How people treat you differently when you lose weight! It's sad. Whole food plant based diet.

[@harbimidiyosunkanka]

1 more thing; I was rejected at an interview at 230 lbs. when i went back at 120 lbs, the same dude hired me with a huge smile on his face.

[@blackberryblossom9254]

Eda Nur That's crazy. I remember when I was a teenager I had these 2 teaches that seemed to hate me for no reason (keep in mind I was over weight). To make a long story short, lost weight over the summer, came back in the fall much slimmer. For some strange reason those same 2 teachers were so nice to me. Didn't understand it then, but now I do. Our society is a joke.

[@everAU2]

Eda Nur did he try getting ur number?

[@SirAuron777]

Eda Nur I remember I had an interview for a general labor position at a winery and I thought the interview went very well but maybe I didn’t get the job maybe because of my weight and because it’s a physical job. I don’t want to think it was my weight but I feel like there was no other reason.

[@Regulatorsmountup]

Lmao, congrats but that is lame. What an a**

[@POPDATA]

That's sad but congrats I guess... hope it doesnt affect your mental health since you will probably feel pressured everytime you gain a little weight

[@Charli_B]

It's refreshing to see a guy post a video like this! Back then they didn't want me...now I'm hot they all on me! You go boy!

[@mnaem221]

MIKE JONES 😁🤗😎

[@goatfarmerguy]

I completely understand this man. I lost 100 pounds and I get treated completely different. In all aspects of life for that matter.

[@fender1000100]

I lost 40 lbs and women started treating me differently ITS CRAZY. At 5 8" and 210 lbs even fat women wouldnt give me the time of day. At 170lbs they are checking me out. And even starting conversations with me. And some are very attractive.

[@dadaismotienekasepta]

When i was 16 i lost a Lot of weight and my confidence went sky rocket, also i noticed people started to talk to me more, compliment me and got reached by more girls It was weird but cool

[@quasitoantrax]

How was it with girls

[@goatfarmerguy]

Much easier to meet women, and you notice looks and stares a lot more. @@quasitoantrax

[@Blinkers2007GameDev]

@@dadaismotienekasepta im 17 and soon ill be shredded

[@josev6660]

Huge difference. I hated when they would call me "big guy"

[@awesome1ru]

yeah but i wouldn't get triggered or offended by it

[@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927]

it depends.... big guy can refer to a legit big guy like 6'2 250 lb of pure muscle. Being a fat guy, Id rather be called a big guy than some other name!

[@rosspronger801]

Yip had the same “ big fella”

[@Cxjenious]

Big fella, big bruh, and big guy. I got used to it over the course of my life, but it still stings every time

[@aiden5272]

IKR or big man! They then act like it's nice to be called big man and guy but we know perfectly well what it means.

[@edwardsergeant3867]

I've felt this way since I lost 70lbs. I decided to go vegan 7 months ago for health reasons and it really has changed my life. I noticed that people have treated me much different and I now sometimes regret the weight loss because I know how fake people are. I see some friends who are overweight treated different than myself when we're in groups or together in public. I love the transition I have made but I think people should look at the bigger picture. I'm glad I watched your video. Thank you for your input.

[@joshuaminke6629]

Its nice to get another guys perspective on this. Its usually girls that talk about stuff like this

[@maddycole]

I agree it’s nice to hear a different perspective

[@joannfair8749]

Very true. It is nice to see a guy's opinion of weight loss.

[@judycounts3918]

when i lost weight, other women i didn't know go out of their way, to look at me hateful. And treat me worse. Then guys act nicer . messed up!

[@fahmohassan7020]

ikr

[@enfpflower5751]

Women tend to be jealous and guys just want to fuck

[@valeriedhodson3014]

Judy Counts I think it be the same for me too. I had married look at me like I killed their dog. And men at starting to see me. I only lost 30 pounds. I think when I finish losing weight I will get more dislike from women and just attention from men for sex. I am not sure I will like that male attention. I just want to be friends and only want attention from one nice guy for goid reasons. As a fat lady I feel invisible. I think attention after weight loss will only prove my character and nature means nothing to men. It saddens me Christian men dont care about who I am but just how I look. Its disappointing.

