16 Personalities Interacting in Group Therapy

[@FrankJames]

Watch "16 Personalities Leaving a Get-Together" next 👉 infj.me/3HoQUJC

[@MoonsClanStuff]

Nice video

[@lionunderthestars7019]

I would like to see a follow up video asking each mbti what they felt they gained from group therapy.

[@NoopyP]

that was an amazing Charlie Brown reference

[@OGSilentMan]

Yep, another good one

[@DisneyLover022]

Here's an idea: the 16 personalities in a murder mystery.

[@alliesoapway1076]

INFP, INFJ, and INTJ is the trio we never knew we needed but really did.

[@hayleyferguson3346]

Oh we knew we needed them! They're kindred spirits! (INFJ)

[@birdyghostly]

Well I’m an INFP and my friend is an INTJ so it’s a duo. I don’t think I’ve ever met a INFJ. I get along really well with my INTP brother though. I really love INTP’s. Edit 1 year later: Me and my brother took the test again and I’m now an INFJ and he’s an INFP. Now it’s the trio

[@yardensivan4187]

More content about this trio would be absolutely amazing

[@Wasp239]

I'm INTJ, and my father is INFJ, so we are the duo

[@OreolaKastchukAlcantara]

YEEEESS EXACTLY

[@denisetan2089]

infp, intj and infj’s little group therapy session is better than the one with the actual therapist 😂

[@AndreaCrisp]

That's because INFP and INFJ are naturally good empathetic listeners and therapists.

[@frostyhannah]

totally. I'm an INFJ and I could be a way better therapist as long as I don't get dumped with people's problems because I then get overwhelmed lol

[@theshadowking4501]

@@frostyhannah Relatable for me too

[@shit_this.is.red.too...]

​@@AndreaCrisp as an infp, I can say that's true. After giving others the therapy they need, I always wished I could give myself that same therapy😂😂😂 (I meditated for a few times, and let's say I was able to give myself that therapy. I'm doing much better mentally now)

[@chahaljovial5598]

🥺

[@hazimhamid4992]

INFP, INFJ & INTJ are the best trio. Imagine them in a sitcom

[@MamaMOB]

I'd watch that

[@zynet_eseled]

@@MamaMOB expect some of the most bizarre philosophical existentialism moments from the INFP being off of their ADHD medication. Either the enfp is unlocked, or a vision into reality is found

[@saintfighteraqua]

​@CorrosAcid I want to be mad but I can't. I'm not on medication but certain things unlock my ENFP side.

[@zynet_eseled]

@@saintfighteraqua facts. I'm either the quietest person in the room, or the most chatty and interruptive person in the room.

[@rveriiee]

@@zynet_eseled I relate lol

[@pjotrkolster]

I love how INFP, INTJ and INFJ just run off. I fear this group therapy session might've actually traumatised the majority of participants.

[@trinaq]

Agreed, high intuition really is an advantage in a therapy session! 😂

[@atmodlee]

I love how INTJ and INFJ used INFP’s breakdown as an excuse to leave. Lol.

[@tjrothausen]

💯

[@alvarez85yearsand81]

Now here's the thing,if i had to be in a group therapy i will make sure of being the one that will talk much to have power over the group so I BECOME THE THERAPIST and overthrow the previous therapist taking everything under my command so as to mess with their flaws and uncover their weaknesses because its fun

[@BeeSweet16]

So accurate cuz I know my INFJ bestie would do the same for me and my INTJ uncle would be close behind. Its nice to hear the echo of "take advantage of the misunderstanding" here. XP

[@abaronofchivalry5176]

INFJ: "I'll go get em" INTJ: "I'll come with you" INFJ: "No thanks, I can do it alone" INTJ: "Bye everyone"

[@SettieSpaghetti]

Lmao it’s accurate

[@moondog7694]

@@SettieSpaghetti Why is it accurate? Do Intjs only want to hang out with infjs in real life?

[@SettieSpaghetti]

@@moondog7694 it’s an opportunity to leave and it would be done in such a way that was probably blunt, obvious, but as an INTJ that type of situation could be literally soul sucking, so it’s self preservation. Depends though, sometimes I like to observe too and try to learn why people do/think the way they do because it constantly baffles me.

[@kyurei4478]

Reading this, no need to wonder why the INFJ said he can do it alone though lol.

[@janinreschke]

Johnny buchheim and james Frank sind das gleiche

[@NDPersonalChannel]

Honestly the infj noticing the infp is the most accurate thing I've ever seen. Also that scene where the infp and the infj could get the intj to open up while group therapy couldnt is one of my favourite fj scenes of all time now

[@BrittnyOBrien]

🤗🥰🤩

[@mattcwatson]

So funny! We need more moments with INFP, INFJ, and INTJ together. Loved that dynamic.

[@shirophoenix01]

Me too!

[@sugarpoultry]

I could watch those interact all day. I have friends who fit the bills perfectly. The INTJ is my husband hahaha

[@jlynn8756]

That is literally the combination of me, my spouse and first born son. His plays on these three make me laugh everytime😂 My other son 'Mr. Rogers neighborhood?' 🤣

[@LadyDragonbane]

Yes, I loved that!

[@hungariangiraffe6361]

INTJ here, and I support your idea!

[@badlie4858]

ok, but infj and intj unintentionally having their own therapy session outside while infp is stuck with them as an improvised therapist... there's something iconic about it

[@kin-no-choo]

it's life bae. it's life. greetings from INFJ XD

[@frostyhannah]

INFJs and INTJs are just like that. As an INFJ I become a therapist whenever I feel it right, I am very good at giving advise and being a therapist, though I never actually follow the advise I give to people

[@Floww_Sea-]

@@frostyhannah honestly I do the exact same but as an infp

[@scrawnymf]

i know right!

[@ClassicAudiobooksInspirations]

@@frostyhannah 😂😂😂😂😂

[@SDoesNotKnow]

I love how the INTJ couldn’t help but involve himself with the INFJ and INFP and tried to convince them to blow off the session when he could have just walked past them and blow it off by himself, only to go back to the group session after the INFP hit the bull’s eye with the INTJ’s fear and after the INFJ convinced everyone to go back. I guess INTJs somehow find themselves drawn to the INFX energy, 😂.

