15 Ways to Get Over A Divorce

[@alux]

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[@cata9284]

Depends whether there are kids involved, how old they are and context of the relationship/marriage.

[@sophiacousins9603]

@[phone]

[@noelafflick9945]

To be certain of your own emotions n not that of others be clear in a subjective term on thy planned destination. And do it for only thyself

[@serena57.48]

I want to tell everyone in this situation, Don't blame yourself for your (ex)/spouse behavior. My husband cheated on me multiple times too. I forgave too much and tolerated it for too long and the lying was just insane. Am glad am not in it anymore because I would have lost my mind. I felt depressed and the thought of hardship but am not gonna give up on myself, I was lucky to meet a woman who helped me building the little finance I could get off from the marriage during separation. Now am a single mom with healthy kids, who are enjoying their best life. I remember my ex husband threatening me that I can never make it without him, it's been 18 months. Am glad to prove him wrong !!!

[@stephaniefythm]

I went through a lot of financial crisis during my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.

[@eadad4371]

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[@stephaniefythm]

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[@eadad4371]

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[@stephaniefythm]

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[@emeldcentor1474]

@@stephaniefythm Just got out my marriage, I have had intentions of starting investing. But I always thought it was late and I think I need to stop procrastinating. I will definitely 🔍 Regina Louise Collaro and see what she can advise .Thanks a lot . This was of so much help to me .

[@alexsimmons4693]

The person you marry is not the same person you divorce.

[@charlesdial7152]

True that, because she is definitely not the same person that I married 23 years ago, now she has more confidence and lost some weight, and some dude has been trying to get at her for years and now she is tlking to him and I'm ready to roll out and get my own shit and be on my own and live alittle 💯

[@1.5Koreans0.5American]

In Korea, we have a reality TV show called “We got divorced”. Real divorced couples stay together in a house for 3 days and it’s a great show. Most of the divorced couples get along really well. Especially when they have kids together. I learn a lot from that show.

[@discoveringme941]

So you are in Korea right now?

[@discoveringme941]

I ❤️ this comment

[@nadirrabah6756]

South Korea right? There are two of them!!!

[@serischoice7575]

Omg I'm gonna watch it now❤️

[@brazookabroad]

Don`t drug, absolutely don`t drink, do physical exercises and sleep. Give it six months and you will realize how dumb you were to not have done it way before.

[@theprimest]

If you're reading this you have the potential to create great things. Yes. You.

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

Even in love?

[@lawrenceomorodion6927]

Amen¯\_༼ •́ ͜ʖ •̀ ༽_/¯

[@nope3015]

Oh yeah, we have the potential for great things alright. And your narcissistic, vexatious, delusional ex and the divorce industrial complex will happily liberate a large chunk of these “great things” you’re able to do create any time it suits them. You can get divorced, but with the wrong ex, there could a state-sponsored financial, emotional terrorist at your door should you choose to do great things.

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

@@nope3015 careful how you accomplish, anyone can leech off your well-being both financial & emotional if you’re too friendly and open to people who are your sources of success & happiness

[@karenwoods1421]

The Primest- The Money. Thank you so much for the positive thought I needed it tonight.

[@untouchable360x]

16. Adopt the "Free Agent Lifestyle."

[@ryannyamz1473]

Coach Greg adams lol

[@kabelogumani528]

I was just reading the Free Agent Lifestyle book and yeah marriage is a thorny issue

[@xychoticbreak5198]

Ah, I see you are a man of culture as well.

[@kabelogumani528]

@@xychoticbreak5198 💯

[@vishutdhar]

Yes sir

[@charlest2858]

If you meet someone whom you love more than he or she loves you then avoid marrying the person in the first place

[@ashleybarnes4998]

Investing is another lucrative way of making money.

[@mirriansergi3498]

Yeah sure, investing in silver are good but crypto is better😎

[@andrewpeter1446]

Crypto is the future 🚀🚀

[@wayneb4627]

I got 70% of my portfolio in crypto and I have been making good money

[@Viktor-uf5pt]

I wanted to trade crypto but got confused by the fluctuations in price

[@drrichards373]

I heard Mr Bruce strategies are good. I sometimes come across his page on telegram and Instagram.