[@ravinj8625]

Judy Counts haters are gonna hate lol

[@Annon194]

Judy Counts that must really suck. I’ve noticed as I’ve lost weight as a guy I get more respect from other guys lol. I notice myself respecting more fit guys as well. It’s kinda weird how it’s the opposite for girls.

[@Meusberg]

One hundred percent. Used to weigh almost 300lbs now I'm down to 190lbs. Pisses me off how much better treat me honestly but I'll never go back to being obese because of all the health problems and it makes even moving around harder.

[@dreamingcode]

Women don't necessarily treat me bad, in part because I stopped approaching them to avoid the inevitable rejection. But I do feel something worst. I feel invisible.

[@Annon194]

dreamingcode yeah man it's stupid to even try when you're fat. If you're ugly and the girls at least somewhat attractive there's no point. No good looking girl wants a fat guy.

[@richardrampersad7687]

ouch, I remember this. More motivation!!! AAAAAAAAAAA

[@MachoKingTV]

I completely agree with you... 💯 percent. I lost 130 pounds and it's sad that people judge you without really knowing you. Smh I'm still the same guy that I was before I lost the weight. I don't forget the people who treated me bad when I weighed 340 pounds now that I weight about 220 lbs

[@awesome1ru]

well most people that doesn't know you usually judge on how you look behave dress and walk, there is a small portion that treat everyone the same regardless

[@PrincessSketch13]

I'm about 209 lbs and people just seem to ignore me.. I used to be 195lbs though.. what I really want though is to be 159 pounds at least.. maybe even 136 lbs The last one would be a dream

[@ravenmansell6838]

I've just started trying to lose weight and the funny thing is that they still give me that "oshhdbevxnskb look at her getting a salad, like that's going to help" which can be a downer but it just motivates me more, you're talk and other videos are very inspiring (:

[@mememyselfi6726]

Very accurate I too experience the same thing when I was 150lbs random girls would talk to me and approached me! Once I became 265lbs not only they wouldn't talk to me even when I try to approach them they wouldn't give me the time of the day, one even say it out loud oh you look handsome but sorry I don't date fat guys and her friends start laughing! Even though I'm the same person! Now I lost all the weight they start crauling back lol Very artificial and sad!

[@maddycole]

that’s terrible wow I’m sorry!

[@ananse77]

Did YOU approach any girls that were 265 pounds? Everybody is shallow in that way.

[@IH5000]

I've noticed that fat people treat other fat people poorly many times.

[@harbimidiyosunkanka]

IH5000 that sounds illogical

[@blazevacae1757]

I've seen that too

[@marythomas3808]

actually thats pretty true. i have a very large friend that talks the worst things about the bodies of my other chubby friends, even though he weighs 200 pounds more than them. then later during the day every day he sits down and hates himself and has to fight back tears, or lets them out behind doors. i tell him what to do to start changing and dont give up, but so much i could do.

[@eoke94]

Ive never actually seen that

[@adamthomas1246]

Very true.

[@shellycampbell2016]

I totally agree with you. My girlfriends like it more when I am the biggest in our group. So now that I have adopted the same lifestyle as you they are not too happy. Women are definitely more wicked when it comes to competition! lol Thank you for addressing a subject that is not really talked about.

[@khristiana4ever]

I watched Fork over Knives around 1:30pm today, went on my computer and watched a few videos and I'm already on it. I made a whole food plant based dinner for myself tonight and I plan on doing this for the rest of my life. :) Thank you for making your videos. I'm so ready for this and it's great to see someone real who already went through the transformation!

[@ImTash]

Not defending it, and a large part is social conditioning, but I think a large part of it is also an evolution thing - we are all still animals at the end of the day and animals look for health, strength, protection and good strong genes to make big strong healthy offspring. In the wild you rarely see fat animals because survival is hard work and looks are important for securing a mate (look no further than the elaborate colourings and mating rituals on Animal Planet). Yes we are intelligent humans, but we're fundamentally still animals and ruled by primal instincts, even if it is mainly subconscious. It's wrong to treat someone poorly for being overweight, but the preference for visually healthy people is pretty primal mammalian thing.

