20 things NOBODY Tells You About Life After Weight Loss| Nachy Chike (the way people treat you+more)

[@shancxkai]

Crazy this is from 1 day ago I felt like this is one of your older videos I was looking at, especially considering I was just doing a skipping routine. Anyway just saying how it shows to go how natural you come across in the video and it felt like I was talking to one of my friends about it. I agree with majority of what you had to say if not all. Whilst I don't have any current suggestions i hope you can be one of the girls girl channels things but not limited too self love healing knowing yourself and how to carry yourself to know other people, how it helps you grow on the inside and you start to act different and whether people like it or not you're just becoming more wiser and maturer. I know people are gonna talk about feminine energy this and that but I prefer when I don't have to hear feminine energy every 5 seconds despite the great content. Anyway peace love and prosperity 🩵🩷🌏🧡🖤

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you so much🥹 I also discovered this! i LOVE creating this type of content it makes me feel good, obviously not limit myself but I get what you mean. I’m so glad I was able to resonate with you well, thank you for your comment this was so encouraging 🫶🏽

[@andreaiooqk4967]

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that who ever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal. John 3:16

[@funekamohaule2018]

After losing 40kgs , am always cold , shoe size went down, better treatment from society, glowing skin, looking younger is my favourite

[@nachyyin4k]

😂🥰yesss

[@GuidetteExpert]

Health is the most important! I wish people would work towards trying to live the highest quality of life.

[@Chrisley56]

OMG! Thought I was crazy when I sized my shoes (over 17 pairs) ND I went from 39 to 37 ND 5'5 to 5'6. My boobs too . My ass too. It's a lot.

[@andreaiooqk4967]

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that who ever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal. John 3:16

[@427skies]

My fiance lost like 40lbs and he was always cold too. 😂 I'm always cold now. I don't wanna be even colder. 😂

[@AdornedwKinksCoils]

After my weight loss, I switched universities. People at my new university treated me well. However, I didn't know they were treating me well due to my size. It wasn't until after I gained the weight back and those same people started treating me like I didn't matter. I was very shocked by it because my personality and the way I interacted with them didnt change, and I couldn't understand how they could easily go from treating me with respect and kindness to acting like I was beneath them, and yes, it was mostly men. I'm not even just talking about male classmates, I'm talking about my professors who were once so encouraging and acted as if they wanted to see me do well in life. Gained the weight back, and the fact that I was a kind person and straight A student meant nothing. But, I'm thankful for that experience because I never want to be like those people or have those kinds of people anywhere near me.

[@nachyyin4k]

THIS

[@liebling4069]

Omg that's so bizarre

[@auramartinez968]

for all of you babies who are on a weight loss journey like me. Repeat this with me. “I am losing weight because I love my body not because I hate it” ❤️ Peace and self love.

[@Cyanide_Mallika]

Thank you ❤️

[@QUEENFACEOFFICIAL]

Love this 🩷

[@qwrbtmari]

the fact that losing weight is incredible, but you realize how humanity only treats you well if you're thin...

[@nachyyin4k]

this

[@Karawoolfe]

When I am on a diet and a start loosing weight I notice people around me try to sabotage me. Like my mom would cook some fancy stuff or my friend same weight as me would tell me just stop now you look good or she would tell me I want to gain weight and unnecessary stuff like that

[@amie6587]

I normally dodge these people, I wake up early to go to the gym, and take walks after work to avoid people at home making foods I know make me gain weight. At work I take a short walk during lunch time to avoid the person who is watching my meals. By avoiding them I get my steps in and burn calories.

[@nachyyin4k]

avoid them! and stay focused

[@MyFionah]

My now ex husband. Everytime I would lose some weight he would bring all the nasty high fat stuff I liked in the house. Because he thought if I looked good he would lose me. Listen… I dropped him now and I am moving forward happily.

[@asiafrank]

Glad I'm not the only one who has noticed that my voice sounds more feminine or higher, when you lose weight. 😂❤❤

[@nachyyin4k]

exactly! like I thought I was imagining it!

