16 Personalities Meeting Someone New

[@dearkristin]

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[@joakas1986]

I thought it was awesome that add for your my type app you cleverly sneaked in there almost at the start... well done...

[@aaronnovotny377]

no

[@LourenceLeeServidad]

So smooth...

[@mudman619]

tried it - very few women my age on it and very few of them are nearby or a match . . . so gave up

[@hannahcruz1440]

When I get finished with my book I want you to. 👍

[@Rhys_Thorian]

omg the INFJ, INTJ and ENTP scene was so obvious and just perfect

[@majahecko6368]

As an ENTP I agree 👍

[@cathyhart3946]

That one was the best!

[@PockyFiend]

At the first comeback, the ENTP should have thought, "A new challenger has arrived!"

[@JstJaybeingJay]

Yes, I agree a lot of times I would say things just to entice people or see what they're going to say next.. things like "losing your freedom, doesn't sound that bad...😁😂".

[@cathyhart3946]

@@JstJaybeingJay Do people take you seriously, or do they know you're messing with them? I can usually tell when someone is goading me and I either call them out or roll my eyes. I'm ENFJ, so I act somewhat like the INFJ in this skit, but I probably wouldn't leave. I'd stay to see what happens between the INTJ and ENTP. I like watching verbal sparring. 🤣

[@SimoneEppler]

Okay, this INFJ - INTJ - ENTP conversation has happened exactly like this. Including me monitoring it and getting out of it QUICKLY. Brilliant video!

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha good call, Simone 👌

[@trinaq]

Me too, I have been that awkward INFJ in the corner, silently contemplating everyone's motives!

[@Sykkulogy]

i see kristin has time travellers now too 😂

[@SimoneEppler]

@@Sykkulogy Hello from the future 🖖 And sorry for the spoilers. 🤔

[@nerysghemor5781]

What's hilarious is that people think we INFPs are the timid little pixies but I actually think our Fi-Te (FIGHT!) makes us a lot more likely to jump in the middle of the argument than the INFJ, all while our self-preservation system is sounding off internally, going, "What the hell are you doing??" XD When I heard that debate I found myself wanting to jump as the INTJ's wing...woman? and help take down the pro-authoritarian argument. Because that's another thing: YOU try telling an Fi-dom what to do. :evillaugh: And at least for me, that, "Excuse me, who are YOU to think you know best and to impinge on my freedoms?!" part is very likely to win out over my reserve.

[@misterwolf3817]

ESTJ - ENTJ meeting is straight-up effectiveness unleashed into the outer world. I like it.

[@darkdelphin834]

Exactly what I also thought!

[@sophiaredwood5825]

I thought the same and I love it

[@daniellecward5400]

Yep, loved this too! Efficient and effective👊🏻 We definitely need more ENTJ/ESTJ interaction Kristin!

[@JstJaybeingJay]

They seem like they could be really good friends😁.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

@@JstJaybeingJay Or very quick rivals

[@octoberbabybee]

omg the Ni-Ne trio of ENTP, INFJ and INTJ was so perfect haha, I could watch a movie about three characters like this (AND OMG I'm cringing and crying and laughing so much at poor poor INTP, this was gold lmao)

[@dearkristin]

Hehehe, thanks 😁

[@etiennedevignolles7538]

@@dearkristin You have me (INTJ) nailed there! I also argue the opposite side too when I am in the mood for a good argument. 🤣

[@ASentientBlockofSwissCheese]

As an INTP, thanks for the sympathy

[@dmasterz8924]

INTJ and ENTP interaction was priceless

[@bennaustin6632]

The ENTP and INTJ is me and my other half, except I’m INTP but we debate like that. Neither of us is overly attached to one side of an argument although my other half will pretend to be at times. If we’re honest it can get quite speculative

[@JstJaybeingJay]

And very true..... Only I lean to the side capitalism more than socialism. But I would say things like "loosing your freedom could be fun"....just to entice people and see what they're going to say next😂.

[@jojomojo9823]

@@JstJaybeingJay Us East European INTJs old enough to remember growing up under communism, have learned to just walk away from communism discussions and debates.

[@Imaxxd22]

@@jojomojo9823 Real commusim is a brand new spaceship, which perfectly works. Communism in Eastern Europe is Lada. Yes, it can drive, but you see the difference.

[@zk7830]

It's even more priceless for me because I (an INTJ) recently had a similar disagreement with my ENTP friend who suddenly told me the world needs to turn communistic.

[@adult_nubian]

INTJ breaking the fourth wall is forever my favourite trope in your videos. Lol and the interaction between the INTJ and ENTP (trying to mess with INFJ) was so relatable. I can see how I'd annoy those around me just by defending a point I don't necessarily agree with. Great content as always. Looking forward to the next one xp

[@dearkristin]

It is becoming one of my favourites as well...

[@b3li3v36]

I'm INFJ and I would definitely participate in the argument. I use a huge amount of Fe though, so I don't think I would have stayed for too long. Ni tells me it's a meaningless argument anyway.

[@gouki4u]

You can actually see a microcosm of the infinitely repeating cycle in an INTP's social life in this video. Just chilling, eating snacks is "I just want to be left alone." Accepting an invite to charades is "I should socialize more." Getting the giving birth card is, "This is terrible, I need to go."

[@partoshahroodi531]

Exactly my train of thoughts every single time I leave the house

[@Meocontuki]

That is way too accurate. For me, trying to be nice and socially normal often results in "what do I do now?" / "when can I go home?" / "I should have just shut up" / "remember, never ever do this again" monologues.

[@ariusanimus6985]

So true...