[@mr.knowitall5019]

This evolutionary shit could justify many bad things. We shouldn't behave like animals in the wild. It is a slippery slope. We have primal impulses but we can control them and decide not to act upon them.

[@Stay___Strong]

I’m treated much better after losing 50 pounds. I kind of resent it. Also, it bothers me when people (particularly women) tell me how good I look. I remember how different they treated me before.

[@DandZee89]

So true man!! I’ve lost 40 pounds and I noticed the difference in the way just people in general treat you. They give you more attention, they make comments on how handsome you look, they say they would “kill” to have a body like you.. people are just easier to talk to with you. People also tend to smile more around you and even give you more eye contact. It’s amazing the differences!

[@marcusjohnson7321]

Dominic Gomez fuck those people.

[@SirAuron777]

@@marcusjohnson7321 society is like this, you get judged on how you look, it’s messed up

[@161BMW]

@@SirAuron777 not many fat people would lose weight if was not for that.

[@dee5716]

Point blank period we all want to look good and we all find good looking people attractive. One thing my mom told me is "If I'm trying to lose weight then it must be because I don't find myself attractive & if I don't find myself attractive... Why would I expect others too! I'm still skeptical of that statement but it is true... Besides health problems most people lose weight to look & feel good essentially saying that they did not think they looked good bigger. Otherwise if we wer'nt shallow ourselves we would have stayed fat.

[@da.kidd.productions]

Facts

[@sophiegirl58]

Your points are valid. Just want to say that from a girl's perspective, guys seem wayyyy more judgmental than girls with regard to the weight and looks of a potential partner. For example, my single girlfriends use online dating sites and they say that many of the men's profiles talk about thinness and fitness for the women they want to meet, while most of the women talk about their preferred qualities in a male being personality, liking kids, conversation, fun, and romance. And, remember the "No Fat Chicks" bumper stickers? There has never been a "No Fat Dudes" bumper sticker. Just sayin'.

[@portlyfatty]

Your right, men are judgemental in a big way. Just sharing my experience. Too bad everyone can't be a Lil more down to earth and filled with love for all shapes and sizes.

[@sophiegirl58]

So true.

[@notinuse5295]

sophiegirl58 lol... on dating sites, it does not really matter how you look like if you're a woman, there's always someone that will pay attention to you. i've read about it and decided to try out myself and i was shocked. i used a picture of an attractive and "ugly" woman, both got lots of messages and attention. males are very shallow but so are women. because what you did not mention is that lots of women on dating sites also writes about how the man they want to meet SHOULD be. tbh if a man is just an average looking guy with a poor social life and not a big income, it will be really hard for him to manage to get anything on the dating sites (even "ugly" women mostly won't talk with him because they want the best they can get). and using dating sites as an example of guys being shallow is just plain fucking stupid. lots females on there are there to get confirmation that they're attractive. lots of males are on these sites to find someone to fuck with or to troll on the sites for fun. in other words, what people claim on these sites is something that should be taken with a pinch of salt. i'm a "fat" (i am overweight but i don't consider myself fat, but thats just me i guess) guy, females NEVER pay attention to me at all. even if i would write down what i do during my days and shit, females would not give a shit, not even less attractive or girls in the same leauge as me. honestly, i don't want a men vs women thing, because it goes both ways, if you're a fat girl becoming fit or a fat guy becoming fit, you will be treated better and get more attention from the opposite gender. i have to add that i am a nice person with hobbies that are very interesting to lots of people (they're a big part of our society) but personality means absolutely nothing to most people.

[@sophiegirl58]

Nice person? Wow. You said I was F'g stupid because I related the experience of some of my single friends.Does that sound nice? This post wasn't even to you. Unload on somebody who deserves it.

[@Lyriicistique]

NotInUse Too long, didnt read it.

[@SCwirlify]

It is not that people treat you Bad. It is more that people don't care. When you loose weight, people smile more. They care more. They respect more. It is from going from Nothing to Something.

