16 Personalities Meeting the Parents

I welcome more awkward "meeting the parents" stories in the comments.
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[@ceilinh6004]

Love everything about the INTP interaction- the Star Wars top, the internal monologue, the painfully awkward dialogue. It was a masterpiece.

[@martacastillo6272]

As a fellow INTP I can confirm

[@BulgrozTseNob]

OMFG THE INTP IS SO ACCURATE !!! Thank you ! Amazing ! Bellissima ! Bravo. A fellow INTP-T

[@HannahNicollet]

Agreed. And thank you I didn't know the top was Star Wars but I needs it

[@pm-rj7ef]

mission failed successfully

[@martacastillo6272]

@@pm-rj7ef Now we can return back to no human interaction😎

[@MazorKuziaki]

Meanwhile, inside the INFP's mind: "Wow, their parents are nothing like the fantasy versions I created in my head."

[@olivererz6197]

The INFP probably dreamt they were bad people and she wanted him to run away with her. Maybe to Paris. This seems like something I could dream up as an ENFP

[@rebekahhill3880]

Yep I do that

[@magic13christispage]

Hahahahahaaa 😆

[@tuhinsubhramandal4436]

Woaahhhhhhh! That's exactly what I was wondering! 😲

[@gouki4u]

INTP: "I'm terrified I'm going to make a faux pas in this social situation." Me: "Is that not a valid opening line?"

[@dearkristin]

Hahahahahahaha

[@monito3575]

As an Infp I would probably mention this... And regret it later and Beating myself up about it the next days... Or weeks

[@BelaBartok]

Too true...

[@darime]

@@monito3575 infp here. I would totally say that

[@monito3575]

@@darime honestly I don't even think it that's bad, the way I see it is that if I say that to my future mother in law (I am a woman), maybe she will have the feeling that I opened up to her and she might think it's nice🤷‍♀️

[@alexarose598]

Saying “You knew this when you started dating me” in an offensive tone is about the most ENTP thing there is

[@Jenny-nd8sq]

The acting in the ENTP part is fabulous!

[@giurizzotto9640]

YES!

[@topkek670]

ouch.

[@ginnyweasley6571]

Yup.

[@uprisingsun9105]

Both offensive *and* offended tone

[@iOnlySignIn]

4:25 ISTP: Will not compliment, flatter, or chitchat. Will fight and die gloriously for their family and friends.

[@joakas1986]

acts of service as love language I guess... cuz what is more glorious to die fighting for the sake of friends and familly to the fullest of your capabilities!?

[@tigerheaddude]

Just like solid snake

[@uprisingsun9105]

0:00 ENTJ 0:18 ESFJ 0:24 INFP 0:59 ESFP 1:22 INTJ 1:36 ENFP 2:23 ESTJ 2:35 ISFP 2:53 ISFJ 3:10 ESTP 3:25 ISTJ 3:37 INFJ 3:50 ENTP 4:17 ISTP 4:40 ENFJ 4:50 INTP 6:10 Outro

[@sonias9722]

I love that the father approved of ENTP and respected their honesty 😂😂🤟🥸

[@Gintoki881]

I am an INFJ and to me it would be like: - Her parents are probably unpleasant people that will surely dislike me. It will be a long and difficult dinner with them. I will probably need a psychotherapy after that. - Oh no! They were so nice to me! Now I feel guilty for all what I had thought before. So it means that I will feel that guilt every time I will see them. But wait! What if it’s just some kind of trap for me…or not? I guess I have to find a lonely mountain for me to meditate on this problem without interruptions…for a hundred years

[@richardthury5293]

Relateable😂

[@randomspirit6061]

Attachment to guilt and lack of meditation practice are very common INFJ problems. If you are unable to switch off your overthinking, because you are not enlightened yet, just change whole mindset about this. Be excited about "studying" new people, and about personal progress you make, if some of your bad scenarios will really happen. When guilt is coming out of your thinking, just tell her, thank you, i dont need you, i love people, i am excited to meet them, whatever happens. Whenever INFJ stops judging their thinking process, their vibration comes up very high. Love you.

[@SimoneEppler]

Yes.

[@Oscar-vd6mu]

An hour ago, I was preparing myself to meet my girl's parents. I was wondering if I can call them mum and dad. Then I thought they will hate it if I call them like that. I think they will pretend that they like me, but they actually hate me. They will only tolerate my presence around their beloved daughter. I can't trust them. I already hate them. I don't want to meet them. I hope that our tomorrow night meeting gets cancelled because of some magical reason.