[@zzzcocopepe]

Just add sarcasm

[@hobovan.]

i’ve reached the point where i’m aware that i do this but i haven’t reached the point where i actually stop doing it.

[@aprilw2287]

Poor INFP, wanting to make connections but getting passed up. I relate. 😆 And I felt for the INTP at the end!

[@dearkristin]

She really should avoid ESFPs at all costs at parties. ... who am I kidding, the ESFP will always find her. The ESFP will always find everyone...

[@aprilw2287]

@@dearkristin ESFPs are my favorite. 😆

[@richardmartin7904]

When I was younger I was like this INTJ. Now I let people talk, then I ask them simple questions, let them talk more, ask them more probing questions, and eventually they start to figuring it out. I carefully craft my questions so the logical parts of their brains must activate.

[@dearkristin]

Very good 🙌 I appreciate when someone uses this tactic on me 😅

[@BimepWind]

In my case they say: "again your questions! why so many?"

[@driftingpaperboat]

This is so good. But i think most people's position on things are based on an emotional motive, even if they see that it's illogical the emotional part wouldn't be resolved, so they might just feel conflicted or confused in the end... It might still help to have them see how illogical their reasoning is though, it would help me at least

[@richardmartin7904]

@@driftingpaperboatThat's why I use this approach. I want people to accept their reasoning is based on emotions. That is the first step towards wisdom. I coerce people down a path where they might finally understand why they do all these irrational actions.

[@cruzader35]

Socratic method?

[@luistoomuch]

I’m disappointed ENFJ abandoned their “let’s unpack that” catchphrase. Hilarious video as always!

[@dearkristin]

Oh, it'll be back!!

[@emilymiller5045]

@@dearkristin Is that a threat?

[@tinniesealjiji]

Emily Miller it is

[@annamolly6]

Kristin's videos are so cozy. They give a feeling of going over to your friend's house to play when you were a kid.

[@dearkristin]

Cute! Thanks!

[@popqueen24x7]

THATS SO TRUE

[@an_anishinaabe_son]

I agree! Kristin is wonderful and fun!

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

There comes a certain point in every INTPs life, where they just say "no" to such things, and then over analyzing having done so for the next few hours/days/weeks/months/years/decades.

[@CIA.2024-u9b]

Yeah, just say no to BS! Dont be ashamed.

[@ariusanimus6985]

Sheesh, decades, so relatable 🥲

[@whitneyd6827]

2:41 I remember my ISFJ ex specifically telling me it caught him off guard that I was such an open book so soon, but that he actually really appreciated the change of pace and reciprocated. ISFJs are so sweet :) long term our types just want different things though. He did also ask me how my day was every day haha, nailed that part - ENFJ

[@edennis8578]

My first husband complained that I never asked him how his day was. I (INTJ) assume that everything is ok unless you tell me differently. I'm also not interested in giving someone an excuse to vent. I can't do anything about someone else's work problems, so I don't really want to hear it; it just winds me up for no reason. Pointless. I also assumed that when he asked me how MY day was, it was just form because he really didn't care, at all. Not one bit. So why should I ask him back? With my second husband, I do ask him back, but his stories are more interesting and he actually (at least appears) to care how my day went. Reciprocity.

[@mudman619]

I gotta admit, as an ISTP I've never had either the courage nor the outright rudeness to simply say to a stranger, "you don't need to talk" LOL - but I wish I had many, many times. instead always just had to frown and bear it for as little as possible, speaking as little as possible hoping they'll get disinterested or take the hint. Sometimes though, you just have to make a "rude" comment and that will ultimately do the trick.

[@Surmid]

The ISTP was on point. As an istp, I come to realize why other types may think we're cool LMAO. Also, Kristen, you could put the ISTP in the background of other types too. She would just stand there and listen to them 😂 As always, another great and funny video 💯😍😂

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha a great suggestion 👌

[@audreyhowler]

Totally agree on the passively listening ISTP! I was put on this earth to be entertained by others. Without participating of course.

[@J11_boohoo]

As an INTP I sometimes exaggerate my awkward movements a bit more and laugh with it to appear more like I’m just a goof ball who is a bit uncomfortable but is having fun The thing is it can actually really nice cause I don’t have to seem so closed and I can engage a bit more with Fe

[@rebecka4715]

Yes! Embracing and exaggerating awkwardness is really helpful around others... Makes it seem more intentional and not that I just dont know how to act 😅 I can have some difficulties to read irony sometimes so I kinda made it a thing to pretty much always jokingly react as if people are serious, so then the ones that slip past me gets jumbled up in the mix 😂👌 /INTP

[@kusasiraserajosephine3688]

it's always the intp for me. So hilarious.

[@ceilinh6004]

I'd actually be really good at fake giving birth. I can be very silly and over-the-top in front of people for stuff like charades. The hard thing is talking in front of people as myself.

[@frigginjerk]

Yeah, a caricature of some of your more superficially noticeable qualities can be a good way to keep people at bay. Being an INTJ myself, I have been known to play up the kinds of behaviors that will make people think. "Oh, okay, he's a weird nerd, now I understand him." But they understand nothing, and that's the way I likes it. Better to have people be wrong and leave me alone than to be right and keep trying to talk to me.

[@bennaustin6632]

I (INTP) am ok at casual social games, but when people start getting competitive about it is when I hate it. Any game can get like that. My family makes charades, scrabble, card games, everything overly competitive. There are arguments and it gets heated. It’s horrible. As a result I tend to avoid games.

