#1THING

[@ozemsadventureofrandomstuf252]

I love the content. Sometimes I feel like you our remote 👩‍⚕️. I know everything I’ve learnt on this channel has worked🙆🏾‍♂️🤭🏅👌

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Awesome! Thanks for letting me know. xo

[@nebaharris4162]

@@ApolloniaPonti Yeah! It has worked for me too.

[@wasifsheikh5403]

@@ApolloniaPonti how she will come to know that i am changed? If she isnt reaching me , if we both don't have any contact she blocked me from Social media and even i don't have habit to show myself on social media i am not that type of person. Please help me out

[@beleanlabels7434]

@@ApolloniaPonti please I need help too, my mental is very poor.

[@robert4you]

@@wasifsheikh5403 Stop focus on ONE woman. Change and develop who you are - listen to Apollonia - then women will begin to recognize it, see it and start to gravitate towards you. You will have and live a life of abundance (it's a mentality and doesn't mean you have to be a millionaire or billionaire).

[@PURGE-3000]

Men. Just value yourself and be you. Don’t care what others think About you. Don’t ever apologize if your not in the wrong. Eat healthy. Go to the gym or workout at home. Dress nice and make your home look awesome.

[@HeadlineHuntr]

You are god damn right

[@carlospineda648]

This is exactly what I'm gonna do thank you

[@peterchou5161]

I used chase and was needy. She kept up w her mind games and relish me chasing her. So one day I said to myself fuck this shit. I went into "IDGAF" mode. I did and still doing what you said. I ignored her. Now she couldn't stop paying attention to me.

[@IIIIlII1IIIIIII]

💯

[@tellaskennerson4233]

Yes indeed

[@samueloladelelayiwola2370]

“If someone is stupid enough to walk away from you, be smart enough to let them go.”💯🤗

[@stanmoney8470]

Especially when they don't respect you! When you do everything to get respected and she still don't respect you 👉🏿to hell with her even though it hurts. I'm not chasing behind my ex, even though I still have feelings for her!

[@samueloladelelayiwola2370]

@@stanmoney8470 Some time we need to be hurt in order to grow. We must lose in order to gain. Sometime some lessons are learned best through pain.

[@samueloladelelayiwola2370]

@@stanmoney8470 God removes people from your life for a reason...yes it may hurt but it can be for a better.

[@samueloladelelayiwola2370]

@@stanmoney8470 God says, ‘You weren’t rejected, I hid your worth and value from them because they were not assigned to your destiny.

[@samueloladelelayiwola2370]

@@stanmoney8470 “Losing someone who doesn’t respect you or appreciate you is actually gain, not a loss.”

[@chrisvill54]

I don't know if she will ever regret losing me but I feel bad for her because she will never know what she missed out on.

[@SnowBlackheart]

That’s…. what regret ….means

[@mtbridingog9083]

If u were good to her and she fucked everything up .. walk away and build yourself up to another level in every area of your life .. she will c this n regret it .. especially since they always think the next person is always better for stupid reasons .. could be looks , if they do drugs , there job , there car , etc I make 90k yearly.. drive a special edition Alfa Romeo stelvio 1 of 1 .. met this girl who I brought into my life when my mom was alive .. 5 months into it my mom passed .. she promised she will always be here for me .. she graduated from high school and started going to college a month after she graduated before she left to college everything was fine .. after a week she started pulling back and acting suspicious.. I told her str8 up in person when she came to visit me that I noticed it and she said she didn’t feel like she was doing anything wrong at all …. So a few more days pass and we link up again . We went out to the beach had a little bit of wine and enjoyed the day .. on the way back to her campus I tried to get some action .. 1 minute into it she stopped me and said I can’t do this I’m sorry . I was like wtf are u talking about we are already here wym ? So I got angry and I was like tell me rn wats going on because u have been acting weird asf lately .. She ended up getting out and not saying nun .. the follow day I texted I had a good time .. she replied and said “ me to I’m sorry “ .. I told her not to speak on it better days ahead .. then she texted me about 30 minutes after saying “ I’m sorry I cheated on you “ So I told her I would call her at night … I called her when I was free and had a conversation I won’t ever forget .. I told her that she lost all my respect and that for her to even get a piece of it back is gonna be hard asf .. she said ok I’ll try but I’m not gonna force anything at all that’s when I knew it was over for sure .. u should never deal with people who don’t see your value I brought someone into my life who I thought was loyal and had integrity for them to shoot me in my back and step on my face when I needed them the most .. she betrayed me instead of just telling me before she was going to college hey I like u blah blah blah but i don’t think this is gonna work for me anymore .. I would have been angry because of the time wasted but I would have been ok with it and moved on in time .. but the situation is way different I lost my mom and she cheated almost 2 weeks after I buried my mom smh

[@salmansheikh9917]

@@mtbridingog9083sad but dont get butt hurt buddy i have been through this stay strong never show women you are weak and emotionally weak just walk away ..

