16 Personalities Interacting With Their Opposite Type

INFJ and ESTP... INFP and ESTJ... what could go wrong??
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[@snowglobe4353]

Please make "16 personalities as vegan" next time. Thank you

[@2MMixedMemes]

Handsome! :3

[@_k5yk]

Refer back to the Arabic translation, please

[@lee.bythesea]

this is so great :D

[@cass8330]

I love that you're comparing each opposite from the same quadra because it makes for more truth about the differences between the axes and especially that's it's JxxJ with JxxJ and PxxP with PxxP because there's less outlandish claims if they're both of the same conceptual framework. Introverts and are still Introverts and vice versa.. Neither is better, we need both.

[@jasmineabilkashim4768]

I'm just gonna say one thing that his acting is getting better and better.

[@mabella2265]

Yess, completely agree

[@EmTreasure88]

Wonder if i'll ever see him in a movie

[@mabella2265]

@@EmTreasure88 I'm wondering that now odkslNsk

[@MTWTVP]

and the writing! plus the music, lol that intro jam... Haha

[@mabella2265]

@@MTWTVP OMG SO TRUEE THE INTRO WAS GOLD Btw, I've seen u in many comments, right? Omg, I'm your fan now. Wish I could comment that much dlsmlsnd

[@fiorellalescano]

"Scientifically speaking, you're gonna be inhaling my fist pretty soon ." Best line! ;)

[@mikasattler2724]

Wait how did you know this line so early?

[@wonder3761]

17 hours ago?!

[@Kaltsit-]

Well, scientifically speaking you can’t inhale the fist unless it actually goes into the mouth and down the throat. I’m not the personality type that was talking about science. I’m INFP (the crier lol) and I just love science.

[@Kaltsit-]

There is something else that is true though that interconnects all of us. But people wouldn’t like to think about that one. Cuz it’s kinda disgusting to think about.

[@hotshots149]

I'm like the ISTP when I interact with my younger ENFJ sister. - INTP …And with the INTP situation, I may show signs of anger (and possibly aggression) if someone seriously tried setting me up with a randomer.

[@StagestopTrueCrime]

alternative title: Extroverts bullying Introverts for three and a half minutes

[@pamisachan]

Actually some of the introverts were the bullies in this!!!!

[@Yoruharu]

not ISTP though

[@mrrandompro476]

Am i the only istj here? Cause i never see any comment mentioning this type Event though it is the most common type overall

[@zafeeranaim1344]

@@mrrandompro476 omg same lol

[@mrrandompro476]

@@zafeeranaim1344 istj are the best people in the world🙂

[@TiredPolyglot]

"I'm crying because this movie is so stupid it doesn't even make any sense" I'm crying because this is the most accurate description of me watching stupid movies

[@queenentp5w68]

Yup!🤣😂🤣

[@TheFlyfly]

for me its the opposite. i laugh if something is dumb enough lol

[@avrilnoragabi6144]

totally accurate

[@agent_sus3273]

Funny enough, I spend half the time watching movies complaining about how inaccurate they are. Actually, the only movies I’m usually fine with are the animated ones, since it’s already so unrealistic that I don’t care anymore, and actually enjoy the movie.

[@v3g627]

Reminds me of the imdb review on Avengers Endgame when that guy was crying not because iron man died but because he wasted his money watching this movie

[@carry-on-my-legacy]

As an INTP who’s friends with an ESFJ, this is terrifyingly accurate

[@lt.branwulfram4794]

Yep, if not we just hiss at them.

[@pactpoint]

hi fellow INTP

[@melany1120]

yeah my sister is an esfj and this happens every time

[@M4rcLL]

Good for you, you have friends at least

[@avinatine]

@@M4rcLL paint but the t is silent 💀

[@reveriedreamshade5669]

Honestly as an INFP when interacting with ES types I just automatically go into roast mode

[@Umeshukitsune]

I'm an INFP and I think the personalities I can't stand are xSTx. Have you met an ESTJ? I felt irrationally angry then found out later he was that type.

[@FloriGarciaCasali]

I m an INFP and my best male friend is an ESTJ (never got bored with him even a bit, it took us some years to adapt to each other but then it became one of the best relationships i ve ever had!! ). And now I ve been 11 years married to an ESTP, and despite we dont share interests, we share actions and feel always strongly attracted to each other and it s like we compensate and know each other so well, he teaches me to be practical, down to earth, and I give him peace and thinking over the essence of things, among way more. I have to add that what has though, given more in life to achieve peace and happiness and meaning is rrgular meditation. Now I remember the feeling I had when dating other INFP; like we got bored with each other, both of us felt helpless with each other mental “mambos” ... like being with someone who doesn t get into that kind of things help you to stop feeding drama.

[@orareyou36]

@@Umeshukitsune i got a friend that's an istp and she's just irritated everytime i do something

[@kiranalestari1715]

I have a frenemy who is ESTJ. She's so nice to me when she needs something, but most of the time she thinks I'm over sensitive, full of delusion and too clumsy. But ofc, not all of ESTJs like that.

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

@@Umeshukitsune I feel the same way with feelers. I DO NOT get along well with xxFx types. I'm an ISTP.

[@anyascelticcreations]

I'm enjoying learning about the personalities. But honestly, I think it's his acting skills that I enjoy the most. 👍

[@erezsolomon3838]

Can relate

[@Angelaangelat]

Definitely!

[@raphael714]

I agree, he is good at acting, these sketches should only be used for entertainment and not for educational purposes though

[@kaospilot2774]

Haha, you are being ironic, right? His acting skills are absolutely terrible.

[@verborgenwaarheid3192]

@@kaospilot2774 It's still fun to watch

[@XandriethXs]

INFJ: we're just glad we could help. That's most of our social interaction anyway.... 😌

[@lailatussyifa9278]

Yeah :(

[@sarahh3044]

Exactly 😅

[@civilizedmonster]

So true 😂

[@XandriethXs]

@@civilizedmonster ikr.... 😂

[@XandriethXs]

@@civilizedmonster ikr.... 😂

[@amyosborne9215]

Hey look an INFP that actually lets their feelings escape! Then, regrets it instantly. Well, he’ll learn his lesson. Bottle that stuff up and use it for your novel that will be published posthumously.

[@marcusmak1838]

Then one day decide he'll give people a second chance and open up himself again then again regrets it immediately and bottle himself again. Loop

[@KhluKhlu]

I- d a m n

[@SEXgoddess.]

RIGHTTTTT

[@jagrutib27]

@@marcusmak1838 but the op said posthumously-

[@vartikaindora5906]

It doesn't scare me to see INFP crying in the thumbnails. What scares me is being able to relate to it without any context.

[@HaifaaAmni]

True

[@Kaltsit-]

Yeah, and that also makes me sad that I relate to crying and being sad a lot. Which makes me sadder……I think I created a snowball.