[@mira9391]

I'm INTJ with an ENTP brother, and I can guarantee that we talk like that 90%of the time. He'd pick an opinion (that he doesn't necessarily believe in) and act as if that's the right argument just to get an opposing opinion out of me. There's nothing more endless than a conversation between an INTJ trying to prove that they're right and an ENTP poking holes to prove that the INTJ is wrong.

[@fleetingfootnotes9133]

Nah, not as endless as pointlessly going round in circles.

[@frigginjerk]

INTJ and ENTP? A titan against a titan!

[@tabby_cat]

I'm also an INTJ with an ENTP (younger) brother. We used to argue as little kids (somehow he managed to find and push all my buttons at once, lol). Though it never lasted long, because as an extrovert child with one sibling, he wanted me to play with him again asap. We were pretty much over it as teenagers, as we found we are actually best at working together. We find the same things amusing, and we approach collaborative activities (like video games) with different methods and perspectives, resulting in very effective teamwork.

[@J11_boohoo]

You two seem fun -INTP

[@dreamsanddestinies8763]

You described my entire childhood (ENTP) living with my brother (INTJ)

[@jamyllemagalhaes8531]

I am totally ISTJ, but ISTP is so relatable, this is why I love uber drivers, they don't talk to you and you are not obligated to be total expositive with them because you never gonna see them again

[@dearkristin]

Gotta love an uber driver's silence on the way home from a big night 👌 But also their willingness to talk when I crave the pre-game energy build-up. 👌

[@BTNSTR]

as an INFP i hate being interrupted but it happens literally all the time 😭 spot on!!

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

Before I forget any further, the smoothness of which Kristin has the different types interact with each other is great. One of my favourite parts of her videos.

[@petersmall1574]

"Before I forget any further, . . ." I.e., before my Ne thought stream fractals itself into twenty more tangents.

[@nerysghemor5781]

It's funny how the INFJ stayed quiet during that argument whereas for an INFP, there's a chance that the Fi-Te is going to activate and drive them to butt right into the argument (all the while being nervous about the fact that they are arguing). I certainly felt myself wanting to join the INTJ in piling on the ENTP... XD

[@willowphoenix5926]

So true lol

[@annepaulinetiu4036]

Yes I want to argue but the nerves of arguing seeps in to me. I never thought it was an INFP thing.

[@Meg_intheclouds]

I can spot the ENFP straight the way- I’m meeting so many new people atm. Like my friends keep adopting people and every-time I go over to them there’s like another 8 people which I love. And make quite the impression in it I do say so myself. Also I would love to be in that entp room. I would just dive in with something random. Also the stars are great. And light up shoes!

[@dearkristin]

So many cool things to explore!

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@dearkristin oh for sure. I’ve worried out why we write essays in the comments. It’s because we watch the video and there are so many thing’s that we can comment on and then that just leads to infinite things which leads to a long comment with no structure (but who needs structure 😂). Also love the references to previous videos. I also love how you use the same names. Like Ash is the ENFP, Jill is the ISTJ. Like it’s like a Dear. Kristen cinematic universe- as if we’re following this story with them.

[@rumeysaongul4765]

@@Meg_intheclouds This comment reminds me of the ENFP scene in the "16 Personalities as KZbin Subscribers" video!😁 Also, yeah! There have been consistent names and related scenes, which is wholesome! It feels like a continuing storyline!

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@rumeysaongul4765haha that’s what I was referring to lol. Because I had an epiphany of why we do it 😂 and yeah I love the continuing story line. Low key want to see Jill and ESTP together

[@PockyFiend]

1. The UR MY TYPE ad was a lot better than the last one, especially with all 16 personalities on camera. It could be a stand-alone ad, like the Frank James one. 2. I remember requesting a video on how either the MBTI 16 either dating each other's type, or their opposite type met each other. Thanks for fulfilling my request a little differently. 3. The INTP's attempt at charades was kinda like my own. I had to do it for a language class in college. I had to do A Nightmare On Elm Street. I basically just did the movie charade, then just play stabbed the nearest girl in the class.

[@emilymiller5045]

She did a video on the personalities dating their own type and another on dating their opposite

[@PockyFiend]

I know she did, and I requested that she'd do a video on how the MBTI 16 featured on those videos met. Thanks again, Kristen, for fulfilling my request a little differently.

[@PockyFiend]

4. ISFJ: You should have just said you needed to go to the bathroom.

[@widewailcorduroy7278]

INTP being chosen first to play charades. That hit hard.

[@freregregoire2685]

Oh yes, that's a good approximation of personal hell.

[@makaniwebb9358]

Yeah.

[@janbo8331]

Most social customs are a charade for the INTP

[@driftingpaperboat]

Loool the ESTP popping into ENFP'S advertisement like "wtf???" when she saw herself as the audience xD Hilarious.

[@jamaluddinkhalifa8371]

oh! *that's* what happened..! i didn't get it at all when i saw it first, decided it was irrelevant and totally forgot it happened at all. saw your comment and was like, "the heck's this person going on about?", rewatched it, and now i understand.

[@driftingpaperboat]

@@jamaluddinkhalifa8371 yeah it's quite fun to discover those not-so-subtle easter eggs that Kristin puts in her videos sometimes :)

[@jamaluddinkhalifa8371]

@@driftingpaperboat I'm sure it must be. I can't relate though. I don't think I've caught any Easter egg in anything ever. I'm totally reliant on comments like yours.

