Hello Aluxers! What do you think is the best piece of advice for getting through a divorce? Mind Mastery: www.alux.com/meditation Get a free audiobook thanks to Audible: www.alux.com/freebook Thanks to our friends at Audible! 15 REASONS Why 50 Percent of Marriages End in DIVORCE: kzbin.info/www/bejne/maikppyuaLJ9rK8
@cata92843 жыл бұрын
Depends whether there are kids involved, how old they are and context of the relationship/marriage.
@sophiacousins96033 жыл бұрын
@+1 415 6 8 8 7 3 5 3
@noelafflick99453 жыл бұрын
To be certain of your own emotions n not that of others be clear in a subjective term on thy planned destination. And do it for only thyself
@serena57.48 Жыл бұрын
I want to tell everyone in this situation, Don't blame yourself for your (ex)/spouse behavior. My husband cheated on me multiple times too. I forgave too much and tolerated it for too long and the lying was just insane. Am glad am not in it anymore because I would have lost my mind. I felt depressed and the thought of hardship but am not gonna give up on myself, I was lucky to meet a woman who helped me building the little finance I could get off from the marriage during separation. Now am a single mom with healthy kids, who are enjoying their best life. I remember my ex husband threatening me that I can never make it without him, it's been 18 months. Am glad to prove him wrong !!!
@stephaniefythm Жыл бұрын
I went through a lot of financial crisis during my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.
@eadad4371 Жыл бұрын
I'm a single dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated
@stephaniefythm Жыл бұрын
@@eadad4371 Generally, investing requires higher knowledge. For this reason, It's important to have a solid support structure (financial consultant) to guide you through especially in asset picking. I operate with (Regina Louise Collaro) an investment advisor who partners with a licensed wealth management firm. For the record, the experience has been the best for my finance.She is quite popular for her services so you might have heard of her. She made me financially stable investing through her help, now I earn on a monthly basis through her passive income strategy... So I’ll advise you do get a good Investment advisor for yourself.
@eadad4371 Жыл бұрын
@@stephaniefythm That’s great , your investment advisor must be really good,I have seen testimonies of people using the help of investment advisors in making them more financial stable. Do you mind sharing more info on this person?
@stephaniefythm Жыл бұрын
@@eadad4371 look her up on the internet and leave her a message she's quite popular for her services as she was recently featured on cnn. She can work with anyone irrespective of where their located
@emeldcentor1474 Жыл бұрын
@@stephaniefythm Just got out my marriage, I have had intentions of starting investing. But I always thought it was late and I think I need to stop procrastinating. I will definitely 🔍 Regina Louise Collaro and see what she can advise .Thanks a lot . This was of so much help to me .
@alexsimmons4693 Жыл бұрын
The person you marry is not the same person you divorce.
@charlesdial71524 ай бұрын
True that, because she is definitely not the same person that I married 23 years ago, now she has more confidence and lost some weight, and some dude has been trying to get at her for years and now she is tlking to him and I'm ready to roll out and get my own shit and be on my own and live alittle 💯
@1.5Koreans0.5American3 жыл бұрын
In Korea, we have a reality TV show called “We got divorced”. Real divorced couples stay together in a house for 3 days and it’s a great show. Most of the divorced couples get along really well. Especially when they have kids together. I learn a lot from that show.
@discoveringme9413 жыл бұрын
So you are in Korea right now?
@discoveringme9413 жыл бұрын
I ❤️ this comment
@nadirrabah67563 жыл бұрын
South Korea right? There are two of them!!!
@serischoice75753 жыл бұрын
Omg I'm gonna watch it now❤️
@brazookabroad3 жыл бұрын
Don`t drug, absolutely don`t drink, do physical exercises and sleep. Give it six months and you will realize how dumb you were to not have done it way before.
@theprimest3 жыл бұрын
If you're reading this you have the potential to create great things. Yes. You.
@Manuel-gu9ls3 жыл бұрын
Even in love?