[@Underos]

Im intp and i rally eally really love infx

[@Ahmed-1925IA]

​@@Underos I'm an infj, and i like intp intj infp and entj

[@ozywomandius2290]

This would explain my marriage 😂

[@alexss3661]

I mean I'm a woman (INTJ), my ex boyfriend was INFP, and my current bf is INFJ...

[@ChiakiNanami736]

For real, though, INTJ and my best friend of 20+ years is INFP 😹

[@ASentientBlockofSwissCheese]

I’m so proud of INTJ for admitting their fears. And as an INTP I am terrified of both chickens and tractors.

[@FrankJames]

lol #relatable

[@thexskating]

All of the chickens and tractors...

[@natalienailor5314]

No! Not chickens and tractors!! How can you even say the words of the greatest fear givers of all times????!!!

[@rebeldillon2081]

NO IT CAN'T BE NOT THE CHICKENS AND TRACTORS AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[@artwithjam3304]

Stop saying those words you're making me cry! I'm so scared 😭

[@nurainiarsad7395]

The INTJ pointing out the strategic advantage of not being noticed is spot on.

[@yigitorhan7654]

Sneak 100

[@eggsnspam]

Case in point, early on in my career for some reason people were underestimating me. I allowed them to continue to think so, just didn't correct them or anything. Especially when they assume X, Y, Z, type of work is new to me (it is but basic foundation I already have so not much of a big step) so they will be forgiving of mistakes, etc. Come review time for promotions, I keep getting promoted for the immense growth I've had and how everyone now relies on me. I made more money and upgraded my title so many times in such a short period of time.

[@justsomenobody889]

Indeed. See if you can guess my MBTI type based on what I chose for my name lol

[@charityrosewalker3093]

Funny thing is, my INTJ friend probably would've done the same thing! And I would agree!

[@pretzelpasta5136]

I can testify that stealth is quite a useful skill to possess irl - an INTJ

[@oliviah.5846]

As an ENFP, I am so confused with why I simultaneously feel things SO DEEPLY and yet can't ever be serious when communicating those feelings with others... this was TOO accurate.

[@Nephewphrog]

IKR!

[@MamaMOB]

As an INFP I do not know how you guys manage it. Humor I guess 🙂

[@jeng6786]

I think this is my 4yo sons personality type 😂

[@TheRealMakani]

Too true...

[@RoyanneTheWriter]

I express my feelings through humor.

[@jeonwonwoobagofluck8391]

The mini discussion between the INFP, INTJ and INFJ was peak comedy

[@JustMadster2]

Dont trust the website above ☝️ Telegram is a scam website And thats a fake channel

[@lastsonshine]

it made me laugh out loud when the INTJ said "actually my deepest fear is that the government will find out that I've been dodging taxes for years"

[@wishreader9571]

That was real therapy

[@michellekingsbury9347]

About how it goes though😂-infj

[@somethingthatexists4797]

INFP, INFJ, and INTJ's own little mini session outside might've been more productive from a group therapy standpoint than the entire session within lmfaooooooo

[@hefeibao]

Yes, that's what us INTJ's do. Just saying...

[@Crazy_Chriz]

It’s interesting to me that INFPs are the most introvert. The sequence of events would have happened to me

[@Crazy_Chriz]

ENFP would be me if I was extroverted literally. Making jokes most of the time and not really acting like I feel things on a deep level

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

They’re probably all the neurodivergent people in the group.

[@princyojha2810]

As an INFJ , I clapped so hard when my fellow INFJ buddy spoke for the INFP . And the way that INTP seemed intrigued when INFJ talked at the end. How can I forget the ENFJ , always supporting us thing…😊❤😁 You are damn relatable Frank. MUCH LOVE TO YOU 😊

[@heidihuth6202]

as an ENFJ, this made me smile.❤️

[@adrenalineactivate]

As a friend group trio of INFJ, INFP and INTJ. That's exactly how we deal with our emotions together. It's always about me and my problems, suddenly the INTJ starts spilling out about a problem relating to mine and then the INFJ confess on how they feel about the problem in their life and how it relates to ours. It's a perfect chaotic mess

[@Am_._]

That's the kind of life we all need lmao

[@nonsense618]

As an infj I feel insecure about how that is exactly what I do

[@MNkno]

As an INTJ, the reasoning here is very accurate: I weigh fear against incompetence... and although fellow INTJs alone are competent enough to spot the fear problems, we can usually negotiate an alliance to solve the issues. Just kidding. I hope.

[@PoorEdward]

they’re not real, they’re Barnum statements of your own self-perception, and you sound autistic.

[@PoorEdward]

@@nonsense618 You are not INFJ

[@mat3372]

The INFP, INTJ and INFJ are so cute together. The INFJ running after the INFP because he immediately saw that something was wrong. The INTJ pointing out that being overlooked is not so bad and you can use it to your advantage. The INFP who psychoanalyses the INTJ and actually helps him. I want more scenes with them together! Aaaa😍

[@charityrosewalker3093]

And, of course, the INTJ skirted the group because he didn't want to be there to begin with 🤣

[@aurograce2983]

I agree with the being overlooked as an advantage. You could walk out of school and get into other rooms as long as you stay quiet and act like you belong there. It's fantastic. Also you can just walk out and people won't notice.

[@sabermaster2761]

@@aurograce2983 that must be why I always managed to easily walk out of classes xD

[@czeianamiguel5543]

@@aurograce2983 Agreed, I can just drink water without having to pay for it and nobody would think that I haven't paid for it. Sometimes, my classmate behind me does all the work even though they were caught for drinking water without paying.

[@alliedorito3858]

I’m an infj and my bff is a infp

[@Triton01]

I'm an INTJ, that trio of INFP, INFJ and INTJ has the best mini group therapist conversation.. that's the kind of groups that INTJs need (except the group hug)

[@andylinmax2065]

As an INFP I can relate to being ignored so many times and honestly it's frustrating.

[@Abyss777]

daym I'm an INTJ and even I get ignored all the effin time.

[@Barbara_Banks_1]

Don’t worry dude- INTJ here, I get ignored or called a conspiracy nutjob all the time… for talking about the lawless mandates, and their numerous conspiracies against the ppl to stay in power, bankrupt the ppl, divide us and reduce population… Just 👀 look at where we are now.

[@Xandycane]

Same but the three coming together was super sweet.

[@luiiiandmovieee]

I'm an infp and same for me

[@Am_._]

@@Xandycane fr fr

[@catherine.rezzuto]

digging the INFP, INFJ & INTJ group sesh! INFJ concerned about INFP being overlooked because they themselves have been overlooked so many times and INTJ trying to give them plausible outs to ditch therapy was oddly heartwarming!