[@driftingpaperboat]

@@jamaluddinkhalifa8371 Think of it as a preference. Some people, like me don't like to let subtle details slide without processing them, it feels kinda bugs me in the back of my mind if i just ignore them. When I was a child playing video games i had a hard time sticking to the main mission bc I wanted to explore every single corner and not wanting to miss out on anything. It can be exhausting and it can be fun. Other people prefer staying on the main thing, going with the flow. This is a easy going approach and has many advantages imo.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

“Ooooo! A bouncy castle!” Story of my life, but for the ESFP instead of the INFP. That was a perfect encapsulation of ESFP life

[@dearkristin]

Haha I will NEVER say no to a jumping castle!

[@trinaq]

Despite being an INFJ, I could really relate to INTP's awkwardness during the charades game. I have been in that same situation countless times! 😂🤣

[@bluejay7805]

Same 😅

[@GiraffesOnFire]

I was suffering so much watching that part 🤣

[@justanerdyhobbitgirl]

I was feeling secondhand stress watching it -infj

[@WolfoxBR]

kristin doing the best segue into sponsoring section *ever*. Again. Also, I feel so much for the INTP in this skit. So very much. ;)

[@jeneusschneider243]

that was hilarious

[@cathyhart3946]

1. "Inexplicable gesture" had me laughing out loud. You are so good at INTP even though you say you understand them the least. 2. ENFJ would most likely have realized that the other person was uncomfortable and would have backed off after giving an over-the-top, incoherent apology. ENFJs are very confident until they realize someone is irritated by them and then they fall apart.

[@dearkristin]

Yeah, ENFJs are usually much better at reading people, haha

[@cathyhart3946]

@@dearkristin Incoming classic ENFJ comment: I hope I didn't offend you, I'm just trying to give you some food for thought for future videos. :)

[@ShineguardIke]

@@cathyhart3946 Your comment is rather hilarious to read after having also just watched the “16 personalities as YT subscribers” 😂

[@cathyhart3946]

@@ShineguardIke We just can't hide from who we are. 😁

[@rebeccaalam9261]

@@cathyhart3946 lol but I know an ENFJ just like this! Strategically opening up about themselves to get you to open up.

[@ericaaaafj]

OKAY I have an INTJ sisters who has an ENTP boyfriend and EVERY FAMILY DINNER ENDS UP LIKE THAT. I’m the INFJ who understands their mental processes, their way of arguing, their reasons and motivation and so on, but never takes part in the conversation ‘cause does not have a personal point of view😂 TOO ACCURATE. I died laughing.

[@daphventurer7475]

Personally as an ENFJ, when I meet someone for the first time, I automatically consciously or unconsciously start studying them and I try to analyse their emotional mood or atmosphere. I am very sensitive to someone's mood. That includes someone not wanting to talk or open up about deep stuff. I can pick up on that very fast (FeNi) without too many words and I will definitely back off! I also have a certain pull towards introverts or the quietest person in the room. And I just sit quietly next to them. My Fe can easily mimic someone else's mood while my Ni (usually unconsciously not with a deliberate plan) analyses the non-verbal subtle gestures. On the surface, I am usually just minding my own business and probably reading a book or looking at the view of the place while the person-analysis goes on in the background of my mind. And more often than not, the person will open to me ON THEIR OWN, even the introverts and even people I may not want to talk to. I believe it is my automatic unconscious FeNi mimicking of someone's mood.

[@annepaulinetiu4036]

I love ENFJs 💕💕💕- INFP

[@indy_cwxyii5518]

@@annepaulinetiu4036 thank youu 🥺

[@greenlimabean]

This was great. Thanks, Kristen. Im INTP and I relate. It's so hard to do sensory things like physical movements that people are supposed to watch and analyze. But your INTP character tried and did it. I'm rooting for her.

[@JimmyThaJam]

Legend has it that the INTP is still there to this day, repeating small variations on the same gestures, but to no avail.

[@dearkristin]

😅😅😅

[@nzlioness]

INTP is going to have to go to therapy after that T_T Also, flipping awesome addition of the crowd comments! The editing in this is 🤙🤙

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! I did enjoy editing that part a lot 🤣

[@GhostofJung]

@@dearkristin INEXPLICABLE GESTURE!

[@restlessmosaic]

Therapist: "I want to try something different. Tell me your fear using gestures, not words." INTP from this sketch: *leaves with incredulity*

[@trinaq]

I love how you seamlessly transition into your sponsor mode, as well as perfectly imitate the various types! 😍

[@Fernally123]

the INTJ, ENTP one is SO ACCURATE, literally me and my best friend all the time, topic tone mannerisms SPOT ON. and the INFJ trying to "keep the harmony" but super not necessary for the NTs hahahaha. loved it.

[@Loki274.5]

The INFJ, INTJ and ENTP scene is kinda how i sit in most conversations.. The INFJ one is 100% relatable... how does she know so much 😱😱 - INFJ Great work Kristin!!

[@dearkristin]

Thank you!

[@freddiemoller3692]

The way she integrates the sponsors into her videos is genius, I usually never watch the sponsors but she makes them genuinely funny.

[@glueball214]

Sooo incredibly BRILLIANT. The facial expressions alone are priceless. 🤣 Now about that ENTP. I watched a video earlier (another channel) featuring INTPs bragging about trolling social media and leaving 'bait' posts. 🤣🤣🤣 Any xNTPs out there with illumination?? defenseless INTJ

[@dearkristin]

Thanks, Kimberly 🧡🧡

[@arrobatic]

Entp: the troller Intp: being trolled

[@edwright4892]

Brilliant! 😄 The INTP playing charades was absolutely hilarious. I've seen this at lots of house parties and it can provide an almost voyeuristic viewing of the different personality types playing!