[@floweryvanilla1064]

loool i cant wait

[@colourmefuchsia]

My voice is higher too!

[@vismayavijoy4818]

My god, I even thought I was delusional 😅

[@Angel__oxoxx]

@@nachyyin4k I think it's because we feel better of ourselves after weight loss and consequently gain confidence and show it even when we speak ✨

[@psychattack3381]

I agree with and can relate to several things on your list! I’ve been slim and I’ve been obese and while I’ve never been treated poorly while obese, I’ve been completely ignored, especially by men. It’s not always a bad thing lol but it’s definitely a thing. When I was slim, I also noticed that people constantly went out of their way to approach and talk to me, to the degree that it was sometimes overwhelming. Western society really hates fat people, for sure.

[@nachyyin4k]

EXACTLY

[@lilrr1431]

As it should be. Its not a western thing its biology

[@givesmeaura]

I am in the process of losing weight, lost 23 kilos and I can relate to most of the things you’ve mentioned. Also friends discourage me to lose more, even though I am still overweight

[@nosakhareobakpoler9825]

Ignore your friends. Do what makes you happy.

[@Luxkyowo]

Then those friends are not really your friends, looks like jelousy

[@zothilemkhize8523]

Ur friends r probably feeling either guilty or threatened over the fact that ur getting and looking better. If u see that ur still overweight it means that they probably felt good about themselves when they compare themselves to u and now that ur improving and they aren't they don't like that

[@Bakerygo]

Ignore your friends and other people. Keep going!

[@covetcounty2003]

Those pipo are not your friends!!!

[@gherasimtibi]

The hate that comes from people who can't do what u did is out of control. My own parents, family and "friends" tried to shame me even though I looked way better, felt better and acted alot better was a problem all the sudden.

[@nachyyin4k]

yup!

[@tdm3301]

I'm sorry hun. Praying God gives you the strength to ignore those comments and that He changes their hearts.

[@blackwing97]

the neck discoloration may have been a condition called acanthosis nigricans. it is associated with insulin resistance and can be a sign of conditions like pre-diabetes or hypothyroidism. it's a good thing it cleared up! it can also appear on elbows, underarms, and around the groin/upper inner thighs.

[@TalkaboutitToya]

Yeah im noticing since changing my diet the discoloration on my neck is going away

[@gabrielletshiala5617]

​@@TalkaboutitToyaI don't mean to be rude but what diet did you change to?

[@Neo_Satedoriiii]

Oh my gosh I really thought I was stuck with it forever? I'll jump on my journey immediately 😭😭😭

[@blackwing97]

@@Neo_Satedoriiii go see a gp to make sure it isn't something more serious underlying first! I recently found out pcos can cause this as well.

[@Angel__oxoxx]

@@Neo_Satedoriiii I thought so too 😅 But as you lose weight, the areas definitely gets lighter since chafing will decrease and other health benefits that comes with weight loss

[@uwana.akanimo]

Yesss!! I notice people discrediting people for work they’ve put in to look better which is crazy !!

[@nachyyin4k]

Exactly!!

[@GuidetteExpert]

Because it brings out their laziness to do so them self's.

[@kittymeowmeow3676]

That “you look sick” got me! My mother constantly body shamed me when I started losing weight, saying I looked😊 sickly. It’s always those who are the closest to us right? 😅

[@nachyyin4k]

🤣🤣🤣

[@AikiraBeats]

I definitely agree. As someone who sings and just got back into dancing after losing 75 lbs it’s like I have so much confidence and energy. I’m now getting approached left and right as I go about day. It’s so weird. It reminds of how the characters in the movies takes off their glasses and bam everyone is in love with them. I don’t understand the psychology behind that.

[@nachyyin4k]

I love that for you

[@pinkena8829]

I lost a lot of weight during the winter so I was wearing a lot of layers and didn’t body check a lot. So when spring came around and I needed new shorts, why was I out here buying size 14 shorts??? I was so shocked when the employee looked at me and was like “girl ur like a size 8 at best” 😭😭😭

[@nachyyin4k]

this is what happened to me I was in shock when size 14 was hanging off my body😭

[@kachyn_]

Lol😂 similar thing happened to me, I was trying to buy a 14 skirt, the employee had to convince me to get a 10 😭

[@alweston01]

Periodddd!!!