[@SCwirlify]

@@inthedeltawaves It gets worse if you get Real Fat. I Work out one hour every other day. And Fast until 16:00

[@SCwirlify]

@@inthedeltawaves yes. 'Intermittent fasting' it is called. There are many KZbin channels discussing it. As well as Keto Diets.

[@joannakowalska9247]

u r right. we should treat people with respect all the time - regardless of their weight but being attractive to someone is a different story.

[@DeathMetalThrasher]

Even if you have a great personality it isn't enough for some people. The visual matters period. I've been on both sides like this guy and it's the cold hard truth. Being healthy is a great thing in general. You can be skinny but unhealthy too so just making sure what youre putting in your body is good and you get a few days of a workout a week and you should be good.

[@jstar3387]

COLD HARD TRUTH: Looks do matter more than you can ever imagine!

[@ZohraBanon]

I wonder what the girls that you're hitting on look like

[@Ghost572]

I don't even think confidence is a real thing for most people, like if all an attractive person has had is people constantly reinforcing their self worth its no wonder their "confident" in their selfs given people are nice to them. I mean it seems like appearance and personality are someone intertwined in a sense, or at-least the social personality that is presented to people maybe not so much the personal personality that an individual has.

[@Missmary852]

Ghost572 agree.

[@walterbrown2425]

Exactly

[@veronicachic]

I would say men are just as shallow if not more when it comes to looks :/ As you said, sadly thats just our society.

[@ericjorgearnezinochea9679]

Hard to tell which gender is the worse on that part. I do see a lot more of bellow average overweight girls with a bf than young average overweight guys with a gf.

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Disagree. Women totally trashed me at 120 kg. At 90 and now jacked the same ones hit in me. No guy treated me like that!

[@modernbassheads5051]

I’ll never forget what motivated me to lose 70lbs, I was talking to this chick I had a crush on, and she sees an old photo of me in senior year of HS and goes “what happened”. Idk why that sparked a fire in me and I ended up losing like 70lbs in the following 8 months

[@gman2015z]

I’m 10 plus years late to this vid. This guy reminds me of MySpace Tom.

[@TwigAndRockCereal]

Great video man. I have noticed the same thing since losing weight. Women in particular seem to be a lot more friendly. But men also, which is totally weird.

[@nataliaa.1094]

SDC FITNESS I actually got hit on a lot when I was bigger as well. I guess it depends. ..I have always been active even when I weighed like 87 kg on 170m (sorry metric system I don't know any other). I went from being underweight to overweight to normal. Maintaining the weight got easier when I started eating a healthy vegan diet.I used to be a junk food vegetarian later junk food vegan but always doing sports like crazy (Up to 5 hours a day)

[@skincarerainbow4950]

It actually goes both ways, men Treated me way differently when I was overweight. Now they are polite and gentle. Before they were rude for mo major reason. Its like my appearance turned them off. So being shallow isn't limited to women, men are shallow too

[@Solitas777]

It's terrible.

[@sara_36511]

"Theres much more important things in life" is the mentally I will have after weight loss.

[@BLANSTAR21]

Nice hearing a guy's perspective👍👌👌

[@Lorilor343]

I lost 35 pounds and gained it back and then some. While I was thin i noticed how kind strangers were to me, women would try to be friends quickly and how men ACTUALLY took me seriously when it came to dating instead of telling me I “had a great personality” it has honestly made me so angry and bitter. It makes me not want to lose any weight because then I won’t know if people “actually like me” but im pushing past it and trying to focus on myself and what I want and not what others think. Thank you for this video. 👍🏾

[@brianbeeks9890]

i’m a carnivore. it’s what works for me, and people should do what works for them. i absolutely agree with this video, people treat you a WHOLE lot different lol lost 100 pounds and now my ex wants me back lmaoooo

[@qmulus1]

It’s natural to treat people we’re attracted to differently. Being around them FEELS better. Being around people we’re not attracted to feels worse. It is what it is.

[@Ehsidorah]

One if the most motivating positive weight loss videos ever!