[@Kenan-gk7eh]

People will be kicking themselves in few weeks if they miss the opportunity to buy and invest in bitcoin

[@jorgecory8136]

BITCOIN: IS THE ONLY TRUE DEMOCRACY EVER EXISTS IN THE WORLD

[@jameskai3785]

Buy and invest in bitcoin and other cryptocurrency today!!!!

[@kingstonleo2429]

Crypto is the future, trading crypto has become a lucrative way of making money

[@christophergaydon6128]

Stock are good too

[@dennisrblocker5167]

@@christophergaydon6128 Stocks are good crypto is better

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

When you get into a relationship you miss things about being single, when you first get out of a relationship you miss things about being in a relationship. Don’t forget the advantages of being single.

[@dopemusic6414]

Step 1 - Hire a hitman.

[@SY-sp8uo]

Divorce is not so bad especially if this relationship is toxic and doesn't serve you anymore. Better alone than bad companied.

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

Or better yet try to work out the difference and remove the toxicity within you before you lose the other

[@discoveringme941]

Agreed only with last sentence

[@shubhamgurav7]

Alux lady, you okay?

[@ryannyamz1473]

How about 15 ways to not get married at all

[@bella_oio]

Lol

[@mgtow6683]

50% of marriages end in divorce, 70% of them initiated by women. They get most of everything following the divorce, including the kids. Women get sole custody of the kids around 80% of the time, and the father loses almost all his rights to those children, except for the financial connection. Yet you blame men for refusing to play this rigged game?

[@abhayshriab]

WOOHOO ,two videos in a day! And THEN the sunday motivational video tomorrow😉 can't wait,and thank you Alux!

[@discoveringme941]

Ha ha ha

[@BasementBerean]

About 41 percent of FIRST marriages end in divorce, but MORE than 50% of second and subsequent marriages end divorce, so the overall average is about 50 percent, so it pays to get it right the first time.

[@Je.rone_]

Planning ahead helps, Hope for the best prepare for the worse

[@jennytan2301]

Sowing good seeds as cause would result in marvelous fruits as effect. Giving away little would bring considerable in return.

[@nadirrabah6756]

Prenuptial agreements folks!!! Make him / her sign that sht!!!! If he / she really loves they'll sign it!!! If you have kids together / or adopted then it's totally different ball game.

[@BasementBerean]

16. I went through my first (and last divorce since I'll never marry again) about five years ago. My best take-home lesson is to just not do anything stupid for the first year after the divorce. It's like a huge psychological and even spiritual wound, and like a physical wound it take time to heal. So, the best thing to do is often nothing unnecessary that would make it worse. I have a good relationship with my ex, but I NEVER want to be married again.

[@HorseWaterDrink]

agree

[@carojames6776]

Sometimes once is enough.

[@cryptoflippodcast]

*It's interesting that the divorce numbers are going up* But no one wants to get a prenup hmmm 😅😂

[@didifx509]

If the video isn’t about finance i just don’t set my expectations too high up anymore. But i see where the problem is , it’s just that we don’t look at morality thru the same lens.

[@eseimuededestiny801]

I agree with you concerning finance alux give arguably the best advice but on almost any other topic they are extremely biased

[@normellow]

If you are recently divorced, go back to the person you were before you were married. Cheers

[@aaravbharadwaj7844]

I'm unmarried infact I haven't a gf but watch it 😂😂😂😂

[@arb1897]

U r not alone Brother......me too

[@arb1897]

Single Launde Zindabad 🤣✊

[@aaravbharadwaj7844]

@@arb1897 🤭🤭🤭😂😂😂😂

[@aaravbharadwaj7844]

@@arb1897 zindabad 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@arb1897]

@@aaravbharadwaj7844 🤣✊👍

[@x_master_xtop410]

#1. Don't get married in the first place

[@SilentWarrior88]

My divorce should be final in a couple weeks, and this video came at the right time. Thank you. I’m im pieces but forging ahead......at least trying to.

[@businessgrowthsquare]

Hi dear, going through same thing now and wondering if the pain and agony will ever end. How do u feel now?

[@khumothage4629]

Step 1, get don't get married.