[@jessicathespy]

Yes! I think she got enfj infj backwards. I cant imagine an infj willingly hugging a stranger.

[@UncooperativeCat]

As an INTJ I'm aware that the ESFJs approach is the most likely to have a positive outcome in this kind of situation, but it's also the kind of behavior I literally dread. I'm also aware that my honest opinions when asked could have disastrous ramifications. That's why I mostly shut up... and, as I realise now, end up acting like the ISTP.

[@tialee-cdle5234]

INTJ here and I totally agree! When I saw the ISTP reaction I was like, "Oh yeah. There I am. That makes more sense!" ...but only because I have already analyzed my own personality and what I expect from the encounter and am prepared to react accordingly.

[@whitneyd6827]

@@tialee-cdle5234 whereas the ISTP hasn't analyzed anything socially and is probably genuinely caught off guard by being asked about their feelings lol. Different mindset, same result.

[@frigginjerk]

Yeah, as a fellow INTJ, most of my social interaction with new people (some of whom I've known for years) involves me knowing that I shouldn't say what comes naturally to me, but having no other ideas of what to say instead.

[@malakashraf2801]

Some how that's what I do too as an istp , by the way I love intj's and I love how you say those disastrous opinions , I personally would call it honesty which is something I completely respect

[@otterinaballgown3703]

I'm an older INFJ. Personally, I prefer the honesty of ISTP's and INTJ's. I might not agree with everything. We might debate. But, at least a person knows where they stand with you. Honesty is not a bad thing. If you can temper it with diplomacy, and the understanding that you can't please everyone, you'll be just fine.

[@furiousknighte6474]

I love how ESTJ’s resume in the thumbnail is just “I’m the best”, genuinely feel like my ESTJ mother would definitely say this 😂

[@redbest1943]

As an ESTJ I confirm that I would put "I'm the best" on my resume - or more likely just say it

[@HEMAYATC]

My ESTJ brother says this constantly! 😂

[@daniellecward5400]

ESTJ here, I can confirm this is correct!

[@aninaqi5985]

My mom is also an ESTJ and you’re pretty on-point

[@biihisme]

Oh God, the INTP scenario is an absolute nightmare. I feel like that's what my worst fears imagine all my interactions will be like, and the way I'll remember everything when I get home, but in reality it all played out more like the ISTP scenario (which is also incredibly anxiety-inducing, but less so lol)

[@Lea-ov8vq]

Right same

[@Bongi344]

But we still have that willing to be friendly sometimes... we just don't know how - or not capable :"))

[@cockycookie1]

Same!

[@melany1120]

exactly

[@takoyaki9211]

THE ISTP IS SO TRUE OMG😭 I be so awkward with my friends’ parents (or anyone I’m not close to) not knowing what to say cause I genuinely don’t have anything to say. So yea I don’t mean to be rude or something my head is just empty🗿

[@mojyoqueen350]

As an INTJ, my boyfriends parents didn't talk to me at all when i met them. Later my boyfriend told me that they said they were scared of me and that 'there is somethig wrong with her stare'. It is so stereotypical i can't help but laugh.

[@Fernandanatac]

The ISTP got me 🤣 that’s totally my fiancée. One day I asked him what he liked about me (there was a context for this and I, beforehand, quickly listed what I love about him) and his first answer was “😐…I don’t know”. He saw that he couldn’t just end up with that and struggled A LOT to put anything into words which ended with “uh… y-you like the same things I like” Lol I wanted to tease him and went “you know, factually speaking, there are many girls ou there that like the same things I do and the same things you do, so that cannot be the solely reason”. He got even more embarrassed, and still couldn’t put things into words. And just ended with “I just love you ok!!” And I was like… Ok 🥰 😂 ~INFP

[@MichaelGrundler]

Wow, I literally just commented almost the exact same thing about there being other people out there with the same qualities as the (hypothetical) person I love and those not being the solely reason! 🤯 If some asked me the same question I would probably answer similarly with some objective facts and the above observation but then finish with there being something special that I wouldn’t be able to put into words. It’s both an easy way out and also kind of true. 😉 (With the absolute Ti truth probably being something about hormones, genetics and other biological and sociological factors.)

[@ivanzelenov816]

Incredible! The exact same thing happened to me, an istp, with my girlfriend. Finally, with a lot of effort, I was able to express some emotions that I didn't know I had😅🤣

[@kevinlulu6683]

Awwwww

[@missgreen2784]

I genuinely feel bad for that ISTJ. She did not deserve this.

