16 Personalities Through the Eyes of the INTJ

[@kurint8350]

Please do this for all types! It'd be so fun!

[@trinaq]

I agree, I'm so excited to see them all, especially the ENFP's, which would be inevitably quirky!

[@alysonsinkie9296]

AGREED

[@nitzan3782]

SECONDED

[@miahan8988]

@@trinaq I fear the word “quirky”, not all of us are glitter ponies.

[@Mellyouttaphase]

@@miahan8988 My problem is that’s how I come across to strangers and casual acquaintances. Then people get to know me and are inevitably disappointed that there’s so much more to it 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ (whilst I scare away the people I would find interesting…)

[@miahan8988]

ENFP was in the middle of doing the dishes (hence the spatula). In the middle of rinsing off the spatula, she finally figured out how to use the ice cream cups she was gifted and had no use for (because she scoops ice cream with a table spoon into a bowl and eats it that way) but felt sorry for whoever gave it to her so she tried to find use for them, and she had to tell the INTJ immediately because otherwise she’d forget, and that’s why she’s *still* holding the spatula (4th Si and 8th Se).

[@Moomoo54546]

Lol this is perfect! 😂

[@samanthah4907]

That's so accurate 🤣

[@hedwig3927]

Am ENFP can confirm lol

[@evolving.as.jen22]

I love this explanation...aaaahhhh, having a conversation that probably no one but me cares about, yet somehow feels important, in the middle of 3-8 tasks, each of which has an almost equal likelihood of never actually being fully completed. I feel so seen. (ENFP) PS (Had to edit out an s on "I feel(s) so seen." ENFP-slip?)

[@sophiaredwood5825]

Yes, exactly this. You win.

[@Graywyck]

_Embrace your inner INTJ Kristin!_

[@WolfoxBR]

YES!!! :D

[@PockyFiend]

Oh, the ESFP just said that because of all those typeology videos on the INTJ., and if she couldn't be the center of attention, she'd at least cozy up to one. If INTPs had all this video attention, she'd be cozying up to us.

[@thomasswrisky6734]

As an INTJ, this video was fantastic! I unironically have an INFJ friend that I have the exact dynamic as portrayed in the video. She’s a good kind person, but my ability to understand her, her emotions, and why she feels them is… limited. This sometimes causes her to become frustrated with me. I try my best though.

[@trinaq]

Precisely, I'm an INFJ myself, and it was interesting to see how INTJs might perceive us, as well as our inability to understand our own emotions.

[@vsml333]

Our ability to understand our own head, emotions and why we feel them is limited too... :/

[@fl3640]

Bro, if the type that is the most similar to us cannot understand us we're effed.

[@dryayeet8400]

Hey!!! Infj here with an intj friend I've known 9 years out of the 15 I've been alive in. He's literally the only guy I've known for that long+have wanted to be with even now. I literally hold him in the highest regard possible, well intjs in general fascinate me because of their critical thinking skills and tendency to dominate the world :p If he really feels this way about me then that's kinda bad, since i genuinely wanna be a part of his everyday life. He isn't emotional at all and that can be a hindrance but I'm sure i can help in that regard. To all the intjs out there with infj friends, pls let us in we only wanna help 😓

[@elphieofkiamoko]

As an INFJ, I love INTJs. Sometimes, I need to have a philosophical or frank nuance-free conversation where I don't have to exhaust myself emotionally just to exchange ideas. Please, never change.

[@ejaykniep]

I have an INTJ manager and I found this hillarious (without actually laughing out loud because I have no emotions) - ISTP

[@dearkristin]

🤣🤣🤣

[@aprisiarene697]

As a fellow istp I can confirm that you can find me wheezing like a maniac, but only behind the doors.

[@ejaykniep]

@@aprisiarene697 😂

[@Bofmog]

​@@aprisiarene697 as a fellow istp I can highly relate

[@shweta8592]

This is hilarious, the last part was epic. With the horror movie type music playing in the background 🤣

[@-emir5484]

THE ENFP HAD ME DYING OMG AJTKWKTMF The ENFP is saying "So you see this spatula? And these ice cream cups? I ALWAYS thought they used these to make fried ice cream. Like, you mix the ice cream up and just gallop it into one of the cups and put it in the oil, then just turn it round and round. I always wondered how the ice cream never melted."

[@applepatronum4934]

Wow yeah i can hear all my ENFP friends saying this

[@-emir5484]

@@applepatronum4934 I remember wondering why urinals existed and never knowing why my parents always said "Don't pee while standing up". Urinals were a mystery to me until like, 7th grade

[@applepatronum4934]

@@-emir5484 hahah

[@hersheykisseys]

I FEEL CALLED OUT

[@yeontankim6747]

I can hear my bf saying this. (he's enfp and I'm intj)

[@bunny_0288]

I'm an INFP and my husband is an INTJ lol... I do know he tries extra hard to be sensitive with me, but I have come a long way in recognizing that his straightforward manner is just the way he is and he's never intentionally trying to hurt my feelings. We have both grown so much and just "get" each other now and have learned how to communicate with each other in an effective way. I truly believe we are a very compatible pairing once you figure out how the other person thinks. We are both extremely loyal and deeply passionate people. I love the way he views the world and his ability to problem solve is truly incredible to behold. He says he loves the way I brainstorm and how my ideas just grow and expand. He says it helps him when thinking through problems because I can give him more possibilities to contemplate which help him to make good decisions. We have the most interesting and random conversations about a vast variety of topics. I just love INTJs! My mom was one, too, and we got along really well. Drawing out an INTJ is such a fun challenge for me, but I feel like I get to see a secret side of them that they don't show to the world. I feel like INTJs are really misunderstood by a lot of people. Viewed as robots, but they really aren't. My sweet and amazing INTJ is my ride or die love of my life. I can't imagine life without him

[@melon1590]

INFP and INTJ honestly work really well together. It's just the communication part that's difficult but once the two types understand each other's differences and recognize them as strengths they'll be a powerhouse team

[@bunny_0288]

@@melon1590 I agree completely! The first couple of years of marriage were the hardest because we do communicate so differently. But my wonderful INTJ husband is always trying to optimize our relationship haha, so we talked and discussed our communication issues and grew in our understanding of one another. We have been married for 11.5 years, and we hardly ever argue. If we do have an issue, we look for the root problem and figure out a solution or a compromise, so we don't typically have cyclical arguments. I love that we are different. Our different talents make us a more well rounded team :-)

[@melon1590]

@@bunny_0288 I'm so glad to hear you guys are doing well! It's great to hear us INFP's getting along with the INTJ's especially since the relationship is pretty uncommon

[@Adonnus100]

I'm also INFP and my dad and best friend are both INTJ, safe to say there has been a bit of a struggle sometimes. But I think if we can try to develop an appreciation of the other person's personality we can get along well. An INTJ can learn to be more emotionally attuned and less closed off with their thought process and an INFP can learn to be, well, a little bit less sensitive to be honest, and that not everything that upsets us is legitimate or needs to provoke some action from us - sometimes it can just be a misunderstanding from different intentions.

[@ENFPerspectives]

♡♡♡

[@larsthemartian9554]

In summary: ESTP: Rebel without a cause ENTJ: Horrifying nightmare of a person ISFP: The Chillest ESTJ: Shallow efficiency machine INFJ: An enigma INTP: Wasted potential ESFJ: Nonstop gossip machine ISTJ: The one type that gets it INFP: Emotionally fragile Yes Man/Woman ENTP: *Nihilism 100* ENFP: *white noise* ISFJ: Way too innocent, is hiding something ESFP: My inner demon, the type I love to hate, but hate to love ISTP: The type I secrectly want to be INTJ: Pseudo-intellectual poser ENFJ: MY WORST NIGHTMARE But seriously though, great video. Would love to see this for other types :D

[@speakersr-lyefaudio6830]

Nihilism 100

[@NevertahnProduction]

As an ISTJ, we get you INTJs.

[@linana5053]

we really are youre worst nightmare?