[@frostyhannah]

your comment is so true. I am a INFJ

[@dominiquevincent802]

As an INFP I actually don’t mind feeling overlooked… I’m honestly way more afraid of making someone else feel that way 😂

[@zleepy_zig]

im an infp and i really dont like overlooking people or being overlooked. worst of both worlds.

[@tarsun]

as an ISTP i wish he got more screentime. his fear of getting laughed at is relatable.

[@ickster23]

As they mature, ISTPs analyze this weakness and come to terms with it, thereby eliminating it as a fear. At 57, I can't think of any fears I have. Annoyances maybe, but no fears.

[@alejandrabernal6626]

yea same

[@rastishah6901]

Same

[@yurii-v1d]

they make us so mean lmao

[@kirie-chan7259]

ikr @@yurii-v1d

[@evedotcom]

The way the INFJ saw the INFP trying and spoke up for him, then gave him an empathetic pep talk 🥺❤️

[@dtxware06]

The way you get 77 likes no comments; here you go pal.

[@beverlyogrady1111]

That's exactly how it works. Eerily accurate!

[@hayleyferguson3346]

I'm INFJ and my partner is INFP and yes, lots of support talks.

[@insane5176]

Ohh that was so sweet

[@saoussentouti3025]

I need an infj in my life 😭

[@NadaAlawadhi]

INFP, INTJ and INFJ bonding is so wholesome and so accurate. And I’m pretty sure all three would’ve been forgotten if none came back 😂

[@juanjhs]

ENFJ would've definitely noticed and worried about them not coming back 😂

[@NadaAlawadhi]

@@juanjhs hahaha oh no, buzzkill! 😂 But you’re totally right lol

[@thatguywhois]

@@juanjhs ENFP too! we're suckers for those IN**s

[@edmann1820]

The ENTP would have noticed and come up with 16 possible reasons why they left and then 20 possible scenarios which would cause them not to come back. None of them would be accurate, but the ENTP would be grateful for the mental exercise.

[@priyanshi5647]

As an INFP I know how people ignore u easily without bothering ur existence... 😑😣 it was too accurate!! I loved it👏😂 I love the trio of INFP, INFJ, INTJ...

[@Ali-fx2wo]

As an INFJ, I can confirm that I hate being ignored, so when other people are being ignored in front of me I get really defensive of them, like I wish someone would be for me.

[@joyfulbeing596]

So me.... INFJ here 🤣 so relatable 🤣

[@djaberzohra2807]

So meee 😢

[@ArielaParker]

Yes, same. I feel their pain so I can't ignore it but almost no one ever returns the favor cuz they never notice 😅

[@DogOnAKeyboard]

I could understand this feeling when I am talking with people one on one (me being infj too), but I also hate the spotlight in big groups / work, etc so maybe those times I don't mind lol.

[@livediereapeat27]

OMG YES Thank you my felllow INFJ

[@DaveTexas]

I’m INTJ. I was in group therapy for more than a year. I never spoke. Ever. I just watched and listened to everyone else’s drama. I felt a lot better about my life after that, knowing that I was far less screwed-up than they all were.

[@slosh177]

This is why I sometimes watch mindless reality TV, to see that I'm not screwed up like to many others in life, lol!

[@mumumaxima]

This is so relatable 🤣 also did that in my group therapy last year and felt grateful after that

[@BeeSweet16]

Lmfao I can picture you doing that. Just a true intj move.

[@MVPA-io5ee]

Relatable 😂

[@MaryAnn_007]

Everyone else: Thank you for showing me what I'm afraid of ... I feel better. INTJ: Thank you for showing me that I'm not as screwed up as you ... I feel better. 😂

[@CheshireFeline]

I was kind of surprised that the INTJ, INTP, and INFJ came back and didn't just go for coffee and have their own personal group session. That was a lot of loud people, and the INTJ got comfortable with them pretty fast, opening up his strategies without even being asked and all. I'm pretty sure I've given that precise advice at one point.

[@cheriremily9360]

As an INTJ I would be suggesting getting coffee and dessert somewhere. Anywhere, but going back into that mess. I would bribe INFP and INFJ to leave.

[@Amethyst0407]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@cheriremily9360And as an INFP I would gladly take that bribe.

[@emelieha]

@@cheriremily9360 And I would happily follow. That chaotic mess would not be my cup of tea, but I'd probably go inside to tell the therapist before leaving because otherwise I'd feel guilty. -INFP

[@mathildedossou-dossa3555]

INFP not INTP

[@the80sfanatic13]

I was actually surprised too. As an INFJ I wouldn't go back to that mess.

[@LoveHandle4890]

He never runs out of ideas and we love him for that.

[@heiresslaite2950]

I admire infjs for that dedication

[@zirwasiddique7658]

Loved the "No" of INTJ after the INFP suggested a group hug.

[@unterdessen8822]

Is that a common INTJ trait? Not wanting to get physical?

[@zirwasiddique7658]

@@unterdessen8822 I think so. I hate physical contact. I don't even hug my friends or family members, let alone strangers. I shake hands though.

[@chesh05]

@@unterdessen8822 I forced myself to be comfortable with hugs. But I hated that too as a kid. But most of my family wants to give me a kiss on the cheek and I hate it. I have fewer issues with women I'm interested in romantically. I can't stand it when anyone plays with my hair for instance. Personal boundaries are important and violating them without telling me is a big "no-no."

[@YueYagami00]

​@@unterdessen8822 I think so aswell. I hate physical contact so hugs are out of question!!

[@yigitorhan7654]

@@unterdessen8822 I like hugs tho

[@baileyab47]

this whole sketch was 👌🏻. the INFJ, INTJ, INFP dynamic was great. another moment I loved was ENFJ feeling guilty about accidentally overlooking INFP and that being their biggest fear. so spot on lol. and as always obsessed with ESTJ and Timmy.

[@ti9erlilly]

INFJ, INTJ, and INFP are the PREFECT trio! I need more skits with them grouped together!

[@scrawnymf]

introvert intuitives in general, my favorite types

[@Faetan]

The friendship interactions between the INFJ and INTJ in every sketch are so spot on. All my friends usually wind up being INTJ and INFP, can testify that this is solid truth.

