21 Brutally Honest Lessons About Life - Alex Hormozi (4K)

Alex Hormozi is a founder, investor and an author.
Alex’s Twitter continually has been one of my favourite sources of great insights over the last few years. Today we get to go through some of my favourite lessons from him about life, human behaviour, psychology, business and resilience. Yet again this is so, so good.
Expect to learn why being called a control freak isn’t an insult, how to stop making the same mistakes over and over again, why being at the top will always require you becoming uncomfortable, Alex’s guide to surviving cancellation, how to get more comfortable telling the truth, why it's good to remember that all your critics are going to die and much more...
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00:00 Control Freak Or High Standards?
14:48 How People Get Older Without Getting Better
22:00 Don’t Be Worried About People Who Imitate Your Work
26:58 The Cost of Being Exceptional
42:39 Differences Between Fame & Respect
50:12 The Key to Authenticity
59:50 The Power of Imperfect Action
1:09:23 Be Careful to Not Over-Optimise
1:18:29 How to React When You’re Insulted
1:31:09 Can People Actually Get Cancelled?
1:38:41 The Price of Strong Character
1:43:32 How to Know When to Quit
1:50:48 Everything Worth Doing is Hard
2:06:46 Don’t Expect People to Root for You
2:16:25 How to Find Your Passion
2:36:19 Admit You Suck, Then Improve
2:43:41 Be in a Good Mood for No Reason
3:00:19 It’s Normal to Not Know What You’re Doing
3:12:59 What’s Next for Alex
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[@ChrisWillx]

Hello you savages. Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first box at www.drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get a 10% discount on Marek Health's Complete Package or other diagnostic testing at www.marekhealth.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM at checkout) Get 20% off Nomatic's amazing luggage at www.nomatic.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM at checkout) Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at www.shopify.com/modernwisdom Here’s the timestamps: 00:00 Control Freak Or High Standards? 14:48 How People Get Older Without Getting Better 22:00 Don’t Be Worried About People Who Imitate Your Work 26:58 The Cost of Being Exceptional 42:39 Differences Between Fame & Respect 50:12 The Key to Authenticity 59:50 The Power of Imperfect Action 1:09:23 Be Careful to Not Over-Optimise 1:18:29 How to React When You’re Insulted 1:31:09 Can People Actually Get Cancelled? 1:38:41 The Price of Strong Character 1:43:32 How to Know When to Quit 1:50:48 Everything Worth Doing is Hard 2:06:46 Don’t Expect People to Root for You 2:16:25 How to Find Your Passion 2:36:19 Admit You Suck, Then Improve 2:43:41 Be in a Good Mood for No Reason 3:00:19 It’s Normal to Not Know What You’re Doing 3:12:59 What’s Next for Alex

[@ghlibisk67]

The quote about art for yourself is from Rick Rubin.

[@nonefvnfvnjnjnjevjenjvonej3384]

Chris why do you keep inviting this lying fraud to your podcast? Have you seen any proof of his claim to be worth $100 million?

[@silvzadvice]

Alex Hormozi: Hard Truths To FIX Your Life - Full Episode (4K)

[@nonefvnfvnjnjnjevjenjvonej3384]

Alex Hormozi's claims of being $100 million has no proof. People should verify these things before blindly believing them.

[@cjlrocker1238]

Love you Chris.

[@Suiterags]

When Chris and Alex chat I feel I can run through drywall in search of the enemy. I’m then faced with the realisation the enemy is within. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@meomeo5618]

word

[@onthepathtofreedom]

Bars

[@abramhutauruk4412]

preach

[@wallace245ful]

Bro. You are exactly right

[@Rae1999100]

Beautiful

[@MilesMcCurtain10]

To those here looking for growth: don’t dismiss the number of pauses they both take before answering

[@tamasdavidledeczki5182]

That is the untold hidden lesson

[@opeonas5817]

Like they are actually thinking before they talk. It's no regular kind of conversation !

[@kahayse]

I kept looking down at my phone...is it buffering, did I lose the signal, why aren't they talking?

[@thejordanlee_]

One of the best podcasts I've ever watched. Some key takeaways: - State the facts and tell the truth on what you do - Pay the price, you can’t have strong character and an easy life - People only root for people who don’t need it - The things your not willing to give up is what the person your competing against will, and thats why they will beat you. - When making decisions, make them based on the down side.. choose your problems instead of looking at the upsides - Theres no return policy on respect. Don''t chase views and be cringe, stay true to you If you don’t change the behaviour, you LEARNED NOTHING. Go make shit happen ;)

[@enescohuntejr]

Thank you. I took notes. I feel a little more comfy dropping mine.

[@G-MIP]

Do you remember the documentary name Chris mentioned that was on Netflix?