[@larsthemartian9554]

@@linana5053 I couldn't tell you, I'm not an INTJ, this was just me summarizing the video lol

[@godandsarah1306]

As an Intj, is very accurate on a more negative scale. That was me as a immature youngin. Truth is, I've changed after a decade or two. Hallelujah

[@lightair797]

The ENFP was singing while frying ice cream but then she remembered she forgot to get brussel sprouts for the ice cream at the same time she realized all the ice cream melted because oddly it's not designed for frying. So she decided to make pasta sauce out of it instead. She was explaining that to the INTJ on her way out to jog and dance to the store for brussel sprouts which she forgot she no longer needed because she's making something else now.

[@Sophie-vw5ol]

What? Please, I feel a little insulted. Even for us, it's a little extreme don't you think? 😂 Exchange Brussel sprouts with sprinkles and noodle sauce with another desert and it maybe works. Then the spatula was to get the fried ice cream out but she realized on time that it isn't good to put plastic in deep frying oil. So now she asks the INTJ what she can do about the whole dilemma

[@lightair797]

@@Sophie-vw5ol This is not a bad scenario. I could almost believe it but that she would realize in time that it's not good to put plastic in deep frying oil seems unbelievable to me. My ENFP has not only never realized anything of the sort she also regularly convinces me it will be fine even though I KNOW better! But please don't be insulted. I love and adore ENFPs and my life would be much the poorer if all my plastic bowls and utensils didn't get melted on the reg. My jet stream oven had stove top burner marks melted into it for years. Gave it character though. Also she just last week made meatloaf out of leftover celery, tumeric, and ginger pulp that she juiced because she didn't want to waste it -so to answer your very fair question - no I don't think it's extreme at all. Rather mild in my experience.

[@Sophie-vw5ol]

@@lightair797 hahahahaha omg you have a fine ENFP there. Right, the realization about the spatula being melted would just happen in time if the Se kicked in for a second (actually thought about it while writing but otherwise my story wouldn't have worked 🙃). I train myself that it happens more often and I think I get better with it. However like a few month ago I forgot the frying pan with the plastic spatula on the side and guess what, both garbage 😂😂😂 Than I've put some drying towel with plastic on a still warm oven 2 weeks ago. My flat mate which I guess is an ISFJ or ISTJ (I know, very different but I can't really tell) got it gone. She's a little mad about me for such things I guess. Difficult to talk to her. So nice to see that some people are chill and even supportive about that. Thank you 🥰 May I ask which type you are? P.S.: I actually now realized that you didn't talk about frying oil in the first place. Came back to check and found your answer. But anyway 😂😂

[@lightair797]

@@Sophie-vw5ol 😂. INTJ here. My Ni works very much in a garbage in garbage out fashion. Which is to say if I have good information input then what comes out is very precise even sometimes uncanny. The thing with ENFPs is they can be very chaotic but also very convincing. So I will sometimes be lead into debacles. My own responsibility of course. My daughter will convince me we can steam the broccoli in the silicone insert (faulty input you see) which might even have worked but that she forgot to add water so that everything just melted. Thanksgiving dinner sadly had no broccoli that year. 🤣 But we have so much fun always even when melting things. The most creative presents. The happiest days. I feel sad for anyone who does not have an ENFP to add chaos and love and life to their life. Who else will insist that you have dinosaur day and do all the fun dinosaur related things? Or lead people around in the rain for two hours on new years eve to hear temple bells (and be lost but no one ever realizes it)? You have to get you an ENFP if you don't have one already. LoL

[@ENFPerspectives]

@@lightair797 being in the rain on new years to hear temple bells sounds simply Devine 🕯

[@restlessmosaic]

With the word "find," the ISTP said her 1,000th word in the Dear Kristin canon! Congratulations, ISTP! Here's to another 1,000 by the time the ENTJ's crush starts her popcorn business (June 28, 2026 - and yes, I've saved that date in my phone).

[@SimoneEppler]

I like you!

[@restlessmosaic]

@@SimoneEppler Right back at ya!

[@SimoneEppler]

@@restlessmosaic 🥰🙌

[@dearkristin]

👏👏👏

[@trinaq]

Thanks for keeping track of ISTP's vocabulary, I had no idea that they had limited dialogue until recently!

[@natejakubowski4174]

As an ENFJ with an INTJ best friend I feel personally called out. I love how your ENFJ has that smirk and glare in her eye suggesting she fully knows the INTJ is going to be uncomfortable and what's she's doing, but her Fe and Ni is encouraging her to proceed with the torment because she knows it's best for the INTJ. Well done!

[@IN_FeNi_TY]

I wonder if all types see us this way? - ENFJ

[@dearkristin]

I don't! Whenever I see my ENFJ friend, my eyes gleam and I frolick toward them, nothing short of THRILLED for inevitable unpacking.

[@natejakubowski4174]

@@dearkristin Does your Se bring out your ENFJ friend's tertiary Se? I have an ESTP friend and I feel she brings out my spontaneous side. After we unpack of course. :')

[@dearkristin]

@@natejakubowski4174 absolutely! It's wonderful 😁

[@natejakubowski4174]

@@dearkristin Good to know! MBTI is so enlightening. Looking forward to more of your videos!

[@lunabeekhuizen8858]

1:02 As an INFP, I would like to say: Dear INTJs, please do the exact opposite. I'm not offended that easily, but I hate it when people pretend to listen to/care about what I'm saying but don't really. If I trust you enough to share thoughts or feelings that actually matter to me, I've probably seen you being "offensive" before and don't care about it. Just be genuine. The worst thing you could say is something along the lines of "I don't care about any of that", in which case, I'll leave you alone about it and everybody wins.

[@yt-sh]

this is pretty beautiful, thanks for sharing!

[@dianatorralbo7690]

Let's settle this: ENFP we are deep. Deep like shit. Deep like: I read this book and I've been thinking a whole week about what happened to the author and what he or she meant. So INTJ are really engaged to us because we are kind and empathetic (even with them) and we don't buy the hostile facade, we care about people but we are not stupid. We overthink and never share our thoughts, we play the charming and fun person because we want people to feel ok. Once an INTJ has seen your "dark version" he/she can't forget.

[@Moomoo54546]

1000% agree my fellow ENFP😊👏

[@-emir5484]

This is a Te look on ENFP which is fine but like, that cute plant on the corridor is so nice I wanna talk about it

[@sophiaredwood5825]

@@-emir5484 Plants are gorgeous and I second this 🥺💞

[@Saxinful]

@@-emir5484 agreed, I have some of my deeper/personal thoughts I keep to myself (who doesn't), but man oh man do I always and constantly want to share everything I'm experiencing as it's happening hahaha I just want people to understand my mental process but over sharing doesn't 👏 help 👏 but I will do it 👏 anyway 👏

[@louisonls4354]

Totallyyyy we don’t seem deep but we are (sometimes too deep)

[@cthoniccassandra7526]

INTJ here, and you got it absolutely down. Every single one. You definitely got into my brain but due to how impressive it was, I don't mind! Also, you made my ISFP girlfriend happy, because it's true--she _is_ the only person with a calming effect on me. lol

[@applepatronum4934]

Aw, sweet!

[@shayelisa]

As an INTJ who married an ISFP, I can also confirm this to be true. Lol

[@mrs_mothra547]

Isfps are so relaxing 😭 - infp

[@partoshahroodi531]

as an INTP with INTJ best friend I can say I can literally hear her saying exactly these about other types! pleaseeeee do an INTP one😂😍

[@graxster296]

ré¨r

[@indigo4afbry701]

My last boss was an ISTJ. As an INTJ, we got along so well. We both had an appreciation for efficient systems to the point where whenever it was slow, one of us would be queuing up the next step of whatever task needed to be done, so the whole process ran smoothly. Probably the best person I've worked with. Plus, whenever there was downtime, we were either having a good conversation or enjoying the silence.