[@mayconreyes3446]

Well , I rarely cry. I'm so bad even at being INFP :(

[@naginiriddle7091]

@@mayconreyes3446 not necessarily. It depends on more than just letters. It depends on the percentages of those letters, whether or not you are also assertive vs turbulent, and how you were raised (like parental/societal/cultural expectations you grew up with). Crying is not the sole being of INFP, lol.

[@kaodi6993]

I think crying is an outlet of multiple stressor, different people have different threshold 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@IiINerd32IiI]

0:00 ISFJ and ENTP 0:14 ESFJ and INTP 0:39 ISTJ (me) and ENFP 1:01 ENTJ and ISFP 1:24 INTJ and ESFP 1:49 ISTP and ENFJ 2:20 ESTJ and INFP 2:46 INFJ and ESTP I don’t know if this is true, but I feel like I’m starting to see more sensors over here

[@springchld6135]

Thank you

[@IiINerd32IiI]

@@springchld6135 You’re very welcome!

[@hibiscuspetal1026]

Very helpful, thanks!

[@IiINerd32IiI]

@@hibiscuspetal1026 Glad I could help!

[@INTP564]

Aahh the comment I was searching for

[@jiraniku6550]

As an INFJ, i often feel that people's problems get dumped on me a lot or that they expect me to somehow help them because i have done so previously. Because i don't like leaving things unsolved and the easiest way to be left alone is to help them. But all i really want is to not think of problems in this life and exist in some higher plane where i can just be.

[@barbaricstrike5814]

I'm an ENFJ but I feel you on that one.

[@greatwavefan397]

Pucca! :3

[@HisameArtwork]

@SUBCRIBE TIKTOK SMA & SMP GUNUNG GEDE UPDET HARIAN well it's easy for us, but INFJs don't want to be mean or selfish or whatever. but I do feel like people are taking advantage of my infj hubby and stealing our quality time from us with their bs.

[@Phoenixqueen77]

Yeah... the worst thing though is when you have someone with a history of dumping horrible things on you regularly, and every time they contact you, they start the fricking message with "Hey. It's important"

[@MissRenesmeePretty]

🙂🙂🙂 wow I realized that people have always dumped their problems on me too and I do not like it one bit usually but can't do anything else but help lol

[@bekensdwarf8068]

“Not really but ok” is my theme song as an ISTP

[@rumeysaongul4765]

The perfection! XD

[@mudman619]

only thing missing was an exaggerated eyeroll

[@jimmybobbyjoe]

it was missing the “please be quiet”

[@sarax7819]

Oh, hi there. Here's an ENFJ 🤓🤠

[@kyanite1434]

Agreed brother

[@Tarnest]

How about sensors hanging out with their intuitive counter-type? For example: ISTP and INTP, ESTP and ENTP, etc.

[@mairasann]

ISFP and INFP crying together ESFP and ENFP creating pure chaos ISTP and INTP in silence for 2 hours

[@applebits8324]

@@mairasann We INTPs can be quite talkative when with likewise minds, so I think we'd have an otherworldly conversation with half-phrases and "yeah"s

[@mairasann]

@@applebits8324 ikr, it was just for the meme tho, just like INxP and CrYinG _yeah_

[@greatwavefan397]

@@alanaglaser7695 Yeah, xSTJs are authoritarian AF. - INTJ Edit: I apologize for anyone who was hurt by my observation/joke. This is a highly stereotypical behavior and you're likely to be aware of that.

[@MrLuigiFercotti]

EXTPs up till 2 am talking, arguing, drinking, out looking for some blow.

[@pessimist583]

As an INTJ guy, the dynamic I have with my ESFP best friend is pure sitcom material and the skit portrays it so accurately that it might as well be a real conversation that I've had with him lmao

[@lesqueaks5246]

Easily the best skit of them all in this vid XD And I've seen that mbti dynamic in action- it's absolutely a delight to watch the antics unfold!

[@theorityx4981]

INTP's mind: GIRL... WHAT DO WE DO IN THIS SITUATION INTP's face: Confused screaming

[@ceilinh6004]

That poor INTP. I was cringing in sympathy the whole time.

[@cupcake5000]

I laughed so hard at that... Extremely relatable (I am INTP)

[@freregregoire2685]

Yeah, I can understand that there is place in the social ecosystem for ESFJs, preferably somewhere far away.

[@justinwhite2725]

I actually thought the ESFJ would be more cringe. At least thar INTP has a good friend looking out to find the things missing in life. Im an INTP too, and what limits us most is exposure to new opportunities.

[@leahrodrick3231]

How just how are ESFJ like this how why what I don't understanddddd - an INTP

[@Darth_Nycta_13]

I'm INFP and my mum is ESFJ she's lovely but yeah sometimes needs a pause button.

[@believerintruth334]

As an infj, the last clip was accurate. Most of my friends get bored when I get to a topic. It's kinda sad, but it's ok..not everyone has ears to listen to a lot of information🙂. People often tell me to cut short my sentences 😂.. I wish if I ever meet someone with whom I can bounce my ideas when I feel like talking 🙂🙂

[@Slimeyyyy]

as a fellow infj i felt this

[@taniaoliveira1256]

Me too...

[@babaeggue]

As an INTP I relate

[@syedaabidi7838]

infj here... and samee

[@DizayDhom]

I feel you... 😂

[@templarkiller2926]

The INTJ one is so good though, like it doesn't matter how spontaneous we are, I will make it fit into my plans regardless and if something happens that isn't part of the plan, I will make a new plan.

[@dariusreedo]

🤣- intj

[@klowee5240]

Exactly

[@harveyrogerski2300]

For me (INTJ), this only manifests in serious situations like going to court or if I've decided to compete against someone. On vacation, I'm more like the opposite dude (ENTP).

[@IREKAIAS]

Well the thing is we don't actually what spontaneous means, our spontaneous ideas manifest as a new template to the plan using the space of another block.

[@pauljack2267]

I'm your fan INTJs as an INFP I love making plans too. But the thing is that I never stick to them for too long 🥲 rip.

[@daftne11]

I’m sorry, that INFP, the crying while trying to do something someone told you to do to hold on. You got a very loud belly laugh out of me sir.

[@njules6428]

I was thinking, as an INFP, if someone told me to do that I would have laughed in their face😅

[@scriptedbyelo]

I WAS LAUGHING SO HARD BECAUSE I COULD RELATE

[@therach1]

INFJ: break their backs to help, high empathy makes us accidentally try to turn the focus on ourselves when really we're just relating, and now we're the ones still left with issues. Yup. My life.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

YES

[@CaesarNeptuneStudios]

This is way too accurate for me

[@kristenfoster2271]

This is the best description of an infj yet. Dang

[@Shahzad-ss1jq]

Same

[@dianam.3179]

Same 😂

[@HeliNoir]

Frank James being all the personalities is just so INFJ-like.