[@dearkristin]

Thanks, Ed! Hmm, I should add "16 personalities playing charades" to the list....

[@SimoneEppler]

@@dearkristin yes, you definitely do! 😂

[@silverfeather2315]

I have still hold a grudge against dad for not buying led shoes when I was 6...well he was teaching me to have control over myself while shopping...i also wanted guitar...i don't usually ask for things when shopping except if it's food...yeah I cried for days for it then one uncle (neighbour) and me, we had a bet that if I scored 90% in finals then I would get the guitar... Well I won... I got 92 and he gave me that guitar 😏 then my dad kinda scolded me and him cause we completely missed the lesson...he was like 22-23 back then...now he is married with a kid... Now if I ever meet him again I will surely gift his kid a guitar too... Fun fact : he already bought that guitar way before exams so it won't get sold out so I was gonna get it no matter what grade I got... I realised that after I grew up and that guitar is still with me and is still functioning properly...its a toy guitar and it's my most precious toy of the childhood... Edit : I am an ENFP

[@dearkristin]

This is the sweetest!

[@silverfeather2315]

@@dearkristin I watched previous video after this and yes I am novelist subscriber

[@Mina56]

Lool ISFJ one was on point. Although the circumstances of meeting new people are slim lol. I had a coworker who was similar to the ENFJ, and I really felt uncomfortable with the millions of personal questions, but somehow I’d end up answering them anyway at the start. Regretted it later, and I had learn to draw boundaries.

[@dvdraymond]

Paraphrase of a comment I once saw on INTP's and dating: Someone talking to INTP: "I like you, would you like to go out?" INTP: "Please show your work"

[@Tilnaor]

*"obligatory small-talk question"* *"far too in-depth response"* I will never turn the subtitles off again. This gives a whole another layer of meaning

[@makaniwebb9358]

INTP here. Pretty accurate. Knew it was my type immediately. Also, I might have just left. Or given an extremely half hearted attempt. Depends on whichever takes less effort and takes me out of the spotlight faster.

[@brendemarco9976]

You get an A+++ in both performance and accuracy in this video. 🤣Well done Kristin👏🏻👏🏽👏🏿

[@dearkristin]

Thank you, Brenda! You get an A+++ for being great 👌👌👌👌

[@augustinfrancotte3163]

entp-intj : best debates. I always debate with my intj friend

[@raytherad]

INTJ and ENTP: Finally a worthy opponent, our battle will be one for the ages! Also what did you bribe the INTJ with to make an appearance on the ad?

[@dearkristin]

I'll never tell my secrets! 😏

[@ilmanmufiydhaagustadia_1346]

The ISFJ and ENFJ convo is basically me and my ENFJ friend in a nutshell 😂😂

[@MichaelHill-sg8ks]

INTP: This is so true. I remember going to my brother's wedding; so many people asked me to dance. They wouldn't take no for an answer, one of them even tried to physically drag me on to the dance floor. I wasn't having any of it. Then, toward the end of the evening the bride smiled sweetly at me and asked as politely as she good. My inferior Fe kicked in I guess, not wanting to turn down such a polite request. Everyone who knew me started laughing, and my sister began to film it. I couldn't make anyone understand that dancing in public is physically and emotionally unpleasant for me. After one song I had to leave and spent the next twenty minutes in a quiet corner, trying not to be sick.

[@gamercj3682]

I became so mad at those people while I was reading this. Please forgive me

[@Meg_intheclouds]

see this is why I love being an ENFP because i can not dance- but also i don't pick up on when i'm either "being embarrassing" or just don't feel embarrassed (until inferior Si sets in later and then I overthink every detail and then critical Fe joins in which is always fun lol)- which i guess is how we can act to seemingly weird- we get wrapped up and don't see it from an outside perspective. Like i have defiantly pretended to be on an advert before (and my istj mum and friend tbh have both told me to stop). Anyways back to what you were saying- perpetual Fe trap sounds like it sucks- for me Fe comes out in a Te way so it's like "this is the correct thing to do at a wedding"- and chances are I'm the first one on the dance floor and then about 20 minutes later i'm in the corner having a philisophical convo with whatever intuitive introvert i've found. Anyway I was trying to relate your situation to one of mine to empathise so sorry about the rambling. I’m sorry that happened people need to be more respectful of your boundaries. Maybe you could develop a signal that you need to get out of the situation. Or you could find a way to ease your own anxiety in the moment until you find a way out. Or find an extrovert to take over. I love how when I’m trying to give the Fe response it still comes out in a Te way

[@sophiaredwood5825]

This made me so irritated to read :(( I actually (shockingly) don’t like dancing at certain types of parties either despite the social pressure. I’m so sorry that happened 😤

[@frigginjerk]

It's funny because everyone who isn't defective is supposed to enjoy dancing and having other people laugh at their discomfort! ...Ugh. I don't understand why that sort of thing is socially acceptable. If it wasn't the wedding of a close family member, I would have seriously considered making the kind of scene that would have perpetually been the number one feature of every guest's memory of the wedding.

[@MichaelHill-sg8ks]

@@Meg_intheclouds Having Fe as a stressor, coupled with Ti and Ne as the two leading functions leads to incredible self-consciousness. Things like dancing in public make me rely on Fe-inf, but my two leading functions are aware that I have no idea what I'm doing and begin to catastrophise every scenario in my head. Debating in public doesn't have this effect on me despite my self-consciousness, because Ti feels comfortable and in control. I know what I'm doing in a debate, but I just feel like a fool when I dance, so I avoid it; which is why everyone was amazed when I finally gave in. Unfortunately, they didn't seem to realise how sensitive I was about it. All of that was a few years ago now, so I'm a bit more assertive these days. Nowadays I'd just say no; no matter what anyone said to me. Si would whisper to Fe, "remember last time?"