[@eddiekitzhofer4245]

My dad's INTJ. I think he thinks of a wider variety of solutions more quickly, so naturally something he proposes to fix a problem will work. I'm a bit more careful about accurately diagnosing problems and taking the time to fix them so that they won't have to be fixed again. He's also much more patient with people than I am. - ISTP

[@grazynawolska8160]

This was kinda sweet to say about your dad, very observant. -intj

[@conniemc86]

Oh my goodness, as an ISTJ mom with teenage twins (he's an INTJ, she's an INFJ), this was SO spot-on, all the way around. He makes her crazy, but she's always been able to mess with his mind, like no one else. Keep me in your thoughts...😬

[@vida8356]

As an INTJ, first of all I'm so honored you made this video (even if the reason was to made us furious) and second of all, I'm offended and third of all, great job I loved it.

[@UncooperativeCat]

You outdid yourself Kristin. This video's idea is simply genius. Can't wait for the other 15. Yeah, that's exactly how I see ESTJs. And of course I deeply admire ISTPs. Who wouldn't? Edit: OMG the ESFJ's skit with the alternative subtitles is brilliant.

[@UncooperativeCat]

@@thecod2345 Yep. I also think we make a great team. In a crisis/apocalyptic scenario, you better bet ISTPs are always going to be my first pick of the bunch.

[@Daisy-xs9yb]

Yeah being a istp and my only friend is intj

[@Masoumeh_Hoseini]

00:00 ESTP 00:08 ENTJ 00:14 ISFP 00:22 ESTJ 00:27 INFJ 00:38 INTP 00:49 ESFJ 00:55 ISTJ 01:02 INFP 01:10 ENTP 01:20 ENFP 01:25 ISFJ 01:35 ESFP 01:49 ISTP 02:01 INTJ 02:06 ENFJ Enjoy 🤍✨

[@lostcloud4368]

Putting time laps are good for the viewers but not for the creator. It recuses time watched time for the video. Just a heads up!

[@effulgENTPossibilities]

@@lostcloud4368 If I understand what you're saying, the creator doesn't get credit for a view until a viewer watches the entire video. Is that correct?

[@effulgENTPossibilities]

Or maybe you're saying that the creator gets credit for "overall minutes" watched, and if the viewer just watches their own type it is giving the creator less minutes.

[@dearkristin]

The latter! Watch time makes a huge difference to creators!

[@effulgENTPossibilities]

@@dearkristin I watch your videos at least 2 times each. One view for watching, and the 2nd view with the UK captions...

[@pisceanskies]

omg please do one for each type!! i’m an INFP but i’ve always found the INTJ/ESFP dynamic absolutely hilarious, it’s probably the funniest out of all opposite pairs!

[@justinoliphant9875]

I laughed so hard… as an INTJ, I agree with a lot of these. Although I’d more say that I admire ISTPs.

[@Memeee__]

I like how INFJ is so chatty here... I know a few INFJs and nobody believes me when I say they can talk a lot. ~INTP And we need (at least)15 more such videos, Kristin!

[@trinaq]

I agree, as an INFJ myself, people are surprised when I'm chattier than they expected!

[@ceilinh6004]

Yes. My brother-in-law in an INFJ. He has a very quiet voice, but also quite a lot to say.

[@PriHL]

What? You don't know me. I don't shut up basically.

[@purplemind93]

in a conversation with an INTP everyone is basically a chatter box ;)

[@exnihilonihilfit6316]

​@@purplemind93 Lemme guess: you're an INTP. 😄

[@Hyurno]

this is brilliant

[@freddiemoller3692]

As an INTJ, I can confirm that this is: a) TOO REAL b) hilarious However, given that it does not aid me on my path to world domination, I shall be paying no further attention to it.

[@Silverswitch1]

You have already wasted time and energy writing a comment that is not required.

[@freddiemoller3692]

@@Silverswitch1 *does not compute* Don't make me add you to the Extermination List.

[@nouveaucourteduree9836]

What did the enfp mean? 🥲

[@freddiemoller3692]

@@nouveaucourteduree9836 I think dear Kristin was implying that the ENFP’s frivolity is so unbearable to an INTJ that the INTJ just has to block them out mentally- the INTJ has to ‘censor out’ their silliness because it’s THAT offensive to them. Obvs ENFPs aren’t actually silly or superficial on the whole, she’s just exaggerating the way that INTJs might perceive them for comedic effect.

[@Silverswitch1]

@@freddiemoller3692 You do not possess the talent to kill me.

[@valej9387]

That's the most flattering view of an INTP I've ever heard. (I'm being genuine when I say that.) Maybe I need to surround myself with more INTJs, rather than be intimidated by their ability to accomplish things and come to solid conclusions. 😅

[@kristae.7686]

Seriously, every INTP in my life is awesome. I love you folks. What bothers me more than anything, though, is all the untapped potential. Your brain, gah, share it! Lord knows the world needs it.

[@grazynawolska8160]

Yes! Please share your brain! We love you guys and admire your ability for deep understanding. -intj

[@valej9387]

What if the results of our research are, uh, ethically questionable? 👀😅 Ti/Ne is all fun until it clashes with an Fe sense of responsibility lolll

[@soapmaker2263]

I admire ISTPs the most of all the types, tbh. My aspiring Se looks to them i think. ENFP energy is essentially a drug to me, like some kind of psychological catnip. How are you so charming and disarming? ENTJs - Basically me on my best days. We think alike, but your tireless productivity puts me to shame. I've also noticed you tend to have an uncommon command of vocabulary in your speaking. ISTJs - You have my utmost respect and there's definitely a sense of mutual understanding. Very tough, hardworking and dependable. My favorite people to work with hands down. ENFJs - Your motivational speaking powers are off the charts. I'm in awe of your mighty Fe, and it is a wonder to behold. Your mastery of it fascinates and confuses me; please be gentle with your probing. ESFJs - Imagine if a warm, cozy blanket took human form then started chatting with you. I always walk away happy. INTPs - You folks have the coolest hobbies and interests, and you've introduced me to so many obscure, fascinating things, for which I'm eternally grateful. Sometimes i just like to pick your brains on random topics. ISFJs, more so than any other type, make civilization possible. Society would unravel tomorrow without them. Think about it and thank the next ISFJ you see for their service to humanity. ESTJs - Energetic go-getters who are always on point. Extraordinarily generous, protective, and loyal to their loved ones. Having an ESTJ in your corner is a great feeling of reassurance. ENTPs - Instant best friends, you magnificent bastards. Absolute best conversations. ESTPs - Hilarious, fearless, natural salesmen, and never a dull moment with you. INFJ - Me but with people skills. Yes i'm jealous. ESFPs - Me after ~8 drinks, when all inhibition has melted away. Top contender for the most fun type. ISFP - The coolest cats in the neighborhood. We can really vibe well together and I enjoy your company immensely. INFP - Listen up everyone! These sweet little muffins are under my protection. If anyone hurts them, there'll be hell to pay. INTJ - Me. Improve your ability to engage in small talk, kill your ego, and stop procrastinating. Then you can accomplish pretty much anything.

[@megham11]

Wow I agree with 100% of this.

[@GoVocaloider]

This is the loveliest comment in this whole thread. Thank you, I (and probably everyone who read this) felt appreciated.

[@ellehcim2779]

Procrastinating huh.... *cough*

[@Mayakran]

These are… wow, yes? I believe I’ve said some of these exact words to describe the types.

[@Snarl_Marx]

Aww this is such a sweet comment! You're really quite insightful. My best friend is an INTJ. On the surface we seem like water and oil. But all I've got to do is shake things up a bit and we blend seamlessly. Sincerely, an ENFP 💟

[@ShawnDavid91]

SO SAVAGE, I love it. I especially loved the ESFP, ENTJ, ENFJ, INTP and INFJ. You're doing more right?

[@johnknight9150]

Meh, it was pretty spot on, though we actually love INFPs and ENFPs, and many of us don't like ISTJs.

[@thundergames1234]

@@johnknight9150 tnx i love you to you lovely fella who i dont know 🤪❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@user-mc5vy2vk5n]

Not sure how we earned to be first episode of what looks to be upcoming series with another types, but I'm kinda enjoying it.

[@ikasugami]

As an INFJ, now I feel self-conscious that this is how my INTJ husband sees me. 😂

[@Seca95]

The INFJ was SO annoying but so on point nevertheless🥲 what’s frustrating even to us is how we expect people to figure us out when we don’t reveal much about our thoughts, feelings and just our inner worlds in general.