[@sophialarson4576]

I never thought abt it like that that's hilarious 💀💀

[@zsemma6599]

Exactly!

[@v3g627]

That's what the FJ stands for - Frank James

[@kay-mk2sl]

@@v3g627 😮

[@DGPDarkar]

@@v3g627 Introverted Intuition Frank James

[@CrazyErzy]

OMG! I was about to ask for a video like this. I can’t wait to see it!

[@staffan-]

Now we want to see each personality interact with their most similar type.

[@stevesoprano8113]

@@staffan- Wouldn't their most similar types be themselves? Because technically the most similar type to an ISFP, for example, could be ESFP *or* INFP *or* ISTP *or* ISFJ, they're all equally similar to an ISFP, so that doesn't make a lot of sense (I know I'm annoying)

[@elishad.6546]

@@stevesoprano8113 Basically just change the introversion and extraversion and they'll have the samw cognitive functions. ;) Not annoying, but interesting!!!!

[@staffan-]

​@@stevesoprano8113 I wouldn't agree that a type is equally similar to every type that only differ in one category. When looking at the cognitive functions, two types can be very different despite sharing 3 out of 4 letters. For example are INTJ and ISTJ not very similar. I think it is usually argued that personality types that share the same dominant cogintive function are the most similar. If so, INTJ is most similar to INFJ (sharing introverted intuition) and ISTJ most similar to ISFJ (sharing introverted sensing). But ultimately, I would with a warm hand leave it up to Frank James to determine the pairings. 😁 But yes, I agree that every type is most similar to itself. So to be more precise it would be "each personality type interacting with their most similar type other than themselves". And as an ISTJ I don't find you annoying at all, it is excellent with a discussion based on logic. Also, I am by no means well versed in psychology, so if my arguments don't hold up please tell me so!

[@stevesoprano8113]

@@staffan- Oh okay, I guess you're right then, I didn't really think about the cognitive functions, I just noticed that in the video he took a personality and paired them with the one who had opposite letters. So I figured it was impossible to do it the other way around.

[@Car_Tism]

I’m INFP and my wife is ESTJ and we’ve literally have had that exact conversation over and over and over… every time, she tries to make me “feel better” by trying to get me to do some productivity life hack. Every. Damn. Time. Love her to death because she can still function when my feels get too much, and I can encourage her to feel when her backlog of feelings she doesn’t pay attention to finally clog her up completely… we definitely complement each other 😅

[@chickennuggiez1397]

I'm an INFP too and I can totally feel for you. That sounds kinda frustrating, but I'm glad you two still get along. 😊

[@sangriad.938]

Umm are you my husband cuz this is so us

[@alik5883]

As a ESTJ myself, I can see that she loves you so very much.🤣

[@dr.perruche1278]

As an intj, I can promise you that esfp will not be derailing my plans.

[@Beardless-Soul]

Seriously lol, I have had this interaction with my XXFP friends on a weekly basis... Via text of course.

[@Student-z6u]

💖😂

[@JD-sq8ck]

Yeah, I'm sure you'll derail them derailing your plans lol

[@mabella2265]

*screams like a fangirl* I wish I could see that happening. INTJ and ESFP interactions seems so cool. They're my second fav dynamic. I wanna see more of them :'D

[@dottores_husband]

Yes

[@shelly9331]

I’m an INTJ female with an ESFP male friend. I once agreed to going out and getting boba with him, just a casual and simple plan. Ended up staying for 4 more hours at a completely different place.

[@gonzotrujillo5285]

Sh*t happens Its normal, perhabs Intj

[@Kinda_SUS]

How-

[@CPage-oj1zz]

ESFP female dating an INTJ male, he is no longer surprised that I go to meet one friend at a bar at 7pm and end up in someone else's house at 5am talking about North Korea. Previously he'd worry I'd been kidnapped.

[@suzancosta9830]

that's me and my brother, i just gave up on planning things with him, he always wins

[@Brievel]

😬 How do they do that???

[@Coco-fy1ur]

As an INFP, this is 100% true for me as that's exactly what happens with me and my dad, who is an ESTJ

[@AnaGD]

Fr

[@aptthedoctor2703]

Ok but watching the INTJ and ESFP trying to have a vacation together honestly sounds really entertaining like I'd watch a sit com of that XD

[@mabella2265]

Me too man. I'm so excited just with the premise of it. I want more D':

[@greatwavefan397]

Moxxie and Millie from _Helluva Boss_ are an INTJ/ESFP couple.

[@valej9387]

Literally what I was thinking!

[@sihyeonsenthusiast3776]

i'm an esfp and i wonder if my one of my friends are intj hmmm idk

[@mabella2265]

@@greatwavefan397 For ur comment I started watching the series and it's so good! I love it. U saved my life man. Thank yaaa

[@avantikasingh6810]

that look on ESTJ's face is just everything.

[@artforlife1802]

They are very. ANNOYING.

[@Brownskinexoticals]

@@artforlife1802 If by annoying, you mean the one of the most productive & successful of the personality types. Then yea we are 😈 #ESTJ

[@MTWTVP]

tru... and I'm strangely resonating with Estj and INFJ this time.

[@artforlife1802]

@moriah metellus That reply was savage. You have my respect now. But it’ll take much more than that to ignite me

[@Brownskinexoticals]

@@artforlife1802 Thanks for the compliment. How you and other people feel about ESTJ isn't none of my business. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@barbara6389]

as an ENFP who has a INTJ best friend i can say this really happens

[@analiabaltar8625]

I’m an INTJ and most of the people I hung out with are ENFPs. This usually happens, I make a plan, they do whatever the f they want, and I have a second plan for every random, none sense, stupidly risky idea they usually have. We are all still alive, I think we work great.

[@OrangeFluffyCat]

I think ENFPs are good companions to INTJs because they seem to be immune/oblivious to the INTJs cold stares and lack of outwardly expressed enthusiasm. ENFPs bring enough energy and enthusiasm for the both of them, and INTJs help keep them from doing something absolutely crazy.

[@rishabharya1072]

Actually esfp is opposite to an intj nit enfp

[@justforrow]

@@OrangeFluffyCat I check them before they do anything impulsive.

[@elysemeyers1256]

So what I’m getting is ENFJ: existential and aggressive INFJ: existential and sad. No one really understands either of them but they just handle it with either more or less energy.

[@Joshy2-E]

It's sad when everything feels so predictable and repetitive, we re-enact the same things daily, it's so tiring.. xD

[@assuma0411]

We try bro.

[@wienzard93]

me as infj more like; existential and low-key pass-aggro

[@ooi97]

Other NFJs understand me, as well as NFPs

[@NyxSeiren]

As an INFJ with an ENFJ brother, this is quite true. We tend to have very similar opinions and values, but he gets very intense and bull-dozery when talking about them, while I keep calm and try to explain what I think in a relatable way.