[@ms.rivera7898]

Yes, honestly I still feel “big” and now I can wear a size 8. I used to wear a size 12. When I go in stores, I have to remind myself to look in the size 8 section. Also, I can fit into size mediums, whereas all of my clothes used to be a large.

[@Bakerygo]

Everybody's talking about huge loss of weight but nobody realises that the most drastic differences happen in those last 20 kilos. I have experienced those changes myself and she's 100% honest.

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you

[@lanadove9785]

The friend and guy thing is very true. I've heard many ppl say the exact same thing and I honestly can't wait till I lose weight to finally get the male attention I've been wanting and to see who my true friends are.

[@nachyyin4k]

yup

[@thehannahlp]

The men manipulating you because you're bigger thing is so real. It's mostly because, at least for me, my mentality was genuinely so weak when I was chunky. Still working on it 😅 Also getting treated better by others just for being smaller is real and it's atrocious, but I guess people see fit people as more "respectable"... 🙁

[@nachyyin4k]

THIS

[@lunamita]

Clicked like after you said ‘ i know I’m smart’ . We love a girl who knows their intelligence !!!

[@megapint2730]

I heard you mention that you no longer crave sugar and have darker skin around your neck. Those two things are signs of early diabetes. I think that means you've reversed your insulin resistance.

[@Blaqhairkink]

The skin change I see in most people during their transformation is crazyyyy really.

[@nachyyin4k]

same

[@brendamudereri1683]

Great video. I agree with all your points, especially the one about a sudden change in diet and sugar cravings. I noticed it too. Nowadays when I do grocery shopping, I'm always asking myself "how much sugar is in that product" and if I read on the nutritional information and realize there's much sugar...... I just leave the product right there.

[@nachyyin4k]

Well said!

[@fuel4luv28]

Nothing but facts in this video. I hope it goes viral because you didn't miss a thing. You're beautiful and I hope his helps someone.

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you so much for your kind comment🫶🏽

[@tracy-anneokusi3324]

👊🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ms.rivera7898]

I will say, I get a lot more compliments when I’m out and about, shopping, than when I was heavier. People will compliment me on my sunglasses (the same style I always used to wear), my dresses (even though I wore similar ones before), and just random things. They smile and talk to me more. They definitely hold doors open for me more often now that I’m smaller. Men are definitely looking more, but I have de-centered men, so I don’t really care about their gaze.

[@kanizfatima3447]

Decentering men makes women literally invincible! So strong ❤❤

[@realpristine]

When go on dates now that I’m smaller, men will want to get dessert and tell me to take food to go… like pressuring me to eat more. This NEVER happened when I was heavier 😭🤣

[@nachyyin4k]

real

[@tolia.tolina]

Heyy, yes I am an emotional eating person, right now I'm trying to lose weight. You don't know how many times guys approached me friendly only to be used by them to get to know my girlfriends. I'm a friendly person but when guys only approach me to be the middle man is devastating to me. Once i yelled to a guy that what he was doing to me wasn't right and he called me jealous of my girlfriends...

[@nachyyin4k]

!!! Exactly I was also always a middleman and I was always approached recklessly! You have a right to be upset no one wants to be treated that way

[@nachyyin4k]

I’ll make a video on some tips because I myself still sometimes struggle with emotional eating, you’re not alone🫶🏽

[@supadaru]

Yeah that's not ok. They should approach them themselves. Or seek genuine friendship interactions from you.

[@ChasityBrielle]

Yessss my boobs were like balloons then they just deflated 😢🥴 my face got so much more smaller and people were treating me differently especially men. The best part about to me was being able to fit into all the cute clothes I would see online and it being sold out in a 2x.