[@grazynawolska8160]

Share your Ti ideas! :)

[@dxfifa]

That's why INFJs love ENPs because we will figure you out and make soul reads on you with minimal information

[@ColourBlindHero]

I think that that the ENFP was asked "How was your weekend?" and they responded telling the story of how they attempted to make their own ice cream from scratch.🍦🍧

[@SuperKatiki]

As an INTJ do love ISTJs. I had a roommate in college who is one and one of my favorite, former coworkers is one. They don't play mind games, they're straight forward, we can have disagreements about topics without someone getting mad, and we can sit in a room together for hours in comfortable silence. They're great. I have a sister who is an ISFJ. There is something lurking beneath the surface; it can explode at any minute. I just wish it would explode more with the people who take advantage of the sweet ISFJ nature and not with me.

[@frigginjerk]

My mom is an ISFJ. She's never been anything but absolutely loving and supportive toward me and everyone else close to her, but I've seen glimpses of times when she gets a righteous anger thing going and it's pretty scary.

[@Diaming787]

Yes, their tertiary Ti is basically a ticking time-bomb you can't directly see.

[@francescogiacovelli8468]

Ok, you totally got me with the ENTJ lol. We are always trying to impress INTJs in our flirty/menacing way, cause we esteem them and we know they can be some worthy opponents or allies.

[@aposslex]

Haha, this was very good. You should do one for each type. I can only imagine what the ENTP view of each type would be 😂

[@Catralasarguido]

I have an ENTP brother and he more or less see anyone as a guinea pig, he is a very good person nevertheless!

[@aposslex]

@@Catralasarguido sounds about right

[@insertsarcasm]

Gotta be "too easily provoked" for at least half of them right

[@Bolshechemty]

@@insertsarcasm Mostly high Fi and Fe users, lol.

[@ADeeSHUPA]

@@aposslex ないす

[@diaz6874]

*Spots Fe-dom trying to engage in conversation * INTJ: *internal screaming noises *

[@handmadecoogie]

lmfao fr they scared me

[@glueball214]

🙌❤️‍🔥

[@arrobatic]

XD

[@alicezavaletta5250]

Romantically pursuing an INFJ as an ENFP was exactly as you portrayed. The frustration of having to be as open and brazen and honest about everything was hella exciting and I loved it. IF ONLY I KNEW HOW SHE FELT!

[@grazynawolska8160]

Yep :( or what she thought.

[@redhairgrneyes]

She doesn't know how she feels or what she thinks. Lol - infj

[@somejoe7777]

My wife is an INTJ and this is spot on. I'm an ISTJ, and indeed, her view of me is even more spot on.

[@johnknight9150]

I don't know if she has told you yet, but those British crime dramas you like that follow the same formula each week are annoying in their predictability. Embrace the chaos once in a while and it will do wonders for your relationship. She is part anarchist if you haven't already seen it.

[@J11_boohoo]

Fe users (IxTPs too) are emotionally explosive creatures cause they have to externally process emotions in order to better feel them and if that doesn’t happen, they’re a ticking bomb As an INTP, I salute the ISFJ for having the healthiest Fe (since it’s at the second position) and hope she doesn’t explode ever 😀

[@PriHL]

What about meeee? :) I'm also second slot Fe as an INFJ. I can assure you, I explode, as does the ISFJ but it's rather a matter of temperament than type.

[@J11_boohoo]

@@PriHL sorry INFJs I somehow forgot about y’all

[@applepatronum4934]

Idk, i cried publicly (alone) bc of frustration for about 10 minutes this week, does this count as explosion? -ISFJ

[@PriHL]

@@applepatronum4934 Yes, I've seen ISFJs getting extremely emotional and it ranged from raging to crying, so everything counts I guess :)

[@applepatronum4934]

@@PriHL ah okay. I hope i don't explode in a way that hurts people around me

[@yoby4984]

Thanks for this Kristin, I thoroughly enjoyed it! - INTJ (10/10) The ENFP was talking about her friend Jessica and her pet rabbit and how she believes that dragons were actually birds disguised as reptiles.... While holding a spatula to distract the INTJ from stealing their ice cream cups and becoming distracted themselves.

[@mojyoqueen350]

My bf is ISTP and yes, this is how i see him. He also takes me down to earth when i am too much in my head.

[@malakashraf2801]

Wow , I am thinking of entering the same relationship . can I ask you , how do you deal with the same se-ni axis , does it make you limit the freedom of each other? And about the difference between one being highly intuitive and the other being highly sensing , is it hard ?

[@jameswilkerson4412]

My brother-in-law is, I believe, and yeah

[@GermanTaffer]

You have 3 wishes for free..... ISTP Ok 3 steaks

[@vis1975]

Just this morning I was telling my infp friend how every enfj I've encountered in my life has been the most unpleasant company I've ever been with and now this comes out with that amazing finale I'll try and summarize my own personal experiences with the types: ENTJ: i study with an entj friend and we're basically unstoppable in effectiveness and efficiency. I also admire her leadership skills, although I sometimes think it becomes too much. ISTJ: I admire them a lot, we understand each other very well. I like the way they approach the topic when studying, because I'd never do that and I can learn from them. ESFJ: my mum is an esfj and we're basically as different as two people can be. But I try to understand her, and after asking for a while, she tries to understand me. She loves with all heart. INTP: my best friend since kindergarten basically. We're so similar. She's the only person I've ever met who understands my need for isolation sometimes, and I understand hers. She's able to tolerate stupidity around her, which I simply can't. ESTJ: not close with any estj in particular. I think they can be too much at times but I definitely admire their management of everything around them. INFJ: never been close with one. I think, in theory, it's the type I admire the most. ENFP: sometimes I wish I had the amount of connections they have just because they're useful. Pleasant to be with, they don't get my humour tho. INFP: their mind is so beautiful, but they don't make decision based on any logic, which is why we clash sometimes. ISTP: my dad. We have a similar humor, and we like to discuss topics together but he cannot look outside of his own worldview and that frustrates me. ENFJ: they seem to voluntarily forget that people have boundaries. ISFP: the one isfp I now is very chill. We don't have much in common. ENTP/ESFP/ESTP/ISFJ: I don't know anyone with these types so I can't give any actual judgement.

[@applepatronum4934]

Thanks for writing this out, very interesting!

[@mfernanda_trindade]

🤭💜 - Infj

[@01mmccombs]

As an INTJ, I am deeply offended…. Just kidding! Almost spot on! But I do kinda like the train wreck conversations of the ENFP’s. I enjoy dropping a topic just to see where their odd minds take it. I am oddly entertained by the ENFJ’s as well. I like to send my ENFJ daughter a dark KZbin video about the futility of human existence and see what she says.

[@whitneyd6827]

I'm an ENFJ and I'm scared. Will be back to confirm my fears. Edit: as I thought Btw to anyone not turning on UK captions for Kristin's videos, rewatch all of them

[@Mayakran]

Coming back to say that I recently visited my ENFJ aunt (mind you, we live on opposite sides of the country so I haven’t seen her in 15 years) and we stayed up to five in the morning sitting in the hot tub talking about life. I broke down sobbing, revealing more about myself in hours than I have in nine years of therapy. ENFJ’s are spooky.

[@johnknight9150]

Not bad, but you're forgetting our third slot Fi, which is far stronger than humans realise: we merely tolerate ISTJs, who are bureaucratic buffoons; fall head over heels for INFPs; and things get sparky with ENFPs, who are adorable with their colourful chaos. You're bang on with ISTPs though. Try as we might, they will always be the alpha in the room.

[@toastypuppy4042]

This is the best video that you’ve made in my opinion. It’s really funny. Keep it up! Also, I’d love to see an INTP one. -INTP

[@dearkristin]

Thank you! 😁

[@macaronmaker0720]

Please please please do an ISFJ version of this video, you do such a good job! God bless!

[@Eccles4]

I’ve always suspected I’m an intj. I recognized my perception of my husband (infj), sister (isfj), mom (esfp), and bro-in-law (entp). This was great! I really enjoy your videos.

[@Fernandanatac]

I absolutely LOVED this concept 🤣 Can’t wait to see the other types!