[@c.1211]

Step 2. Never ever get married.

[@JayJay-ro3or]

I know this doesn't relate to this video, but pleeeaaassseeee make a video on the Gamestop situation if you can.

[@cata9284]

No chance or risk of getting divorced for, I will never get married 🤣🤣😂😂

[@mars_z7851]

17 year old me randomly seeing it because I thought it was about any businness

[@discoveringme941]

What?

[@carojames6776]

Marriage/Divorce is a business good or bad.

[@kabelogumani528]

I'm not married and never will

[@khumothage4629]

Nagana stress sa lenyalo ka 2021. 😂😂😂

[@kabelogumani528]

@@khumothage4629 😁 you know ntwana. It just wouldn't work out

[@jaybrown7434]

Another great video from Alux. I didn’t see this topic coming but it’s very relevant. I’m divorced so my advice is to be careful who you marry. Think twice...consider a prenup if you have alot of assets....and even though opposites attract, do not marry your opposite. Marry someone with common interests, common values and similar goals.

[@chapterupwellbeing7520]

Sorry to hear what you are went through. What's the hardest thing you are dealing with now ? Can i ask how you've tried to heal ? Anything you've tried isn't working ? Looking to find a professional to help with separation and divorce and a potential virtual group support session 🙂

[@sebastiannunez8091]

my sister got divorced and started suffering saying no one to take care of her but as soon as she started investing with David Macon, thing began to change drastically and now she is doing well and fine. i think that should b he best option for everyone.

[@LTJuni0r]

1. Don’t get married.

[@arunam675]

I am single, un married an more over an Indian i don't need it but still watched till the end

[@arunam675]

Thanks a lot for it but I did not get it

[@edercortes1960]

Want to save 15 min of your time ....here it is kids Don’t Get Married. Don’t want to get screwed by the court or give your ex wife money ....Don’t Get Married ........Don’t want to deal with child Support, Alimony, False Allegations, and Parental Rights ....Don’t Get Married

[@discoveringme941]

Pre watching comment: Why don't you do one on how to PREVENT DIVORCE or Abortion, so people can have kids and thrive financially. The number one reason for abortion is finance, not having enough money. I bet it may just be the same for divorce.

[@eseimuededestiny801]

I agree totally such a video would have been way more valuable

[@denisewilliams815]

Been married 20 years ! I just told my husband that I will be divorcing him… I need to find my self again

[@Richardsonprincess00]

FYI, a prenup agreement...added it!

[@gamematrix2331]

FBC14 algorithm is the best cryptocurrency investment in my life

[@entrepreneurking8162]

Never get married to begin with stay single!!!!

[@nomadic8000]

Getting fit is a great key to getting over a divorce. That will also help you when getting back into the dating field.

[@KingYou2002]

It's true. People who are married for some reason tend to let themselves go because they got too comfortable

[@turkelankita]

Loved that they showed Harvey and Mike.. when they talked about lawyers😝

[@turkelankita]

@Alux. Com yeah.. totally agreed. Learnt alot from Harvey as well from you ALUX😇

[@roula-ladybug]

If you don't know all of these things before you watch the video, you're not qualified to get married and have children in the first place.

[@noelafflick9945]

Find yourself 1st dont seek it in another. For that is just fear if being alone thus leaving thy at vulnerable risk

[@noelafflick9945]

@@fixyourfinances6930 referred me where?. For I'm rather content within myself and seek the yin my yang

[@jaimerobletoaguilar7332]

Hi Amigos! to my mind, to get legal assistance should be the second advice, aside that I agree with you.

[@saucywings]

This video shouldn’t be as popular as it is.

[@austinboateng6971]

The best piece of advice for getting through a divorce is to calm down and retrace your steps back to the early days. Re-examine what could have been prevented, fix those things then reconsider a fresh start but this time with both therapy and meditation.

