The last point is really important. I have noticed that when I am lost in my own thoughts, I walk hunched over, looking down with a frown. Then I remind myself that everything is beautiful and I automatically smile and walk upright and people suddently start greeting me.
@Alexeid28Ай бұрын
Yeah it happened to me too, our minds can be so powerful that they can help us or destroy us. Our mission is to control that power.
@mick5908Ай бұрын
I feel like the second point can be applied to one's self as well. Whenever you feel like you're about to judge yourself, tell yourself "bless you", too.
@lonestarr1490Ай бұрын
Yeah, no, won't work for me. I've lied to myself for my whole life so that I've by now learned to see right through my own BS. Hence, I've lost the ability to change my attitude towards myself by changing my attitude towards myself. In other words, I'm too self-aware, if you will. And I doubt that's something you can unlearn to be.
@aguasadonas8346Ай бұрын
@@lonestarr1490 Same bruh, I'm now smart enough to know that my lies that I tell myself will not work, whether they may actually be lies or not. And they do not work anymore, or just work very little, less than they did in the past.
@mick590825 күн бұрын
Yeah I agree with you both; it's a lot easier said than done. It's too ingrained in my system to unlearn the pattern as well.
@the_real_saulgoodmanАй бұрын
This is starting to become my favorite channel. I get so happy when I see the notifications.
@NewelOfKnowledgeАй бұрын
🥲🫶 glad to have you here comrade!
@turtlec7140Ай бұрын
I still remember coming back from 7 days of camping with no phone or even radio reception and being the most alert and interested in my friend's conversations and feeling excited just to hear their stories. I think its sad how many people wear earphones whilst out walking or even at cafes, or on public transport, but each to their own I guess.
@conanwills4154Ай бұрын
You just verbalised what improved my social life just point after point nailing it without me even realising it. I've been spending more time in my garden and therefore off social media, getting closer to god and just being present which results in me blessing people as I walk past. The only downside is that I can't shake the feeling people think of me as a big smiling idiot as I walk past 😂. Oh and stopping trying to control other peoples reactions also helped.
@NewelOfKnowledgeАй бұрын
CONAN THIS IS AWESOME. Loved reading this mate, thanks for sharing it. As regards your big goofy smile, FLAUNT IT. If they don't like it, fuck em. Keep up the good work my fine sir!
@matiasrodriguez1588Ай бұрын
It is so great to see this channel grow, you give tips based on research and experience, and describe them in such a digestible and easy to process way. Thank you for your advice, I hope this channel keeps growing and you keep doing what you love, big ups man.
@involuntaryoccupantАй бұрын
I think I've developed a Pavlovian reaction to your videos. As soon as I see or hear you, my brain switches from foggy mess mode to reasonable mindfulness mode
@ezrapierce1233Ай бұрын
Oh brother that second point was really woo woo😂
@NewelOfKnowledgeАй бұрын
Forgive me ☠🤣
@DustinFurlowАй бұрын
Gold mine of great advice presented with class and light-heartedly, bless you 😂
@RedSemen420Ай бұрын
the bless you one sounds solid, i gona try that!
@papito-2Ай бұрын
I would like to see a video for men with broken hearts. I think I'm not the only one who could benefit from it, haha. How do I move on from someone who was everything I needed and wanted? We ended on good terms, which makes it even more confusing and difficult for me.
@nathan_something12 күн бұрын
No. Bless **you** for sharing these stories, the advice, and everything. You are amazing and I appreciate you. Also, I adore the community, these are the people I wish to be around in life. Living is hard enough without people judging you when they couldn't even know you after years if they tried. I am only human. And so are you. We shouldn't expect so much. We should only be grateful that we are alive at all, on the one planet that can both create and sustain life, in the galaxy for as far out as we can see.
@DreamingAboutDreamsКүн бұрын
Loving your content mate
@gurpreetsingh79329 күн бұрын
I watch your videos for the anecdotes/stories. Please never stop including them!
@Moonriversoul10 күн бұрын
Bless you 🙏😂
@shaunaspinall3515Ай бұрын
salute sir! I am so glad your channel found me
@oisinholzАй бұрын
That last little bonus point is no doubt the hardest part for me!
@renarsdrАй бұрын
Loved this - awesome video! Thank you and, of course, bless you!
@aqqo4365Ай бұрын
That wall do be looking real nice to be honest
@buckaroobaizuo255 күн бұрын
Ooooh .. you’re good 👌🏽
@successdtv12 күн бұрын
I just subscribed, sir ; beautiful video!
@cherryboi3763Ай бұрын
I love your videos man. Thanks
@LXP666Ай бұрын
The second point reminded me of a Buddhist practice of non-judgemental curiosity. Observing the world and passing no judgement, but to take it further you can wish ‘Metta’ which is an ancient Indian language word in Pali for loving kindness. Very similar to bless you, you can you phrases such as, “may you be happy, and may you grow”. If you want to learn more about the field of thought research Metta meditation, it’s very powerful.