[@anya5893]

I'm an intj and my best friend is an infp and I can also confirm that it's accurate.

[@sparkiebunnie8]

I just love how INTJ sort of "feels" through INFJ lol because that's how I am (I'm INTJ) where it's like "I can't admit I have emotions but I'm still insecure so please help me in this awkward social situation"

[@Suzzers]

I'm INTJ and both my friends are INTPs lol.

[@ignorance_is_not_bliss]

Intj, best friend is infp, the fi/ne types tend to invade my life

[@swopekat]

This is so accurate! I'm an INFP who always seems to get ignored in group conversations. I don't know how everyone else seems to get the natural rhythm and timing of how/when to jump in. I do get along great with INFJs too. This might be my new favorite 16 personalities skit.

[@MoonSun00]

As an INFP, no matter where I am, this just hits home for me! (I'm not even going to cry) I can never put my two cents in without being interrupted, pushed aside, ignored, and not taken seriously. This is why I don't like being in groups. But thank you INFJ's for realizing that we exist in this world. Much Love ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@TaraTara-ld2xb]

I'm INFJ and I usually notice people who are ignored because I am also ignored so often! Lol.

[@Raina_Agarwal]

My life..

[@nightsea_w]

yeah i am an infp and i dont cry this often. i do get sad or pissed...for weeks BUT i dont cry and move on cause i dont have the nerve to bring it up

[@beast6213]

This is the story of my life as an INFP

[@BombshElle_7]

And this is why I'm very protective of my INFP friends. -INTJ

[@michael_koski]

I love the whole INFP, INFJ, and INTJ interactions! So hilarious, and very true!😂 And when INFJ finally figures something out about themself, very relatable. Great job, FJ! Greetings from an INFJ, Ana

[@jackdaniel777]

Ok

[@valentinaembers5713]

Agreed!! And fellow INFJ here too :D

[@alexss3661]

I'm an INTJ female, my ex boyfriend is INFP and my current boyfriend is INFJ. I connected on a deep level with both of them but the first day I met my current boyfriend it was like a therapy session. We both opened up about our philosophy of life and got to know the dark side of the other person. I really like INFJs because I have deep conversations with them rather than small talk.

[@beatjunkybg]

-I'm proud of you man! -Cool Exactly how an INTJ is accepting compliments and positive feedback

[@ImmanentizeTheEschaton]

I'm an INTJ who is willingly participating in therapy. My therapist will give me a sweeping, emotional compliment about how well I'm "handling" the difficult situations in my life, and my response is a monotone, expressionless "thank you."

[@arfar.m]

@@ImmanentizeTheEschaton i hope it's one-on-one sesh and not a group therapy for INTJ's sake

[@brookegiblette3879]

literally, i have a crush on an intj and im an infj and this is exactly how he responds

[@Free_Palestine45]

As an INTJ I agree

[@Free_Palestine45]

@@ImmanentizeTheEschaton same lol

[@bunny_0288]

Oh my gosh I'm an INFP, my husband is an INTJ, and our best friend is an INFJ! Their little trio breakout session was soooo accurate! I'm laughing so hard right now!

[@malloryo.4782]

We ENTPs are obsessed with improving ourselves (and not letting anything hold us back), so I think we tend to overcome and grow out of the more typical fears we experience in childhood. As an adult, I regularly face my fear of life's unknowns to avoid stagnation (my deepest fear). Too boring for a therapy session though, so can I totally relate to the ENTP in this video. 😂

[@rand0m_lunatic]

As an INFP, I can confirm that this representation is very accurate. Being overlooked and then crying is basically my life.

[@SugarandSarcasm]

👋

[@elizabethray8629]

Honestly same

[@tonkotsu_ramen2215]

the only inaccurate part is that infp went to try again so quickly i wouldnt cause im still embarrassed from the first time i got cut off

[@SugarandSarcasm]

@@tonkotsu_ramen2215 as soon as the other two start going, we could use our powers of invisibility to fade into the background and escape lol

[@rizwahqadri4405]

Esfp 0:14 Entj 0:25 Istj 0:36 Estp 0:44 Entp 0:55 Isfp 1:20 Infp 1:40 Enfj 1:57 Intp 2:03 Isfj 3:11 Esfj 3:24 Istp 3:32 Enfp 3:41 Intj 4:21 Intp pt 2 4:37 Estj 4:51 Infj 5:19 Well that was hard work 🫠

[@dontworryweloveyou989]

so proud of u

[@justanotherstupidswede...]

Appreciated it 🙃

[@jessica-pf9fy]

Enfp lol 😹

[@WatchingTheTimes]

Thanks for your hard work, friend.

[@mumumaxima]

Appreciate! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@celdan807]

The INFJ INTJ INFP with each other interactions were so spot on. Two of my best friends are an INFP and an INTJ (I’m an INFJ) and we have literally said some of those exact things to each other

[@lulaypp7816]

This went surprisingly deep and sweet!!! With the trio INFP, INFJ and INTJ and that moment!, the ENFJ feeling bad. Yet still keeping the trademark FJ fast-paced comedy without disrupting it or clashing. AND THE ACTING OF ALL THE DIFFERENT PERSONALITIES. The little nuances and quirks. I am in awe *_*

[@warriorcatkitty]

AGREEDD

[@MaraschinoPenguin31415]

Dear Frank, thanks for giving the INFPs so much attention. I feel seen! ❤❤❤

[@Am_._]

YESSS we are not overlooked anymore

[@aevanoparaiso7429]

Or unseen in this case... ahahah

[@yourbootyholeisyourbeautyhole]

i loved how the infp was able to coax the intj into admitting his fear because the infp _already knew_ and was earnestly proud of the intj when he admitted it. and i love how the infp and infj wanted to group hug but the intj is just "no." and the infp respected that immediately. 🥲 (i assume the infj would have done the same but it wasn't shown in the skit)

[@sharynearl2967]

But we INFPs are NOT all crybabies. At least not on the outside. 😅

[@MaraschinoPenguin31415]

@@aaliyahkishore246 Interesting question. I can’t think of any time I’ve ever felt smothered. The closest I can imagine is someone who wants to pay a lot of attention “at” me in some way that completely disregards me. An example of this could be someone who invites me to dinner, orders my food for me and wants to talk at me about topics that don’t interest me. Yuck!!!