[@myeramimclerie7869]

Me (INFP) and my ESTJ boyfriend on a daily basis: Him: Why does nobody like me? Why does nobody work with me? Me: Because you're rude to them all the time. Him: But we need to keep up the project! Why is everybody so lame! Me: They're not lame, they're scared of you. Give them more time and space! Not everybody is a working robot like you are! Him: But I don't understand them! Me: I don't understand you! 😂

[@Justaguythatcameby]

as a infp, i do not know what to say to this

[@dafffodils]

Omg hahah

[@BiRainbow29]

Why do I get a feeling y'alls relationship is cute?

[@deltaf.2005]

This is oddly cute actually lmao

[@retrogradepink]

can totally relate! me (INFJ), boyfriend (ENTJ). i call him a robot all the time.

[@ksart7.7]

me, ENFP, with my ISTJ best friend: always like that, but we find each other's differences cute & entertaining so the "okayy" is more like "lol i knew it, good one" i like ISTJs.

[@Roozyj]

I'm ENFP too and this was honestly so on point! I'd buy something that looks cool, especially when I don't know what it is.

[@emmabratton5934]

As an ENFJ, I appreciate how you accurately depict how ENFJ goes from wholesome to pissed off in 0.5 seconds lol

[@MTWTVP]

hahah well you have noticed :P

[@quarantinelife.]

🤣🤣🤣

[@nikkinorman4254]

LOL IKR So True

[@artforlife1802]

INTJ here: Annoyingly relatable.

[@Hm-io7hp]

Yes.

[@MTWTVP]

I agree... totally all the 3 intjs I know. 🤣 🤣

[@WolfoxBR]

Yup.

[@AshesSanders]

I actually didnt agree with this one at all.

[@artforlife1802]

Ashes Phoenixborn Not trying to hurt anyone. Im just telling what i feel 🤷‍♀️

[@thatoneburntoutgiftedchild9226]

As a INTP who has a mom who’s ESFJ, INTP’s interaction with ESFJ is EXTREMELY accurate.

[@RudranshSeth09]

SAME here

[@jare777]

same, I showed the intp-esfj bit to my mom and she approved

[@user-el6my6vi7p]

I’m an ISTP and my sister is an ENFJ, she’s the kind to make sure everyone’s in a good mood at the family reunion and I’m either standing alone or arguing with my uncle at the dinner table. It’s pretty funny, on the ride back home I’ll hear about how just as miserable she was but just does a better job at hiding it. I think under certain circumstances the types and their opposites have a lot in common, one is just the unaddressed, unspoken and suppressed side of the other.

[@Coolman13355]

That's me and my sister's types. *fist bump*

[@katrinaleahu9369]

My mom is an Enfj and my father is an Istp........... I think we all know how it's not working

[@pseudophrenic]

interestingly, you're pretty spot-on with that observation. the types and their "opposites" DO have a lot more in common than you'd think; according to the cognitive function theory behind the MBTI, "opposite types" actually share the exact same cognitive functions but in the exact opposite order. your "opposite" type, i.e. the ENFJ, has your least developed functions as their most developed, and vice-versa. this makes the ENFJ your subconscious type slash aspirational personality type. that's where your "one is just the [....] suppressed side of the other" comment hits the mark. so, essentially, calling them "opposites" isn't even an accurate description, because you'd think that your "opposite" must be the type you have no cognitive functions in common with whatsoever. but well, in terms of letters, i guess labelling the ISTP and the ENFJ as "opposites" is a functional convenience.

[@sassylittleprophet]

I have an ISTP brother and an ENFJ sister, WHAT?!?!

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

My sister is like that but tells me to lighten up and be less moody. I'm not.

[@gewazanokezia]

"I'm going to derail you derailing me..." is something I should say to myself sometimes 💁‍♀️

[@greatwavefan397]

Us INTJs may have a little ESFP in us, sometimes.

[@greatwavefan397]

@SnooDonuts 7542 Oh my, God. You're... right.

[@penhullwolf5070]

As an ISTP I can tell you that being threatened with violence by an ENFJ would probably have me chuckling for the rest of the day.

[@eeeee4435]

same

[@Gerishimo]

lmao the enfj is so accurate

[@somegiraffe3639]

Fr tho

[@bluesteel8376]

That is exactly what I am thinking lol.

[@yunleenok3183]

You have no idea how easy it is to trigger my ENFJ father. If he is going on about his self-righteous thoughts about me not socializing or harmonizing the mood, I simply have to say "didn't ask, don't care". It would immediately make him rage lol. One time, I was busy trying to type a report and he suddenly barged into my room and dragged me to the sitting room to happily greet my relatives. I acted really irritated because of this so I gave him a stink eye in front of everyone before doing what I was asked. He was so triggered about my action and had a "talk" with me afterwards. 🙄

[@emilyrebane9786]

Yeah, no point in complaining to xSTJs. "Then stop" is like their universal solution for all negative feelings. I wish it were so easy. 😂

[@belle1353]

So true lol

[@Sara-xz8yr]

I mean it works for us. 1. Feelings start to feel. 2. They are annoying and inconvenient to deal with because they lower productivity. 3. We put them in the "emotions" jar together with all our other feelings from probably 13 years ago and hope they get over themselves and disapear. 4. We forget about them and continue to live on. 5. Fin.

[@dreamingblue3939]

Just had a conversation with my ISTJ sister yesterday almost exactly like this. I told her I was perpetually unhappy and doubted I would ever be content with my life, simply by nature of my personality and who I am. She stared at me, baffled, and asked, "I don't understand why you won't just... be happy." I'm an INFP btw 😂

[@kcfanforlife8300]

ST in general aren’t the best at helping people solve emotional problems, you can talk to them about certain things but I try to avoid conversations about your more emotional side of yourself, cause they won’t help

[@sophialarson4576]

Lol my mom's an istj and when my sister feels sad she's literally like "if ur sad just smile" :D Idk what my sister's type is but as an infp it really gets on my nerves 💀👎

[@sistine4495]

Infps just living their life peacefully: oh hey Crazy person: hey how are you? Infp: i i'm feeling a bit down today Crazy person: have you try not feeling down? Infp: I wanna go home

[@iampidgeon6923]

Estj is trying.... failing a bit, but trying

[@racoon_in_ankhmorpork]

My best friend is ISTP and that was sooo accurate 😂 “not really but okay” is totally something they’ve said many times before, in that tone, at that type of thing.

[@moatiny4431]

INTJ having a whole detailed plan on GOOGLE DOCS. .....I feel called out

[@WolfoxBR]

Yeah. I feel the same.

[@glueball214]

Same.. INTJ

[@doodlemunchkin2222]

Me, an INFP- …the frick is a Google Docs?

