16 Personalities Crushing on their Opposite Type

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Frank James

Frank James

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@FrankJames
@FrankJames Жыл бұрын
Watch "Normal Mom vs INTJ Mom" next 🧡 kzbin.info/www/bejne/mGG9n3WYi9SHaKc
@donnathedead7554
@donnathedead7554 Жыл бұрын
Already done and it was great. I'm an INTP mom and the part about, just wait till your father gets home, maybe then you'll have someone to sympathize with you, sounded just like something I would say. I don't even think it's real empathy but, they're kids and don't know any better anyway. Also I make my waffles with protein powder.
@aimee5259
@aimee5259 Жыл бұрын
"The whole hanging out thing - it's just... so much effort." YES. 😳
@eggsnspam
@eggsnspam Жыл бұрын
I watched that cause my ENFP daughter brought it to me, an INTJ mom... I didn't know that I could laugh and feel attacked all at once. Good job!
@veracuskar3017
@veracuskar3017 Жыл бұрын
Like it
@KitKatBanana
@KitKatBanana Жыл бұрын
Could you do a “personality theme song” video? I think that ISFJ would be “Stand By You” by Rachel Platten
@trinaq
@trinaq Жыл бұрын
I love how Frank had more Female Thinkers and more Male Feelers, since usually it's portrayed the other way around! ♥️
@janmlynar1748
@janmlynar1748 Жыл бұрын
i dont as its statistically rather uncommon
@fghsrgu1100
@fghsrgu1100 Жыл бұрын
@@janmlynar1748 how can you trust some random statistics
@AW-xc1xc
@AW-xc1xc Жыл бұрын
@@janmlynar1748 The statistics I've found on the matter confirm that women are statistically more likely to be feelers. This can be assumed to be for multiple reasons, one of which is upbringing which heavily favors women to be more in tune with their feelings. However, this has no relevance on this video. I wouldn't expect FJ to search up these "statistics" (because I haven't found any reliable sources) and accurately represent the types according to gender, because that would frankly be a little insane. MBTI isn't a rigid system. Just because you're a feeler type doesn't mean you don't have a brain, and vice versa. Representing different groups of people under the MBTI umbrella is just showing the complexity of the system, man. Nothing more.
@1chienandalou
@1chienandalou Жыл бұрын
I actually have seen it portrayed quite evenly in videos. Not so much IRL no (online and among young people more even than actual IRL and in my generation - An NT woman)
@donnathedead7554
@donnathedead7554 Жыл бұрын
I also like how had the females doing more of the asking out because really, it's probably a better way of doing things.
@LoveHandle4890
@LoveHandle4890 Жыл бұрын
Can we just appreciate how James plays 16 different people so perfectly?
@lindahansen45
@lindahansen45 Жыл бұрын
Heck yeah
@heavnxbound
@heavnxbound Жыл бұрын
@@lindahansen45 Are you Norwegian too? Your name sounds like it, haha.
@lindahansen45
@lindahansen45 Жыл бұрын
@@heavnxbound no, I'm Danish. Hello fellow Scandinavian
@juliemay9295
@juliemay9295 Жыл бұрын
i appreciate how you, or someone else, notices this a lot of the time. Because it's TRUE!!!!!!!!!!! haha x
@yumikitako18
@yumikitako18 Жыл бұрын
me too
@liaartist3671
@liaartist3671 Жыл бұрын
As an infj myself, the words “I want you to understand me without me saying a word” is pretty much true in this situation
@cynthialeaman3114
@cynthialeaman3114 Жыл бұрын
I wish in every situation!😁
@loquacious.laconic
@loquacious.laconic Жыл бұрын
​@SilverSerpent64 lol I've lost count of the amount of times I've overthought a reply to something for soooo long, only to discard the lot. 😅
@TheOriginal_Unaleska
@TheOriginal_Unaleska Жыл бұрын
I am the same as an INFP. It's all about that deep emotional connection.
@omnidiscord
@omnidiscord Жыл бұрын
literally is that so much to ask??
@TheOddOne347
@TheOddOne347 Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, why is that so accurate?? 😂
@Catralasarguido
@Catralasarguido Жыл бұрын
I love how the INTP got interrupted, even when they were not supposed to be hearing each other
@ValenAlvern
@ValenAlvern 5 ай бұрын
That shouldnt be a personality trait but its so accurate! Why is it so accurate?!
@hnlthehorrorpurgebus106
@hnlthehorrorpurgebus106 5 ай бұрын
The inadvertent tendency to get interrupted is just horrible yet accurate at the same time 🪦💀
@Bulbasaurication
@Bulbasaurication Жыл бұрын
The INFP one was very accurate. My wife has described getting to know me being like 'trying to befriend a stray cat' all our lives.
@pamc2452
@pamc2452 Жыл бұрын
This is so cute omg
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Жыл бұрын
My mother's INFP and father's ESTJ but unfortunately they both aren't really compatible. So INFPs stay out of ESTJs, they sure will make you emotionally hurt on daily basis.
@Xandycane
@Xandycane Жыл бұрын
​@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944Depends on the person. My ESTJ boyfriends were great. They found me adorable and I found them fun and so much more put together. And, yes, a little dangerous. 😂
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Жыл бұрын
@@Xandycane Brooo you never get scared by ESTJ??? As a INTJ, they're nightmare for me especially unhealthy ESTJ ☠☠☠☠ I also have ESTJ friend and she treats me like one of her slaves 🤣🤣🤣
@Xandycane
@Xandycane Жыл бұрын
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Unhealthy anyone is scary and toxic. Healthy, though? Fun. The danger is more being pulled into their schemes and ideas. All the adventure plans and extreme bluntness that I totally take advantage of. Lol "I could deal with this jerk, but you're better at it, honey."