[@larsswig912]

I feel bad for the ENFP. it was painful to watch but hilarious that probably will be me as well lmao

[@eddie7252]

I feel personally attacked by the INTP mixing up what they wee supposed to say in their head and what they were supposed to say out loud. Also the internal monologue telling them to include an emotive statement was gold. Great Video

[@dearkristin]

Thank you!

[@YuS-French]

1) Mice are not spiders. 2) Emojis are emotive. 3) Blue is a colour. Your channel definitely provides a better understanding of reality😂

[@dearkristin]

#titrickster at its finest.

[@mikey_2102]

My brother laughed really hard when my type appeared (ISTJ) because at the beginning of the video i said "if she doesn't fix the mustache i'm gonna lose it"

[@Surmid]

You nailed the ISTP, literally sat on sofa with my ex-girlfriend's father and she went to buy groceries. *1 hour silent until she came back*

[@driftingpaperboat]

how do you master the art of being silent without feeling awkward?

[@Surmid]

@@driftingpaperboat depends on the person, if the other person is fine with being silent then it's okay. Akwardness doesn't have meaning in my book, you can be whatever you feel at the moment.

[@Surmid]

@@driftingpaperboat again i really don't know. i don't feel awkward if it's silent either

[@FlamingCockatiel]

@@Surmid How do you figure out if the other is fine with silence or if it's awkward?

[@claytonpayne2408]

Wow, I can so relate to the ISTP. At one point I met a friend's gf, and after saying the normal greetings we all looked at each other for a second, and my friend said, ". . .That was awkward." And I replied, "Not really, I just didn't have anything else to say, but it was good to actually meet you." And then I walked off.

[@dearkristin]

Gosh, I do not understand! But I admire that you are so comfortable with silence!

[@claytonpayne2408]

Tbh, I try to avoid those situations because I know people expect me to say more. . .and I know I'll disappoint. He he, poor friends of mine.

[@michidegraaf]

despite my ENFP-clumsiness, my in-laws absolutely adore me. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong

[@Jenny-nd8sq]

The ENFP clumsiness is in fact very charming 🤩

[@mcgil8891]

@@Jenny-nd8sq agreed

[@dearkristin]

ENFPs are peak lovable.

[@lovetobe6118]

Fellow ENFP. We often come across as more genuine and sincere. It is the thing that saves me at least.

[@timbeer8266]

The INTP one: I'm reminded of the wedding toast in Sherlock. Where Sherlock says how he reacted to hearing that he will be John's best man, but then later realised he had actually just stood there and didn't say any of it aloud

[@someonerandom713]

You! I like your profile pic! 😬

[@timbeer8266]

Right back at you

[@carolinanq10]

YES. And saying all those awkward comments about how marriages fail and stuff 👌

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha

[@alexandraradeva3549]

Every time I think of an INTP I think about that moment in Sherlock. - from an ENTP

[@MarMarcy]

As an ISFP that was painfully accurate like i always try feeling at home but people barely register i'm there

[@ashleyroesler4762]

The power of invisibility is both a blessing and a curse ;-; -ISFP

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha 😅

[@Art3mis1990]

I have the feeling the INFJ and ENFJ could be swapped in this one. Poor INTP and ISTJ hehe :)

[@brandiek82]

I thought the same thing! Is it possible she just got the ID tags mixed up? 😅

[@whitneyd6827]

It might've been an accident but honestly I related to this ENFJ skit more than most. We *love* using our Ni socially to analyze people and it's often unrepresented. In this situation I would have expected ENFJ to be talking with everyone and thinking this in the back of her mind to reflect on later (FeNi) and the INFJ to be sitting and listening but having this be her main train of thought like Kristin depicted (NiFe). I can say from experience than ENFJs and INFJs think similarly but act and prioritize very differently! Side note I hate hugs, so if these are switched I'm out haha

[@Seca95]

@@brandiek82 Probably, I think so too! I felt that ENFJ, ISFP and ISFJ resonated more with me here (I come from a culture where the parents would expect you to act like the ISFJ, i.e. as if you’d already married their son, you don’t just sit and act like a guest). -INFJ

[@whitneyd6827]

@Just Nikki It's hard not to do that honestly like I don't think I can help it, and it's fun! Interesting to hear that your experience is similar, that's how my INFJ roommate and I were. We have all the same functions so we understand each other really well but we interpret everything in reverse order. I bet you two give each other fresh perspectives on many things :)

[@darknight3613]

Man I think so too

[@blitzer8793]

That's us ENFPs... painfully awkward and physically incapable of hiding it...