[@basestone4972]

lol same

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

I could never do that. Lol. Well, I probably could but I don't want to. - ISTP

[@Chigger]

I'm an ENFP who collects unusual coins not for their potential collector's value, but because I think they're cool and must have them. Then again, I do experience the same exact tendencies when I play open-world games.

[@ahmusg8054]

same bro -enfp

[@rozemynemetherlence1840]

Im an infp and I also like collecting in open world games 😂

[@Takisan111]

In video games, I hoard books and shiny things. Bonus points if said items are magic... Now that I think about it, I do that irl as well

[@Chigger]

@@Takisan111 In Skyrim, both books and shiny things are everywhere and quickly fill up my carrying capacity. It fuels a love/hate relationship with that game because I need them all for no practical reason.

[@Takisan111]

@@Chigger I had that problem in Oblivion. I always need to get a house quickly just so I have somewhere to stash my stuff. After a while, I have so much stashed in my cupboards that the game starts lagging when I simply open it. Which is shocking because I have 3 spots for different items. One for books, one for rare and magical items, and one for potions making. There's too much tempting stuff in that game.

[@chivalryremains9426]

"Why can't you just NOT be sad?" I have heard this my entire life. - INFP

[@C._.AMIL._.A]

Me too...

[@JHowOfficial]

What is this not-sadness you speak of? - me, an INFP

[@amandapanda5087]

​@@JHowOfficialReal

[@evaanjos]

you can't beat the chemistry ESFPs and INTJs have.

[@mabella2265]

Oh yesss, you're right!

[@wowsports8800]

True true

[@luiselemke493]

my mom is ESFP, my dad INTJ😏😂

[@Sharkuterie327]

My mom is esfp and I am intj and this is why we can’t do anything together without driving each other up a wall 😆

[@enzorocket4929]

My brother is an ESFP and I’m an INTJ, we are in an “I can stand you/I’ll rip your spine out” relationship.

[@Amby_.0_0._]

This is Too accurate XD. I’m an INTP and my sister is ESFJ. Quick story: So I sometimes said that I wanted to work as a food delivery server. Day before yesterday they searched for people, and yesterday SHE APPLIED FOR ME without my knowledge so in that evening she told me that I could get a call. I’m Freaking nervous for calls, so I didn’t pick up:’) So yeh… Haha hope you liked my story XD

[@cate8154]

I’m an INTP with an ESFJ sister to lol

[@MissEliseIsTired]

I'm an INTP with a ESFP sister, and yikes. She is the only extravert in our immediate family. Thankfully she has never done anything like that to me, but only because she is so self-involved.

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

I'm an ISTP with an ESFJ sister and an INFJ mother. They hate it when I correct them.

[@Cindy666Cindy666]

As an INFP I can relate so much, my friend ESFJ also do these things to me. I would just go in hiding/flight mode instantly.

[@Octobris]

I liked your story

[@sarahalifia2916]

Im an infp with an estj room mate, we have this chaotic love hate relationship for almost 6 years 🤣 We learn a lot from eachother.

[@shayelisa]

Okay. I am an INTJ and all I want now is a movie of the INTJ and the ESFP's vacation. Who won in the end? Obviously the INTJ, but how and when. 😂

[@Based_4_Life]

Spoiler: it ends with the INTJ getting rid of the ESFP after countless attempts and finally getting a moment to relax when suddenly he realizes the vacation is already over.

[@blizrinarine593]

Not a movie but this reminded me of a dounghua called Link Click where the fandom typed Lu Guang as INTJ & Cheng Xiaoshi typed as ESFP, although they don't go on vacations together they have the ability to time travel but as different people & experience different lives which is kinda vacation-ish in a way xD although Cheng is the one that time travels by entering client's photos while Lu guides him & makes sure he doesn't F up the past because they use their abilities to solve mysteries & Cheng promised Lu he will listen to him, for he can't change the past, but only look for clues. Cheng tends to have ideas of his own tho & acts on it even if it derails what Lu & him planned(for good reasons tho like trying to save someone's life) but Lu mostly leads the investigations, it's hard to say who wins lol & idk how to explain it in a shorter way & I'm rlly sorry for this paragraph lol but they both kinda have a equal win situation goin on xD although I guess yea actually INTJ wins in the end haha（⌒▽⌒）

[@snowbeaniiee]

@@blizrinarine593 I JUST STARTED WATCHING THAT SHOW AND I LOVE IT SM!

[@blizrinarine593]

@@snowbeaniiee AYEE that's awesome!! Haha it's nice to find another person who likes Link Click hereヽ(´▽｀)/ glad your enjoying the show(❁´▽`❁) the cliff hangers are pain though but their rlly good too xD And I visted your channel..sorry to hear about Billy (;v;) I'm sure he's doing well in the afterlife (っ ´ ˘ `)っ

[@GeekNewz]

the intj, esfp one is on point and explains why i dont hate esfp, the chalenge they cause is realy fun because its like i'm fighting someone -intj

[@mabella2265]

Aww, that's awesome to know! I really like their dynamic, honestly. So now I wanna see more interactions with them, like competing to do things on their own way and that stuff. They're my second fav dynamic :D (First one is ENFP and ISTJ)

[@sihyeonsenthusiast3776]

thanks i like u too intj ;)

[@agent_sus3273]

All my siblings are extroverts, one in particular is really spontaneous and likes to plan stuff for EXACTLY when I’m in my room.

[@elizabethhoover4672]

The interaction with the INFP/ESTJ has me deceased! 😂 That hilarious well meaning, fix-it enthusiasm of that ESTJ colliding with that tender hearted INFP!

[@EvilMeganium]

Have you tried undeceasing?

[@BeckyPhelps]

Poor INTP, he's traumatized! 🤣 I didn't realize that the ESTP was my opposite type...I'm going to test it out on my vacation! 😁 Looks like I'm packing my notebook!

[@Amy_moon_]

I am an INFP and I cry everyday when I have to go out because for me the world is ESTJ 😭

[@euthanasiatbest]

:')

[@CharaDreemurrfan]

That's..That's actually incredibly sad- you've earned my pity.

[@mabella2265]

NOOO, here *gives them some napkins* U can cry on my shoulder 'till u feel like u can combat ESTJ. I believe in ya!

[@CharaDreemurrfan]

@@mabella2265 I love how our responses were the exact opposites

[@mabella2265]

@@CharaDreemurrfan lolol, they were?

[@jenniferm8399]

The ENFP and ISTJ interaction is so accurate hahaha

[@candicesmith6126]

The sad nature of being an INFJ: we are able to guide people with our words to a treasure we ourselves can’t possess... a good night’s sleep.