@ry8880
@ry8880 Жыл бұрын
INFP: "I'm attracted to danger so that, that works out." Lol I try my best for that but sometimes I like some challenges. Even meeting new person is challenging for INFP 😂
@AlehaDarabaka
@AlehaDarabaka Жыл бұрын
Johnny depp is an infp so makes sense even tho she I won't say her name was miss red flags of danger-arama lol
@azzazelynn988
@azzazelynn988 Жыл бұрын
@@AlehaDarabaka oh damn you got a point lol
@diedforbl1308
@diedforbl1308 Жыл бұрын
The INFJ one is Soo accurate 😂😂😂
@jonnharmon941
@jonnharmon941 Жыл бұрын
The infamous Ni ghosting is so dangerous
@DoriterEater
@DoriterEater Жыл бұрын
The amount of pressure to reply to ANYONE is so obnoxious. It makes it feel impossible to get relationships, and almost not worth it because it's so stressful.
@cynthialeaman3114
@cynthialeaman3114 Жыл бұрын
Scarily accurate🤣😹😹 infj just gonna chill out with my 2 kittys and stop over thinking🤔😁
@jonnharmon941
@jonnharmon941 Жыл бұрын
@@DoriterEater interesting way to look at, I never felt the pressure to reply. I do it because that is what I need to do
@Shaq90
@Shaq90 Жыл бұрын
Bruh painful accurate 😂😂
@Chibilisous
@Chibilisous Жыл бұрын
As an INFP who's got a thing for fictional villains, I feel called out
@ceilinh6004
@ceilinh6004 Жыл бұрын
Who's your favourite?
@Chibilisous
@Chibilisous Жыл бұрын
@@ceilinh6004 Oh geez, I made a tier list a year ago just for this LOL. It's hard for me to choose, but I thiiiink Ukyo (Amnesia: Memories) would be 1st place. And now a list of every other villain on that list that you didn't ask for!: -Goro Majima (Yakuza Kiwami) -Hades (Hercules) -Lewis (The Promised Neverland) -Dr. Nefarious (Ratchet & Clank) -Archie (Pokemon ORAS) -Ganondorf (LoZ) -Nagamasa Midori (Aoharu x Machinegun) -Metal Face (Xenoblade Chronicles (SPECIFICALLY before his true identity is revealed, he disgusts me otherwise)) -Snatcher (A Hat in Time) -N (Pokemon BW) -Love Machine (Summer Wars) -Whitney (DoL) -Green Mage (Everhood) -Julian (The Forbidden Game) -Hidan (Naruto) -Wesker (Resident Evil)
@overcomingobstaclescreates1695
@overcomingobstaclescreates1695 Жыл бұрын
Fellow INFP who also has a thing for fictional villains. I mean, they're just cooler. 🙂 Also, I did actually marry an ESTJ, but ... it didn't work out because he was a narcissist.
@mochisprite9779
@mochisprite9779 Жыл бұрын
omg fellow INFP here and same... I've been crushing on Shigaraki from MHA and Undertaker from Black Butler (although is he a villain? lol) for ages
@ficialintelligence1869
@ficialintelligence1869 Жыл бұрын
INFP here who does _not_ have a thing for fictional villains. That would take so much _energy._
@autisticdancer
@autisticdancer Жыл бұрын
Petition to see crush dynamics in the future but instead with: #1: Crushing on their shadow type #2: Crushing on their most similar type #3: Crushing on their extrovert/introvert type (example: ENFP and INFP)
@tinieblas6429
@tinieblas6429 Жыл бұрын
Seconded! This was so cute!
@leahpaz64895
@leahpaz64895 Жыл бұрын
:0 YES
@Ai_Quoc_VN84
@Ai_Quoc_VN84 8 ай бұрын
Can I ask what is a shadow type?
@autisticdancer
@autisticdancer 8 ай бұрын
@@Ai_Quoc_VN84 Basically take whatever your personality type is and flip the first and last letter, which will get you your shadow type. For example: if you are an INFJ, you would flip the 'I' to 'E' and the 'J' to 'P', which would get you ENFP. I'm pretty sure Frank has a whole video on his channel explaining what shadow types are, but that's the most basic explanation. :)
@Ai_Quoc_VN84
@Ai_Quoc_VN84 8 ай бұрын
@@autisticdancer thank you! Have a nice day. ❤️
@teamilker
@teamilker Жыл бұрын
I am sad about this for INFJs. We've missed so many chances because of this tendency, not just for relationships. 😢
@va3279
@va3279 Жыл бұрын
Yes 😔
@skipper462
@skipper462 Жыл бұрын
Yeah... 😢
@Clowneryoverload
@Clowneryoverload Жыл бұрын
Bro😢
@xu4u4
@xu4u4 Жыл бұрын
Anyone has any tips on overcoming? 😭
@tigermuffin7892
@tigermuffin7892 Жыл бұрын
​@@xu4u4 No, we're just crying together. Kinda just kidding, not really. Honestly, there's a lot of situations where idk what to do about it. But for relationships, all I know is that maybe I lost some opportunities, but now I don't care bc the guy who is now my husband (istp) stuck around and pursued me. So I guess it's like just be yourself, and someone will prolly like you. 🤷‍♀️
@arkane6718
@arkane6718 Жыл бұрын
Timestaps 0:00 INTJ- ESFP 0:17 ISTP- ENFJ 0:26 ISFJ ENTP 0:37 ENTJ- ISFP 0:46 ISTJ- ENFP 1:02 INFP- ESTJ 1:28 ESFJ- INTP 1:50 ESTP- INFJ
@rhondaallen6878
@rhondaallen6878 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for the timestamps.