@4uno4239 күн бұрын
Next time you coming to Mallorca I gotta see you
@georginhomos5 күн бұрын
Bless you! Thank you for a very informative video :)
@None-jj8sxАй бұрын
Be cynical Cultivate psychopathy Nurture narcissism Engagement is over
@Dulceria-La-Princesita8 күн бұрын
1. Living 2. Being alive
@PstoenАй бұрын
Embrace the woo, Lewis! Bless you!
@amgi31415Ай бұрын
Thanks, I really needed this :)
@Alexeid28Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I’ve been really trying to improve my social skills, your videos always help me out.
@jordanclayton4593Ай бұрын
Incredible advice Lewis keep the good work up. Bless you also
@omotoyinbosamuel2945Ай бұрын
You're a great story teller
@MIchaelSybiКүн бұрын
I was smiling, but then they arrested me for harassment smile
@ddd-op5wyАй бұрын
Bless you!
@Renierius8 күн бұрын
God bless ✌️
@MartinGreen93210 күн бұрын
I've bounced through a market square in lovely clobber and with a big smile, striding confidently. I am an ok looking fella but I can assure you that zero young women started staring back at me and smiling.
@bryceehret8149Ай бұрын
As someone that's autistic af your videos are helpful
@PazaluzАй бұрын
Bless you! ☀
@alfredopaloppla19818 күн бұрын
Great video, i wanted ti say It, bless you
@DakotaFord592Ай бұрын
I need to know, how big? How thick, how long and how rough!!
@benuriwickramarathne5443Күн бұрын
♥️
@asilong9049Ай бұрын
1. Stop eating candy 2. Be less sleepy
@jazzmusicfanАй бұрын
Does saying to self "bless your heart" count? Asking for a friend 😂
@lucaw8776Ай бұрын
Can someone explaine me, in which way the „bless you“ is ment? It is difficult for me to translate the content 😁
@kabomedupe1396Ай бұрын
Relax your eyes.
@NewelOfKnowledgeАй бұрын
How
@BigRob783Ай бұрын
❤❤
@tomco5973Ай бұрын
1.7 weeks...
@NewelOfKnowledgeАй бұрын
Hahaha, you are correct! Wanna be my PA?
@tomco5973Ай бұрын
@@NewelOfKnowledge I'm just talking about vacations next week. But I would like to🤣. By the way, thanks for your videos I'm french and I'm learning English through your videos. Your accent is perfect because I'm used to the American accent but not the British. As you mentioned before "if you upset someone because they have an expectation of you, that's their problem, not yours"😁
@NewelOfKnowledgeАй бұрын
@@tomco5973 Bonjour amigo! Great to have you here. Perhaps I'll start saying au revoir at the end of each video ;) I'm glad to be part of your English learning journey!
@DakotaFord592Ай бұрын
I don't think this man knows how beautiful he is! Tf
@eralp.celebiАй бұрын
easy win for me FIRST
@6alaileАй бұрын
Bro why you showed up in my dream ?
@NewelOfKnowledgeАй бұрын
Got that on demand unconscious dream filtration rizz ☠
@sabserab10 күн бұрын
@@NewelOfKnowledge😂😂
@nomercy8989Ай бұрын
I don't know why but I somehow knew you had an Asian girlfriend :D
@wer2006Ай бұрын
The audio is very slightly off-sync from your lip movement
@JronDon854Ай бұрын
I wear earphones so people don't talk to me
@Rapscallion3003Күн бұрын
Loser
@Ragnaraq1Ай бұрын
Referring to women as females is always so wild to me lol
@Moonlight_dark-47Ай бұрын
Why exactly?
@Ragnaraq1Ай бұрын
@@Moonlight_dark-47 it's just kinda weird and vaguely dehumanizing. Like, it's a biological term which refers to which gametes the person/animal/plant produces. For all I know, when he said he had a conversation with a beautiful female on the train, he could've been admiring and speaking softly to a tulip. Usually I just say 'person' rather than describing someone by their sex cells. It's not a deep rub I just think it's a common and rather strange usage of language.
@Mikke-G7 күн бұрын
Maybe for English speakers it's weird but most languages in the world have feminine or masculine terms so it's normal
@Ragnaraq17 күн бұрын
@@Mikke-G I mean English has 'man' and 'woman' which are masculine and feminine, respectively. Like, I would say "Newel is an attractive man" Rather than "Newel is an attractive male"
@papito-2Ай бұрын
I would like to see a video for men with broken hearts. I think I'm not the only one who could benefit from it, haha. How do I move on from someone who was everything I needed and wanted? We ended on good terms, which makes it even more confusing and difficult for me.