[@SwedishTourist]

I guess that’s true for any personality who’s good at reading people and giving advice adjusted to a specific person’s situation

[@ratticusthewinion]

INTP with severe insomnia here, i DERAIL people from the treasure i can't possess so i don't suffer alone

[@gel2234]

(look its me oversharing- :")) Please skip my comment if you can aaa) idk about other people but Ive found a way to stop thinking too much- For some reason my brain follows what I say. Ive once told it to stop certain habits that I didnt like, after half a day I usually stop doing it. The cool part is the fact that im not conscious of the fact that im not supposed to do it, thats when I know that its my brains doing. Ive done it quite a few times tho and my brain never fails to dissapoint me :D. So then, I told my brain to stop myself from thinking too much and thinking about the big "what ifs" in the world- and it worked! tho the consequences are being literal to stuff and being dumb most of the time .-. (since I cant exactly "think"? more like I refuse to now since its annoying. tho thats just in certain situations. Those consequences Have lessened over time. a couple months to be exact) so I can get a good nights sleep without worrying about anything :)). I do think sometimes at night but its not enough to stop me from sleeping early

[@ratticusthewinion]

@@gel2234 waitwaitwait... your brain LISTENS to you?? im so jealous

[@marianney7644]

@@ratticusthewinion hahahaha

[@lunanighter7289]

I love the ENFP and ISTJ just trying to get along and trying to understand each other , by the way that was quite accurate for the ENFP cuz I get random stuff that I might have no use for just cuz I think it's cool

[@ウルファ-f3s]

Oh yes ikr, like something that has story, challenging, or even something that it's only one left in the store.

[@meherinrahman1451]

Oh hell yeah! Collecting random stuff for absolutely no use is totally my speciality. 😆😆

[@mabella2265]

OMG, WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THIS DUO, YESSS I thought how funny it would be a friendship between an ENFP and ISTJ and I wasn't wrong! It's just so funny and sweet watching them trying to understand each other. They were my fav part, maan *screams like a fangirl*

[@mabella2265]

@Cakkuu LOLOLOL, PLSSS I bet it's the sweetest thing to see idkslslms

[@Sara-xz8yr]

As an ISTJ, ENFPs always intrigue me. We have the same cognitive functions that's why we are so different yet so similar. I would never get the stuff like you listed randomly but I (and a lot of other ISTJs apparently) have our little corner where we display our collection of little things, like tiny animals, household objects in dwarf size, stamps, little antique keys... I personally collect colourful stones and peables.

[@julietteferrars3097]

So funny! 😂 My mom is an ISTP and I’m an INFJ. She gets bored of me rambling for too long and says I speak in code (analogies and metaphors).

[@eliasgarcia6576]

As an INFJ who knows an ESTP I can say this is accurate. Him: Let's go to the clubs! Me: I really don't like loudness and chaos!!!! Him: You need to go out more! Me: Not really! Most times we just fist bump and go our separate ways since it's hard to have a connection with someone who's super grounded when you're someone who's in la la land most of the time.

[@elxax6883]

You're the grounded person?

[@eliasgarcia6576]

@@elxax6883 Nope

[@sassylittleprophet]

INFJ here, I was married to an ESTP once. It didn't last long. (Granted, he was abusive, so his type isn't necessarily relevant.) I also have an ESTP sister who hates me, so...(she sides with my ex) I just want a good experience with an ESTP. Like, is that too much to ask for?

[@eliasgarcia6576]

@@sassylittleprophet I'm sorry to hear that, and I hope you and I get a good experience with an ESTP. The ESTP I know is ungrateful, manipulative, has unrivaled expectations for everyone and is way too assertive and controlling.

[@sassylittleprophet]

@@eliasgarcia6576 YES. Exactly! I want to know not all ESTPs are like that. I want to assume they're not, but experience so far has shown me a pattern. I want so badly to be wrong, I want to see an emotionally healthy ESTP. I want to know that it is possible, and they do exist.

[@nerysghemor5781]

"I'm feeling down in the dumps." "THEN STOP." Literally, this is what my ENTJ dad (and to some extent my ESTJ mom) used to tell me when I got upset. Needless to say it accomplished the opposite.

[@N0URii]

Wow what an ultimate productive pair of parents

[@nerysghemor5781]

@@N0URii Haha, now imagine being an INFP being raised by them. XD Though my mom isn’t quite as rigid to her type as my dad, which is why the severity of the ESTJ stereotype in these vids surprised me at first. Mom may want results but knows rudeness backfires very badly. (Now getting it through to her that unsolicited advice ALSO backfires… XD ) And she also at least knew that I needed a little time to get through the upset first before trying to be rational about the situation.

[@atomiccritter6492]

anyone with an iota of common sense knows that people have to pass through the emotions rather than try to stop them or even change them. Its like telling someone to calm down when they are clearly angry...good luck with that

[@nerysghemor5781]

@@atomiccritter6492 Sometimes my dad doesn’t get that fact. XD

[@greatwavefan397]

Yay, thanks! Your insight drove me to numbness. I love you, Mom and Dad! - INTJ-T

[@arminedingilian6355]

Frank James thank you so much for putting together this episode! It was very heartwarming for me - I am an INTJ and my brother is ESFP, so literally all our funny conversations end like this!

[@zoedurbin4690]

I’m an ESFP and my brother is an INTJ

[@pixelparasite829]

I'm an ISTP. My best friend is an ENFJ. This is literally like 90% of our interactions. 😂

[@mabella2265]

BRUHH HAHAHAHAH

[@misterbobby8913]

How do you manage to be best friends?

[@mabella2265]

@@misterbobby8913 It's a good question, actually. I hope them would respond to u. I'm all curious now odmsmss

[@doodlemunchkin2222]

@@misterbobby8913 opposites attract? Lol. I guess anything is possible if u learn how to work with it

[@camillej5258]

@@misterbobby8913 well i al ENFJ and one of my best friend is ISTP and it’s really fun probably because we are the opposit

[@Gintoki881]

A video proposition: 16 personalities saying their famous last words

[@MTWTVP]

*great idea*

[@Chigger]

ENFP: "We can do anything with enough creativity!" *Accidentally trips a Rube Goldberg machine which does a Final Destination-type kill*

[@mabella2265]

@@Chigger bruh D':

[@thedukeofchutney468]

I’m an ENFP and my younger brother is an ISTJ. This skit perfectly sums up our interactions.

[@nikkinorman4254]

Lol

[@Weamthebestever346]

What a cute brother

[@hollyvincentart]

"You can't put a price on art" "Clearly, someone did" 😂 Great video and I liked the ISFP's outfit, he looked very cool 😎...and attractive I guess

[@lee.bythesea]

i love isfps

[@5idi]

Cool, someone likes me! Anyhow, I don't even like art, or museums, but I enjoyed the ENTJ, and related - all the times people told me to charge money for doing what I like...