[@SunnyWinterz]

@@G-MIPYes I believe it was called Teletubbies

[@ssyejo]

Thankyou man

[@joeydomhof6480]

100% man, about the realest talk I have ever seen/heard. I think I got more from this than from dozens of books combined.

[@PeterBarber]

I almost didn't watch this because I thought, "hmmm, I've already seen about 10 hours of these two wonderful lads chatting -- probably not much new on this one." Absolutely my favorite one yet, and probably the most valuable. Keep it up, gentlemen - this is truly excellent dialogue.

[@antonyshadowbanned]

I had the exact same experience!

[@BusinessWolf1]

I re-listen to these because there's always new understanding to gain from it

[@AnandDattaniPodcast]

I've never paused, rewinded and relistened to an episode so much. This 3 hour episode is quickly turning into 9 hours.

[@Blackjacktmde]

Right!😂

[@rumeerhikparowho8669]

Stray Bullet 😂

[@pressurebeats3558]

😂😂😂 omg so spectacular 🫢🤣

[@gaopalelwemolekoa9414]

Same!!!!!😢😢😢

[@lfcfanfromcanada]

same

[@ChristoScriven]

After over 10 years on self-improvement, the number one thing I’ve come to understand is that I am most disciplined, strong, fulfilled, loving, and present, when everything I do is an expression of a healthy self worth. I have nothing to prove, not even to myself. I realise that I am worthy of my own honour and respect, and that of others. If I’m not treating myself in the best way to honour the highest side of myself, or I’m allowing others to treat me badly, then something is off. I honour the passions and purposes I feel called toward by diligently working toward them. I work on myself everyday and reap the rewards, not because I need to so I can feel good about myself, but because guess what, I’m worth it. I deserve to be happy, healthy and prosperous, so do you.

[@dustinstout5527]

This puts into words things I'm not smart enough to explain. 8 years into self improvement and from a man who spent 40+ years in utter disappoint with my life to a man who feels great about himself in the ways you just said. No longer do I have to prove I'm a good man... I know I'm a way better man than I was. I'm a way better husband, father, employee than I ever thought possible and it's so fulfilling to me. To be respected now where I wasn't respectable and to be able to give myself honest affirmation is the best feeling in the world, but I'm not stopping here. These podcasts have humbled me and shown me that there's a 3.0 a 5.0 and a 5.0 man inside me and having seen the benefits of the work I've already done it just makes me more driven to continue. Congratulations my friend on your success.

[@ChristoScriven]

@@dustinstout5527it’s all the more encouraging to hear others not only identify with realisations that I’ve had, but to hear the transformations that have happened in their own lives too. Keep aiming up my friend!

[@tshepoboyceemaphane9648]

Both your comments inspire me,am in the middle of nowhere right now but i know ill get there,i come from a very dysfunctional family,i lost my dad at 12 years old and things were never the same since,my mum is still alive but both my parents never went to school so i didn't know things like financial literacy,i grew up with so many limiting beliefs and low self esteem..but last year January i just started motivational videos on KZbin and came across the term "personal development" and this is the best thing that has ever happened to me,i never used to read but now i read 1 book a week,and i watch so many podcasts on personal development..and i can tell am a different man these days and soon it will show by my results..

[@User-5amk1m0]

I disagree with one point from all the beautiful recognizations you presented. I believe we all have to prove thing’s to ourselves. Success is never owned. It is rented. And the rent is due everyday. That’s what self-improvement is, proving each day that you are worth it… to yourself. Whatever your proof needs to be.

[@IamNotMyTrauma]

Thank you for this. 😊

[@HeartlandFamilyDesigns]

One of my personal quotes is 'I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not'

[@jaijames1131]

Gandhi said “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony". I love this definition because it suggests that happiness is not necessarily this euphoric feeling we chase nor is it a continuous construct. No person is always happy.

[@VICTORJIMENEZ-yw1xb]

You know what I most like about Alex and Chris’ conversations, they both listen to one other and let the other speak their thoughts out

[@gaming4life551]

Of course, it's because they're lovers 😂

[@samjmackenzie]

"volume negates luck." thank you, Chris and Alex. another great episode

[@RiggsLamborn]

Love that

[@JonTo_]

Good point if you are still trying out things. Then you have to just try what works and you will learn by that what is good. But i feel like they missed out on saying that when you know what you have to do, good quality will outperform volume with not so good quality. And in the first place looking on quality will outperform looking on pricing.

[@tehbarbour]

More talks like this needs to happen. NO BS. Just two men shooting the "shit" whilst giving advice and speaking on the life lessons they have learned. I am a fan. Thanks Chris and Alex.

[@alimhdi6434]

I have watched this conversation every day for more than a month and I am still watching it.