[@linetsieunda787]

Did ur boobs bcome extremely small..or saggy..mine r big to I'm 85kgs n I wanna lose 35kgs😢bt I wanna lose boob fat tho

[@ChasityBrielle]

@@linetsieunda787 both. U lose boob fat and u have a little loose skin. Same with my stomach but there’s exercises to help tighten your chest

[@linetsieunda787]

@@ChasityBrielle thanks u🥰

[@nachyyin4k]

you’re so right

[@Whatsbuggingbia]

this is my day 1 Im watching this for motivation and ill come back every month current weight: 85.6 kg goal:50-55kg

[@mouniamoon2389]

Feeling cold can be from thyroïd issues, especially if you have done a severe dieting. Also the neck pigmentation is due to insuline resistance, now that you have lost weight and not craving for sugary things, you have regulated that, Congratulation

[@kachyn_]

As for the food one, things like pancakes taste like cardboard and im not a chocolate monster anymore but you see brocolli, sweetcorn, cottage cheese and nuts 😍 anytime of the day

[@nachyyin4k]

thisss

[@lavina8790]

"You feel cold" is so real. I feel cold all the time since losing weight!

[@nachyyin4k]

fr

[@valeriediaz922]

I've lost 50 pounds and everything you said is true, for me I can't tolerate fried food anymore it hurts my stomach.

[@White_pearlPearl]

Gurll iam so proud of you , I mean loosing weight is not everyone's cup of tea ❤ and you look amazing

[@nosakhareobakpoler9825]

Girl your personality is on point!!!

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you 🥹

[@FitBaeLala]

Congratulations!! Can’t wait to make a vid like this one day lol!! About 1/3 of the way there!!

[@nachyyin4k]

Thank you hun all the best

[@abbyjane3955]

I’m so happy to hear this cuz I thought the men would treat me worse but knowing they respect me pushes me to loose weight

[@Aliem-p8x]

I already have really high voice, after loosing 20-30 kg I'll become a real life anime💪😚

[@nachyyin4k]

🤣🤣

[@flygirlbobo9855]

As someone who is struggling to lose weight I can relate with this video a lot. My family is the worst and tbh I can’t be bothered with them. People talk to you like you’re dumb and I look at them and say wait till you’re in my shoes and you’ll get it. Weight gain is the easiest vice to get into…….pray tell you are naturally skinny and you don’t go through life lessons that leave you using food for comfort. Don’t get depressed. Anyway don’t give up and make it a lifestyle change not a get thinner thing.

[@nachyyin4k]

exactly I’m so sorry you’re going through that

[@MargaretMouton]

Relatable. But It's so sweet when you finally get rid of that unwanted weight. I lost 42 pounds in about 12 weeks and have kept it off since then. My main issue was that I exercised daily, but struggled with my calorie intake. It was just impossible for me to eat less. It felt like I wasn't in control of my actions. My journey got 10x easier when I started taking Phenq pills. Eating less became possible, it felt as though my hunger disappeared and I also had enough energy to exercise. Best feeling ever 😊

[@nachyyin4k]

it feels amazing

[@KNByam]

I actually agree on the voice part. my voice has deepened.

[@nachyyin4k]

yupp

[@alweston01]

From weight loss or weight gain?

[@KNByam]

@@alweston01 Loss.

[@doomergirl]

The hyperpigmentation on your neck was most likely a response from your high blood sugar - once you got your insulin under control (loss of desire for sugar) it subsided. Good for you!

[@audreyreuben9104]

You're hilarious and have the cutest gap just like me, currently on my weightloss journey as well and came across this

[@nachyyin4k]

Yay! Thank you!☺️

[@lovepuppy2242]

Ooohhhhh… I feel a little dumb for not noticing the change in food. I have ALWAYS hated egg. I didn’t even try it until I was 18 and I hated it. Now? I have eggs for nearly every breakfast and sometimes for dinner too.

[@nachyyin4k]

😂😂😂omg

[@dianawamaitha3153]

Hahahaha people used to tell me I look sick when I lost weight 🤣🤣, another former friend told me I look malnourished, people say the most negative comments

[@nachyyin4k]

😂😂literally

[@Itssimplyaisha]

You represent the beauty standard and they’re pressed. They wish they had your discipline 😂

[@sakuralein1]

Same I need to break up the contact with my dad

[@shalawndudley2094]

I had a friend that looked sick after losing weight. I didn't tell her that cuz it would have hurt her feelings. She looked better with more weight on her.