[@sbfabtfc1]

​@@mtbridingog9083First, she cheated, and then couldn't tell you to your face and instead told you in a text. She's a child, and didn't deserve any interaction after that text. And perhaps the bigger question is this: If you're already a working adult with financial stability, why are you dating college girls who live on campus?

[@mooshong]

I'm done dating. Best decision I've ever made. Now I'm using that energy towards practicing gratitude for all the gifts and experiences I've been given.

[@georgeemesif2374]

Spot on bro!!!! 🙏😊👍🏾👍🏾

[@MH-cv5ye]

Right on, fella. I've got my eye one woman though, she's far better than the majority, but overall, you're totally right. This is the last one I'll give energy to.

[@M2K2MMKK]

😂😂 You are a mature person now...! Cheers..!

[@300TerriblePing]

👍🏾

[@Rowsic]

I love that

[@steverumovicz4702]

Alot of people don't realize that not all ladies are meant to be in our lifes. We as men should always have self love for our selfs. Yes it hurts being rejected but maybe it was a sign

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Steve! I love this comment. This is so true. :-)

[@MuhammadAliGOAT]

you forgot to mention, not all females are ladies

[@jamesmorrison5632]

Ditto

[@chiefskingdom4151]

Some people leave your life to be replaced by someone better

[@SteveCDive]

Very true. Learn whatever lessons you can from an experience and move on.

[@at_once]

My wife left me. I accept that I lost my self worth and valued her more than myself not an equal. She became my focus and then when she began to reject me. It crushed my world and I began to guilt her and shame her for not wanting me. I became overweight, uninspired, and tried to be something I wasn't just to please her overly critical family. She def has some issues but I can only fix me. Never lose yourself in a relationship, nor find yourself in relationship. Relationships are about relations which are able to occur based on a unified purpose that begins with individuality. We may be able to work it out, BUT for now we need each other from a distance... I have begun to lose weight, eat better, back in gym and recommit to my relationship to Jesus!! Amen

[@carlmarch9591]

Same hear mate I’m now the good looking in shape divorced dad of 48 it can make you stronger keep pushing my friend all the best from the uk 🇬🇧

[@dovasquad5228]

1 Corinthians 15:1-4

[@robert91rs]

How you holding up 7 months later? In a pretty similar situation myself. Let anxiety and alcohol breed depression and self hate and lost myself and her. Grateful she woke me up, but still trying to pick up the pieces.

[@tyetr9853]

Update us bro

[@SauceGodBandjos]

This woman is an example to all women. She’s helping build men from KZbin when woman in relationships can’t dedicate 5mins to the men that has been there for them

[@_.aviralsingh._]

:(

[@Oneofthechose]

Truth

[@mrquick6775]

Most women are by default selfish!

[@shawnkee8689]

Dang, well said!

[@redline350zHR]

Facts bro

[@tinman8972]

Never look to "win a woman back" who's already thrown you away.

[@Thefishingcaddy]

While she’s throwing you away there are other women who want to go ALL IN

[@MCC96]

@@Thefishingcaddy Patience is key, whats yours wont miss you

[@JTDyer21]

Getting dumped and forced to live alone is one of the most difficult situations a man can ever face. No doubt about it.

[@1FAT120y]

Look at it the other way. Freedom, additional opportunities to self improve, become independant and strong my man.....

[@mahamadoutraore1077]

Forced to live alone? Sounds very sad 😔 It is very far from being the most difficult situation I can face( I am a man). It is a blessing for me. Every woman who suggested to me that it is time to split up, I just replied with Ok without asking why! Some of them were even shocked by my response! Asking:” Why is it so easy for you to say OK” 😮 once they came up with the suggestion that means they are thinking about it. So don’t waste each other’s time

[@mistertiggy]

Living alone is the greatest feeling! I love my peace!

[@alanpayne7656]

@@mistertiggyme too

[@WilliamCallandrillo]

Just happened to me today 9.11.24

[@rfernandez1648]

I’m done with relationships, I don’t want anyone to regret or even remember me, just want them to leave me TF alone. A dog is all I need.

[@yihuda7459]

Currently I’m feeling this too …

[@boxerwayne6660]

Just take it easy on the dog :-)

[@topopura]

@@boxerwayne6660 lol 🤣

[@dnegel9546]

Pretty sure thats illegal..

[@1978mackdaddy]

I feel ya bro

[@Chrisinpa]

The best revenge.....live well. I did that and my ex hated it. She is so jealous and I could care less. Glad she's gone! LOL

[@Sundays321]

“You have to create a life that is so great that anyone would be a fool to leave you”

[@socom2173]

It's a very immature attitude. Anytime a relationship doesn't work out, learn and let it go. Be glad that you didn't waste more years of your life on it. Time is something you never get back.

[@Centennialantennavision]

it doesnt have to be like that

[@norcal-ce7yk]

What defines "doesn't work out?" Imo too many ppl give up too soon, casting blame towards their partner, rather than honestly self reflecting and admitting one's own wrong doing in a situation. Walking away / giving up sometimes results in a bigger waste of time, than staying and fixing things, most of the time what needs to be fixed is actually yourself. "No matter where you go, there you are."