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

@@lee.bythesea cool

[@bubbleteabeatboxx]

@@lee.bythesea Wait... there is no such thing as an ISPF

[@AprilTomorrow]

This was my favorite exchange & I'm 100% with you on the outfit! :)

[@dooglassdorenal7875]

As an INTP, I couldn't relate this situation more. I really don't understand why my ESFJ friends enjoy embarrassing me with presenting me a girlfriend, I didn't ask anything-

[@Moonlitwatersofaqua]

esfjs can be so helpful while not being helpful at all. its adorable.

[@lisad6542]

I’m an INTP with an ESFJ mom who’s always trying to set me up with a boy I’ve mentioned once smh

[@gigibabineaux5142]

My mom is an ESTJ and my fiancé is an INFP (I’m an ENFP so growing up was... intense), and the interaction between those types was absolutely spot on and hilarious 😆

[@linda043]

Yep, that's my face when I interact with my sister. I'm an INFJ and she's an ESTP

[@theriverGauja]

Shout out to the ISFP waistcoat. Man's looking dapper.

[@chalisarp2920]

I'm an INFP and my doctor literally advised me to smile in order to trick my body to get happier LOL. She must be ESTJ 😂

[@caliaster]

I am really loving the INTJ and ESFP, they got the Chemistry between them.

[@mabella2265]

YES YES YES PLSS LET'S TALK ABOUT THIS PLS Okay, so, I love their dynamic because they are having a silent war to see who's gonna conquer with their ideas (ESFP being crazy and INTJ being organized) but at the end one tends to follow the other's idea because they just like being around the other. It's just so sweet and cute. Man, I just *can't* *Screams like a fangirl*

[@mowuseni]

I love my ESFP friends. Perfect and efficient to drain my social battery on (since they know EVERYBODY) and they don't mind (or notice) when I disappear for a week to recharge

[@caliaster]

@@mowuseni No wonder INTJ is compatible with ESFP, since they are also efficient but other things

[@caliaster]

@@mabella2265 I am INTP, and your energy and enthusiasm kind of scares me

[@mabella2265]

@@caliaster HAHAHAH, don't be scared. I just get excited about things I like a a lot, but usually I'm quiet. I bet u don't believe but I said the true lolol

[@melissaharden357]

My best friend is my opposite. I adore her and our differences. I’m ESTP and she is INFJ. I don’t fall asleep listening to her haha. I love it when she shares, because it’s not super often. It’s not difficult to get into a deep conversation which I love, but it’s hard sometimes to get her to share personal stuff. But seriously, I’m so grateful for my opposite!

[@peppermint7429]

Darn it I need someone like you in my life!

[@yeekam8317]

My best friend is my oppsitetoo

[@gaelsnait]

I'm ESTP too

[@Beyou0120]

​@@gaelsnaitwhat you think about infp's? And what are the things that you find likable about somebody? What to do to get liked by estp?

[@Boomshakalaka1008]

the INFJ one could not get more relatable. i always feel like there is no one to listen to me jabbering on about all the things I have to say and it feels like what I think is dumb and useless but it really captivates me. but I'm always there to listen when they need to talk. we're just really misunderstood people.

[@missjoasia123]

THIS 😭 I’ll send a paragraph analyzing something I find so interesting and then it’s like talking to myself 😅

[@Boomshakalaka1008]

@@missjoasia123 EXACTLYYY

[@nadiarimbing1642]

Infj here, and yes, my mom keeps falling asleep whenever I tell/share my stories, and she said I am her instant lullaby, well I am glad to help you, mom

[@kirschfuchs4076]

that is kinda sad :/

[@Student-z6u]

😂

[@greatwavefan397]

My mom says okay like 5 times when I say I'll do something and explain why.

[@rumeysaongul4765]

As an INFP that had an ESTJ teacher repeatedly talking about the pen technique with almost exactly the same lines, I have to say this was more than relatible! 😂

[@katnipkatnips]

That's crazy!

[@eIIaaaaa]

…..wow

[@kiterii__1212]

As an INFP, who's friends with an ESTJ, that interaction was pretty accurate

[@Antgirl928]

As an INFJ saying that something is relatable as well as contemplating existence is a key part of daily life

[@Cerulian]

As an INTJ, I've been guilty of making plans because everyone I know never really does. Then I make plans based on what I know what my travel buddies like in case they don't want to go with my plans and then casually suggest the activities to them while what I want to do is right in the same place... It kinda goes on... Now I know it's in my personality lol and I'm even more okay with it.

[@olinaw5145]

Don't apologize for making plans. Without plans, we are basically letting things happen by chance which can be disastrous. -- a fellow INTJ

[@greatwavefan397]

I showed a list of features I'd like in a car to my brothers and they bust out laughing.

[@theimpossibros39]

I like choose your own adventure videos on KZbin so I’m glad that an INTJ had thought of that.

[@tyleringram7883]

Infp: PLZ AAAAAA LEAVE ME ALONE ESTJ: COME BSCK HERE TIMMY

[@justanotherlinglingwannabe546]

Oooooooooooooh plot twist

[@anonymous_hito]

@@justanotherlinglingwannabe546 i'd say that it's predictable

[@justanotherlinglingwannabe546]

@@anonymous_hito I couldn't predict it though ngl. Heh.

[@rumeysaongul4765]

So INFP was Timmy all along! XD

[@anonymous_hito]

@@justanotherlinglingwannabe546 it might be that I empathize with Timmy too much 😅

[@nilexx2379]

It's funny how this channel never fails to lift my spirits:)

[@elises8825]

Have a great day 💜

[@MTWTVP]

same. bahahahahah too funny 🤣 🤣

[@sivac5877]

0:29 The fact that my mom is an ESFJ and my dad is an INTP and their conversations are somewhat similar to this situation makes it even more funnier 😂

[@Steffannialove]

ENTP here married to an ISFJ who discovered Hallmark movies during the pandemic (it was torture). Shared this video with him and could hear him laughing from the other end of the house. 🤣❤️

[@kiyaleelevyrunaya9495]

I hate it when people say: "so stop feeling down". If that were an option, don't you think I'd take it? xD

[@Whiteswanj]

it's bc EXTJ types can do this

[@Whiteswanj]

i'm an estj too but i'm not forcing it to other people

[@nine3430]

I said that to my infp friend, and she totally responded the same way😂

[@KitKatnotthecandylol]

I (an ENTP) said that to my ISFJ friend when we were younger. She uncharacteristically went off on me and said “it doesn’t work like that!” And I was like “oh” 😂

[@madelynlanier7728]

As an INFP with an ESTJ younger sister, I agree and it makes me sad.

[@desertforest2221]

I'm so sorry.