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Haha yes, I’m very socially awkward. Especially around my crush or someone I’m trying to impress. 😂

[@Saxinful]

I'm great with new people, unless I start over thinking it because I'm nervous etc. Then I'm just like this haha

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@Saxinful omg same. I’m starting college in September (alevel becaue uk) and I’m super nervous because there are so many things like remembering to take the right bus, finding my way, trying not to alienate the new people i meet, keeping up with the work, staying in task ect

[@emiliya7]

I made a comment about how ISFPs are basically invisible and my comment simply disappeared! AGAIN 😭 Why even KZbin does us dirty? 🥲

[@Daemonenkoenigin13]

I love your sketches, and they are often very accurate, but for this INFJ sketch I have to say that I would never have the courage to hug a stranger that confidently! xD Rather I would be stuck in my inner monologue already assuming they will hate me even before I've met them.

[@Ayesha_F]

+1

[@autumnknox7108]

HAHA the ENFP had all the right combinations: accidentally speaking your mind/saying the wrong thing awkward silence but trying to make conversation the puns people being genuinely confused

[@J11_boohoo]

As an INTP, I constantly think about me doing these kinds of stuff everyday eventually and thinking about how I will never be able to be good in any of them! I’m years away from something like this but the anxiety is sort of here already

[@Tilnaor]

well, just let it go. It will be a disaster anyway with or without worrying about them. (optimistic pessimism)

[@ginnyweasley6571]

As an ENTP that was incredibly accurate. Too accurate. So accurate I chocked on the beer I was drinking.

[@ceilinh6004]

That mustache. LOL

[@thoth8784]

Paper mustaches are easier to take care of.

[@ValikPav]

The ISTP one is brilliant! Though it seems to me that they might switch on a communicative mode for a while and talk about some random stuff to make an impression

[@reubenfrench6288]

I just want to say thank you for putting so much thought into your INTP. A lot of other MBTI channels portray us all as computer nerds. It gets tiresome after a while.

[@dearkristin]

Thank you 😁 I'm glad you think so!!

[@cliffhamrickwrites2378]

Nailed the INTJ again. I'm either loved or hated by other people's parents. Unfortunately, it's usually 'hated'...

[@sophiaredwood5825]

The whole ENFP skit was me going “honey, honey I know… honey I feel it I’m so sorry” 😭😂 it’s so me dangit nooooooooo I would do that

[@hidinginyourcloset]

I would 100% say that Beethoven joke to someones parents oml. It's a good one, and I WILL use it.

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha 🙌 if you need more, try googling "piano puns" 😉

[@angelinap.3840]

INTJ here and yes, you should have known she would go all in when you brought her to meet your parents. Or, depending on the parents, she would have gone full ISFP: not manage to get a sentence heard and sit quietly in the corner as everyone goes on uninteresting tangents.

[@kh8529]

Oh yeah, I can see myself in both versions. Depending on the people and my mood. INTJ version whenever I actually want to socialize, and ISFP if I'd rather leave but feel the obligation to stay and have conversation.

[@johnny_roots]

ENFJ and I just realized I do this much more often than I thought 😂 Your ENFPs always crack me up!

[@raindropsonroses3919]

I’m an INFP but I’ve dated an INTJ and that’s exactly how it went 😂 needless to say he wasn’t invited to the next family wedding 👰

[@jotaro4204]

Plot twist : INTP is talking to another older INTP so they both understand eachother

[@Catralasarguido]

Older INTPs are a lot less awkward

[@Jenny-nd8sq]

@@Catralasarguido Yes! They have learned from psychology books how to act human 😂

[@olivererz6197]

As an ENFP I have also confirmed that

[@Catralasarguido]

@@Jenny-nd8sq haha well, we have our methods

[@Jenny-nd8sq]

@@Catralasarguido never underestimate INTP’s brain!

[@user-rv7nm9wh3g]

I am INTP but I’m totally feeling the ENTP on this one! I think I trained myself really well for social situations over the years 😂

[@seymur7422]

Same!!!

[@Meg_intheclouds]

ENFP is so true 😂 i laughed out loud at the Mozart Joke. I here he’s still staying sharp though up there. I defiantly crack a joke when I’m nervous (and I can feel people roll their eyes lol).