[@cl8wnm5n]

Depends on the approach. Moving on and living a better life will do the trick.

[@houstonbigfooter]

Yep wasted 16yrs on two women.that time aspect has hit hard on me.

[@RR-et6zp]

read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

[@mypov4343]

Absolutely true. The only person you can change is you. And when you do, you will attract better into your life...including better people who are more aligned with who you really are. However it does take courage to step out of your comfort zone but when you do and keep working at it...you will be a happier person. You've always had what you need to make it happen. Take your power and make it so! I am and you can too. Be prepared for the woman you loved wanting to come back to you. You may no longer want that option. Remember, you can love a person but also know they are not right for you.

[@ClockwizeFilmzEnt]

This was well said I felt this ... 💪🏿💯

[@hassanmaalim5238]

Right

[@eddiebenavides4955]

They always come back when you don't give them any choice. That's just facts I've seen it. Like they first aren't interested but then you focus more on you and you give them no option most of the time they will try to make a move . But just move on. If you want to give her a second chance make her earn it. Stop being so available for her. Make her earn it and if she doesn't just keep her at bay she will always try reaching out. But you know what you want.

[@caseycook6558]

Hello MyPOV. Thank you for writing this piece. I literally just broke up with my girlfriend day before Thanksgiving Day. We had some good times and memories but not long-term material. I am breaking the cycle of women I should stay away from them for good. I look forward to my future. Cheers 🍻

[@Robin-is3ke]

Strong message! Thanks

[@Jonathan-wy1bt]

My ex of 10 years left me for someone else a year ago. I worked on myself during that time and everything about my life has improved since. I quit smoking, I joined a gym and got a better job. However, the damage after the break up was so great that a huge part of me died. I am still trying to figure out how to be myself again. She did try to get back together with me recently but I have a difficult time trusting people now. I did forgive her though. We are only human after all. I wish her the best.

[@RickyTPB4L]

Leave her in the past and get a younger chick

[@mrquick6775]

Yep, let her go move on. She could give a fyck minus three cents how she hurt you. Women are pretty much self centered in relationships and full blown sociopaths after it’s over! I block numbers and NEVER EVER speak to them again after it’s over!

[@cruzerzeitgeist9137]

Don’t punish other women for that one 304. It’s kinda like you’re restricting yourself bc your ex became a 304. Oh well, that’s on her. You move on, and leave her in the past. Do what Ricky suggested

[@crunkwizard]

I was in a similar scenario. Now I look back and I'm grateful she left me cause I love my life now and even I can't believe what I've been able to build and all the relationships I've made. Yes, beautiful women inside and out too 🔥

[@tyetr9853]

How long after she left did she reach out

[@victorkolo5142]

Being real will never ruin a real connection, being fake will..

[@sketch7024]

True.

[@benhartart9487]

men are the Prize so she will always regret losing you, especially when you become HIGH Value

[@clefawntravels]

Amen!

[@TomFox1]

AMS

[@MikeKillian]

You’re obviously not from Earth bcuz no, women aren’t like this lol

[@rickyward6675]

You told me, that yes, it will hurt for awhile. It did. But then you said that after a couple of weeks I would get so much stronger. I did. You also said that if I give her space she would come back. She did. But no, I didn't take her back. I put her in the "ok. I know what to do with you now," zone.

[@johncoe6304]

Nice Ricky!

[@raulcastillo9600]

proud of you king

[@attihsoul]

A TRUE KING!!!💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@markwalch6065]

Brutal. Yet necessary and effective.

[@blessdarah1256]

As simple as that.

[@tonykemp4645]

My relationship is a marriage made in heaven, rock solid 25 years no fights or arguments we love each other

[@j.a.5711]

Thats solid bro

[@michaelkariuki5350]

Wow 10/10..Any advice?

[@titi8137]

@@michaelkariuki5350 he doesn’t have advice cause he got lucky finding a good woman. Which is very rare these days.

[@tonykemp4645]

Yes we love each other dearly , we like doing things together we give each other space , we are both come from the same back ground , country people the same birthdays on the same day

[@nathanheath3756]

This is how my wife and I are now that we've made God the center of our relationship.

[@al333]

Everything falls into place when you get your purpose right and level up from the inside out.

[@RR-et6zp]

read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

[@daddy2100]

yeah except HOW do you get your purpose and lvl up from inside?

[@samiamten2352]

Hell of a comment! 🙌

[@CSG0103]

Since my ex and I broke up, I've completely leveled up. Focused on my career, doing meditative and introspective work, and I'm back to power lifting and strength training. First time I've seen my abs in a decade. Let go and let life bring you the person of your dreams.

[@RR-et6zp]

read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

[@MoonbeamDreams7]

That moment when you start watching videos to get her back and stop beeing needy but then you end up feeling great about yourself and just don't care anymore about her :)

[@Rezzhuanne]

We must improve the areas of life that we lacked before... "You have to create a life that is so great that anybody would be a fool to leave you." "And not only a life, but a person that is so great that they would be a fool to leave you"

[@MrSimpoge]

There are a lot of fools out there

[@2nd2nobody]

@@MrSimpoge you are right but they will know it.