[@AmyRoss23]

The dynamic you two have is honestly amazing. You bounce off each other so well. Every podcast you do with Alex always leaves me with so much to think about. Thanks Chris 🙏🏻

[@peacelily64]

1:17 yes my father told me as a child do things right the first time and you don’t have come back an fix or finish .. he was talking about washing the dishes to me as a 9 year old but that something I have remembered to do and have used that lesson in my life ✌🏻

[@JayFriedrichs]

I don’t think I can put into words how incredible this podcast episode is. At a time where I feel lost- I resonated with so much of this.

[@noodlenate]

❤. Same

[@JakeWoken]

I truly really hope he doesn't stop doing these... Because these conversations are what any entrepreneur needs to learn from.

[@thelifewithnate]

Alex Hormozi is a very interesting case study of sacrificing everything to make it in terms of entrepreneurship. I am definitely by no means the same personality type and our values are completely different, I just want enough autonomy over my life that I can do what I want when I want without having to report to a typical 9-5 job. Some of those lessons in this video ring hard and true. One of them that I can relate is the eternal grind in the shadows before making a success story and building up enough value to an audience to actually sell something. It is going to be a long road, boys. Hope you can tag along with me.

[@jamess.2491]

That really is the hard truth about entrepreneurship - the only way to make it is being willing to sacrifice everything for it. And even then it's no guarantee of success. You have to be willing to give everything for an extremely low chance of success, and most people aren't. Statistically it makes no sense. The true sign of a great entrepreneur is one who knows just how unlikely the outcome is, yet strives for it anyways.

[@noodlenate]

As a fellow Nate, rock on!

[@theminddoula]

I would pay a monthly subscription to hear these guys talk about Business and Life more often! Side note: a song I'm finding really motivational right now (sounds random but go listen and you'll see why) is Shakira's "Try Everything" I sing it with my kiddos, I'm raising them to be fearless in pursuit of their personal greatness :)

[@strengthcoachphil]

The last 3 hours and 15 minutes of this conversation is really good

[@tooeztv760]

Chris thank you for letting Alex be Alex by allowing him to reflect oh his past thoughts. A masterful exhibit of picking his mind so we can possess the gems of wisdom he possesses.

[@arthuralves904]

It's always amazing to listen to both of you chatting. Thank you for everything

[@radrazor1355]

Listening to them speak, I feel less alone in my life striving for what I want. My other mentors and coaches hit chords on the topics Alex and Chris dissect in these 3 episodes (the other two are part). I truly feel like I've gained them as part of my community that really do encourage me while also calling me out for not reaching for what I say I want. I'm grateful for their wisdom and their support through the webs. Thank you both, see you guys soon.

[@jhakkashakash3948]

I love how alex simplifies everything. I feel so enlightened and so fucking dumb at the same time.

[@IamNotMyTrauma]

😂😂😂You are so not alone!

[@Soteb1]

This is thee most meditative episode, Chris. Thank you for embracing the still moments. There is nothing quiet about the silence you allow in this conversation!

[@Kurtrussell_]

The ending is the best, where Alex talks about his ‘controversial views’ on life. More of this, Chris 👌🏼

[@Do_nz]

Wow. This episode was filled to the brim with wisdom. Great topics and the delivery was deeply profound and engaging 👏

[@Elementorandmore]

This episode is magical. I hope every young man sees this.

[@Halidar]

I love this interview, especially the last point resonated with my own internal feel. I actually shouted: “Thank you!” while walking through the city listening to your podcast

[@maxcuenca457]

Preface I never comment on youtube videos. Alex Hormozi has become such a key peice of information very grateful for everything he does. But it is insane how much more wise he seems between three of the podcasts he has done with Chris. It blows my mind how much he grows in such short amount of times. I think I attack life at 100% everyday but I don't know how to change at the rate he is. It is insane.. Thanks for the pod I rewatch them constantly.

[@G-MIP]

Do you remember the documentary name Chris mentioned that was on Netflix?

[@nikhilnagargoje8592]

23:20 even if anyone copies the formula, they will have no idea what to do if something goes wrong, and thats where u win

[@Oni_wrangler]

I am incredibly impressed at how articulate and purposeful both of you are with your words. The amount of time Alex spends considering each question he’s asked and formulating his answer is incredible and inspiring. Thanks for such an amazing interview. I’m glad I found my to your content.

[@aidenfrick6838]

Thank you for always posting such eye-opening conversations Chris!

[@copysamurai]

Always love watching these full length episodes with you and Alex man. Excellent as expected

[@mistaree5731]

This was so fire lol so many gems packed in here. I have lots of respect and admiration for these guys.