[@shookyyt9404]

0:32 most relatable INFP moment

[@macylouwho1187]

I think enneagram types vastly change the way the personality types interact with others. I’m an enneagram 8 INFP and I would have been running that session. I’m not the kind of person that allows others to ignore or marginalize me. I’m a “take charge” type person, but not in a mean way. I have party books from my teen years where everyone was at my house having parties (I had a VERY permissive mother). It’s filled with photos of the party goers and their antics and everyone drew things in the book or wrote funny messages in it. I was the sort of person who talked to literally everyone and had friends from all walks of life and every social group in school. I could hang with the popular kids and usually did, but I was nice as heck to everyone and talked to people that other people actively avoided. I chatted with anyone I was currently around. I can still do that and I host massive public events sometimes on my property and they are well done. My work is mostly alone as I flip houses on my own time mostly alone so I have become more of a loner as I aged. As much as one can be with a husband and two bio kids and two informally adopted kids who had unsafe neglectful parents. They lived with us from a young age and their parents were either too addicted to substances to care or were absentee parents who also didn’t care. I had them here from around age 7 through high school graduation when they both went off to college and started their own adult lives and families. So yeah you should take the enneagram test and see where you fall on that. And honestly the way to change being alone or looked over there a to fake it until you make it. You can get everywhere in life by simply smiling and talking freely in a chatty friendly way to anyone you meet. And become a person who puts themselves out there into a public arena and makes those connections. Putting yourself out there, being friendly and sunny in disposition, chatting about anything you can think of, finding out other people’s interests and chatting them up about it even if it’s to ask questions, etc. That’s all it takes, honestly. Talk. Smile. Be encouraging, complimentary. Find out interests. Talk about it. Volunteer at a worthy cause if you can find the time and actually talk to people around you while doing it. Be clean, neat, presentable. Learn some funny jokes. And whatever you do, appear confident and not desperate. That desperation vibe kills it every time, man. Learn to read the room and act accordingly.

[@weinerlord]

As an INTP, being on the phone during important social meetings and events and/or having to write a (mental or not mental) note of what to say is extremely accurate.

[@zynet_eseled]

INFP-T rep. Fucking ditto.

[@TheRealSavage05]

Yes but i would of joined infp and the other two because i wouldn’t want to be there

[@axl256gamesx7]

Yep Another INTP here That was VERY relatable XD

[@PeyloBeauty]

@@TheRealSavage05ot me lmao i‘d actually not go with them😂😂 but I def see myself writing stuff in my notes to prepare what to say

[@brooklyn5755]

Yup, that’s me

[@maialoiacono6002]

Woohoo! Love the Charlie Brown quote!! Lucy: “Maybe you have pantophobia. Do you think you have pantophobia?” Charlie Brown: “What’s pantophobia?” Lucy: “The fear of everything.” Charlie Brown: “That’s it!!”

[@suburbohemian]

SNAP!! I'm so glad someone else caught that too!!!

[@eorzeancharmer228]

Literally came to comments searching to see if someone already caught it. 😂

[@gracesgr8t]

Charlie Brown Christmas is my all time favorite Christmas movie so I’m glad FJ made a reference to it and that someone other than me got the reference 😂

[@lisa_gay]

I literally screamed, "THAT'S IT!" along with Frank. 🤣

[@kyurei4478]

Actually I think that might be accurate. I don't feel like I'm afraid about anything specific but I might just have accepted that everything is scary to me and I try to navigate through that each new day. Or maybe I'm just afraid of not finding my place cause there is so many possibilities in life and it's hard to find my own but again, that's somehow related to life itself.

[@00058000]

As an INTP, I want to say my greatest fear is dying alone, but it feels a bit silly to be afraid of the inevitable.

[@dyingofdioxide]

it's okay to be silly, that's natural

[@環保L-g6u]

As an infp, amazed to know you have fear

[@avniarora4483]

As an INTP, I don't know what my fear is

[@cremedecassis99]

actually i know what i fear as INTP: getting old aka going senile. imagine losing all brain capabilities, dang!

[@NTHTVal]

As an INFJ this is soo accurate on soo many levels 😂. From pointing out and trying to help the overlooked. Plus not knowing what you fear but you're constantly anxious 😬 and constantly trying to better yourself to stop being anxious. And the cycle goes on 😅. Yet again another great content. Thanks FJ

[@shikiseiren5677]

It's really interesting because, before I started therapy, I was just constantly depressed and anxious and I couldn't understand exactly why. I think therapy helps with this!

[@dinamita2870]

I feel this on a deep level. I wish I could understand myself

[@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx12]

@@dinamita2870 me too

[@vapx0075]

And how I interact with INTJs.

[@lanecountybigfooters5716]

Yep! Right on the nose.

[@mostfrozenburrito]

I almost cried watching INFP get talked over and then admit that their worst fear is being overlooked 😭😭 story of my life for real

[@Ahmed-1925IA]

Dang

[@neonkatt7659]

Trust me you aren't the only one. I'll listen to you💙 - An INFJ

[@m_n_a_b]

My niece is also an INFP. I am an ENFP. I absolutely adore her! She naturally feels overlooked, too. The group of kids she has in her life mostly ignore her or don't like her. It's sad. She is very lonely on the peer level, but has very rich connections with adults in her close circle. My husband is INTJ and her mom is INTP... we all do our best to make sure she never feels overlooked. We see her. We see her value. She is an amazing human being. 14 years old and has already written two books that are part of a trilogy. We encouraged her to send them to a publisher and she did and they want to publish her. She was so nervous and hates the attention, but we are so proud of her and know she is going to do great things. I will say, as an ENFP... I'm very often overlooked, as well. In my group of friends and acquaintances, someone will ask me a question, then three words into me explaining my answer, they will begin talking with someone else in the circle of people mingling. It happens ALL THE TIME. Yet, I know I'm ENFP because I'm super bubbly and processing things a mile a minute. My INTJ husband said I'm hard to follow in conversation because of the Ne and I jump from thing to thing to make the connections for them, but by the time I get to the point, I've lost them. So, I have no clue how to talk to people. I am sorry people overlook you. As an ENFP, I know we tend to interrupt people, too. Although, we also interrupt ourselves with our squirrel moments and rabbit trails. It isn't intentional, it is all just excitement over something we have insight on and it is bubbling up out of us. I have to be VERY intentional when I'm in conversations to not interrupt. It is one of the most difficult things for me to master. People are complicated. 🤷‍♀️ I'd rather deal with unicorns. 🦄🌈🪅

[@mostfrozenburrito]

@@neonkatt7659 but who will listen to you, my dear INFJ? I love the INFJs in my life dearly but they are always the therapist friend. We can take turns listening to each other 💕

[@KaleidoRose]

As an INTP who's aiming my constant analysis at myself, I would've had just a massive list of my deepest fears, and what they stem from and how all of that interacts and stuff. And then like, 10 seconds after we move on I would realize I missed several key points but it's too late now.

