2 Easy Ways to Improve Your Social Skills

[@limo-swine6537]

The last point is really important. I have noticed that when I am lost in my own thoughts, I walk hunched over, looking down with a frown. Then I remind myself that everything is beautiful and I automatically smile and walk upright and people suddently start greeting me.

[@Alexeid28]

Yeah it happened to me too, our minds can be so powerful that they can help us or destroy us. Our mission is to control that power.

[@mick5908]

I feel like the second point can be applied to one's self as well. Whenever you feel like you're about to judge yourself, tell yourself "bless you", too.

[@lonestarr1490]

Yeah, no, won't work for me. I've lied to myself for my whole life so that I've by now learned to see right through my own BS. Hence, I've lost the ability to change my attitude towards myself by changing my attitude towards myself. In other words, I'm too self-aware, if you will. And I doubt that's something you can unlearn to be.

[@aguasadonas8346]

@@lonestarr1490 Same bruh, I'm now smart enough to know that my lies that I tell myself will not work, whether they may actually be lies or not. And they do not work anymore, or just work very little, less than they did in the past.

[@mick5908]

Yeah I agree with you both; it's a lot easier said than done. It's too ingrained in my system to unlearn the pattern as well.

[@laja6108]

@@lonestarr1490maybe it shouldn’t be a lie. Do you have to be perfect to wish yourself well?

[@JTLDN]

this comment made me sneeze.

[@the_real_saulgoodman]

This is starting to become my favorite channel. I get so happy when I see the notifications.

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

🥲🫶 glad to have you here comrade!

[@conanwills4154]

You just verbalised what improved my social life just point after point nailing it without me even realising it. I've been spending more time in my garden and therefore off social media, getting closer to god and just being present which results in me blessing people as I walk past. The only downside is that I can't shake the feeling people think of me as a big smiling idiot as I walk past 😂. Oh and stopping trying to control other peoples reactions also helped.

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

CONAN THIS IS AWESOME. Loved reading this mate, thanks for sharing it. As regards your big goofy smile, FLAUNT IT. If they don't like it, fuck em. Keep up the good work my fine sir!

[@turtlec7140]

I still remember coming back from 7 days of camping with no phone or even radio reception and being the most alert and interested in my friend's conversations and feeling excited just to hear their stories. I think its sad how many people wear earphones whilst out walking or even at cafes, or on public transport, but each to their own I guess.

[@mtlicq]

Exactly! Very true, very true. "Unfry" your brain, stop ovrerdosing on stimulation from internet, and also stop criticizing situations and people within your mind'; instead, have a considerate approach.

[@rawanben-nakhi1130]

Well said sir, plus I’d like to think about others the same way I’d like them to think about me. Our hearts have to beam with love in order to carry it out to this world in action ❤

[@matiasrodriguez1588]

It is so great to see this channel grow, you give tips based on research and experience, and describe them in such a digestible and easy to process way. Thank you for your advice, I hope this channel keeps growing and you keep doing what you love, big ups man.

[@RedSemen420]

the bless you one sounds solid, i gona try that!

[@gurpreetsingh793]

I watch your videos for the anecdotes/stories. Please never stop including them!

[@nathan_something]

No. Bless **you** for sharing these stories, the advice, and everything. You are amazing and I appreciate you. Also, I adore the community, these are the people I wish to be around in life. Living is hard enough without people judging you when they couldn't even know you after years if they tried. I am only human. And so are you. We shouldn't expect so much. We should only be grateful that we are alive at all, on the one planet that can both create and sustain life, in the galaxy for as far out as we can see.

[@LXP666]

The second point reminded me of a Buddhist practice of non-judgemental curiosity. Observing the world and passing no judgement, but to take it further you can wish ‘Metta’ which is an ancient Indian language word in Pali for loving kindness. Very similar to bless you, you can you phrases such as, “may you be happy, and may you grow”. If you want to learn more about the field of thought research Metta meditation, it’s very powerful.

[@Pstoen]

Embrace the woo, Lewis! Bless you!

[@DustinFurlow]

Gold mine of great advice presented with class and light-heartedly, bless you 😂

[@renarsdr]

Loved this - awesome video! Thank you and, of course, bless you!

[@agnieszkakucharska9904]

Great advise!

[@jordanclayton4593]

Incredible advice Lewis keep the good work up. Bless you also

[@pkersoul]

Bless you guys

[@georginhomos]

Bless you! Thank you for a very informative video :)

[@RadikatMLG]

Solid advice, thanks man.

[@Moonriversoul]

Bless you 🙏😂

[@DreamingAboutDreams]

Loving your content mate

[@shaunaspinall3515]

salute sir! I am so glad your channel found me

[@oisinholz]

That last little bonus point is no doubt the hardest part for me!

[@Alexeid28]

Thank you so much, I’ve been really trying to improve my social skills, your videos always help me out.