[@jarvryan]

38 Mins in, already one of the best conversations I've ever listened to on high standards and authenticity.

[@willcranny]

Absolutely incredible. Thank you for putting this together.

[@celestebowen5648]

This is so good. So many great points wrapped up in one conversation. And I love the comments about making words mean something again.

[@drtracythomas]

Guys this was one of the best videos I’ve ever watched. The messages I needed at the perfect time. Authenticity is the path and that’s why it’s easy to believe what Alex is saying because he’s telling us the truth that we need to hear and I know when I’m listen to truth, because the truth makes me stronger, even if I have to face myself and go into what is harder in order to do it. Thank you for doing what you do both of you.

[@jacksonmcferron2128]

The idea that your own opinion and happiness with yourself is all that matters in your life hit hard for me. Thanks guys 🙏 .

[@upper9052]

What a powerful episode! Great stuff from start to finish

[@thedaretodreampodcast]

So many powerful takeaways. As somebody in those early stages of going for my dreams, it's often hard to discern if what I'm doing is right. But all you really gotta do is continue. Outlast the doubt, the fear, the uncertainty, and cherish the journey, as much as possible, every step of the way. "So many people waste all their time trying to solve a problem that is life, rather than living it.” - Hormozi This hit, so hard.

[@noodlenate]

No one has lived your life before. Keep your eyes and ears open, and refine your intuition! You're it.

[@danialnadeem3013]

Likewise! Good luck to you!

[@americanmike101]

I watch these podcasts multiple times. Chris and Alex together just feels good

[@alexlavi3699]

Epic one! It took me a moment to realize what you do that is different from other podcasters, what makes you exceptional Chris here it is: - You ask excellent, yet succinct questions Chris - You HOLD the space for your guests to freely and completely express themselves - When you have something to add, it is very insightful, to the point and valid for the conversation (you don't make it about you). Thank you for being who and how you are and for allowing us to be part of it! 💗

[@AMN167]

Absolutely golden, the first podcast I've ever watched at full length. Grateful for all the lessons

[@IFBBProYeo]

Incredible episode!! THANK YOU for not including commercials! The flow here is INSANE!! I just discovered Alex last week on this very podcast and have been binging his content ever since. So glad for a fresh episode!

[@Sariimura]

Loving these videos between you two. Thank you for helping us change our mindset for the better, one thought at a time.

[@sylverxyz]

Phenomenal interview yet again Chris, You two together is such a great time haha Incredible lessons, concise and a great rhythm of tone between light hearted and profound. Production is on point as well.

[@dansteryoo]

Man you guys are gold together.

[@cipcooksfast3438]

A true, profound, exceptional, dinamic dialogue between two self educated people like these, I have not seen before, and is the top of what podcast became at this moment from my point of view. 🙏👌

[@VincentLegent]

another legendary video with Chris and Alex ! Thank you guys ❤

[@kateriebarnard6733]

One of the best conversations that I have ever heard. Thank you!

[@smashkh8314]

One of the best episode. I learned so much from this episode. Appreciate so much!

[@eyluismi168]

Just started watching this episode, but I have to say, I have seen movies with less image quality that this. Thanks for caring about that, and thanks in advance for this 3 hours masterclass.

[@Andradi303]

Thanks to Alex, I feel normal when I look at my work ethic and how I operate in life. Sharing what he shares, liberates me and it’s a great feeling to know it’s okay to work hard and expect more from yourself. See you in a few years Alex!

[@Iamhuman14]

I feel ya. Guitar is my mastery. When I play a new riff that I’m figuring out that’s difficult I continue for hours and hours on the same riff. Critiquing and adding/removing certain notes.

[@ShortMonster420]

I needed this! Thank you guys! Helps me remember why I'm a pain in the butt. I've always said my biggest weakness is I care too much. Turns out it's my biggest strength.

[@Mauly10]

I absolutely love this dynamic duo.

[@WatchuGoneDo]

I don’t think I can get enough of these👀 literally opens up your brain to another world.

[@mejdlocraftci]

I dont very much relate to Alex's crazy hustle lifestyle, it honestly does not motivate me much. But what I do gain from these conversations, and what is priceless for me, is how you guys reinforce the unshakable belief in oneself, even when everyone tells you you are wrong. Thats basically the story of my life and its nice to hear from time to time that you are not crazy. Its just so hard to be able to withstand the constant bombardment of doubt from everyone and still be able to say "no, I am right" with confidence On a different note, soo I guess the guy Chris talked about being cancelled and who was worried he was a coward was... Rogan?

[@user-lp7rp7cb4g]

May be that's Lex Friedman?..