[@purplecatloverrandompizza]

Yes

[@beckyjfox]

once again hitting the nail on the head with INFJ lol 😅 I love the interaction between INFJ, INTJ, & INFP!

[@kiaratheotaku6257]

The fact that INFP keeps getting overshadowed and ignored is totally relatable. My friends are all extroverts and being really loud and outgoing, overlooking a lot. Meanwhile I’m flying under the radar and suffering in silence (being afraid, not being a functional adult yet, existential dread, being a late bloomer and falling behind everyone else and blaming myself for something I can’t control, and finally not being as outgoing.)

[@SugarandSarcasm]

*hyperventilating*

[@nica_rui7128]

I feel ignored in the conversation like i didn't exist. It was really irritating

[@zatizainal3463]

can relate, why are we like this?? *sobbing*

[@SugarandSarcasm]

@@nica_rui7128 I’m trying not to interrupt people, but they just keep going! I feel you 😕

[@kiaratheotaku6257]

@@zatizainal3463 I don’t know *sobs*

[@neonkatt7659]

The exuberant "THAT'S IT!" had me in tears. I try to find differences every single time you portray INFJ, but I just can't 💀

[@lizl1407]

I'm an ENFP therapist in training... And I love running group therapy.. I definitely noticed that ENFP never actually said what his fear was - accurate. Because ENFP's actual deepest fear is closeness, intimacy, being deeply known and seen by others. We're always looking to escape through actual escaping or through humor, daydreaming, hobbies, anything

[@tvl9193]

Damn no need to expose me like that 😦

[@yashpathak1650]

But the enfp in the video was so funny. Like i was dying.

[@ZuerstJesus]

möp ó.ò

[@Liatriss]

Why get to know my deep side when you can see these cool mini figures I made for this video I want to shoot and put my own music over. I was actually thinking of taking up singing too so we could have it be like a phantom of the opera style claymation extravaganza but with the joke delivery and narration of Arrested Development. Sorry, what was the topic?

[@The_Firevenus]

I feel extremely expose, this is no longer haha hehe giggles moment

[@pukupukupaopao]

As an INFP that was spot on also I can totally see INFJ doing that lmao also the small group of INFP INFJ and INTJ was actually wholesome and heartwarming lol. Also yes INFJ, you're afraid of everything TT

[@priscillakurian2036]

I don't wanna be afraid 😢

[@dianaxrose9]

@@priscillakurian2036too bad 🔫🐝

[@skytalkcommunications2626]

As an INTP, I legit don't know what my fear is so when the topic was about fears, I brought my phone and read my notes out loud to the therapist😂

[@dogbark]

Love how the INFJ and INTJ smoothly avoid having to open up in front of all these strangers by leaving together hahahahah

[@TheQwuilleran]

bffs 5ever

[@ASentientBlockofSwissCheese]

Ayy the only channel where I don’t skip ads. Take the money, Frank.

[@FrankJames]

yay tanks

[@rinnn2231]

No ads that's a relief ! Thanksssss for that @Frank James

[@heiresslaite2950]

Yeah, u actually forget ur supposed to skip haha

[@shimerrill967]

@@FrankJames Your so cute 💕

[@the80sfanatic13]

INFJ at the end. 😂😂😂 That is so me. "Everything." I laughed during this whole video. INFJ, INFP, and INTJ had their own therapy outside. Brilliant.

[@RadioactiveWeka]

Always love seeing INFJ and INTJ interacting. Them plus the INFP was just brilliant! Would love to see more of those three together. (Perhaps a 'different friend groups' skit?

[@jenniferhanses7064]

Toss in the INTP, and the Introverted Intuitives could enjoy some time in their own space.

[@RadioactiveWeka]

@@jenniferhanses7064 That would be so great!

[@jlynn8756]

I don't know about the other personalities, but spot on hysterical! I'm 💀🤣. As an INFJ who constantly tries to reassure my INFP teenage son as my INTJ husband interjects his opinion and complains about the government while my other ENFP son cracking jokes that no else seems to laugh as hard at as himself, this is like a totally relatable evening in my life.😂 Well done FJ👏👏

[@FPT84]

Love how everyone's mbti matches here!

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Sou INFJ e como eu gostaria de ter nascido numa família de intuitivos...😔

[@m_n_a_b]

Man, your house must be so fun!!! That's adorable! ~ ENFP who is married to an INTJ and has an INFP niece we are incredibly close with 🦄🌈🪅

[@ElectroDrives]

Hmm as an ENFP this is fairly accurate (except I didn't laugh at other people's fears, I would never do that). I once went into group therapy involuntarily (it was part of an acting class) and they asked everyone to open up about their fears. The people around me had serious answers like losing their child, losing a loved one. And then it was my turn and I said clowns, bad LSD trips and getting chased by monkeys (although I said this to lighten the mood, I really do have a fear of these lmao)

[@corineofroses]

as an INFP with an INFJ mother and an INTJ father, that whole storyline made me giggle 🤭

[@shadow_in_zero3510]

I'm an INFP and that's literally what always happens, it's like I don't exist, and at first I was often really offended since even friends and family sometines didn't notice me (they are not doing it in purpose and are not bad people, it just happens) but now I've just gone to see it as my superpower and am laughung my ass off everytime someone is like: wait a minute how do you know, or hey look, she was searching for you and just walked past lol

[@linmonPIE]

Just yesterday I was sitting on the couch in plain view of my mom and she said to my dad, “can you yell up to linmonPIE that dinner’s ready?” My dad looks over at me and yells that dinner’s ready. Mom is startled and says “Why did you…” then finally sees me. “When did you get down here?” I say, “I’ve been here a while. Sorry I forgot to take off my invisibility cloak again.” 🤣

[@laurayep93]

Same thing happened to me all the time, even though I am much taller compared to the rest of my siblings or friends. I used to be so sad about this, but now I'm more happy knowing that I can just disappear whenever I want to. 🤣🤣🤣