[@Bean__10]

This hits me! That makes sense.

[@sportmen812]

Brothers stay on your purpose and chase your dreams..

[@jonathangriffin8060]

I found that being successful usually gets the girl to come back to the men they have broken up with. Men taking care of themselves and being successful in their lives usually brings them back. I am one of these men. I haven't taken any of the women back, though and I am really doing well in my life.

[@CiluhStyle1]

Thanks...that dont always work though

[@CiluhStyle1]

But I will keep this in mind

[@christophervanzetta]

@@CiluhStyle1 move on… No woman is worth taking back, NONE

[@geneski695]

I’ve always heard that once a woman forms an opinion of you that it can’t be changed. I don’t know how true that is but it’s always nice to believe that you can redeem yourself from past weak behavior.

[@mrolowu1]

Their opinion about you can be changed, especially because anyone who forms a permanent opinion about you is ignorant, because you can change and they would see it if they can. But you don't have to mind them nor do it because of them, for it to work. They can only be right or wrong about you as long as you refuse to change.

[@treybie1]

Just move on, man. It ain't gonna happen. Find a new one, it'll be easier and faster and is actually possible. She left you once already and will leave you again more quickly cause you've already fallen short before. Just let her go, man. It's over.

[@michaelsimmons1877]

Get better by looks job style body spirit

[@musicalgapattack3583]

This is one hundred percent the truth. Even when that opinion is beyond truth. They're going to believe what they want but in the end, it's their loss and someone else's gain. Plenty of fish in the sea, take your L (lesson not loss) and apply it to the next and most importantly, work on loving yourself.

[@kimosabehmar1671]

@@treybie1 doesn't hurt to dream a little bit man We are already hurt anyway so why not? And you will eventually move on it happens to everyone

[@Nathan-sq9xv]

The relationship would’ve been toxic I’m glad she left. She used me for money and validation and she would always make me look bad when I wasn’t perfect. She’ll regret it

[@pezzysquad]

Keep on the purpose

[@jamesmorrison5632]

I bought myself a new Mercedes Benz, it made me feel good considering how hard i had to work in order to get it ...

[@cincinnatifunk]

@@fawazmhmmalhazim9729 amen brother

[@gavingray9039]

I think you missed the point but I did buy a harley so Amen bro

[@marcsee4072]

Nice, i got my self new car too, and new mountain bike for me and kids and lots of gifts for kiddies too. Its hard to date and it hurts to be rejected after weeks of good dating and then needing space. We all need space but in our 40s and w kids I thought it will be less of a game

[@JohnBoulding]

I think even better is to move beyond the EGO aspect of needing to have your ex regret losing you. You should learn from the experience and use it for personal growth and not partake of that negative energy. Even if they deeply regret losing you, what does it actually do for your life? It does nothing but feed your ego. Let go of that kind of emotion and be happy

[@standground7956]

Why do care about what an ex thinks? I dated a girl 3 years, loved and cared for her deeply. She asked for a break, I move one city over, ignored her calls and deleted her text with out reading them. Not to be mean, but to honor her no contact rule that she provided no timeline for. I didn’t seek any relationships and didn’t even make any friends to remain single (on my lone wolf plan). After about 10months, I came back into town for a company meeting and bumped into her at the mall. That was strange encounter.

[@Wes0602]

@@standground7956 welp, you stuck to ur gun so respect I guess lmao.

[@avonhwxxc]

🙏🏿 amen

[@doncody8465]

100% agree

[@andrewwolf8652]

That was a strong message; “standard, integrity and selfworth for myself” This is what every person needs to do after they level up and say to an ex who comes crying back. The grass is rarely Ever greener on the other side unless there were physical/verbal abuse and emotional neglect involved in a previous relationship… A new relationship comes with new set of problems after the honeymoon or puppy phase ends and Taking advantage of a person or for granted is the number one killer to end a long term relationship really fast

[@arsalenshamil4117]

Feeling this

[@agood7158]

Why would you want someone back that leaves at the first sense of insecurity or problems ? … we’re all human , all experience emotions , if you can’t be yourself with someone and still have them love you … then you don’t want them back , move on

[@4H54N]

What if she's insecure about insecure guys bc of her past relationships. Godda be strong for that reason

[@williamdew6018]

Amen

[@abra.hui.]

If you listen until the end... To avoid being left by a woman or even friends,you need to work on your social value that they can afford to lose you... or if they lose you, they will somehow regret that they lose you, or if they are dummy and don't care at all then you give yourself a favor on upgrading yourself and stacking up your own value and once you have the brst version of yourself, we knows everyone want to flock to be friend with you as a friend or potential partner because you will radiate an energy that attracts them without giving an effort because you already have it naturally... think in a positive eay mate, and don't stick in a negative "cues"

[@antonionavarrojr2848]

I've learned to protect my heart. Just because a woman is cool or attractive, doesn't mean I have to try to conquer her. You don't even know if that woman has a vision, has spiritual or intellectual virtues. Just focus on your mission gentlemen, and when you least expect it, a woman on her own mission will cross your path. No games no bullshit. Just love, collective healing and growth.