[@WESimmonsII]

@#1: There's a branch of Air Force aircraft maintenance called 'Egress', they maintain the ejection seats and other critical parts of the aircraft (like the complex explosive chain that blows off the canopy during the ejection sequence) etc. I always loved their motto, "Works the first time, everytime!"

[@nikopax9812]

40 Minutes in and I cant help watching on Alex Bizeps😮 really enyojable conversation so far. Perfect content

[@Crispybeats.]

I listen to this episode every single day. By now I know it basically off by heart. It’s the best MW episode for real no-bullshit advice. Lessons that are genuinely applicable to day-day life for people if any class, living any lifestyle. Thank you Chris, thank you Alex, ya’ll created a masterpiece.

[@tjdalyvideo]

Amazing, as always. Thank you! Chris I gotta say I love your ads to camera especially in this episode where the Nomatic partially blocks your face on the b-cam but you still use it. No kidding I drink that salty drink now. Thank you Alex as well.

[@MarkMaina-mw6xh]

It just gives me the feeling that am gonna have some stuff to think about for the next month that will be worthy .

[@davidnrwd]

First 14 minutes: Master class in how to focus on your own deal. Thanks for all the inspiration

[@joaomadeira1770]

Yesterday my mother called me crazy, and not balanced to be at the computer working every day and I has so proud of my self to hear that. Thank you Alex and Chris

[@leadgenjay]

The insights on the cost of being exceptional really hit home. Entrepreneurs should remember that while imitation might be flattery, it's also a sign you're on the right track. Keep innovating and stay ahead; your unique value can't be copied. Good content.

[@iramrafiq5075]

The fact that this free is wild to me. Thank you both for the great content!

[@willemaucamp6189]

I'd say this might be one of the most valuable discussions I have ever heard.

[@Offical_FutCT]

Best episode by far, countless great quotes. I really enjoyed it. Thank you

[@Itsmeyourfriend84]

THE QUALITY, IS JUST... IN A WHOLE NEW LEVEL! Ty! We can "feel" your perfectionism paying off!

[@ellesab4873]

I believe he frames it as having very high standards rather than being a perfectionist. What do you think?

[@secondaccount4569]

So much gold in this episode. Amazing

[@buciosmobiledetail]

The last part is the best part. I love hearing Alex be honest.

[@kevinplamadeala]

So many gems. Rewatching this many times. ✊

[@SketchyAsFunk]

Im new here but man the info in their conversation is incredible. Not to mention they arent scared to have differing views, discuss them and conclude in an educational, civil and respectful manner.

[@SamsonFX]

The fact that I have the opportunity to sit down and listen to these two men have this conversation is benign

[@fabersoul]

27:29 I love how alex really stops to think and digest his thoughts

[@Junotekh]

Though it had frozen when I was listening through Spotify lol

[@G-MIP]

He’s mimicking Elon.

[@Unfinished_senTenc611]

​​​​​@@G-MIPWait ...mimiking? Were you looking for the word mirroring? Well .. Idc. I have to disagree ,when your using that for some "type of " "resource" on both. ...And the same goes for your take within that comparecin.

[@PositiveLivingTV1]

OMG!! High standards, not control freak! That's me...been dealing with that my whole life. Thank you so much for this post.❤

[@Walkerxy]

29 year old with cancer here, trust me. I understand the constant truth or death. I’ve almost died 4 times and was fully aware of it on 2 of those occasions feeling myself slip out of life. And knowing it happens to everyone eventually is not an ease to the fear because there’s so much I still want to do. The honest truth is we all know we are going to die but most of us don’t believe it. Like, it’s easier to be able to live without believing in your certain death. The hard part of dealing with shit like terminal cancer is you don’t just know you’re gunna die you have to believe it and believe it’s gunna happen soon. Which means accepting a loss of everything you wanted to do without ever having done any of it. Death is hard to accept man.

[@MaitLember]