[@3825cmac]

Now imagine how people will treat you when you’re next level as in muscular like captain America. That puts average/skinny to shame.

[@dianaalexdaniel]

One Word for your Video - Awesome, I turn Vegan on March 2012 when my Cholesterol Pill left me Crippled for 3 years, I was actually Walking with a Cane and I got myself off of it! My Doctor left me like that! Thank you for sharing your Video, sincerely, Diana Lipski.

[@jeffreyscorner123]

Thank you for posting this video I am tired of being overweight and being treated poorly. you video motivates me . Thank you

[@ananse77]

People should just like you for who you are...Well, your weight and how you look is part of who you are. Plus, re people being attracted to you - attraction is attraction. It's not something you can control. Nobody should tell people who they should want to sleep with. That's the most intimate decision you can make.

[@knowledgeberakah1728]

I was 397 now im 213 n lost alot of ppl in my life.I also notice ppl feel insecure now i lost weight

[@feelingoffbalance]

You are a different person once you have lost weight, you are improving yourself, your health is better, you look different. I get the resentment (oh, you like me NOW, don't you?) but that is all it is, resentment. We all find healthy active people attractive, that's how it is. The point is not to moan about how unfair it is but to get out of a trap of self-defeating behaviours and become a stronger person who inspires others.

[@ericjorgearnezinochea9679]

IMO you are a different person once you seriously start your journey, not just when you finish it.

[@fancyAlex1993]

Can Testify to this . Once I lost weight people (men and women) treated me with much more respect , hence it was easier to make friends and got lots more attention with the ladies and it was easier to get hired.

[@ChessPampa]

Im on the opposite side, Im also charismatic; dropped some weight but I still have to lose 20kg. You are my motivation

[@comicat2881]

The whole time I was trying to see who that was in the background not realizing it was your reflection! The 2 mirrors and the doorway had my mind confused.

[@RiRi-yw7ze]

Beautiful soul. Keep it up.

[@angelocast]

3 years ago I had a "nice body", the type visually accepted by the society...then i started to go more veg force, cut meats, reduce a lot of bread etc, and i started to lose a lot of weight. I was feeling great, more light and more energy. Was an amazing change...but what happened? People around me, especially the ones i loved the most, started to criticize a lot. telling slim like that doesn't look nice, too slim, even told me: that doesnt sell! etc. actually i was eating well, and feeling nice in my mind and heart, but the change was obvious and they saw it in another way. was a lot of mind work, a lot of self-exploration and adjustments to reach this in my life, like a new life....but this change was not "accepted" by the people i love the most. Moving on. ..!

[@omanicc9854]

I lost weight and even my friends treated me better than they did when I was fat. They often mocked me and put me down so I thought they were just toxic (I still do) but I realized they genuinely befriended me just to make themselves feel better (both are chubby too but I was the largest). It sucks because I genuinely thought they liked me for me.

[@Supremeballer1776]

I’m still in the losing weight stage 25 more lbs to go but even when I was fat I still was treated well but I do realize that when ur slimmer females come quicker

[@Lawiah0]

Good Subject. I actually lost a consulting contract, because I didn't look like the other Suits in the room. This mindset followed me to my next opportunity, when they waited till the last minute to bring me on-board, costing me six months pay. One of the reasons for me switching to Vegan, happened at Thanksgiving Dinner, 2-years ago; it was brought to my attention that, "I ate half as much food as the other people at the table and seemed unable to loose weight."

[@AussieGirl235]

"People should just like you for who you are" - People will like you for who you are when you're overweight, but if you're looking for someone to be physically/sexually attracted to you then of course your physical appearance matters. But again, that doesn't mean that people "don't like you for who you are" as a friend or just as a person. Just like you are not going to want to be physically involved with a girl that you're not physically attracted to. Personally I like bigger guys so I thought you looked better before, I'm not attracted to skinny guys, but that's just me. The point is if we're gonna get physical we need to be physically attracted, both males and females, we're both exactly the same despite this misconception that "men are more visual" (that's a load of garbage). This has nothing to do with society. It's human nature. It's the way we are wired. Fair or not is irrelevant, that's just the facts of nature.