@lawrenceomorodion69273 жыл бұрын
Amen¯\_༼ •́ ͜ʖ •̀ ༽_/¯
@nope30153 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, we have the potential for great things alright. And your narcissistic, vexatious, delusional ex and the divorce industrial complex will happily liberate a large chunk of these “great things” you’re able to do create any time it suits them. You can get divorced, but with the wrong ex, there could a state-sponsored financial, emotional terrorist at your door should you choose to do great things.
@Manuel-gu9ls3 жыл бұрын
@@nope3015 careful how you accomplish, anyone can leech off your well-being both financial & emotional if you’re too friendly and open to people who are your sources of success & happiness
@karenwoods14213 жыл бұрын
The Primest- The Money. Thank you so much for the positive thought I needed it tonight.
@untouchable360x3 жыл бұрын
16. Adopt the "Free Agent Lifestyle."
@ryannyamz14733 жыл бұрын
Coach Greg adams lol
@kabelogumani5283 жыл бұрын
I was just reading the Free Agent Lifestyle book and yeah marriage is a thorny issue
@xychoticbreak51983 жыл бұрын
Ah, I see you are a man of culture as well.
@kabelogumani5283 жыл бұрын
@@xychoticbreak5198 💯
@vishutdhar3 жыл бұрын
Yes sir
@charlest28583 жыл бұрын
If you meet someone whom you love more than he or she loves you then avoid marrying the person in the first place
@ashleybarnes49983 жыл бұрын
Investing is another lucrative way of making money.
@mirriansergi34983 жыл бұрын
Yeah sure, investing in silver are good but crypto is better😎
@andrewpeter14463 жыл бұрын
Crypto is the future 🚀🚀
@wayneb46273 жыл бұрын
I got 70% of my portfolio in crypto and I have been making good money
@Viktor-uf5pt3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to trade crypto but got confused by the fluctuations in price
@drrichards3733 жыл бұрын
I heard Mr Bruce strategies are good. I sometimes come across his page on telegram and Instagram.
@Kenan-gk7eh3 жыл бұрын
People will be kicking themselves in few weeks if they miss the opportunity to buy and invest in bitcoin
@jorgecory81363 жыл бұрын
BITCOIN: IS THE ONLY TRUE DEMOCRACY EVER EXISTS IN THE WORLD
@jameskai37853 жыл бұрын
Buy and invest in bitcoin and other cryptocurrency today!!!!
@kingstonleo24293 жыл бұрын
Crypto is the future, trading crypto has become a lucrative way of making money
@christophergaydon61283 жыл бұрын
Stock are good too
@dennisrblocker51673 жыл бұрын
@@christophergaydon6128 Stocks are good crypto is better
@CaseyBurnsInvesting3 жыл бұрын
When you get into a relationship you miss things about being single, when you first get out of a relationship you miss things about being in a relationship. Don’t forget the advantages of being single.
@dopemusic64143 жыл бұрын
Step 1 - Hire a hitman.
@SY-sp8uo3 жыл бұрын
Divorce is not so bad especially if this relationship is toxic and doesn't serve you anymore. Better alone than bad companied.
@Manuel-gu9ls3 жыл бұрын
Or better yet try to work out the difference and remove the toxicity within you before you lose the other
@discoveringme9413 жыл бұрын
Agreed only with last sentence
@shubhamgurav73 жыл бұрын
Alux lady, you okay?
@ryannyamz14733 жыл бұрын
How about 15 ways to not get married at all
@bella_oio3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@mgtow66833 жыл бұрын
50% of marriages end in divorce, 70% of them initiated by women. They get most of everything following the divorce, including the kids. Women get sole custody of the kids around 80% of the time, and the father loses almost all his rights to those children, except for the financial connection. Yet you blame men for refusing to play this rigged game?
@abhayshriab3 жыл бұрын
WOOHOO ,two videos in a day! And THEN the sunday motivational video tomorrow😉 can't wait,and thank you Alux!
@discoveringme9413 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha
@BasementBerean3 жыл бұрын
About 41 percent of FIRST marriages end in divorce, but MORE than 50% of second and subsequent marriages end divorce, so the overall average is about 50 percent, so it pays to get it right the first time.