Insights on achieving high standards, perseverance, and the impact of volume on success. 00:11 High standards are not control freak behavior, but a desire for excellence. 00:11 Striving for excellence can lead to loneliness, but it's necessary to bring new ideas into reality. 00:35 Great achievements come from relentless pursuit of one's vision despite criticism. 01:36 Excellence is achieved through attention to countless details and continuous improvement. 02:35 Creating for oneself often resonates with others, leading to impactful work. 03:34 Repetition and attention to detail are key to achieving mastery and world-class status. 05:13 Conforming to mediocrity diminishes the competitive advantage and impact of one's work. 07:04 Perfectionism should be focused on areas of highest contribution to avoid hindering progress. 09:29 Increasing volume of work can compensate for ignorance and lead to discovering what works. 12:14 Volume of work negates the need for luck and can lead to success through sheer perseverance. 13:33 💡 Insights on learning, creativity, and business iteration from Alex Hormozi. 13:52 Learning requires changing behavior in new conditions. 13:52 Volume of experience gives perspective for improvement. 14:09 Repeated exposure doesn't guarantee learning; it's about changing behavior. 14:09 Repeating the same mistake without change is not learning. 14:52 Copying others' work lacks the understanding of the underlying reasons. 22:06 Learning involves understanding the 'why' behind actions, not just the 'what'. 22:06 Successful innovation comes from understanding and iterating on the 'why'. 23:25 Testing and iterating are crucial for business improvement. 24:01 Presume winning in the details by understanding the system dynamics. 26:02 💡 Insights on embracing individuality, self-acceptance, and overcoming social conformity to achieve exceptional results. 26:17 Embracing individuality and self-acceptance leads to exceptional results. 26:17 Being unapologetically oneself may lead to external conflict, but internal fulfillment. 27:01 Most people have the potential to be exceptional by embracing their peculiarities. 28:07 Accepting one's peculiarities early in life leads to self-acceptance and fulfillment. 30:01 Prioritizing internal conflict over external conflict leads to personal growth. 34:01 Valuing one's opinion of oneself over others' opinions is essential for embracing individuality. 38:39 💡 Insights on authenticity, fearlessness, and intentionalism in life and business. 40:15 Authenticity and true alignment of thoughts, words, and actions are key. 40:15 Overcoming fear and embarrassment through intentional actions. 40:46 Avoiding compromise for popularity and aligning with true beliefs. 43:00 The concept of intentionalism and essentialism in decision-making. 51:26 Seeking fearlessness and embracing consequences of failure as learning opportunities. 53:19 💡 Insights on prioritizing, sacrifice, and embracing imperfection for personal and professional growth. 54:12 Prioritize what you're willing to sacrifice for success. 54:12 Catastrophizing failure can be overcome by playing out the worst-case scenario. 54:17 Being unashamed of alternative options can alleviate fear of failure. 54:30 Facing fears can reveal they are not as daunting as imagined. 55:20 A personal story illustrates the test of courage in the face of adversity. 56:00 Choosing what to prioritize and what to sacrifice is essential for personal excellence. 56:29 Balancing priorities may require periods of imbalance for focused achievement. 1:02:23 Periodizing goals allows for dedicated focus without long-term commitment. 1:05:29 💡 Insightful life lessons on decision-making, optimization, relationships, and personal authenticity. 1:06:56 Making decisions involves considering both upsides and downsides. 1:06:56 Regret minimization is achieved by considering the negatives of unchosen paths. 1:07:21 Over-optimization can lead to stress and may hinder true living. 1:09:02 Being true to oneself is essential in attracting the right people. 1:17:02 Comfort in one's own skin, clear direction, and having fun are key traits of an attractive individual. 1:17:25 Insults only hurt if one believes in them; otherwise, they are irrelevant. 1:18:35 Murder is just picking when someone dies, so holding grudges is unnecessary. 1:19:21 🔑 Insights on handling insults, cancellation, and authenticity in the face of adversity. 1:20:10 Disregard for insults and focusing on personal growth is key to overcoming negativity. 1:20:10 Understanding the nature of insults and the decision to believe or disregard them. 1:20:25 Seeking authenticity to avoid having multiple personas and hidden truths. 1:21:47 Authenticity means having no secrets and being true to oneself. 1:24:22 The value of being genuine and transparent to attract genuine connections. 1:24:38 Recognizing the impact of false accusations on reputation and status. 1:26:43 Addressing attacks on character by being 10 times louder with positive actions. 1:27:10 Being louder with the truth is a powerful counter to false accusations. 1:28:09 Learning from experiences of being targeted and using them as opportunities for growth. 1:29:17 Coping with cancellation and misinformation by continuing to create content. 1:31:48 Cancellation only happens if you choose to stop communicating publicly. 1:32:02 🎯 Insights on decision-making, perseverance, and reframing challenges to achieve success and personal growth. 1:34:01 Challenges compound if one becomes a recluse and disassociates from others. 1:34:01 Embarrassing moments only become bigger problems if one agrees to the terms set by others. 1:34:29 Facing public humiliation with humor and self-acceptance can diminish its impact. 1:35:09 Reframing problems as evidence of progress on the chosen path can change one's perspective. 1:39:20 Reflecting on past challenges reveals their insignificance compared to present ones. 1:39:54 Reframing quitting as pivoting allows for continuous adaptation and growth. 1:43:41 💪 The journey to success is filled with challenges, but perseverance and passion are key to overcoming them and achieving greatness. 1:46:48 Success requires continuing to work without immediate results 1:46:48 The world belongs to those who persist in their efforts 1:46:54 The ability to persist without external validation leads to greater opportunities 1:47:00 Doing significant things takes time and persistence 1:47:09 The willingness to persist without positive feedback leads to easier opportunities 1:47:33 Doing the 'boring work' leads to significant success 1:48:56 Protecting passion and motivation is crucial for long-term success 1:51:21 The beginning of any endeavor is the hardest, but it gets easier with time and experience 1:57:12 Earning stripes and understanding every aspect of a task leads to a sense of nobility and competence 2:00:16 📚 Insights on success, perseverance, and self-improvement from Alex Hormozi's podcast. 2:01:25 Success is linked to the ability to see what others don't. 2:01:25 Experts have more feedback loops for success. 2:01:36 Focus on becoming the type of person who can endure hardships. 2:01:43 Futurecast the story you will tell about your struggles. 2:02:36 Be the hero of your own story and make decisions based on epic outcomes.