[@charityann0611]

I need to learn how to use this as my superpower instead of being offended by it… 💡 Big long distance hugs to all my fellow INFP friends out there. 💛💛

[@suzannexander]

An INFJ here, I have an "invisibility mode" too, it's like I can just become a part of the furniture (once I literally sat casually in the living room during a game of hide and seek and I was the last one to be found 😂) . But luckily I also have my "impossible to miss" mode, so I can make sure I'm noticed when I want to be. I have no idea how it works though, like I won't even change anything but the way I present myself physically, like I fix my posture and give myself the air of importance to make people notice me or then I just act normal to avoid being noticed. Also, people should not try to sneak around if they want to be incognito, a little noice or movement won't alert others nearly as much as acting in a suspicious manner. But yeah, it's a great talent to have, I too have been ask "how on earth can you know that?" so many times, when I've just happened to be near an important conversation in "incognito mode" 😶

[@natty0599]

It's sad, but I just kinda learn to accept it...🥲🥲 Because sometimes it's actually an advantage to be invisible. Wish I have an INFJ and INTJ like in this skit

[@ariellustrates]

INFJ, INFP, and INTJ running out and having their own convo was so ACCURATE😭 as an INFJ i was relating from start to finish, INFP ran out and I was like "I swear if no one goes after him 😖"

[@BombshElle_7]

As an INTJ, I have had similar conversations with INFx. My INFP friends always figure out what I'm feeling (sometimes before I do). My INFJ friends always encourage me to do the right thing or to be more introspective. I LOVE INFx. They know how to be gentle, but they also have a scary/gangster side that they try to hide. 🤭

[@gabrielaburcea5734]

Infjs and infps are actually very different. Infjs dominant is also your dominant, which makes us so rare ans intjs too, while infps have totally diferent functions ;) they may seem similar, but only at the first glance maybe.

[@graciegracie]

Samee

[@how2download916]

im INFJ how you know about that scary side 🤫

[@BombshElle_7]

@HOW 2 DOWNLOAD When your INFJ friend says to people: "If you're planning on jumping me, you better kill me. Because after the day I just had, I am NOT in the mood!" Yeah, that taught me all I needed to know about you.

[@michellekingsbury9347]

Apparently one infp i knew says I remind her of a jellyfish at times-infj

[@aaliyahkishore246]

I have never been more proud of the INTJ than I am watching this skit. -INTJ

[@jamesrushin5412]

Same here

[@yourbootyholeisyourbeautyhole]

i'm so proud of you 🥹 - infp

[@marissabaquiran8190]

As an INFP, this was so accurate. They always do those things to me

[@sugarmagnolia33]

The ENTP not knowing what their fear is is so accurate. I would have no idea how to answer that question 😅

[@kelilahfiles1823]

lol yeah XD

[@yuiger9310]

INTP: Just fake a fear. If you tell the truth they will never believe you. Certainly ironic.

[@eve_______]

Probably something like this since Ive said this unironically once: I fear nothing since there is nothing worth fearing more than myself.

[@MercyMburuNyakio]

@@eve_______ THIS COMMENT SHOULD BREAK THE INTERNET

[@nightmarep]

I’d say spiders lol

[@majibento]

Like many others, I’d love to see more interactions between INFP, INFJ, and INTJ😄

[@AsahiYuban]

I'm an INFJ and this video was so spot on. My husband is INTJ and my younger sister/bestfriend is INFP and this hit close to home

[@stefaniatorrealbad]

As an INFJ, I loved this!! Not only for mentioning the feeling of being afraid without knowing what you're afraid of; at the begining I was all: oh, please, let the INFJ be the one to tell the rest that INFP wants to participate and is being ignored, and when he did, I literally laughed out loud! (Also, being more at ease with a small group of introverts than with a big group, I really felt seen!) Kudos, FJ! XD

[@yeeaahhzz]

As an ENFP older sister with an ISTP younger brother, the uncontrollable laughing definitely tracks.

[@4lasdair]

Oh that poor boy hahaha 😂 (and I say that as a fellow ENFP)

[@jeremyud]

Also ENFP. I started laughing once when a professor told my class that she had been sexually harassed because I was shocked. I had to explain to her it wasn't because I was amused and sometimes I laugh at inappropriate moments.

[@desertforest2221]

Just watched this again. I love the trio of INFJ, INFP and INTJ. I wish I could have a group of friends like that IRL, actually. I think we'd get along. I can be the INFJ and then I just need to find the other two. ...which admittedly might be like searching for a needle in a haystack, but... eh, I can dream.

[@suzannexander]

I'm an INFJ and my best friends are an INFP an INTJ, unfortunately neither of my friends really have much interest in being friends with eachother, but it's still amazing how they both get me, but in different ways 🥰

[@anonymous_hito]

Aww. I thought the INTJ was just going for another excuse to leave but he actually had some mini therapy session with the INFP and INFJ. 😊

[@justsomenobody889]

Fun fact: Many INTJs have an intense fear of rejection, but of course it's a deep, dark secret

[@jocelyn9058]

Omg I love how the INFJ and INTJ immediately come to comfort the INFP, that is so sweet

[@Wasp239]

the INTJ just wanted to go home lol. It was a plot of him to walk away )

[@anonygent]

Exactly, that was just an excuse to get the hell out of there. 🤭

[@LelouchXayanokoji14]

I'm sure the INTJ just wanted to get out of there

[@lobalee1873]

This is my favorite 16 personalities video! It's hilarious and I love seeing INFJ, INFP, and INTJ together.

[@solangelo_shipper2630]

4:30 is so damn accurate. This is so how I act around like everyone. Apathy is amazing -INTJ

[@annmoore321]

INTJ here. I can confirm that my instant reaction to the suggestion of group therapy of any kind is, “Oh, hell no!” And if for some reason I got roped into a session, I would leave at the first opportunity. I don’t share my fears and vulnerabilities with complete strangers.

[@XSemperIdem5]

I would never do that either.