[@michaelbateson8636]

I just joined a gym. And I've never liked being in a gym. But im doing this for me. Doing the work. Trying to be the best version of myself that I can be. It's so hard sometimes, my ex and mother to our two children I loved so so much. I tried to give her everything. She still has this hold on me. But im trying to give myself the love, and not wasting it on her.

[@gordon12121212]

You have to make your own happiness, no one else can give it to you

[@Jarr25395]

Im not trying to make an ex regret, Im here to learn❤

[@sanduelN1]

This is so true! Since my EX GF broke up with me 3 months ago i've been puting the focus on me! Working hard on the gym, reading different books about relationships, attachment styles, 5 languages of love, etc... i even bought a bracelet to remind me to keep focus and being postive (it works for me ). The funny thing is that i started to attract other woman and even my EX started to talk to me more often she ven invited me to her birthday party at her place and we had a great time!

[@georgepipito2802]

Could you drop so book recommendations please. I’ve only read 3% man

[@WalkrFilms]

@@georgepipito2802 read “no more mr. Nice guy” “the power of now”

[@standground7956]

Why do we care about what an ex thinks? I dated a girl 3 years, loved and cared for her deeply. She asked for a break, I move one city over, ignored her calls and deleted her text with out reading them. Not to be mean, but to honor her no contact rule that she provided no timeline for. I didn’t seek any relationships and didn’t even make any friends to remain single (on my lone wolf plan). After about 10months, I came back into town for a company meeting and bumped into her at the mall. That was strange encounter.

[@dnegel9546]

Your ex left you and you went to her birthday? 😑

[@mrquick6775]

@@dnegel9546 Right that was a stone cold simp move. Once I’m done for whatever reason she’s toast! She probably lost even more respect for him after he done that. When they leave I block number’s and normally change phone numbers. And in every case they tried to come back, because and here’s the hard part to accept. When a woman leaves a man it’s almost always to be with another man! Pretty much no exceptions like 99% of them. A lot of women are just good at hiding and they try to coke back because they start to build respect for you and start to doubt themselves AND because the guy she left you for dumped her. I don’t play that shyt, a couple of them called and stalked me so much after THEY LEFT that I had to threaten to call the police. I mastered this part, I never take them back and I saw one from ten years ago, she came to my uncle funeral back in January of this year, I walked right past her like she was ghost she looked shocked, but I tell them when they leave you’ll regret it. You just have to move on no matter how bad it hurts you!

[@zionshalif5329]

I asked the lord to lead me to any video on you tube that would encourage me, but as I scrolled i landed on this video. Upon listening I have Recieved inner strength to think about my self and pain within me lost its grip on me. When understands what self integrity and improvement mean, our perception of the ones we love becomes different. Am absolutely edified by the comments too

[@johanvanderlinden4331]

The person I was born to love is me. I don't mean that in a narcissistic, self absorbed way. What I mean is that if I am out there looking for that person who is going to fulfill me, love me, make me feel secure, I am always going to fail unless I first have fulfillment, love, and security in me. Love your videos, love your content. You are 100% spot on.

[@getrektnoobgg5043]

Be you, be true, and never looked back on the negative things.

[@johncoe6304]

Oh wait. She just went deep. Beyond these talking heads , so called life or relationship coaches. Girl, thank you. That was nice.

[@DG38594]

I've never regretted losing any woman in my life. Been a great relief

[@sahiljoye8743]

Treat 'em like Celebrity, In turn they 'll treat you like fans

[@shashankmalviya5864]

When I got cheated on, Apollonia Ponti helped me a lot like hell a lot!! Thank you for your help throughout. Her videos used to be on my KZbin list all the way from top to bottom! She also indicated in one of her videos that it's not because we are lacking in something but the infidel person is incomplete. After some time, I am with the same person now and one of her videos forced me to think about every aspect and decided to give her another chance now everything is going flawless so far. Let's hope for a better future as well! Now I focus on myself more than anything since we cannot control anything but our mindset. We must put our entire energy into honing our skills, and knowledge and start practicing gratitude and altruism. Our life can become way better. :)

[@alshaifhir]

Cheaters don't change. Respect yourself, then walk when other people don't respect you.

[@christophervanzetta]

Beta male status 😂

[@ankittiwari2246]

If you have feelings for anyone then say yes or no rather to ignore someone who has/have genuine feelings for you. It's not right thing to ignore and again come back. We all have emotions girls play easily with our emotions. Do not play with feelings may be you will win the game but you will definitely loose the person with whom you play.

[@musicalgapattack3583]

By far one of the best, most mature, professional videos and outlooks I've had the pleasure of listening to on KZbin. Thank you. You've got yourself another subscriber.