[@edwright4892]

So many laugh out loud moments! The ENTJ did more than intimidate me, I wanted to run and hide. 😂

[@edwright4892]

@@Solarqueenthesoverign How did you guess! 😅

[@edwright4892]

@@Solarqueenthesoverign Hahaha! 😆 You sound like a ninja type identifier, you would probably love being a dk patreon. On the monthly Live chats she collects answers to vague questions (e.g. What does "success" mean to us) from us and we guess the type by analysing the responses, it's great fun and very illuminating!

[@nivavirdia5388]

Exactly! My mom is an entj and i'm scared of her lol 🤣

[@ellier2018]

ENFP here! I love all the types they're so cool. (Probably Ne being able to find things I like about ANYONE). Here's what i love about the types: INTP: Your cool headed logic, wicked sense of humor and inventive mind is so cool. Deep down your research is fueled by an altruistic desire to better humanity even if it's not obvious. ENTP: you're cool because you question things and like to understand things from all angles. You are also hilarious and really empathetic despite how people make you out to be. INTJ: I don't really know you that well but your ability to think about complex systems so easily is intriguing. You make it look effortless. And I don't buy your irritated facade one bit. ENTJ: You're inspiring and visionary. Scary, yes, but with a purpose. You're never aimless and you use your gifts to make the world better. You're willing to do the hard work it takes to make change. INFP: Wonderfully empathetic and imaginative. You're genuine and you really do care. Underestimated a lot but strong and precious as a diamond. ENFP: You're a hot mess but you spice up the world for the better. If you would just develop Te and Si you would be an unstoppable power house. INFJ: Empathetic and caring, very creative, great understanding of people. People should stop using you as their free therapist and get their own. ENFJ: You want to see the world be a better place and you align your life with how you want the world to be: fair and just. You make great leaders. ISTP: You're cool as fuck. You're more than a handyman people call on to have you fix their shit, you're down to earth and practical in a creative way. Accurate as a sharpshooter. People need to realize that you do have emotions. ESTP: You live in the moment and react accordingly. I love watching you in football games, basketball games, and other sports. Dynamic and explosive. People might view you as a shallow bullhead but you're much smarter than people give you credit for. ISTJ: You're reliable and hardworking and you care for people in practical ways. You keep a well oiled machine running long after others decide they're too good for the maintenance "mundane" work. We might be opposites and might not have anything in common but I secretly respect you a lot. ESTJ: You're softies on the inside, you care about people a lot. You might be seen on the surface as pushy and close minded, but it all comes from your care for others. You cut through the bullshit. At times we can't waste our time on the fluff, we need people like you to cut through the bullshit. ISFP: Endlessly creative, you take the ugly things in the world and make something beautiful and unique out of all the shit. Authentic, you put up no fronts for anyone. ESFP: You are a ton of fun and probably do like to party but you will fight to the death for what's right. ISFJ: People need to stop taking you for granted, you're worth more than what you can do for people. Same for ESFJ. ESFJ: You make sure people are cared for and your creativity is often underestimated. You're more than what you can do for others.

[@indy_cwxyii5518]

thank youu

[@SophiaZhang-bb1jf]

As an INTJ dating and ESFP, I confirm the accuracy of the sketch.

[@olejimbob]

ENFJ here, one of my close friends is an INTJ and we get along really well. She expresses the "dark sarcam" side of me that I would never admit to anyone, lol. And I think she secretly likes me analysing her.

[@INTP564]

Ahh this is so brilliant can't wait to see the pov of other 16 personalities

[@ottersarah8812]

We need one through the ISTJ goggles. The literal, physical "oh no I am venturing outside, must protect myself from the humans" goggles.

[@talllighthouse]

I've been thinking about those goggles. Where did they go?

[@limaindiasiestaalpha]

As an ENTP, I am fairly sure this is why my INTJ brother gets so emotional (=angry) when he talks to me. Or because even if I don't really disagree, I do so to mix things up a little 😇👍🏻

[@aylis8076]

Don't. Do. That. pls my younger sister(ENTP) does the same thing that really is annoying she says I look funny when I'm angry and that's even worse but still, I love her the most

[@limaindiasiestaalpha]

@@aylis8076 I don't know her but I love her and I understand why she does that 😂✨

[@aylis8076]

@@limaindiasiestaalpha When I asked her for the reason she said she had nothing better to do 🤣

[@limaindiasiestaalpha]

@@aylis8076 we do it because it's enjoyable. And if you react so strongly, that makes it really adorable

[@44RisingSun44]

Man everyone seems to love ISTPs. Probably one of the most popular types.

[@kevrokka.d.9749]

Which is strange because we ourselves don't quite feel popular at all.

[@44RisingSun44]

@@kevrokka.d.9749 I think people tend to really admire you guys from a distance. They're probably too intimidated on encroaching on your alone time lol

[@kevrokka.d.9749]

@@44RisingSun44 What is there to admire tho? We see ourselves as being just like everyone else except cognitively. I don't get it. lol 😅

[@44RisingSun44]

This is a GENIUS idea for a video! Bravo Kristin! Hopefully we get an ENTP version of this, it will be ✨golden ✨

[@sleepingiantino]

Like it's crazy how Kirsten's body language changes along with her dialogues for each type!!!!!

[@syedashamsianazneen5032]

I like how she chose intj personality first for this series, people usually don't. Thanks kristin😊 Sorry if i sound narcassitic, but thats true😅

[@Catralasarguido]

There are MANY INTJs in MBTI communities, second would be INTP or INFPs I guess

[@thepickles8833]

Go down the comments and count how many people start they’re comment with “as an intj”... I swear, 80% of her audience is composed of us

[@jameswilkerson4412]

If you watch her non-joke interviews, she’s intrigued by them (us? I’m not certain of my type).

[@sarahcruz1796]

Another INTJ here…I was skeptical upon clicking on this video but you’ve blown me away once again. THE ACCURACY. THE UK SUBTITLES. Absolutely fantastic

[@QuotesArticles]

Ah I am getting good at finding the types! 😇 The ENFJ at the end - I find it sweet because I understand the intent but I realize the INTJ would really be annoyed!!! 😬

[@keana_a]