[@StephanieJeanne]

The pen in the teeth! 😹 Funny! Yeah, I've heard that breathing the same molecules thing somewhere before. Haha🙃🤔✌👍

[@rumeysaongul4765]

I actually experience the pen in the teeth situation before. It was almost the same memory all over again.😅

[@StephanieJeanne]

@@rumeysaongul4765 😂🤣oh no!!✌️

[@nl1129]

Look at the INFXs' faces! It's as if they are facing the worst situation (aka nightmare) at hand lol! Their thoughts would be: "when will this end?!"

[@mariaf9547]

Exactly. And the INFJ situation has happened to me once... After which i stayed at home for more than 2 weeks

[@sophialarson4576]

Me all the time when dealing with xSTJ's 💀💀 -infp

[@Jefficusmagnus]

The part from 0:13 to 0:38 was exactly what happened in 1st year med school between my husband (INTP) and his best friend (ESFJ). He just made a random comment that he thought I was cute, and his friend was dead set on setting us up. His friend had great success as a wingman with their other friends, but was surprised when I straight out refused. As an INFJ , I was insulted by the fact he wouldn't come up and talk to me himself. His friend was persistent and kept hounding me to give him a chance, but I kept avoiding them like the plague. Two years later, my now husband started to make small attempts to talk to me, and I was intrigued that he was still crushing on me and not intimidated, despite my manner of shutting them out. We eventually started dating, and 7 years later, we got married. His best friend was our best man, and in his hilarious speech he recollected how I was the only girl whom he had not managed to convince to go out with a friend of his, but deemed this failure as ultimately a success which worked out on its own.

[@danielabenitez1264]

Fantastic! This is what everyone wanted. Now... 16 Personalities interacting with their opposite cognitively (if that's a word) Btw, ESTJ was so relatable! That's my response every time someone tells me they are sad. I mean it.

[@imafuufelis2179]

2:46 This is me as INFJ and my ESTP crush XD He talked about how to sleep bc he didn't feel sleepy. Then I talked about my thought and he already sleepy in 10 minutes lol

[@zeynatura]

Ah same, idk what personality he is but the same happened with my crush, he saying he's not sleepy, me neither so i plan on talking to him all night and half an hour later he is like: good night gotta go to sleep. And i ended up being the only one awake xD

[@reachthestars]

haha same: people like late night talks with me because I help them relax

[@mabella2265]

Omg. Lololol Good luck with ur crush :D!

[@mabella2265]

@@zeynatura Lololol Good luck with him too!

[@mabella2265]

@@reachthestars LOLOL, UR THE BEST THEN

[@corinnaengels4954]

I'm an INFP and from this I am now pretty sure my dad is my exact opposite, this conversation was way to close to home 😭😭

[@kanaksharma5472]

That INTJ and ESFP conversation was OP👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@alien_ariel]

as a person whose idea of being spontaneous means Spontaneously Making a Plan for How to be Spontaneous, I can say that the INTJ one is very accurate. There is no living in the moment, there is only spending this moment to figure out how to best live my next moment. I'm sure my very chill and relaxed partner loves that.

[@Brievel]

My husband refused to make a plan about anything, berated me for making plans about anything, and actively worked to upend every plan I made. It was... stressful. On the other hand, I learned how to think like an INFP, so now I can dual-wield!

[@elibennett6168]

INTJ here - this had me laughing. When I work on vacation plans, I leave holes in the schedule for spontaneity. My ISFP spouse is along for the ride and relieved there is free time built in for good behavior.

[@rickdiculous9208]

“I got plans on top of plans! It’s like a choose your own adventure novel. You can’t escape it! 😈” Gold 🤣🤣

[@rachelarland421]

Funny my dad is an ESTJ and I'm an INFP and he's my best friend and we get along great lol I think ESTJs get a bad rep cuz my dad is the nicest person ever and INFPs don't cry about everything! ...only some things...actually I kinda do cry non stop but it's chill

[@dreamingblue3939]

Aw that's great! Good for you guys :D I think (as an INFP in a family of ESTJs, ISFJs, and ISTJs) that any two types can be good friends if they respect and appreciate eachother's different strengths and share the same core values. I and my SJ family members love how we complement eachother and push the other to grow and consider different ways of thinking. I've learned a lot from them about being more focused, hard-working, and pragmatic, and they've learned a lot from me about being more empathetic, socially aware, tactful, and emotionally intelligent. We joke that I'm the family therapist.

[@loisrabies8713]

That when from 0 to 100 quick

[@lilyblossom9438]

This comment section baffles me

[@pb2896]

3:05 heyy,you can't expose a INFJ me like that 😂😂😂

[@danielamartorano7247]

im an ENTP and this is so relatable. My friends often come up at me telling me to watch some random movie or series that they've watched and LOVED, and when i go watch it, IS TERRIBLE AND DOESNT MAKE ANY SENSE!!!

[@JK32768]

True its usually the romance shows for me

[@noname8354]

My mom made me watch The Peanuts Movie in the theater. NOPE

[@dindaseptiara5393]

ikr. the recs mostly sucks. i don't understand why they called them masterpiece😭

[@AA-qw2jq]

As an entp I have to admit: yes I have cried at dumb movies out of frustration

[@WritingsOfQuill]

the joy of seeing an ENTP watch a movie that they don't find stupid, though... that's something to behold

[@AA-qw2jq]

@@WritingsOfQuill rarely happens

[@gigglesmcdounut723]

As an ENTJ who had a friend ISFP ( pretty sure he was), the whole being super unromantic about the art is freaking accurate lol! He even told me a few times that I am the only person he knows who can ruin such beautiful moments lol!

[@12Prophet]

Gordon Ramsey (also an ENTJ) went into high end cooking and said the quiet part out loud once on Hell's Kitchen. He said what everyone was thinking. That the portion sizes are really small and overpriced on purpose. That it was ridiculous, but intentional. In other words, it's taking advantage of the rich and stupid. I think the same applies to "art". I saw a piece sell for around $50 million. It was literally just a black line on a blue background. That's all. Literally just that, $50 million.... I'm pretty sure it's just enabling money laundering at that point. Either that, or the uber rich are genuinely just morons.

[@Seanwilson1795]

Now there needs to be a sequel for this. I'm not sure what exactly, but here are some ideas: 1. Personality Types with their same type (so how two ESFJs or two INTPs would act with each other) 2. Personality Types with their most similar (so same as above, but one letter off) 3. All personality types together! (I just wanna see the world burn with this one👿)

[@rumeysaongul4765]

That last one would be utter chaos!😂

[@Roozyj]

I can tell you how two ENFP's interact: *Sitting next to each other "Man, I wanna go to the moon" "We should totally go to the moon!" "I'll look up how to build a rocket!" "I'm gonna draw a rocket!" "It's hard to build a rocket, maybe let's sing a song about a rocket!" "Maybe we can watch a video about someone who went to the moon." "Yeah! It... seems kinda boring actually. Any other cool plans?"