[@ArshadAli-sn2cd]

"Inside out"...Very comprehensive point. It's so philosophical yet practicable....Apollonia is going deep and becoming profound now-a-days...It's great!👍

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you! Appreciate this comment. xo

[@ArshadAli-sn2cd]

@@ApolloniaPonti xoxo

[@Supasilvakilla]

I see lots of comments talking about just leave her and you guys arent meant to be. What if the woman inspires you to be a better person? What if the changes she always wanted out of you was for the better and in your best interest to become the best man you can be. Sometimes the truth hurts but it's what we need to hear. I had the woman of my dreams but lost her because I wasnt my best self. I now work every day on it so when the time comes I can make a woman happy and be my best self and partner.

[@vasilisrroshi8642]

Giving my best at everything I do...but to improve and feel better with myself. Don't need to prove nothing to anyone or trying to make a woman regret that she lost me..

[@legendkiller_-2k-__273]

Yesterday Me & My GF of 5 years have called it a day.Her Choice lost feelings!! I was mature about it and said she needs to be happy. This also happened in Feb 2021 and wanted me back in July 2021…Which we did.Her hysterectomy Op in 2020 change her,Sent her in to early menopause. I really hope this turns around!!

[@michaelbateson8636]

I lost the weight, getting better job with more money, being a better dad for my kids. She's done nothing except have another guy move in 3 months after our marriage separation. I'm starting to think that I'm better off without her, but I'm bound to her because of our children. I'd love to be able to block her out of my life but she's stuck on me.

[@DemonSlide]

You are better off without her.

[@Rightsideup]

Let that shit go brother!!!!

[@raduioan180]

My friend, On the contrary, every time she sees you is a moment of reflection for her... You become every day a better variant of yours.... Do not worry.... Trust in yourself..... Do ho oponopono..... It makes miracles in your life.... 🙏🙏🙏

[@SauceGodBandjos]

Your not bound you have to put yourself first.

[@iducatifan1]

You Are better off sir, congratulations 👏.

[@tarandeepsingh640]

I didn’t show up for my girlfriend. I can look back and say I didn’t show up as my best self nor as the man she needed me to be. Working on becoming that man, these past few weeks and developing a winner mindset.

[@joseroda20]

Same thing here mate, trying to become the best version of myself

[@BeansTCG]

Keep it up King we’re all on the same boat!

[@SteveCDive]

Good for you, man. Keep it up.

[@peteypablo8687]

Same here

[@davidaguayo2021]

Facts!! About the inner work!!! That’s something I’ve been working on myself this year after many years of not facing the internal issues. Everything else in terms of my professional life, future career goal (physical therapy) and dreams I’ve been working towards so far is good but the inner work has been the biggest challenge I had to face. Since I’ve been doing the inner work I notice things and opportunities are becoming attracted to me and opportunities are lining up or are falling into my lap. Doing the inner work has been so worth it and it hasn’t been easy but thing have been improving dramatically! Been noticing a change in my mindset, confidence, and the energy that is being put out there.

[@blackknight9773]

Yes, I am living this now. Excellent, you are right. It has to be real, honest and manifest integrity. I have no regrets. As a matter fact I am still transitioning out of the relationship with platonic love.❤😊❤

[@raduioan180]

Respect from a brother in arms. Deus lo volt!

[@evilsdemise1287]

This is the secret to being successful with women, period. Be positive minded in everything, be social, and here's the last step once you're with them. Always let them know that you're taking their opinion into consideration about everything, BUT only follow their suggestions a fraction of the time. On average it comes out to about 1 in 4 or 1 in 5. Follow this plan and you will never lack for a woman. You will go from not having a woman to having to choose which ones you don't want around. I guarantee it. There is much nuance involved in every individual circumstance but this is the basic 3 point base structure to being successful with women, guaranteed.

[@joeloluyole3198]

My girl left me. It was so confusing and abrupt/random. Everything was going well and she hit me with the I need space and the breakup. I thought it was my soulmate. Im crushed but i also wajt to learn to let go. Its hard and im just going through it

[@mythillgrim7188]

Unfortunately the confusion was one sided women do not leave themselves hanging while you guys were together she was already talking to probably seeing another guy before she felt comfortable enough to let you go she never loved you in my opinion just selfish like most of em

[@mythillgrim7188]

And I bet you were goood to her and treated her perfectly we tend to make this mistake then they leave us for some useless bum cause he treat them well like he don’t care that much lol women uh focus on you G

[@CiluhStyle1]

She for the streets...hate you had to go through that...never like a woman more than she likes you

[@samueloladelelayiwola2370]

Let go of a gold digger and let God. Greater is He.

[@timdane6132]

i love the weather at Apollonia's background

[@lufunomonyaivendaqueen7793]

Well said, really nice to be with a man who is dignified sometimes, not some play boy who is forever in the club.

[@fugetabouit663]

You can do it alone...you don't need drama and have to cater to no one! Yes some are only loved conditionaly. Be yourself and love yourself! Most important

[@twofiveb]

Stay positive! I am somewhat hopeful that there will be a day that she and I will reconnect, after I make some sweeping changes in my attitudes & behavior. Yet, past experience also tells me that any possibility of us reconnecting will happen only after I stop caring whether we do or not.