[@cherryboi3763]

I love your videos man. Thanks

[@papito-2]

I would like to see a video for men with broken hearts. I think I'm not the only one who could benefit from it, haha. How do I move on from someone who was everything I needed and wanted? We ended on good terms, which makes it even more confusing and difficult for me.

[@amgi31415]

Thanks, I really needed this :)

[@omotoyinbosamuel2945]

You're a great story teller

[@successdtv]

I just subscribed, sir ; beautiful video!

[@muhammetibrahimkaraman7471]

When you wish something for someone, eventually you create it in yourself too. So, you bless someone, thus you'll be too. If you do that consistently, eventually you will change. There is a saying: If you say something 40 times, it becomes real. So, I bless you the person who read this. 😊

[@ddd-op5wy]

Bless you!

[@buckaroobaizuo25]

Ooooh .. you’re good 👌🏽

[@4uno423]

Next time you coming to Mallorca I gotta see you

[@alfredopaloppla198]

Great video, i wanted ti say It, bless you

[@Pazaluz]

Bless you! ☀

[@benl9775]

Who’s the guy you mention at 1:00? Derick Thompson?

[@involuntaryoccupant]

I think I've developed a Pavlovian reaction to your videos. As soon as I see or hear you, my brain switches from foggy mess mode to reasonable mindfulness mode

[@Renierius]

God bless ✌️

[@MIchaelSybi]

I was smiling, but then they arrested me for harassment smile

[@tcggggg]

The first tip is nice but you cant attribute positive vibes to everybody. Lots of bad people out here. Dont trick yourself into naivety just to appear sociable. Pick and choose vibes

[@benuriwickramarathne5443]

♥️

[@asiaisabellaa]

The Lord bless you 🤍

[@MartinGreen932]

I've bounced through a market square in lovely clobber and with a big smile, striding confidently. I am an ok looking fella but I can assure you that zero young women started staring back at me and smiling.

[@bryceehret8149]

As someone that's autistic af your videos are helpful

[@asilong9049]

1. Stop eating candy 2. Be less sleepy

[@Dulceria-La-Princesita]

1. Living 2. Being alive

[@lucaw8776]

Can someone explaine me, in which way the „bless you“ is ment? It is difficult for me to translate the content 😁

[@ezrapierce1233]

Oh brother that second point was really woo woo😂

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

Forgive me ☠🤣

[@masteryimid1864]

Joe looks like your twin brother :P

[@RobCobra300]

❤❤

[@jazzmusicfan]

Does saying to self "bless your heart" count? Asking for a friend 😂

[@kabomedupe1396]

Relax your eyes.

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

How

[@None-jj8sx]

Be cynical Cultivate psychopathy Nurture narcissism Engagement is over

[@tomco43]

1.7 weeks...

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

Hahaha, you are correct! Wanna be my PA?

[@tomco43]

​@@NewelOfKnowledge I'm just talking about vacations next week. But I would like to🤣. By the way, thanks for your videos I'm french and I'm learning English through your videos. Your accent is perfect because I'm used to the American accent but not the British. As you mentioned before "if you upset someone because they have an expectation of you, that's their problem, not yours"😁

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

@@tomco43 Bonjour amigo! Great to have you here. Perhaps I'll start saying au revoir at the end of each video ;) I'm glad to be part of your English learning journey!

[@aqqo4365]

That wall do be looking real nice to be honest

[@nomercy8989]

I don't know why but I somehow knew you had an Asian girlfriend :D

[@eralp.celebi]

easy win for me FIRST

[@6alaile]

Bro why you showed up in my dream ?

[@NewelOfKnowledge]

Got that on demand unconscious dream filtration rizz ☠

[@sabserab]

​@@NewelOfKnowledge😂😂

[@chief8559]

Step 1; be born with a neurotypical brain Step 2; see step 1

[@wer2006]

The audio is very slightly off-sync from your lip movement

[@JronDon854]

I wear earphones so people don't talk to me

[@Rapscallion3003]

Loser

[@Ragnaraq1]

Referring to women as females is always so wild to me lol

[@Moonlight_dark-47]

Why exactly?

[@Ragnaraq1]

@@Moonlight_dark-47 it's just kinda weird and vaguely dehumanizing. Like, it's a biological term which refers to which gametes the person/animal/plant produces. For all I know, when he said he had a conversation with a beautiful female on the train, he could've been admiring and speaking softly to a tulip. Usually I just say 'person' rather than describing someone by their sex cells. It's not a deep rub I just think it's a common and rather strange usage of language.

[@Mikke-G]

Maybe for English speakers it's weird but most languages in the world have feminine or masculine terms so it's normal

[@Ragnaraq1]

@@Mikke-G I mean English has 'man' and 'woman' which are masculine and feminine, respectively. Like, I would say "Newel is an attractive man" Rather than "Newel is an attractive male"

[@papito-2]

I would like to see a video for men with broken hearts. I think I'm not the only one who could benefit from it, haha. How do I move on from someone who was everything I needed and wanted? We ended on good terms, which makes it even more confusing and difficult for me.