[@franciscobaltazarlabranago6248]

I actually thought that joke was funny as hell too, tho I hope my musical jokes don't fall as "flat" as the one in the video did

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@franciscobaltazarlabranago6248 haha. Don’t worry I’m sure they’ll make a major impact. (Another music joke I like is “what do you get when you drop a piano on a kid? A flat minor) I get told a lot it isn’t “appropriate to joke”- like I’m sorry there is always time for a joke. Like when we went into lockdown my first reaction was like “well guess I’m going to be making inside jokes From now on”. It’s just my reaction because I feel super awkward and when I feel awkward I crack jokes for an ENFP I’m not exactly great with emotions maybe it’s because I am surrounded by low fe users in my family and my fi acts as my tert because I’m a jumper.)

[@olivererz6197]

I can’t with that piano joke, why is that so funny! As an Enfp that sounds like something I would say in front of my teacher. On one othe last day of school, my teacher and and the 2 students who were there were making puzzles, so naturally I connected the relief of finding a puzzle piece after 10 minutes of frustration with a drug addiction where people would choke themselves and then let it go. I don’t really know what to say about that.

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@olivererz6197 it’s a great joke. And yeah as someone who was a music GcSE student I did a lot of music jokes. I mean I can kind of see that connection because both come with relief and like when looking for the piece that feeling of suffocation I can totally see how you made that connection lol (only if we said that out-loud we would get very weird looks). Like the time I revised for history by thinking of Henry VIII wanting to divorce his wives as a weird dating show like love island. I Mean I’ve been very interested in the Tudors since I was like 5, but the way I learn and remember things is always going to be different to how other people do but I love it. Never let anyone stump your connections

[@loisrabies8713]

That was a good joke

[@tealovinggeek2192]

Okay, as an INFP, I related hard to ISFJ. What kind of monster *doesn't* have tea in their house??

[@Bongi344]

Me too - INTP but okay I guess some people are monsters 😂

[@dearkristin]

I know right !?

[@elisa4620]

INFJ and I am with You here.

[@shachardl5360]

I'm an INFJ and I'm the complete opposite! Mostly awkward in the beginning, overthinking while analyzing behaviour and have a constant fear they might not like me. Plus being sensitive to critisizm or when I'm feeling too different and weird, while also being nervous about differences in lifestyle that I need to deal with (unfamiliar food? traditions?).

[@amissingbrick3104]

The INFP is really how I thought about my partner (and it’s soul crushing to have that fantasy dismantled) but I barely said anything to the in laws the first time, which is good because afterwards I found out that their moral compass is waaayyy out of line with mine and that’s a big dealbreaker for an INFP

[@gabrieldossantossanta5656]

The ISTP one also goes whit INFJ, and here's why: when an INFJ likes someone, there's so much they like that they don't where to start

[@ValikPav]

Yes, but here it also might be related to the Ti-dom and problems that might come up when making value judgements

[@aey4433]

But istp just know they like them and they don't know the reason.

[@barbaratyhe2955]

Everyone please just hug INTP.

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

Why would you be so cruel? :p

[@deej6795]

I'd like a hug. But I think I would need the type that lasted too long in this video to realize it.

[@hoibsh21]

Dear Kristin, your channel is the most original around. Next episode: The 16 Personalities meet The Monkees.

[@alexandrav7739]

This is so funny. The INFJ thing is usually in reverse though (noticed with me and 3 other INFJs I know): the parents love us more than the partners do and AT THE END of meeting them, THEY hug us and invite us to the next family anniversary. Without fail. For all INFJs I know. LOL!

[@Mr3kiwis]

Wow. Didn't work that way for me. My now mother-in-law did not take to me. Actually, she still thinks I have autism. I'm INFJ, not neuro divergent.

[@luistoomuch]

My wife is an ISTP and that was beyond accurate.

[@KafkaKappa]

Kristen, who ever the infp is in your life they are buck wild. (Also .. your representation of all personalities have so much heart :') it's just nice to see, this is across any of your sketch videos . I'm tempted to ramble on but I'll spare you).. this time..

[@Munchmallow76]

As an infp I laughed at first while watching the video, but then realised my (imaginary) french boyfriend owns a dog, paints, plays an instrument (preferably violin) and DEFINITELY volunteers at a children's hospital. Scary

[@KafkaKappa]

@@Munchmallow76 kristen was right XD. .. the more I think about it myself, I have a much more specific type than I realised..... Dammit Kristen

[@loisrabies8713]

Difference is we don't say any of this out loud lol.