[@ms.rivera7898]

Some people do look sick, though. I have seen family members who look weak and tired after losing weight. Better to weight train as you lose weight.

[@amaniiexxchnge]

That sick comment ppl give is so insulting to me. I used to get that all the time

[@nachyyin4k]

literally!! it’s so rude

[@jessiklovecine]

About the neck darkness.. I'm pretty sure that was a sign of insulin resistance!

[@gerlyn5114]

Heyy I'm 17 and I am diagnosed with pcod whenever I try to start with my weight loss journey i always end up giving up and binging on food. After watching this video I want to give it another try and be serious this time. Wish me luck❤️

[@nachyyin4k]

goodluck love

[@Realaliatianna]

I agree with all your points !

[@ellapretty6927]

I am fit and was never fat but my experience is soooo reverse. Their are fat and obese people that are too confident in the wrong way. Being confident is great but it depend. One time,I am at a buffet with my family. In the food area while I was going through the food selection, their was 2 chunky ladies who are bullying me. They are looking at my plate and observing the food that I am putting in my plate. Then when I was done and about to go back to my family table, they literally let me hear their conversation of how cheap I am with my food selection. I was so surprised by how in appropriate they are and judging my food. Then here is another situation of the many situations I have with fat people. My coworkers in my dept. are obese. So when we are in a meeting or all together, I am the smallest. So one Saturday, we all went to a lunch date.I ordered gourmet salad that is worth $23 and a garlic fries. My coworkers were like “why I am ordering salad” and the salad is huge and does not smell bad but they made a reaction that my food stinks. Then the conversation went to how they hate the smell of garlic. From that point, I decided to NEVER go to any lunch date with them.

[@abnormpsych17]

Well shitty people come in a lot of different packages.

[@MorenaDeRena]

Wth they mean garlic is great😭

[@gabrielavillanueva3606]

Don't even let me start with them expecting you to be uncomfortable in certain places because you're smaller. I saw this women on TikTok saying that she was scared the person sitting beside her on a plane will be fatphobic because she was taking up HALF of the next seat, like.... The audacity? 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ms.rivera7898]

I dislike it so much when you are out to eat with someone, and they turn up their nose at your food, and start talking negatively about it. I had someone do that with me when I ordered my eggs sunny side up. It is very rude and classless. If you don’t like someone’s food, you can keep the thoughts in your head, as you are not the one eating it.

[@luology7639]

Loved this a work out routine would be cool to see x

[@nachyyin4k]

Definitely hun, coming soon

[@TheGlowBarbie]

Agreed! And what you eat in a day

[@jasminyusuf2659]

That mental part is the real thing!!!! I felt & think am big so in a way i couldnt enjoy going from 83kg to 70kg. Guess what i did, I actually gained it back nd felt happy, Super weird. But now am losing it slowly, hopefully this time around I actually see it nd feel it.

[@nachyyin4k]

❤️❤️

[@jennifervoilet6491]

Such an informative video, taking this as sort of what itll be like for me after i reach my goal weight haha

[@nachyyin4k]

You got this!

[@AdeolaSpeaks]

Yess to all of this!! Love the video🥰. My weight yoyo's a lot but when I was smaller I noticed all of these, especially the fake friends part!