@arkane6718
@arkane6718 Жыл бұрын
@@rhondaallen6878 you're welcome (:
@Olix466
@Olix466 Жыл бұрын
​@@arkane6718 hey, what's ur personality type? I'm INFP, and I thank you soo much
@arkane6718
@arkane6718 Жыл бұрын
@@Olix466 I'm INTJ
@arkane6718
@arkane6718 Жыл бұрын
@@Olix466 and you're welcome (:
@janefreedland
@janefreedland Жыл бұрын
As an INTJ, I can confirm that we do have to check how we feel before hanging out with anyone - not only our crushes.😂
@niriida1
@niriida1 Жыл бұрын
But...why? Honest question (especially for your crushes)
@ms.blackcat
@ms.blackcat Жыл бұрын
Because we have to evaluate their personality if it is similar to our own. What their goals are now and in the future? Understand our space and alone time. I judge my crush on his work ethic, intelligence, honesty, and morality. Good luck with an intj.😉🫡
@jakinlee5961
@jakinlee5961 Жыл бұрын
If your not feeling extroverted you can modify your behaviour before hand by acting outgoing and then you most likely will feel outgoing allowing you to more easily have plans set weeks before they happen it definitely helps me (an INTJ) when I make plans on a certain date then I don’t feel like I want to go and I just want to stay home.
@jakinlee5961
@jakinlee5961 Жыл бұрын
But I’m an ambivert so I dunno if it applies to people further on the introversion spectrum
@yigitorhan7654
@yigitorhan7654 Жыл бұрын
​@@niriida1To see if i have the energy to go outside or not. I can't predict that 1 week in advance.
@MelodicQuest
@MelodicQuest Жыл бұрын
As an INFP, you could probably apply that to literally every interaction we've ever had 😂
@louisejoel
@louisejoel Жыл бұрын
I turn into an INFP and self implode every time I am around ESTJ. Sometimes it gets so bad they apologise.
@allieoneal2033
@allieoneal2033 Жыл бұрын
Including random Monty Python or similar references.
@NoSoupForYou-zu9dj
@NoSoupForYou-zu9dj Жыл бұрын
Yes! Lol 😂
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 Жыл бұрын
INFP here. I confirm. My first big love scared me to death with his passion so I told him I had no feelings for him, even though I did have feelings. After months I decided to write a letter to him, telling him I how I felt and that I was willing to overcome my fears. We were together 8 years. My husband had understood the task perfectly from day one and pretended we were just friends for a year until he made his move. We've been together for 21 years now ❤
@letsreadtextbook1687
@letsreadtextbook1687 Жыл бұрын
Thats so sweet
@bellchime3078
@bellchime3078 Жыл бұрын
What type is your husband?
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 Жыл бұрын
@@bellchime3078 if I remember well he's an ISFP.
@NoSoupForYou-zu9dj
@NoSoupForYou-zu9dj Жыл бұрын
I think the perfect INFP song that describes our mindset when it comes to love is, “Sometimes” by Britney Spears lol
@miaflores7269
@miaflores7269 11 ай бұрын
Aaaww, how cute! 🥺 I hope you and your husband are happy and safe together forever! -INFP (who has an ISTP boyfriend)
@MeowMeow-my4fl
@MeowMeow-my4fl Жыл бұрын
The INTP was especially funny. "Turns out he's just nice. It's weird." xD
@beckyjfox
@beckyjfox Жыл бұрын
“it’s just so much effort” oh noooo INTJ is too accurate 🙈
@ellastreets4579
@ellastreets4579 Жыл бұрын
Super accurate - I’m an ISFP who went on a first date with an INTJ who I really liked. Date seemed to go really well, so a few days later I asked if he wanted to hang out the upcoming weekend - scared him straight away! Too much socializing! 😂
@greybey4385
@greybey4385 Жыл бұрын
but it's so much effort :c
@skipper462
@skipper462 Жыл бұрын
INTJs... You're my soul mates ❤ Love from INFJ ;)
@nuttypurrfessor
@nuttypurrfessor Жыл бұрын
Both the INFP and the ESTJ having to be extra cautious around each other because they like each other is just the most adorable thing EVER 😍
@Imserious184
@Imserious184 8 ай бұрын
Yeah and a huge red flag but still.
@aidancarr1536
@aidancarr1536 Жыл бұрын
As an ESTJ who is currently crushing on an INFP this is extremely accurate.
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Жыл бұрын
X-X dude- My mother's INFP and father's ESTJ, trust me their relationship isn't really compatible. INFP get hurts easily by words even if your intentions weren't meant for that. As INTJ, I also ended up hurting my all feeler friends unintentionally, when valuing logical reasonings. Well I'm not really sure, how ESTJ x INFP long-term relationship will work... Anyways good luck for that.
@capital_L283
@capital_L283 Жыл бұрын
Infp here, it could work, it would just involve both parties getting out of their comfort zone to meet the other in the middle. I have learned to take responsibility for my feelings. Instead of blaming them for hurting my feelings I look at what life experiences has made that topic vulnerable to me. It always feels like they just plunged a dagger into my chest. When I was younger it was hard not to feel betrayed by that. But I have grown and realized that just because they say a few words that prod at this emotional scar(oftentimes accidentally)does not make them responsible for the emotional scar. Holding them accountable for everything that's ever happened to me is not fair. If they knew about the scar, they should be held accountable for the very small sin of not being careful around a sensitive topic but a gentle admonishment is more than enough in that case. If they are continually doing this and show no regard or effort to avoid hurting me that is another situation. That is where they have to bend a little and acknowledge the very real pain that reliving these memories will cause me. All I ask for is care, is that too much? Know what parts of my heart are broken and tread there carefully. My partner always asking me if I'm okay whenever they are uncertain is something that I am so grateful for and makes me feel very loved. Don't give up, love is possible if both of you work for it
@lizacabrera2511
@lizacabrera2511 Жыл бұрын
As an INFP who worked with an ESTJ boss for 3 and a half years, our relationship was chaotic and I agree with the first guy's comment. We are so sensitive and gets hurt easily whether it is unintentional or not. Well Boss/Employee relationship is different ofcourse, and It didn't work out so I decided to quit my job lol. You ESTJ's might just need to learn to be more sensitive to other people's feelings and try to be a little nicer and gentle. :)
@cashi4225
@cashi4225 9 ай бұрын
My husband is ESTJ. I am INFP. God is my biggest motivation to stay at our marriage. ESTJ easily to get angry. INFP easily to get hurt by word.