Brutally honest opinions, from an INTJ: INTJ - Obviously biased, but the way our brains work makes the most sense. Extremely cool exteriors, some of the most fiercely loving individuals once we vet you and determine you are one of "our" people. Perfectionism and desire to understand everything before I make a move is sometimes to my disadvantage, but when I do make a move it is highly effective. I love the sense of justice we all have, the principles we take the time to sort out and consequently adhere to no matter what, and how unconventional we are. I love how I think in systems, and how once I take enough time to understand a system I can ALWAYS make the system work to my advantage. Male INTJs irritate me, as they often lack a lot of the social skills female INTJs likely were forced to learn due to socialization. INFJ - I also have many close INFJ friends, and view them as intelligent and emotionally caring individuals. They make great conversation, and have a diverse set of interests, and are some of my favourite people. That being said, I think their propensity for being sensitive to others works to their disadvantage, as they are horrible with boundaries, and too willing to sacrifice themselves for some perceived notion of "group harmony." They lose who they are to other people too easily. INFP - Many close relationships are INFPs. They are soft, emotional, and lack the edge that I have, but the most ridiculously loyal, understanding, and warm companions you will ever make. They are invaluable, and they make me want to protect them like a puppy. Silence is comfortable, and most are appreciative of my schemes, structure, and direction. I come up with the plans, and they bring the snacks man the aux. They will always follow what they FEEL like and the lack of calculation drives me crazy sometimes, but this desire of theirs is so honest and unconventional that I feel secure being myself with them. My husband is an INFP and I don't hide anything about my personality from him. I think he enjoys my slightly diabolical moments. INTP - The INTPs I have met have been genius, but their intelligence is almost wasted on them because they don't know what to DO with it. There isn't a practical, focused output. I am endlessly curious about your minds, but it's hard to connect as we are both so introverted and mentally occupied. I don't enjoy the comparison between INTP and INTJ in terms of intelligence because INTP is often credited in being "more" intelligent, but what use is intelligence if it is not applied to anything? Beyond the insult of the insinuation and assumption that I cannot keep up, I firmly believe that measuring intelligence is not such a simple process. ENFP - Great at rallying people and seeing the strengths in everyone. Boundless energy of uncertain origin. Business savvy, independent, sensitive, creative, diverse. Some of my favourite people in the world. All the ingredients for success, but not enough structure to make everything they dream up work in the long-term. These are great "idea" people, and not managers or procedure / strategy people. ENTP - I have great chemistry with ENTPs, and appreciate their versatility and their minds. That being said, many don't take the time to slow down and properly appreciate / analyze things in the depth I think is warranted, writing things off as uninteresting and moving on too soon. Their "we'll figure it out along the way" attitude irritates and impresses me, because I wholeheartedly disagree in the approach but I do recognize it as an asset. ENFJ - I don't like them. Every ENFJ I have ever met was too emotional, suffocating, and self-righteous. They don't know how to mind their own business and when to give me space. I am convinced they have hero complexes and see themselves as better than everyone else. Not enough logic and inability to be objective. ENTJ - You guys think you are better than everyone and I am not here for it. While I appreciate the way your minds work and your fearlessness, I have noticed a lack of nuance, tack, and subtlety in all that you do. You are too loud, and too convinced that your way is the only way - and thus, utterly insensitive to the needs and wants of others. ESFJ - Respectfully, I would like to keep you on the other end of a 100 meter pole. Every ESFJ I have ever met has been a busybody, with too much mysterious energy and too much judgement. You have your lives together just enough that you feel comfortable judging everyone else for not living by your exact standards (being social, active, warm, motherly, etc.) and no ability for introspection and objectivity. ESFJs give me the ick. ESTP - I have not met a single one of you that I like. You guys give "No thoughts, head empty, let's go rave" energy and it is exhausting. ISTJ - I appreciate your propensity for logic, and that is it. ISTP, ISFP, ESFP, ISFJ, ESTJ - Statistically common personality types, but I have yet to meet any worthy of remembrance. Perhaps I will in the future. I think the problem is that there is very little to connect over as none of you are intuitive types. I find " S" types extremely dry, uncreative, and have trouble keeping a conversation going with them. I am sure there are incredible strengths and weaknesses to every type, so take this as a refection of my own preferences as an INTJ more than anything else.

[@XDivineExistenceX]

Omg i just realized that this „inner ESFP“ is a thing. Im working in a sterile laboratory and had to clean the floor. And i was catching myself dancing and singing „Simply the best!“ while using the mop as a mic. And then i realized…i do this kind of stuff quite often when im alone 😂 so i guess it‘s time to embrace the chaos

[@urmybiscuit]

I'm convinced all Intj's turn to Esfp's around their favorite people xD Around people idk I'm really reserved, when I'm with my favorite people tho I'm really open and just want to have fun. -an intj.

[@dracsharp]

ESFJ is straight out of Sims. My favorite part is when xNTJs complain to me that other xNTJs have a superiority complex, then tell me why they are better than them. I see INTJs like ship captians who never stop using their telescope. They see far and they see in detail, but they don't see much.

[@Civil206]

Thats genius, lool

[@megham11]

Wow, painfully accurate!

[@Ennpey]

As an ENFP who grew up with an INTJ brother. It all makes sense now.

[@CineMairon]

My cousins are exactly the same. I have witnessed this situation. XD

[@Moomoo54546]

My best friend is an INTJ and now I’m starting to realize she probably maybe 1000% zones out during all of my rants. 😂

[@EresirThe1st]

@@Moomoo54546 Zoning out during conversation is a serial problem for us lol. I even do it in job interviews.

[@Moomoo54546]

@@EresirThe1st Maybe you’re too busy in your mind planning…. dare I say…. world domination? 😏

[@EresirThe1st]

@@Moomoo54546 People joke about that lol but unironically yes I do plan it

[@nosemeocurreunnombredeusua2655]

When I saw the title I said "Wow she's so creative" outloud, really, what a cool and original idea. I wonder which type is next.

[@dearkristin]

Thank you!!

[@cass_sorrel]

As an INFJ, I have found it hard to have a lot of INTJ's let me in, so I actually found it intriguing that your take is that INTJ's see INFJ's as not letting them in. Maybe we both are just projecting that into each other in a self defeating way? Anyway, my bestie is an INTJ.

[@cass_sorrel]

Also, the ENFP one made me laugh so hard :D

[@YellaSpiceFamily]

Lol, extremely accurate. I've been married to an INTJ for nearly fifteen years: there are certain kinds of soul-diving gazes which come completely natural to me, and they still strike terror into his soul. 😂 - an ENFJ

[@hakuu4644]

girl you should totally do this for all types. it would be hella fun.

[@guilhermesimoes9630]

You are a genius Kristin , after a bad day , you can always make people laugh 😂 Continue with your amazing energy !! (That is needed in these hard times of war in Ukraine , and all the terrible news about it…)

[@dearkristin]

Thank you ❤️

[@Jll-fj3kc]

This is a BRILLIANT IDEA and the acting is GREAT !!!

[@AFLoneWolf]

Here's a hint from an ISTP for future editions like this: we think exactly what we say. Which, I realize, isn't much. For me at least, my mind is usually on the thing I'm going to do after the thing I'm going to do, not what I'm doing now. That leads me to sometimes miss what's right in front of my face. I always try to have at least five things on my to-do list. It keeps me busy and staves off boredom and burnout all while allowing me to bounce from one whimsical desire to the next more freely. Other people, and their thoughts feelings, and reactions, are almost never a factor. Unless I need them to do something. Then it becomes about how to get them to do it. If I ever do something that involves other people I try to have at least with three logical, goal-oriented reasons for what I'm doing, how, why, and the purpose of their involvement. And NONE of them are, "Because I feel like it" or "Because I said so." ESTPs get the rep as risk takers but that doesn't mean we don't. It's just a calculated risk. Factor in the possibility of something going wrong (yes/no) against the probability it happening (high/low), then determine the likely outcomes (good/bad) versus worst case scenarios (very bad). If it probably won't end in a call to emergency services, go for it. Also, if a rule doesn't make immediate sense and gets in the way, ignore it entirely. For example: if the light on the crosswalk says stop but there's no car coming, I'm going anyway. We don't have an obsession with efficiency, but there is a deep sense of satisfaction when things are. Although, sometimes, it's a great deal of fun smashing through an obstacle instead of finding a more subtle, elegant approach. I'm a HUGE fan of humor so dry and deadpan it takes a second to figure out if I'm even joking or not. And even then no one's 100% sure. Some common quotes: "Why not just ______?" "And? So what? "Oh well" **shrug** "Eh. Good enough." **internally** "Hmm... I wonder what would happen if I take that there and put it over here like this, and do this with it...." "WHY WON'T YOU #%&@ING WORK, YOU #%&@ING PIECE OF #%&@ING- oh there it is! Moving on." Hope this helps.

[@marinaabreu9323]

This is so relatable! And I hadn't pinpointed it ( the mind-on-next-steps thing) until I read this comment. It is annoying actually, as It means I am permanently distracted ㄱㄱ - Another ISTP

[@szabib8048]

I can attest to the "goal oriented interactions" with other people. If I want something done, I'm looking for the people I know might be "helpful", be it a quiet boardgame night, a sports event, or the discussion of fixing something broken. The more topic someone can "cover", probably the closer friend they are. I also say what I think, subterfuge and subtlety was never a strong suite. Growing up I learned that people don't like hearing what they are told (or should have been told), so eventually learned using other words. But for example if you hear me say "please leave the room" and somehow you get the strong feeling I told you "F*ck off, you annoy me", chances are I was thinking exactly that (and would have said so, but ... manners ...). Different to AFLoneWolf, my mind is generally exactly on what I am currently doing, maybe going onto further steps if it looks like it will require further steps. That being said, I can still miss things right in front of me if they are unrelated or require seeing them from a different point of view. Common quotes are on point, especially the swearing when something is not working when it SHOULD.