[@Swnierbe]

Thanks that's really interesting...but how do you perceive big girls vs. skinny girls?

[@naynay9434]

"Fat guy at a buffet cliche." you are hilarious 😂😂

[@lisafrazer2482]

You have a wonderful attitude and insight I 100% agree x well said and best wishes

[@Babesinthewood97]

I too have been both. Another thing that goes with being overweight, is that people devalue all your relationships. They assume that it was all in my head. They assume that only a hideous looking loser would ever be attracted to or have feelings for me. I was never more than 140 pounds at most, but still. It's enough for folks to think I'm unlovable and delusional. And that I have no friends. Also, they think I've only ever looked one way.

[@deadheadhoodie]

Great video man... been on my own journey and have around dropped 40lbs in a little over 4 months.. but was mostly raw the whole time over the last couple weeks thought have been switching it up a little bit and know eating potatoes and stuff.. but still mostly just fruits and veggies.. feels great to lose weight and get healthy.. but i have had different reactions to my weight loss. I'm only like 5'7-5'8 and was around 235 and now around 195.. So people think it's awesome that I've been getting healthy.. But some people actually make me like feel bad that i have been improving myself / or make comments like I'm losing it to fast. I can stand some peoples judgements. That negative judgement kills me. Keep up the videos man and the great work.. awesome job

[@Muz710]

I needed this man thanks

[@AussieGirl235]

You can’t talk someone into feeling desire for you. And just because someone isn’t sexually attracted to you doesn’t mean they don’t like you as a person. But people need to quit with this pretence of not knowing why people weren’t physically attracted to them when they know they were not physically attractive

[@BasicSneedEducation]

This video is still true

[@maltouch]

Good speech! Thanks

[@mnaem221]

So so true, weight loss jealousy is sad. Ive only lost 70lbs and need to loose another 45lbs to reach my ideal healthy weight. But already im seeing, mostly hatred and jealous from people I know they cannot believe the fat guy is now looking slimmer then them and you can see and feel the jealousy it's unbelievable. When your over weight all the jives and rejections then you loose it last thing you expect is the people you know to be jealous or envying you. Its just sad. It's all apart of the insecurities within people and how they try and uplift themselves my browbeating others, sad really sad psychy of the modern society we live in. Great video hopefully within the next few months I'll be down to my ideal healthy weight am definitely going to post a few videos on my experiences of before and after loosing 100+ lbs. Like I always say and live by stay positive, be positive and don't let others negativety get to you no matter what, we only have a ltd time with the blessing of life, make your life about positivety, love, compassion, humanity and uplifting the people around you. 🤗✌🏼

[@josie3221]

Yeah I got chubby on purpose when I was a teenager. I'm gay and I really didn't want guys to be attracted to me. I lost it when I got older because I realized this was a really fucked up coping mechanism. Anyway, yeah people treat you totally differently for better or for worse.

[@birdseye_2020]

Having been both skinny and obese, there's definitely a difference in the way people treat you generally speaking. Two years ago I lost 52 lbs within 4 months (gained back 60 lbs) and then last year I lost 60 lbs in 6.5 months [just with a change of diet; no exercise]... I noticed guys started looking at me more and acting nicer after being invisible for about 6 years; I could see the lust in their eyes. However, I didnt lose enough weight for women to give me dirty looks LOL...Unfortunately, I had a health issue wreak havoc, and coupled with my dismay with the newfound attention from the opposite sex, within 8 months I gained back 80lbs. I didnt realize how being invisible felt like a security blanket for me and felt safer than being ogled by gluttonous eyes. I've restarted my fat loss journey after having done some introspection and inner work. One cannot sacrifice one's health for the mere fact of desiring a built-in invisibility cloak. There are alternative & healthier coping mechanisms for unwanted attention. Hopefully, I can drop 130-160lbs within 1-1.5 years and maintain it.

[@metalsabatico]

Women approach me now that I've lost over 40 pounds.

[@Coolblueocean2001]

Are you still having buffetts?