@umyes1585
@umyes1585 9 ай бұрын
​@@cashi4225Wow. If you could give an advice to this young INFPs, should I avoid to be closed with an ESTJ? Hahaha lmfaooo 😞
@uniscorch
@uniscorch Жыл бұрын
Yeah this is why INFPs have to be careful not to end up in "I can fix him" relationships lol
@Takisan111
@Takisan111 Жыл бұрын
Never a good plan.
@ArtistIntuiting
@ArtistIntuiting Жыл бұрын
Oh gosh INFJ is painfully accurate 😂 ''gotta keep thinking'' lol! 😅 Particularly love the acting in this, INFP and ESTJ waiting while the other one answers lol, and ENTJ made me laugh trying to interpret the art and deciding to just take charge 😂
@makaniwebb9358
@makaniwebb9358 Жыл бұрын
Not sure how accurate this is for other INTPs, but the INTP liking them because they were nice seemed accurate to me.
@isegard2957
@isegard2957 Жыл бұрын
yeah it's how I fall for my bf who is infj. He is a meme lord and nice to everyone and I respect that
@virginiarobards7810
@virginiarobards7810 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I thought so. I really like warm wholesome people - but I am skeptical of them at first lol
@lordgrimixb
@lordgrimixb Жыл бұрын
Yes, I absolutely love genuinely nice people.
@eun5150
@eun5150 Жыл бұрын
😮 who don't like nice people. I use them all the time
@isegard2957
@isegard2957 Жыл бұрын
@@eun5150 the think is INTPs are paranoid about fake nice ppl who pretend to be nice to take advantage of them but when we find someone who is truly nice genuinely it shocks us yet attract us so much
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne Жыл бұрын
This is really funny! I really liked the ESFJ/INTP "I thought he was just being sarcastic. Turns out, no, he's just nice." INFJ--what can I say? That's us all right. 🙈🙌💜
@jossieb93
@jossieb93 Жыл бұрын
When I started dating my INFJ husband I too did not understand his kindness 😂. Even know I have to pause and stare when the man says something super sweet so naturally. (INTP)
@virginiarobards7810
@virginiarobards7810 Жыл бұрын
Yeah the INTP/ESFJ felt right to me. I do like warm wholesome people, but I am a little thrown off when I actually encounter one 😅
@louisejoel
@louisejoel Жыл бұрын
@@jossieb93 I think I may have met an INFJ recently. She asked me if I was ok as I was in pain and moving like a sloth. I thought it was nice that she acknowledged I was in pain and actually showed some empathy. I rarely experience this at the doctor
@inglesporu-lisboa1715
@inglesporu-lisboa1715 Жыл бұрын
​@@jossieb93 lmao one of my close friend is an INFJ and although she is nice and get along really well with me, i kinda have this feeling that she's at some point just playing it up, like she put the right wording and expression to the thing i said just to make it a 'proper friendship' or to get me mentally dependent on her. i don't know if this makes sense but i feel like she always have those psychological tricks up to her sleeves ready to use anytime anywhere 😂 - INTP
@jjjakumbbs1043
@jjjakumbbs1043 Жыл бұрын
The INFJ describes me with many of my online communications. I end up ghosting people because I don't know what to talk about or where to even start 😭
@beckyjfox
@beckyjfox Жыл бұрын
It’s so true 😭 I try to see down the line on how can I carry this conversation. Then I take too long and feel dumb anyways 😐 haha oops
@va3279
@va3279 Жыл бұрын
Same
@Daisyna-ti2ok
@Daisyna-ti2ok Ай бұрын
It happened to me a week ago. Someone invited me to a random Instagram gc. They told me to introduce myself and I did. Then ask me where I was from. I end up leaving the gc😂
@Got_No_Chutzpah
@Got_No_Chutzpah Жыл бұрын
The rabbit from Monty Python made me laugh 😂😂
@worldofelegance15
@worldofelegance15 Жыл бұрын
For me the rabbits from Re Zero came to mind
@___.__._.Ayla._.__.___
@___.__._.Ayla._.__.___ Жыл бұрын
As an INFP who loves both Monty Python and Danger this was so fitting
@UrWeid
@UrWeid 8 ай бұрын
@@worldofelegance15 there are also rabbits from Pet Shop of horrors
@jope13
@jope13 Жыл бұрын
I have two Infp friends and the Infp thing is pretty accurate. I'm sometimes not sure everything is alright in their relationships, but I think they can handle it.
@skipper462
@skipper462 Жыл бұрын
My INFP friend is in a relationship with ISTP. It's a pretty weird relationship but it works! 😂
@bellaanderson7503
@bellaanderson7503 Жыл бұрын
INFJ here, this is so accurate. I take a lot of time to think before I respond. A friend messaged me before, and it took me a week before I responded back. I needed a response that expressed exactly what I wanted to say without any misunderstandings, a carefully crafted response that showed that I took the time to think about things before responding. I couldn't think of a response immediately, so I took a long time to think about it. Well... once I did respond, she got mad at me, because she thought that I ignored her and forgot about her for a week, and it seemed like I didn't care about her, because I didn't respond to her message right away. I was thrown off by this. I tried explaining things but she didn't believe me. I just figured that this is all too stressful, and I figured that if she wants me to message right away and I couldn't do that, then it would be best if we stopped messaging each other. But to other people, it seemed like pressing the send button was a life or death choice, and it would take me hours to press the send button. Sometimes I'll take hours and hours to write something, and then my nerves get the best of me, and I'll just erase everything and it never gets sent.