[@nachyyin4k]

yep! t

[@Lili-e1c4k]

girl im barely starting my weight loss journey and im always cold. i wonder how that's gonna go 😭

[@nachyyin4k]

this my first winter since my weightloss, girl I’m not doing well😭😭😭 feeling it in my BONES

[@helin6212]

I love your teeth gab

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you sweetie

[@rowidaabdullah1766]

Thanks sis 😊 I really need this video ❤

[@efinityatkins]

Dark colors are a staple in my closet 😂

[@nachyyin4k]

🤣🤣

[@Hairbytyra.s]

I took metformin from August 2021 to May of 2022, to dispel my insulin resistance and lost 60+ pounds by the time January came around. The thing is that I was diagnosed with pcos and when i do lose weight, its so hard to keep it off cause of shitty cortisol levels. I practiced meditation for some years to help me in my early teenage years to combat it but as an adult, i fell off so bad 😂. And don’t get me started on body dysmorphia

[@jubileelennon]

Dang I know what you mean about doing the heavy jobs at work. I told my coworker that they treat me like I’m a wildebeest… I am 2 months into my journey. I can’t wait till I get to my goal. I am tired of always being the fat girl.

[@drehardin]

PEOPLE treat others based on the level of respect that they show themselves. The same woman wearing a bonnet vs business suit will absolutely be treated differently. Because it forces others to consider you self value, based in your self discipline.

[@nachyyin4k]

100%

[@ChelMatisse]

There's one comment I would say, is, most likely the people helping you with heavy tasks is because they assume you're too weak to lift those heavy tasks? If that makes sense. But it definitely feels nice having them help you... not sure if this is the case, but that's what I think! :)

[@nachyyin4k]

yep

[@knowledgeberakah1728]

After a 200lbs lost people repel n i had to cut off alot of people.My mom hate it n she said i look sick 😂😂😂..I got alot of boundaries

[@nachyyin4k]

so sorry

[@noi9425]

Yesterday was my first time being offered a drink from 3 different guys and when I said Pinot Grigio all 3 asked "how much is that?" Signed up for the gym today because I refuse to have lived 27 years having my way to "how much is it" 😂

[@nachyyin4k]

omgg

[@keisha5184]

loved you video I have a question I'm currently on my weight loss journey and seeking clarity. Do you think the whole men different us different, do you think its because of the weightless or the confidence that we gain during the weight loss? or a combination I just want to know what to expect.

[@bennyhundo9131]

i started at 313lbs 6ft tall.. 6 months later, I'm 268lbs and Im still fat.. just thought I'd be ripped by now.. still got a belly and love handles.

[@nachyyin4k]

don’t stop keep going

[@bennyhundo9131]

@@nachyyin4k i luv when women say that to me..

[@ilayuvvu]

all the best babes!! i hope you reach ur goals soon

[@jivory6131]

I wished I watched your video during my weightless. I was so happy when the weight was coming off, but people made me feel so insecure. Like O.M.G you loss so much weight like non stop made me feel more insecure than ever, than was saying things like are you okay? Had me questioning myself. And skinny jokes everywhere I went. But baby I was looking good in bra n panties the men loved it. But it was mostly females n family made me feel very bad. Like y'all always said I should lose weight now y'all making me feel sick. I did the dumbest thing ever started back eating unhealthy and the weight came back. Family n females happy and the men I was attracting feel like it stopped. I feel so dumb for falling into this dumb trap. I'm back to losing weight I lost 50 and gained it back, but back to doing it again. This time I don't care with nobody say. You are my motivation.

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you sm, I’m so proud of you

[@jivory6131]

@@nachyyin4k Your welcome and I'm contine to to watch your video n stay motivated

[@sophiadfirst9570]

You're so right dear

[@nachyyin4k]

Glad you think so!

[@YMMAOKAFOR]

😅😅😅. You attacked this video. Glad you are in the best shape ❤️

[@nachyyin4k]

❤️❤️

[@shalawndudley2094]

Being treated better by society just cuz your smaller is so shallow and fake.

[@nachyyin4k]

very

[@johnnys6thtoe]

One month late but right… people who would ignore me in the hallways have started waving to me now like…💀

[@breamoako9945]

You look like Big Lex you’re so pretty

[@83prettyblack]

The longer one goes without sugar,the easier it becomes.

[@nachyyin4k]

fr

[@KeyaReneeMonroe]

Wow I love that you made a video about this, so it’s true?? When you lose weight your breast get smaller as well? So I wouldn’t need a reductions or breast lift if I lose weight?