[@Babesinthewood97]

It's true though, everyone is nicer when you're fit and also wearing nice makeup and clothes. 🙂 Huge difference, and it's instant and includes little things like buying a cup of tea. The cashier will be nice to you. People are happy to talk to you, suddenly.

[@ChrisNova777]

how do u know its not just natural inclination towards more healthy male specimens? the same way as it occurs in nature with any species!!

[@sinnerpeace]

its is but we are still above our genetical inclination...being kind to a person because they are person...just like you...

[@ananse77]

sinnerpeace Being kind is one thing. Being attracted to them is another. This video is hypocritical. I'm sure the poster didn't approach or date many women that were seriously overweight either. I am overweight, but I don't get offended when men don't find me attractive because of it. We are naturally attracted to healthy and beautiful physical specimens.

[@a999op]

That is still sad.

[@mikeward2980]

I totally understand and I truly agree the fat stigma is out their and shallow people. Even Family members and they are the worst . So sad bit true .

[@katrinamcdonald3409]

I totally agree with you! TBH-- you’re really good looking. You weren’t ugly at all........but slim you is very handsome ( not flirting, just being honest)💁🏾‍♀️

[@GeronimoUpload]

I can definitely relate to this I lost 40 pounds and people treat me completely different definitely on dating websites

[@GettnBooted]

I found all this out the hard way with 100's of lbs. of water wt coming on me after a car accident in a relativity short time so much that my features disappeared into a blob. I could not get rid of no matter what I ate. I got treated like Godzilla. I scared little children. When I could still leave the house and was in a power chair, Hateful men slammed doors in my face then laughed at me. After being home bound /bed bound for 7yrs, I finally I got the right health treatment and the wt. came off as fast as it came on. Wow it sure taught me how bad big people are treated. I never btw treated anyone like that before or since. I had good esteem from loving my inner self, so it did not destroy me inside. Now men hold doors for me again, it's hard not to wonder if they're the same ones who would slam them before tho. I am writing a book about it, will probably have to self publish it. He's right it's real...it happens. I had to laugh at the part where people said it was how You were acting I had many tell me that too and it was bullshitake...I acted the same no matter what I looked like. BTW, I am not one of the shallow gals...I love fluffy dudes, I would've been as nice to you big as I'd be to ya now. My hub's a fluffy. LOL. Congrats on the baby!!

[@GettnBooted]

***** since i was considered medically morbid obese by then they put a lap band on me to restrict all calorie consumption even tho my stomach was normal sized...and my body used that water for fuel for mo's and mo's...since it was a unique case, I was probably the only one at my HMO who was allowed to get who was not obese from normal circumstances ( over eating ) but my dr. was desperate to get me well, and with the cal restriction the water came flying off as fast as it came on... when all that was off the lap band came out and the water wt. has stayed off...thank goodness. with regular swelling and non huge making lymphedema i have no idea... a low salt diet, putting her feet up a much as possible and edema massage FROM A PROPER TRAINED THERAPIST would probably the way they'd help UR MOM unless she's super huge like i got!! i hope that helps!! i still need to watch what i eat but im just chunky now lol...

[@zhendee]

Yeah I went to Disneyland/universal with my friend and I felt invisible to staff - they would help and interact with my slim friend but not me. Even by staff members that were bigger than me or the same size. Mostly men.

[@kippreinhardt2318]

As sad as it is... it kind of an inspiration to loose weight 🤷‍♂️

[@kjmkingjesusministries4611]

I love this cause you explain exactly how it is i agree with you 100%

[@shydagreat2583]

Hey it’s 2019 I will watch your videos and I hope it will help my weight loss

[@CofyjunkyPNW]

Eight year-old video, and yet I just put you in my 'Favorites' listing. Good vid! P.S. Everything you said about 'ladies', can easily be reversed; guys can be just as harsh to larger women. 🤨

[@sssalsera]

Great video!!

[@magentadawnsky3010]

It's truly disgraceful! I am in the same situation it makes me sick! x

[@janemadison3542]

Well get mad at animals too because animals only mate with the best partners. Any old or sick animals get left to die.