[@redline350zHR]

THIS IS THE SAME situation im in!! I cared and showed toooo much & it suckss idk what to do i need to know if she is actually working on herself or if she started talking to someone from the past like she would threaten me with

[@anthonyramos9841]

@@redline350zHR oh dude she’s talking to someone else I’m sorry but I’m speaking the truth

[@twofiveb]

@@redline350zHR Ignore the above comment. He doesn't know any more about what your ex is doing than I do. My point is: Stop caring about what she's doing! With my ex, I just leave--her--alone. I let her be her and I'll work on being the best me! Why should I care about what she's doing or not doing? Me caring too much about my situation with her was the problem in the first place, right? A woman can be in my life, or she can NOT be in my life. Either way, I'll do fine. Co-dependent no more, bro! 😎

[@GangstalkingReality]

Especially the ones that crave a narcissist and will reject your kindness and warmth

[@B-real23]

@@twofiveb same my man . To much energy on her while i was a top dog . If you care to much no matter how good you are they going to dump . You have to be the leader not her . Energy is everything . If you Do your thing and move on she will come back 1000% . But she has to earn it. You are the priority not her .

[@MortenChristensen-tt8up]

This is great. Absolutely only focus on yourself. If it’s necessary to “serve” your partner to be loved … sorry but that is not love. Start serving only yourself. That will help you meet high quality women that don’t “need” you but “want” you in their lives. Good luck.

[@Gk2003m]

0:40: If a woman is constantly leaving me or breaking up with me, maybe she should just leave already and get it over with? Easy way to solve this ‘problem’: when she leaves you, don’t take her back in. There are plenty more out there. As for the title, who cares what she regrets or doesn’t regret when it ends? Not to be too hard about it, but when it ends it ends and her opinion of my life no longer is relevant

[@jahleelx9270]

Facts.

[@spartysmile5243]

Appolonia you are so right. I'm 72 still working and still enjoying living and handling rejection. Many guys I have known have gotten their self esteem back by getting into physical exercise. The endorfene rush is a healer. It helps men get their Spartan walk back.

[@YOLMODNAZI1996]

I don't wanna make her regret because I just wanna see her happy but I just want her to know that her present which is just 2 weeks older in love doesn't loves her and they r just enjoying life and using her but I really loved her and still do from the core and bottom of my heart and soul

[@markkuman4673]

Thanks for your advice. It's a treasure. Respect from Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬

[@ApolloniaPonti]

My pleasure!

[@kimlanglewis152]

At the end of the day, all that matters is that one woman liked you, loved you, and said yes to you. The search and adventure for some is short, while others it can be agonizing. At the end of the day remember this: Good things happen over time..........great things happen at once.

[@pedropinto5717]

Apollonia, let me thank you ! last 3 days I saw this videos 300x. and today we had the conversation! it worked 1000000% and it was so good, we laughed, we remembered all good times and we really understood we needed to work on us. I even said ‘’i believe that the best version of me will end up with the best version of you’’ ended up in a long felt hug and now i’m happy! we both are ! thanks Apollonia ❤

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for the support! I truly appreciate this!

[@1234567890what]

Why care? If it’s over it’s over. Don’t worry about them regretting.

[@Poseidonx666]

The best revenge is to move on and have a good life make your dreams true

[@johndavid7783]

Hi I like your videos . After many attempts and failed relationships I put an end to dating and use that energy for me . To me life is too short to worry about finding the one... I focus on me .. I guess I was hurt to many times and won't trust a woman anymore. So rather than me hurting a good person I chose to focus on my dreams and make them come true while I can. That's just me ..

[@erniemyers1239]

So true my dear continue the good work u and your family are blessed

[@zionrose007]

Thank you so much. Bottom line I've been treating others with more care than myself.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You got this!

[@dougadamwired2]

This is Really a PROFOUND PROFOUND PROFOUND !!! Video & Teaching Lesson. Thank you So Much for doing this Topic. I am in this EXACT situation with a particular Woman that I have dated & have been very close to for Years. Now she has pulled away. And since she left, I have been working on Myself ....and "bettering" myself......27/7. Like you say.....this Woman has literally Lost & Left..... the Best thing she ever had. If she doesn't regret it now, she will soon. Thank you

[@stevewise1656]

Value yourself and sometimes that takes work. Then you'll be ready for the right woman or at least see more clearly which women are worth your time and not. Maintain your dignity and don't let yourself compromise that dignity.

[@DanielTanz-sx6hj]

No needs to make her regret just move on be strong and be on your own 💖

[@seanrodriguez9196]

Thank you for you confidence i really feel inspired listening to the tone of your voice. And this time you said something peculiar. I too have a relationship with my higher power and feel that is majorly important for independence

[@mulisha05]

Good content, your audio needs a boost. Thanks 😊

[@lancesimon3965]

She won’t miss you if she’s in love with someone else and women work fast they ain’t sitting around alone

[@tonypoepoe3150]

I got it ! Turn that energy inwards , work on me . When the inside changes it will show on the outside ! Thank you !