@colerobbins124
@colerobbins124 Жыл бұрын
Too real
@janad996
@janad996 Жыл бұрын
That is so sad because its so relatable
@uwumarii
@uwumarii Жыл бұрын
I relate more to this than the infp one(I'm infp) I'm currently doing this and its been 6 days 💀If I reply now and they would say something back that's gonna take me another week or so for me to reply again. Idk why I'm like this it's so stressful. I feel so bad too. Maybe were just not meant to be? Is this a sign? 😭
@yukoner5898
@yukoner5898 Жыл бұрын
As an INFJ, I literally ask for help, by texting a bunch of other people hypotheticals of responses to figure an array of outcomes. When I know what I’m dealing with… I respond in that manner. The one saving grace for avoiding the accidental ghosting of others is saying ‘sorry I was too overwhelmed to respond at that moment, here is my thoughts now.’, and when they say to ‘just respond to me how you would talk to yourself’… that open up the gates to respond even faster to others. It felt amazing since I don’t like texting a lot because I can’t see body language or hear vocal tones to know how to respond 100% of the time. So many misunderstandings happens because of no voice tones or body language to observe too… I tend to request people to use emojis, emoticons, and the !?.”” To better understand what contextual manner they are texting in😅
@tsukkiyuna
@tsukkiyuna Жыл бұрын
just replied to someone that clicking the send button feels like a matter of life and death 💀 we all really do share the same braincell methinks
@tayscatt
@tayscatt Жыл бұрын
I’m an INFP and when I’m around my crush, all I would do is avoid them. Like, no eye contact. That way you can’t mess up. 😅 I end up fantasizing and dreaming about them but never actually talking to them.
@lilyrosegretchen
@lilyrosegretchen Жыл бұрын
Saaaameeeee!
@KarlJeager
@KarlJeager Жыл бұрын
I guess that depends on the goal, if it is to avoid embarrassment seen by others then mission accomplished but if it is to get what you want then it is an automatic failure.
@kallmekoko6277
@kallmekoko6277 Жыл бұрын
Omg, this is so me. Like how would I get a boyfriend if I keep acting like this
@wkrapek
@wkrapek Жыл бұрын
Yet another brilliant video. I didn’t think it was possible, but I think you’re getting better and better at this.
@FrankJames
@FrankJames Жыл бұрын
dang, thanks, William!
@louisejoel
@louisejoel Жыл бұрын
I'm impressed with the persistency of quality
@affinity266
@affinity266 Жыл бұрын
I'm reading the comments. It's good to know how other types are thinking and acting. It's really helpful to understand other people.
@Woo0922
@Woo0922 Жыл бұрын
That cocky attitude and the subtle self doubt aftermath of ISTP is too accurate help. As an Asian female I was taught to behave more submissively but that is exactly what truly going on in my mind. You're such a spy James, a genius one.
@sylvia470
@sylvia470 Жыл бұрын
That's why I like it so much when sometimes in k dramas a female istp or estp appears. Like in this one, YEO-SINE-GANG-RIM, the main character's sister is ESTP I believe, and she is so confident, manly-like, but charming and beautiful at the same time. It was refreshing!
@Woo0922
@Woo0922 Жыл бұрын
@@sylvia470 Totally agreed. The sister in Parasite also has this vibe and she's my favorite female movie character recent years.
@ZeroTwo-it4bm
@ZeroTwo-it4bm Жыл бұрын
The istp and enfj is Hella accurate. Especially istp, my boyfriend had the same reaction and I can't help but think most istp think this way! I do agree with being Asian you have to be more "docile" and less "straightforward,strong" etc.
@Daisy-xs9yb
@Daisy-xs9yb Жыл бұрын
Very true
@felixtownn
@felixtownn Жыл бұрын
Thinker girls are very attractive ngl - a feeler girl XD
@jijitters
@jijitters Жыл бұрын
As an ISFP I truly live in fear of ENTJs haha please accept my love in the form of this image I saw that made me think of you! Don't ask me to explain it! It's about the vibe!
@1chienandalou
@1chienandalou Жыл бұрын
I’m an entp not as scary as an ENTJ perhaps but I can be pretty intimidating. I married an artistic cute ISFP once. I don’t know how it happened! We were an unusual pair but it was a lot of fun. For everyone! 🎉
@TentenchiAMVs
@TentenchiAMVs Жыл бұрын
When the INFP said "baby bunny" I immediately thought of the Monty Python bunny. I busted out laughing when he landed the joke. The "but I'm attracted to danger" wrap-up was the icing on the cake. Wayyy too accurate. XD - INFP
@IsabelleRSG
@IsabelleRSG Жыл бұрын
The INTP confused about people being 'just' nice and not sarcastic... Yep... Very relatable...
@saraxx3071
@saraxx3071 Жыл бұрын
It’s quite cool to see how the body language differs between the types
@yuschelsea4932
@yuschelsea4932 Жыл бұрын
i'm an ISTP and this is so accurate especially since one of my favorite types is ENFJ
@Gumeluvr
@Gumeluvr Жыл бұрын
I am an INFP married to an ISTP ... It isn't always easy. LOL
@Nina21_
@Nina21_ Жыл бұрын
I loved the new format of 2 separate screens 😍 it elevated the whole 16p sketch ! The ISTP/ENFJ duo gotta be the most confident couple ever 😂 and the ESFJ/INTP couple was so cute ! XD PS. i loved the spontaneous laugh at the end ❤
@aiden6559
@aiden6559 Жыл бұрын
As an INTJ, I can definitely say that there are some days where I just don't feel like going out, either because I'm tired, busy, or just had a rough day. Funny thing is, I've always enjoyed going out on school field trips or family vacations. It's nice to get out and go somewhere new, see the sights, have fun, and relax for a change.
@mzn245
@mzn245 Жыл бұрын
Gosh MBTI is addictive, you be adding more fuel to it Frank 🤩. Well done 👌
@lexyheiz7741
@lexyheiz7741 Жыл бұрын
Accurately I both love and am terrified of Estj’s.
