my old self - and party!! Which is the direction I'm taking this.. We have friends down there whom I adore! But, I am not the same woman they met. The husband actually said "I think you just come down here to sleep!" 😶 I didn't say anything.. Luckily, my husband is my biggest advocate and supporter. He replied in a very dignified manner and said "Well is that so bad? We came down here by ourselves. We didn't have plans with you two or anyone else? As her friends, understanding why she goes to lay down so she has the mental fortitude and physical wellbeing to actually be her silly, carefree self and have fun later is a benefit to us all." I couldn't be more proud and in love with this man🥰 We don't fake being sick, we fake being well, very well. No one would ever choose to be sick!? Wtf? If you're reading my post this far, I hope this has come across as a teachable moment and perhaps given you some insight on those with invisible illnesses. ~♡~ All My Love, -M
@mingli862
@mingli862 4 жыл бұрын
Being sick! I worry about it ,but no need to say sorry! That’s really good!
@PureWater-w7c
@PureWater-w7c 5 жыл бұрын
I really need to take care of myself and be kind to myself, first. Thanks guys.
@mikemcclure9918
@mikemcclure9918 5 жыл бұрын
I always feel the need to apologise for anything and everything that I do, whether I need to or not. Because I feel that everything I do is wrong according to some so called professionals I never do anything right.
@leylapsni348
@leylapsni348 5 жыл бұрын
I always tell the truth, but most of people dont like that and even they make me feel guilty!
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