[@jettsteel7305]

This was *amazing* to watch :D I guessed the ENTP, ESFJ, INFJ, ENFJ and ISTJ ^^ I honestly thought ESTP was ISTP because they seemed more leaned back than partying hard and my ISTP sibling has this weird obsession with cake, so I couldn't get that out of my head XD I felt the INTP's struggle through the screen, OML, that would've made me so anxious T.T Why do INFPs always get either ignored or forgotten- I legit went to school on the first day after a vacation and all the other kids around me swore I had never come that day, like... What am I, invisible-? ;-;

[@actionchaplain1]

So ISTPs have something of a cake addiction?

[@jettsteel7305]

@@actionchaplain1 IDK if it's just my sibling, but I feel like they'd be the type to do that with any food they like

[@farrex0]

As an ENTP, I have never done that, but I have been on the receiving end. My ESFP brother has several times told other people, my brother believes "x" is the best way to.... and I interject, I am like WTH, let me speak for myself. Seems like he is trying to do an argument from Ad Populum, as if he can't argue his point so needs to show other people agree. Something I have seen in Te users constantly, using "Appeal to authority" and or "Ad Populum" often. (the majority of experts agree with my point, or "x" expert can't be wrong because its an expert). If a view or argument is sound, should be able to be proven by itself. If you want to cite experts, show what they say, just the fact that experts "agree" with you shows nothing.The logic is what is important, not who said it. Even the most intelligent people, can be wrong, because everyone is wrong in something. And also, I never believe anything can be the best way for anything, Ne keeps me open to all possibilities and I would never marry to one thing. I give all ideas an equal chance, but I see pros and cons in everything, so i can never truly say this is the most/best whatever. But that is why I can argue from all angles, I give everything a chance, but I also can see the flaws in all views. But as always, it was a great video, you are pretty funny Kristin and seem pretty fun to hang with, would love to have an ESFP friend like you irl. And sorry for the essay, once I start I can't stop, lmao.

[@farrex0]

Unless, now that I thought about it further, the ENTP wanted to add the INFJ to the conversation. Let her express herself to the INTJ. That would be something I would do.. or also, just to troll her. Now for trolling I would definitely do that. For example, I knew she didn't like communism. So I will tell the INTJ, that she does, just to troll. Have done that kind of thing several times, lmao.

[@dearkristin]

No worries, was interesting to read. I hope it was clear that the ENTP was being satirical 😅😅 funnily enough, as soon as you mentioned your ESFP brother doing this, I realise that I do the exact same thing. But it's got a completely different motivation - it has nothing to do with proving a point, testing logic or exploring. For me, when I do this, it is solely for the reaction of my friend whom I am throwing under the bus. Kind of like a prank. This is peak cognitive function differences at play. Same behaviour, different motives!

[@farrex0]

@@dearkristin LMAO, I can imagine, I will have to ask my brother for his reasons to do so and see if they line up with yours. But he can be quite a troll sometimes, and we do enjoy trolling each other. And yeah, I do love that about cognitive functions, seeing people act similarly but for drastically different reasons.

[@gabriellebarnard707]

👏🏽🏆

[@pearlsb45wine]

Tbh, I really would love to observe an -power struggle- interaction between an ENTJ & ESTJ just to feel the energy (or see who better keeps theirs under wraps). Us more reserved types might learn a thing or two. 🖤

[@MazorKuziaki]

My god I felt the INFP struggle SO hard. 2:19 Idk how it's possible to consistently put out such amazing content, but thanks for all the hard work! I loved the charades bit with all the characters in the background. Stroke of genius. -INFP

[@dearkristin]

It's much easier thanks to all you wonderful subscribers ❤

[@UncooperativeCat]

Oh yeah. Love me some ENTP debate. (Although internally I would also be making the INFJ's correlations about their emotional life and eventually use them to dissect their arguments).

[@gerryvyti4256]

Wooohooo! Early access Patreon club here 🥳🥳

[@dearkristin]

Woohoo! Good to have you on board, Gerry! 🎉 🥳

[@edwright4892]

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[@SimoneEppler]

wohoooo, feels great! :)

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Yeaah patreoners 😁

[@justanothersherlockian7058]

The ENTJ and ESTJ interaction was incredible! That's what we do!!! (I'm an ENTJ and I have a few ESTJ friends)

[@ZacharyT94]

INTJ: No no, we’re not done Me: Yes, yes we are, ain’t no way I’m letting you steer this conversation

[@CH1K3N99]

Indeed! without an audience to make feel uncomfortable, or someone who is a bit too invested in a topic that skirts the boundaries of 'a bit too much', it's time to drop and get something more interesting. Also an immediate conversation dropper is when the funny uncomfortable has no retort's / one syllabel answers. If I wanted to play both sides out loud, I'd go back home!

[@HomeschoolwithRachel]

Nailed both the ISFJ and INFJ types! I fluctuate between those types consistently for 10+ years, and I spotted each immediately 😂 such good acting work!

[@DarthTach]

Love the Scott Pilgrim vs the World reference on the opening scene.

[@trinaq]

Likewise, I almost didn't catch it until the rewatch!

[@ДіанаЦимбрикевич-з6е]

1:35 I'm laughing out loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 4:00 is ingeniously done ! I'm an INTJ, my best friend is ENTP and she has an INFJ friend, so I tell you from my personal experience that it's the most accurate thing ever !!!