@codreaming9304
@codreaming9304 Жыл бұрын
Oh man…that was brutal, Frank (fellow INFJ here 🙋🏻‍♀️). I am so glad you found your wife and no longer have to go through the dating process 😁.
@Midnitethorn
@Midnitethorn Жыл бұрын
This was so hilarious and adorable. Its easy to get trapped in thinking some types aren't compatible (some are mire work that's for sure). It's nice to see the odd pairs!
@annabohatka8597
@annabohatka8597 Жыл бұрын
The INFP ESTJ one was so cute. As an INFP, I cannot say you are wrong.
@capital_L283
@capital_L283 Жыл бұрын
I feel like a scared baby deer in all my interactions with people to be honest -infp
@danielabenitez1264
@danielabenitez1264 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this so much. Utterly fun! And daydreaming ENFP and his expression are so accurate
@FPT84
@FPT84 Жыл бұрын
Love how the ISTJ will just sort everything out!
@lilixfive2307
@lilixfive2307 Жыл бұрын
I love this format ! You create so much content, your imagination has no end. Thank you ^^
@FrankJames
@FrankJames Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@lcg6762
@lcg6762 Жыл бұрын
Hoping the golden matches (most compatible matches) go on the next video 😁
@ichinihq
@ichinihq Жыл бұрын
The istp and enfj one is spot on😭😭
@johns80schick
@johns80schick Жыл бұрын
I can totally relate as an INTP, I met an ESFJ before and was skeptical on why they are so nice. Like what's your ulterior motive. Turns out they just like to be nice lol
@jessicaweekley4031
@jessicaweekley4031 Жыл бұрын
As an INFJ this actually has happened more than I care to say 😅 I am polite about it and apologize for "the delay" and it's hard to explain but I just can't think what to say because there are so many things to say and then I overthink it.
@azyleefistory
@azyleefistory Жыл бұрын
Happened to me recently, like I really don’t know what to say sometimes and I need a STAT reboot/time off because oh boy, No-Ti loop lol
@fynngreen00
@fynngreen00 Жыл бұрын
This ENFP certifies the accuracy of planning a destination dream wedding with someone I barely know… but why stop there? I’m already planning our family trip to Disneyland with 3 kids 😭
@xxRavaage
@xxRavaage Жыл бұрын
Broo 😂 too true.
@maudline
@maudline 5 ай бұрын
Gosh I love you ENFPs 😂😂
@davidt01
@davidt01 Жыл бұрын
The INTP one was so funny.
@findingthatperfectspot4692
@findingthatperfectspot4692 Жыл бұрын
'But it turns out that, no. He's just nice. Weird!' Yeah, that made me laugh.
@Midnitethorn
@Midnitethorn Жыл бұрын
Her being interrupted by the ESFJ but being patient with it might have been an editing mistake, but either way was pretty funny too
@davidt01
@davidt01 Жыл бұрын
@@Midnitethorn That was the funny part. It was definitely on purpose and very accurate.
@Midnitethorn
@Midnitethorn Жыл бұрын
@@davidt01 Good! It had me laughing out load everytime she was caught off lol
@HLA-vh5of
@HLA-vh5of Жыл бұрын
Estj is the killer bunny from monty python. 😂😂😂😂
@findingthatperfectspot4692
@findingthatperfectspot4692 Жыл бұрын
Seems right for a guy who has a pathological hatred of poor Timmy, doesn't it? :-)
@Takisan111
@Takisan111 Жыл бұрын
@@findingthatperfectspot4692 Considering Timmy himself is an ESTJ, we could be dealing with a scenario where the INFP recognizes his deep rooted self esteem issues and wants to be the one to support him and lead him to a happier place mentally and emotionally. And then he'll be so grateful to her for always believing in him and they ride off into the sunset together to live happily ever after.
@whittulip.637
@whittulip.637 Жыл бұрын
Haha! I'm an ESFP with an INTJ boyfriend, and this portrayal was spot on! I've always been confused by how he says he misses me, yet is able to go an entire week without conversing that much with me (to which he pointed out he can go an entire week without talking to anyone/hearing his own voice). Nevertheless, when I really do need him there, he doesn't hesitate. I thank him everyday for putting up with my shenanigans, hah!
@mari9339
@mari9339 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you! It looks like actually unusual but fun relationship :D Best wishes from another ESFP
@LLMoran617
@LLMoran617 Жыл бұрын
The Killer Rabbit of Caerbannog....that rabbit's got a vicious streak a mile wide!!!
@beanbean4563
@beanbean4563 Жыл бұрын
ENFP demiromantic here- I literally CAN'T fall in love with someone until we become number one best buds. Problem being... I make close friendship bonds fast 😭 so this is somehow inaccurate and accurate at the same time
@danielistovar8565
@danielistovar8565 Жыл бұрын
A video of opposites types attracting each other. I'm happy!💕
@hazelgoodshepherd9315
@hazelgoodshepherd9315 Жыл бұрын
Hey, INFJ guy here. And yeah, that last one was totally accurate! 😜LoL
@cloudclump11
@cloudclump11 Жыл бұрын
this was rly well done! the intp getting interrupted was acted out perfectly!
@ViolaVioletVia
@ViolaVioletVia Жыл бұрын
Infj sooo correct. I KEEP STRUGGLING WHEN I LIKE SOMEONE TO TEXT THEM.