[@britanny5363ify]

Were you with your fiancé b4 you lost the weight? Is she LFHC vegan?

[@skornie123]

Thank you for this video. I think it only shows that the true motivation for weight loss shouldnt be girls, or pressure of other people it has to come from within you. I mean there are so many people who actually come off as more sympathetic because they have a little bit more weight, but like you said most people can be really judgemental.

[@Kim_Ngumbela]

just curious, having watched your video if you are into big women? say she has an awesome personality? and she weighs 350 pounds or so? cause I know with me, I used to be way bigger but I was never really attracted to bigger men, it was just a preference, nothing against them or anything, I just wasn't attracted to them. but I myself was very big...but I enjoyed your video, I'm still not where I want to be weight wise but I'm getting there.

[@portlyfatty]

The only woman I am into is my soon to be wife! Having said that I have dated big women in the past, though if for some reason I was available again I would probably be looking for someone who had an active lifestyle, I'm sure there are some active 350 pounders who are the exception, however I am guessing that if they were active they wouldn't be big for long! I am always a personality guy I find that the more attractive someone's personality the more physically attractive I find them.

[@sailornaruto39]

+portlyfatty LOL, that kinda sounds like a cop out. Ther's nothing wrong with liking conventionally attractive people. You pretty much just said you aren't into big women. So can you really blame the women who weren't into you before?

[@marythomas3808]

sailornaruto39 lol yeah i was kind of peeping that the more i read his reply

[@haserpl2367]

mary thomas when he was fat, he wasn't active, so he probably dated fat girls who weren't active as well. But now, when is slim and healthy, and has active life, it's obvious that he wouldn't like to date with someone who is fat and lazy. I would totally date a chubby girl but I wouldn't want to be her full time partner. Just because my active life would be totally out of her reach and - providing that she wouldn't want to lose weight - we wouldn't be able to spend that much time together. Me on the gym, biking, walking and her on the couch. Not gonna happen.

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

I support those who found out the hard way after careful application and dedication that veganism harmed and made them unhealthy or killed them.

[@Nunya-g5b]

I just think healthy people are more attractive 😊 i used to be a big women now im a tiny women and men do the same thing. Because now that im healthier im wanting to spend time w people w that mindset .... like attracts like .

[@Cxjenious]

I fuks with this video. Like, I'm hella charismatic, and everyone wants to be my friend, but romance? NONE. I can't wait to stunt on everybody

[@LetMeShowYouIt]

I miss my studio apartment

[@ilovecarrie8403]

It's actually normal for a woman to want a partner to be fit so they will be there longer for them and their offspring. Women and men alike want to find a healthy partner to reproduce with. It's instinctual.

[@janukasabesh2681]

All the women watching : imagine how tired we are, imagine how tired we are of it.

[@daniellegloveskeanu]

How long did it take to loose the weight? I need to loose 110 lbs or more. I am 275 lbs. Thank you

[@Morfeusm]

I am not him, but I lost almost 100 pounds. It took me almost 2 years and I divided it to two phases. It is better to take it slow.

[@perolito83]

What about you? were you attracted to overweight/obese women before? how about now?

[@thelonewolf4891]

Really good vid..I am on my journey too bro btw you look like an actor...the guy in the frst hunger games movie that die at the end eating those berries

[@gliderrider]

I can’t imagine what being lite is like.

[@TheChubbyBunnyVlog]

I love this video.

[@150Drac]

The goat 🐐

[@BBonadea]

Do healthcare professionals take you more seriously than before?

[@aspiringschizo]

I don't find it very shallow that once you lose the weight and become more attractive women start liking you. If you wouldn't date someone with your BMI then don't blame them for not dating you.

[@phantomofoaktown]

people are not really disrespectful or look down on fat people and men don't really demand attention and act aggressively toward women when pursuing them and only see them as objects of desire, they are not men nor are they people, this segment of the population that behave in this way are narcissists

[@balupeduru3553]

can confirm this is true.

[@kopiradix2195]

Sooooooo true

[@MoniqueJay50]

Good for you✌🏼