[@nachyyin4k]

Yes you would not I was so happy

[@KeyaReneeMonroe]

Thank you so much for confirming my love! And thank you for being such an inspiration as well! 😘 stay safe and well 😘

[@britneybij3997]

This beautiful lady: Men will treat you differently and be more forward- Me who went from 220lbs to 165lbs and Im still invisible: 🤯

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

Men also wont approach if now you like unattainable or maybe your resting face etc. Life is weird.

[@dw9524]

depends on height too. I'm fat at 165.

[@nachyyin4k]

😕😕

[@izahra1997]

More people approach you when you smile and seem happy. I went from 160 lbs to 140 lbs, so I didn't notice a major change, except smiling and being in a better mood. More men hit on me

[@nataliejo336]

Bravo!

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you 💗

[@jademcl4727]

You look like Lucy Pevensie from Narnia ✨️

[@libera317]

4:50 girl they literally start acting like you're even there to begin with

[@Tahjmahaal]

It’s not really sad we like nice things it’s human nature 😂😂😂who doesn’t love pretty flowers

[@winniemillan1322]

Yoooh! Am glad this your personal experience and now am wondering how u be looking when u were big because regardless of whether u big or not if u set ur standards as a person that says alot about u n sets path of how people generally treat u including men....coz there are so many plus Size be going on dates out here,aye😊

[@nachyyin4k]

yea… It was not about confidence in my experience

[@rediscoveringher1859]

That dark neck was probably caused by insulin resistance. You probably reversed it without knowing through healthy eating, exercise and fasting?

[@dibakiso2089]

The way people treat skinny girls it like they Gods lol that why I don’t like gaining a lots of weight. Things that come with it I don’t think I can bare it

[@nachyyin4k]

😕

[@fadzaimanyanye2442]

Is it normal to get negativity about my weight loss from other women in my life .. they be trying to feed food to me 😢

[@nachyyin4k]

it’s jealousy

[@nataliebinama2197]

you should get an electric blanket!

[@nachyyin4k]

Great idea

[@Vivian__Eze]

Please what workouts did you do throughout your weightloss journey

[@nachyyin4k]

i posted a video on SHORTS!

[@BilingualBibleStudies]

This is random but your lips are in the shape of a heart!

[@nachyyin4k]

thank you ❤️

[@luanaaraujo9869]

Giirl an onctave is A LOT hahah Maybe you meant a half tone or a semitone higher

[@nachyyin4k]

🤣🤣you are probably right girl

[@dibakiso2089]

Darker neck is usually caused by high sugar

[@nachyyin4k]

yup

[@Camii_Lele]

This got me thinking i would surely miss my boobies when i lose weight 😭

[@nachyyin4k]

😭😭

[@thinking_oh_well]

Not the crickets 😂😂

[@nachyyin4k]

😂😂😂

[@PinkCandySlushie19]

💫💫

[@PinkCandySlushie19]

🤩🤩

[@PinkCandySlushie19]

✨✨

[@ortegaamanda96]

What did you do to lose the weight? 😊

[@nachyyin4k]

Check out my KZbin videos ❤️

[@PinkCandySlushie19]

🖤🖤

[@tafadzwa2001]

I could be wrong, but with the way people treat you… including men, that might just have everything to do with your confidence. Possibly the way you carry yourself changed and you just demanded respect before even opening your mouth

[@nachyyin4k]

you’re wrong unfortunately. human beings are surface level visual beings. When you’re big no one gives af about your “confidence” before you even speak they view you a certain way. I’m literally the same person, and get treated differently so it’s nothing to do with confidence

[@LexA-zn6bv]

💪🏼💪🏼

[@nachyyin4k]

🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@shirleydaniels9310]

u need iron pills for the anemia

[@DaDollYT]

Still crying about the boob thing 😭 it’s all fun and games wanting small boobs till you get ‘em and they flatten out

[@nachyyin4k]

😭😭

[@PinkCandySlushie19]

🤎🤎

[@girlypopgay]

I ALSO WANT S CUPS OH MY GOD at this point I want a mastectomy fr 😅

[@glowithchrici6053]

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