[@Daniel-bd5ur]

finally back with these vids… please keep this content and only this

[@clintbethel6594]

He who care,s less always get the woman! Be mysterious and focus on your life gents.... Who goes out your life easy, was never meant to be in it.

[@donovanbluecuizon7062]

i love you apollonia you are so very helpful, day by day i keep moving forward even if it hurts so much.....

[@oscarrivas7240]

I agree that we need to learn how love to ourselves, but after that, we need to learn how to love another person. It’s easy to love ourselves, but it takes sacrifice and selflessness to love someone else. I also encourage other men to go through therapy. Been going through therapy since my last breakup, and honestly, I’m annoyed I didn’t have the tools I’ve been learning while in that relationship. Love is action guys…do it for yourself, and for others.

[@RR-et6zp]

read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

[@mrquick6775]

No loving yourself, I mean true love is oftentimes harder in as much as we know and understand ourselves! You can’t do this inside of a relationship, you have to do it by yourself, All alone, mommy and daddy can’t save you here. It’s you yourself and no one else.

[@CiluhStyle1]

Facts that's how i messed up in my relationship

[@ProjectXbh]

She dumped me and she came after two months and played the victim role and all what I did is heard every word quietly , she kept yelling and saying I’m bad and karma will play you , like I was the cause and the dumper , anyhow I heard everything and didn’t say anything she just hung up

[@pdsingh360]

I love your content Apollonia!! This is so inspiring, helpful and unscripted! Really needed this right now... Thank You!

[@OtubeShalhoub]

If making an ex-girlfriend/wife regret "losing" him is all a man is concerned about, she must have left him for a reason imo... I went through divorce around 2 months earlier... My life is improving at a tremendous pace, and I couldn't care less for what she feels or thinks of me right now because her opinion doesn't count anymore. The saying goes "Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die". I'd substitute resentment with any other negative emotion. Having a stoic mindset taught me that harming others adds no benefit to me, especially for the sake of revenge. I hope she finds someone that suits her lifestyle and personality disorders, cause honestly me don't care Thanks for the great content! I'm new to your channel

[@ImStalkinqYuh]

Wow good way of going about it 💪🏽

[@sameerbrown673]

Personality Disorders 🙆🏽‍♂️😄

[@nicholasnkambule6632]

I've started to enjoy this content too. So much has been said in this channel, and I have evaluated myself along with what you are teaching. I feel from within that these are basic truths towards making relationships become purposeful. You are great woman indeed.❤️

[@sammyhouse7326]

Just give her money period!

[@joeserafim6009]

You are amazing just listening to your advise gives me a different perspective in life and makes me think differently how I need to have more respect myself and how I shouldn’t have to buy love when it’s only a one way friendship I’m guilty of that and hasn’t got me anywhere

[@natebadger927]

Absolutely! It is so important to show up for yourself as well, especially in that time to yourself. So that you are ready and even available "with purpose", for that quality woman.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Exactly. :-)

[@riteshkumarsah7828]

Not

[@Alamo927]

The rain storm ⛈️ in the background so cool ⚡️⚡️☔️

[@surfshack2]

You always give the right advice. You're a pretty smart chick Appolonia. 👍😎

[@punisher6449]

The problem is that woman only want a finished product. They would never participate in growing with other person together, share the same journey and experiences..That has became extremely rare nowdays

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

Hey Girl. As always another Great Video. Keep them Rollin.

[@tdog9150]

I’m in the middle of a divorce , 2 years in , I have zero interest in a female , I’m to old to start over , just not interested , I just want to do what I want to do , I was asked to dinner last week , said nah , I’m going to stay home to tired ,, how many other guys feel the same way ??

[@RobertBoshaw]

You are the common denominator in all of your relationships. If they are not working out, it's because you need to work on yourself. Stop caring about what somebody else might think of you and live the life you want to live. Be the man you want to be. Do everything with integrity. Be a little selfish and learn to say "No" once in awhile. Learn self discipline. Get good at something that interests you. Set some goals and take the steps to achieve them. You've got this.

[@davidlangham5335]

practice on the people you are obligated to first. Family, co workers

[@JB-by8tw]

Everything u said about starting within is soooo true!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hello, JB thank you for the support!

[@davidimes]

Please read “The Manipulated Man”, by Esther Vilar. It’s free online. You can be the best man in the world but if she is entitled and you’re not her fomo, it won’t matter.

[@YouDontKnowMebro69]

I chased my girl the first time she left me and got her back and she left me again 2 weeks later and I haven’t spoke to her since and that was 3 weeks ago. Hardest thing ever but I learned my lesson the first time and it’s better to walk away with some pride and dignity bc it’s certainly over. Acceptance is the key.

[@goncalomusic1296]

How are you doing?

[@AntManWatts]

Going through the same. Gotta just accept it.

[@n0140103]

Good job!

[@sobreezy2456]

You took her back too quickly. Build the Chem back and work out the past issues