[@micahroberts8383]

Dang. Most of these are pretty accurate to how I see people in my life with these types (at least on a surface level) and I'm kinda grumpy about being called out like this while also impressed with how well you captured, at least my, INTJ perspective on other types.

[@MichaelGrundler]

It took me a moment to get the hang of it and shift into the mind of an INTJ but then this video was hilarious. 😂 And who knew INTJs had such an accurate view of us ISTPs. 😉 Now I'm curious about the other 15 versions of this video.

[@dearkristin]

You can expect that ISTP will be one of the last ones I do because I have no idea what's going on inside their head ever

[@MichaelGrundler]

@@dearkristin That's ok. It just keeps up the suspense for longer. 😊

[@frigginjerk]

@@dearkristin ISTPs are probably the most mysterious type to me, an INTJ. With most other types, I can recognize the broad archetypal motivations and behaviors (or if you prefer, "reduce them to cartoonish stereotypes"). Not so with ISTPs.

[@MichaelGrundler]

@@frigginjerk It shouldn’t be so difficult. Just take an INTP, an ESTP and maybe a bit of an INTJ and put them all together into a single body/mind. It wouldn’t be perfect but at least a good approximation. We think like an INTP, act like an ESTP (when we do act) and plan like an INTJ (when we do plan).

[@szabib8048]

@@dearkristin As an ISTP I don't think I really "care" about the nuances of personalities (thus I can't really identifiy them), so here are some situations that might cover a wide range of types. I prefer that the "noisy ones" leave me alone (except if I'm looking for social fun), and I can't really deal with overly emotional/sweet people. I talk and act if I want something done, but in larger social situations I prefer if there is someone else who does it (as long as they do it well or at least better than me). I enjoy talking about any topic that interests me or is relevant to the situation I am currently in. (e.g. talking about fashion in a clothing store is fine, but I could not care less about it during family dinner). I like when a conversation has a direction, point, or meaning to it, even if it is theoretical or philosophical, but meaningless circles around the same things with no solution are frustrating, similar to people who talk about everything and all the time without any apparent point they would want to get to. I hope this helps in your data gathering. p.s.: Yes, probably this will be the longest any of you see an ISTP talking/writing about something random on the internet. Unless, of course, you learn to make them talk, or they really want to add something. (Or you find their secret blog they keep for things they are interested in.)

[@ilhamemoon364]

my dad is intj and my mom is an ESFP and this is how he sees her most of the time 1:40 lol

[@heymoondogs]

Im an INTJ and my brothers an ESFP and this is basically how i see him

[@TEAMHYBRID007]

The shell shock ringing for the ENFP confused me. 😕 I thought the ENFP was the perfect 🥰 💞 match for us INTJ's. I need to see the ENFP's reaction to the INTJ now. Thank you for all the hard work 💜 you do making these videos.

[@RavenStrawman]

never ask ENFP about their input about themselves, you will get this kind of reaction (unless the ENFP realizes they are in dire need of some willing to listen to something that has been bottled up for too long) but ask us about our input on anything else and we will take you to depths noone else has ever dared to visit before 😊

[@Ngwaaaron]

INTJ description for INFP is exactly on point. Whatever INTJ says seems to be offensive for INFP.

[@justacarat2638]

This is SO interesting!! Please make a video like this but through the eyes of an INFP🤩 it's my own type but I am actually curious to see the same from ENTP and ENFJ point of view too🤔

[@speakersr-lyefaudio6830]

Now that it's come to pass, what are your opinions

[@Fenristhegreat]

This is excellent, I had to pause the video several times to laugh for an extended period of time.

[@PriHL]

The INFJ is so true and reflects my attitude. Minus the silly demeanour obvs. I'm not sure however what the last sentence is supposed to mean. Either way, no I'm not gonna let you in, deal with it! I know an INTP with such an attitude, she even said "the knowledge is in my head" - with no intention of sharing it - even though we were working together and it was for HER that I did the fucking marketing. My Fe can't handle this :) The pedantic and structured thinking is exactly what led to a razor sharp colour analysis which made the ISTJ choose such a great coloured top. "Blah blah blah, kerfuffle, kerfuffle" - the definition of an ESFJ. The "offended at everything, lashing out at you, not listening to your arguments" is exactly what makes me struggle with INFPs. I love seeing the ISFJs explode. They seem sweet even then :)

[@surajitkar741]

Dear Kristin: thank you to validating that I’m not the only insufferable prick out there. Gives me comfort that other INTJs share my disdain for all other personality types. Thank you 🙏

[@nataliyap.7341]

Haha. I enjoyed it so much! I couldn't stop laughing when INFJ showed up in the video. That was hilarious! INFJ in here. I can really see how we can be perceived this way. So i've been at this new job for a little over a month. There is this woman there who is pretty smart, opinionated, sharp-tongued and straight-forward. She seems to intimidate others easily because of her ability to mock at others, talk back and even be ruthless and tactless with her words at times. I think she might be an ENTP, - always talking, judging, voicing her strong opinions, making jokes, even when no one is listening. So there she was, staring at me a few days ago and actually saying that there was something about me that she couldn't quite put a finger on, something that made me so hard to figure out. And i was like, - Take your time, dear. You won't figure me out EVER anyways, as i am always different, always show what i want to show and put on different personas but never really showing anyone who i am at my core or my true thoughts. I've never said it out loud or she would have tried to take me apart, and, being an INFJ, i still care a lot about maintaining harmony and avoiding conflict if possible. Besides, she's 20 years older than me and been there for over 15 years. You are so creative, talented, artistic and gifted! Your gifts of perception never fail to amaze me.. Please never stop shining your light, inspiring and uplifting others... and just making us laugh!

[@Seca95]

Yup, counts even for minor infos. None of my coworkers knew I had a cat despite me having worked there for almost 4 years - and despite the fact that there had been convos about cats near me on several occasions. I’m not proud🙂

[@nataliyap.7341]

@@Seca95 I know exactly what you mean! Haha. My whole world just expanded and lots of things about others and particularly myself became so much clearer when learned about Meyers- Briggs personality types. Yes, we INFJs, can be pretty secretive and notoriously selective as to whom we allow to take a peek into our rich inner worlds, but at the same time we can be "ridiculously" open with a complete to us stranger, when we feel a special connection to them or when we have a feeling that we can be understood and related to. Isn't this what we ALL are doing here and in places like this? :) I used to hate so many parts of myself when i was younger and when i couldn't fit in, when i saw how others easily dismissed me or didn't seek or treasure my company. But things have changed so much with time. Now i am actually proud of being an INFJ and being so different from others. People actively seek my company now but i'm far from being willing to accept and welcome just anyone into my world. There are reasons of why INFJs are considered to be one of the few types who are capable of the biggest transformations, changes and growth and i am only happy and eternally grateful for this! I am actually grateful to have been born exactly as i am and i wouldn't want to change a thing about me at this point and time. I've never thought i could say, feel and genuinely think this way about myself but i do now. I think so many other INFJs can relate to this. Probably you as well 😉

[@haeyba]

@@nataliyap.7341 i really love how you tell us your experience embracing your inner INFJ-ness! Your words make me have hope on myself as an always misfit INFJ (: I am an INFJ but I have weak control on my cognitive functions, most of the time i use my Ni too strongly and feel into the Ni-Ti loop countless time. Still trying to figure that out. I would say being an INFJ is a bless and a curse. But i can't deny how lucky I am to be an INFJ at times, especially when I get to see the things that other people can't see, to just ruminate in my mind and things about how wonderful life and people are. I am trying my best to understand my cognitive functions and develop it better, so I can be a healthy INFJ and not becoming a pushover and getting overwhelmes with all people and problems (it is always hard for me to make decision and deal with something if it involve people, and i tend to make a problem a huge thing and stressed about it a lot!) Maybe do you have any advice on how can I handle my INFJ-ness better xD Would totally appreciate it!!