[@MaitLember]

Be the hero of your own story and make decisions based on epic outcomes. 2:04:13 The medium and the message are linked, affecting how people perceive the information. 2:07:17 People often follow established blueprints for safety, even if they have failed before. 2:09:08 Hard work and suffering can be justified by the eventual outcome. 2:12:37 The ends justifying the means is a slippery slope. 2:13:15 Influencer gifting can be elaborate, but simple, magical touches can be more impactful. 2:14:17 Success is ultimately linked to the quality of the product. 2:15:04 💡 Insightful lessons on achieving success through sacrifice, relentless focus, and ruthless prioritization. 2:15:12 Success requires sacrificing non-essential activities and focusing on high-impact tasks. 2:15:12 The 'too good to fail' mindset emphasizes the importance of excelling in one key area. 2:15:17 Focusing on excelling in a specific area can overshadow mediocrity in other aspects of life. 2:15:31 Identifying the one big thing that can make everything else irrelevant is crucial for success. 2:15:43 Creating passion involves starting with something you're not good at and gradually improving. 2:16:26 Monetizing a passion can lead to sacrificing the pure enjoyment of the activity. 2:19:04 Turning pro in a passion may require sacrificing personal time and leisure activities. 2:19:12 Prioritizing high-impact tasks based on their financial return is crucial for success. 2:23:24 Sacrificing non-essential activities creates space for focusing on what truly matters. 2:25:17 Subjective well-being is not determined by external circumstances but by internal mindset. 2:27:38 Victor Hugo's extreme dedication to his craft exemplifies the level of sacrifice required for success. 2:28:11 💡 Brutally honest insights on happiness, worthiness, and imposter syndrome, and the importance of accepting one's flaws and pursuing meaningful goals. 2:28:39 Happiness is not the ultimate goal in life, but rather doing epic and genuinely useful things. 2:28:39 Long-term joy comes from sacrificing for meaningful activities, rather than pursuing momentary happiness. 2:29:01 Obsession with happiness can lead to sadness and depression, prompting a shift towards focusing on doing meaningful things. 2:29:27 Accepting one's current state of happiness and relinquishing the desire to be 'happier' can lead to greater enjoyment of activities. 2:30:51 Divergent views on happiness: hedonic pleasure vs. meaning, influenced by one's disposition. 2:31:55 Permission to be unhappy, to suck, and to pursue exceptional goals, rather than conforming to societal expectations. 2:36:16 Imposter syndrome is a result of pretending to be something one is not, rather than embracing the journey of growth and learning. 2:38:52 State the facts and tell the truth, rather than fabricating success or worthiness, to gain genuine authority and respect. 2:41:55 💡 Insights on embracing truth, overcoming cynicism, and prioritizing peace of mind. 2:42:54 Embracing truth and stating the facts can lead to peace of mind and freedom. 2:42:54 Community is essential and cannot be automated, making it a hedge against automation. 2:43:10 Choosing a good mood over a bad mood can empower individuals to control their perception of work. 2:43:47 Cynicism is a short-term mindset that shields against betrayal and disappointment. 2:44:35 Cynical people may be seen as smarter, but cynicism is a substitute for intelligence. 2:47:06 Optimism is essential for achieving big goals, as cynicism only leads to short-term rightness. 2:50:01 Choosing peace of mind over viral trends or pleasing others is a higher standard, not a weakness. 2:53:39 Telling the truth in social settings can lead to freedom and self-acceptance. 2:56:28 💡 Insights on embracing truth, rejecting medication, and understanding trauma for personal growth. 2:57:57 Advocating for being comfortable with the truth and shedding social niceties 2:57:57 Embracing discomfort and uncertainty as catalysts for growth 2:57:57 Challenging the societal norm of always feeling happy and understood 3:01:13 Rejecting the idea of medication and overprescription of mental medication 3:01:39 Rejecting the if-then statement for happiness and the reliance on external conditions 3:02:00 Encouraging acceptance of reality and confronting problems rather than seeking a non-existent solution 3:04:54 Challenging the desire for character growth while seeking an easy life 3:06:43 Criticism of those who give advice without embodying the results themselves 3:07:45 Trauma as a punishing event leading to permanent behavior change 3:10:05 Defining trauma as accelerated learning and the need to create new conditions to change behavior 3:10:25 Addressing the mysticism and nonsensical beliefs in the 'woo woo' world 3:12:16 🎓 Entrepreneur Alex Hormozi discusses his investment in a platform to improve education and shares his views on the broken education system. 3:13:12 Alex Hormozi co-owns a platform focused on education and skill-building. 3:13:12 He believes the education system is broken and aims to make a positive impact. 3:13:30 Hormozi is investing in a platform to help others contribute to fixing the education system. 3:14:13 He emphasizes the importance of trading useful skills with one another.