[@sks6763]

"No no, we're not done here". I felt this.

[@JakeHGuy]

Catholic writer from Texas. I appreciate all the different personality types, with all the Catholic statues, images, etc. in the background. Also, I died laughing at the giving birth card.

[@cliffhamrickwrites2378]

Nailed the INTJ again. You don't get to say something patently stupid and just walk away. And I love the cold eye contact at the end. "You wanna dance? Let's dance!"

[@beanseboy]

I feel the INFJ's scene in my soul. I am an INFJ and I have been in that exact scenario numerous times. It's generally my cue to go get another drink.

[@valerieconrad1005]

The ENFP was spot on! I did that today at the fabric store when a lady got done blue furry fabric. I had to find out what it was for. Then when she was in line at the checkout behind me I had to talk to her again! And then relate it to my project... And hope I didn't end up sounding like a weirdo in the process 😜

[@joecoolmccall]

"no, no, we're not done here..." Indeed, I have not yet begun to fight...

[@snippyhera]

I am an INFP with an ENFP brother, let's just say we're a chaotic group haha, if you bring in my other brother who is an ISTP it gets really interesting 🤣

[@MichaelGrundler]

As an ISTP I'm intrigued. 😅

[@snippyhera]

@@MichaelGrundler Ahaha my ISTP is the more grounded person in the group, he isn't nearly as sensitive as me and my brother and is WAY smarter than the both of us lolol!

[@MichaelGrundler]

@@snippyhera That would be my place in such a group as well, but I'm up for a bit of xNFP chaos as long as it doesn't interfere with me or my stuff too much. :)

[@snippyhera]

@@MichaelGrundler Haha that sounds like my brother! It's sometimes hard to understand ISTPs, but I really do admire you guys! It helps me see new perspectives and understand and appreciate differences!

[@audreyhowler]

I'm an ISTP (priority: action) with an ENTP husband (priority: thought) and an INFP teenager (priority: feelings). It ain't pretty. And no one in our house ever remembers where anything is. Not even if we were holding it 2 minutes ago.

[@sunchips18]

So is no one going to talk about the fact that either a) there’s a genetic clone of the ESTP or b) the ENFP is a chaotic chameleon that not only is able to perfectly replicate other types, but does it so well that she loses her sense of self and has an identity crisis when she sees the “other” ESTP? XD

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha love this. Well, as someone who does not use Ti, I am completely fine with the fact that this part of the video makes no sense. 😅

[@sunchips18]

@@dearkristin We haven’t even gotten into how the fact that she has a cake eaten the exact same way adds an extra layer to this. I love these little details in the video. Haha

[@azarishiba2559]

Or c) ENFP used Teleportation and Possesion, it's super effective! For the commercial, that is XD XD XD Really, for me this makes sense... The randomness of us, ENFP, is legendary XD XD

[@sunchips18]

@@azarishiba2559 Hmmm…I would’ve assumed that option C was a time-loop a la Tenet, but this one sounds more interesting. XD

[@dawnriddler]

0:00 - ISFP/ISTP 0:17 - ISTJ/ESTP/ENFP 2:20 - ESFP/INFP 2:30 - ISFJ/ENFJ 3:50 - ENTJ/ESTJ 4:00 - INFJ/INTJ/ENTP 5:30 - ESFJ/INTP

[@TiaTam]

There it is! I've been scrolling for a while looking for this

[@ZSweesy_1329]

Thanks a lot buddy! People like you mean a lot to me!!!

[@ZSweesy_1329]

​@@TiaTamsame!!!

[@Tumi_2000]

OMG The ESFP has never rung so true. I was on the jumping castle at the last party I attended😂

[@Lex-rc1iv]

HI AN ESTJ HERE AND I NORMALLY NEVER COMMENT ON ANY KZbin VIDEOS DUE TO MY JUDGEMENT OF IT AS A HORRENDOUS WASTE OF MY TIME B U T THIS CHANNEL IS JUST FLAWLESS AND AMAZING AND the plot, the editing, the smallest details clearly reflect your understanding of the MBTI types and their cognitive functions-you are SO incredibly underrated. I’ve been sharing your videos with my friends and obsessing over how meticulously planned and created these videos are. thank you so much for creating such wonderful content. i aspire to be like you. i hope your day is going fabulously! (throws roses) keep up the magnificent work.

[@dearkristin]

Aww this is such a beautiful comment, thank you! 😍

[@Roman-ji7iu]

Only thing that would've been more accurate is the INFP being asked if they're new / just showed up. They have in fact been there the entire time...

[@dearkristin]

Ahh yes this is gold

[@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274]

As an INFJ, I don't mind looking at different perspectives. I just don't want to be in the middle of them because I feel the tension that others don't even want to admit is there.

[@diaz6874]

2:59 *simpathy noise * INTJ: These subtitles are great.

[@dearkristin]

As a side note, how good does the BBQ food in the thumbnail look? 👌

[@trinaq]

Pretty freaking delicious, almost great enough to eat!

[@MariaM-qq6kv]

Do you make your thumbnails on kinemaster too?

[@muffintops]

Looks delicious 😋

[@sunchips18]

Makes me wish that I had a grill of my own. I live in an apartment though, so it’s kind of a no-go. 😔

[@Surmid]

looks good

[@jehmarxx]

I'm INFJ and I either hate or meh charades, depending on what personality I wear in front of different groups.

[@sViviftie]

Being an ENFP the ENFP meets ESTP situation reminded me way too much of how I met my former ESTP boyfriend... the accuracy

[@flusel4949]

“Inexplicable gesture!”