[@OliviasCatastrophe]

The INFJ and INFP interaction was EXACTLY my sister and I to the point where it's scary. Especially the whole sees someone being spoken over all the time and gives them room to talk. INFJ giving a secondary therapy session is too accurate as well (although in the session I absolutely wouldn't reveal my fear because I wouldn't trust the therapist yet lol)

[@KazeAkihito]

As an INFP with an INFJ friend, he always looks out for me whenever I feel like dipping out of a group so it's quite accurate lmao

[@mumumaxima]

Being an INTJ, this skit is eerily accurate. Especially when he said, “I’m out.” That’s precisely what I say (or move away silently without being noticed) when I feel unsafe and uncomfortable 🤣

[@Free_Palestine45]

Same lol

[@syebethel]

That must have been one smooth talker that got the INTJ to even show up in the first place! 😂

[@tomochysan68]

Unsafe and uncomfortable 💗

[@ViirinSoftworks]

I know, right? I can't understand how it's hard for other people.

[@krystinspotted1504]

ISTP sitting there in silence then suddenly coming off aggressive with the energy of ripping off the bandaid so they can just get it over with, was exactly how I was when my middle school tried group therapy on us once lmao

[@Kharizmah]

As ISTJ, I was sure that didn't fit me at all... but then as the session continued I noticed that by ISTJ blurting out some insignificant fear at the beginning, he virtually disappeared never to be forced to interact again becoming almost an invisible entity in the therapy group. .... BRILLIANT!

[@letfreedomring7330]

Yes! Because admitting his real fear (*clears throat* failure) would have forced him to talk about it to the group. There's nothing worse than talking about feelings.

[@lauriesimonds9229]

I've learned to "be brave" and just go first in these types of situations so that I can just get it over with. And nobody remembers if you messed up by the time everyone else is done, so it's a win 😀

[@Kharizmah]

@@letfreedomring7330 Is this my conscience commenting?

[@doug6259]

That is what I would have done too.

[@jul4173]

Yep, we are so boring. Love it. And dating scares me. People are the most irrational and illogical things in the world. Even Einstein said something like, I rather do general relativity theory than trying understand women.

[@1swerdna]

As an INTP who opens up by sharing their fear of sunflowers, this was relatable

[@vee258]

Now I'm thinking that my INTP friend opened up to me by telling me she's afraid of slugs

[@1swerdna]

@@vee258 She did. You should feel honored. Lol

[@ItsMe_Oneofthem]

I’m a into to and it was a little relatable

[@mrod8578]

INTPs being goofy 😂

[@iberos]

Bro you fear things ?

[@zaharahabdullah2389]

As an INFP-T myself, this is SO accurate..like why does everyone STILL overlooked at me and ignoring me till this day?!

[@luiiiandmovieee]

This is my new fav video!! I'm an INFP and one of the worst feelings is being overlooked by people who I care about ... or people I have a crush on ... okay anyways, I really love this infp infj intj gang and the calm confidence. Wish we'll see more about this friendship

[@heiresslaite2950]

Same! Just because I loved the storyline.

[@JustAnotherCommenter]

ISTP watching everyone tell their weird fears is such a mood. Then when he comes to share his fear he acts aggressive but it's actually true that he hates being laughed at.

[@summerdew5885]

Thanks

[@hazardfree23]

The INFP - INFJ interaction is SPOT ON! And the misunderstood bit is pure brilliance ✨

[@hayleyferguson3346]

I'm INFJ and my partner is INFP and this was so accurate!

[@laribs]

As an INFP I got so angry that even the therapist ignored the INFP to call the ENTP. I wanted to yell at everybody so they could listen to him :( It hurt lol Too relatable 🥲🥲

[@PatrickThorup]

5:44 I guess... maybe it's true that us ENFP's fear being serious... NOPE! I'm so serious, you can call me Darth Serious 😂🤪

[@autisticdancer]

As an INFJ I felt so called out (in a good way!) in this sketch. I tend to blend into the background a lot and am generally pretty shy. So I've had multiple occasions where I've been talked over when I'm trying to say something. So whenever I see the same happening to someone else in a group I try to let them be heard by gently pointing out to everyone else that said person is trying to say something. It just seems like the nice thing to do and because I know what it feels like to be overlooked. Also, I have many fears. But my biggest one is the fear of being an outcast and not belonging anywhere. :')

[@TaraTara-ld2xb]

My biggest fear is dying alone, but that probably doesn't have to do with me being INFJ.

[@maijjjjths]

I wish I could fit somewhere but people around me are toxic

[@nyla5065]

1:48 typical INTJ: Taking the opportunity to get away from everyone. We love to see it!

[@zah.47_]

as INTJ's see my mbti's interactions with INFP and INFJ it feels so real. because my two best friends right now are they INFP and INFJ. feel like i just watch my real-life.

[@polovolt3]

I’m an INFP and holy crap , being overlooked is all too common!!😂

[@the80sfanatic13]

I understand you. I'm an INFJ.

[@whoevenamisupposedtobe7948]

Bro istg I don't even know y I'm ignored like genuinely it's too common

[@staseraleggiamo]

I recently opened my eyes with the help of my therapist: I am scared by fear itself. Yes, I am an INTJ, with some vibes of INFJ. 😅 And my husband is a wonderful INFP so I really appreciate the "forgotten trio"! 🤣

[@urnotl0r0s]

You must be wronged (“some vibes of INFJ”). You could’ve said that, it would probably be a sign of you (and possibly your husband) being mistyped. Ni users know what they want and are “stuck in the future” (a lot of the time) while Si users prefer to use their conscience to their advantage and are very nostalgic, therefore being able to remember past sensations more easily.

[@staseraleggiamo]

​@@urnotl0r0s I am an INTJ in a lovely Ni-Fi loop which almost destroyed my mind. When I was a child I was more extreme in my rational and blunt attitude, the influence of my loved ones (all INFPs) softened me enough to get in touch with my feelings. Growing up we are able to change (and to break...and to heal again, hopefully).

[@urnotl0r0s]

@@staseraleggiamo but did you ever consider Fi-ni loop?

[@staseraleggiamo]

@@urnotl0r0s there's nothing similar to an ISFP in me.

[@ImmanentizeTheEschaton]

@@staseraleggiamo I was in an Ni-Fi loop for years, but I managed to escape. Talking to my ENTP friend helps. He doesn't think MBTI is "real" but he'll be the first to tell me "hey you're doing that thing again where you are expecting the worst outcomes without any evidence" and it pops my Ni-Fi bubble.

[@JMadonna]

So I made my husband and my teen son take the MB test for Mother’s Day. My husband is an ESFJ and my son and I are both INFJ. This video is accurate. My husband cracks jokes all the time and cannot make big decisions. My son and I are the ‘counselors’ and we stickup for others.