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes Жыл бұрын
This format is really cool and fun. 🧡 Stereotypes are accurate. The INTJ live in a house with a spiral staircase ? Spiral staircase is really a struggle or nightmare. I agree it take so much effort and energy. The INFJ is always so hilarious.🤣
@boraappu
@boraappu Жыл бұрын
This reminded me to text back to my 10days old chats 😅 thanks frank
@anastasiaschultz5719
@anastasiaschultz5719 Жыл бұрын
The INFJ is so legit.... I ghosted my last crush for up to a month, which ended destroying the whole thing, cause it bothered him so much lol Don't know what I was thinking there, heh 😅
@va3279
@va3279 Жыл бұрын
Exact same thing that I had done I ghosted mine too
@mysoulcalledlife
@mysoulcalledlife Жыл бұрын
🫣🙈🤦‍♀️-infj
@americanojoajoakpop6770
@americanojoajoakpop6770 Жыл бұрын
0:00 INTJ ESFP 0:16 ISTP ENFJ 0:26 ISFJ ENTP 0:36 ENTJ ISFP 0:46 ISTJ ENFP 1:02 INFP ESTJ 1:28 ESFJ INTP 1:50 ESTP INFJ
@dyltan
@dyltan Жыл бұрын
As an INTP man, it's still really really really difficult to trust kindness, but I love how kind she is but I can't trust it, something seems off.
@sanyayaaar
@sanyayaaar Жыл бұрын
My best friend is INFJ and she does the exact same thing ( thinking of an appropriate reply to a simple text and consequently leaving the text on read for hours), I bet her crush feels ghosted 😭😂
@rainylibrarian3887
@rainylibrarian3887 Жыл бұрын
I’m an INTP and my gf is an ESTP, but we’re both equally nerdy! She’s for sure way better at organization than I am though!
@pronounced_as_avery
@pronounced_as_avery Жыл бұрын
This video is so well made! My favorite duos are ESTP & INFJ with ESTJ & INFP. It's so funny how INFP is described as a baby deer, and ESTJ is described as a baby bunny that likes to kill. 🤣 Plus, I relate to INFJ and ESTP on both sides of the texting argument 😂
@ajits64
@ajits64 Жыл бұрын
"I think it was pretty clear what I meant."(ISFP) hahahaha
@juliandmolinas1506
@juliandmolinas1506 Жыл бұрын
I've always believed it's complicated to hang out with your opposite type, like it can be really frustrating if your and their personality are not like develop so you can't understand the other person in some way or if you are the only one trying to understand... On the other hand nice vid you have ur wigs in good shape. There's not the usual ending asking for ideas for a new Sketch, but it'll nice yo see for example the P interacting with the J. Like ENTP with ENTJ or INFP with INFJ and so
@skipper462
@skipper462 Жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ, my grandpa was an ESTP. He was my favourite family member and we were a wonderful duo. Much love to ESTPs form INFJs! ❤
@Jooney91
@Jooney91 Жыл бұрын
This! "I want to go out with you but I don't want to promise you anything, I don't know if I'll be in the mood"... that's really me. ~ INTJ
@jennifermeza5746
@jennifermeza5746 Жыл бұрын
I'm a INTJ but the INFJ guy is very relatable when I have been really interesting in someone, specially when I started dating my actual husband (INTP and autistic). I have to be the one with the initiative, was so so hard and I don't know how to express my feelings and he definitely less.
@RetroXRicardo
@RetroXRicardo Жыл бұрын
I've heard this so many times as an ESFJ. I'm always the nice guy, or I'm too nice. Why can't people just believe we want to be nice!?! lol 🤔😜😞
@louisejoel
@louisejoel Жыл бұрын
Hangout in your introvert flip side for a while
@RetroXRicardo
@RetroXRicardo Жыл бұрын
@Louise Joel I enjoy my solitude very much when I am by myself and no one to worry about...then my Ti thoughts start kicking in 🙄😲😞
@felixtownn
@felixtownn Жыл бұрын
After meeting so many jerks it's kind of difficult to accept that there are hood people out there. It's even harder when that person is nicer than I am haha
@darkwynggryph
@darkwynggryph Жыл бұрын
I live for FJ making opposite types interact 😂 (tho’ I’m really hoping I never elicited that “should I be worried?” response from the people I liked 👀) -ISTP
@wilbeugre
@wilbeugre Жыл бұрын
Well...I can assure you that my ENFJ self would have that thought at least once 😅
@felixtownn
@felixtownn Жыл бұрын
As an INFJ who has a crush on an INTJ, that's a thing that comes to my mind often. "He respects me and a few other people but looks down on everyone else. Should I be worried?" haha
@ceilinh6004
@ceilinh6004 Жыл бұрын
1. I liked that the INTP was female. 2. I related hard to the INTP having a difficult time accepting that someone was being sincere in their niceness. I know my default is to interpret everything as sarcasm, so... yeah.
@HollieDaNugget
@HollieDaNugget Жыл бұрын
'I gotta keep thinking noooooooo!' 🤣society really doesn't wait up for people that actually want to think before they speak haha
@compscidoggo
@compscidoggo Жыл бұрын
ESFJ dating an INFJ. The INFJ male was so accurate. He was super afraid to talk to me and it took a lot of time for him to build up the courage to ask me out. Of course I said yes.
@monikap8777
@monikap8777 Жыл бұрын
You two must be the nicest pair ever.
@allyaaa___
@allyaaa___ Жыл бұрын
I think u can talk to him like u are always be there for him, care for him or any comfort sentence that can comfort or help him from overthinking 😌 -infj Even sometimes i want my already lovely family do that too.. idk bcoz my overthinking hshshs 😂😂😌
@lindahansen45
@lindahansen45 Жыл бұрын
ISTJ here. Frank, you nailed it once again. So happy I found this channel
@FrankJames
@FrankJames Жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks!
@adeposie
@adeposie Жыл бұрын
I kind of want this specific one to be a series. Like I’m rooting for these couples lol
@MrsSuperman
@MrsSuperman Жыл бұрын
The moment I realized I married my opposite type! 😂
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Жыл бұрын
Like aren't opposite type incompatible??? Me and ESFP sister are like oil on water.
@MrsSuperman
@MrsSuperman Жыл бұрын
@Eren Yeager•エレン•イエガー I don't know, but I am isfj, and he is entp, and we get along just fine.
@grababundoberni
@grababundoberni Жыл бұрын
@@MrsSuperman Blessed be your relationship! For a lot more of years together!