@Je.rone_3 жыл бұрын
Planning ahead helps, Hope for the best prepare for the worse
@jennytan23013 жыл бұрын
Sowing good seeds as cause would result in marvelous fruits as effect. Giving away little would bring considerable in return.
@nadirrabah67563 жыл бұрын
Prenuptial agreements folks!!! Make him / her sign that sht!!!! If he / she really loves they'll sign it!!! If you have kids together / or adopted then it's totally different ball game.
@BasementBerean3 жыл бұрын
16. I went through my first (and last divorce since I'll never marry again) about five years ago. My best take-home lesson is to just not do anything stupid for the first year after the divorce. It's like a huge psychological and even spiritual wound, and like a physical wound it take time to heal. So, the best thing to do is often nothing unnecessary that would make it worse. I have a good relationship with my ex, but I NEVER want to be married again.
@HorseWaterDrink3 жыл бұрын
agree
@carojames67763 жыл бұрын
Sometimes once is enough.
@cryptoflippodcast3 жыл бұрын
*It's interesting that the divorce numbers are going up* But no one wants to get a prenup hmmm 😅😂
@didifx5093 жыл бұрын
If the video isn’t about finance i just don’t set my expectations too high up anymore. But i see where the problem is , it’s just that we don’t look at morality thru the same lens.
@eseimuededestiny8013 жыл бұрын
I agree with you concerning finance alux give arguably the best advice but on almost any other topic they are extremely biased
@normellow3 жыл бұрын
If you are recently divorced, go back to the person you were before you were married. Cheers
@aaravbharadwaj78443 жыл бұрын
I'm unmarried infact I haven't a gf but watch it 😂😂😂😂
@arb18973 жыл бұрын
U r not alone Brother......me too
@arb18973 жыл бұрын
Single Launde Zindabad 🤣✊
@aaravbharadwaj78443 жыл бұрын
@@arb1897 🤭🤭🤭😂😂😂😂
@aaravbharadwaj78443 жыл бұрын
@@arb1897 zindabad 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@arb18973 жыл бұрын
@@aaravbharadwaj7844 🤣✊👍
@x_master_xtop4103 жыл бұрын
#1. Don't get married in the first place
@SilentWarrior883 жыл бұрын
My divorce should be final in a couple weeks, and this video came at the right time. Thank you. I’m im pieces but forging ahead......at least trying to.
@businessgrowthsquare3 жыл бұрын
Hi dear, going through same thing now and wondering if the pain and agony will ever end. How do u feel now?
@khumothage46293 жыл бұрын
Step 1, get don't get married.
@c.12113 жыл бұрын
Step 2. Never ever get married.
@JayJay-ro3or3 жыл бұрын
I know this doesn't relate to this video, but pleeeaaassseeee make a video on the Gamestop situation if you can.
@cata92843 жыл бұрын
No chance or risk of getting divorced for, I will never get married 🤣🤣😂😂
@mars_z78513 жыл бұрын
17 year old me randomly seeing it because I thought it was about any businness
@discoveringme9413 жыл бұрын
What?
@carojames67763 жыл бұрын
Marriage/Divorce is a business good or bad.
@kabelogumani5283 жыл бұрын
I'm not married and never will
@khumothage46293 жыл бұрын
Nagana stress sa lenyalo ka 2021. 😂😂😂
@kabelogumani5283 жыл бұрын
@@khumothage4629 😁 you know ntwana. It just wouldn't work out
@jaybrown74343 жыл бұрын
Another great video from Alux. I didn’t see this topic coming but it’s very relevant. I’m divorced so my advice is to be careful who you marry. Think twice...consider a prenup if you have alot of assets....and even though opposites attract, do not marry your opposite. Marry someone with common interests, common values and similar goals.
@chapterupwellbeing75202 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear what you are went through. What's the hardest thing you are dealing with now ? Can i ask how you've tried to heal ? Anything you've tried isn't working ? Looking to find a professional to help with separation and divorce and a potential virtual group support session 🙂
@sebastiannunez80913 жыл бұрын
my sister got divorced and started suffering saying no one to take care of her but as soon as she started investing with David Macon, thing began to change drastically and now she is doing well and fine. i think that should b he best option for everyone.