[@nataliyap.7341]

@@haeyba Hello there. Thank you for the kind words. You sound like a quite self-aware person yourself, who is also committed to their personal growth and betterment. As such, i am sure, you must have accumulated a great deal of knowledge and insights by this point yourself already and you also must know your way around internet, where you can get the needed answers to basically any question you may have or will ever have. So i don't really think i am in any position of giving you any really valuable advice and tell you something that you can't find on the internet. There are countless of people who know and understand so much more about our personality type than me and their advice and "teaching" are free. I would suggest for you to get acquainted with and perhaps maybe even subscribing to Wenzes - INFJ LIFE COACH on you Tube. I am her subscriber for quite few years and was able to gain many priceless insights thanks to her incredible intelligence, knowledge base and perceptive nature. She is truly amazing and very gifted. Please check her out. I am confident you will love her and her channel. She frequently posts those short videos that last no more than 10-15 min and every single one of them is very informative and packed with practical tools and priceless insights. When you find yourself in our "notoriously-famous" Ni-Ti loop, the first and the quickest ways to get yourself out of them are redirecting your attention and whole-heartedly and intentionally focusing either emotionally or intellectually on somebody (something) else. Just like you and all other INFJs, i tend to slip into these loops every then and now. Lots has been happening in my life in the last several years. I wouldn't be able to recall all the times i would ask the Creator to take a pity on me and take me out of this world where is so much cruelty, evil, egoism, shallowness, indecency and witnessing self-seeking ways of humans left and right. Being totally on my own in this world doesn't make things easier for me. Spirituality, certain psychic gifts i possess which enabled me to strengthen my faith in the Higher Powers, as well as gained knowledge about being an INFJ have helped me survive, when not having a single person in the physical world, who would really understand me, to whom i could talk about all these things, who could be there for me emotionally. I don't know about your spiritual / religious background. But no matter what it might be, i would suggest for you those very things that have been helping me all along. Try to develop strong connection with God (Universe, Spirit, Life, etc), - whatever it is that you resonate yourself with and start doing so when things are "good and easy". When you develop string relationship with the Divine and ease yourself into your faith, it will carry on and bleed into all areas of your life, giving you strength and resilience to carry on and remain loving, forgiving and compassionate towards yourself and even those who don't appreciate you, take you for granted or even hurt you. It's a slow, gradual and sometimes such a frustrating process, but at the same time is very rewarding at the end. Try to learn as much as you can about our personality type. I gave you one suggestion about an INFJ coach. I do believe you will enjoy her channel but if not, then keep seeking others, who might be more helpful to you. Always try to be vigilant and aware of not only your thoughts but your emotions as well at any given moment, which are a direct indication and reflection of what is going on in your subconscious mind at the moment. Whenever you start feeling restless, uncomfortable or at ill ease, become extra aware of your thought process, detach yourself from it, create some loving, non-judgmental and curious space between your thoughts and your self at that moment (that's how you detect when you find yourself in a Ni-Ti loop) and simply become observant of what might be coming to your mind at that moment. That's how we learn what we need to heal, what needs to be transmuted.. Never rush yourself with this process but don't stay in there for too long either. Give yourself needed time to detect and observe what (which beliefs) are causing you pain, sit with those discomfortable emotions fully, without any resistance and watch what will be happening next. When you do so and manage to keeping shining your light of awareness into the darkness, pain and misery, you will shortly notice that all that heaviness, confusion and pain start to dissipate. Then, when you get bored with the whole process, simply throw yourself into helping someone emotionally, without any reservations or wanting to get something back from it, or give your mind some task to chew on. Both of these tools tend to quickly get us out of our Ni-Ti loops. But again, you will find far better qualified people to help you with this process. Take care there! First of all, always be kind, patient, gentle with yourself, as well as fully and unapologetically committed to your happiness and growth.. It all starts with our own selves.

[@lukestrong244]

Okay I really love this idea of a video for how each type sees the others, and I’m glad you thought of it. Amazing video❤️❤️❤️

[@Jack_L]

Oh god. As an INTJ who has had a VERY complicated relationship with an INFJ friend for like half my life, your INFJ in this video was both hilarious and hurt me to my core.

[@grazynawolska8160]

Ugh, same. They reveal almost nothing but you give so much because that Ni-Ni connection is deep. After a few years they one day pour everything out and then nothing for a few years. I decided to still love them, but prioritize friends who share their feelings and emotions. I've seen an aging INFJ recently who is bitter old and alone due to this "don't share my life with anyone" policy. Only hurt themselves...Surprisingly isfp is a good match. -intj

[@Chillipep]

@@grazynawolska8160 Goodness, how many outpourings do you need? There are some things people don't wish to share.

[@coultersheppard2052]

I'm chuckling from behind the screen. I'm an INTJ, and you instantly captured every INFP friendship I've ever had. The warmest moments are when they're talking, and I'm silent. Every misconceived word spawns another in my mouth, restrained by magnetic iron lips. It's painful, and would almost be comedic, if I could assume an objective point of view.

[@defmaybe-s2u]

Gosh darn, now I know what an absolute fool I must look like, with a bio "I just want someone who understands" on dating apps 😪- INFJ

[@ottersarah8812]

Also this was HILARIOUS. Subtitles get better and better. Thanks as always!

[@alainad6364]

My Mom is an INTJ... you got the dynamics between her and the ISTP (my dad) and the ISFJ (my grandma) PERFECTLY. I also realized I view my ENTP self through the lens of an INTJ XD

[@grazynawolska8160]

Your mom loves you a lot. -intj

[@davedtcr7495]

As an intj it´s scary how I really feld discomfort with the enfj and calm with the isfp

[@SimoneEppler]

After 16 years, my INTJ partner is still trying to figure me out. And I think he likes it. 😇

[@glueball214]

I see 👀, excellent 💙

[@SimoneEppler]

@@glueball214 glad you appreciate it! 😬💚

[@dearkristin]

My next insta poll should be "who here has figured out INFJs?"

[@SimoneEppler]

@@dearkristin how can they be sure, though? 🤡

[@dearkristin]

@@SimoneEppler much truth.

[@julietteferrars3097]

As an INFJ this was hilarious! But yes, I likely don’t know where I stand with you either. 🥲

[@albertojosesayago8421]

I need more of this! C'mon this is great!

[@philomath6458]

I absolutely loved the enfj one. I just knew it was going to be something like that. 😂😂😂 I noticed today how I always clicked on like on your videos before watching it. They are always worth watching. 💙

[@dearkristin]

Naw, thank you!

[@BonitoJoe111]

ENTJ's and ISTP's are probably the only types that can make even the most stoic of INTJ's feel insecure. That being said, it would be VERY foolish for any INTJ to view them as "better at everything" than themselves. After all, where an ISTP or ENTJ sucks, an INTJ can excel in. Also I found that if an ISTP refuses to heed your advice, just let them be wrong so they can figure it out for themselves the hard way. Then you can hit em with the ol' "I told you so" later.😂

[@grazynawolska8160]

Hehe I do this to ISTP: "I care for you a lot as a friend (preamble that this will hurt but I mean well) but the group's perspective is this......" yep, as a double decider I can see what the group wants while they can't. Sometimes their struggle is with never making the group happy or be satisfactory to them... because they can't read them so I try to tell them honestly what is going on in the group (as a double decider Te/Fi) -intj

[@malakashraf2801]

Sometimes it hurts our ego to not try and figure it out ourselves, it's not arrogance , it's not not trusting or appreciating you , if we face that problem again later and didn't know what to do fast as we didn't use the trial the last time we will feel so stupid , we just don't want to be a brainless creature that does everything their told without checking it themselves , we have to know we can go on our way alone on our own , and yeah , maybe some stubbornness and arrogance when we are young and immature.

[@kimberlypalmera3558]

I'm an INFP and my mom is an INTJ, we had a lot of troubles when I was growing up and misunderstandings, I realised that is actually quite hard for my mom to find a common emotional ground with me, due to some circumstances I became emotionally open and intelligent, which she realised and now she's kind of accepting that I grew up and she has to let me go, that was the first time she broke down into tears and I felt quite guilty but it was necessary, we get along quite well and now she appreciates our time together more than ever before, we still have some misunderstandings and the same as in the video "just nod and pretend to agree with me to avoid an argument or me feeling offended or overthinking" so yeah... INFP and INTJ get along quite well but there must be communication in between, else I really sense misunderstandings in the way the both work 👍🏻