@jandarkincilesi
@jandarkincilesi Жыл бұрын
@@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 personality types aren't everything...
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944
@irecyclechildrenandthisism5944 Жыл бұрын
@@jandarkincilesi If personality types aren't everything then why you watching MBTI video then?
@sigilofalfie
@sigilofalfie Жыл бұрын
As an ENTP that actually adores ISFJs, I’m more of the type to protect them and roast anyone that hurts them rather than uptalking oneself to make them like me but that’s just me. 😂
@felixtownn
@felixtownn Жыл бұрын
ENTPs and ISFJs are so cute together and I'm definately not saying this because I'm currently reading a romance novel of an ENTP & ISFJ couple.
@sigilofalfie
@sigilofalfie Жыл бұрын
@@felixtownn Hahaha, no I get it and besides, hope you’re enjoying the romance novel.
@felixtownn
@felixtownn Жыл бұрын
@@sigilofalfie Haha oh yes, I enjoy Jane Austen's novels quite a lot. But then when the climax comes, I put the book down for days until I have ability to go through the rollercoaster of emotions :')
@sigilofalfie
@sigilofalfie Жыл бұрын
@@felixtownn Oh bless you but hey, I believe in you! 😌
@felixtownn
@felixtownn Жыл бұрын
@@SamDNVS Persuasion :)
@Kate-qi7rn
@Kate-qi7rn Жыл бұрын
ISTP with a crush really be like (pointing out people in a group): "F you, F you, F you, you're cool, F you-" but inside their own mind instead of out loud.
@affinity266
@affinity266 Жыл бұрын
ENTJ hilariously true 😂I remember I did something similar, Please be direct cause I question your motives and what you mean and I can't be sure of what's going on unless you say it, kind of a romantically dummy 😆😂 I love this video 🧡
@Elena.J
@Elena.J Жыл бұрын
This was so fun to watch! Love the format of the video! :)
@FrankJames
@FrankJames Жыл бұрын
yay! 🧡
@madmarlowe1422
@madmarlowe1422 Жыл бұрын
INNTJ woman here and I always say I'll see how I feel before finalizing any plans. Spot on Mr. James.
@demonrelm2474
@demonrelm2474 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how this guy really seems to understand the 16 personalities like way more than surface level stario types and how well thought out all the parts are
@HAL-bh8ql
@HAL-bh8ql Жыл бұрын
INTJ current mood: I already experienced how love feels, why would I want to do it again?
@edi0157
@edi0157 Жыл бұрын
Oof, sounds like you have been hurt quite deeply, I feel bad for you
@sharonc.2207
@sharonc.2207 Жыл бұрын
💯
@papato20
@papato20 Жыл бұрын
@@edi0157 no the "who hurt you?" xd
@edi0157
@edi0157 Жыл бұрын
@@papato20 I mean it is clear that he didn’t have a good experience if he doesn’t want to repeat it lol, I genuinely feel for him despite not knowing what happened. People tend to use that meme to mock someone which is why I didn’t write it like that
@papato20
@papato20 Жыл бұрын
@@edi0157"it is clear that he didn’t have a good experience" i will have to disagree. leaving aside that I do not know the person who commented, believing that everyone who thinks like this about love is because they "had a bad experience" is stupidity, which eliminates the possibility of "objective" analysis. is like saying that because i don't jumped from a cliff, i don't not if i will get kill for the fall xd
@froggie_8301
@froggie_8301 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't even know how to function so, good job on this intj even responding
@Ice52901
@Ice52901 Жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ and this is so true.
@michael_koski
@michael_koski Жыл бұрын
As always, FJ makes the best content. Thanks so much for another great and hilarious video. Had me laughing, especially with the ESFJ/INTP, and the ESTP/INFJ. Great job FJ! ~ Ana
@riochime386
@riochime386 Жыл бұрын
As an intj this is true 😂 I’ve had a few people I just ghosted because they required too much “outing” at one point in my younger yrs 😂😂😂😂.
@kimm.8800
@kimm.8800 Жыл бұрын
That ESTP should take the initiative there! That's a reason for an INFJ to like them ^^ My favorite was the ESFJ-INTP. It reminds me a bit about myself and a certain ISFP! /INFJ.
@SelenaSea
@SelenaSea Жыл бұрын
Woah! Must have taken some brain-bending thinking-through to nail this one! 🤯 Lovin' the double-acts. So clever and funny - the acting and the editing! 🎬💥
@nicholaspelz9422
@nicholaspelz9422 Жыл бұрын
The infj thought process really hit home for me.
@medusagorgon9
@medusagorgon9 Жыл бұрын
My daughter is INFP, and her father is ESTJ. Good times!👀
@deezsweet1244
@deezsweet1244 Жыл бұрын
I loved the video!! The dynamics like this are very interesting and also this serves as a reference for possible romance stories that I would like to write one day!😄🤩💖
@melodyconte
@melodyconte Жыл бұрын
Currently crushing on an ESTJ. This tracks 😂
@cphxc
@cphxc Жыл бұрын
INTJ Moment: A good friend texted me TODAY asking if I wanted to hang out this evening. I audibly groaned into my pillow when I realized I didn't have a good excuse to not. Love my homie but goddamn is being social taxing. I actually pushed the time back a couple hours just to have a moment to wrap my head around going out into the real world. Hanging out was nice but now I'm back in my cave wherein I will hibernate for the remainder of the weekend to recover.
@aadrijadey
@aadrijadey Жыл бұрын
As an INTJ, holy shit I cannot relate more!! Damn, the entire idea of dating is intimidating to me. I mean to date, you need to socialize, which is definitely not my cup of tea :(
@QweAsd-nr8xg
@QweAsd-nr8xg Жыл бұрын
THE ENTJ X ISFP ONE WAS SO CUTE Also as an ENTP with an ISFJ best friend who always asks my opinion on stuff, yeah, I think she's adorable.
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