[@katielarsen2630]

Yes, INFP is what I would think but ENFP/INTP is how I would actually act

[@thepickles8833]

I demand more “INFP (again)” jokes, cuz she’s too funny

[@Allison-ws8wl]

The ISFJ was accurate even to the point of trying to figure out what monster doesn't have tea in the house. I love it so much.

[@dearkristin]

Bahahaha

[@suzihoude]

The one dating the ESFP was the only one who could foresee what was coming and diverted the disaster 👏👏👏

[@dearkristin]

Bahahaha

[@lovetobe6118]

Well, I have heard of something like that happening to an ESFP friend and the parents happened to have a copy of the track and joined in. 😂

[@Jenny-nd8sq]

Love the ENTP part! So happy you didn’t portrait her starting an argument about politics 😂 and YES ENTP CAN act like a good girl if she wants to! (But probably won’t stay for long)

[@elinhaalix5620]

I swear, when I met my ex-bf parents, it went exactly like this (INTJ) Also he shot me under the table and I said out loud "What ? Am I saying this inappropriate thing you told me about before ?" Unexpectedly his parents really liked me

[@tungtran8554]

LMAO classic ISTP just doing thing on a whim. even dating

[@iwashere583]

The ENFJ...I can't, it's hilariously accurate! I've totally thought about the family dynamics loll

[@anna-nikolaevna]

As an infj I do it all the time too 😂

[@sunchips18]

INFJ (Me) before meeting the parents: “Oh goodness, this is going to go horribly. They’re going to hate me. I’m literally the worst. What does my girlfriend even see in me? I knew I should’ve listened to dad and went to law school. Then I’d at least have a job to brag about when the inevitable ‘So, what do you do?’ question pops up.” Meeting them: “Oh, hi Jenny (mom)! Oh wow, this place has really changed since that family photo you posted on Facebook in 2017. How do I know that? Hehe Well, it’s funny you should ask…” *runs away to Istanbul and changes name four times just to be safe* (Note: The actual meeting inevitably goes very well, but that doesn’t stop this scenario from being more likely in your head.)

[@doublehelixalchemist8678]

ENFP and INTP having a secret competition on who can be the most awkward

[@daphventurer7475]

ENFJ is accurate. Always connecting the dots about people as they talk. And at the end, I may just say... "Interesting". But there is always usually a lot of analysed information behind that one word, "interesting".

[@TheYeetiest]

The ENFP "deCOMPOSING" pun absolutely killed me, oh what I would give to go back and relive hearing that for the first time again.

[@darkdelphin834]

ENFP here... AAAAAAHHHH awkward times 😶😶😶😶😶😶😂 P.S. At times like that I just shut it b4 I make it even worse xD (and then they say I'm quiet 🤔)

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Wish I did that I keep rambling hoping to dig out of the whole I've put myself in, Go for a compliment (make a joke and hope it lands). Then go "Have you ever thought..." or "Isn't it funny". or you find common ground like start talking about her son. But i would get information about the parents before I meet them for topics to fall back on if it gets awkward lol.

[@aposslex]

I’m an ENTP. iNTJ is me as well as ENTP. I basically say what I want and the more controversial the better, and it doesn’t matter the situation or who I’m saying it to. It’s never to be rude or hurtful though, it’s just candid

[@cassinitakano5736]

I would love to describe myself as a more matured ENTP considering I'm older now. In most of these situations I debate with what people say in my mind and in the meantime I try to establish a good relationship with them first. Then I start to talk more about my own thoughts when they start to like me. I've also found we ENTPs have a lot in common with the INTJs regarding the topics we're interested in.

[@aposslex]

@@cassinitakano5736 mature? Sounds like a more docile version to me :p

[@CH1K3N99]

@@aposslex if one can't work with people their in for a rough ride. Empathy is part of the experience of getting wiser

[@aposslex]

@@CH1K3N99 I can work with people. I use my words wisely and anyone up for a debate usually respects my candidness

[@CH1K3N99]

@@aposslex this conversation started because of your description of another person, this has nothing to do with you. You said the other person sounds docile. I disagreed and said its easier to work with people than against them. I would normally ignore such a comments, but the Irony of you saying people work with your candid speech lead me to reply to point it failing here. I would agree, thumb 👍 and dismiss this as someone who is uninterested in others, so leave them to their perceived intelligence. Though, maybe misinterpreting, as text allows of easy misunderstanding.