@LTJuni0r3 жыл бұрын
1. Don’t get married.
@arunam6753 жыл бұрын
I am single, un married an more over an Indian i don't need it but still watched till the end
@arunam6753 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for it but I did not get it
@edercortes19603 жыл бұрын
Want to save 15 min of your time ....here it is kids Don’t Get Married. Don’t want to get screwed by the court or give your ex wife money ....Don’t Get Married ........Don’t want to deal with child Support, Alimony, False Allegations, and Parental Rights ....Don’t Get Married
@discoveringme9413 жыл бұрын
Pre watching comment: Why don't you do one on how to PREVENT DIVORCE or Abortion, so people can have kids and thrive financially. The number one reason for abortion is finance, not having enough money. I bet it may just be the same for divorce.
@eseimuededestiny8013 жыл бұрын
I agree totally such a video would have been way more valuable
@denisewilliams8152 ай бұрын
Been married 20 years ! I just told my husband that I will be divorcing him… I need to find my self again
@Richardsonprincess003 жыл бұрын
FYI, a prenup agreement...added it!
@gamematrix23313 жыл бұрын
FBC14 algorithm is the best cryptocurrency investment in my life
@entrepreneurking81623 жыл бұрын
Never get married to begin with stay single!!!!
@nomadic80003 жыл бұрын
Getting fit is a great key to getting over a divorce. That will also help you when getting back into the dating field.
@KingYou20023 жыл бұрын
It's true. People who are married for some reason tend to let themselves go because they got too comfortable
@turkelankita3 жыл бұрын
Loved that they showed Harvey and Mike.. when they talked about lawyers😝
@turkelankita3 жыл бұрын
@Alux. Com yeah.. totally agreed. Learnt alot from Harvey as well from you ALUX😇
@roula-ladybug3 жыл бұрын
If you don't know all of these things before you watch the video, you're not qualified to get married and have children in the first place.
@noelafflick99453 жыл бұрын
Find yourself 1st dont seek it in another. For that is just fear if being alone thus leaving thy at vulnerable risk
@noelafflick99453 жыл бұрын
@@fixyourfinances6930 referred me where?. For I'm rather content within myself and seek the yin my yang
@jaimerobletoaguilar73323 жыл бұрын
Hi Amigos! to my mind, to get legal assistance should be the second advice, aside that I agree with you.
@saucywings3 жыл бұрын
This video shouldn’t be as popular as it is.
@austinboateng69713 жыл бұрын
The best piece of advice for getting through a divorce is to calm down and retrace your steps back to the early days. Re-examine what could have been prevented, fix those things then reconsider a fresh start but this time with both therapy and meditation.
@tridentgameing61923 жыл бұрын
Yup it's happening because people take only sex education not interested in education of how to know people that's why they doing excuse or after long time they realise it's better to realise early how you can do? for that doesn't consider your sexual side in relationship first spend alot of time with each other without intamecy like friends after that you has strong data of that person now take step to you want be with them or not and believe me you if you follow this no matter what situation your relationship going great because you understand each other and really intamecy is just not thing it's a thing that makes other person to love you more closely and if you has strong base of emotions that going to great
@Blacksheep006663 жыл бұрын
12 minutes into it...... Why am i watching this video after all??!! Im Not divorced 👀 . . I was never Married either..... 🙄 Im singlee!!!!! 😳 . Im 16 😱😱 Shack!!!! SHIT NOW I KNOW HOW TO COME OVER A DIVORCE 🤩
@mohannarayan46033 жыл бұрын
Many people wanted this one
@beautifulskyway3 жыл бұрын
I am single 😂😂😂 Alux what are you doing 😂😂😂
@carojames67763 жыл бұрын
Preparing you for the future?