[@CrochetTutorialsGirl]

The most real interview. Saved and will get back to it and take notes.

[@aluumina]

Main takeaways and learnings: 12:31 perfectionism allows people to sit back and not produce work, at a rate required to work out what actually works 13:37 volume negates luck 52:00 What would you do if you weren't afraid? (And know you couldn't fail) I have never regretted failures, i have always regretted not doing what i wanted to. 53:40 Normalize consequences and failures as win or learn. 55:30 "Fear is a mile wide and an inch deep" 1:44:08 These are continuums to be managed and not problems to be solved. 1:44:40 should you quit (pivot) or keep going (push)? - I will not stop going unless new information has come to light 2:04:04 "I will tell this story one day" "Have a larger narrative for where you're going so the large dragons you'll have to slay along the way feed into it". Basically when you need to do hard shit: do it for the story. Do it for the plot. 3:04:47 so many people waste all their time trying to solve the problem that is life, instead of living it

[@jasejordan4179]

I was in a rut around finding my passion, this episode saved me. I’m on the right track.

[@anne-marielloyd296]

Loved this, thanks guys from the bottom of my heart xxxx

[@onurirtem]

Most people who claim to be perfectionists are not perfectionists. They are actually procrastinating because they are not doing anything ! The real perfectionists works and does the thing every hour and everyday and sees the progress as well as the mistakes and makes them better while the procrastinator uses words like ''I'm not ready yet'' ''I'm just trying to be sure that it will be perfect''

[@TheMato1112]

To be honest, this is the best podcast episode that I heard in years, kudos to both of you, thank you :)

[@NotYourAverageRealtor]

Life Changing Podcast for anyone who applies even 2-3 of these principles. Apply all 21 and you’ve cracked the game of life.

[@brazenclips]

One of the best conversations I’ve heard in years.

[@jenniferhermanson3911]

Massive! execution on all of the perspectives from Chris. & Alex will lead me to get more out of my journey. TY… beyond measure 💫 Jennifer

[@StrawIsEpic]

I'm glad to hear your guys experience and the wisdom you have to offer. One thing that stuck with me the most from this is rich people not telling you what they did when they were at the early stages before their success and only telling you what they are doing now, because it doesn't relate too well to excelling from where we are if we are still starting or are in the "middle" of it. I journal my experiences down on each one I have just to keep myself grounded and not forget where I came from and how far I've went, and the easy boring stuff that becomes unconscious knowledge will never be useless

[@charlesratcliffe6839]

Always love listening to Alex. You don’t have to question if he’s really “in the arena”.

[@josh7693]

26:58 Damn.. my exact thoughts and feelings I’ve been trying to articulate for the past 5-6 years.. I can’t thank you enough for this segmant. I think you just changed my life lol

[@NJT1013]

This conversation has me looking inward. Good.

[@kristyboxx]

If you can be in a bad mood for no reason, you might as well be in a good mood for no reason. If it’s not going to change your life it shouldn’t change your mood. If the cost is peace of mind, don’t buy it. 2:43:43 that statement helped me today. Thank you guys for uplifting and direct conversation.

[@JasonValasek37]

This Bromance is strong … and the knowledge bombs were 💯💯💯💯💯 great conversation fellas! As always, lots of great insight on life and business

[@cuet3]

Both are just wisdom !! I'm lucky and thankful for hear this and learn !

[@pratyushsharma3739]

I was listening to the podcast and the first time I felt, “daaamn! That’s so true!” I hit the like button. But then that feeling came multiple times. And I searched for the like button again not realising i had already like the video. wish I could like it multiple times. Man, such good quality content.

[@drstephyoung]

Every minute of this podcast held my complete attention - absolutely fantastic guys

[@DeadManVlog]

An Immense and crucial interview for any one who means it, or is at least on the way to meaning it.