[@advantphoenix7892]

LMAO as an ENFJ this was SOOO spot on. But for some reason, I extremely related to the ENTP; to the honest and qualitative answer about myself for self growth, the beer, and the saying “you knew I was gonna do this when dated me!” XDD I assume people already know things that aren’t so obvious sometimes still, bad habit 😅

[@GQ-tf6pd]

right?!

[@leovnambo]

Absolutely! I actually thought the ENTP one was going to say ENFJ! Both were spot on for us!

[@Ratouschnikova]

I´m an infj, but i´m not touchy- feely at all. I actually hate hugs lol Any other infj feeling this way, or i keep getting the wrong result, when doing the test? (No offence to Kirstin. I love your videos. And especially i like the tea series

[@ValikPav]

Yep, hugs feel strange unless you have really good relationship with another person. Like hugs are just higher level of intimacy

[@Seca95]

Same here. I could never be as emotional and touchy as the one depicted here, especially not when meeting the parents for the first time😳 I think Kristin accidently switched INFJ and ENFJ in this one. -INFJ

[@daphventurer7475]

I see very many INFJs think that the ENFJ was switched with theirs but ENFJs wouldn't be doing that "infj" part either. We would totally be in our heads analysing the people as in the enfj part. The only difference I think, would be that the enfj actually keeps the people talking by asking more questions and keeping everyone engaged than the INFJ would.

[@queenqanna9938]

Ti-Ne: There are flowers on the table. They are blue. Blue's a color. INTP: *cries in baby Fe* Also that dad acts like an ISTP, with ISFJ being the mother. Dad: Ti-Se vibes, verifying what is true and is real when talking to the INFP. Mom: Fe vibes, not sure if Ni or Si shows more but gut says ISFJ XD

[@dearkristin]

Love that you've typed the parents 🙌

[@Blazeofthecentury]

How do you always portray ENTP so accurately?! There is absolutely no way you don't know one personally. Like it's to the point where I've almost said/thought the exact same things as some of the bits in your videos.

[@dearkristin]

My brother is one!

[@Jerryspet]

Instant ISTP malfunction hearing that question

[@marvinmartinez3818]

INFPs can be so idealist enough to freak other people. BTW my imaginary crush is working on ending world hunger at the same time she does voluntary work helping street dogs find a home.

[@Snarl_Marx]

Literally the first time my ISTP husband met my family he and my step dad spent most of their time working out on the property (not talking) or watching football (not talking). It drove my ENFP a$$ crazy!

[@zzzcocopepe]

You always do the infj as a weepy mess, but this one was really funny. I'm over here imagining if I ever did meet someone's parents and I'm taking it so damn seriously. Lmao. "Shall I call you... mother?" Omfg

[@ArthKryst]

Intp here: To be honest, I'd not talk unless she starts the conversation. Also I have made a few rules for myself that I always remember to use in such situations 1) Say "hello, how are you?" And if they say they're fine, reply "Me too" leaving the ball in their court to carry the conversation. 2) if they ask me how am I before I can say me too, I'll say, "Me too" and just be quiet until they break the silence with some talk or retort and I reply as the conversation progresses and until I can find my type of topic to express my knowledge on, I'd just stick to asking questions or going, "Oh, ok" and such words. I certainly don't bother complementing unnecessarily cause I end up saying, "well your dress looks good... It does a good job of you know covering you up and not being too flashy"

[@aposslex]

Hilarious again. I like all the personalities, the world would be a better place if we accepted there are different personalities out there and they all serve a purpose. Plus it makes life interesting

[@dearkristin]

Absolutely!

[@rad4924]

Once again you've captured me perfectly as an INTJ. (Though I'm one worse because I'm an INTJ who actually used to work in politics.)

[@dearkristin]

Wow, hahaha.

[@peacefulleopard8016]

How did you get into politics?

[@JonasGamer_PvPBRHD]

@@peacefulleopard8016 stealing/deceiving other ppl

[@otaku4Gaijin]

​@@peacefulleopard8016From experience, I volunteered on the local/state level. Name ID usually can merit an entry level paid position. - INTJ

[@BlueKungFu]

ENTP here & this is absolutely spot on! I always answer the question "what do you do" with some random points. When they say "no I meant what do you as a job" I say "Oh you meant work! I exchange my time for their money. What do you do?!"