[@debbieken5639]

I'm the ISFJ. This is so true. I can't just open up to anyone not even when I trust them. I don't know how people do it. I'd rather just deal with it on my own.

[@ridirih9807]

ISFJ here, agree completely!

[@GhostofJung]

If any app approached me to do a spot for them, my reaction would be just as you described... WHO ARE YOU, what do you want? 👀

[@SimoneEppler]

Oh, look who's here! 🤩 Hehe, exactly!

[@dearkristin]

If I were an app, I'd approach you 😏

[@aintcruz2715]

The ENTJ part is so accurate, I wonder how you would represent them right after the toilet scene moment (ENTJ here)

[@ohforsatanssake]

As an INTP, I felt this so incredibly much. I absolutely HATE playing charades 😭

[@Azdaja13]

"No no, we're not done." - I've actually done this before when people try playing with me in arguments and getting me to disengage and I just see straight through their attempts because it comes off so fake. We're done when I say we're done or when I see no further point in arguing because it becomes a waste of time. xD

[@partoshahroodi531]

As an intp that's exactly my internal conversation WHY HAVEN'T I JUST STAYED AT HOME WHY I DONT LEARN THIS

[@LAL7887]

Oh, the experience of trying to stop a fight you can see coming a mile away like a train crash... You get INFJ so well Kristin

[@eileennguyen8572]

I'm an ISFJ and could totally relate to 2:41. When you're reluctant to showing someone your true empathy, then you imply that you're uncomfortable :o

[@Sigmaskibkd]

As an ISTP, I would drink much more than just that little sip. Okay, I just saw the ad bit and I was just thinking “I wouldn’t wear that…” Creepy.

[@emilys3638]

ISFP plays it cool outwardly, but dies inside just a little bit to be dismissed so quickly as an unworthwhile conversationalist...

[@dearkristin]

😅

[@Siansonea]

Nah. This ISFP appreciates ISTP's honesty. I already know what I think, I don't *need* to actually say it to someone.

[@Izzy-yu2xw]

As an ENFP, the INTJ-ENTP also put me in flight mode lol. But I am easily baited by ENTPs about less serious subjects (I once got into a two hour argument over the definition of "brownie edge" and what constitutes a brownie with no "edges")

[@dearkristin]

LOL!

[@bennaustin6632]

Oh dear. Just remember ENTP don’t mean anything personal by this, they find these discussions fun. As an INTP, I kind of do too. Obviously you don’t enjoy that. 2 hours is a bit extreme even for my ENTP other half though. I’d have thought they’d get bored with it before that and change positions or topics earlier. Sorry you had a bad experience.

[@brandonhendricks7575]

@@bennaustin6632 Sorry, but if this girl was willing to go two hours, why change topic? Our debating is for honing our own skills as well as determining how well reasoned a person's opinion on the subject is. It gives us insight into how they deal with people and an opposing opinion. Clearly Izzy here was very passionate about brownie edges, and that ENTP probably had a great time with her 🙃 Not saying it's healthy, but it's not pointless

[@gorgonheap9770]

My thoughts upon reading this: "I don't eat brownies so I have no interest in this conversation. ... But shouldn't the top count? Crust is an edge. Just sayin'." -ENTP

[@silverrain530]

I have an INTJ friend and that's pretty similar to us. Good thing is, neither of us really care about who's smarter or get ego involved. It's more like we both take a look at an idea and throw out observations, not too unlike looking at an art exhibit. Of course, the "art exhibit" is normally economics, engineering or some other more abstract idea. I think we both mutually enjoy the difference in perspective NI+Te and Ne+Ti bring. I know I do, anyway

[@grazynawolska8160]

Agree, as an INTJ I love taking an idea appart with ENTP with none of the emotional deterants in the way :) NTs are really the best

[@mythicalswiftie6567]

The transition from acting to advertising is very smooth!!

[@finnkuudere3516]

5:28 This is how they do it. ESFJ (now Wife) approaches INTP (me) at a dance. "Hey, we're going to go dance now!" "Uh ok." Dance finishes. "Hey, so you're my boyfriend now!" "We just m.." "Ah ah ah, no swapsies!"....2 weeks later 6:38 ..... 6 months later.... kzbin.info/www/bejne/b3baYnmujL5rack

[@Jenny-nd8sq]

Love the ENTP-INTJ debate with INFJ accurately analyzing the situation, trying to soothe the atmosphere but in vain lol. Triggering arrogant people is always one of the top interests of ENTP ("to help others think outside the box") 😂 (and also using dating apps not for dating but for talking to more interesting people.)

[@TheAdhdGardener]

ESTJ n ENTJ work beautifully together. So efficient😆❤ my inner INTJ be exactly like that, oof u not dropping that convo topic just yet 💯u need to expand on that

[@an_anishinaabe_son]

@Kristin, Your impressions are hilarious! Being an INFJ, I particularly enjoyed that one! My wife is an INFP. My eldest child is an ENFJ. My next child is an INFP. My next child is an INFJ. My next child is an INFJ. My mother is an INTJ. My father is an INFP.

[@greenlimabean]

A vid of each type communicating the way they wish they could. Intp would go to town! having so much fun in meaningful conversation.

[@Siansonea]

I love that right off the bat, ISFP and ISTP just settle into comfortable silence.

[@simbax710]

LMAOOO! Wait stop this is scary good, me (ENFJ) and my bestfriend (ISFJ) literally had this exact same interaction the very first time we met eachother and tbh continue to act this way 😂. I have no idea how or why she keeps me around! Thanks for this beautiful yet hilarious depiction of us😂