[@tridentgameing6192]

Yup it's happening because people take only sex education not interested in education of how to know people that's why they doing excuse or after long time they realise it's better to realise early how you can do? for that doesn't consider your sexual side in relationship first spend alot of time with each other without intamecy like friends after that you has strong data of that person now take step to you want be with them or not and believe me you if you follow this no matter what situation your relationship going great because you understand each other and really intamecy is just not thing it's a thing that makes other person to love you more closely and if you has strong base of emotions that going to great

[@Blacksheep00666]

12 minutes into it...... Why am i watching this video after all??!! Im Not divorced 👀 . . I was never Married either..... 🙄 Im singlee!!!!! 😳 . Im 16 😱😱 Shack!!!! SHIT NOW I KNOW HOW TO COME OVER A DIVORCE 🤩

[@mohannarayan4603]

Many people wanted this one

[@beautifulskyway]

I am single 😂😂😂 Alux what are you doing 😂😂😂

[@carojames6776]

Preparing you for the future?

[@auro1986]

not included in list is: become narrator for alux videos

[@TrustInTate]

Focus on yourself first and the right people will find you! 👑

[@arb1897]

Better become a Divorce Attorney.......heard they are the most Richest Attorneys in the world

[@davidgerke7150]

#6 for sure! My ex wasted so much on meaningless nonsense. Since my divorce I'm crushing it! 💪💵

[@alexorellana1268]

I have been waiting for this video for ever!! Thank yall so much

[@hmmletsthinkaboutitblackma8128]

Hurry up & Swallow the RED PILL 💊!

[@jennytan2301]

To help others is to help yourself. one of ways is to carry out more charity matters. Get involve and get more new friends which are of good characters.

[@chapterupwellbeing7520]

Sorry to hear what you are went through. What's the hardest thing you are dealing with now ? Can i ask how you've tried to heal ? Anything you've tried isn't working ? Looking to find a professional to help with separation and divorce and a potential virtual group support session 🙂

[@yousaf0238]

Love from Pakistan

[@ogagaenakpodia248]

Video recommendation:15 steps to financial freedom

[@doreen8855]

Alux got ur back. #on Everything

[@bella_oio]

Time will helps you.

[@MrLuzzle]

Thank you so much for video I really needed this.

[@MrLuzzle]

@Steph P I am good just been having difficulty moving on and seeing the sunshine again.

[@parneetkaur8651]

School of Life is best youtube channel for this kinda stuff

[@WorldAfterCovid19TV]

🤔

[@jeffreycaspe]

Sad

[@aaravbharadwaj7844]

Plzz make video on expensive cards like emerican express black cards

[@internetjunkie5241]

Don’t make the mistake of getting married in the first place . #Redpill

[@amarsharma336]

Indians after watching this, "We don't do that here"

[@marcusbrown188]

I married foreign woman so divorce is non existent

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

Nothing can be truer than this 😢

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

@@renelaad5306 loser

[@HorseWaterDrink]

marriage ruins relationships

[@AcesizOfficial]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@sophiacousins9603]

@[phone]

[@kelleyhudson3157]

Thank you for this video.

[@sherwinsalvatori6997]

The best way to get over a device, is by never ,ever getting married

[@gabriellacompany]

Wow 2 in one day how exciting 🙌

[@kartikthakur3887]

Don’t get married in first place. 😎

[@avijitkabiraj2187]

Read comedy of coffin on kindle unlimited .......

[@avijitkabiraj2187]

@@renelaad5306 what is it ?

[@medviation]

Step 1: Don't get married.

[@3b00d5]

You should make a video about how to prevent a divorce instead of how to get over it , save kids from living with only one of their parents

[@eseimuededestiny801]

I agree totally with you

[@iloveweezer69]

alux i’m only 12 pls

[@pulltheskymusicgroup4475]

🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿📌😋😋😋☝

[@merch123456]

Two videos today?

[@gebrehiwetteklehailemicael8091]

Forget and never give up!

[@user-hq8vk5ip7j]

Nxt vid how to get a gf

[@cata9284]

🤣🤣😂

[@yorsamore]

#Number 15 make sure the kids get undivided attention of parent and take responsibility to help them.💝🙏🏽

[@yousaf0238]

Hey

[@sidch15]

What a topic!!!

[@sidch15]

What does this mean?

[@danielgarino9876]

The hardest part by far is real friendship. You get to realize who true friends are in difficult times. If you often find yourself alone, better that way than with fake people around you. The rest is up to you!

[@rinchhensherpa6972]

Perfect timing. 👍