@auro19863 жыл бұрын
not included in list is: become narrator for alux videos
@TrustInTate3 жыл бұрын
Focus on yourself first and the right people will find you! 👑
@arb18973 жыл бұрын
Better become a Divorce Attorney.......heard they are the most Richest Attorneys in the world
@davidgerke71503 жыл бұрын
#6 for sure! My ex wasted so much on meaningless nonsense. Since my divorce I'm crushing it! 💪💵
@alexorellana12683 жыл бұрын
I have been waiting for this video for ever!! Thank yall so much
@hmmletsthinkaboutitblackma81283 жыл бұрын
Hurry up & Swallow the RED PILL 💊!
@jennytan23013 жыл бұрын
To help others is to help yourself. one of ways is to carry out more charity matters. Get involve and get more new friends which are of good characters.
@chapterupwellbeing75202 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear what you are went through. What's the hardest thing you are dealing with now ? Can i ask how you've tried to heal ? Anything you've tried isn't working ? Looking to find a professional to help with separation and divorce and a potential virtual group support session 🙂
@yousaf02383 жыл бұрын
Love from Pakistan
@ogagaenakpodia2483 жыл бұрын
Video recommendation:15 steps to financial freedom
@doreen88553 жыл бұрын
Alux got ur back. #on Everything
@bella_oio3 жыл бұрын
Time will helps you.
@MrLuzzle3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for video I really needed this.
@MrLuzzle3 жыл бұрын
@Steph P I am good just been having difficulty moving on and seeing the sunshine again.
@parneetkaur86513 жыл бұрын
School of Life is best youtube channel for this kinda stuff
@WorldAfterCovid19TV3 жыл бұрын
🤔
@jeffreycaspe3 жыл бұрын
Sad
@aaravbharadwaj78443 жыл бұрын
Plzz make video on expensive cards like emerican express black cards
@internetjunkie52413 жыл бұрын
Don’t make the mistake of getting married in the first place . #Redpill
@amarsharma3363 жыл бұрын
Indians after watching this, "We don't do that here"
@marcusbrown1883 жыл бұрын
I married foreign woman so divorce is non existent
@Manuel-gu9ls3 жыл бұрын
Nothing can be truer than this 😢
@Manuel-gu9ls3 жыл бұрын
@@renelaad5306 loser
@HorseWaterDrink3 жыл бұрын
marriage ruins relationships
@AcesizOfficial3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@sophiacousins96033 жыл бұрын
@+1 415 6 8 8 7 3 5 3
@kelleyhudson315727 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@sherwinsalvatori69973 жыл бұрын
The best way to get over a device, is by never ,ever getting married
@gabriellacompany3 жыл бұрын
Wow 2 in one day how exciting 🙌
@kartikthakur38873 жыл бұрын
Don’t get married in first place. 😎
@avijitkabiraj21873 жыл бұрын
Read comedy of coffin on kindle unlimited .......
@avijitkabiraj21873 жыл бұрын
@@renelaad5306 what is it ?
@medviation3 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Don't get married.
@3b00d53 жыл бұрын
You should make a video about how to prevent a divorce instead of how to get over it , save kids from living with only one of their parents
@eseimuededestiny8013 жыл бұрын
I agree totally with you
@iloveweezer693 жыл бұрын
alux i’m only 12 pls
@pulltheskymusicgroup44753 жыл бұрын
🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿📌😋😋😋☝
@merch1234563 жыл бұрын
Two videos today?
@gebrehiwetteklehailemicael80913 жыл бұрын
Forget and never give up!
@user-hq8vk5ip7j3 жыл бұрын
Nxt vid how to get a gf
@cata92843 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂
@yorsamore3 жыл бұрын
#Number 15 make sure the kids get undivided attention of parent and take responsibility to help them.💝🙏🏽
@yousaf02383 жыл бұрын
Hey
@sidch153 жыл бұрын
What a topic!!!
@sidch153 жыл бұрын
What does this mean?
@danielgarino98763 жыл бұрын
The hardest part by far is real friendship. You get to realize who true friends are in difficult times. If you often find yourself alone, better that way than with fake people around you. The rest is up to you!