[@audrey-annegaumond2045]

Girl you’r personality videos are the most accurate on KZbin I’ve seen so far! More than the ones who have way more views…keep going you are awesome!! - From an ENFP friend 💗

[@hugowells489]

Oddly enough, I think this is what I love about each type :)

[@adityaHB456]

I can just comment funny line in video, but after watching your each video, i want to complement your acting skills..i dont know how u do it, but with your facial expression, eye movements, body language, voice tone, i understand more about each personality than reading about them...! Keep making this videos.☺️

[@dearkristin]

Thank you! I'm glad I can help deepen your understanding in any way.

[@alissa3777]

omg the isfp one is killing me, i swear ive got an invisible cloak on wherever I go, and don't get me started on the amount of times I've been ignored or talked over when and IF I do speak :')))

[@Maja-sv9we]

Lol, I love this! I honestly can't believe that you make them so accurate every time! I've laughed so hard in literally every video - these are the best! 😂💙

[@dearkristin]

Naww thanks Maja!

[@liamodonovan6610]

Something i definatly don't ever want to happen never liked meeting new people awesome video Kristin love you so much

[@SEXgoddess.]

I have to frequently check for new vids like these because not only are they well scripted and accurate (atleast always I my case, infp) they are so hilarious. Oh how I enjoy these😌💐

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! I'm glad you enjoyed 😁

[@robertpizor577]

Love the INTP top, and yes my INFJ self does form emotional attachments very quickly. It's a blessing and a curse simultaneously lol.

[@StephanieJeanne]

"I'm Sally. I'm dating your son?!" Omg! I tend to notice eyebrow and nose hairs!😭👍

[@ManuelPerezUS]

Yus! Got a fresh video! Brilliant work as always, Kristin! Notes: * that Beethoven joke had me in stitches! 🤣 * Yes, please, pretty please, give us your rendition of Hamilton * If you wear that "A New Hope" dress there better be an engagement ring coming 😂

[@glueball214]

16’s idea of heaven or their imagined perfect day.

[@ladychance3522]

As an INTP I must say that if that scenario ever took place I’d never be seen by anyone in society again. But goodness, the ISTP one is literally me all the time when ppl ask questions I’m not prepared for or comfortable answering, or if they ask me what my favorite ice cream flavor is.

[@johnlopresti5682]

Becoming one of the best and most entertaining personality type channels.... great work. INTP was so accurate and uncomfortable that it hurt (but hilarious). I'm starting to believe that ESFPs are always ready to break out in song regardless of the occasion! By the way blue is the rarest flower colour at approximately 10% of all flower species. Just thought you might want to have that fact handy ;]

[@dearkristin]

I 100% knew that blue flowers hardly existed but I was happy to pass them off as common in this universe. :p

[@Cellder]

The captions!! Father with defined jawline is great haha. Also, love the INTP, painfully accurate

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha I had a LOT of fun with them

[@SBecktacular]

As an intj I can’t personally relate to this- I would definitely show more respect to someone I cared about and their parents 🤷‍♀️

[@violax3735]

Love your vids :) Can't really relate to the INFP in this vid; in situations like job interview or meeting the parents? That Fi is taking the backseat for a while. There's a lot of time (when I was teaching; meeting the parents; presenting on conferences etc.) when I lean heavily on my Ne and to a lesser degree on Si. The Fi goes back to the driving seat once the "thing" is done, or once I'm completely burned out ("meeting the parents", I spent three hours chatting with them, then I had to get out of the room and built blocks with the kids (I happily continued alone when they lost interest). Luckily that was taken as "good with kids" moment, rather than "being rude" moment. My ISFP GF does a similar thing - you might think she's an extrovert at the first glance, until you realize that's her secondary taking a driving seat in certain situations.

[@zacharylind1257]

Your captions make this twice as good

[@dearkristin]

Why thank you. Glad you noticed 😏

[@mudman619]

Yes! (ISTP) ... we hate small talk . . .lol. (btw, LOVE that Episode IV tank top!)

[@MsMrExe]

THE SUBTITLES. Thank you. I am blessed.

[@lalmesfer7402]

YAAAYY NEW VIDEOOO

[@fleetingfootnotes9133]

Wow. The ESTJ even ticks off the video edito... (Edit) and aw, that poor INTP kept looking around for some new hope everywhere. But Jessica and Ms. Fletcher ... how many reruns of Murder She Wrote were there in Aussieland?

[@fatercoelho7476]

INTP, I'd behave exactly like the ISTP. Talking could end up badly, so I opt for the lesser evil. Also, I don't think i'd ever swap what i'm thinking for what i'm saying. I over analyze it to much. In fact, i'd probably have rehearsed a bit of dialog for those "first impressions" and then duck in the corner when I run out of dialog.